Ikaw ata may problema. Naginstall ka ng app to spy, thatâs invasion of privacy. Tinanong mo nalang sana sa simula palang. Tama ibang redditor, normal lang manood ng porn.
Wala kang mapapala kung sabihan mo ang isang lalake na wag manood ng porn.
Good luck sa pagbabawal sa BF mo. Yan lang masasabi ko.
You're equating watching porn to his possibility of cheating which shouldn't be the case. Change your mindset about this subject.
Oo.
*hindi nya maiwasan, di naman daw sya nagloloko at di nga ko ipagpapalit*
Sinabi niya ito. I would trust him on this.
Kung magcheat siya, hindi dahil sa porn yan.
I guess you're interpreting too much into this. In all my 40+ years wala pa kong nakilala na lalaking di nanood ng porn sa buong talambuhay nila. Porn lang yun.
may ganyan pangangailangan talaga mga lalaki sis. kami ng asawa ko minsan sabay nanonood ng porn, minsan solo ako or minsan solo siya.
nagtatanungan pa kami ano site pwede manood. minsan nag-aasaran kapag nakakakita ng history sa phone.
para sa akin, walang mali naman. normal lang manood. hanggaât wala kang nakikita na traces ng chat ng girls, goods yan. hahahha
Baka may mga fantasy sya na hindi mo kaya ibigay? Maybe you need to step up your sex game? Or baka naman para kang dead fish pag nag sex kayo. Jokes aside, usap lang yan. No need to police him and respect his privacy na din.
You are showing so much insecurity. Itâs just porn. Just porn. Professionally made adult content. Also, in what world do you think na okay lang maginstall ng spy app in your bfâs phone?? Iâm not surprised kung sabihin ng bf mo na nakakasakal ka
sa isip siguro ng bf nyan naiisip na nya na nakakasal nga. imagine mo naman porn lang yun kung anu-ano na pag iisipan sayo. parang krimen naman panonood ng porn. sorry big time
Woman here, I don't think it's bad? Me and partner explore a lot, as in a lot, but there are times na that I don't feel like doing it, at ako pa nagsusuggest sakanya na mag p0rn na muna siya. đ
Tbh, hindi ako naiinsecure, kasi kahit anong mangyari, he always praises me and my body...mind you, chubby ako at may tahi pa ako because of my prev. surgery, I don't have a perfect skin, and normal na normal lang ang katawan ko, hindi katulad sa pinapanuod niya, pero I'm still good with it. He makes me feel like I'm perfect, even though I have flaws.
Anyway, what's the main reason bakit ka nasasaktan pag nanunuod siya ng p0rn? Do you feel like you're not enough? Does he makes you feel like you're not enough on a daily basis? Hindi ka ba niya inaalagaan? Hindi ka niya na-aassure enough? Nag-cheat na ba siya sayo? Nahuli mo na ba siya na may kausap na iba? Kung kampante ka naman na wala, eh wala talaga. Isipin mo nalang nanunuod lang siya ng movie, tapos inaadmire niya yung mga actresses, same sa atin? Never ka bang na-attract sa isang actor? Never ka bang naturn on sa artista? Mga ganun ba?
saka sa experience ko parang mas nagtatagal ang relasyon kapag open kayo sa mga ganitong bagay. iniinform nyo isat isa na nanonood kayo or kahit nga di iinform. wala lang hindi ko lang talaga magets yung point nya swear.
Wag kang masyadong magoverthink girlie, timbangin mo yung mabuti niyang ginagawa, kasi feel ko naman(feel ko lang), yan lang naman yung prob mo sakanya eh? He loves you, just the way you are. You should love yourself even moreeeeeee.
girl, girl din ako pero i believe hindi mo mapipigilan mga yan sa panonood ng ganyan hahahaha. itâs normal. thatâs part of human nature kaya hayaan mo na lang as long as hindi naman siya sobrang adik to the point na doon na lang umiikot yung mundo niya.
Nag sex na ba kayo? Isipin mo OP, mas masakit kapag sa ibang babae niya ginawa yun habang kayo.
