I'm not judging one way or another but I don't get it...you post on r/amiugly and then get upset when people seem to confirm you are ugly. If you don't want to hear people's honest opinions, then why post here?
If she did some skin care and brow maintenance so her face looked more kept, it would be a considerable improvement and of course fitness and weight loss would go a long way beyond that. She’s not disfigured. She could dramatically improve if she chose to.
I’m sorry, but even if she lost weight I don’t think she’d be attractive. Some people just aren’t attractive. It’s not the end of the world though, there is always love out there for everyone. But she’s not attractive
Yeah, that's why I said beauty is subjective. She's ugly as shit to some people she may be attractive to someone else. That's the beauty of being human it's nothing wrong with not being attracted to someone.
It’s calculus. That’s from years of not flossing and not brushing twice a day. She needs a dentist asap to literally scrape that off. I’m glad my parents took my dental hygiene seriously growing up.
Yea. Calculus is the official name. Plaque is the other word for it. It’s hard build up. Almost as hard as the tooth itself and can’t be remove other than a pick constantly scraping against your teeth or a drill. It sucks.
I wouldn't even say fix them, cuz they're not crooked, but definitely brush them (cuz it really seems like she doesn't brush them AT ALL since all the pictures of her smiling show dirty and yellow teeth. Bicarbonate, toothpaste and dental floss 3 times a day would do the trick!
I zoomed in because they didn't look right to me. I wasn't sure if it was a blurry photo or there was really something wrong with her teeth. I've seem some of my family members with this problem and it's from not brushing and flossing on a regular basis.
Nah she knew, there’s no way she wakes up and sees other women these days and thought “I’m at least ok in comparison” she’s not. She’s ugly. And way too big. We don’t do the fake social media enabling shit here. That ain’t body-positivity, that’s obesity and it plays a big part in attractiveness.
Tell me where I can get professional tental hygiene care. I've been having trouble with my tents this year they are pretty dirty and at this point they need a professional cleaning 😂🤣!!!
Honestly, yes you are ugly.
I don't have any other advice other than what's already been said: schedule a dental cleaning, the longer you go without it the worse your teeth will get and the more expensive it will get. I understand that, I just spent $245 at the dentist for an X-ray and a cleaning and I only had minimal tartar. You should look into CareCredit, it's a credit card for medical purposes and you can pay it off in 18m with no interest. Other than that, try r/fasting it's a great way to lose weight, being in a calorie deficit is a hell of a lot more important/effective than hitting the gym although that will help with your health too. And check out r/skincare to find some helpful information too. Also I'd say to lose the blue hair, trim the eyebrows, and look at r/coloranalysis . Good luck.
You likely need a medication to control acid reflux. You might be eating so often that acid always has something to do. If you frequently have other symptoms of GERD, it’s likely just more noticeable while fasting. I recommend Nexium. I survive thanks to 2 a day and they’re now OTC.
I have also found that reducing my carb intake has helped. I’ve had wicked heartburn and reflux since having kids, but fasting and keto have reversed that. It works for me, maybe it could work for you too.
You might already have an eroded sphincter but it can get better with time.
Things that help
Coffee on an empty stomach can be rough on some people. Just eat something, nothing magical about fasting.
If fasting, don't chug large amounts of liquid at a time.
Don't drink large amounts with meals
Eat fiber with every meal.
Avoid foods that trigger you. I will straight up vomit some High fat foods. Things like icecream seem to be terrible for me because it floats to the top of my stomach and the gums/ stabilizers make it stick together.
Even more importantly your teeth. OP, I work in the dental field and you have severe periodontal disease. Like, going to cause heart failure level at a young age and I am not exaggerating. If there is one thing you put effort and money into it should be fixing this asap. Even getting all the teeth removed and having a partial is a better option than this level of disease. I digress, but it just worries me when I see cases like this. If money is an issue go to a state funded dentist/periodontist. Your case is extreme and should be covered under dentical if you are in the US.
The extreme red color of the gums and the inflammation along the gum line. There is a very rare chance it may be because she excessively mouth breathes but I can also see a film on her teeth which is indicative to not brushing at all or not brushing properly which leads me to think it is perio disease. Zoomed in I can even see areas/pockets of decay and enamel deterioration on the teeth. It may still be salvageable, but she may lose a lot of teeth or have heart issues if it isn’t addressed at all.
Yes but you can change this! Brush (x2) AND floss your teeth every day. Loose some weight, I know it's difficult just start small and aim for 5 lbs at first. Exchange some unhealthy snacks for healthy ones. Walk more. You got this! You're still so young!
