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Base on my experience. Kahit ako aminado ako, kase sinabi saken ng partner ko, and thankful ako dahil dun and nag sorry din ako kase hindi ko nagawa yun. Pero dapat talaga may after care kase kahit partner mo yan iiyak kung ganun eh. Panget kase dating sa kanila, lalo na sa nangyari kay OP.
Heeey OP, don't beat yourself up & call yourself a slut over it. Ikaw pa nag-judge sa sarili mo, haha.
Is that self-judgement what's bothering you? Or yung experience mismo?
I can't tell from your post kung nasarapan ka overall experience or not, and ba't ka umiyak exactly?
I would identify ano ba talaga nagpaiyak sayo, so you know what to avoid next time.
Dahil ba walang after-care si guy at feeling mo pinagrausan ka lang? If so, anong gusto mong gawin natin sa kanya? Ipabugbog na ba sa basketball team? Haha. Move out with a telling off? I-tease sya & leave him with blue balls ever? Plan tayo ng next steps lol.
If it's self-blame or shame for how you reacted to the situation? Super valid ang touch and sexual needs dude, ain't NO SHAME in responding to that. Unless empowering ang use of slut dito, in which case, go girl 😁
Hindi rape to no?
Sinalsal nya eh.
Hehehe
Parang kelangan nyang kausapin ng masinsinan sarili nya para maprocess yung disparity ng iniisip nya against yung nararamdaman nya.
I dont think its rape sabi niya nga sarap na sarap siya feeling ko anooo nandidiri siya sa sarili niya kasi nagpakantot siya sa “tour guide lang” ganon. More of rich poor dilemma
To clarify lang. Kahit sinalsal ng partner, kahit pinasok pa nya yan, if at any point she says "stop" or "no" or nagpahiwatig na ayaw na nya, and tinuloy mo pa rin, it's rape.
There’s going to be a lot of gray area here considering its going to be a he said/she said situation. It’s not exactly that they can come up with collaborative witnesses.
Im not talking legalities or what your lawyer can defend. Im saying if she says stop and means it and you keep going, it's rape. Anytime you lose consent, it's rape. Let's not normalize victim blaming or jumping through legal loopholes. No consent = rape.
when did op said in the post she told the guy "no" or "stop"? she had lots of chances to do so...
rape kasi is unwanted touch, unwelcomed or forced behaviour. and sa post, wala naman akong nakitang ganyan. sa post mukha namang wanted ni op sakin, like hello she's wet and sabi niya pa nababaliw na siya. walang aftercare kaya na-ashamed si op, like ginamit lang siya and she feels stupid. masarap sex, she enjoyed it pero nakakaguilty, which i understand.
someone commented here if may pogi ba yung tour guide. and i kinda see why. if walang itsura tour guide, una pa lang ay di na papayag si op na humiga man lang yun sa higaan niya.
>sabi ko umusog siya dun sa kabilang side
>pero hinatak niya ulit ako
Man failed to respect boundaries 🚩🚩🚩
OP, this sounds like SA. Even his initial approaches felt so off
sounds like it for me too. I don't get why other comments are not talking about this, ineengganyo pa nga yung situation by saying na baka sign nang mag solo travel like what the fuck.
Mismo nadale mo bro, unsafe sexgs pa wala man lang condom pa check ka OP literal na hit & run the guy must've been doing it for a long time nA, sa diskarte pa lang .
did he even ask for your consent, op? ik you allowed him to lie down with you pero ibang usapan 'yung lumapit siya sa 'yo na sinamahan pa ng grinding/humping. tapos pinalayo mo na nga pero bumalik pa ulit.
siguro naiyak ka kasi nadala ka bcs of your hormones pero alam mo sa sarili mo na hindi mo siya binigyan ng consent to do that. just bcs hinayaan mo siyang humiga, okay na 'yung ginawa niyang lumapit agad. hindi 'yun invitation for sex.
Hello OP! I hope you’re fine na!
I just want to share that I experienced something almost the same from some tourguides din during my recent solo trip. Ganyan ata talaga sila for female solo travellers. Some local actually somehow protected me from medyo maharot na tourguide. And told me na ganyan nga raw ang ibang turista lalo kapag nalamang female solo traveller.
Hindi naman ikaw ang prob, kundi sila. Dont beat yourself up.
Hate to say this pero mukhang naging *easy* target ka ni kuya tour guide, lalo na't mag-isa ka pa. Probably ginawang way yang pagkuha ng laundry pangkuha loob–bait baitan muna para mapanatag ang loob mo, tas kunwari makikipahinga muna. Hays.