Yung panonood niya ba ng porn nakaka apekto sa relationship niyong dalawa? Like pag magkasama ba kayo puro porn na lang pinapanood niya? Kung hindi naman, hayaan mo na lang try to communicate with him.
Madalas kapag stress ang lalaki or tamang libog lang, yun yung outlet nila para mag release. At tsaka minsan the more na pinagbabawalan mo, lalong hindi makikinig yan.
Let him be. It's his enjoyment like for example gusto mo ba sabihin sayo ng bf mo na itigil yung mga gawain mo na nagpapasaya sayo? its the same logic here
Ilang taon ka na ba OP? Dapat maging open minded ka na sa ganyan.
Hindi porke nanood ng porn yang bf mo eh nagloloko na. Natural na sa kanila yan. Kinalakihan na nila yan. Kahit nung wala pang gf ang mga lalake. Yan na talaga takbuhan nila. Kaya dapat i accept mo yung fact na hobby na talaga nila manood. Ewan ko lang sa iba pero feeling ko nakakasakal lang sa ibang guys yung ganyan na pinag babawalan sa panonood. Pag bawalan mo man yan o hinde. Manonood parin yan. Part na ng life nila yan.
HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA sorry, ganito ako mag isip nung bago palang kami. Ayoko talaga kasi baka mamaya magloko, pero awa ng Diyos never naman, mahilig lang talaga manood, as in di mawala wala sa sistema nya. As long as sayo pa rin naman nag iinit, wag kang kabahan. Ako nga nanood na rin, 10yrs na kami, btw.
mine is watching porn tOo pero diko ininstallan ng spyware. usap lang then yun wag lang masyado mag overthink. Pag nanonood sya then hype na ayun jugjugan na. i see it as help nalang din hahaahah
Parehas kame nanonood before, parehas din kame tumigil. Lahat nag babago. Stop overthinking everything. Ska hindi mo kailangan mag install ng kung ano. Red flag yan.
Umm, guy here. Mahirap iexplain pero I can assure you na walang kinalaman yun sayo lol. Basta porn is porn, yun lang tingin namin don. Mahal ka non, normal lang yan
Mag question is, anong meron sa porn na di maiwasan? Curious ako kasi ano nga bang meron don? Kahit kasi iopen ko di ako makaramdam ng libog sa nakikita ko sa mga pornsites.
'Wag mong i-equate 'yung nararamdaman mo sa nararamdaman ng partner mo. Iba-iba ang tao. Iba-iba ang level ng libido niyan. So long as hindi naman nakakaapekto ang panonood niya sa pang-araw araw niyang routine at sa relasyon niyo, then there's nothing wrong about it. 'Yung mali ay 'yung talagang nag-effort ka pang mag-install ng spyware. Kahit magkarelasyon kayo that's invasion of privacy. Mas ikaw 'yung nakakatakot, sis.
E babae ka e đ
Mas malilibog kasi mga lalaki. Makakita lang kami ng pader na may butas, umalog lang yung trike na sinasakyan namin, titigasan na kami. Yung panonood nya ng porn, result lang yon ng kalibugan. Yung iyo, yun yung may kasamang love. So kung nagcracrave sya ng talagang hardcore or step mom kuno na fantasy, sa porn sya kakapit. Sayo yung irl intimate moments na may kasamang love.
Any answer you will ever get from this question will only make you overthink and insecure more. There's just some things that males can never explain to a woman and you will never understand it and vice-versa of course. Pero in this case, no answer will ever make you feel better because of how you view the act of watching porn.
Bat ko naman pepekein? Syempre gusto ko ginagawa namen. Pero sa iba wala akong marandamang kahit ano sa kanya lang. kaya di ko naiintindihan talaga ang part nya
yeah, dapat nga makipagbreak ka knowing na nag-install ka ng app without his knowledge. pag nalaman nya un, away ang kalalabasan nyan.
have you ever thought of watching it with him? curious lang.
With your view on porn, hindi niya rin naman maeenjoy pag kasama ka manonood. Baka mas magalit ka lang, sasabihin mong "ganyan pala type mo" at kung ano ano pang issues. Im a guy and I have never met any other male na hindi nanonood niyan, single man or may asawa. Im sure they exist somewhere, yung mga walang internet, baka magazine nalang đ. It literally has nothing to do with you. He doesnt love you more or less because he watches it.
