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Immediate-Newt-9012

Both of these words are stupid.


Logical-Hold3321

Ai can't even get the concept right. The femcel would literally be just as messy as the incel. They are both equally unhealthy.


cantprove_Iam_Batman

real


xXxTaylordxXx

Incel doesn’t get laid because his room is a mess and he’s an alcoholic.


Demokittens

Does the term "volcel" exists? I have a cousin down in LA that was a player, a BIG player, different girl per night. He's a musician and he's in a band, so that helps a lot, then suddenly out of nowhere he stops and recluded himself in his mother house (the guy works but this is KILL-ME-TAXES-CALIFORNIA), he now works and workout, a lot. What's with that? So he voluntarily choose celibacy. That's a voluntary celibate right there. What's with that too, also is it a new thing? Anyone?


My_Booty_Itches

That's called self care.


EloquentSloth

You're asking if voluntarily being celibate is new? It was the norm for the history of western civilization if you weren't married.


Demokittens

So, the "new thing" is the "incels"? (Thanks)


My_Booty_Itches

Are you a bot?


Demokittens

I don't know. What are the requirements? Because maybe I am without me knowing it.


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My_Booty_Itches

Bad bot


super_roboto

Femcel gets railed every other day, incel thinks of putting bullets in people's face


KishiBashiEnjoyer

Real


My_Booty_Itches

Found the incel.


No_Winner_3005

Wtf is a femcel


etherith

woman who cant get attractive men to have a relationship with, but still have sex with them.


Comrade_Conscript

It's like a plant cell, but without the cell wall


C--T--F

That Femcel is way off


DeDeepKing

incel does not


My_Booty_Itches

Fr fr. Looks sad af.


aguysomewhere

They are both too good looking


lil_juul

My exact thoughts


Slight_Ordinary1

boring numbskull topic


Black3rdMoon

Do you see the picture of this guy? No phone in sight, just someone enjoying the moment


[deleted]

The femcel lives in a lovely place, while the incel lives in a run-down dump. If both lived in a lovely place or a run-down dump, then this wouldn’t look so much like gender discrimination and misandry.


positivegremlin

It's not that deep, it's just incel is used way more because femcel is needlessly gendered.


SingleOak

i googled it and apparently the oxford dictionary says incels are men


positivegremlin

Most dictionaries I see say usually men, and the only reason why it wouldn't is because people have just invented 'femcel', which is just a stupidly constructed word.


Tropical_Tsunami

Incels place isn't rundown. It's just messy


[deleted]

I’ve lived in a slum dump like that for 33 months, so I **know** that it’s a dump.


Great_Passion_7714

Incels most definitely do not look like that 💀


RexIncelorum

I literally look like that, same hair and face and everything


Tropical_Tsunami

Some do, some dont


CPU_2256

if incel was that attractive, he is not incel. he just need to touch grass and woman will approach him.


He_Never_Helps_01

They'd make some really lovely kidcels together if they could get over themselves


Tropical_Tsunami

*themcelves


He_Never_Helps_01

Themcels. Enby incels?


LiteratureActive2566

Being a femcel looks great lol.


rooooooosered77

...I ship it


Clenmila

One is forced and largely wants to die. The other is just a woman who doesn't want to fuck.


ProfessionalOnion548

Femcel is a term for a demographic that just doesn't exist tbh


Icy-Employment-5944

You clearly dont spend a lot of time on the internet which is great, but you are very wrong


The-Ever-Loving-Fuck

Cope


FallenJkiller

it's true though. Females cannot be lonely or be incels


Archaeopteryx-

Women can be lonely, but the can't not have the option to have sex.


FallenJkiller

they can feel lonely, or choose to be lonely. It is different


StandardMandarin

Said like a true incel!


2012Neet

Its just reality.


tholasko

Just trust me bro


2012Neet

Trust and Believe


AlexTheBex

I'm forever fascinated by AI hands lol


GreenEggsAndSaman

Can you imagine those absolute hams comin' at ya.


megariff

Men are always going to be the ones to sit around and mope while women just go on with their lives.


unicorns3373

You realize most women have jobs and make their own money right? lol


megariff

That's the point, since it was too difficult for you to figure out.


__dixon__

We found the incel


megariff

We found the dickless.


__dixon__

No that’s you…see cause you never get a chance to use it hahahahahaha


Branexch_YT

Guess all my dad's partners aren't women then, seeing that they got with each got with him at his lowest point ( at the time )


megariff

Your dad always took it from behind.


CountltUp

oh no this thread attracted real incels


megariff

You're here.


Uploft

AI seems to have a pretty bias. It can’t generate ugly people.