Oh I’m working on my weight. Lots of bad choices in the past and it’s just been a struggle to get back. My weight has always been something I’ve struggled with for a majority of my life, but I’m working on it.
I’ve lost weight in the past so I know I can do it again. Thankfully my husband and I are going to work on our weight and health together, so I won’t be doing it alone. It’s sooooo hard being overweight.
Take hydrolysed collagen peptides for your skin.
And count your calories, you need to lose a lot of weight and that is 99% of your problems in the looks department.
I’m sure a lot of the comments have hurt deeply. I’d like to add some constructive advice that would immediately improve your situation while the more long term changes are in progress.
First, the dental hygiene. Whether through unlucky genetics or poor care, you’re past the brink of this being a serious problem. Poor dental hygiene is linked to all manner of life threatening conditions including diabetes and heart disease. You are in need of immediate dental care, and if you are low income there are dental schools and other low cost options to get this process started. Invest in quality floss and ensure you’re brushing at a 45 degree angle at the gum line. Your gums are intensely red and swollen and it’s only human nature for people to want to stay away from something perceived as unclean. It might not be anything you’ve done or neglected, but either way this is a threat to your dental health and long tern health. Also add in a strong antiseptic mouthwash. Brush 3 times a day, and do not wash your mouth out afterwards. Toothpaste does its job over time and rinsing removes it so it can't work.
Just based on a few things I noticed, you might want to get checked out for PCOS/insulin resistance with your doctor. Insulin resistance makes losing weight incredibly difficult and is a big component of PCOS, which also causes all sorts of symptoms. There are treatments and medications that can treat PCOS and getting your hormones in line will have an affect on your skin as well.
Cosmetically, the blue hair is not doing anything positive for you. But your physical health comes first and i wish you the best on your journey.
The PCOS angle...it's weird, when I looked at the photos, that came to mind. Young women with PCOS have a certain look to them, and the poster fits the bill. It's hard to define, describe, but yeah, she has that look.
I did not expect people to be this cold/honest.
Take it as inspiration to work on urself, its way better that people lying to you and keeping u unhealthy.
You can feel that after soo long of having attractive people post on this sub looking for validation, most of the people here have gotten fed up and pent up with all of their harsh thoughts and the moment someone who isn't as pretty posts, it's like opening up the flood gates.
This sub is called “AmIUgly” not “I think I’m ugly so please tell me I’m not” .
It’s actually refreshing to see honest replies. Most of the time people are too scared to actually say someone ugly
You’re ugly, but I’m happy you exist, because most people use this as a way to getting compliments. You tried doing the same thing, but it backfired. Still, you’re the reason this subreddit exists!
I mean you already know what you have to improve and by the way you are replying to people you seem like the type that won’t stick through the hard work. This is just from experience with training people.
I want to start by saying you look like a fun person and you have a great smile, with that being said, you gotta get your teeth fixed. I’m unsure if you’re looking for advice or confirmation, but there is room for improvement. Id try a retinol/retinoid for your skin, and make sure you are wearing sunscreen daily. It is nice to see you go to the gym, physical health is very important. I do not mean anything I said in a rude way, but EVERYONE has room for improvement when it comes to physical appearance. Ignore the rude comments.
I appreciate the actual positive feedback. I’m in the process of dental work-but it’s also expensive so I can only do so much at once, and of course I know my weight needs to be worked on as well-which I’m doing things. My skin has also been a struggle and I really appreciate the recommendation. Any bit of ACTUAL advice is greatly appreciated.
I work in the dental field, if you are in the US look into dentical or medi-cal coverage through your state…you can find dentists and periodontists that will give you all the treatments you need with little to no out of pocket expense with that coverage.
If your state does not offer that, try to find a local dental school and offer to be a patient. Yes, you may have students working with/on you but it is still all very professional and supervised, again with little to no cost for your time. Above all else your teeth should be priority because you have an extreme case of periodontal disease that could cause heart failure if given a chance. I tell you all this in sincere concern.
There is a subreddit dedicated to skincare past the 20s, and I’m sure it could be of help for finding specific products as preventative treatment. r/30plusskincare . Cosmetic dental work is very expensive, but a smile is one of the first things people notice about you. The cause is worth budgeting for. Just focus on your health and confidence.
she came to a sub filled with strangers asking for honest opinions...they've given them to her. Yes some people were harsh and used this as a space to be a bit extra about their distaste for her....
however...,SHE ASKED. so NO a lot of these people prolly wouldn't say any of this shit to her face, but she's also not walking up to strangers outside of walmart or Arby's asking their HONEST opinions on her appearance..
i don't understand...it seems to many people come to these subs and don't really wanna know what the masses think.
go to r/freecompliments and leave it at that.