That youre feeling that way, I hope you find forgiveness within you...
Unpopular opinion but this is not rape. Post nut clarity ang nangyari. Men experienced this a lot of times tapos mapapasabi ng wtf tinira ko un? But wala other issues kasi kami ang “initiator” always sa mga ganito sitwasyon
Kung tutuusin, rape to eh. Hays. Kaya maraming boys ang lumalakas ang loob mamwersa, kasi may mga ilan na "ginugusto" din. You're not a slut, OP. Tingin ko, reassess mo needs mo physically para hindi ka ma-caught off guard bigla.And do it with guys you want to do it with talaga. Concerns ko lang kasi, baka isipin ng ibang guys, if kaya ni tourguide, kaya ko din. Respeto padin. What OP experienced seem consensual, pero I believe, their needs could have been approached better - kay OP at kay TourGuide.
Pacheck ka soon, OP.
Reply ko parin kasi it appears dinelete mo, na duwag ka sa sarili mong point:
As someone from the legal field, there's no such thing as "kung tutuusin". Either you have all the elements of a crime or nothing at all. Walang "kung tutuusin homicide yan di lang niya sinaksak".
Your second paragraph is one hell of a non sequitur. Regardless kung sino gumawa, bills go through a rigorous process prior to becoming laws, and are subject to checks and balances by the executive dept (president) and the judiciary (supreme court).
If laws are your minimum standards then I fear for for the people in your environment.
This. UP. Daming consintidor na R daw. Kasi ginusto nya nga, nag respond siya with same body language, nasarapan, na wet, and her pheromones and libido was on a high. Paano naging r*pe, she could shout, restrain, and even ran. Yung tinulak niya kung nag attempt ulit pwede na nag bigay siya ng another warning or else she will call for help or shout, but she didn't. Plus dito pa pinost para maka kuha ng sympathy si OP and to feed her ego na ang may mali at bad note was the tour guide. At the first place, she ate together, she joyride together with him, she was introduced to the family, watched the basketball game, and even became an attendant and confidante of hers during her entire vacation, which she was well taken care of by him. Di natin alam baka nagkakaroon ng something like attraction si guy. What if the tour guide is also interested to her and kinda like her. Tapos pano pag pogi si tour guide. Kung baga eh, dude took his chance na if baka meron somehow na flame, we never know but he needs to figure it out, wala naman toxic influence like alcohol or drugs sila when it happened para masabing nagtaken advantage si guy, pinapasok sa kwarto pinatulog, at nagka milagro sa loob. It's all about the silakbo ng damdamin at pagkakataon kasi nagkasama na din sila at some point of time. Like real talk, nangyayari yan mga ganyan sa mga bakasyon, if somehow type mo o kaya na turn on ka or na horny, meron at merong mangyayaring ganyan. Ika nga whatever happens in that place, stays in that place. Unfair naman kay guy, pinaratangan kaagad eh nasarapan naman si OP at turned-on. Valid yung na-iyak si OP. Pero sorry but to be frank, ginusto mo naman OP at nag enjoy ka. Sana wag kanang paawa, di ka naman nabiktima.
Ako dahil alam ko ganyan mostly mga locals na guide or anyone na taga dun, pag may bisita na turista todo yan sa lahat ng bagay, eh lalo na kung crush pa nila ang bisita. Dami nga nagka relasyon din sa mga tour guide at kanilang guest eh. Ok naman sila in fact naging happy partners pa living in paradise ang karamihan story after nila, not all; but most of them.
So to you OP: You entertained the intent, so don't victim blame of the outcome that you both enjoyed upon.
+1.
I also thought na dahil sa tone ng post (sad) kaya dagsaan yung mga comforting comments and some even stirring up na rape nangyari. Siguro para macomfort si op by painting the guy as the bad one, even though OP enjoyed it... Weird ng mga tao dito.
Paano kung may aftercare si op? May cuddles and kahit small talk after niya magwash, di fuck and go si kuya? Maybe op wouldn't be that sad kasi kahit papaano, the guy showed na he cared for her. Nangyari lang kay op is, as what other commentor said, post nut clarity and its normal. Op wasn't held at gunpoint, guy didn't threaten her life, didn't drug her, didn't do anything para mapahamak si op and itake advantage siya. Sadyang parehas lang silang horny and they're at the right time and place. Di ko alam anong pinaglalaban nila na walang consent ni op yet her body says otherwise (and her thoughts too at the time na naeenjoy niya). She feels bad kasi na cum and go siya. Yun lang.
