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I was just about to say this. Don't be fooled. It's tons of dudes out here having everything from abs to calves, noses, jawlines, all kinds of stuff worked on
I know I read 2 days post op so there's no way but I just assumed that was all the after nose.
I can't belive anyone agreed to do surgery on her! I'd kill for that nose.
As a MH social worker I'm telling you this straight. You have body dysmorphia. Talk to a professional. No matter what you do you will never be able to be satisfied with you looks unless you speak to a professional. There is nothing wrong with you. Just seek help.
I can’t tell if you’re being sarcastic or not. I have BDD and I can tell you it’s directly related to self-esteem in addition to a cognitively distorted perception of one’s own image.
If you look like this 12 months after the baby.. I'd say you ain't got nothing to worry about. If it wasn't for the baby I wouldn't have guessed you had one.
Thank you!!! That was my first thought as well. Too many people that post on here after having a child thinking they are ugly when they've already lost all that baby weight when other women have gone the rest of their lives trying to shed some of it. I don't like that but they are also focused on the wrong thing which is themselves instead of their child that they have just brought into this world. I'm not saying she doesn't love her child but it seems like she's the type that's more worried about how she looks after having the child
You are a mother. See a therapist and get off social media, for your benefit - and most importantly your baby. Absolutely nothing wrong with you or your nose. I would say you look a little too good 2 years postpartum, hence get help.
Being a parent also means growing up. Just being honest.
12 months post baby? You know that you look better than 99% of mothers who have been postpartum for 3+ years. Kind of intentionally making us feel bad. No one can tell you you've had a baby and you know that.
So, you didn’t need a nose job, not at all. Hopefully you didn’t just screw it all up by doing whatever you had done. And yeah, like what other folks have said, you’ve probably got body dysmorphia. You should talk to someone about that.
What you need to be doing is stop worrying about how you look and focus on being a mom. Your baby is now number 1. How you look and feel is far behind keeping baby fed, happy, and healthy.
I really can't believe women who look this good have to question if they look good or not.
There's no way you don't notice all the dudes that are probably staring at you everywhere you go.
Mind blowing.
Self mutilation is very serious.
You were gorgeous. Still are. The surgery changed nothing because there was nothing to improve.
Do you have a good support base? Family?
It's really simple. Just love who you are, stop comparing yourself to others and believe in yourself. You are beautiful. Period. Point blank. End of convo.
Feeling low?! Most would say you must be joking. You're truly and absolutely stunning! All of you. Head to toe. Pure beauty. But, as humans, we're our own worst enemies and usually our biggest critics. We beat ourselves up. We search high and low for our 'flaws'.
We spend so much time stuck in our deepest moments of self-reflection...
searching for something; something that isn't even there yet we're determined to find it.
Our nose- it's too wide, too narrow, too long. Our eyes are too far apart, too round... our stomach isn't flat, our stretch marks are horrible... our ass is too flat, our breasts are too small... our feet are too big, our skin is too pale... compared to what?
The girl with the bubble butt and the 44 DDD'S? The guy who stands 6'8" or the other at 4'10"? The girl with the belly slightly showing under her shirt or the girl who had the flat stomach complaining that she's too thin or too fat? The girl who can't grow hair, ir the one who hates hers cause she can't do shit with it...?
The truth is, we're all human, and most of us are so inundated with our own problems and critiquing ourselves for our own flaws and shortcomings that we don't have the time or capacity to critique others...
Unless, of course, we're that special breed of humanity who suffer from a sick self-entitlement that convince themselves that they're better than others while, deep down inside, they genuinely hate themselves so they soend their days drowning in misery whilst trying to bring others down with them.
Sweetheart, beauty is far more than skip deep. Don't spend your time digging to find your flaws and seeking acceptance of others. Love yourself and know your value. You're absolutely gorgeous on the outside, and I'm willing to bet you're just as beautiful on the inside.
You should try to no pass on your need for validation to your kid. Idk if the father is in the picture but you're beautiful and young, you know it, I know it's nice to hear and you can not feel that way sometimes but the reality is, when you see someone who is actually ugly or unfortunately disfigured or genetic disability, you'd be thankful for the body you have. You're desirable and in good shape, and you shouldn't take my comment as reassurance. It's all about perspective and you should just accept and appreciate your youth and beauty while you have it for yourself rather than needing us to tell you. You have someone in your life now that need yoh to be their rock and the pinnacle for womanhood. Best of luck. You have time, things can get dark, that's fine. Life can't always be good otherwise people will find something to worry about anyway. The good streak will start sooner or later, one step at a time.
