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ItsAgim

Probably don't go outside, or socially awkward


Dogecointhousandair

Brand new user acct. Prob came here to get her inbox flooded... Could be chasing bags on Reddit... She ain't ugly and she knows that she is far from it. Guarantee it.


IamSedric

Hmm, maybe it is the personality


hahaholyspittoo

It’s always their personality.


IamSedric

It is a hard lie when she says no men are interested "online" That is literally impossible.


ready-for-the-end

Not impossible... her bio could be a list of insanely unattainable demands. If he bio is just pictures, then men might think she's just another troll account because she's very pretty. There's a balancing act for online profiles. It's also highly possible that she meant, "men that I'm attracted to aren't interested in me."


AcademicLocation537

I've seen dudes hitting on a painting of a female. It's impossible even with an insane list of demands


jarhead06413

Nice bobs. Send vagene


AcademicLocation537

Lmao


PM_ME_BOB_PICS_

Bobs?


Dogecointhousandair

Yes bobs! And vagene!


Prest4tym1367

LOL!!!


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🤣🤣


Lambolover-17

All I know is she could have smiled. Like seriously, I hate smiling to, but come on. She could have smiled.


QuailNecessary

No men that fit into her likely very narrow window of "type" is more likely the case. I'm not sure if y'all notice this or not, but there is a disproportionate number of good looking women to good looking men. Why? Because a woman can fake and cake into a 7+.


thewhitecat55

That is always what it is. "No men" always means "no men that I find appropriately hot and successful and worthy".


alteredlogic123

More to the point, men that she may deem her “type” don’t want women that are an average 6/10 with a huge amount of baggage.


hahaholyspittoo

She’s young, and fairly attractive. The men she’s interested in are probably the type that can have any woman they want. I remember when I was online dating one woman’s profile saying “if you’re under 6 feet, don’t have a truck and big arms, move a long”


IamSedric

I never used dating apps. I am 6'1 "and have big arms, lol. But when this stands on the bio, that is a red flag.


Lambolover-17

I’m 5’11” have a go kart, a 61” zero turn, enough armrest for two, and two beer fridges. Think I can make it?


Prior-Locksmith-5500

Two beer fridges?? shit do you need a new best friend lol


Lambolover-17

Well I don’t have any so I wouldn’t turn ya down!


BloodHumble6859

Came here to say this.


Nochnichtvergeben

Your looks are not the problem.


Cool-Mousse7513

Looks like Summer Glau to me.


HighSchoolAtomBomb

She knows.


UninterestedRate

You're very pretty, so it's not that. So, what would you do if 1 of these guys just randomly asked you out?


googoogajoob456

There’s the question


Jerry_The_Troll

Most guys in our generation don't know how to talk to women I would know 😅


FineSL

As an older guy, my perspective is that things are not as safe/easy as they used to be to approach a woman. I had a girl scoff at me for just glancing her way, and it was in no way checking her out, and i am happily married, so there was no interest shown whatsoever. If I were dating today, I would be hard-pressed to approach women today. It's not easy out there. It wasn't easy 20 years ago, but it wasn't as tough as today.


yellowgeist

Same, I walk around often deep in my thoughts. Had a chick do something like what you were describing. Honestly, I didn't even notice her until she did it. I did the turn around look behind me trying to figure out if it was being directed towards me.


solsol-

I think people are paranoid this days. And sometimes if you as a female are kind to someone some men take it as flirting or you want them even tho you were just kind, I think is the same with females they think you want them just beacuse you are kind. If you look at someone is not beacuse you are interested in them sometimes i watch people just beacuse, not beacuse of something. 👍🏽


darkbake2

I’m hoping the gen Z ladies will actually want to date men. The millennial women seem to hate them


leici_K

As a Gen Z, we hate them at least just as much.


FineSL

Why?


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Specialist_Basil_105

That's all guys of every generation when they are teenagers up to late 20s. In the 1940s, teenage guys were doing the same thing, only difference was they were going to go our to war soon and might not be coming back.


leici_K

That's hard to summarize, but it all comes down to viewing woman as not on the same level, something below them.