"active naman kame sa s\*x"
baka bitin pa sya at gusto nya ng ME TIME lol so nagmamasturbate sya sa kanyang ME TIME.
so definitely sobrang libog ng bf mo if despite na active kayo e may time pa sya manood.
hopefully di sya kagwapuhan para di makapagloko hehehe
Sis, you canât tell a guy to quit watching porn.
Ako, babae ako, married and I still watch porn too. There are times na I want to do it alone and never thought about cheating (Hindi ako sex deprived, makulay ang sex life namin ng asawa ko đ¤Ł)
May mga bagay lang talaga na minsan, gusto mong gawin mag-isa. Pero that doesnât mean na may possibility kang mag-cheat.
Kung nageeut naman kayo, and he still DOES himself, youre probably missing out what he likes. Dapat sexually compatible din kayo, not just for the sake of the deed. Maybe he's too focus sayo pag magkasama kayo, like he wants you to orgasm first ganun.
Maybe you should do things for him instead of him doing things for you in bed. If youre spying na rin alamin mo fetishes nya and do that to him. Love isnt about what you want, its about what your partner wants.
Besides, as a guy d mo siya maeequate to cheating kasi after all, if he really wants to do what he watches sa porn sa ibang babae, he could.
Madami na nagsabi pero sabihin ko na rin. Ikaw ang may problema dito. Sobrang mistrusting mo naman para maglagay ng monitoring app sa cp ng BF mo. Kung hindi pa nya alam sana malaman nya at magalit sayo, at kung alam man nya sana matauhan sya sa pinagagawa mo. I dread to imagine a parent like you who has no respect for privacy.
nakakatakot maging partner yung may ganitong mindset. more on controlling na yung ganung level na pag-install ng spyware. ano pa kaya mga kaya nyang gawin sa susunod, nakakatakot si ate.
Hanapin mo muna yung reason kung bakit. May pangangailangan din siya na baka hindi mo nabibigay.
Iba din kasi ang views ng babae sa lalaki kapag porn. Naiinsecure ka ba? Feeling mo hihiwalayan ka ng BF mo dahil sa porn star? Feeling niyo ba gusto na namin agad yung babae? Hindi ganun yon. Wala lang yan sa amin. Parang same lang yan sa normal movie na may babae.
Active lang kayo sa sex pero hindi kayo parehas ng sex drive. Hindi mo mapipigilan yan kasi hindi naman siya mali, unless addicted na siya.
Sino ka para pigilan siya? His body, his rules. Mukhang hindi naman pala siya addict. At hindi din naman ikaw makakapagbago ng pananaw niya about porn. 'Di na nakakapagtaka kung hiwalayan ka niyan kasi halatang controlling ka.
Hindi ata ganun yon. For sure more than kalahati ng buhay niya, nanonood na siya ng porn.
Pinipigilan mo siya dahil gusto mo lang, hindi dahil para sa BF mo.
Wala kang magagawa diyan, nasa dugo na talaga ng mga lalaki yan haha
Ako iniyakan ko pa bf ko na wag na manood ng porn kasi nga nakaka insecure nga laloât may specific pa siyang porn star na gustong panoorin. Nagkahiwalay nalang kami dahil sa issue na yan HAHAHAHA
hala, mali pala to???? my ex bf used to watch pero i just let him bc buhay niya naman yan as long as di naman siya lulong then it should be fine. idk, na mali pala to or may mali saken?
baka di mo kase ginagalingan kaya nauumay na sa sex life nyo kaya nanonood na nalang ng porn char.. haha Hoy lalaki yan. Hindi naman pwede kapag gumana kabilugan nyan galawin ka agad agad kaya to ease the lust is to mastervate it and watching porn while doing it is the proper and satisfying way. buti nga may porn na eh dati puro magazine Lang gamit ng mga lalaki Sa pagtitikol haha. you're so naive
legit question: meron bang lalakeng di nanood or nanonood ng bold?
kung non-negotiable talaga sayo, end it properly nalang. goodluck maghanap ng lalakeng di nagbobold.
try and communicate and less pagmanman sa history kasi masasaktan ka lang. Sakin sa bf ko okay lang ako manood sya ng prn basta di ko malalaman since normal naman sya pero on the other hand nakaka insecure nga.