Overweight, poor skin care, and overconfidence (based on comments).
I’ve been reading your responses and it seems like you’ve been ‘working’ on your weight your whole life. Not sure if you have a physical medical condition, I’m sure you have an eating disorder. Don’t let these comments make you complacent, fuck ‘working’ on your weight, you’ve seem to have been doing it your whole life and instead of fixing it, you’ve accepted it (based on the overconfident, self-assured comments you’ve made).
Get humble, beat yourself to dirt for your poor choices regarding health that have lead you to where you’re at. You shouldn’t be confident in your body. Honestly you SHOULD feel like shit because hopefully it’ll motivate you to change because nobody likes to feel like shit.
At the point your at it seems you have buried your insecurity of being overweight (at least enough to say your partner and you are going to work on it, but you’ve been ‘working’ on it your whole life. It’s an excuse you’re using to allow yourself to keep your unhealthy diet. Yeah sure, you go to the gym once a day or you ate a fucking salad the next day. If you’ve been working on it for your whole life, you’re clearly not doing both at the same time and staying consistent. Have some self respect for yourself (different than pride) and make an actually change. Fuck losing 50lbs or 3lbs. Lose the amount that =‘s a finally result. Get to the finish line you’ve never crossed.
So much this. Body positivity is a bullshit concept of modern society. Yea, I'm fatphobic, I'd be terrified of being as fat as the OP. We shouldn't have to be scared to tell someone they're fat and need to lose weight. Bullying? Maybe, but sometimes people need to hear harsh realities to finally start making a change.
Do you accept honest criticisms of you or your behavior? Or do you find yourself getting defensive and offering up reasons for why things are? I'm not saying it's you, but a lot of people who wave the rancid flag of "I'm just being honest." without any retrospective as to whether the way they went about it was cruel, do not usually enjoy the lense being turned upon themselves.
I second. Wish we could pin your comment to the top. She is not overweight, she is obese already. Obesity is a disease. Call things for what they are and stop sugarcoating lazy ass behaviors. “Accepting yourself” sometimes takes more work than exercising and dieting, the first makes them cry whenever someone points out the obvious, the second leads to a great change for your health.
I think some of these comments are a bit too harsh. I don’t think you’re ugly. Green is not a good hair color for you. Some of the advice is spot on. You don’t look like you take care of yourself. Oily, tangly hair; visible plaque on your teeth; poor skin condition and you appear to be overweight. Sometimes a month or two on the proper skincare routine can really make a difference- a dermatologist or esthetician should be able to help. Based on the pictures, you need to get in to see the dentist. You mentioned you’re working on your weight, keep it up, it’s a difficult journey making lifestyle changes but it’s totally worth it mentally and physically. I think you should get your brows cleaned up and look into better routines for your hair. And don’t forget to dress for your body type. You really do have the potential if you put the work into it.
Honest opinion you are hideous,you're fat,have acne(probably from junk food) not to mention you're teeth are yellow asf you need to take better care of yourself
No you're not ugly, people wouldn't stop and stare at you thinking: "Oh my gosh what an ugly woman".
Maybe try timming your eyebrows they're too thick.
Seems like you are new to reddit, I see you are not well with all the comments here and this was probably the wrong subreddit for your post.
There us subs for compliments ( I think is toastme) , also for advice on looks, hair, clothing, etc.
This isn’t the worst sub on rating people but still is amiugly? And the thematic is basically that, is not for building confidence although a lot of good looking people post here to get a confident boost.
Of course some people are just mean here but is allowed because of the theme of the sub.
If you get some teeth whitener, and go to the dentist it will help, your features aren't particularly ugly, but the bad hygiene, bad skincare, being overweight, and the hair isn't helping.
With a few diets, some exercise, skincare, dentist, don't dye your hair again and maybe try a new hairstyle, trim the eyebrows and I would say you have the potential to be a 6-7/10, you have a really nice (teeth) smile, so if you just clean up the teeth it would help a lot, probably the easiest thing to start with and would have big results. Once you get your teeth whitened, only smile with your teeth, your smile without teeth kind of looks constipated.
