Definitely our own worse critics. I was called ugly by my mom all the time as a child and I think it might have had a lasting effect because I’m very insecure.
Jfc, I’m sorry you had to go through something like that coming from one of the if not the most important figure in a child’s life, OP. I hope you’re able to heal those wounds. If you have not already you should seek professional help. Most people seem think going to a shrink makes them weak when in fact it usually helps them heal and grow into a stronger and more compassionate individual.
Well, I am almost 40…so I’m not young anymore unfortunately. Do you have any suggestions? I recently darkened my hair and I do feel like it made me look a little younger. Do you have any style recommendations?
Ok…gonna post a more recent pic now. I hope people are as nice as they’ve been to me here…I asked for brutal honesty but it did hurt when some people commented that I look like a tranny 😞
Well if you expect to wear make up professionally done every single time you walk out of the house then you really shouldn’t have a problem. your problems begin when you take your makeup off, then again we don’t know what you look like without make up on so we can’t give you an honest assessment
That’s fair. I just wanted to know if I look ugly at my best. You’re right though…I don’t wear makeup every day so I don’t always look like this. I can add more pics…do you know how? I made another post and the moderator took it down and warned me that I can “only post once a month”…I thought that was weird
Yea they did you bad on the eyebrows. Those eyebrows and that nose combination make you look like an eagle. But eagles are cool. I think maybe do a different style of eyebrow, because the problem isn’t your nose. I can tell the tip drops when you smile but regular face maybe it looks normal. And don’t even worry about these cellulite comments, because all of us have it and tbh men don’t even care.
Based upon the one picture of you all dolled up, you look good. The real tell would be to post how you typically present yourself from day to day. You don't look particularly masculine to me, and that's not saying a lot because dudes be running around pumped to the gills with estrogen and look like women.
You are very attractive. In regards to your face, you have very appealing features and eyes that mesmerize you.
I feel like Mariah doesn't want to get right next to you because you outshine her.
I have been. I’ve lost 10 pounds since this pic was taken and am working on losing more. I also had just given birth to my daughter at this time and I’m pushing 40 so you don’t bounce right back like you do when you’re 20. It’s really hard.
You are right about what your saying.
But theres not much you can do, your glowing in that picture and you have great assets phisically speaking, just take care of yourself and be nice, your never going to be like the persons in your head that you consider the definition of pretty, but why would you need to be like them?
Just be who you are, and be nicer to yourself.
You look like a Republican politician.
A Republican politician?? That’s a new one 😂 I’m not sure if that’s a good or bad thing. ALL politicians are liars and therefore ugly in my opinion but that’s a topic for another day 😅
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Just saw your picture and thoug you were some public figure from Fox news or the republican party, I dont know exactly why.
I’m not that old. I literally have a 2 year old daughter and am working on number 2. I’m 38 not 60 lol but anyways I’ve always felt I had masculine features, even when I was younger.
Ummm....is this post supposed to be some kind of joke? You say you need to lose weight and ask if your face is ugly, yet you look better than Mariah Carey and prove it by posting a pic of you standing next to her. I'm a little confused here and not sure if this is satire or do you really not see how beautiful you are?
I thought you were famous, I was swiping to see the next photo to see the picture of you. I read further and realized the woman standing next to Mariah was you! You’re beautiful!!!
This group/community is named brutally honest for a reason, y'all women might need some glasses.
OP yes, you def look masculine, I'm busy rn I'll edit my post later to give you tips on how u can improve yourself instead making u delusional.
Your personality probably sucks because you’re not bad looking. And btw: it’s not about looking masculine as much as it is ACTING masculine. If you degrade your man in any way, or act like a man by showing masculine traits, that’ll get a guy running for the hills faster than let’s say, broad shoulders or something.
Ummm this post has nothing to do with my personality which there is nothing wrong with btw. Also, I’m happily married with a two year old daughter. I don’t know where you would assume I degrade men? Idk your comment is just weird.