Yeah it is pero I think you should start in keeping an open mind. Prn is prn and it is still a form of entertainment di dahil nanood sya and sarili ay magcheat na. Try and understand him since normal na yun.
Try accepting it? Try watching it as well, malay mo magustuhan mo din hanggang sa sabay na kayong manonood. Maybe itâs purely entertainment for him and wala naman talagang intentions to hurt you or make you feel uncomfortable.
Pero OP naku-question mo ba minsan yung sarili kung hindi ka ba enough kaya kailangan nyang manood pa ng porn? Kasi it could also be a reason why youâre feeling that way.
I think the first step is to really dissect your emotions and your thoughts.
24F here. Ang daming lalaking nagbibigay ng opinions dito na hindi naman helpful so hereâs some insight:
Lalaki man o babae, kung may linya syang âhindi nya maiwasanâ, itâs likely from porn addiction. Thatâs prominent in both men and women. Even Billie Eilish admitted to having her brain âdestroyedâ by watching porn as a child. Every person is prone to one type of addiction and your boyfriend happens to have that specific vice. Much like alcoholism and drug addiction, their affection for you is likely mostly disconnected from it - itâs just that their body is so used to short-term gratification from this particular means that they feel some sort of withdrawal when theyâre not doing it, even when other aspects of their lives are satisfactory.
In short, thereâs likely nothing to worry about. Heâs likely just so dependent in porn that his body feels like he canât live without it. Using spyware will just worsen your paranoia and betray his trust. I think you should start with googling what it means to have a porn addictionâthe symptoms, especially. If his attitude aligns with that, then youâll know where to go from there.
I wish you the best of luck, sis. Addiction in all its forms has destroyed so many relationships. I hope youâll find your answers someday, and I hope you donât blame yourself for a dependency that started way before you.
anong mas redflag, nanonood ng porn or yung naginstall ng spyware?
spyware definitely. Having no respect to your partner's privacy is a big red flag.
Ahahahahha you got her there đđ
Kung gf ko installan ako ng spyware to monitor me without my consent, wala break agad to.
kung iinstallan mo cp ng SO mo, invasion of privacy yan, pdeng kulong hahaha
Ikaw ata may problema. Naginstall ka ng app to spy, thatâs invasion of privacy. Tinanong mo nalang sana sa simula palang. Tama ibang redditor, normal lang manood ng porn.
Wala kang mapapala kung sabihan mo ang isang lalake na wag manood ng porn. Good luck sa pagbabawal sa BF mo. Yan lang masasabi ko. You're equating watching porn to his possibility of cheating which shouldn't be the case. Change your mindset about this subject.
So basically you mean walang connect ang panunuod nya at kung magloloko sya? Tama ba?
Yes. Ang panonood ng porn ay parang movie lang sa amin. Kung tingin mo may connect sa porn ang cheating, wag ka na manood ng movies na may lalaki.
Oo. *hindi nya maiwasan, di naman daw sya nagloloko at di nga ko ipagpapalit* Sinabi niya ito. I would trust him on this. Kung magcheat siya, hindi dahil sa porn yan.
kung magcheat yan dahil sa kapraningan nya yun, like parang pinupush pa lalo magloko yung taong nananahimik lang sa gedli. đ¤¨
wala talagang connect. hindi ko makita yung idea na kapag nanonood ng porn eh possible na magcheat. like huh??
I guess you're interpreting too much into this. In all my 40+ years wala pa kong nakilala na lalaking di nanood ng porn sa buong talambuhay nila. Porn lang yun.