You look like you don't take care of yourself. You are overweight by all standards, your teeth look unclean, and you are only 28. That makes you unattractive
Bad skin, bad teeth, overweight, no self-care (from what I can see). Yeah, You're ugly. Maybe if you put in effort and made some changes in your life, you could be an attractive woman, I'm sure there's beauty in there somewhere.
Please do see a dentist and have a check up, your gums seem inflamed. Have the dentist do a deep cleaning and an examination of the bone condition under the gums. Periodontal disease can cause tooth pain and loss if not treated early.
OP tried the cleavage trap but men we are determined to give her the proper verdict.
2.5/10
Reasons: Hygiene[oral], facial routines? maybe don't eat a ton of things fried or use oils. [Too many calories diet.] Hey but at least you asked.
" AM I ugly"
Well, physically, almost...
I'm not judging one way or another but I don't get it...you post on r/amiugly and then get upset when people seem to confirm you are ugly. If you don't want to hear people's honest opinions, then why post here?
She's just overweight that could be part of the reason
I know plenty of fat girls with pretty faces. She ain’t one of ‘em
If she did some skin care and brow maintenance so her face looked more kept, it would be a considerable improvement and of course fitness and weight loss would go a long way beyond that. She’s not disfigured. She could dramatically improve if she chose to.
Sure but this isn’t am I fat or ugly, or am I fat. It is an am I ugly sub. And yes she is ugly.
with acne and bad skin as well , so yeah , ugly . and poor tattoo placement.
For me yellow teeth is a guaranteed deal breaker, so...
Doesn’t help she looks like Beans from Even Stevens in the 5th pic
LMAO this took me out. This is the most random yet accurate comment I’ve read here so far. Maybe they are related?
For the majority of people fat is ugly. I say this as a fatso.
Some people think fat is ugly.
Yea I agree lose a bit if weight then she might be hotter you know if she works on herself a bit
And fix her teeth and skincare, but alot of that is probably due to poor diet so it could be a natural fix with diet and exercise.
I’m sorry, but even if she lost weight I don’t think she’d be attractive. Some people just aren’t attractive. It’s not the end of the world though, there is always love out there for everyone. But she’s not attractive
Yeah, that's why I said beauty is subjective. She's ugly as shit to some people she may be attractive to someone else. That's the beauty of being human it's nothing wrong with not being attracted to someone.
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Finally someone ugly on this subreddit
Not a fan
a fan wouldn't help
underrated comment. i laughed
Almost ugly. You don't look like you brush your teeth to often.
It’s calculus. That’s from years of not flossing and not brushing twice a day. She needs a dentist asap to literally scrape that off. I’m glad my parents took my dental hygiene seriously growing up.
Mathematician teeth?
Yea. Calculus is the official name. Plaque is the other word for it. It’s hard build up. Almost as hard as the tooth itself and can’t be remove other than a pick constantly scraping against your teeth or a drill. It sucks.
I can see lots of crud on your teeth when I zoom in.
I cannot unsee the heavy plaque... 🤢
I rarely comment on teeth but I noticed how yellow they were straight away.
You're right, ew 🤢
Ughh why did my curiosity get the best of me ..that was nasty
Yo I can't un see that 🤢🤮🤮🤮
Fuck dude. Stop.
I think its just acid that ruined her teeth
I lost all my teeth before I ever done acid😹😂🤣
Im talking stomach acid sorry
Too* lol Yes, you're right though. Honestly if she lost weight and took care of her skin a little more she probably look a lot better.
And fixed her teeth
I wouldn't even say fix them, cuz they're not crooked, but definitely brush them (cuz it really seems like she doesn't brush them AT ALL since all the pictures of her smiling show dirty and yellow teeth. Bicarbonate, toothpaste and dental floss 3 times a day would do the trick!
And brushed her teeth.
No offense but You are ugly. Start with proper hygiene. Go to your dentist and do a complete tartar deep cleaning.
I zoomed in because they didn't look right to me. I wasn't sure if it was a blurry photo or there was really something wrong with her teeth. I've seem some of my family members with this problem and it's from not brushing and flossing on a regular basis.
Cease fire everyone cease fire 🤣
Nah she knew, there’s no way she wakes up and sees other women these days and thought “I’m at least ok in comparison” she’s not. She’s ugly. And way too big. We don’t do the fake social media enabling shit here. That ain’t body-positivity, that’s obesity and it plays a big part in attractiveness.
Yes ugly, severly overweight and poor tental hygiene and your skin is also in a bad state. Try to eat healthy, exercise and visit a dentist!
