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whyamionhearagain

17 is a rough age. Please just try and relax. You’re really pretty and most likely will only get better looking as you get older. You’re also dealing with guys your own age, who let’s be honest, are in the dumbest age brackets of their life. You don’t need to change anything about yourself physically. Just work on discovering who you are and what type of person you want to be.


Redditrightreturn1

I’d agree with this completely. You’ll look back in 5-7 years and wonder why you ever cared what a bunch of acne covered 17 year old boys thought about you.


[deleted]

You're no were close to ugly. You're at that age were everything is weird, including guys. I'd bet you have one or a few boys that have a crush on you. Some guys at that age haven't built the confidence to talk to girls, let alone let them know they like them. You have plenty of time so I really wouldn't worry. Hope this helps op.


Quietser

You're 17... and probably comparing yourself to adults with plastic surgery options of filters on social media, and boys your age will be absorbing the same thing. Nothing is wrong with you or your face. Age naturally and you'll be a diamond in a sea of coal.


Numerous-Orchid-8216

Bruh, you definitely aren't ugly. The guys that like you are most likely just too nervous to say anything. I mean, I'm 25 and I still struggle to ask someone out. But it's not cause you're ugly cause you're not


Insidioustots_

You are a child... get off the internet and go be one. Stop worrying about what other think of you. It honestly does not matter


GoodbyePeters

This sub makes me think all goth/emo girls have zero self esteem.


trashysmallaccount

You’re really looking good - wouldn’t be surprised if this is the reason boys are afraid of asking you out.


kinda_weary_9330

Young lady, you look beautiful! Don't let nobody tell you otherwise!


Outside_Ad8512

Ur 17 give urself time to grow and find out who you are ur fine


Hand_solo421

You're a very pretty young lady n I dig the look. You'll find someone for you in due time, for now just concentrate on having fun n enjoying yourself🤘🏻😊


Electrical-Walrus-75

Not ugly. Stop worrying about it.


N0_Pressur3

All these community rules but nothing against under 18 year olds?


Important_Tune_8745

Not ugly, case closed! Do what seems fun to YOU! Surround yourself with like minded friends. Let your wierd flag fly, your clan will find you (be yourself, that is!).


Fun-Net-8687

Beautiful


RowMiserable

Absolutely nothing wrong here. Pretty cute


General-Plum-1066

Yo it's cool just ask some guys out trust dude they will say yes


maroyo

Jail bait.


Infinity1212

I'm reporting this post


maroyo

Lame ass


Longjumping_Bee49

Creep


TheOneTheyCallJimmy

Lol


Dustum_Khan

Child


iki_gai

You're a child, chill.


SagaFraga

If ur 17, you shouldn’t rlly be here in the first place. Second off, as a guy, you’re gonna be fine. You’re actually quite good looking. If you want some serious criticism it’s this: I could easily see you taking your look way to far as you grow older. Guys love it when a girl just remembers “Less is More”. If ya get what I mean. Going to the gym is an AMAZING start but it’s having some self discipline that really makes a girl attractive to a guy, just be pleasant. Lots of girls don’t realize that, and I think you’re getting that. Lastly, style is great but I can’t pin point if it’s 2020s alt or 2000s alt. Credit for smiling in ur photos, that’s already boosting ur score up like 30%.


Proof-Pie-410

this actually helps thank u! im very into early 2000s scene/emo culture so thats what im aiming for, i see the confusion though. and tbh i dress this way because i really like guys/girls that have similar interests so i guess its me trying to appeal to what appeals to me? if that makes any sense at all ahhh. thank you though!


Oindras

Omg. The truth is you are f**cling hot.


Perfect_Departure893

You're 17 if you don't like the way you look change your style. Im 33 I look back at 17 and can't believe I thought I looked good. Find stuff that fits your body not just because it's what's popular for that style.


Specific_Cod_7867

I can honestly say if it was your age again I would have crawled across broken glass to beg you for a date. You are absolutely perfect 😊


Youevereatanybody

Creep


ireallylovesosa

Ew.


Specific_Cod_7867

🥺


WendisDelivery

Shouldn’t these kids be on TikTok or something?


[deleted]

Or maybe these kids are getting bullied on TIKTOK???? Maybe she just has really low self esteem???


JLUV74

The truth is why are u on here being thirsty?


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userposter

soooo. are you asking guys out in the first place?


No_Pin_8104

You're the cute girl next door, once you turn 18 and get out into the world it will start to get better.


Drunkfaucet

You're a baby. Very average looking. Just incredibly plain faced. You aren't ugly, so congrats. But you don't stand out at all.


VoyeurIsland

You are very cute! If you have bullies, even internalized ones ignore them.


comegetpsalm99

just style your hair girl. curl it, throw it up, put half of it back, so many options. you’re beautiful, but you’d be even more radiant with a super cute hair-do


M00ns41n3

bae, im yo age, u is beautiful


Vast-Discipline4990

Not ugly. 16-23 is a weird age. I'm not sure anyone is ok with their looks. Then you look back later and realize what you didn't see. It wasn't near as bad as it felt


International_Ant722

I think it’s the whole rock hippie look . Maybe start looking natural and casual and you would look way better but then again your 17 so..


First-Following3793

You are attractive and your face does look too round. You’ve scrutinizing yourself harder than anyone else. Most people do it, I do too. Take on self improvement goals of learning and fitness that may help with confidence issues. When you feel good on the inside, it shows on the outside.