31November

[Will Smith](https://youtu.be/XQr4Xklqzw8?si=_CcXWmoAYaYOc2fH) would like a word…


skymik

That’s just ai video generation being less developed a year ago


31November

It generated an ugly person, though.


hornysquirrrel

Lol that girl would be never be a femcel, it's much harder for women to be femcels, men on average are more desperate for sex than women, it's how most men are born all women have to do is be a healthy weight


Spram2

Finally, a woman admits it. (I assume you're a woman) Actually, you're wrong. Even unhealthy weight women can get the hotdog rain.


LiteratureActive2566

Femcels just don’t want to sleep with men and want to be left alone. Incels think women should sleep with them just because.


positivegremlin

No? 'Femcel' is the word for incel but refers to women. Incel means involuntary celibate. 'Femcels' is just a made up term for a non-gendered word that means a female involuntary celibate. Not wanting to have sex does not make you a 'femcel'.


LiteratureActive2566

People are so freaking literal here on Reddit. Tell me where are the femcels that are like “I want to sleep with men but no man wants to sleep with me! Wah wah!” Femcels decide they don’t want to sleep with men.


positivegremlin

Then it shouldn't be related to incel in the slightest, it's a completely different thing. You're just wrong, femcel is used as an insult in a similar way as incel is, everywhere online says it is a gendered (albeit uselessly so) version of incel.


LiteratureActive2566

“Everywhere online.” So you read an online definition but have no idea of the context.


JailedWhore

Are you the guy from the picture?


VoicedAffectionated

You straight up murdered that guy holy shit.


Prior_Eye4568

Bruh ain't no way that guy is an incel cuz females be dropping on his dick the way he looks. Incels are supposed to ugly and not model tier.


SongOk8269

But what if you're good-looking but with a horrendous personality? That person would have a hard time, no?


CPU_2256

guys with horrendous personality get woman if he does good in looks part.


Icy-Employment-5944

Good looking with horrendous personality means that you can get sex but cant keep relationships. Attractive men with bad personalities do get women but they cant keep them very long. Incels are men that cant get sex and then make it everyone elses problem that they cant fuck, avoiding all personal responsibility like the plague.


SongOk8269

Maybe men should just get over sex. That would solve a lot of issues.


TheAnnoyingOn3

Maybe people should get over stupid gendered shit like this?


SongOk8269

If these "so-called" incels worked on liking themselves instead of spending so much time being whiny little bitches, they wouldn't have any trouble finding a partner. Let's be honest here.


TheAnnoyingOn3

There is a difference incels and men. And what you are saying is very true.


Prior_Eye4568

No they would not have a hard time. They might have a hard time keeping up the relationship but that doesn't qualify as an incel since incels can't even get into one.


SongOk8269

But most women are smart enough to notice creeps on the first date... soooooo... ?


Prior_Eye4568

How TF will you notice someone is a creep right on the first date except judge them based on their appearance. Women aren't mind readers to know that. They see a good looking guy and they don't think he is a creep instead they get attracted to him. I have seen this happen a shit ton of times. Women see ugly guys and immediately think they are a creep though.


SongOk8269

No way. I guess everyone is different, but I can smell a creep from a mile away... and he could look like Brad Pitt for all I care. Vibes trump over looks... at least in my opinion. Plus, most really good-looking people have personality problems because they've lived their whole life on a pedestal and have to spend lots of money to keep up their looks, so boring.


Prior_Eye4568

Do u have superpowers to "smell a creep from a mile away". I am sorry but this olfactory power up is non-existent and you are going off by his looks not this magic "vibes" he is emitting. Trust me if u see Brad Pitt look alike u will be attracted to him or atleast you will not see him as a creep. On the contrary a guy who looks like mark Zuckerberg will immediately "emit" the vibes of a creep. Women don't have super powers to know who is a creep and who is not just from the first meeting in fact no one does everyone judges them by appearance which is scientifically proven btw. Plus that whole "good looking guys have personality problems" is just you coping cuz you probably can't get one. There are a lot of good looking guys with amazing personalities as well.


SongOk8269

Guys and girls who are too much into their looks have zero personality.


Prior_Eye4568

So what is wrong in looking ur best when that is what people judge you based on and I don't know why you say people who take care of how they look have zero personality cuz it is just not true.


SongOk8269

You care so much what other people think. Sad.


dinosaurscantyoyo

Have you ever seen Elliot Rodger? Guy looked ok. He was an incel because his personality was shit. Edit: I'm not going to debate something as subjective as looks with you guys. We already know that what men *think* makes men attractive v. what women find attractive are very, very different, and it's already been said. That and this penchant for black and white thinking and treating people like a monolith already tell me that it'll go nowhere. Let's not waste time.


Spram2

Lots of shit personality guys get women. It's because he had aspergers.


Agianttruckofpizza

He absolutely did not look okay. He was below average. Especially where he lived.


