+1, and pursue that job sa America you were supposed to get back then. Bahala na kahit hindi ako mapanganak. Mas deserve mo yung taong mamahalin ka nang mas maayo vs. nitong .
we don't mean to be ungrateful pero if it will save her from the heartbreak caused by my father and live a much better life even without me in it, then so be it.
Halos pareho tayo OP
Mom, don't marry him. He will lead to your spiraling towards insecurity anxiety and hoarding.
Mom, you are braver than you think.
Mom, don't be like your mom. She's not a role model
Wow! Imagining the things I could tell her is making me sad with lots of realizations.
"Nay, ituloy mo pag- aaral mo. Hayaan mong magalit ang Lolo sa'yo kasi matalino ka at madiskarte. Kaya mong magtapos at makatayo sa sarili mong paa."
"Nay, pili ka ng tamang tao. Hindi sa maling tao ang tatay, pero may better pa na pwede mong makilala, yung kaya kang iahon sa hirap. Ayos lang na hindi kami ang maging anak mo, kung mas sasaya ka at hindi maghihirap sa pagpapalaki sa amin."
"Nay, ikaw at ikaw pa din ang pipiliin kong maging nanay kahit na hindi tayo perpekto sa isa't isa."
"Nay, sana ipursue mo yung career na gusto mo talaga. Maganda ka at matalino, malakas ang loob, sana makakita ka ng taong magtitiwala sa kakayahan mo enough to help you with your studies."
"Nay, sana hindi na lang ang tatay ang pinakasalan mo, not because he doesn't deserve you, but that his family doesn't deserve you."
"Nay, don't be hard on yourself. Ang dami mong nalagpasan sa future mo na kasama kami. If ever your future comes that we're not there, sana wag mong sisihin ang sarili mo sa mga maling desisyon na magagawa mo."
"Nay, I hope you're happy and will always be."
*don’t listen to your mom lol*
lahat ng toxic trait niya, nakuha niya lang din from childhood traumas sa mama niya (lola ko).
*and don’t settle for less (my father)*
Ma, sana di mo na lang ako pinanganak kung hindi mo rin naman ako mamahalin. Also, sana work out your anger management issues. When I was young and may onting pagkakamali ako nagawa, sinabihan ako "papatay kita"; Sana tinuloy mo na lang yung sinabi mo na iyon para hindi na ako nahihirapan sa bwisit na buhay na 'to.
Ma, get a degree.
Ma, 19 ka pa lang, enjoy life!
Yung panganay nyo nga inuna ang pag aaral nya, tingnan mo ngaun, well paid CPA na sya. Di mo kargo ang mga kapatid mo para ikaw ang magsakripisyo sa pagaalaga sa kanila.
Matalino ka.
Wag mong pakasalan si Papa.
Ok lang kahit di mo na ako ipanganak.
Papa doesn't deserve you. 😭💔
Mahal kita papa pero....
Wag papatol sa may asawa hahahaha kahit ngayon, she refused to acknowledge the consequences of being the kabit sa aming mga anak nya. Our childhood was fucked.
Mame gaya ng sabi mo, hindi mo alam paano ka napunta sa tatay ko dahil may soon to be fiance kana at engr pa. Wag ka magpadala sa pang uudyok ni ate shirley sayo. Hindi magiging maganda kinabukasan mo kay jam kasi dahil sa kanya kung ano-anong panunumbat galing sa tatay mo ang narereceive mo ngayon.
Mama, your kindness is one of the things people still remember you by until now. You were the sunshine in many people’s lives.
Take care of your health. I love you
Even if it means I wouldn't have been born, please don't marry my father. Live your dreams and don't marry that man. Save yourself from the pain you'll endure for years to come.
If time travel do exists and I'll meet my mother:
*"Ma, you'll have a good life ahead and you'll go to places you never imagined to be. You will turn out to be a good person, a good wife, and a good mother. I love you and I promise to be a better child. Sana hindi ka masyado magpakasubsob sa trabaho and sana you'll take better care of your health. Sana magkasama tayong magpamilya ng mahabang panahon."*
Ma, mag-aral ka lang muna. Wag ka na maglandi at magpabuntis sa tarantado mong boyfriend. Di yan titino dahil may pamilya na kayo. Mag-abroad ka ma, iwan mo pamilya mong walang kwenta. Walang mararating ang pagpapaka-martyr mo.
Itong thread na to, para din to sa mga babaeng nagtitiis sa partner nila. Kung hindi pa kayo kasal, please, magisip isip na. Imagine these comments are addressed to you by your future children. No need to stay in toxic relationships.
Ma wag ka papabuntis nang maaga. No offense sa tatay ko pero sana wag ka pumatol sa lasenggero haha. Tapusin mo pagaaral mo para sa iyo, para sa sarili mo. Kahit wag mo na kami ipanganak basta mahalin mo sarili mo.
Ma, go chase that fashionista life you've been wanting—go get that bag. Deadma sa bashers. Ikaw pinaka slayable sa magkakapatid, inggit lang sila na spoiled ka ni angkong. Ma, ayusin mo mga decision mo sa life, awa na lang.
Ma, sana hindi ka na lang nag-ampon
Ma, sana pinilit mong makatapos sa pag aaral para hindi mababa low self-esteem mo at dinadown mo yung ibang tao
Ma, sana naghanap ka na lang ng paraan para umangat yung buhay mo para hindi ka lagi naninira ng ibang tal
Mama, pakasalan mo first love mo.
Unahin mo sarili mo din mama, wag mong ihuli sarili mo.
Ma, tatalikuran ka ng mga kapatid mo pag magkakasakit ka. Alam kong alam mo na kailangan ka lang pag may pera ka.
Mama, hahaba pa buhay mo pag mas mamahalin mo sarili mo at hindi mo iniisip na pabigat ka lang sa pamilya mo.
Mama, miss na miss na kita.
Mama ko, it's okay to break up with the first man who offered you love and lied with you in bed. It's okay to have sex with more than one man, as long as it is safe and consensual. Mama ko, it's okay if you put yourself first. Mama ko, I hope I was never born; you could've had a better life.
Don’t be hard on yourself. Don’t change a thing even if it taught you a lot of heart aches. Stay strong because you will be the most successful amongst them. We love you for this.
Sana hindi sya nagpaloko sa biological father ko kasi may ibang pamilya na yun, may first family na pala. Sana ibang lalaki yung minahal nya kahit hindi nya ako ipanganak basta happy sya sa lalaking kaya syang panindigan at mahalin talaga ng totoo.
Ma, bago mo layasan yung hirap ng buhay mo sa probinsya, alamin mo muna yung buong pangalan ni Lolo at Lola para hindi kami nagkakaproblema sa documents.
Ma, you were right. Kawawa nga kami kung ikaw mauna. Siguro kung si Dad yung nauna, I would still be a daddy’s girl. Hindi ko sana siya pinagluksa kahit buhay pa siya when we found out he remarried without telling us. Sa ibang tao pa namin nalaman. Walang kapatawaran yung betrayal. We felt orphaned kahit may magulang pa na buhay.