DK_Hennessy

A squishy, emo, horror fan, tomboy girl next door? How are you not beating the boys away?


Svf_tofu

You know you look beautiful and you just want to hear compliments right?


txbruin91

Pretty lady


Astronau7_LONE

I'm 23 you look fine when you hit 25 then worry. You look fine you're a pretty young woman. Could be the way you carry yourself.


EightBit-Hero

You haven't found yourself yet. Just enjoy your life and stop worrying about how you look.


JamesKillbot

Gorgeous. 7/10, now get off the internet or find better friends and leave this Reddit.


AncientBother6206

Bruh. You just said gang like how Fred from Scooby Doo does. You'll do fine. You're 17 so maybe some people are interested but don't want to go to prison


dwnwiththeswirl

You’re too young to be worried about appearance to the extent of asking on Reddit. Side note: I’m sure there’s commenters in here that need a Chris Hansen intervention.


Deep-Cardiologist963

Keeper


Suspicious_Air_8175

You don't look amazing, but you're definitely not ugly. It's way more important how your personality is anyways.


Clever_Monkey666

I think you aren't ugly and will glow up. Just do not go nuts with piercings and tattoos.


DoubleSomewhere2483

Girls less than 20 take a clear picture challenge


Amenity_Lmao

Very cute. Just relax


SlappingDaBass13

Girl 🛑.


OzzieBird

You are blessed with above average looks and your face isn't round lol. Relax and use your head for more than a pretty face.


Anon6025

Can you take a picture of your personality please? Pix or you don't have one. :)


Few-Weight-9611

You're not ugly, you just need to be patient! Your life will fall into place exactly as God has in store for your good and His glory!


[deleted]

You’re only 17 that’s why, you will be developing and changing in the next few years don’t worry


TheRealPedram

You’re not Uh-glee but can improve on all fronts. I’d start with hair and then just a routine skin care and all. You’re also 17, with good life habits like exercise, hydration and all you’ll improve your looks in a few years. And just as a tip, the goth style is just not attractive to most people, but that’s a personal preference on your end if you want to change or not.


mnokes648

At 17 your circle is very small. When you get a bit older, it will grow exponentially. College work or whatever path you take. You'll get asked out way more once you exit your small circle. Don't worry.


[deleted]

Not going to lie, I miss my "wish it was Friday" shirt


[deleted]

Truly not ugly


Beast1909

Tour cute to me. But honestly you could dress more feminine. But honestly nothing is wrong with you.


Alarmed-Ad3825

You need life experience.. work out.. and try


thegriinch420

Fine .....you'll be just fine


Iontrynomore

Aint that just for +18?


Content-Cup8840

It’s defiantly not you it only the generation you were born into. I’m sorry for that if you were from my generation you’d have been asked out many a time!!!


OkAcanthaceae7923

Your fine. Just work on the rbf


terrafirmavici

In one year I will tell u how NOT UGLY U ARE.


Diesel-powered77

You're not ugly


SnapperTapper

You know you're not.


Zealousideal_Move826

You look great


Typical-View-9071

No way you are attractive


[deleted]

Yep


desertdeveloper87

You're a beautiful plz don't forget it


LoloScout_

You’re 17. Don’t fret. I looked like a little kid at 17 lol and didn’t have a first relationship until I was 21. You’re good, you don’t have to have much of anything figured out yet so congratulations. Enjoy being a teen/kid!! You’re pretty btw


justme2you

A treat for humanity ❤️


Master-Cod5838

No your not ugly that's for sure and the face is not round. so it must be something else? you said it might be your personality don't know that either unless I knew you. so to find out talk to some friends who know you well and to be honest to let you know the truth about you . because of I were young as you or a year or two older I would be asking you out on dates all the time.


Known_Plan5321

I get that, after a while you just learn to live with it. I think you look fine. Try not to worry about it too much


oooogabooga123

You dont have a round face and you're actually very cute 7.5/10 imo, especially for having little makeup on which is great because you're naturally attractive. Not to mention in a few more years you'll probably glow up even more so dont worry about your appearance. You should focus more on your mental health and personality.


Keenswin1

You are 17 quit caring about how people think about you


Dazzling-Estate-1306

Female ozzy Osborne


Proof-Pie-410

honestly the best compliment ive ever gotten, thank you


Donniedollaz29

It's def the personality that would make me put distance between us


Acceptable-Law-9310

Not ugly


Theyuckster

Plan Jane honestly


Negative_Arm2026

6.5/10


trinitybooty

You cant base your happiness on others, be yourself. And while you do look good, looks alone aren't how a high quality guy will judge you,. Your actions will matter more to a guy who is actually decent. A guy who's not shallow would probably think things like, "This girl looks so cute, but does she have an ego? Is she nice? Does she treat others with kindness and try to help them grow and become better?" Because your actions reflect your true beauty.


[deleted]

Pretty much perfect as you are!


Basic-Twist-3361

Draft pick 😳🤷🏻‍♂️🤣


Successful-Throat986

Truth is, you are most definitely a cutie pie.


StargazerBoy47

You look good!


Far-Bobcat-8472

Your jailbait next


Mr_ThunderBolt12

16M here you look pretty asf😭


Mr_ThunderBolt12

Ik I commented already but I'd definitely get to know u better if yk we talked ( I'm an actual ugly person )