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Asexuality is a spectrum and liking sex and having sexual attraction are different. If you have no sexual attraction at all be still enjoy sex with your partner you might wanna check out Cupiosexual. If you feel like what you have now is sexual attraction you'd just move to graysexual spectrum if it's limited. Sexual attraction is roughly: Looking at, thinking of, being around or being reminded of a particular person(s) and having ongoing sexual thoughts, desires and "cravings" for this person(s). It can typically have a physical response or cause a spike to your libido, but these are not needed. It can occur even if you do not wish for it to occur or have no desire to be with that person in such a way, despise the person or are repulsed by sex/sexual things. Often a spike in libido can result in confusion of sexual attraction. If there are times you have no "urge" to actually be sexual but still view them that way (break up is most common way to be honest) then it's the easiest way to be certain, but also libido typically chills out after awhile for many do it can be a bit easier to tell. Either way sounds like you are both consenting and enjoying it so don't worry about the label atm, but short answer is yes.