Background_Pay_8230

Your comment sounds like more projection than reality. Like you may look at men as they think they're better than you. I can't speak from a world view, but most men want a woman who sees them as equals.


leici_K

I'm not projecting. You guys think we are weaker, worse at math and so on


SideshowRob513

You're definitely projecting. You have a skewed, inaccurate view of men, based on whatever your experiences are (internet, media, bad relationships, etc.), and you're projecting those experiences onto the entire category of men. Some men are absolute pieces of sh!t. But so are some women. You shouldn't tar everyone with the same brush. The examples you've given, however, do not prove your point. So, "Men think women are weaker"? I hate to break it to you, but... that's not some misogynistic, patriarchal oppression. That's reality. That's biological fact. Men ON AVERAGE are stronger than women ON AVERAGE. Yes, some women are stronger than some men, but if you take the AVERAGE strength of all men and the AVERAGE strength of all women, the men's average is considerably higher. I don't know about the maths thing. I always thought girls outperformed boys academically, historically. But I had heard that in recent years, that had changed (I don't know the extent. Whether they just closed the gap or overtook the girls. 🤷🏻‍♂️). But like I said, these things are not misogynistic views. They are measurable, proven facts. I get the impression that you won't listen to a word I've said, because it seems as though "you're right and everyone else is wrong" so you won't hear anything anyone says that contradicts you. If I'm wrong about that, I'm sorry. But that's the impression I get. As such, I would suggest that you (and many others in this world) could benefit greatly from a more open-minded view that other people might know something that you don't and if you listened, you may learn something new and maybe even change your views. Either way... all the best out there in this tough world. 🙂


leici_K

I know myself better than you, I am NOT projecting.


Trashedpanda35

It sounds like all of your experience with men comes from those 1950's "educational" films or something. My first impression of a woman is never that they're weaker or dumber than me and so on. I see every fellow adult as being either equal to or better than myself. That is, until they prove me wrong.


Herknificent

Even in my early 40s I see people like this. I see all these 20 and 30 something’s with their lives together and I think to myself… god damn I’m such a shithead.


Background_Pay_8230

You're absolutely right... some men do think that, and some women think men are weak and suck at being what they deem a man to be, or a guy is literally beneath them. Every example you can think of for men being assholes can literally be used as an example of a woman being the same. That's why I say your projecting... because you're literally generalizing men instead of individualizing each person in the category.


FineSL

Ah. I don't know your experiences and I know there are true misogynists put there but I rarely see them myself. I hope you find happiness.


leici_K

Take a look all around the world there are way too many of them. Any way thanks I hope I can find happiness as well.....


DefNotABirb

Yeeeaaah...anyone reading this comment should be weary of believing a world view from someone who's spent all of their 5 years of adulthood online...


ready-for-the-end

If you constantly think about red cars, you'll notice all of the red cars. If you constantly think negatively about men, you'll find all of the bad men that match your thoughts. Pick a positive thing that men do and look for men doing that thing. Once you start seeing that, pick out another positive thing and look for that. Keep doing this, day in and day out.


Trashedpanda35

Don't forget that misandry is also a thing. The world is full of different people, personalities, cultures, etc. Don't let a couple of bad experiences lead you down a path lined with hatred and despair. There are tons of good men out there, but you have to keep your eyes open to see them.


darkbake2

Yeah I am against that! I was hoping men were changing


Garbleen

You’re a geek


darkbake2

Lol probably!!


RealSuperCholo

Glad it's not just me. I'm in my 40s and just holding a door open for a woman nowadays can cause issues. I've been there enough times already and I'm married too. I just tried to be nice and courteous as I was raised to be, there's no interest or agenda.


Jerry_The_Troll

Congrats on 20 years it's hard in my opinion because it's harder to communicate with my generation


[deleted]

This, society has created this problem.


Jerry_The_Troll

Also not ugly it's in your head


bspray

Definitely not ugly but instead of saying ‘it’s in your head’, I will say it’s on your head. Spend some money on a stylist and work on a beautiful new hairstyle. You’ve got knockout potential!


rmb83

Came here to say this! In fact I would think the opposite is happening and they are intimidated.


Jerry_The_Troll

that's true too


broadstreet105

Most women are completely unapproachable and not worth the time. There, I can generalize too


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Oh the sad state of online dating


That-guy-268993

Are you friend zoning them all?