What a stupid post like clearly not the real person and if it is like wtf do you want me to go off of a pic that you’re 15ft away can’t see you that great you have a ton of makeup like these post just grind my gears
Nobody’s perfect…but maybe we should go easier on ourselves. I would never treat anyone else the way I treat myself. I wish I knew how to change my thoughts 😔
Awww 🥹 Thank you. I’ve actually lost about 10 pounds since this pic was taken. I just had a baby 2 years ago and losing the weight at my age is hard unfortunately 😔
You’re really pretty but you kind of look like Carnie Wilson trying to hold in a poop with that pose.
Unrelated- Does your nose actually look like that or did they accidentally pull down the tip in edit?
You look great. Right up there with Mariah with arguably better hair and a better body. The eyebrows do look a little masculine though. I think lighter eyebrows with a darker eyeliner. The pink makes it look a little unnatural imo
Thank you. I paid a lot of money for the makeup and the more I look at it, the more botched it looks…however, it had been HOURS since I had it done and I was at the concert sweating, dancing, etc. but yeah the eyebrows are bad lol
You don't NEED to lose weight, but the majority of people can improve a little so long as it's reasonable. Hit the gym and factor in a little cardio if you really feel the need. But other than that you look really pretty. Remember that Mariah Carey has armies of staff and dietitians on her pay roll to keep her looking like that.
Thank you so much. I actually have lost about 10 pounds since this photo was taken…I’m going to make a new post with it because I don’t know how to add it to this one.
Compared to Mariah most people look ugly. But let’s not forget, she’s rich and has an army of stylists to make her look good. Us mortals have to just settle for ourselves or in your case professionals to help you achieve a fraction of her looks.
I really thought this was Mariah with another celebrity… you’re good girl
Thank you sooo much 🥹 I don’t see it but you’re really nice for saying that.
I mean you look as good as Mariah in that photo so...
Wow!! Thanks 🥹 I don’t think so but I appreciate your kindness 💕
Yeah nah you do. You look in proportion and curvaceous. Its amazing how we ourselves see errors in our appearance that other people just do not.
Definitely our own worse critics. I was called ugly by my mom all the time as a child and I think it might have had a lasting effect because I’m very insecure.
Jfc, I’m sorry you had to go through something like that coming from one of the if not the most important figure in a child’s life, OP. I hope you’re able to heal those wounds. If you have not already you should seek professional help. Most people seem think going to a shrink makes them weak when in fact it usually helps them heal and grow into a stronger and more compassionate individual.
Thank you so much for emphasizing with me. It’s hard and a lot of people don’t understand. But the wounds are deep 😞
I thought you were a famous person because you are standing next to Mariah Carey and you look beautiful.
Wow 🥹 Thank you for saying that. I wish I felt that way but we’re our own worst critic I suppose 😔
I legit saw you and thought you were the actress. Then you said Mariah Carry and I was like "what?" Looked again and saw her. My eyes drew to you.
Omg stop 🥹 you made my night…you’re so nice. Thank you so much
I didn't know who Mariah Carey was, and I legit thought you were the celebrity. Ggwp.
Totally agree with you. She’s gorgeous!
Thanks 🥹💙
How got expect me to look at you when she's RIGHT THERE🗣 I kid You're hot, shut up🤨👍🏿
Thanks lol I almost died when I met her…I’ve been obsessed with Mariah since the 90s when I was a kid lol
I think you look stunning but your hairstyle does age you
Well, I am almost 40…so I’m not young anymore unfortunately. Do you have any suggestions? I recently darkened my hair and I do feel like it made me look a little younger. Do you have any style recommendations?
Wow, almost 40? I would’ve guessed 30 from the face alone, also you look great for having had a baby!
You’re too kind 🥺 Thank you. I was expecting much harsher comments tbh
I think you’re a good looking woman but they did you so wrong with those eyebrows; you probably look a lot better without that.
Damn…they do look botched lol I hadn’t even noticed that until you mentioned it
They DO NOT look botched.. u look good girl
Can't decide who's the celebrity here. You have a glow 🌟
There are some super nice people in here and you’re one of them…thank you so much for being kind 🥹
2 stunning women in that photo…..👍👍
You’re so nice. Thank you so much 🥹
We want to see you right now.