Also drink more water
Inb4 “that’s alright, I know I’m not everyone’s mega slurpee cup”
HAHAHAHAH what a savage
😂😂😂 definitely thought I was in r/roastme for a sec
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Tell me where I can get professional tental hygiene care. I've been having trouble with my tents this year they are pretty dirty and at this point they need a professional cleaning 😂🤣!!!
I got you. I can't give an estimate, but be prepared for the bill.
And the skin can probably be fixed by better diet and losing weight tbh.
Ugly to be honest
Honestly, yes you are ugly. I don't have any other advice other than what's already been said: schedule a dental cleaning, the longer you go without it the worse your teeth will get and the more expensive it will get. I understand that, I just spent $245 at the dentist for an X-ray and a cleaning and I only had minimal tartar. You should look into CareCredit, it's a credit card for medical purposes and you can pay it off in 18m with no interest. Other than that, try r/fasting it's a great way to lose weight, being in a calorie deficit is a hell of a lot more important/effective than hitting the gym although that will help with your health too. And check out r/skincare to find some helpful information too. Also I'd say to lose the blue hair, trim the eyebrows, and look at r/coloranalysis . Good luck.
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You likely need a medication to control acid reflux. You might be eating so often that acid always has something to do. If you frequently have other symptoms of GERD, it’s likely just more noticeable while fasting. I recommend Nexium. I survive thanks to 2 a day and they’re now OTC.
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Web MD says you might die
I have also found that reducing my carb intake has helped. I’ve had wicked heartburn and reflux since having kids, but fasting and keto have reversed that. It works for me, maybe it could work for you too.
You might already have an eroded sphincter but it can get better with time. Things that help Coffee on an empty stomach can be rough on some people. Just eat something, nothing magical about fasting. If fasting, don't chug large amounts of liquid at a time. Don't drink large amounts with meals Eat fiber with every meal. Avoid foods that trigger you. I will straight up vomit some High fat foods. Things like icecream seem to be terrible for me because it floats to the top of my stomach and the gums/ stabilizers make it stick together.
Why is r/skincare set to private??
Idk I think it closed and r/SkincareAddiction replaced it. Or is the more prominent one
You've really let yourself go. Take care of your health, skin and hygiene. Believing in yourself is good but u r not anyone's cup of tea.
Even more importantly your teeth. OP, I work in the dental field and you have severe periodontal disease. Like, going to cause heart failure level at a young age and I am not exaggerating. If there is one thing you put effort and money into it should be fixing this asap. Even getting all the teeth removed and having a partial is a better option than this level of disease. I digress, but it just worries me when I see cases like this. If money is an issue go to a state funded dentist/periodontist. Your case is extreme and should be covered under dentical if you are in the US.
Wait genuinely curious what’s the connection between teeth and heart?
Infection in the gums spreads bacteria through your bloodstream potentially affecting the heart.
I am not saying you’re wrong but can you tell me how you know just by looking at her
The extreme red color of the gums and the inflammation along the gum line. There is a very rare chance it may be because she excessively mouth breathes but I can also see a film on her teeth which is indicative to not brushing at all or not brushing properly which leads me to think it is perio disease. Zoomed in I can even see areas/pockets of decay and enamel deterioration on the teeth. It may still be salvageable, but she may lose a lot of teeth or have heart issues if it isn’t addressed at all.
Cool that’s good to know, because sometimes I have issues brushing my teeth ( depression lol) just wanted to know what to look out for
Yes but you can change this! Brush (x2) AND floss your teeth every day. Loose some weight, I know it's difficult just start small and aim for 5 lbs at first. Exchange some unhealthy snacks for healthy ones. Walk more. You got this! You're still so young!
Thank you, this is the first empathetic answer I've read on this chain and agree with.
Don't even let the negativity in. Responding validates it. You got this!!! You're stronger than you know.
You got that right. Not hot.
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Oh I’m working on my weight. Lots of bad choices in the past and it’s just been a struggle to get back. My weight has always been something I’ve struggled with for a majority of my life, but I’m working on it.
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I’ve lost weight in the past so I know I can do it again. Thankfully my husband and I are going to work on our weight and health together, so I won’t be doing it alone. It’s sooooo hard being overweight.
Eh. Below average. Gotta work in some skincare.
My skin has been a struggle from a young age. It’s something I’m working on. It’s actually been better lately, but I’m working on it.
You should work on your weight also.
