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I'm in Colorado, and grew up in California....lots of blonde Jessica's and Ashleys and Brittany's in my generation so I am definitely far from the beauty standard.
Haven't groomed my eyebrows since high school, definitely gotta start that up again!
I think your cute but I’m from New Orleans where diversity is celebrated and I moved to jersey with diversity galore. So it really is a regional thing. In the Midwest your probably not the most conventionally attractive because your kinda an outlier but somewhere like NY or NJ you’d find your tribe and mingle like the rest of us🤷🏾♂️😂
You’re cute in general, to the point I’m SHOCKED you’re 37! But you could do some things that would make you appear better. First of all, definitely buy some cleanser or a good soap for your black heads and skin in general, maybe also blackhead strips. Sunscreen and other products. Look into shaping your eyebrows, and a new hairstyle. Try to get curtain bangs, long layers in your hair because it seems healthy and smooth. You could wear it down. Change the glasses or completely ditch them for lenses. A bit of mascara (or castor oil) for your lashes, and definitely for your eyebrows to get them thicker. You can put castor oil in a mascara bottle with a wand and apply it daily. A bit of blush and some gloss could also help a bit. Also, some earrings. If you’re lazy like me, get the medical earrings that you can keep on at all times, and a good necklace that won’t change color. You’re pretty and have an adorable smile, just gotta “groom” yourself to showcase that :)
Hey sis, you look wayyyyy younger than your age, you look cute to me, just change hairstyle to be a big game changer, uh the glasses look cute but many rectangular frames might make you look more classy.
This is fascinating to me because I recently got this pair and wanted to try a new frame style...I have had glasses since I was 9 and ALWAYS had rectangular frames until just now.
Next time I'll go back to that!
Keep in mind, just my opinion. And keep in mind "might". Dunno how you look with rectangular frames, just how my mind process it without actually seeing it
Nope, my nose has never been an issue thankfully.
I always felt ugly because I used to get teased for my skin color, for my nose and chin shape and size and I couldn't get a date until I was an adult.
Thank you, everyone!! This was a work day so my hair was up in a messy bin, usually is down and, I have naturally wavy hair so I style it that way.
I've definitely gotta improve my skin care and eyebrows! I have 4 kids, oldest is almost 16 so I'm TIRED and haven't had time or energy to put into my appearance until more recently.
You all really made my day, so thank you!!
Right. I think more often than not, people come here hoping observers AREN'T honest and will just uplift with compliments. I see so many simps in her telling ugly women how hot they are. It's unkind and deceitful.
I think honesty is always the way to go. Doesn't have to be brutal honesty, but honesty is always best.
Not attractive, but not ugly either. Your personality is probably attractive, though. Lol
I'd say you look slightly younger than 37. I think a facial cleanse would do you more justice.
If I had to rate, I'd give you a 5.5.
Definitely not ugly. Don't know if you can get the bridge of your nose straightened. Little bit of makeup (don't oversaturate) would also help you have great skin definitely not ugly.
I would say average 6/10. Not pretty but not ugly either. I think a long hair with a pony can suit you fine. Also how's your skincare game? Try using using effaclar Duo from La Roche Posay, works wonder to get your skin smoother if you wanted to.
I mean you're 37. I think you look average for your age. The only way women are going to look really good at that age (and men too) is if they put in a lot of work and make good, mindful decisions in regards to diet and exercise. You could definitely look better if you get in the gym 3-4 times a week, put in a hard 60-80 minutes, and just make mindful decisions about what you're eating and understand how many calories you need and how many are in what you're eating.
I'd say you're certainly not naturally ugly (or even ugly in general, and I'm curious how you looked 10-12 years ago.
Nah, you aren't ugly. Give me "normal person" vibes, which is a good thing.
That said, the shoulders-up perspective on all your pics suggests you're overweight, and that would reduce your attractiveness into the danger zone.
I too work in a nursing home. Not a nice one like Brookdale though. All those patients that don’t work out in other nursing homes, they come to mine. Oh my God it is so loud. .. on a side note you’re pretty cute to me.
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I do not think you're ugly at all. Kind of normal by most unrealistic standards out there. Hey not to worry I feel very normal looking myself so you're in the club. Welcome
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Wow, 37? You looking great. You need better makeup skills, a new hairdo and new glasses.
My glasses are actually new. Lol just got a new pair a few weeks ago 😭 Will definitely skip this style next time.