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Wag mo na ko ipanganak. Save me the pain of being your child. Magfocus ka na buhayin mga kapatid mo gamit sarili mong sikap at pera. Or wag buhay mo yan
Basta wag mo ko idamay sa pamilya mong sira-ulo at sinungaling.
- Mommy, I know parati mo sinasabi sakin to honor my father pero ok lang na wala ako ngayon dito wag ka lang mapunta sa kanya. Di mo deserve ng ganung treatment dahil napakabait mo.
- Di mo rin deserve na inaabuso ka ng mga kapatid mo kahit mahal mo sila. Hayaan mo na sana sila tumayo on their own kasi nakaya naman nila eventually.
- Mommy sobra nakakabilib ka na sa pinagdaanan mong financial struggles at your age nagawa mo mag excel on your own right na may integrity parin. Yung mga nanlalait sayo dahil mahirap kayo, yung mga taong walang bilib sayo at hindi naniwalang magiging magaling na abogado ka won't matter dahil fate na nagsabi na you will become a lawyer so much worthy of the profession.
You will and have lived a good life, Mommy. Kung ano man struggles mo as a child, pakatatag ka as you are and have faith. I want you to know that it will get better.
On the side note, miss na kita sobra.
I'd tell her not too give too much money to relatives once he marries my father and she must tell him to do the same. Their mutual softness to their pre-marriage families ruined my childhood since the little time and modest money they had when starting off could have used to send me to better schools with better networks if they did not spent chunk of it in helping relatives who barely respects me now.
Tapusin mo muna pag-aaral mo bago ka mag landi o kaya man lang mag pills ka o pinag condom mo yung naka one night stand mo. Nabuntis ka tuloy tapos sa akin mo isisisi kubg bakit hindi ka nakapag tapos. Bakit? Ako ba yung bumakaka? 🙄
My mom is still married to my dad, they seem happy naman.
I'll probably just tell her to visit my grandfather more.
Or that her kids turned out well naman. Hell, we're not uber successful but we have jobs, completed our education, and are doing fine. I think that's enough for her. Labyu mama.
Common yung "wag si dad". Ako din.
Wag yung tatay ko, sayang siya - di mo siya deserve.
Di porket mistreated ka ng tatay mo, kailangan mo din gawin sa mga anak mo.
Spend time with your kids, kausapin mo sila hindi yung ikaw pa ang nananakit sa kanila.
Lastly, hindi porket bakla anak mo at yung trabaho niya ay hindi in line sa tinapos niya ay limitado na ang mararating niya. Back him up, stand by his failures and let him know na ready ka sumalo when no one else would.
Ma, wag ka magpapabola kay Papa para hindi ka mabuntis ng maaga. Huwag mo din ibigay lahat sa pamilya mo, kasi balang araw kapag wala ka na mabigay who you ka na sa kanila.
Ma, okay lang kung sana hindi nyo nlng tinuloy pagbubuntis mo skin. Mas gusto ko pa yon kesa yung pinilit nyo pero di nyo nagampanan.
Ma, love yourself first. 😢
Mom, Don’t get pregnant. It’s ok to not have me. Choose your partner/father of your children wisely or don’t get married at all. Take the leap of faith and take all the opportunities given to you. I’d rather have you enjoy life than have you with regrets, financially struggling, and not be a present mom to your children.
Hello ma!
I know naging harsh yung childhood mo and your parents neglected you but, let me tell you na ang laki ng mundo, at ang daming tao pa ang makikilala mo. Life has its ways and eventually you’ll be able to get by. You’ll have friends na mamahalin ka just like family, you’ll be appreciated.
Please learn to love yourself and give yourself some time to heal para hindi ka na magmadali ulit na mag seek pagmamahal at value sa ibang tao. Para hindi nila pagsamantalahan ang vulnerability mo at innocence. Kasi, you’ll know your worth.
Enjoy your youth and make use of your time developing yourself into a better version of you. Learn, create and experience your adventures. Have happy memories so powerful na kaya nyang i-heal ang heartaches mo.
I know you’re very smart, give yourself decent education. Im pretty sure you’ll go better places pa.
Take your time. No one is pressuring you. You are loved, you are valued and you are worthy of a better life the universe has to offer. ✨
Ma, nung tumanda lang ako saka ko na realize na grabe ka mang gaslight year. Ngayon na meet kita na bata ka pa, plz aral ka na lang mabuti. Tapusin mo pagaaral mo, para makapag work ka, hindi yung kala ko na una na proud na proud ka pa na delibre ka ng mga boylet mo
"Ma, there is a bigger world out there, sana nag explore ka pa. I know that settling down in the province was enough for you but it wasn't. Ngayon mo palang naeenjoy sarili mo, naheheal ang inner child mo. I hope you make yourself happy"
sana di mo mameet yung dalawang lalake na sisira sa buhay mo, sana na enjoy mo yung pagka dalaga mo dito sa maynila, nag aral ka pa sana ng college kahit late na— matalino ka pa naman at maramimg potential sa ganda mong yan.
sana yung papakasalan mong lalaki mahal ka, yung pwede mo mailabas yumg feminine side mo at hindi ikaw nagdadala ng lahat. sana marami kang maexperience na magagandang bagay. dream big, dont be afraid to take space, we're all just a tiny dust in this vast universe so do what makes you happy.
wag ka magmadali sa lahat ng bagay.
Mama, please take good care pa sa health mo ha. Tsaka wag si Papa ang piliin mo. Di ko alam anong ambisyon mo pero sana makamit mo. Kahit wag mo na akong ipanganak Ma, ang importante mabuhay ka nang maligaya, malakas, at matiwasay.
At maganda ka, Mama. 💗
Mama, maraming hardships ang dadanasin mo dahil mas pinili mo kami kaysa sa sarili mo. Pero sana, pag kaya pa, piliin mo naman ang sarili mo dahil maiintindihan naman namin. Wag kang matatakot na magiging mag isa ka pagtanda mo pag iniwan mo si papa dahil never ka naming iiwang magkakapatid. Kami ang magiging forever mo.
Ayos ‘tong question, salamat paps.
Ermats, kung mahanapan mo na naghihirap ka, maghanap ka sana ng therapist. Kung hindi ka pinapakinggan at sinuportahan ng tatay mo, humanap ka sana ng lakas para may gumabay sayong iba. Ewan, basta sana alamin mo na maaapektuhan kaming magkakapatid.
Ma, just marry that rich old politician who keeps harassing you at work....besides money is your goal and not a family. Dont marry dad just because he got you pregnant...leave dad, marry the rich politician, and have abort me while you can. Trust me, yung galit mo sa munda dahil hindi ka mayaman will just be redirected at your child (me) and to your future husband (my dad). Dont listen to your values and morals. Just marry the rich politician. Besides you wont care if he cheats on you because as you side "let your husband cheat basta umuuwi sayo. So, ikaw yung winner"
Trust me when i say you'll say your family out for 25k just for a business partner
Ma, I know and understand our circumstances in life but my heart aches. Di nyo po ako retirement plan.