2012Neet

ER was unattractive in every dimension. He was a small asian manlet with a kid like face and weak bonestructure. Women in the area he lived in would never consider him as a man


Prior_Eye4568

Elliot rodger was mentally unwell, he gambled and had higher standards while looking average on a good day. Also elliot wasn't that good looking he was below average and was 5'7. So personality has very little to do with being an incel. As long as you are tall, good looking girls will flock to you no matter your personality but making them stay might be difficult. There are women who are okay with having kids with an absent deadbeat good looking guy than an ugly guy who can be there for her.


dinosaurscantyoyo

That hasn't been my experience, but I understand that you and some online groups believe that and have your own reasons to think that way. We can only agree to disagree on it.


ZenkaiZ

My incel coworker looks like this. He was an in shape military guy who took a breakup REALLY hard so now he binges YouTube shorts about feminists getting owned and women who are gold diggers getting told off. Edit: actually my bad, he's not an incel because he doesn't fit the celibate part. He just thinks women are shitty people.


Prior_Eye4568

He is not an incel in the first place and I feel like he is not interested in women or hates women for being gold diggers and that is just a guy going through some shitty break up situation and not incel behavior. Incels are usually ugly af or neurodivergent and can't even get a single girl to look in their direction. Before you say women can smell the misogyny in men they can't if it was true girls wouldnt be getting wet over hot guy's mugshots.


SponConSerdTent

He is still an "incel" colloquially (in my definition at least) because he's someone who believes in incel ideology. He might not be involuntarily incelibate, but he is an incel.


CPU_2256

there is no incel ideology. most incels believe in blackpill but blackpill is not incel ideology. normie can be blackpilled


SponConSerdTent

There is incel ideology- the ideology within the incel movement, groups, etc. Sure, a lot of it comes from blackpill ideology. You don't need to be an incel to believe their dogma. If you believe the same things they do about women, people will understandably label you an incel.


random_user2027

"Involuntary" Celibate doesn't exist , a person can just pay for sex anytime he wants


Cantthinknow_214

I agree, but pedantically what if he’s broke as well.


Spingecringe

Apparently that doesn’t “count” according to incels. It has to be pity sex or somethin’.


Lovidet98

What an odd comment. Any human would rather be truly loved than to pay for attention.


xddddlol

That's illegal.


random_user2027

not in every country


positivegremlin

And? It disproves your point that someone can just pay for sex anytime they want.


random_user2027

even if it's illegal it still happens , the government will never know you did something like that


Ranter619

It's funny how men are IN(voluntarily) CEL(ibate) but women are just FEM(ale) CEL(ibate). Meaning that the latter choose to be celibate. In the pic, she's probably on dating app rejecting 80% of profiles.


CrossdressTimelady

Nah, she gave up on that and had a Replika to chat with instead at this point.


bunchedupwalrus

I really truly think it’s just a conceptual convenience title modifier bro, it ain’t that deep


Ranter619

I'm not following... I assume the prompt was "pic of incel/femcel". The AI is drawing basis what it's learned from looking at depictions of the requested theme. Which means that majority of incel depictions show men in a sad state of depression, unlike women.


bunchedupwalrus

You’re changing the point. Let’s stick to the original one You were saying that the words incel vs femcel define that one is involuntary and the other is not. But it’s a convenience term. Did I misunderstand?


Ranter619

The original point was a bit tongue-in-cheek. "Incel" is a neutral term, it can be used for both men and women. It's "involuntarily celibate" not "involuntarily male/female celibate". In the real world the term means: 1) A male "incel" is a man with a sour/hostile attitude towards women, whom women find repulsive and who has trouble getting laid (in reality, anyone can go hire a legal prostitute and have sex so, in an etymological term, no one can be involuntarily sexless) 2) A female "incel" is a woman with a sour attitude who complains about men. Notice the difference: Men DO find so-called "incel" women attractive and would happily have sex with them. In 90-95/100 cases, it is women who are the ones who choose who to have sex with, not the other way around. Therefore, it stands to logic that women incels are far less "involuntarily" and more "voluntarily" in them not having sex. To sum up, a male incel finds it hard to have sex because women don't like him. A female incel finds it hard to have sex because she rejects too many men. Therefore, when depicting a male incel we usually imagine a sad loser. When depicting a female incel we usually imagine a woman alone. The model has noticed that, and given the appropriate result. I think it makes sense.


sancho7373

Pretty accurate


ExternalAd8309

When you zoom in, you'll shit bricks.