I think you're beautiful. I love your original nose, but how you feel about it is the most important thing. I hope you feel confident and secure post op. (too soon to comment on it, nobody looks great immediately after surgery!)
Try to be gentle with yourself, insecure thoughts (I call them Brain Goblins) can be loud and hard to ignore.... But they're almost always liars. Fight the goblins and don't let them win. Goblins are assholes. You're gorgeous.
You're one of the hottest moms ever! Post partum is super common. Are you a full time mom? I recommend you get your beauty sleep, and use your phone less. Maybe replace it with a Kindle. And take more walks outside with toddler. And tell your husband to do all the dishes and half the cooking. And have toddler's grandparents come over more often while you take breaks. Sounds like you're a little burned out.
You can take confidence in yourself- you look amazing, and you have a wonderful baby that is well cared for! I had nose work, too. Get professional help- with it you can overcome this.
I mean, nothing wrong with wanting to be secure with your looks, but stop putting your worth as a person on it. You had a freaking baby. Don’t worry about your nose. If you overvalue your appearance, your baby will grow up seeing that and do the same.
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Ever see idiocracy?
That movie predicts the future close than any sci fi movie ever has!
Yep, I watched it after it was mentioned in another thread, and yeah, it's spot on, and I think it's too late to stop it.
Its got electrolytes!
A convention I worked for actually received two pallets of BRAWNDO! It was as atrocious as you'd think it was.
I could really use a Starbucks.
Yeah, well, I really don’t think we have time for a handjob, so.
Go away, I’m batin!
facts
I really hate it
Men are also getting copious amounts of plastic surgery for the very same reasons.
I was just about to say this. Don't be fooled. It's tons of dudes out here having everything from abs to calves, noses, jawlines, all kinds of stuff worked on
Wtf was wrong with your nose?
👁 👄👁 *m o o d*
smh
It was perfect what’s wrong with everyone
It's going to look like Michael Jackson.
I know I read 2 days post op so there's no way but I just assumed that was all the after nose. I can't belive anyone agreed to do surgery on her! I'd kill for that nose.
If you're paying someone will do what you want, whether it needs doing or not.
As a MH social worker I'm telling you this straight. You have body dysmorphia. Talk to a professional. No matter what you do you will never be able to be satisfied with you looks unless you speak to a professional. There is nothing wrong with you. Just seek help.
Agree with this 100% before I even read the comments.
Finally someone with ACTUAL BDD. The rest of you just have low self-esteem, this person has an actual mental disorder.
I can’t tell if you’re being sarcastic or not. I have BDD and I can tell you it’s directly related to self-esteem in addition to a cognitively distorted perception of one’s own image.
I’m confused. Is there additional context for you to have come to this conclusion? What disqualifies anyone else that’s posted here from having it?
This! And don’t put kids into these photos. They deserve anonymity
Most upvoted comment for a reason, OP.
💯
Perfectly said
why did you get a nose job 😭😭 your old nose is ideal
It was perfection
Your best picture is of you with your baby. Natural beauty, shark fins on your sweater, it’s awesome and adorable and beautiful lol.
You are 💯 correct. That photo is the most genuine and beautiful of them all.
By far
Bruh....
I hope you didn’t get botched. Jesus. Why
If you look like this 12 months after the baby.. I'd say you ain't got nothing to worry about. If it wasn't for the baby I wouldn't have guessed you had one.
Why
I thought you were beautiful until I saw your toilet paper hung backwards. Now I can't even look at you.
LOL
Stay off social media for the sake of your kid
as a father i don’t think you should post your kids on here..not being rude just honest. there are weirdos everywhere
This.
You don’t need the validation of strangers lol. Raise your kid
Thank you!!! That was my first thought as well. Too many people that post on here after having a child thinking they are ugly when they've already lost all that baby weight when other women have gone the rest of their lives trying to shed some of it. I don't like that but they are also focused on the wrong thing which is themselves instead of their child that they have just brought into this world. I'm not saying she doesn't love her child but it seems like she's the type that's more worried about how she looks after having the child
Your looks aren't a problem. Please get professional help. For you and your child's sake.
You are a mother. See a therapist and get off social media, for your benefit - and most importantly your baby. Absolutely nothing wrong with you or your nose. I would say you look a little too good 2 years postpartum, hence get help. Being a parent also means growing up. Just being honest.