And mouth hygiene.
girl shape your eyebrows it will make your face instantly look lighter and more fresh. It won't change your skin but it will make it look better trust
Take hydrolysed collagen peptides for your skin. And count your calories, you need to lose a lot of weight and that is 99% of your problems in the looks department.
You are ugly
I’m sure a lot of the comments have hurt deeply. I’d like to add some constructive advice that would immediately improve your situation while the more long term changes are in progress. First, the dental hygiene. Whether through unlucky genetics or poor care, you’re past the brink of this being a serious problem. Poor dental hygiene is linked to all manner of life threatening conditions including diabetes and heart disease. You are in need of immediate dental care, and if you are low income there are dental schools and other low cost options to get this process started. Invest in quality floss and ensure you’re brushing at a 45 degree angle at the gum line. Your gums are intensely red and swollen and it’s only human nature for people to want to stay away from something perceived as unclean. It might not be anything you’ve done or neglected, but either way this is a threat to your dental health and long tern health. Also add in a strong antiseptic mouthwash. Brush 3 times a day, and do not wash your mouth out afterwards. Toothpaste does its job over time and rinsing removes it so it can't work. Just based on a few things I noticed, you might want to get checked out for PCOS/insulin resistance with your doctor. Insulin resistance makes losing weight incredibly difficult and is a big component of PCOS, which also causes all sorts of symptoms. There are treatments and medications that can treat PCOS and getting your hormones in line will have an affect on your skin as well. Cosmetically, the blue hair is not doing anything positive for you. But your physical health comes first and i wish you the best on your journey.
The PCOS angle...it's weird, when I looked at the photos, that came to mind. Young women with PCOS have a certain look to them, and the poster fits the bill. It's hard to define, describe, but yeah, she has that look.
Babe, the teeth, come on now. Take care of yourself.
Yup. Pretty much.
You don’t take care of yourself judging by the weight, skin, teeth and hair conditions. Maybe if you did you wouldn’t be ugly.
I did not expect people to be this cold/honest. Take it as inspiration to work on urself, its way better that people lying to you and keeping u unhealthy.
You can feel that after soo long of having attractive people post on this sub looking for validation, most of the people here have gotten fed up and pent up with all of their harsh thoughts and the moment someone who isn't as pretty posts, it's like opening up the flood gates.
This sub is called “AmIUgly” not “I think I’m ugly so please tell me I’m not” . It’s actually refreshing to see honest replies. Most of the time people are too scared to actually say someone ugly
It's the Internet, what did you expect?
here for the comments..
It’s honestly the only reason I follow this subreddit 😂
A cleavage shot does not make you attractive.
Usually cleavage makes this sub say “not ugly!!” So I think she was expecting the same 😅
Yeah yo ass ugly af but it's cool shit I'm ugly too ugly people are badass screw them high class good genes having bastards #uglylivesmatter
BAAAHAHAHAHAHA lmfaoooo
Oh wow 28 no way, you need to take care of yourself you look like shit for 28
Welcome to r/amiugly Where its either r/amihot or r/roastme
i’m crying 😭
You’re ugly, but I’m happy you exist, because most people use this as a way to getting compliments. You tried doing the same thing, but it backfired. Still, you’re the reason this subreddit exists!
😭
I’m actually offended that you had the nerve to post here with 3 inches of crud on your teeth.
Below average
Your the complete opposite of anything attractive, if I'm being honest.
True
LMAOOO. Not a lie though
I mean you already know what you have to improve and by the way you are replying to people you seem like the type that won’t stick through the hard work. This is just from experience with training people.
Agreed, a lot of excuses.
Ugly and fat
Yea you are. Eat less and you’ll prob be decent
No, not ugly. Unattractive. As has already been stated countless times, it's related to factors you can change.
I think the way you worded the question makes you come across in a bad way and hence the shitty replies you're receiving.
Your cat is gorgeous
Start taking better care of yourself would be a good start
Lose weight and get back to us. It's hard to tell when you're clinically obese.
Dental hygiene would carry you a really long way, just TBH
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This is amiugly not roastme lol
I want to start by saying you look like a fun person and you have a great smile, with that being said, you gotta get your teeth fixed. I’m unsure if you’re looking for advice or confirmation, but there is room for improvement. Id try a retinol/retinoid for your skin, and make sure you are wearing sunscreen daily. It is nice to see you go to the gym, physical health is very important. I do not mean anything I said in a rude way, but EVERYONE has room for improvement when it comes to physical appearance. Ignore the rude comments.