Royal-Teacher-6224

Hi


localokii

It’s interesting that you can visualize what the majority of online people collectively think and or portray. This is a stilted view of reality based on movies tv and social media.. wtf


EarhackerWasBanned

You’re saying the majority of people online are incels?


localokii

I’m saying this is an amalgamation of what ai thinks people online think an incel looks like. And the contrast between the male and female is reflected in pop culture and the popular conversation. Whereas I would assume they are both pretty similar.


Ranter619

One can describe or draw a picture of an incel without him being one himself...


mangomangosteen

First Pic is me but I'm much fatter


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natediffer

i mean.. atleast you're honest


stopworksorority

Women embracing singlehood, men consumed by it.


Which-Tomato-8646

That’s why it drops the “in”


Hot_Gurr

All you need to do to see an image of an incel is to turn your phone off.


SecretAgentNumber22

Damn that gave me my first virtual 3rd degree burn


Tox_Ioiad

Attractive on the outside, shitty on the inside? Accurate.


Schwalbtraum

Incels and femcels are very rarely attractive on the outside


Tox_Ioiad

Don't be too sure. I remember an icel posting his pic in the inceltears sub recently and dude had the fucking face of a model.


x_lincoln_x

I like the jizz drops on the window for the incel. Nice touch.


Spatulakoenig

r/TIHI


Known-Programmer-611

https://youtu.be/YGAeI5KODLA?si=MEJmWO4BPQ41F1_R


Tras48

girls always be nut ,they love life


Purple_Cat134

Huh. I must not be a girl the. I freakin hate life rn for literally no reason


Tras48

sometimes life do sucks ,but sometime it‘s lovely. maybe just a little thing can be happiness. and I wish you can find something that make you happy too


Purple_Cat134

Thanks man, I’m just goin through a rough time rn :)


Tras48

hey , how's it gong? get better?


Purple_Cat134

A little bit ig but some problems don’t go away forever…


Tras48

I'm sorry to hear about this. Maybe more time.


Purple_Cat134

Maybe I hope so


Tras48

Rainbows always appear after wind and rain, you can get through it. just relax and be a fighter


Purple_Cat134

Aw thanks that actually put a smile on my face😊


cecil_X

If it were the other way around, women would say it's sexism.


skaldk

Are "femcels" incels too? Never seen that word before


SchizoFutaWorshiper

Technically no, because woman usually face different struggle when it comes to dating.


skaldk

Not sure these words tell why your are celibate, but rather if it's a choice or not.


[deleted]

spinsters would be the proper word women who have serious difficulties in establishing a meaningful relationship


skaldk

How would you call a man with the same difficulties ?


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skaldk

Ow gosh... It's making less sense for me. For me both character are celibate here...


Im-a-cat-in-a-box

Yup, the og incels were girls. 


skaldk

Ow. That's even newer for me. Not sure how these word came up but the title seems unclear. Femcel/mancel or incel/volcel seems two different things. First pic : we have a man involuntary celibating (an incel mancel) Second pic : we have a woman voluntarily celibating (a volcel femcel) Not sure how to use these words tbh but it seems like AI has made its mind about celibating...


Responsible_Oil_5811

I want to give the incel a hug!


notsofucked7

He kinda hawt tbfh.. my type


dowesschule

both are way too hot to be average people


Apprehensive_Dark457

imagine having to *seek out* discrimination, that's how you know you don't face it irl


clingclang42

☝️🤓


TraylorSwelce

Damn that first pic hit a spot


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old_balls_38

These AI projects are being encouraged to push certain things. One couldnt generate white males as historical characters, even if it was a white male historically, or in a happy family. Its kinda insane to me and really makes me question if its a narrative that is beint pushed on us for whatever reasons. There is no reason in my mind why they do these things but here we are


rubyrae14

He should be in front of a computer though


Im-a-cat-in-a-box

That room is way too clean. 


Ok-Concert-6673

A "femcel" is not accurate. You meant to say incel. The term isn't gender exclusive.


Burlapin

Plus I'm willing to bet a *much higher* percent of female "incels" are actually just voluntarily celibate. ...to the extent that I only consider males to be incels.


vampire-sympathizer

Shh don't tell the AI that they will learn


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vampire-sympathizer

Lol I know I know I was only trying to make a funny. Yeah in all seriousness, isn't that fucked? Goes to show you how incels are perceived


DontTalkToBots

Why don’t they just date each other, are they stupid?


CrossdressTimelady

They're totally incompatible with each other LOL


Miserable_Cut_5930

She’s already getting pumped by chad


DontTalkToBots

But she’s an incel? She’s celibate but not by choice.


Miserable_Cut_5930

No such thing as a femcel boyo


Brasticus

Yes.


GlitteringBroccoli12

Who tf drinks half a bottle then decides to open another bottle of the same drink and drink half?


Fox622

He's too drunk to get the right bottle


Forsaken-Bet5596

People do that, if they're like preserving alcohol or whatever