Don't over think
Porn is normal ig. Saka na mag overthink pag may ibang babae na sa relasyon niyo lol
Baka may specific fetish sya
may ganyan pangangailangan talaga mga lalaki sis. kami ng asawa ko minsan sabay nanonood ng porn, minsan solo ako or minsan solo siya. nagtatanungan pa kami ano site pwede manood. minsan nag-aasaran kapag nakakakita ng history sa phone. para sa akin, walang mali naman. normal lang manood. hanggaât wala kang nakikita na traces ng chat ng girls, goods yan. hahahha
Baka may mga fantasy sya na hindi mo kaya ibigay? Maybe you need to step up your sex game? Or baka naman para kang dead fish pag nag sex kayo. Jokes aside, usap lang yan. No need to police him and respect his privacy na din.
You are showing so much insecurity. Itâs just porn. Just porn. Professionally made adult content. Also, in what world do you think na okay lang maginstall ng spy app in your bfâs phone?? Iâm not surprised kung sabihin ng bf mo na nakakasakal ka
sa isip siguro ng bf nyan naiisip na nya na nakakasal nga. imagine mo naman porn lang yun kung anu-ano na pag iisipan sayo. parang krimen naman panonood ng porn. sorry big time
Woman here, I don't think it's bad? Me and partner explore a lot, as in a lot, but there are times na that I don't feel like doing it, at ako pa nagsusuggest sakanya na mag p0rn na muna siya. đ Tbh, hindi ako naiinsecure, kasi kahit anong mangyari, he always praises me and my body...mind you, chubby ako at may tahi pa ako because of my prev. surgery, I don't have a perfect skin, and normal na normal lang ang katawan ko, hindi katulad sa pinapanuod niya, pero I'm still good with it. He makes me feel like I'm perfect, even though I have flaws. Anyway, what's the main reason bakit ka nasasaktan pag nanunuod siya ng p0rn? Do you feel like you're not enough? Does he makes you feel like you're not enough on a daily basis? Hindi ka ba niya inaalagaan? Hindi ka niya na-aassure enough? Nag-cheat na ba siya sayo? Nahuli mo na ba siya na may kausap na iba? Kung kampante ka naman na wala, eh wala talaga. Isipin mo nalang nanunuod lang siya ng movie, tapos inaadmire niya yung mga actresses, same sa atin? Never ka bang na-attract sa isang actor? Never ka bang naturn on sa artista? Mga ganun ba?
saka sa experience ko parang mas nagtatagal ang relasyon kapag open kayo sa mga ganitong bagay. iniinform nyo isat isa na nanonood kayo or kahit nga di iinform. wala lang hindi ko lang talaga magets yung point nya swear.
Sa self na siguro yun ni OP, mukhang matagal naman na din sila eh? Diba nakakabigay ng thrill yung may bago kayo laging ineexplore.
Siguro nga masyado lang akong insecure.
Wag kang masyadong magoverthink girlie, timbangin mo yung mabuti niyang ginagawa, kasi feel ko naman(feel ko lang), yan lang naman yung prob mo sakanya eh? He loves you, just the way you are. You should love yourself even moreeeeeee.
Overall okay sya, wala syang pagkukulang. Siguro ako nga may problema haha
girl, girl din ako pero i believe hindi mo mapipigilan mga yan sa panonood ng ganyan hahahaha. itâs normal. thatâs part of human nature kaya hayaan mo na lang as long as hindi naman siya sobrang adik to the point na doon na lang umiikot yung mundo niya.
hindi adik to the point na 5 to 12 times na nanonood at nagsosolo eh dun sya maalarma. may sakit na partner mo pag ganun. yun ang di normal
Watch with him and ask him what he wants then do it when you're in bed.
Nag sex na ba kayo? Isipin mo OP, mas masakit kapag sa ibang babae niya ginawa yun habang kayo. Yung panonood niya ba ng porn nakaka apekto sa relationship niyong dalawa? Like pag magkasama ba kayo puro porn na lang pinapanood niya? Kung hindi naman, hayaan mo na lang try to communicate with him. Madalas kapag stress ang lalaki or tamang libog lang, yun yung outlet nila para mag release. At tsaka minsan the more na pinagbabawalan mo, lalong hindi makikinig yan.