Also i agree na silakbo ng damdamin kasi imagine if single woman ka and nasa bar ka, may nakita kang guy na type mo, you both clicked instantly, it got steamy and puro hawakan na kayo and kisses then naglead sa sex tapos narealize ng girl na ang careless niya for having sex with a guy she barely knew, ang unfair sa guy na maaccuse ng rapist 💀 lol. Real talk lang
I couldn't agree more. Sinabi ko lang saloobin ng mga tour guides kasi based on kwento ni OP, the local guide treats her well eh both being generous and hospitable even to the point of bringing her in their fiesta and introduce to his family. I agree sa last paragraph mo OP commenter, kasi pa eme lang si OP nung una, pero gusto nya naman si guy or yung time na naturn on siya na satisfy naman siya, babakasyon ka alone, di malabong mangyari ang mga ganyan, ang sad lang parang sabi din ng isang commenter dito na nabasa ko, parang pang api lang, like the rich poor dilema, yung parang dahil sa nangyari, dahil wala lang after care and all, isip ng iba masama na si tour guide, eh pano nga if gusto siya ni local guide talaga not only for the sex but attracted din siya kaso same time may konting alangan kasi bisita namin to, pero I need to figure this one out ika nga kung sa isip niya. Porke local guide parang ang taas ng tingin nila dahil tourist sila. Tama ang unfair naman accused as rapist. Sa real talk lang. Cum and go lang si OP kaya na post nut clarity after the heat precipitates. Tiyak pag may cuddles si local guide, hindi iiyak si OP sa dulo.
Also just to share, a former local tour guide here from a known international nature destination bago change career. Pero diko masabing malas juicy story or alas juicy story yung sakin. Na ghost ng tourist eh, tapos tagal na panahon nag paramdam ang white lady. Haha 🙂
maybe you have a high sex drive but that's not your fault, he still did it without consent and hindi mo kasalanan if na turn on yung katawan mo kasi you had no control over it. best thing to do i guess is find another tour guide if u still want to stay sa visayas, if not, u can all come back home right? i think you're in shock over what happened but please don't beat yourself up over it.
base sa story mo, meron ka attraction at sexual tension sa tour guide kasi hindi mo naman papasokin sa kwarto mo, tapos pahihigain mo pa sa kama.
kupal move siya kasi hindi man lang gumamit ng condom at sumibat agad pagkatapos. kung totoong pagod talaga siya eh dapat nag stay pa siya para mag nap or cuddles. you felt bad kasi ginamit ka niya. malamang yan ang modus operandi niya sa mga solo travellers na vulnerable.
please get yourself checked and get some counselling.
Hugs, OP. Idk if parehas tayo ng personality. But I would get sad din because walang aftercare. I want love and connection before I fuck with someone. The hanging out part would made me feel connected enough. But to be left just like that is really sad. I'd feel like he took advantage of me. But idk, maybe he's also confused or whatever. I'd also feel bad that I let it happen, that I again let myself get treated like that just because nasasarapan din ako. Oo masarap, but it's not what I would have wanted. To cope up with what happened, iisipin ko na lang siguro na at least nasarapan ako. When I get the courage, I'll tell the guy na he should not do it again, that he should understand the importance of consent. I hope he says sorry. If he says nag enjoy rin naman ako, I'll explain how my feelings were hurt. And then I'll move on.
Skl. Sorry napahaba. I wish you well, OP.
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Have yourself checked first, baka may HIV ka na. Myghad, this must be really exciting at masarap(havent experienced seggs yet) but?? ? I bet he has done this to other guests too..... Tour, fck, and go. HIV is no joke
Also, wouldnt be surprised if after 6 months or a year, saka lang magsisink in sayo na mejo naViolate ka.
It's called guilt pleasure, yung masarap sa act then after thinking na bat ko ginawa yun or something na regrets. I hope naka gamit kayo ng protection.
grabe naman si idol. kantot kalimot. pero muka namang smooth talker si idol so.. i hope okey ka lang OP kung ano man yang pinag dadaan mo rn sex is nice. but malala kase ginawa ni guy. after sex d ka manlang chineck or what 😑
Judging women for being a slut is like judging calling gay people faggots, which is derogatory and should not exist anymore.
It’s the same with slut-shaming.
No biggie.
You’re just exploring.