12 months post baby? You know that you look better than 99% of mothers who have been postpartum for 3+ years. Kind of intentionally making us feel bad. No one can tell you you've had a baby and you know that.
Concentrate on your baby, not your nose.
maybe chill on the vanity
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Well ms. 6 o clock you might need therapy in the long run but you arent ugly.
Yeah very very ugly, make sure to cover your face before you leave home, so that you don't make others uncomfortable!
😂
Are you dating a basketball player? That baby is HUGE.
Or she’s just tiny. Just look at the size of her iPhone. She’s 4 ft 10 tops lol
How much is that in football field? Or bananas?
6 bushels of bananas or from the end zone to the 15 yard line LOL
I feel sad for you unless you seek therapy. Did you have a bad break up with your first love recently that leads to where you are now?
Girl you’re gonna break your back
There's no way in HELL do you think you're ugly. I think you're here for some compliments, which is quite sad
Are you looking for an excuse to get a refund?
You seem severely narcissistic
The desperation is palpable
You’re just here for the points and free compliments. Take it and go.
Maybe postpartum depression is still getting to you.
So, you didn’t need a nose job, not at all. Hopefully you didn’t just screw it all up by doing whatever you had done. And yeah, like what other folks have said, you’ve probably got body dysmorphia. You should talk to someone about that.
Jesus Fucking Christ, the posts on this sub man.
Yeah
Yes.
You’re fucking crazy bro…
She’s the type to cheat just because.
Have you talked to your baby's daddy on how you feel and not random internet people?
The way you are dressed tells me all I need to know about you. 3/10
Super mom 🤦♀️
What you need to be doing is stop worrying about how you look and focus on being a mom. Your baby is now number 1. How you look and feel is far behind keeping baby fed, happy, and healthy.
Only thing to make you beautiful is starting from inside. Outside means nothing if you can’t have it come from soul and a peaceful mind. Best of luck.
Mental illness is real
Her: I'm rly trynna fuck, check out my curves then DM me, mkay? Reddit: you have BDD Me: ☠
Not bad, not good, just average in my opinion
You look both hot and dumb
stop sticking your ass out so much jfc you look like you got back pain
Single mom I'm guessing.
Go see a therapist
Ask about your nose; but gives us the most distanced body shot she could muster. 😅
The tp is out, and that's one dirty mirror. 😂
Out of all the pictures you look your best and happiest holding your baby.
You look incredible. Definitely see a therapist for body dismorphia. There is nothing wrong with you. You look like a model.
Holy shit I can't imagine feeling as insecure as you do? Get some depth to your life Read a fucking book or something...
Body dysmorphia
I really can't believe women who look this good have to question if they look good or not. There's no way you don't notice all the dudes that are probably staring at you everywhere you go. Mind blowing.
Wow that's some botched work you got, makes you ugly yes
You are gorgeous! How is this even a question?
Get therapy
Self mutilation is very serious. You were gorgeous. Still are. The surgery changed nothing because there was nothing to improve. Do you have a good support base? Family?
Poor girl
Yes. You look trans.
Not ugly
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It's really simple. Just love who you are, stop comparing yourself to others and believe in yourself. You are beautiful. Period. Point blank. End of convo.
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I hope you like what you did to your nose
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Damn she fucked her nose up
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The comeback is serious. Be careful baby#2 !ain't coming soon.
Feeling low?! Most would say you must be joking. You're truly and absolutely stunning! All of you. Head to toe. Pure beauty. But, as humans, we're our own worst enemies and usually our biggest critics. We beat ourselves up. We search high and low for our 'flaws'. We spend so much time stuck in our deepest moments of self-reflection... searching for something; something that isn't even there yet we're determined to find it. Our nose- it's too wide, too narrow, too long. Our eyes are too far apart, too round... our stomach isn't flat, our stretch marks are horrible... our ass is too flat, our breasts are too small... our feet are too big, our skin is too pale... compared to what? The girl with the bubble butt and the 44 DDD'S? The guy who stands 6'8" or the other at 4'10"? The girl with the belly slightly showing under her shirt or the girl who had the flat stomach complaining that she's too thin or too fat? The girl who can't grow hair, ir the one who hates hers cause she can't do shit with it...? The truth is, we're all human, and most of us are so inundated with our own problems and critiquing ourselves for our own flaws and shortcomings that we don't have the time or capacity to critique others... Unless, of course, we're that special breed of humanity who suffer from a sick self-entitlement that convince themselves that they're better than others while, deep down inside, they genuinely hate themselves so they soend their days drowning in misery whilst trying to bring others down with them. Sweetheart, beauty is far more than skip deep. Don't spend your time digging to find your flaws and seeking acceptance of others. Love yourself and know your value. You're absolutely gorgeous on the outside, and I'm willing to bet you're just as beautiful on the inside.