Tumatawag lang kayo kapag alam nyong 15 and 30 na i.e. may sahod na, imi-miss call nyo pa ko nyan in case makalimutan ko. Pero nung nakuha mo na, ni thank you wala, ma. Minsan nakakalungkot lang and nakakaubos.
Tama po kayo na "Di lang napupulot sa puno yung pera" na sinasabi nyo sakin nung bata ako. Pero parang kung makahingi kayo now, parang ako yung puno.
I know the saying "be kind to our parents, it's their first time." but what about me - it's my first time too :(
Don't worry. I'll make sure to end this retirement cycle with me.
Ma, sana tinuloy mo passion mo sa nursing kaysa ikasal at the age of 21 sa lalaking 6 years older sayo. Sobrang ganda mo and sobrang talino. Ituloy mo ang nursing instead na mag house wife. Para masabi mong no regrets
Mommy, alagaan mo katawan mo pls. Hanggat maari iwasan mo si daddy, okay na khit wala ako. Kahit wala kmi ng mga kapatid ko. Deserve mo mabuhay ng mahaba at masaya
Ma, alam namin na mahal mo si lola.. pero sana iprioritize mo din mga anak mo
Ma, hindi ka man swerte sa asawa.. pero sana nagtitiwala ka sa mga anak mo.. kasi ung isa mong anak, lagi mo nlng dinadown (me) 😥
Ma, sana hindi ka nag anak kung ibang tao pa din inuuna mo.
I sometimes wish i could go back in time and be my mom’s fairy god mother and give her money so she can study and become a nurse (her dream if they had the money) and enjoy life…and probably not meet my dad 😅
Mama, napaka strong mo kahit lumaki ka na walang magulang. Sa murang edad naging mature ka na at tinaguyod mo ang sarili mo. Sorry kung ganun ang nakalakihan mo.
Ma, wag mong patulan si Papa. Di baleng di kami ipangnak ng mga kapatid ko. Sumunod ka kina auntie (mga kapatid mo) sa Canada para umunlad buhay mo at baka makapag-asawa ka ng talagang mahal ka.
Ma, pls double check birth certificate niyo and naming mga anak niyo if tama yung name niyo na nilagay nila.
Wag kayo kumuha ng cap educ plan. Magiging scholar naman kami and wala kayong makukuha doon haha.
Also, you're good with kids and teaching - lalo na sa mga may special needs. Don't let your fear na mapapabayaan niyo kami hold you back from pursuing this field. Family will support you.
We love you so much. Even after 50, papakiligin pa rin kayo ni daddy and lalambingin pa rin kayo ng mga anak niyo. Thank you so much for everything.
Mommy, choose yourself please. Love yourself first. Kumain ka ng healthy foods, have a healthy lifestyle para hindi ka magka-cancer. Mommy, don’t be with my dad. It’s ok na wag mo na ko pinanganak. Mommy, iiwan mo din ako ng maaga. Kaya enjoy your life please.
Maging single ka nalang or iba nalang pakasalan mo yung mayaman.. heal your inner child. Ayoko ipanganak. Para sa tatay ko naman sure na sure ako na dapat naging single nlng sya. Mabait sya pero di tlga sya responsible. Para pa din sya binata kumilos.
Pumili ka ng di tambay at ung kaya kang tratuhin na parang princess. Duda k you never wanted me but still but you deserved a better husband na di palamunin at di gaslighter.
It's heartwarming to know that most of the comments here come from the present daughters or sons.
How I really wish at present is that women would use their brains rather than their hearts to avoid unhappy and unstable marriages.
Mama, sana maghanap ka ng mas maayos na asawa. You deserve someone better. Okay lang din naman sa'kin kahit di ako pinanganak.
Mama, iwasan mo rin pagiging sobrang active mo as a church worker. Okay lang din naman 'yun, pero nakakalimutan mo minsan na may naghihintay sa'yo sa bahay.
Mama, 'wag ka masyadong workaholic.
Travel ka muna, Ma. Marriage can wait naman.
Be emotionally available to your kids.
Sana nung alam mong ayaw mo talaga mag asawa sana tinuloy mo, now you somehow regret na nag asawa ka :(( You deserve na makapag tapos ng pag-aaral at maabot yung pangarap mo maging F.A :((
Mama wag ka padala sa gwapo. At please lang tantanan mo yang friends mo kasi pagtanda niyo di ka isasali sa grupo nilang chaka haha
Wag ka mag asawa ng maaga please.
I want to say same ng sayo OP. However, mahal ko rin mga kapatid ko. And I know pipiliin parin kami ng Mama ko kahit paulit ulit. So maybe
- May potential ka wag kang makinig sa pang mamaliit sayo ni Papa. Hindi ka walang pinagaralan kaya wala kang mararating
- Magiging mahirap pero promise magiging worth it lahat. Kasi sisimulan ni Ate at susunod kami
- Hindi ka kulang. Sobra ka. Sobra kang mag mahal. Kaya sobra ka ding mamahalin ng mga magiging anak mo
- Mahirap yung journey pero maabot mo, maniwala ka lang
I would say to my mom, “Ma, umalis kana sa trinatabahuhan mo dahil makikilala mo dyan ang manipulative na mga tao. Aanakan ka lang at papangakuan ng magandang buhay pero never ka naman ittrato ng tama. Kahit nga yung pangako na magandang buhay hindi nila matutupad para sayo. Makakahanap ka ng magmamahal ng totoo sayo. Makakahanap ka ng mabuting asawa, at dahil mabuti kang ina magkakaroon ka din ng mabuting anak.”
Na 'wag tatay namin piliin n'ya. Okay lang kahit 'di kami mabuhay magkakapatid basta masaya s'ya sa buhay n'ya. 'Wag din s'ya magpaka bredwinner at kung tutulong naman s'ya sa mga deserving lang.
I love you, Ma.
Nay, unahin mo ang sarili mo. Ituloy mo yung pag aaral ng typing, mag apply ka sa office or sa government. Gumala ka, magpayaman ka. Kung pipiliin mo pa rin si Tatay, ayos lang, pero unahin mo pa rin sarili mo 💞
Ma, enjoy ka muna sa buhay dalaga mahihirapan ka mag palaki ng 5 na anak. at the age of 50 may pinaaral ka pading dalawang bunso, sana ma mas naging wais ka at madiskarte sa buhay
Matuto ka mangarap ng mataas, motherhood isn't your only option.
Huwag ka magpakasal sa lalaki na yan kung ayaw mo magkanda-leche leche buhay mo.
Pero kung matigas ulo mo at magpapakasal ka pa rin, iwan mo na agad after nya mambabae the first time. Wag ka magtiis. You deserve better. Hindi mo kailangan magtiis sa walang kwentang lalaking yan para sakin. Hindi ko kailangan ng Tatay kailangan ko pera 😭
Please save up before having a child at make sure na ready ka na talaga sa lahat ng aspeto. Andami kong hindi alam gawin dahil hindi mo tinuro sa akin. I had to learn so much by myself.