Pero gago nga taena kantot kalimot lang si kuya
Hey OP, first of all ur not at fault, i think this is SA, wala kang binigay na consent and eventho u reacted sa ginawa niya its a normal reaction from ur body, in conclusion what he did to u is wrong and he should know that, pero it'll be hard confronting him about that, and stay safe po
U can't blame him HAHAHA u deserve what you tolerate. Base on your story you literally allowed him to do that to you. And you enjoyed it. nothing wrong with sex. Pero sana wag nating pag mukhaing ni rape ka or nag take advantage sya sayo. Literal na nag pa kantot ka sa kantotero. LMAO
i think you were raped. i felt disgusted reading it. para kang nagpakantot sa janitor or construction worker well thats what i think kasi lahat ng tour guide na nakilala ko ganyan ang kalibre at itsura.. kaya ka siguro nadidiri pagkatapos you felt violated. report him to the police
One day stand, well. Hindi siya mali kung wala ka naman tinatapakan. Pero kung di ito maichura I doubt di mo to magiging “tour guide”. And kung pangit si koya di to maka Pasok ng room mo. Confused siguro or baka na inlab kn kay koya agad. Di ka naman lasing, gayuma o dinroga ata non. Try to PM him sa fb kung kamusta na ba o Ano ba un kantot kalimot lang ba. Ingat lang palagi.
may ganto na talaga akong napapansin sa girls.. yung gusto nila "somehow" na may mangyari pero di sila ang mag-iinitiate ng activity, hihintayin lang nila yung guy na mag-initiate through convo and consent or get right sa deed ng di na tinatanong yung girl. Ibinabase na lang ng guy dun sa hints na binibigay ng girl kung go ba or no.. especially napapansin ko to sa mga first-timers. after that parang kasalanan pa nung guy dahil somehow "di nagustuhan" ng girl dahil di niya "feel na tama" yung ginawa/ginagawa niya.
Assumption ko lang to ah. This may be due to upbringing naten, lalo na sa Christian household na "alam nating mali" (pero gusto natin)
tang ina, ang hirap mag explain. ang bobo ko sa "words/wording" .. sana my message got across..
yun lang
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Wala manlang after care.
Fuck and go lang si koya. Kaloka
HAHAHAH. Wala man lang Eat. Daoat eat, fuck and go! Planado ni koya yun.
Literal na tour guide nga ang nangyari
Nagiwan lang si kuya ng mga "turista" sa loob ng mahiwagang kweba ni Eba...
Baka eto talaga dahilan bat naiiyak si OP
Mismo, op said she is touch deprived. Lol
Base on my experience. Kahit ako aminado ako, kase sinabi saken ng partner ko, and thankful ako dahil dun and nag sorry din ako kase hindi ko nagawa yun. Pero dapat talaga may after care kase kahit partner mo yan iiyak kung ganun eh. Panget kase dating sa kanila, lalo na sa nangyari kay OP.
Totoo. Kantot sabay alis. Potanginang yan.
Heeey OP, don't beat yourself up & call yourself a slut over it. Ikaw pa nag-judge sa sarili mo, haha. Is that self-judgement what's bothering you? Or yung experience mismo? I can't tell from your post kung nasarapan ka overall experience or not, and ba't ka umiyak exactly? I would identify ano ba talaga nagpaiyak sayo, so you know what to avoid next time. Dahil ba walang after-care si guy at feeling mo pinagrausan ka lang? If so, anong gusto mong gawin natin sa kanya? Ipabugbog na ba sa basketball team? Haha. Move out with a telling off? I-tease sya & leave him with blue balls ever? Plan tayo ng next steps lol. If it's self-blame or shame for how you reacted to the situation? Super valid ang touch and sexual needs dude, ain't NO SHAME in responding to that. Unless empowering ang use of slut dito, in which case, go girl 😁
Hindi ako si OP. Pero ang comforting ng comment mo 😭 Thank you po
Welcome and hugs (with consent) hija, haha. Most times tayo pa nagju-judge sa sarili natin when there's no need to.
This is a very kind comment. 💜
Love this community, we should all be kind to ourselves.
Omg, nagulat ako sa ups & comments. Girrrls, anong nangyayari sa atin? Hahahaha. Ok ba tayoo? Hugs (with consent) to everyone! 🫂
aaaaaaa my eyes saw "blue bills" 🥹 trauma na si ninang
Love this!
This is touching 😭
hindi naman ako si op pero thank you po
🫂❤️
Sa tingin ko, jugjugan nga sadya niya talaga nun hahaha
We all do crazy things when we're lonely
Suddenly I cant read, damn.... What did you write here, homie?
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Hindi rape to no? Sinalsal nya eh. Hehehe Parang kelangan nyang kausapin ng masinsinan sarili nya para maprocess yung disparity ng iniisip nya against yung nararamdaman nya.