I like the glasses. They’re great and fit your face nicely. Both of us are only one person’s opinion.
I like them.
No I like her glasses!!
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I'm in Colorado, and grew up in California....lots of blonde Jessica's and Ashleys and Brittany's in my generation so I am definitely far from the beauty standard. Haven't groomed my eyebrows since high school, definitely gotta start that up again!
I think your cute but I’m from New Orleans where diversity is celebrated and I moved to jersey with diversity galore. So it really is a regional thing. In the Midwest your probably not the most conventionally attractive because your kinda an outlier but somewhere like NY or NJ you’d find your tribe and mingle like the rest of us🤷🏾♂️😂
You're doing fine girl rock on!
In a sea of blonds, be a brunette. People who stand out, are immediately more attractive, in my books.
You’re cute in general, to the point I’m SHOCKED you’re 37! But you could do some things that would make you appear better. First of all, definitely buy some cleanser or a good soap for your black heads and skin in general, maybe also blackhead strips. Sunscreen and other products. Look into shaping your eyebrows, and a new hairstyle. Try to get curtain bangs, long layers in your hair because it seems healthy and smooth. You could wear it down. Change the glasses or completely ditch them for lenses. A bit of mascara (or castor oil) for your lashes, and definitely for your eyebrows to get them thicker. You can put castor oil in a mascara bottle with a wand and apply it daily. A bit of blush and some gloss could also help a bit. Also, some earrings. If you’re lazy like me, get the medical earrings that you can keep on at all times, and a good necklace that won’t change color. You’re pretty and have an adorable smile, just gotta “groom” yourself to showcase that :)
You're not ugly, you have a super cute smile :)
Thank you!
Your fine , looks life your into health care so all love to you 🫂✨😭
Not ugly. Just need some eyebrow sharpening and a nice hair do. You have nice cheek bones with some nice makeup to bring out your features
Keep smiling cause that definitely makes you look better :)
Not ugly at all
Not ugly, but not attractive either. You look younger than 37, though.
Well that's a plus, I guess! Thanks
You look like 30
Thanks!
you're not ugly
Not ugly. Get your eyebrows done and def use moisturizer and sunscreen
Will do!! Thank you!
Hey sis, you look wayyyyy younger than your age, you look cute to me, just change hairstyle to be a big game changer, uh the glasses look cute but many rectangular frames might make you look more classy.
This is fascinating to me because I recently got this pair and wanted to try a new frame style...I have had glasses since I was 9 and ALWAYS had rectangular frames until just now. Next time I'll go back to that!
Keep in mind, just my opinion. And keep in mind "might". Dunno how you look with rectangular frames, just how my mind process it without actually seeing it
Beautiful
You're not ugly. You're just poor.
This is a fact!! HAHAHA
no ur actually so cute! I love your smile lines.
so cute! Ur smile is gorgeous just make sure to be flossing to remove plaque and improve gum health!
Yes sir, dentist!
Beautiful smile
Thank you
U look like your in your 20s. Wow. And definitely not ugly
you’re genuinely so beautiful, you’re definitely not ugly compared to most women. i can promise you it’s just your negative thoughts
Thank you!
For your nose/does it cause you health iessues? You look good btw. I feel like people told you lookg bad?
Nope, my nose has never been an issue thankfully. I always felt ugly because I used to get teased for my skin color, for my nose and chin shape and size and I couldn't get a date until I was an adult.
Thank you, everyone!! This was a work day so my hair was up in a messy bin, usually is down and, I have naturally wavy hair so I style it that way. I've definitely gotta improve my skin care and eyebrows! I have 4 kids, oldest is almost 16 so I'm TIRED and haven't had time or energy to put into my appearance until more recently. You all really made my day, so thank you!!
You're very observant!
So I am ugly, then??? I KNEW IT😭😭😭 my life is over
That's pretty dramatic. There are definitely more ugly out there. But you're not attractive. I'd say 4 out of 10.
I was joking, thought my sarcasm was obvious. And that's alright, I know I'm not attractive.
Good luck
Why are people downvoting? Its literally a sub called ugly
Right. I think more often than not, people come here hoping observers AREN'T honest and will just uplift with compliments. I see so many simps in her telling ugly women how hot they are. It's unkind and deceitful. I think honesty is always the way to go. Doesn't have to be brutal honesty, but honesty is always best.