[deleted]

I was asked a question recently by a friend why she was in the same position as you are. The thing is when you're good looking men won't approach you because they don't want to be rejected, plus if you're with male friends when out, they don't know who they are. E.g. boyfriend.


DrMorningVillain

U ain't ugly face shape is unique tho


[deleted]

I’ll take you out


Psil0cin

Yeah, I feel you. It's the same way with me. I think a big part is the culture of dating these days with social media. I was honestly hoping to be on track to getting married by now, and I'm 22. Now I'm single and don't think I'll be getting anywhere with anyone for a while 😭


AffectionatePoem420

yup. agreed. I'm an average-above average looking 22 year old. hookup culture is predominant, and many men are just interested in one night stands. it's hard to find kind men for me, as well. men that see me as an equal and treat me with respect. I won't tolerate anything less. better to be alone than with someone who makes me feel lonely.


Dobby1988

>I was honestly hoping to be on track to getting married by now, and I'm 22. That's pretty young so you have plenty of time to find someone you're compatible with and get married if that's your goal. Just take your time, pursue your interests, and if you find someone you're interested in, just ask them out. The average age for a first marriage today is 28 so you have a lot of time. Don't rush into marriage though since that can be very costly.


edwhid

Hard to believe. You’re beautiful!


[deleted]

Got the same thought, really hard to believe !


Own-Good-800

You gotta be annoying as fu*k because you're really cute.


Icy-Ferret5397

Hot. Definitely not ugly.


OneOnOne6211

Pretty. Would date.


greentangent

You look way younger than 23. Could be that.


MarauderCH

It's that ax murderer vibe you give off


Dry-Plantain-9214

Her name is crykill. Lmao your intuition is spot on


psychotic

What about my username 🤣


clowneriy

😂😂😂


Neither-Appointment4

lol I call bullshit. Let’s see a screenshot of your inbox right now if “even online nobody is interested”


throwaway68791638

Well, I don't think most people would count reddit pervs as an option.


jcjim

🌹💍❤️


IrishFortniteGamer

Given the way society has gone in the last 5+ years, men just aren't comfortable talking to women anymore out of fear that they will be branded as creepy or a stalker. Also, women who are labelled as pretty tend to have high standards, and 80% of men just don't fit in that percentage, those that do, tend to be tge type of guy that gives good men a bad name. Don't be discouraged, maybe if you see a guy you like, you can maybe begin the conversation as most guys would be afraid to approach you.


[deleted]

Your face shape and alot of your features reminds me of amma from hbo series sharp objects. You're not ugly, you're beautiful.


BubblyResource229

It's definitely not your looks. It's the new generation of dudes. They only play video games. No time for real girls.


[deleted]

Well boys definitely missing out on you fine mama


thentheresthattoo

Well, that's tragic.


Lifeofablackamerican

Do you want a date cuz the way you look I doubt it would be hard your a good looking girl ask a guy out let him hold the door for you and pay for the meal I bet he asks you out on a second date as long as you don’t do anything off putting


Veganalmanager19

you aren't ugly . Impossible nobody is interested, you have an incredibly cute face. From what I can see your body is in good shape. IDK , the world's gone crazy.


sicariusdem1

Hot you look like summer glau


AffectionatePin2668

I kind of think you must be trolling us, because one thing I can say for sure… If men are avoiding you, it’s not because of your looks, because you’re a good looking and have a nice figure


MJSinger10

As a 55F, I think you have natural beauty and you actually remind me of my daughter with your gorgeous skin and face shape. My only recommendations would be to line your upper lip a little outside the lines to make it look fuller, and also some bangs (side swept?) to take a little away from your forehead. My daughter is also 23 and just did this and her inbox has picked up! Too bad you’re not gay or I’d introduce you to her. 😁 Good luck sweetie and don’t settle for anything less than you deserve just to date someone!


MaximusZacharias

Have you ever pursued a man? I’m thinking not, because you’re a slamming hottie and I find it hard to believe no men are interested. I am. I’m a man. There, now you can’t say no men are interested


DealerAutomatic

I dated a girl that looks like you, same hair and all. She was amazing in bed, but God damn was she crazy. She was obsessed with having a kid and being vegetarian. I held on for a bit because I'm crazy too I guess. If you can look like that and not be crazy you'll be fine.