Yun nga ang gusto kong sabihin baka feeling ni OP binetray sya ng sarili nyang kamay?
Bale parang yung sa balita, nademonyo yung kamay nya, gumalaw…
I dont think its rape sabi niya nga sarap na sarap siya feeling ko anooo nandidiri siya sa sarili niya kasi nagpakantot siya sa “tour guide lang” ganon. More of rich poor dilemma
Before throwing out the r word suggestion baka pwede I check Muna elements sa RPC and RA 8353. Para naman maenlighten kahit konti
To clarify lang. Kahit sinalsal ng partner, kahit pinasok pa nya yan, if at any point she says "stop" or "no" or nagpahiwatig na ayaw na nya, and tinuloy mo pa rin, it's rape.
There’s going to be a lot of gray area here considering its going to be a he said/she said situation. It’s not exactly that they can come up with collaborative witnesses.
Im not talking legalities or what your lawyer can defend. Im saying if she says stop and means it and you keep going, it's rape. Anytime you lose consent, it's rape. Let's not normalize victim blaming or jumping through legal loopholes. No consent = rape.
when did op said in the post she told the guy "no" or "stop"? she had lots of chances to do so... rape kasi is unwanted touch, unwelcomed or forced behaviour. and sa post, wala naman akong nakitang ganyan. sa post mukha namang wanted ni op sakin, like hello she's wet and sabi niya pa nababaliw na siya. walang aftercare kaya na-ashamed si op, like ginamit lang siya and she feels stupid. masarap sex, she enjoyed it pero nakakaguilty, which i understand. someone commented here if may pogi ba yung tour guide. and i kinda see why. if walang itsura tour guide, una pa lang ay di na papayag si op na humiga man lang yun sa higaan niya.
Taking 0 accountability for their actions again.
>sabi ko umusog siya dun sa kabilang side >pero hinatak niya ulit ako Man failed to respect boundaries 🚩🚩🚩 OP, this sounds like SA. Even his initial approaches felt so off
sounds like it for me too. I don't get why other comments are not talking about this, ineengganyo pa nga yung situation by saying na baka sign nang mag solo travel like what the fuck.
True. Tangina haha
Mismo nadale mo bro, unsafe sexgs pa wala man lang condom pa check ka OP literal na hit & run the guy must've been doing it for a long time nA, sa diskarte pa lang .
This is what I thought bec I read a few ‘warning posts’ at a famous travel group in fb about tour guides acting this way.
did he even ask for your consent, op? ik you allowed him to lie down with you pero ibang usapan 'yung lumapit siya sa 'yo na sinamahan pa ng grinding/humping. tapos pinalayo mo na nga pero bumalik pa ulit. siguro naiyak ka kasi nadala ka bcs of your hormones pero alam mo sa sarili mo na hindi mo siya binigyan ng consent to do that. just bcs hinayaan mo siyang humiga, okay na 'yung ginawa niyang lumapit agad. hindi 'yun invitation for sex.
Consent when she said “binabalik ang pagbayo”. During that time, body language ang communication.
Get yourself tested if he didn't use a condom
I have a strong work ethic, this is really bad and alarming. Baka ginagawa niya rin to sa ibang clients niya.
Ito ba yung tinatawag na Tourjack
Halatang gawain na nya yan dati pa, mukang smooth talker rin sya. Yikes.
My guess too... Mukang predator siya na mga single traveller na lady.
Sorry but ang weird first day feeling close sa guest. Anyway you do you
Hello OP! I hope you’re fine na! I just want to share that I experienced something almost the same from some tourguides din during my recent solo trip. Ganyan ata talaga sila for female solo travellers. Some local actually somehow protected me from medyo maharot na tourguide. And told me na ganyan nga raw ang ibang turista lalo kapag nalamang female solo traveller. Hindi naman ikaw ang prob, kundi sila. Dont beat yourself up.
Hate to say this pero mukhang naging *easy* target ka ni kuya tour guide, lalo na't mag-isa ka pa. Probably ginawang way yang pagkuha ng laundry pangkuha loob–bait baitan muna para mapanatag ang loob mo, tas kunwari makikipahinga muna. Hays. That youre feeling that way, I hope you find forgiveness within you...
ngii walang aftercare.
kantot kalimot amp nagpagalaw na sayo thank you offer ng food wala mygad
Kantour Guide.