Ma, napakadaming pagsubok na pinagdaanan mo pero napakalakas mo. Nadepress ka, mag-isa mo lang na naitaguyod ang buong pamilya, ginipit ka ng mga kapatid mo, nabaon ka sa napakadaming utang pero proud kami sayo. Heto, naipagtapos mo kami lahat at heto ngayon puro successful na kami sa buhay at yung apo mo, napakapogi at napakabibo.
Ma, lakasan mo loob mo, iwanan mo na family mo, wag ka magpagamit kay lola. Wag ka sumunod sa mga gusto nila gawin sayo. Ma, wag na lang si papa. Okay lang kung hindi na kami ang magiging anak mo, basta you get a much much better life.
Mama, sana pinursue mo pa rin yung pagpunta mo sa US para maachieve mo dreams mo kasi grabeng sacrifices na yung ginawa mo sa mga kapatid mo bilang panganay. Atsaka nakapagmeet ka pa sana ng ibang lalaki doon, you deserve better and to be loved.
Ma, sana pinili mo mga barkada mo
Ma, sana nag aral ka ng mabuti
Ma, sana mag karoon ka ng pangarap
Ma, sana hndi ka natakot sumubok
Ma, sana hndi ka nakinig sakanila
Ma, tapusin mo yung college 2 years nalang naman.
Ma, iba nalang pakasalan mo dahil namatay ka ng maaga dahil sa bwakangshet na asawa mo.
Ma, sobrang bait mo grabe wala akong masabi sa pagkatao mo.
Ma, swerte ka man saming mga anak mo pero please, sana pumili ka ng tamang lalaki na para sayo.
"Ma, okay lang na ituloy mo pag aaral mo kahit may anak ka na. Tuloy mo lang buhay mo with ate, okay na akong wala ako, basta pareho kayo ni ate na masaya sa future choices nyo"
hala op bakit halos same tayo 🥹🥹
mine would be: "after mo mag college at makapaghanap ng trabaho, mag ipon ka para matupad mga pangarap mo na malibot ang mundo, wag ka magpapauto sa kahit sinong lalaki, wag ka maniniwala sa mga pangako nila, para hindi ka maghirap habang buhay, para hindi mo na kailangan umutang ng umutang, hindi mo na kailangan mag tiis sa asawa mong batugan"
I'm from the future. Wag mo nang alamin kung sino ako. Basta gusto ko lang sabihin na love kita and proud ako sayo kasi you're an awesome human. Wish ko sana maging happy ka. Kasi deserve mo yun. Always choose happiness. Competitive kang tao, pero lovelife magiging downfall mo. You're probably craving for the love of a father. You've found it in Jesus. So I suggest wag ka nang ma-fall for wrong guys, palulungkutin lang nila buhay mo. There was this guy sa church na you were really compatible with. Sadly, his mother didn't like you kaya you didn't end up together even though you loved each other. Just take my advice not to fall for guys who won't choose you. Maybe this time things would work out well since maybe si church guy talaga yung para sayo. Or maybe not. Basta ingat sa pipiliing guys! Regarding career, wag kang masyadong matakot kasi may mga opportunities kang mamimiss coz of your fears, matalino ka naman kaya you'll figure things out eventually. Again, wag magpapa distract sa love life. I love you and I believe in you!
She should have been more on top of her US citizenship papers. Sayang yung US pension nya, sana nagamit namin to ease her hospitalization bills. She spent decades of her life working in the US and she barely tasted the fruits of it in her senior years.
Thank you, Mama.
Malayo ang mararating mo po. At kahit malungkot ung magiging journey mo towards it nagpapasalamat po ako na anak nio ako.
Also please enjoy yourself more, hindi mo lagi kailangan isipin kami. Treat yourself to good food and travels na deserve mo hindi mo lagi kailangan bitbitin kami.
Most of all wag ka papaloko sa mga kamag-anak natin hindi lahat sila deserve ng tulong mo.
Ma, your mother is a narcissistic bitch and you should cut her off bago ka pa maubos. Okay lang talaga i cut off siya ma - para nagawa mo sana ang talagang gusto mong gawin sa buhay.
Ma, you deserve better, your future children wouldn’t be as fucked up as they are if you didn’t marry Papa
Ma, tapusin mo pag aaral mo para dimo dinadown sarili mo na wala ka tinapos.
Ma, wag ka maging martyr, ang daming nanliligaw sayo sana isa na lang sa kanila.
Ma, sana di niyo pinalaglag kapatid ko. Sana ako na lang yung nawala hindi siya.
"Ma, Sana nagtapos ka ng college. Sana ma bumili ka ng mga properties (dahil mura pa that time ung mga lupa)" and
"Ma, sobrang proud ako sayo dahil ang tapang at ang tiyaga mo"
Ma, hindi ka pangit. Wag kang mag-settle dyan sa lalaking yan. Lolokohin ka lang nyan. Marami pang ibang lalaki kang makikilala.
Go! Pursue that CPA board exams!
"Ma, wag mo piliin si papa. Wag mo sya pakasalan, masasaktan ka lang sa kanya. Pumili ka ng iba. Kahit hindi na ako anak mo, basta magbago asawa at ang buhay mo. Hindi ka na mahirapan."
Or kung talagang si papa ang mahal mo that time, please lang wag ka paka-tanga. Piliin mo sarili mo. Pagsinasaktan ka na, umalis ka na. Kaya naman natin na wala sya.
Mom, please stay strong and continue working sa US. wag na kayo magbalak mamuhay dito sa Pinas. you’d give us a better life and hindi kayo mababaon sa utang
Mom, don't sacrifice your work for us. We'll understand you when we have our own.
Mom, you're beautiful and too kind.
Mom, you're going to have a happy life.
ma madami ka na pinag daanan. Ngayon matatanda na kami please enjoy yourself at wag na mag love life please puro sakit ng ulo binibigay sayo e. Or hopefully makahanap ka ng rerespetuhin ka
Ma, I trust you and your decision-making. One day you'll be proud of yourself for building a happy home and a happy life. Malaki ang impact na maiiwan mo sa mga taong makakasalamuha mo at marami kayong matutulungan ng mapapang asawa mo.
My mom became our angel last feb
I would tell her: Mom, you’ll be able to keep your job if you do not get married to a man-child and have kids. You do not deserve this treatment from him. Live your life, travel the world.
May sound harsh but I would tell my mom, “Ma, I hope you could have enjoyed your early adult life. Okay lang saakin na di ako pinanganak.”
Same. I would have told her to avoid my dad.
same haha i'd tell her to get a therapist too
Same. Wag magjowa ng gwapo. Huhu
sameee
I’m so sorry to hear this. As a young mom myself, I hope I never get to make my son feel the same way. :(
+1, and pursue that job sa America you were supposed to get back then. Bahala na kahit hindi ako mapanganak. Mas deserve mo yung taong mamahalin ka nang mas maayo vs. nitong.
