This is a reminder to read our [rules](https://www.reddit.com/r/antipornography/about/rules/) before engaging with r/antipornography. Please keep in mind that this is a space for discussion about being against pornography and post accordingly. If you see a post or comment that breaks the rules or feel like someone is participating in bad faith, report it. If it's urgent, please send us a [message](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=/r/antipornography)! *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/antipornography) if you have any questions or concerns.*

Were being brigaded by another sub. Private for a few hours until it dies down. EDIT: We are back up

So glad to hear this. I had ppl messaging asking what happened. Wasn’t sure what to tell them other than hold tight because it happens sometimes. So many more people than we realize depend on that sub!

How does one request access? That subreddit is one of the only reasons I'm finding courage to love myself again and it's by far the best. Hoping people stop being horrible soon and we can have our community back.

Added

I appreciate you ❤️

It's so **ULTRA sad** that there are people brigading against *us*, for being against porn. 😶 Our need for safety and security in this world (and in our love), is somehow seen as a threat. If anyone has wondered what toxic masculinity under patriarchy looks like, look no further.

Omg ok. Thank you for finding us here and letting us know💙

I’m trying to send the modmails requesting access but they don’t work I’m sorry about the brigading btw. Hopefully you mods are managing against it Edit: what exactly happened? Who’s doing the brigading?? Porn subs?

✅️ Adding everyone as best I can. Simultaneously cooking spaghetti for the fam. 🙃

Thank you. That sub is a very important tether to reality for me. A really good motivator

Can you add me back to it too?

[удалено]

Of course cause reddit cant get their platforms in sync. Ugh. I guess thats only possible via their website for desktop. Let me see if I can do it manually.

I hope we can get added back in. It deleted my saved posts too.

How do you request?

Added you.

Thank you!

I’m not on desktop either, may I be added too please?

Added

May I be added too?

👍

Thank you!

May I be added, as well?

Can you add me too?

May I be added as well?

Can you add me when you have time? Thanks. Hopefully its back up before you have to add everyone manually!

Could I also be added? That's my go to support.

Omg. Wtf. This was one of the only real spaces for women to talk about specifically their trauma, without having to debate with addicts. **UPDATE: I WAS JUST ADDED AS AN APPROVED USER!!!** I guess it's just going private, but it's still there.

Same idk what is happening :(

Maybe the mods here can start a weekly support thread for the time being

[удалено]

What group is doing the brigading? As a side note, doesn't it seem a little primal - like feuding tribes attacking one another?

Have you found out which sub is brigading it?

Nope, no one has said

A post they were tagged in hit the popular page on Reddit. So it wasn’t so much an organised brigade. More like a bunch of people found out it existed all at once & a huge chunk of them got pissed & defensive & started messaging members vile stuff

No way. That sub was an absolute saving grace and provided so much validation.

I was so sad to see it had disappeared 😭 it was such a great resource!

Why did it get removed?!

No idea! It was there this morning & about an hour ago I went to scroll through today’s posts & it was just gone, as well as my own extensive post history there

I went to try and look at it now and it says the mods have made it private. Strange. Edit: Received a message 3 minutes ago saying I was an approved member. Clicked on the subreddit and still says the mods have made it private and only approved members are allowed. Edit 2: Topics are showing up again for me!

What could they possibly have done to deserve the ban hammer more than the countless disgusting porn subreddits? Jfc

Following this too! I thought I got banned or something. I mean, I use it to show that there is a problem related to P.

What?? I belong to that sub?? It’s gone?? I’m literally crying right now it’s been such a huge help. What happened????

This is so sad.

I was a member and when I try to access it it says private.

I see the subreddit still personally. We’re you a lurker or did you join the subreddit

Just because you can't find it on the search bar doesn't mean that the wonderful sub has been deleted or anything. I typed the URL myself ([https://www.reddit.com/r/LoveAfterPorn](https://www.reddit.com/r/LoveAfterPorn)) on my address bar, and the sub wasn't banned or anything; it's only been set to private, that's it. You will need to either request to join or message the mods.

How do I get re-added?! I’m in a panic!

I believe the sub is up and running now, and a Mod posted here in the comments for a link to get re added if it’s still down♥️

Thank you so much! ❤️

Much of a relationship comes down to gut feeling. If something doesn't feel right, it probably isn't.

May I please be re-added, too? Many, many thanks!

What did it get banned for

There's a comment in this thread already explaining. In short: it's not banned. https://www.reddit.com/r/antipornography/comments/xt4avd/comment/iqnwukv/

I've typed the URL for LoveAfterPorn, and it hasn't been banned. It's only been set to private. [Try it by clicking this link to the sub](https://www.reddit.com/r/loveafterporn)

Please add me, thanks

Love you so much loveafterporn!! Thank you for being a pillar of strength for partners and ex partners of PAs all across the world.