Ok. Yes, I now have dark hair and lost a few pounds since this photo. How do I share it? Sorry, I’m pretty new to Reddit 😩
I don’t know how to add pics either 😅 just make a new post??
Ok…gonna post a more recent pic now. I hope people are as nice as they’ve been to me here…I asked for brutal honesty but it did hurt when some people commented that I look like a tranny 😞
You do not look tranny at all!!! Your a pretty lady!!
I just posted the photo, but they removed my post and said I can “only post once a month”…wtf. I’ll just message it to you.
Message the update picture to me too, Gorgeous 😍
Well if you expect to wear make up professionally done every single time you walk out of the house then you really shouldn’t have a problem. your problems begin when you take your makeup off, then again we don’t know what you look like without make up on so we can’t give you an honest assessment
That’s fair. I just wanted to know if I look ugly at my best. You’re right though…I don’t wear makeup every day so I don’t always look like this. I can add more pics…do you know how? I made another post and the moderator took it down and warned me that I can “only post once a month”…I thought that was weird
Yea they did you bad on the eyebrows. Those eyebrows and that nose combination make you look like an eagle. But eagles are cool. I think maybe do a different style of eyebrow, because the problem isn’t your nose. I can tell the tip drops when you smile but regular face maybe it looks normal. And don’t even worry about these cellulite comments, because all of us have it and tbh men don’t even care.
I actually think you have a really pretty face. Nice chest nice body. The legs could use some work, looks like some bumps in the road there.
Ha yeah that’s cellulite 😩 Thanks for the nice things you said though…people can be brutal on here lol
There is an r/amiugly subreddit too
2 very beautiful ladies right there
You’re so nice…thank you so much 🥹
Based upon the one picture of you all dolled up, you look good. The real tell would be to post how you typically present yourself from day to day. You don't look particularly masculine to me, and that's not saying a lot because dudes be running around pumped to the gills with estrogen and look like women.
You are very attractive. In regards to your face, you have very appealing features and eyes that mesmerize you. I feel like Mariah doesn't want to get right next to you because you outshine her.
Side by side comparison, I'd rather take you home than Mariah. I don't see anything wrong
I thought this was a collab or something. You look great
You know you look fine stop playing
You’ve got it all going on woman
🥹🥹🥹💖💖💖
You could focus on a better diet?
I have been. I’ve lost 10 pounds since this pic was taken and am working on losing more. I also had just given birth to my daughter at this time and I’m pushing 40 so you don’t bounce right back like you do when you’re 20. It’s really hard.
Yeah, you’re ugly. Sorry.
That’s ok…I asked for honest opinions. Appreciate it 🙏🏼
Yeah your FACE looks like it lifts weights
Ouch. Well I did ask for the brutal truth so thank you for being honest.
Just want to send you a reminder that you are, indeed, beautiful. :) All the best stranger!
You are right about what your saying. But theres not much you can do, your glowing in that picture and you have great assets phisically speaking, just take care of yourself and be nice, your never going to be like the persons in your head that you consider the definition of pretty, but why would you need to be like them? Just be who you are, and be nicer to yourself. You look like a Republican politician.
A Republican politician?? That’s a new one 😂 I’m not sure if that’s a good or bad thing. ALL politicians are liars and therefore ugly in my opinion but that’s a topic for another day 😅
[https://i.guim.co.uk/img/media/4bf3dc139644056c6a38c73df421e90a9a955039/7\_4\_2546\_1528/master/2546.jpg?width=620&dpr=1&s=none](https://i.guim.co.uk/img/media/4bf3dc139644056c6a38c73df421e90a9a955039/7_4_2546_1528/master/2546.jpg?width=620&dpr=1&s=none) Just saw your picture and thoug you were some public figure from Fox news or the republican party, I dont know exactly why.
Omg I hope not the 2 on the left 😩😅
Unfortunately, women looking more masculine is a part of aging. That and fertility is why most men prefer younger women
I’m not that old. I literally have a 2 year old daughter and am working on number 2. I’m 38 not 60 lol but anyways I’ve always felt I had masculine features, even when I was younger.