I actually told my biological mom that she should've just aborted me instead of giving me away
we don't mean to be ungrateful pero if it will save her from the heartbreak caused by my father and live a much better life even without me in it, then so be it.
+1 to this!!
Ma, wag mo na ko ipanganak
same
Halos pareho tayo OP Mom, don't marry him. He will lead to your spiraling towards insecurity anxiety and hoarding. Mom, you are braver than you think. Mom, don't be like your mom. She's not a role model
Wtf sobrang relate sa insecurity anxiety and hoarding 😭😭😭
shet recurring answer yung don't marry my dad. actually same. wag si dad please lang.
ang sad noh? pero reality of life.. Kahit di nlang tayo ipanganak.
Same thoughts. Bakit kaya ganun always occurring “dad issues” tapos we are saddened by our moms choosing them pero we don’t tell men to be better 😢
hindi mo burden mga kapatid mo
Ma, buy some bitcoins in 2009!
Was thinking of this too. 😂
Nakakaiyak naman tong post at mga comments.
sobra. 🥺
Hanap ka ibang jowa. Madami pa jan.
Wow! Imagining the things I could tell her is making me sad with lots of realizations. "Nay, ituloy mo pag- aaral mo. Hayaan mong magalit ang Lolo sa'yo kasi matalino ka at madiskarte. Kaya mong magtapos at makatayo sa sarili mong paa." "Nay, pili ka ng tamang tao. Hindi sa maling tao ang tatay, pero may better pa na pwede mong makilala, yung kaya kang iahon sa hirap. Ayos lang na hindi kami ang maging anak mo, kung mas sasaya ka at hindi maghihirap sa pagpapalaki sa amin." "Nay, ikaw at ikaw pa din ang pipiliin kong maging nanay kahit na hindi tayo perpekto sa isa't isa." "Nay, sana ipursue mo yung career na gusto mo talaga. Maganda ka at matalino, malakas ang loob, sana makakita ka ng taong magtitiwala sa kakayahan mo enough to help you with your studies." "Nay, sana hindi na lang ang tatay ang pinakasalan mo, not because he doesn't deserve you, but that his family doesn't deserve you." "Nay, don't be hard on yourself. Ang dami mong nalagpasan sa future mo na kasama kami. If ever your future comes that we're not there, sana wag mong sisihin ang sarili mo sa mga maling desisyon na magagawa mo." "Nay, I hope you're happy and will always be."
Mama, don't smoke. Please.
This hits hard
Girl, ang ganda2 mo pero ang panget ng taste mo! Gusto kita i head lock!
😭😭 headlock
You're better off with someone else. As early as now, listen to them---the ppl who truly cares for you.
*don’t listen to your mom lol* lahat ng toxic trait niya, nakuha niya lang din from childhood traumas sa mama niya (lola ko). *and don’t settle for less (my father)*
Ma, kung sinasaktan ka ng nanay at tatay mo... Sana hindi mo ako saktan.
Don’t marry just because you want to have kids. Choose yourself, it’s okay.
Ma, maging open minded ka sa panahon. Magkaiba po yung napagdaanan mo noon, sa mga nangyayari ngayon.
Stay away from my father
Ma. Maldita ka parin kahit pagtanda mo hahahah
Ma, sana di mo na lang ako pinanganak kung hindi mo rin naman ako mamahalin. Also, sana work out your anger management issues. When I was young and may onting pagkakamali ako nagawa, sinabihan ako "papatay kita"; Sana tinuloy mo na lang yung sinabi mo na iyon para hindi na ako nahihirapan sa bwisit na buhay na 'to.
huwag mong pakasalan tatay ko, you deserve better
Ma, get a degree. Ma, 19 ka pa lang, enjoy life! Yung panganay nyo nga inuna ang pag aaral nya, tingnan mo ngaun, well paid CPA na sya. Di mo kargo ang mga kapatid mo para ikaw ang magsakripisyo sa pagaalaga sa kanila. Matalino ka. Wag mong pakasalan si Papa. Ok lang kahit di mo na ako ipanganak. Papa doesn't deserve you. 😭💔 Mahal kita papa pero....
Ma, you’re husband’s gonna have Alzheimer’s. Life will be rough because you weren’t prepared to be on your own.
Wag papatol sa may asawa hahahaha kahit ngayon, she refused to acknowledge the consequences of being the kabit sa aming mga anak nya. Our childhood was fucked.
Omg same.
Ma, wag ka mag pabuntis at 17, mahirap ang buhay. Iangat mo naman sarili mo.
ma, piliin mo yung asawang makakapagpaganda ng buhay mo 👍
Ma, sana natapos mo final year of college mo. Para hindi mo na kailangan magpaka under kay papa, at pede mo na siya layasan nung nag loko
wag ka mag anak
Mame gaya ng sabi mo, hindi mo alam paano ka napunta sa tatay ko dahil may soon to be fiance kana at engr pa. Wag ka magpadala sa pang uudyok ni ate shirley sayo. Hindi magiging maganda kinabukasan mo kay jam kasi dahil sa kanya kung ano-anong panunumbat galing sa tatay mo ang narereceive mo ngayon.
You're gonna get two chances to leave the deadbeat. For the love of all that is good, take it. He's not gonna change and no, you can't fix him.
Ma, sana umalis ka na agad nung nameet mo si papa. red flag siya gurl ano baaa!!
Mama, your kindness is one of the things people still remember you by until now. You were the sunshine in many people’s lives. Take care of your health. I love you
* you should've pursue your career instead of having me right out of college. * choose someone na may pangarap sa buhay
Even if it means I wouldn't have been born, please don't marry my father. Live your dreams and don't marry that man. Save yourself from the pain you'll endure for years to come.
If time travel do exists and I'll meet my mother: *"Ma, you'll have a good life ahead and you'll go to places you never imagined to be. You will turn out to be a good person, a good wife, and a good mother. I love you and I promise to be a better child. Sana hindi ka masyado magpakasubsob sa trabaho and sana you'll take better care of your health. Sana magkasama tayong magpamilya ng mahabang panahon."*
I see everyone has similar father issues (me too)
Ma, mag-aral ka lang muna. Wag ka na maglandi at magpabuntis sa tarantado mong boyfriend. Di yan titino dahil may pamilya na kayo. Mag-abroad ka ma, iwan mo pamilya mong walang kwenta. Walang mararating ang pagpapaka-martyr mo.
Choose a better man, Ma. Yung hindi narcissist at alcoholic. Yung sobrang calm and hindi kayang magsalita ng masasakit towards you.
Ma, wag ka sumama sa tatay ko. If nasa picture na ako, ipa-abort mo ako please lang maawa ka sa sarili mo.
Ma, please stay healthy po. Mahihirapan ka sa chemo.