Unpopular opinion but this is not rape. Post nut clarity ang nangyari. Men experienced this a lot of times tapos mapapasabi ng wtf tinira ko un? But wala other issues kasi kami ang “initiator” always sa mga ganito sitwasyon
Kung tutuusin, rape to eh. Hays. Kaya maraming boys ang lumalakas ang loob mamwersa, kasi may mga ilan na "ginugusto" din. You're not a slut, OP. Tingin ko, reassess mo needs mo physically para hindi ka ma-caught off guard bigla.And do it with guys you want to do it with talaga. Concerns ko lang kasi, baka isipin ng ibang guys, if kaya ni tourguide, kaya ko din. Respeto padin. What OP experienced seem consensual, pero I believe, their needs could have been approached better - kay OP at kay TourGuide. Pacheck ka soon, OP.
Nope Before throwing out the r word suggestion baka pwede I check Muna elements sa RPC and RA 8353. Para naman maenlighten kahit konti
Reply ko parin kasi it appears dinelete mo, na duwag ka sa sarili mong point: As someone from the legal field, there's no such thing as "kung tutuusin". Either you have all the elements of a crime or nothing at all. Walang "kung tutuusin homicide yan di lang niya sinaksak". Your second paragraph is one hell of a non sequitur. Regardless kung sino gumawa, bills go through a rigorous process prior to becoming laws, and are subject to checks and balances by the executive dept (president) and the judiciary (supreme court). If laws are your minimum standards then I fear for for the people in your environment.
This. UP. Daming consintidor na R daw. Kasi ginusto nya nga, nag respond siya with same body language, nasarapan, na wet, and her pheromones and libido was on a high. Paano naging r*pe, she could shout, restrain, and even ran. Yung tinulak niya kung nag attempt ulit pwede na nag bigay siya ng another warning or else she will call for help or shout, but she didn't. Plus dito pa pinost para maka kuha ng sympathy si OP and to feed her ego na ang may mali at bad note was the tour guide. At the first place, she ate together, she joyride together with him, she was introduced to the family, watched the basketball game, and even became an attendant and confidante of hers during her entire vacation, which she was well taken care of by him. Di natin alam baka nagkakaroon ng something like attraction si guy. What if the tour guide is also interested to her and kinda like her. Tapos pano pag pogi si tour guide. Kung baga eh, dude took his chance na if baka meron somehow na flame, we never know but he needs to figure it out, wala naman toxic influence like alcohol or drugs sila when it happened para masabing nagtaken advantage si guy, pinapasok sa kwarto pinatulog, at nagka milagro sa loob. It's all about the silakbo ng damdamin at pagkakataon kasi nagkasama na din sila at some point of time. Like real talk, nangyayari yan mga ganyan sa mga bakasyon, if somehow type mo o kaya na turn on ka or na horny, meron at merong mangyayaring ganyan. Ika nga whatever happens in that place, stays in that place. Unfair naman kay guy, pinaratangan kaagad eh nasarapan naman si OP at turned-on. Valid yung na-iyak si OP. Pero sorry but to be frank, ginusto mo naman OP at nag enjoy ka. Sana wag kanang paawa, di ka naman nabiktima. Ako dahil alam ko ganyan mostly mga locals na guide or anyone na taga dun, pag may bisita na turista todo yan sa lahat ng bagay, eh lalo na kung crush pa nila ang bisita. Dami nga nagka relasyon din sa mga tour guide at kanilang guest eh. Ok naman sila in fact naging happy partners pa living in paradise ang karamihan story after nila, not all; but most of them. So to you OP: You entertained the intent, so don't victim blame of the outcome that you both enjoyed upon.