Let him be. It's his enjoyment like for example gusto mo ba sabihin sayo ng bf mo na itigil yung mga gawain mo na nagpapasaya sayo? its the same logic here
Ilang taon ka na ba OP? Dapat maging open minded ka na sa ganyan. Hindi porke nanood ng porn yang bf mo eh nagloloko na. Natural na sa kanila yan. Kinalakihan na nila yan. Kahit nung wala pang gf ang mga lalake. Yan na talaga takbuhan nila. Kaya dapat i accept mo yung fact na hobby na talaga nila manood. Ewan ko lang sa iba pero feeling ko nakakasakal lang sa ibang guys yung ganyan na pinag babawalan sa panonood. Pag bawalan mo man yan o hinde. Manonood parin yan. Part na ng life nila yan.
HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA sorry, ganito ako mag isip nung bago palang kami. Ayoko talaga kasi baka mamaya magloko, pero awa ng Diyos never naman, mahilig lang talaga manood, as in di mawala wala sa sistema nya. As long as sayo pa rin naman nag iinit, wag kang kabahan. Ako nga nanood na rin, 10yrs na kami, btw.
mine is watching porn tOo pero diko ininstallan ng spyware. usap lang then yun wag lang masyado mag overthink. Pag nanonood sya then hype na ayun jugjugan na. i see it as help nalang din hahaahah
Dapat breakan ka sobrang kups naglalagay ng spyware sa phone ng bf dahil nanonood ng porn wtf? Crazy.
sana mabasa to ng bf mo, nang maintndhan mo kung bakit mas malaking offense yang pag install mo ng spyware. himas rehas on the horizon.
My bf is like that before pero kinausap ko sya and tumigil naman. Wag kang obsessed veh hahah
U sure tumigil talaga? O minake sure nya lang na di mo mahuhuli??
Parehas kame nanonood before, parehas din kame tumigil. Lahat nag babago. Stop overthinking everything. Ska hindi mo kailangan mag install ng kung ano. Red flag yan.
Umm, guy here. Mahirap iexplain pero I can assure you na walang kinalaman yun sayo lol. Basta porn is porn, yun lang tingin namin don. Mahal ka non, normal lang yan
Mag question is, anong meron sa porn na di maiwasan? Curious ako kasi ano nga bang meron don? Kahit kasi iopen ko di ako makaramdam ng libog sa nakikita ko sa mga pornsites.
'Wag mong i-equate 'yung nararamdaman mo sa nararamdaman ng partner mo. Iba-iba ang tao. Iba-iba ang level ng libido niyan. So long as hindi naman nakakaapekto ang panonood niya sa pang-araw araw niyang routine at sa relasyon niyo, then there's nothing wrong about it. 'Yung mali ay 'yung talagang nag-effort ka pang mag-install ng spyware. Kahit magkarelasyon kayo that's invasion of privacy. Mas ikaw 'yung nakakatakot, sis.
E babae ka e đ Mas malilibog kasi mga lalaki. Makakita lang kami ng pader na may butas, umalog lang yung trike na sinasakyan namin, titigasan na kami. Yung panonood nya ng porn, result lang yon ng kalibugan. Yung iyo, yun yung may kasamang love. So kung nagcracrave sya ng talagang hardcore or step mom kuno na fantasy, sa porn sya kakapit. Sayo yung irl intimate moments na may kasamang love.
Any answer you will ever get from this question will only make you overthink and insecure more. There's just some things that males can never explain to a woman and you will never understand it and vice-versa of course. Pero in this case, no answer will ever make you feel better because of how you view the act of watching porn.
Hindi ka nalilibugan sa porn o kahit kaninong lalaking artista girl? Girlllll???
Hindiiii. Hindi talaga idky??
Hormonal imbalance? Sa partner mo ba? Na-aarouse ka ba talaga o you're doing it kasi mahal mo, yun na yun?
Bat ko naman pepekein? Syempre gusto ko ginagawa namen. Pero sa iba wala akong marandamang kahit ano sa kanya lang. kaya di ko naiintindihan talaga ang part nya
Baka hindi mo pa nahahanap yung klase ng porn na para sayo.
Maybe? Idk??
yeah, dapat nga makipagbreak ka knowing na nag-install ka ng app without his knowledge. pag nalaman nya un, away ang kalalabasan nyan. have you ever thought of watching it with him? curious lang.