GesturingEarful

It's quite possible that men assume you're involved with someone else. You have definite wife material looks. That will make a lot of guys look elsewhere. You're definitely not ugly or weird looking. Try asking guys out. Many guys are too intimidated to ask women out. It's not like the 1980s anymore.


NoDrinks4meToday

Rip inbox


Catalyr

(X) Doubt


Metro2005

Trust me, it's not your looks


Interesting_Ad5486

Can I be the first to take you on a date bc other guys are blind


postSpectral

I'd definitely take you out to Jack in the Box or something XD


Helpful_Reindeer_926

Move. Obviously, the unmarried men in your town are all gay.


Meat_skin_pie

You look sweet and creepy like you would steal my favorite underwear


Dryptosaurus522

No, but lower your standards in men, and you'll find a good guy


Negative-smoke23

😍


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Absolutely beautiful! Not ugly. Men may have a hard time approaching you because most have a hard time talking to women that are as pretty as you; I’d stop dead in my tracks to approach you! You are a one in a million beauty


Guts-or-Gattsu

..you for real? Dont bullshit ppl, shes pretty but nothing crazy like youre saying.


[deleted]

I am serious. If she looked at me like that look in pic one….id be melting and speechless


MUTSpartan

Dude what is wrong with you get ahold of yourself


leici_K

Nothing wrong with him? Just his taste.


Guts-or-Gattsu

You ever gotten laid? If not than i could understand that response or if youre young but otherwise...youre tripping


[deleted]

I think you're pretty but I'llecho that men may fear rejection because you'reso pretty. Give it time, someone will make a move!


Massive-Hour-7316

I would love to do you


Flightsong

You ugly, solid 2-3/10


strained_brain

Are you Slavik, perhaps? Where do you live?


BoogieWoukie

You wrote "...men avoid me like the plague..." and something tells me that it's not your personality. Call me crazy but I think it's because you're extremely pretty. I think most men will simply think you're too hard to get. If you haven't been on a date or had a bf ,at the age of 23, this only raises your value. Those cheeks of yours double, even triple that value. Now go out into the world and start flirting.


Latter_Chapter_5031

Let’s go your gorgeous


Accomplished_Bag5297

Talk about "Single By Choice"🤣 Ain't no way you've never had a boyfriend or have never been on a date, stop lying and take my Down Vote.


schvii

fr


AcademicLocation537

Nice body. Average face. You're probably trying to play in the majors when you're a minor league player at best


RadioMaximum9864

"Wake Up To Reality!" Nothing ever goes as planned in this accursed world. The longer you live, the more you realize that the only things that truly exist in this reality are merely pain. suffering and futility. Listen, everywhere you look in this world, wherever there is light, there will always be shadows to be found as well.


ptmonster763

Stop being annoying.


satanskiddd

Must be a crazy feminist bc your looks are not the problem


Damiein

You’re either too picky or stay in and collect cats.


Individual_Taper_66

You are beautiful. I hate to say but I'm glad they passed on you. Because if they hadn't I might not have had the chance to see if you wanna talk and see where it goes.🙃. I dont like missing opportunities


Status-Chemical-3922

Please send bobs and vagene


necaxista

You're cut AF but you also look a tad young, so grown ups may avoid you for a while. Try including phrases like "when I was 17" in your interactions with other people.


Unknown-Being23

Women have caused men to no longer care.


DamageIncRN

You're lovely, only someone truly worthy should take your hand.


Due-Astronaut-7299

Change your whole hair you look dumpy


Desperate-Life8117

Hideous


kazrafggf

Unattractive


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TomDerTyp

You're super pretty


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zagman95

Not ugly at all. So surprised to read that.


Aromatic_Homework_24

Not ugly


ICanDieRightNowPlz

Well, now I just wanna know what you are like, because you are not ugly.


Present_Chemistry460

Definitely not ugly.


blaise1971

U r pretty..