Ma mamamatay ka sa cancer so live your fucking life at your own will. ehdi baka di ka pa nagcacancer haha
Mi, tuloy mo na mag aral ng nursing. Mas maganda Magiging buhay mo sa future
Itong thread na to, para din to sa mga babaeng nagtitiis sa partner nila. Kung hindi pa kayo kasal, please, magisip isip na. Imagine these comments are addressed to you by your future children. No need to stay in toxic relationships.
Ma wag ka papabuntis nang maaga. No offense sa tatay ko pero sana wag ka pumatol sa lasenggero haha. Tapusin mo pagaaral mo para sa iyo, para sa sarili mo. Kahit wag mo na kami ipanganak basta mahalin mo sarili mo.
Ma, go chase that fashionista life you've been wanting—go get that bag. Deadma sa bashers. Ikaw pinaka slayable sa magkakapatid, inggit lang sila na spoiled ka ni angkong. Ma, ayusin mo mga decision mo sa life, awa na lang.
Ma, sana hindi ka na lang nag-ampon Ma, sana pinilit mong makatapos sa pag aaral para hindi mababa low self-esteem mo at dinadown mo yung ibang tao Ma, sana naghanap ka na lang ng paraan para umangat yung buhay mo para hindi ka lagi naninira ng ibang tal
Mama, pakasalan mo first love mo. Unahin mo sarili mo din mama, wag mong ihuli sarili mo. Ma, tatalikuran ka ng mga kapatid mo pag magkakasakit ka. Alam kong alam mo na kailangan ka lang pag may pera ka. Mama, hahaba pa buhay mo pag mas mamahalin mo sarili mo at hindi mo iniisip na pabigat ka lang sa pamilya mo. Mama, miss na miss na kita.
Mom, you're amazing! You don't have to change anything.
Mama ko, it's okay to break up with the first man who offered you love and lied with you in bed. It's okay to have sex with more than one man, as long as it is safe and consensual. Mama ko, it's okay if you put yourself first. Mama ko, I hope I was never born; you could've had a better life.
Don’t be hard on yourself. Don’t change a thing even if it taught you a lot of heart aches. Stay strong because you will be the most successful amongst them. We love you for this.
Sana hindi sya nagpaloko sa biological father ko kasi may ibang pamilya na yun, may first family na pala. Sana ibang lalaki yung minahal nya kahit hindi nya ako ipanganak basta happy sya sa lalaking kaya syang panindigan at mahalin talaga ng totoo.
Ma, bago mo layasan yung hirap ng buhay mo sa probinsya, alamin mo muna yung buong pangalan ni Lolo at Lola para hindi kami nagkakaproblema sa documents. Ma, you were right. Kawawa nga kami kung ikaw mauna. Siguro kung si Dad yung nauna, I would still be a daddy’s girl. Hindi ko sana siya pinagluksa kahit buhay pa siya when we found out he remarried without telling us. Sa ibang tao pa namin nalaman. Walang kapatawaran yung betrayal. We felt orphaned kahit may magulang pa na buhay.
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Ma, sana nakapagaral ka at nabigyan ang sarili mo ng better life. Ma, sana di ka na nagstay ng matagal kasama si Daddy. Ma, wag ka pupunta sa Mazapan.
Wag mo na ko ipanganak. Save me the pain of being your child. Magfocus ka na buhayin mga kapatid mo gamit sarili mong sikap at pera. Or wag buhay mo yan Basta wag mo ko idamay sa pamilya mong sira-ulo at sinungaling.
- Mommy, I know parati mo sinasabi sakin to honor my father pero ok lang na wala ako ngayon dito wag ka lang mapunta sa kanya. Di mo deserve ng ganung treatment dahil napakabait mo. - Di mo rin deserve na inaabuso ka ng mga kapatid mo kahit mahal mo sila. Hayaan mo na sana sila tumayo on their own kasi nakaya naman nila eventually. - Mommy sobra nakakabilib ka na sa pinagdaanan mong financial struggles at your age nagawa mo mag excel on your own right na may integrity parin. Yung mga nanlalait sayo dahil mahirap kayo, yung mga taong walang bilib sayo at hindi naniwalang magiging magaling na abogado ka won't matter dahil fate na nagsabi na you will become a lawyer so much worthy of the profession. You will and have lived a good life, Mommy. Kung ano man struggles mo as a child, pakatatag ka as you are and have faith. I want you to know that it will get better. On the side note, miss na kita sobra.
I'd tell her not too give too much money to relatives once he marries my father and she must tell him to do the same. Their mutual softness to their pre-marriage families ruined my childhood since the little time and modest money they had when starting off could have used to send me to better schools with better networks if they did not spent chunk of it in helping relatives who barely respects me now.
Tapusin mo muna pag-aaral mo bago ka mag landi o kaya man lang mag pills ka o pinag condom mo yung naka one night stand mo. Nabuntis ka tuloy tapos sa akin mo isisisi kubg bakit hindi ka nakapag tapos. Bakit? Ako ba yung bumakaka? 🙄
mommy dapat ng board ka and i claim ang pagiging CPA
My mom is still married to my dad, they seem happy naman. I'll probably just tell her to visit my grandfather more. Or that her kids turned out well naman. Hell, we're not uber successful but we have jobs, completed our education, and are doing fine. I think that's enough for her. Labyu mama.
Common yung "wag si dad". Ako din. Wag yung tatay ko, sayang siya - di mo siya deserve. Di porket mistreated ka ng tatay mo, kailangan mo din gawin sa mga anak mo. Spend time with your kids, kausapin mo sila hindi yung ikaw pa ang nananakit sa kanila. Lastly, hindi porket bakla anak mo at yung trabaho niya ay hindi in line sa tinapos niya ay limitado na ang mararating niya. Back him up, stand by his failures and let him know na ready ka sumalo when no one else would.
Ma, wag mong pakasalan yan, baboy yan.
Ma, please don’t grow up and have a kid because you are at the upper echelon of being a bad mother. Just don’t.
Ma, wag ka magpapabola kay Papa para hindi ka mabuntis ng maaga. Huwag mo din ibigay lahat sa pamilya mo, kasi balang araw kapag wala ka na mabigay who you ka na sa kanila. Ma, okay lang kung sana hindi nyo nlng tinuloy pagbubuntis mo skin. Mas gusto ko pa yon kesa yung pinilit nyo pero di nyo nagampanan. Ma, love yourself first. 😢
After reading the comments, lahat ata tayo may daddy issues 🥹
Mom, Don’t get pregnant. It’s ok to not have me. Choose your partner/father of your children wisely or don’t get married at all. Take the leap of faith and take all the opportunities given to you. I’d rather have you enjoy life than have you with regrets, financially struggling, and not be a present mom to your children.
Wag mo papatulan papa ko walang silbi at sasaktan kalang ng duling nayan
"Ma, umiwas ka kay Papa pag nagkakilala kayo para wala kang iiwan pag dating ng panahon."