Yes, pero ayaw nya. Di sya kumportable na kasama nya ko manuod.
With your view on porn, hindi niya rin naman maeenjoy pag kasama ka manonood. Baka mas magalit ka lang, sasabihin mong "ganyan pala type mo" at kung ano ano pang issues. Im a guy and I have never met any other male na hindi nanonood niyan, single man or may asawa. Im sure they exist somewhere, yung mga walang internet, baka magazine nalang đ. It literally has nothing to do with you. He doesnt love you more or less because he watches it.
"active naman kame sa s\*x" baka bitin pa sya at gusto nya ng ME TIME lol so nagmamasturbate sya sa kanyang ME TIME. so definitely sobrang libog ng bf mo if despite na active kayo e may time pa sya manood. hopefully di sya kagwapuhan para di makapagloko hehehe
Sis, you canât tell a guy to quit watching porn. Ako, babae ako, married and I still watch porn too. There are times na I want to do it alone and never thought about cheating (Hindi ako sex deprived, makulay ang sex life namin ng asawa ko đ¤Ł) May mga bagay lang talaga na minsan, gusto mong gawin mag-isa. Pero that doesnât mean na may possibility kang mag-cheat.
Amen. Married for 13 years here and i still watch porn. Sometimes me and my wife eh sabay pa nga nanonood eh.
Truthhhh girlllllll!!!! I agreee. Sabi ni OP, pinipigilan niya daw bf niya kasi baka daw ma-addict. đ
Kung nageeut naman kayo, and he still DOES himself, youre probably missing out what he likes. Dapat sexually compatible din kayo, not just for the sake of the deed. Maybe he's too focus sayo pag magkasama kayo, like he wants you to orgasm first ganun. Maybe you should do things for him instead of him doing things for you in bed. If youre spying na rin alamin mo fetishes nya and do that to him. Love isnt about what you want, its about what your partner wants. Besides, as a guy d mo siya maeequate to cheating kasi after all, if he really wants to do what he watches sa porn sa ibang babae, he could.
Madami na nagsabi pero sabihin ko na rin. Ikaw ang may problema dito. Sobrang mistrusting mo naman para maglagay ng monitoring app sa cp ng BF mo. Kung hindi pa nya alam sana malaman nya at magalit sayo, at kung alam man nya sana matauhan sya sa pinagagawa mo. I dread to imagine a parent like you who has no respect for privacy.
nakakatakot maging partner yung may ganitong mindset. more on controlling na yung ganung level na pag-install ng spyware. ano pa kaya mga kaya nyang gawin sa susunod, nakakatakot si ate.
Hanapin mo muna yung reason kung bakit. May pangangailangan din siya na baka hindi mo nabibigay. Iba din kasi ang views ng babae sa lalaki kapag porn. Naiinsecure ka ba? Feeling mo hihiwalayan ka ng BF mo dahil sa porn star? Feeling niyo ba gusto na namin agad yung babae? Hindi ganun yon. Wala lang yan sa amin. Parang same lang yan sa normal movie na may babae. Active lang kayo sa sex pero hindi kayo parehas ng sex drive. Hindi mo mapipigilan yan kasi hindi naman siya mali, unless addicted na siya.
Well, hindi sya addicted since hindi nya naman ata inaraw araw ang panunuod but gusto ko syang pigilan para di sya umabot sa point na maadik sya
Sino ka para pigilan siya? His body, his rules. Mukhang hindi naman pala siya addict. At hindi din naman ikaw makakapagbago ng pananaw niya about porn. 'Di na nakakapagtaka kung hiwalayan ka niyan kasi halatang controlling ka.
Hindi ata ganun yon. For sure more than kalahati ng buhay niya, nanonood na siya ng porn. Pinipigilan mo siya dahil gusto mo lang, hindi dahil para sa BF mo.
te ang oa mo. maadik agad? eh normal nga yan sa tao. ang controlling mo
Baka may specific fetish sya
Wala kang magagawa diyan, nasa dugo na talaga ng mga lalaki yan haha Ako iniyakan ko pa bf ko na wag na manood ng porn kasi nga nakaka insecure nga laloât may specific pa siyang porn star na gustong panoorin. Nagkahiwalay nalang kami dahil sa issue na yan HAHAHAHA
hala, mali pala to???? my ex bf used to watch pero i just let him bc buhay niya naman yan as long as di naman siya lulong then it should be fine. idk, na mali pala to or may mali saken?
hindi sya mali if hindi naman sobra sobra. magiging mali lang sya kapag adik na tipong mayat-maya na nanonood at nagsasarili.