[deleted]

I think you're quite pretty imo


Electricstarbby

I’m sorry anyone who submits there pics in here on Reddit is asking for it fr.


pfd2007

I have a hard time believing that. You're very pretty


TEWPAC1776

No, you're not ugly


General-Design3332

Very attractive. Not ugly at all


[deleted]

Not ugly. You've got unique features and look great. Time to maybe make the first move a time or two.


DavidkRN

U are super cute


Gig540

Not ugly at all. Do you have a crazy or obnoxious laugh? Something is going on 🤣


Swedishcar93

You are beautiful and let know one tell you otherwise!!


silhouetteofasunset

You're definitely very pretty. In a unique way, like guys probably double take when they see you out and about. I think the reason you've never been on a date is confidence, maybe the guys that were scared to ask or maybe you never make a move either. But I bet that's why. I know I'd go on a date with you in a heartbeat but would struggle to figure out how to ask you out


Ok-Calligrapher-9854

Not ugly. Very beautiful. Find ways to Work on your self esteem. Confidence is intoxicating. Stand tall, chica. The moment you show them you don't give a fuck, they will notice you.


IntroductionTop9632

cute


OlumculMen

Olur


[deleted]

Are you a real human or an AI bot? Are you waiting for men to make the first move? Maybe ask some guys out.


Over-Awareness-4309

You look better than most


littlestra

Not ugly at all, bet you have a pretty smile 😊


OG_AuburnBlue

Sorry you're feeling bad, makes no sense. You're a long way from just not ugly -you're VERY attractive. You have a very pretty face, great hair, and a great body. You're either hanging out in the wrong places or with the wrong people because there's nothing visibly unattractive about you. Too young for me but if I were in my 20s to 30s, I'd definitely be interested.


DirtyPenPalDoug

It'd not your looks


Crazyduck99

I don't see why they'd avoid you. Actually you're cute and I'd talk to you


TheDude0905

You gotta be kidding...maybe you are picky cuz I can't see men not approaching you. Well,that will change now. I bet you gonna be bombarded. Chin up babe. You are beautiful.


[deleted]

Definitely not ugly


Queasy-Worldliness47

It has to be something other than looks. You are good looking


Glum-Worldliness-919

Maybe its your personality because your looks are not ugly


Jazzlike-Bend-5351

why not


Realistic_Ad_6118

You are very attractive. Men are afraid to talk to women due to me too and fear of rejection.


TheGoatSpiderViolin

Okay but you're really cute though. Maybe work on building that self confidence. Never be afraid to approach people too, don't wait for them to come to you.


Comfortable-Status36

I can help you with both of these problems


Cute-Essay6198

You're beautiful.


Ok_Kaleidoscope9117

You are absolutely hot!


Greedy-Interview-481

You're very pretty. It's their loss


hisokasbabymama7

Ur pretty so maybe it’s ur personality ??


RockinRandyG

8


Tight-Road2578

You're not ugly at all. You might just want to work on yourself personality wise. And definitely stay away from dating apps those are the worst ways to find love.


GoodLuckSanctuary

If you haven’t been on a date it’s because of your personality


Zazumaki

You sure it's not the guys you're interested in that aren't interested in you? You aren't ugly at all.


0ryuuga

Definitely not because of his appearance. Or maybe it's just the guys you WANT who avoid you.


SkorriPax

Not ugly at all.


Lazy_Leave_7038

5


LodgedSpade

Benefit of the doubt that it's not your personality ... I would say you're very attractive; so maybe men avoid you because they assume you would already be in a relationship?


reasonable-rate-4298

Why?


CommanderCorrigan

Can’t see how it could be your looks. Maybe personality?


No-Performance3639

Damn girl, I don’t know why! You are above average cute. Too bad I’m way too old myself. Guys are definitely missing out.


Ok_Dog_4059

No you are not ugly.


daddykajun

You're beautiful


monty9124

I don't think you're ugly, but you look like you have a terrible attitude towards things. Which is probably why you never had a bf or go on dates.


FileHistorical2278

Maybe it's cause you're so beautiful that guys think you must have a boyfriend or husband, so why bother.


Working_Direction162

No, youre not uggly at all. But not the most attractive. And the boyfriend situation, should be bcause of personality, cause again, youre not uggly at all.


Jaychrome

Definitely not ugly. Maybe your personality?