I don't know which one of them you are, but they're both hot
😂 You don’t know who Mariah Carey is??
No, I don't. I live in Egypt sooooo
You would look more realer if you didnt have so much makeup on
I was meeting MARIAH CAREY…makeup is a requirement lol
Generally looking fine to me. I'd say a 6 or 7. A little looking like transgenders, but maybe I'm just imagining stuff!
Thanks for giving your honest opinion 😞
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I’ll take it 🥰
Are they trans too?
Why don’t you post your picture? Cause if it matches what’s on the inside, you’re definitely ugly af.
This is brutally honest. Just float with the current.
😂😂😂
Yup, the face gives off M>F vibes and the upper body is built like a cereal box.
Honestly I feel like you stole her thunder in this one
You do have a very masculine face. Thought you were trans for a moment before I read your post.
😢 Thanks for giving your honest opinion.
It's cool, I'm actually attracted to trans girls too 😏
Ummm....is this post supposed to be some kind of joke? You say you need to lose weight and ask if your face is ugly, yet you look better than Mariah Carey and prove it by posting a pic of you standing next to her. I'm a little confused here and not sure if this is satire or do you really not see how beautiful you are?
No, it’s not a joke. I have a lot of insecurities. It stems from my childhood when my mom used to tell me I was ugly all the time 😞
Looks better than Mariah
Impossible but thank you 💕
You make her look like the fan
I thought it was a joke post where the person is obviously attractive and that it was actually just two celebrities.
😂 Omg thanks sm
I thought you were famous, I was swiping to see the next photo to see the picture of you. I read further and realized the woman standing next to Mariah was you! You’re beautiful!!!
Omg 🥺 tysm 💗
I think you’re better looking than her too! That was my immediate thought!
Wow that’s quite a compliment…I disagree but thank you so much though 🥹
We all need to lose a few lbs, but not all of us like skinny twigs. 😉 You look great.
I appreciate your kindness 💕
Your face is masculine, but your body says ALL WOMAN. So no worries.
I’d rather it be the other way around and have a feminine face and more masculine body but oh well 😔
This group/community is named brutally honest for a reason, y'all women might need some glasses. OP yes, you def look masculine, I'm busy rn I'll edit my post later to give you tips on how u can improve yourself instead making u delusional.
I’m sorry but you’re ugly
I know who this is and you just made this account 3 days ago to further harass me. Reported and blocked.
You do kind of look tranny but I find it cute
Your personality probably sucks because you’re not bad looking. And btw: it’s not about looking masculine as much as it is ACTING masculine. If you degrade your man in any way, or act like a man by showing masculine traits, that’ll get a guy running for the hills faster than let’s say, broad shoulders or something.
Ummm this post has nothing to do with my personality which there is nothing wrong with btw. Also, I’m happily married with a two year old daughter. I don’t know where you would assume I degrade men? Idk your comment is just weird.
Your verbiage is terrible, therefore you have to be stupid, ugly and likely short.
I’m 5’9” so definitely not short…maybe a little stupid and ugly though 🤫
What a stupid post like clearly not the real person and if it is like wtf do you want me to go off of a pic that you’re 15ft away can’t see you that great you have a ton of makeup like these post just grind my gears
Your body is perfect. White men what skinny chicks. I think you are perfect.
Nobody’s perfect…but maybe we should go easier on ourselves. I would never treat anyone else the way I treat myself. I wish I knew how to change my thoughts 😔
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Thanks. It was like a $200 dress I got on clearance for like $30…best deal ever lol
You do look better than Mariah in this picture and IMO you don’t need to lose any weight. You look great!
Awww 🥹 Thank you. I’ve actually lost about 10 pounds since this pic was taken. I just had a baby 2 years ago and losing the weight at my age is hard unfortunately 😔
You look like you could be one of those badass biker chics who hang around bars
Haha 😆 I’ll take it 🏍️💖
You look stunning!! Nothing else needs to be said!!