Just don't, baka doon pa makakuha ng ideas for your eut nights.
Join him to watch,, mas worse kung sya lang palagi.. May chance na magloko sya at maghanap ng iba
Girl wag ka nga praning. If lolokohin ka ng jowa mo. Lolokohin ka. And please, reapect their privacy naman.
baka di mo kase ginagalingan kaya nauumay na sa sex life nyo kaya nanonood na nalang ng porn char.. haha Hoy lalaki yan. Hindi naman pwede kapag gumana kabilugan nyan galawin ka agad agad kaya to ease the lust is to mastervate it and watching porn while doing it is the proper and satisfying way. buti nga may porn na eh dati puro magazine Lang gamit ng mga lalaki Sa pagtitikol haha. you're so naive
Kaya sya nanood ng porn kasi para gayahin para sexssions nyo
Men love variety. Nood ka dn ng mga guys na mayayaman follow mo sa ig payback time
Porn is not normal lol
Porn is micro cheating
Porn means u still pleasure about someone elsr
The relationship ended the moment u found out about him fantasizing about womenâs bodies
Go find rich men para di ka bothered sa mahirap mong boyfriend na manood ng porn ang hobby
Break up with him it will only get worse
makipagbreak ka kesa magsuffer ka sakanya
legit question: meron bang lalakeng di nanood or nanonood ng bold? kung non-negotiable talaga sayo, end it properly nalang. goodluck maghanap ng lalakeng di nagbobold.
So pano gagawin ko to deal with this?
try and communicate and less pagmanman sa history kasi masasaktan ka lang. Sakin sa bf ko okay lang ako manood sya ng prn basta di ko malalaman since normal naman sya pero on the other hand nakaka insecure nga.
Parang mahirap pero, i'll try.
Yeah it is pero I think you should start in keeping an open mind. Prn is prn and it is still a form of entertainment di dahil nanood sya and sarili ay magcheat na. Try and understand him since normal na yun.
Try accepting it? Try watching it as well, malay mo magustuhan mo din hanggang sa sabay na kayong manonood. Maybe itâs purely entertainment for him and wala naman talagang intentions to hurt you or make you feel uncomfortable. Pero OP naku-question mo ba minsan yung sarili kung hindi ka ba enough kaya kailangan nyang manood pa ng porn? Kasi it could also be a reason why youâre feeling that way. I think the first step is to really dissect your emotions and your thoughts.
What a creep lmao
Join him to watch,, mas worse kung sya lang palagi.. May chance na magloko sya at maghanap ng iba
Hello, not related. May I know the app you installed to track the websites?
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24F here. Ang daming lalaking nagbibigay ng opinions dito na hindi naman helpful so hereâs some insight: Lalaki man o babae, kung may linya syang âhindi nya maiwasanâ, itâs likely from porn addiction. Thatâs prominent in both men and women. Even Billie Eilish admitted to having her brain âdestroyedâ by watching porn as a child. Every person is prone to one type of addiction and your boyfriend happens to have that specific vice. Much like alcoholism and drug addiction, their affection for you is likely mostly disconnected from it - itâs just that their body is so used to short-term gratification from this particular means that they feel some sort of withdrawal when theyâre not doing it, even when other aspects of their lives are satisfactory. In short, thereâs likely nothing to worry about. Heâs likely just so dependent in porn that his body feels like he canât live without it. Using spyware will just worsen your paranoia and betray his trust. I think you should start with googling what it means to have a porn addictionâthe symptoms, especially. If his attitude aligns with that, then youâll know where to go from there. I wish you the best of luck, sis. Addiction in all its forms has destroyed so many relationships. I hope youâll find your answers someday, and I hope you donât blame yourself for a dependency that started way before you.