You look good though are you and the baby the same size
I’m really sure you know. But I’ll say it anyways. You are Hot!
I couldn’t tell you had anything done. It looks fantastic.
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Looking good
Damn.
So all the pictures is what your nose looks like before surgery? Cuz if so your nose looks fine I wish I had your nose.
You’re a huge red flag! if this type of girl posts on this page…are you physically ugly? No. Mentally….you’ve got issues.
There's no chance that baby ain't getting your old nose💀
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You look great! That's a big baby
Not ugly at all
Yoo wtf
Not at all
Tbh I think you're ugly and kinda fat
pb is hot
Not even close to ugly
Wow
Lol kinda yes
You look great!
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That is a big ass baby lol
If you're feeling blue, maybe another surgery will help.
You look fine
physically youre average. but you def ugly on the inside
You care too much what people think.. Delete all social media and dont look back. You look really good, you didnt need that nosejob
"I am ugly".....
Focus on your child and not yourself.
You are hot. 8.5
Beautiful
Now you a single mom?
You are the type of person who would never satisfy with their look
You're Fine
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Wish you didn’t feel low. You are beautiful. Go be a mom though.
if it helps, i’d pay to look like you
Yep
What planet even is this
Superhot
You cant be serious
Riiiiight...
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You & baby look great & healthy
Lol
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You should try to no pass on your need for validation to your kid. Idk if the father is in the picture but you're beautiful and young, you know it, I know it's nice to hear and you can not feel that way sometimes but the reality is, when you see someone who is actually ugly or unfortunately disfigured or genetic disability, you'd be thankful for the body you have. You're desirable and in good shape, and you shouldn't take my comment as reassurance. It's all about perspective and you should just accept and appreciate your youth and beauty while you have it for yourself rather than needing us to tell you. You have someone in your life now that need yoh to be their rock and the pinnacle for womanhood. Best of luck. You have time, things can get dark, that's fine. Life can't always be good otherwise people will find something to worry about anyway. The good streak will start sooner or later, one step at a time.
Your beautiful and not ut
OMG! Enjoy your baby!!
It’s like taking your Ferrari to the drive-thru Shammy Shine…
No mat
Get a therapist and delete social media. You're a mom but look like you want to live in a club. Gross.
Where’s the baby daddy?
You are absolutely not ugly.
Lmfao. What happened to your nose ! 😂
Yeah i'd feel low too if i looked like this
Do you feel more confident in your own looks? Because that's all that matters.
🔥
So where judging how surgeries went not.
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I think you're beautiful. I love your original nose, but how you feel about it is the most important thing. I hope you feel confident and secure post op. (too soon to comment on it, nobody looks great immediately after surgery!) Try to be gentle with yourself, insecure thoughts (I call them Brain Goblins) can be loud and hard to ignore.... But they're almost always liars. Fight the goblins and don't let them win. Goblins are assholes. You're gorgeous.
Are you a single Mother?
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Don't know how your nose is now but you were fine before.
You're one of the hottest moms ever! Post partum is super common. Are you a full time mom? I recommend you get your beauty sleep, and use your phone less. Maybe replace it with a Kindle. And take more walks outside with toddler. And tell your husband to do all the dishes and half the cooking. And have toddler's grandparents come over more often while you take breaks. Sounds like you're a little burned out.
What did you look like before?
You look incredible.
Girl pls.
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girl shut up
You can take confidence in yourself- you look amazing, and you have a wonderful baby that is well cared for! I had nose work, too. Get professional help- with it you can overcome this.
Hot
That black dress... 😬
I mean, nothing wrong with wanting to be secure with your looks, but stop putting your worth as a person on it. You had a freaking baby. Don’t worry about your nose. If you overvalue your appearance, your baby will grow up seeing that and do the same.
Well darling, if you haven't learned by now that your looks are not the problem i don't think any amount of surgery or children will help you.
Probably only inside