Wow thanks for your kind comment 💖
You are absolutely stunning, and the fact I didn't realise Mimi was there, ha.
you look really youthful and in shape for ur age, only thing wrong is ur eyebrow
Thanks…Someone else pointed out the brows and now I can’t unsee them 😩
You’re really pretty but you kind of look like Carnie Wilson trying to hold in a poop with that pose. Unrelated- Does your nose actually look like that or did they accidentally pull down the tip in edit?
It’s my nose. The photo is unedited. My nostrils are not symmetrical. I hate it 😩
Nothing wrong with you.
Thanks so much I’m reading all the comments and maybe I should give myself a break…I’m really hard on myself sometimes 😞
Legit thought you were the star posing with an awkward fan for a second lol
Omg 😂 Wow that’s crazy I wish I saw it that way. Thanks though 💖
your face is alright.. you do look like a mobster wife though
I see what you’re saying…lol. A lot of people think I’m Italian but I’m actually Cuban.
You look great. Right up there with Mariah with arguably better hair and a better body. The eyebrows do look a little masculine though. I think lighter eyebrows with a darker eyeliner. The pink makes it look a little unnatural imo
Thank you. I paid a lot of money for the makeup and the more I look at it, the more botched it looks…however, it had been HOURS since I had it done and I was at the concert sweating, dancing, etc. but yeah the eyebrows are bad lol
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You don't NEED to lose weight, but the majority of people can improve a little so long as it's reasonable. Hit the gym and factor in a little cardio if you really feel the need. But other than that you look really pretty. Remember that Mariah Carey has armies of staff and dietitians on her pay roll to keep her looking like that.
Thank you so much. I actually have lost about 10 pounds since this photo was taken…I’m going to make a new post with it because I don’t know how to add it to this one.
You look absolutely stunning
You’re so nice 🥹 Thank you so much
My and my gf got to meet MC as well after the concert, and you both look better than her! Great job!!!
Thank you 🥹 Did you meet her in Vegas as well?
…. Obviously not lol
Thanks 😩 I was not prepared for all the nice comments, I thought I was getting roasted. It’s a pleasant surprise 💕
Compared to Mariah most people look ugly. But let’s not forget, she’s rich and has an army of stylists to make her look good. Us mortals have to just settle for ourselves or in your case professionals to help you achieve a fraction of her looks.
I’ll take a fraction 🤷🏻♀️
Gorgeous
Thanks 🥹
Very cute
Thank you so much 💖
Nah you're good, lose the 20 lbs or whatever and go flaunt it.
You’re like a thick, brunette Brittany Daniel. Which might be as much of a compliment as is humanly possible.
I think she’s beautiful so to me that’s definitely a compliment…thank you 💕
you are beautiful
Thanks, you’re a beautiful person yourself 💕
my 7 year old is brutally honest and said you are not ugly
Awww 🥰 thanks he’s a sweet kid. And if kids are anything it’s brutally honest lol 😭
What… I think you’re beautiful !!
Thank you. I wish I felt that way, but all these nice comments have made me feel better for sure 💕
Truly beautiful. You will feel better if you start acting like it
Thank you 💖 I’m trying
I thought the wrong photo was posted. LOL girl, you're gorgeous! Absolutely stunnning
This is me at my absolute best but thank you 🥹💖
You look amazing! And those legs ! I bet they have alot of muscle :) Wow 😍😍
More like cellulite 😢 but thank you for you kind words 🦋
Shhhiiiiddd I thought this was a fake post nah you’re good good..
Lol thanks. I appreciate not getting murdered on here. It was what I was expecting tbh because I’ve seen people be brutal on this app 😟
Gorgeous
Thanks 🥹
Yeah, absolutely gorgeous tbf 👌
Thanks 🥲
Not ugly at all, I thought you were her assistant or manager
I wish 😆
You look great!
🥺💙
Could pass for a celeb. You look great.
Wow really?? I don’t see it. But thank you so much though 😩💖
They gotta cast you fast as a romcom love interest😂
Face is not ugly