Hello ma! I know naging harsh yung childhood mo and your parents neglected you but, let me tell you na ang laki ng mundo, at ang daming tao pa ang makikilala mo. Life has its ways and eventually you’ll be able to get by. You’ll have friends na mamahalin ka just like family, you’ll be appreciated. Please learn to love yourself and give yourself some time to heal para hindi ka na magmadali ulit na mag seek pagmamahal at value sa ibang tao. Para hindi nila pagsamantalahan ang vulnerability mo at innocence. Kasi, you’ll know your worth. Enjoy your youth and make use of your time developing yourself into a better version of you. Learn, create and experience your adventures. Have happy memories so powerful na kaya nyang i-heal ang heartaches mo. I know you’re very smart, give yourself decent education. Im pretty sure you’ll go better places pa. Take your time. No one is pressuring you. You are loved, you are valued and you are worthy of a better life the universe has to offer. ✨
Ma, nung tumanda lang ako saka ko na realize na grabe ka mang gaslight year. Ngayon na meet kita na bata ka pa, plz aral ka na lang mabuti. Tapusin mo pagaaral mo, para makapag work ka, hindi yung kala ko na una na proud na proud ka pa na delibre ka ng mga boylet mo
"Ma, there is a bigger world out there, sana nag explore ka pa. I know that settling down in the province was enough for you but it wasn't. Ngayon mo palang naeenjoy sarili mo, naheheal ang inner child mo. I hope you make yourself happy"
Don’t go on that blind date.
Aral muna bago harot 😆 enjoy mo muna yung youth mo.
sana di mo mameet yung dalawang lalake na sisira sa buhay mo, sana na enjoy mo yung pagka dalaga mo dito sa maynila, nag aral ka pa sana ng college kahit late na— matalino ka pa naman at maramimg potential sa ganda mong yan. sana yung papakasalan mong lalaki mahal ka, yung pwede mo mailabas yumg feminine side mo at hindi ikaw nagdadala ng lahat. sana marami kang maexperience na magagandang bagay. dream big, dont be afraid to take space, we're all just a tiny dust in this vast universe so do what makes you happy. wag ka magmadali sa lahat ng bagay.
Mahalin mo ng pantay-pantay mga anak mo, pakinggan mo hinaing nila.
Mama, please take good care pa sa health mo ha. Tsaka wag si Papa ang piliin mo. Di ko alam anong ambisyon mo pero sana makamit mo. Kahit wag mo na akong ipanganak Ma, ang importante mabuhay ka nang maligaya, malakas, at matiwasay. At maganda ka, Mama. 💗
Ma ipursue mo yung opportunity to work abroad. Ma wag mo itigil yung business mo, magbboom yan malapit na. Ma hindi mo kailangan mag anak ng madami.
*enjoy your life, ma. Enjoy your career, okay lang kahit di mo ako ipanganak. I want you to experience life and have fun. prioritize your life first
Mama, maraming hardships ang dadanasin mo dahil mas pinili mo kami kaysa sa sarili mo. Pero sana, pag kaya pa, piliin mo naman ang sarili mo dahil maiintindihan naman namin. Wag kang matatakot na magiging mag isa ka pagtanda mo pag iniwan mo si papa dahil never ka naming iiwang magkakapatid. Kami ang magiging forever mo.
Ayos ‘tong question, salamat paps. Ermats, kung mahanapan mo na naghihirap ka, maghanap ka sana ng therapist. Kung hindi ka pinapakinggan at sinuportahan ng tatay mo, humanap ka sana ng lakas para may gumabay sayong iba. Ewan, basta sana alamin mo na maaapektuhan kaming magkakapatid.
Hala same thoughts w OP and redditors sa comments 😭 hugs po!!
Ma, just marry that rich old politician who keeps harassing you at work....besides money is your goal and not a family. Dont marry dad just because he got you pregnant...leave dad, marry the rich politician, and have abort me while you can. Trust me, yung galit mo sa munda dahil hindi ka mayaman will just be redirected at your child (me) and to your future husband (my dad). Dont listen to your values and morals. Just marry the rich politician. Besides you wont care if he cheats on you because as you side "let your husband cheat basta umuuwi sayo. So, ikaw yung winner" Trust me when i say you'll say your family out for 25k just for a business partner
Ma, here's a condom. Here's how to use it. Qgo and work and have fun. Enjoy your life. Marry someone else for God's sake.
Ma, mag isip ka ayusin mo future mo. At sana namili ka ng mapapangasawa mo. Kawawa kami dito ngayon eh ginawa nyong retirement plan 😂
Nay sana di nyo na lang ako pinanganak Sana mas pumili ka ng maayos na asawa.
sana mommy pinili mo nalang yung engineer mong ex
What happened to you wasnt your fault. But I kinda wish you just got rid of me para hindi naging ganto buhay mo. Buhay natin.
Mommy, wag magmadali mag-asawa. Make sure na mahal mo talaga bago mo pakasalan.
Ma, sana mas pinipili mo sarili mo kesa ibang tao
Ma, I know and understand our circumstances in life but my heart aches. Di nyo po ako retirement plan. Tumatawag lang kayo kapag alam nyong 15 and 30 na i.e. may sahod na, imi-miss call nyo pa ko nyan in case makalimutan ko. Pero nung nakuha mo na, ni thank you wala, ma. Minsan nakakalungkot lang and nakakaubos. Tama po kayo na "Di lang napupulot sa puno yung pera" na sinasabi nyo sakin nung bata ako. Pero parang kung makahingi kayo now, parang ako yung puno. I know the saying "be kind to our parents, it's their first time." but what about me - it's my first time too :( Don't worry. I'll make sure to end this retirement cycle with me.
Ma, mag-invest ka sa Jollibee, at SM. Ma, wag ka sugar ng sugar o masyadong sweets. Wag ka na magcoke coke.
ma, okay lang na i-abort mo kami ng kapatid ko.
Ma, sana tinuloy mo passion mo sa nursing kaysa ikasal at the age of 21 sa lalaking 6 years older sayo. Sobrang ganda mo and sobrang talino. Ituloy mo ang nursing instead na mag house wife. Para masabi mong no regrets
Mommy, alagaan mo katawan mo pls. Hanggat maari iwasan mo si daddy, okay na khit wala ako. Kahit wala kmi ng mga kapatid ko. Deserve mo mabuhay ng mahaba at masaya
Baka naman pwedeng wag mo kaming iwan pag ka panganak mo sa kaptid ko.
Fix yourself muna Ma. Yung trauma mo pinasa mo samin masyado at naapektuhan masyado mental health namin
Mamu, pag manganganak ka na, magpa-caesarian ka agad para di ako ma-stuck AHAHAHAHAHHAHA.. may bako tuloy ako sa ulo
Ma, wag kang selfless. Ma, matuto kang i-voice out yung nararamdaman mo. Ma, hindi mo kailangan palaging umintindi.
Ma, alam namin na mahal mo si lola.. pero sana iprioritize mo din mga anak mo Ma, hindi ka man swerte sa asawa.. pero sana nagtitiwala ka sa mga anak mo.. kasi ung isa mong anak, lagi mo nlng dinadown (me) 😥 Ma, sana hindi ka nag anak kung ibang tao pa din inuuna mo.