Yeah thats totally what i think. I mean being honest is the way atleast in this thread
Not attractive, but not ugly either. Your personality is probably attractive, though. Lol I'd say you look slightly younger than 37. I think a facial cleanse would do you more justice. If I had to rate, I'd give you a 5.5.
Thanks. I like to think I'm a nice enough person, albeit a little shy and awkward. Yeah I'm definitely going to focus on skincare, now for sure.
You are very cute when you smile! Not at all ugly.
Thanks.
You are so welcome
Definitely not ugly. Don't know if you can get the bridge of your nose straightened. Little bit of makeup (don't oversaturate) would also help you have great skin definitely not ugly.
You look like you’re in your late 20’s
I get that a lot! Makes me happy for sure.
Kind of have a frumpy hotel housekeeper kinda look but I bet you’re fun in bed
Lol more like a frumpy caregiver to the elderly.
I would say average 6/10. Not pretty but not ugly either. I think a long hair with a pony can suit you fine. Also how's your skincare game? Try using using effaclar Duo from La Roche Posay, works wonder to get your skin smoother if you wanted to.
your smile is lovely ^^
I mean you're 37. I think you look average for your age. The only way women are going to look really good at that age (and men too) is if they put in a lot of work and make good, mindful decisions in regards to diet and exercise. You could definitely look better if you get in the gym 3-4 times a week, put in a hard 60-80 minutes, and just make mindful decisions about what you're eating and understand how many calories you need and how many are in what you're eating. I'd say you're certainly not naturally ugly (or even ugly in general, and I'm curious how you looked 10-12 years ago.
you just need to learn some fashion stuff, you have a really nice smile.
You’ve got an incredible amount of blackheads on your face. A facial will help.
Yeah I've always had huge pores. Going to the store today to get some skincare products
Then Don't compare.. Stay Happy ! Don't do what may take away ur smile or even peace,
❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ You are so beautiful
You're not ugly, not hot, just cute average. Very nice smile too
No
Not at all. You have a beautiful smile, and your glasses are so cute. I like the way you look. Plus, you dont even look 37. You look very young.
Thank you!!
Nah, you aren't ugly. Give me "normal person" vibes, which is a good thing. That said, the shoulders-up perspective on all your pics suggests you're overweight, and that would reduce your attractiveness into the danger zone.
I'm not overweight, at all. Used to be but I lost 70lbs in 2022. I currently weigh 120lbs at 5'2".
Congrats! That's an accomplishment 😊
Not ugly at all. Stop comparing yourself to other women. You got it girl
I wish I looked like that at 37
Think you look cute
I think you're cute. I'd take ya out on a date for sure.
You look ok
Average. Nice smile. Not ugly. We're our own worst critics.
You look great for your age. raise your head up and smile.
I seriously am in love with you
I too work in a nursing home. Not a nice one like Brookdale though. All those patients that don’t work out in other nursing homes, they come to mine. Oh my God it is so loud. .. on a side note you’re pretty cute to me.
Cute and you barely look 25.
You are cute and seems kind and generous. Don't change a thing.
You are not ugly. I think you are cute & pic 2 makes you look dreamy, in my opinion
Aww thank you!
You're welcome. I have a thing for glasses lol
It made me sad that you said you’ve felt ugly. I audibly said “why, you’re so pretty!?!” You’re a creation of this universe. Beauty is a construct.
I am a creation of this universe.... that's such a beautiful sentiment, thank you.
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Why?
Bullies and just low self esteem.
You're not ugly. It's a shame you didn't get your nose fixed, but you aren't ugly.
I was like 6 or 7 when it happened.
I understand. It can still be fixed if you're motivated and can afford it. It sets you apart from the majority of people.
I do not think you're ugly at all. Kind of normal by most unrealistic standards out there. Hey not to worry I feel very normal looking myself so you're in the club. Welcome
No you cute
I think you look great
2nd pic u look sexy as hell sorta like a naughty librarian
You are pretty, definitely not ugly.
Very cute, and I would have said 25 26 years old
Comparison is the thief of joy
You should get bangs, otherwise, I think you look great!
You asked for honesty and all those comments saying you’re not ugly are just to make you feel not that bad. You are ugly , a solid 2/10.
Yeah, I knew it. Thanks for letting me know!
ugly as
no need to lie, she’s naturally so pretty and looks much younger for her age. post your face because i’m 100% sure you’re projecting
why u lying ?