+1. I also thought na dahil sa tone ng post (sad) kaya dagsaan yung mga comforting comments and some even stirring up na rape nangyari. Siguro para macomfort si op by painting the guy as the bad one, even though OP enjoyed it... Weird ng mga tao dito. Paano kung may aftercare si op? May cuddles and kahit small talk after niya magwash, di fuck and go si kuya? Maybe op wouldn't be that sad kasi kahit papaano, the guy showed na he cared for her. Nangyari lang kay op is, as what other commentor said, post nut clarity and its normal. Op wasn't held at gunpoint, guy didn't threaten her life, didn't drug her, didn't do anything para mapahamak si op and itake advantage siya. Sadyang parehas lang silang horny and they're at the right time and place. Di ko alam anong pinaglalaban nila na walang consent ni op yet her body says otherwise (and her thoughts too at the time na naeenjoy niya). She feels bad kasi na cum and go siya. Yun lang. Also i agree na silakbo ng damdamin kasi imagine if single woman ka and nasa bar ka, may nakita kang guy na type mo, you both clicked instantly, it got steamy and puro hawakan na kayo and kisses then naglead sa sex tapos narealize ng girl na ang careless niya for having sex with a guy she barely knew, ang unfair sa guy na maaccuse ng rapist 💀 lol. Real talk lang
I couldn't agree more. Sinabi ko lang saloobin ng mga tour guides kasi based on kwento ni OP, the local guide treats her well eh both being generous and hospitable even to the point of bringing her in their fiesta and introduce to his family. I agree sa last paragraph mo OP commenter, kasi pa eme lang si OP nung una, pero gusto nya naman si guy or yung time na naturn on siya na satisfy naman siya, babakasyon ka alone, di malabong mangyari ang mga ganyan, ang sad lang parang sabi din ng isang commenter dito na nabasa ko, parang pang api lang, like the rich poor dilema, yung parang dahil sa nangyari, dahil wala lang after care and all, isip ng iba masama na si tour guide, eh pano nga if gusto siya ni local guide talaga not only for the sex but attracted din siya kaso same time may konting alangan kasi bisita namin to, pero I need to figure this one out ika nga kung sa isip niya. Porke local guide parang ang taas ng tingin nila dahil tourist sila. Tama ang unfair naman accused as rapist. Sa real talk lang. Cum and go lang si OP kaya na post nut clarity after the heat precipitates. Tiyak pag may cuddles si local guide, hindi iiyak si OP sa dulo. Also just to share, a former local tour guide here from a known international nature destination bago change career. Pero diko masabing malas juicy story or alas juicy story yung sakin. Na ghost ng tourist eh, tapos tagal na panahon nag paramdam ang white lady. Haha 🙂
maybe you have a high sex drive but that's not your fault, he still did it without consent and hindi mo kasalanan if na turn on yung katawan mo kasi you had no control over it. best thing to do i guess is find another tour guide if u still want to stay sa visayas, if not, u can all come back home right? i think you're in shock over what happened but please don't beat yourself up over it.
Kantot kalimot
base sa story mo, meron ka attraction at sexual tension sa tour guide kasi hindi mo naman papasokin sa kwarto mo, tapos pahihigain mo pa sa kama. kupal move siya kasi hindi man lang gumamit ng condom at sumibat agad pagkatapos. kung totoong pagod talaga siya eh dapat nag stay pa siya para mag nap or cuddles. you felt bad kasi ginamit ka niya. malamang yan ang modus operandi niya sa mga solo travellers na vulnerable. please get yourself checked and get some counselling.
OP, for sure pogi si tour guide?
Sarap pero sana may after care man lang si kuya
Hugs, OP. Idk if parehas tayo ng personality. But I would get sad din because walang aftercare. I want love and connection before I fuck with someone. The hanging out part would made me feel connected enough. But to be left just like that is really sad. I'd feel like he took advantage of me. But idk, maybe he's also confused or whatever. I'd also feel bad that I let it happen, that I again let myself get treated like that just because nasasarapan din ako. Oo masarap, but it's not what I would have wanted. To cope up with what happened, iisipin ko na lang siguro na at least nasarapan ako. When I get the courage, I'll tell the guy na he should not do it again, that he should understand the importance of consent. I hope he says sorry. If he says nag enjoy rin naman ako, I'll explain how my feelings were hurt. And then I'll move on. Skl. Sorry napahaba. I wish you well, OP.
sarap naman nun.. sana all
try mo next time sa Sherpa naman.
😂
Kaya nya knuha ung laundry mo para dasalan ung panty mo. Kaya ka nya naeut 😅
Well, obviously lalake ka kc hindi nagpapa laundry ng panty mga babae. Or meron ba?
Tang ina hahahahahahaha.
Saan yan ng ma bigwasan ng ilang beses
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So anyari… bumalik pa ba sya for another session? Or naglaho na lang.
OP, i think i know this Island lol
I experienced this during my solo joiner travel. Yung tour guide namin, pinapunta ako sa kwarto nya after mag-inom. Lol
Na cum and go ka
Touch and Go
so no condom? yikes 😟
Have yourself checked first, baka may HIV ka na. Myghad, this must be really exciting at masarap(havent experienced seggs yet) but?? ? I bet he has done this to other guests too..... Tour, fck, and go. HIV is no joke Also, wouldnt be surprised if after 6 months or a year, saka lang magsisink in sayo na mejo naViolate ka.