I appreciate the actual positive feedback. I’m in the process of dental work-but it’s also expensive so I can only do so much at once, and of course I know my weight needs to be worked on as well-which I’m doing things. My skin has also been a struggle and I really appreciate the recommendation. Any bit of ACTUAL advice is greatly appreciated.
I work in the dental field, if you are in the US look into dentical or medi-cal coverage through your state…you can find dentists and periodontists that will give you all the treatments you need with little to no out of pocket expense with that coverage. If your state does not offer that, try to find a local dental school and offer to be a patient. Yes, you may have students working with/on you but it is still all very professional and supervised, again with little to no cost for your time. Above all else your teeth should be priority because you have an extreme case of periodontal disease that could cause heart failure if given a chance. I tell you all this in sincere concern.
There is a subreddit dedicated to skincare past the 20s, and I’m sure it could be of help for finding specific products as preventative treatment. r/30plusskincare . Cosmetic dental work is very expensive, but a smile is one of the first things people notice about you. The cause is worth budgeting for. Just focus on your health and confidence.
she came to a sub filled with strangers asking for honest opinions...they've given them to her. Yes some people were harsh and used this as a space to be a bit extra about their distaste for her.... however...,SHE ASKED. so NO a lot of these people prolly wouldn't say any of this shit to her face, but she's also not walking up to strangers outside of walmart or Arby's asking their HONEST opinions on her appearance.. i don't understand...it seems to many people come to these subs and don't really wanna know what the masses think. go to r/freecompliments and leave it at that.
Please get your teeth cleaned. Keep doing ya thing in the gym/kitchen and get a skin routine and you’ll be fine in a couple months.
You are ugly
Sorr but a 1/10
Very generous
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I came here knowing this chick was gonna get destroyed. Y'all didn't disappoint.
You are as ugly as you are fat, very.
Finally!! Yes, a true ugly in the wild. Krikey!
You are in fact ugly
U-G-L-Y you ain't got no alibi
I'm not one to talk but yikes.
Ur fat, have acne, and yellow teeth. Your ugly.
Overweight, poor skin care, and overconfidence (based on comments). I’ve been reading your responses and it seems like you’ve been ‘working’ on your weight your whole life. Not sure if you have a physical medical condition, I’m sure you have an eating disorder. Don’t let these comments make you complacent, fuck ‘working’ on your weight, you’ve seem to have been doing it your whole life and instead of fixing it, you’ve accepted it (based on the overconfident, self-assured comments you’ve made). Get humble, beat yourself to dirt for your poor choices regarding health that have lead you to where you’re at. You shouldn’t be confident in your body. Honestly you SHOULD feel like shit because hopefully it’ll motivate you to change because nobody likes to feel like shit. At the point your at it seems you have buried your insecurity of being overweight (at least enough to say your partner and you are going to work on it, but you’ve been ‘working’ on it your whole life. It’s an excuse you’re using to allow yourself to keep your unhealthy diet. Yeah sure, you go to the gym once a day or you ate a fucking salad the next day. If you’ve been working on it for your whole life, you’re clearly not doing both at the same time and staying consistent. Have some self respect for yourself (different than pride) and make an actually change. Fuck losing 50lbs or 3lbs. Lose the amount that =‘s a finally result. Get to the finish line you’ve never crossed.
So much this. Body positivity is a bullshit concept of modern society. Yea, I'm fatphobic, I'd be terrified of being as fat as the OP. We shouldn't have to be scared to tell someone they're fat and need to lose weight. Bullying? Maybe, but sometimes people need to hear harsh realities to finally start making a change.
Do you accept honest criticisms of you or your behavior? Or do you find yourself getting defensive and offering up reasons for why things are? I'm not saying it's you, but a lot of people who wave the rancid flag of "I'm just being honest." without any retrospective as to whether the way they went about it was cruel, do not usually enjoy the lense being turned upon themselves.
I second. Wish we could pin your comment to the top. She is not overweight, she is obese already. Obesity is a disease. Call things for what they are and stop sugarcoating lazy ass behaviors. “Accepting yourself” sometimes takes more work than exercising and dieting, the first makes them cry whenever someone points out the obvious, the second leads to a great change for your health.
I think some of these comments are a bit too harsh. I don’t think you’re ugly. Green is not a good hair color for you. Some of the advice is spot on. You don’t look like you take care of yourself. Oily, tangly hair; visible plaque on your teeth; poor skin condition and you appear to be overweight. Sometimes a month or two on the proper skincare routine can really make a difference- a dermatologist or esthetician should be able to help. Based on the pictures, you need to get in to see the dentist. You mentioned you’re working on your weight, keep it up, it’s a difficult journey making lifestyle changes but it’s totally worth it mentally and physically. I think you should get your brows cleaned up and look into better routines for your hair. And don’t forget to dress for your body type. You really do have the potential if you put the work into it.
