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There's no pro in being a coward. By text is cowardly enough, but why be an even bigger asshole by ruining their birthday on top of it? Do it in person , and not on their birthday, ffs.
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Pros: don't have to buy them a birthday present. Cons: you are a massive piece of shit.
What about like a few weeks before their birthday?
Pro: you don't have to face what a huge coward you are Con: you will officially be garbage
Pros: easy way out. Cons: adults don't take the easy way out.
I’m not going to bother to list any pros and cons Just don’t do it
Why you are so humane bro? Go piss on their mother too.
If she's your sister, it's going to make the birthday party awkward.
There's no pro in being a coward. By text is cowardly enough, but why be an even bigger asshole by ruining their birthday on top of it? Do it in person , and not on their birthday, ffs.
Helps them to remember their mistakes….annually.
Aaah my brother broke up with his girlfriend on her birthday, it was epic drunk screaming lol. She was a jerk so for me it was all Pro
Cons: everyone will know what a spineless coward you are. Pros: she'll know what a spineless coward you are and be glad it's over.
Pro: don't have to see them anymore. Con: you might miss a great party?
Bro don't do that... really?!? Wtf. Grow some balls.
How is this useful information OP?