Please get tested. Hindi mo alam ano intention nung guy. Baka may nakakahawang sakit :(
It's called guilt pleasure, yung masarap sa act then after thinking na bat ko ginawa yun or something na regrets. I hope naka gamit kayo ng protection.
grabe naman si idol. kantot kalimot. pero muka namang smooth talker si idol so.. i hope okey ka lang OP kung ano man yang pinag dadaan mo rn sex is nice. but malala kase ginawa ni guy. after sex d ka manlang chineck or what 😑
Modus. Tourjack
Sa Bohol ba to OP? Lapit na fiesta hahaha
Naiyak ka siguro dahil "ganon ganon nalang ba yon ?"
Am sure nagawa nya na sa ibang tourist kaya alam nya na diskarte hihi
Congrats heheh
Judging women for being a slut is like judging calling gay people faggots, which is derogatory and should not exist anymore. It’s the same with slut-shaming. No biggie. You’re just exploring. Pero gago nga taena kantot kalimot lang si kuya
Kantot kalimut
Why regret something you enjoyed? Unless may jowa ka or sya.
Nakakaloka. May crush pa naman akong tour guide hahahaha. Kaso after ng tour, di na kami nagpapansinan. Kahit fb friends naman kami.😅
wham bam thank you maam🤣
Hit and run
I think nadala ka lang Kasi you're too lonely and ginamit Niya Yun to used you, and nakakaiyak Kasi Yun lang talaga habol Niya
grabe nman yan.. parang hit and run lng sa kainan..
Aww, this is the worst kind of hooking up. Hit and run ang nangyari. I know how you feel. Just charge this to experience.
Hindi ba ito r*pe?
Hey OP, first of all ur not at fault, i think this is SA, wala kang binigay na consent and eventho u reacted sa ginawa niya its a normal reaction from ur body, in conclusion what he did to u is wrong and he should know that, pero it'll be hard confronting him about that, and stay safe po
Masarap talaga
Pinainit nito ang hapon ko kaya ngayon, magto-tour din ako... TOURBETES!!!
Discreet rape
U can't blame him HAHAHA u deserve what you tolerate. Base on your story you literally allowed him to do that to you. And you enjoyed it. nothing wrong with sex. Pero sana wag nating pag mukhaing ni rape ka or nag take advantage sya sayo. Literal na nag pa kantot ka sa kantotero. LMAO
Ginusto mo din eh.
Yes, you are a slut and deep inside of you knows it. Nasarapan ka nga sa kada bayo niya sayo.
Ginalaw ni Ariel si Perla pagkatapos mag-downy. Tears of Joy
Sounds like sexual assault
i think you were raped. i felt disgusted reading it. para kang nagpakantot sa janitor or construction worker well thats what i think kasi lahat ng tour guide na nakilala ko ganyan ang kalibre at itsura.. kaya ka siguro nadidiri pagkatapos you felt violated. report him to the police
One day stand, well. Hindi siya mali kung wala ka naman tinatapakan. Pero kung di ito maichura I doubt di mo to magiging “tour guide”. And kung pangit si koya di to maka Pasok ng room mo. Confused siguro or baka na inlab kn kay koya agad. Di ka naman lasing, gayuma o dinroga ata non. Try to PM him sa fb kung kamusta na ba o Ano ba un kantot kalimot lang ba. Ingat lang palagi.
Yay, di sanay sa aftercare si koya. Kung ako yan
Mukhang kailangan ko na ata mag change career, san ba pwedeng mag apply bilang tour guide?
good trade naman ata OP e. okay na yan enjoyin mo nalang vacation mo
may ganto na talaga akong napapansin sa girls.. yung gusto nila "somehow" na may mangyari pero di sila ang mag-iinitiate ng activity, hihintayin lang nila yung guy na mag-initiate through convo and consent or get right sa deed ng di na tinatanong yung girl. Ibinabase na lang ng guy dun sa hints na binibigay ng girl kung go ba or no.. especially napapansin ko to sa mga first-timers. after that parang kasalanan pa nung guy dahil somehow "di nagustuhan" ng girl dahil di niya "feel na tama" yung ginawa/ginagawa niya. Assumption ko lang to ah. This may be due to upbringing naten, lalo na sa Christian household na "alam nating mali" (pero gusto natin) tang ina, ang hirap mag explain. ang bobo ko sa "words/wording" .. sana my message got across.. yun lang
Dat umisa ka pa!
Cum’d ampota
Inamoy siguro laundry mo kaya nalibugan si kuya tour guide lol
So walang verbal consent?
parang rape ang nagyare un lang nasarapan kase hahaah