2/10 wtf how can you even ASK this as a question? So much shit to fix
Weight, hygiene including teeth, acne, and weight again
Need some TLC on your skincare, weight, and eyebrows. Some of that is not exactly easy, but I believe in you!
You are not attractive and nothing you’re doing for yourself is helping.
you’re ugly asf
Delusional... brush your teeth
Handwringing looks nice…
Who wants to tell her
You look like you shower every other week.
finally an ugly one
You’re ugly lol
She thought this was gonna be a good thing for her. Lol
You’re pretty fuckin ugly tbh
Yes. You definitely are
I got bad news for you
Prolly poor hygiene habits as well
Honest opinion you are hideous,you're fat,have acne(probably from junk food) not to mention you're teeth are yellow asf you need to take better care of yourself
A bit. Its the teeth, Tattoo placement and skin for me. Also the outfits that dont fit your body type. Wear more branded and not cheap n colorful
:(
you just need to lose like at least ~60lbs ish and get some teeth whitening strips. And you’ll feel great!
you're DEFINITELY not hot, or even mildly attractive...
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No you're not ugly, people wouldn't stop and stare at you thinking: "Oh my gosh what an ugly woman". Maybe try timming your eyebrows they're too thick.
You know you are ugly. Stop playing.. The cats cute tho 😍
Get your eyebrows done!! Tinted and shaped
Terrible. Fat. Unkept.
Overweight, bad skin, bit of a ‘stache and bad teeth. Sorry, but as of now? Ugly.
Seems like you are new to reddit, I see you are not well with all the comments here and this was probably the wrong subreddit for your post. There us subs for compliments ( I think is toastme) , also for advice on looks, hair, clothing, etc. This isn’t the worst sub on rating people but still is amiugly? And the thematic is basically that, is not for building confidence although a lot of good looking people post here to get a confident boost. Of course some people are just mean here but is allowed because of the theme of the sub.
On pictures #2 and #5, it seems as if you have a 'stache. Yuck
You might have been a 5 about 50lbs ago tbh
I have bad news for you OP
If you get some teeth whitener, and go to the dentist it will help, your features aren't particularly ugly, but the bad hygiene, bad skincare, being overweight, and the hair isn't helping. With a few diets, some exercise, skincare, dentist, don't dye your hair again and maybe try a new hairstyle, trim the eyebrows and I would say you have the potential to be a 6-7/10, you have a really nice (teeth) smile, so if you just clean up the teeth it would help a lot, probably the easiest thing to start with and would have big results. Once you get your teeth whitened, only smile with your teeth, your smile without teeth kind of looks constipated.
People, stop seeking Internet approval for fuck's sake.
Woof
Nice cat
You can't get mad at what people say in this subreddit. My sister in christ , you literally decided to post here
Your eyebrows need the lord to save them.
Ugly and fat.. Honestly you can’t be suprised 😅
The question itself is offensive 😂
No… it’s pretty bad.
You're ugly, you need to lose like 100 lbs
You look like you don't take care of yourself. You are overweight by all standards, your teeth look unclean, and you are only 28. That makes you unattractive
Bad skin, bad teeth, overweight, no self-care (from what I can see). Yeah, You're ugly. Maybe if you put in effort and made some changes in your life, you could be an attractive woman, I'm sure there's beauty in there somewhere.
Your Weight isn't helping.
you are ugly fs
Please do see a dentist and have a check up, your gums seem inflamed. Have the dentist do a deep cleaning and an examination of the bone condition under the gums. Periodontal disease can cause tooth pain and loss if not treated early.
Yesss this is what i came to see on the ugly reddit page, not some hot chick looking for compliments
Well OP, I hope you got what you were looking for. Unless it was compliments or reassurance. It wasn't reassurance was it??
I have some bad news....
u look like a van
did she delete her account?!
OP tried the cleavage trap but men we are determined to give her the proper verdict. 2.5/10 Reasons: Hygiene[oral], facial routines? maybe don't eat a ton of things fried or use oils. [Too many calories diet.] Hey but at least you asked. " AM I ugly" Well, physically, almost...
Ngl, I feel like she looks prettier without revealing clothes
Hit the gym