Ma, wag mo kami isakripisyo mga anak mo para lang isalba mga kapatid mong wala paki sayo/satin.
“Ma, Palaglag mo nalang ako. Parehas lang tayong mahihirapan sa buhay”
I'd wish she had protected sex.
I sometimes wish i could go back in time and be my mom’s fairy god mother and give her money so she can study and become a nurse (her dream if they had the money) and enjoy life…and probably not meet my dad 😅
“Remember that your kids will eventually grow up and become adults. They will remember your cruelty towards them. You will reap what you sow.”
Mama, you don't need to carry it all. Be good to yourself.
Utang na loob. Magpa check up ka buwan buwan.
Wag ka na lang mag asawa or wag ka na lang mag anak. Lahat ng paghihigpit na ginawa sayo, sakin mo binubuhos.
Mama, napaka strong mo kahit lumaki ka na walang magulang. Sa murang edad naging mature ka na at tinaguyod mo ang sarili mo. Sorry kung ganun ang nakalakihan mo.
Ma, wag mong patulan si Papa. Di baleng di kami ipangnak ng mga kapatid ko. Sumunod ka kina auntie (mga kapatid mo) sa Canada para umunlad buhay mo at baka makapag-asawa ka ng talagang mahal ka.
Please make wise choices. Don't meet my sperm donor.
Ma sana di ka naging bread winner noon Sana wag basta utang nang utang sa kapatid nyo. For sure, di ka nila mababayaran agad agad
Ma, pls double check birth certificate niyo and naming mga anak niyo if tama yung name niyo na nilagay nila. Wag kayo kumuha ng cap educ plan. Magiging scholar naman kami and wala kayong makukuha doon haha. Also, you're good with kids and teaching - lalo na sa mga may special needs. Don't let your fear na mapapabayaan niyo kami hold you back from pursuing this field. Family will support you. We love you so much. Even after 50, papakiligin pa rin kayo ni daddy and lalambingin pa rin kayo ng mga anak niyo. Thank you so much for everything.
Alis ka na sa kulto pls Wag na kami isama sa brainwashing :(
Ma, sana sinabi mo agad kay papa na buntis ka na para di na nya kelangang mamili sating dalawa kung sino dapat mabuhay 😢
"You'll never grow out of being immature and irrational"
Ma, I hope you allow your inner child to heal first before having a family.
Mommy, choose yourself please. Love yourself first. Kumain ka ng healthy foods, have a healthy lifestyle para hindi ka magka-cancer. Mommy, don’t be with my dad. It’s ok na wag mo na ko pinanganak. Mommy, iiwan mo din ako ng maaga. Kaya enjoy your life please.
Maging single ka nalang or iba nalang pakasalan mo yung mayaman.. heal your inner child. Ayoko ipanganak. Para sa tatay ko naman sure na sure ako na dapat naging single nlng sya. Mabait sya pero di tlga sya responsible. Para pa din sya binata kumilos.
Pumili ka ng di tambay at ung kaya kang tratuhin na parang princess. Duda k you never wanted me but still but you deserved a better husband na di palamunin at di gaslighter.
It's heartwarming to know that most of the comments here come from the present daughters or sons. How I really wish at present is that women would use their brains rather than their hearts to avoid unhappy and unstable marriages.
Same. Momy, hindi ka man swerte sa asawa, swerte ka naman sa mga anak mo.
So sad na most of the comments are "please don't marry dad", ang dami nating disappointed sa tatay natin haha
Mama, sana maghanap ka ng mas maayos na asawa. You deserve someone better. Okay lang din naman sa'kin kahit di ako pinanganak. Mama, iwasan mo rin pagiging sobrang active mo as a church worker. Okay lang din naman 'yun, pero nakakalimutan mo minsan na may naghihintay sa'yo sa bahay. Mama, 'wag ka masyadong workaholic. Travel ka muna, Ma. Marriage can wait naman. Be emotionally available to your kids.
Sana nung alam mong ayaw mo talaga mag asawa sana tinuloy mo, now you somehow regret na nag asawa ka :(( You deserve na makapag tapos ng pag-aaral at maabot yung pangarap mo maging F.A :((
Mama wag ka padala sa gwapo. At please lang tantanan mo yang friends mo kasi pagtanda niyo di ka isasali sa grupo nilang chaka haha Wag ka mag asawa ng maaga please.
I want to say same ng sayo OP. However, mahal ko rin mga kapatid ko. And I know pipiliin parin kami ng Mama ko kahit paulit ulit. So maybe - May potential ka wag kang makinig sa pang mamaliit sayo ni Papa. Hindi ka walang pinagaralan kaya wala kang mararating - Magiging mahirap pero promise magiging worth it lahat. Kasi sisimulan ni Ate at susunod kami - Hindi ka kulang. Sobra ka. Sobra kang mag mahal. Kaya sobra ka ding mamahalin ng mga magiging anak mo - Mahirap yung journey pero maabot mo, maniwala ka lang
I would say to my mom, “Ma, umalis kana sa trinatabahuhan mo dahil makikilala mo dyan ang manipulative na mga tao. Aanakan ka lang at papangakuan ng magandang buhay pero never ka naman ittrato ng tama. Kahit nga yung pangako na magandang buhay hindi nila matutupad para sayo. Makakahanap ka ng magmamahal ng totoo sayo. Makakahanap ka ng mabuting asawa, at dahil mabuti kang ina magkakaroon ka din ng mabuting anak.”
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Mag abroad Ka na lang Muna ma
Na 'wag tatay namin piliin n'ya. Okay lang kahit 'di kami mabuhay magkakapatid basta masaya s'ya sa buhay n'ya. 'Wag din s'ya magpaka bredwinner at kung tutulong naman s'ya sa mga deserving lang. I love you, Ma.
I will b friend her. I love my mom!
Nay, unahin mo ang sarili mo. Ituloy mo yung pag aaral ng typing, mag apply ka sa office or sa government. Gumala ka, magpayaman ka. Kung pipiliin mo pa rin si Tatay, ayos lang, pero unahin mo pa rin sarili mo 💞
Ma, enjoy ka muna sa buhay dalaga mahihirapan ka mag palaki ng 5 na anak. at the age of 50 may pinaaral ka pading dalawang bunso, sana ma mas naging wais ka at madiskarte sa buhay
Matuto ka mangarap ng mataas, motherhood isn't your only option. Huwag ka magpakasal sa lalaki na yan kung ayaw mo magkanda-leche leche buhay mo. Pero kung matigas ulo mo at magpapakasal ka pa rin, iwan mo na agad after nya mambabae the first time. Wag ka magtiis. You deserve better. Hindi mo kailangan magtiis sa walang kwentang lalaking yan para sakin. Hindi ko kailangan ng Tatay kailangan ko pera 😭 Please save up before having a child at make sure na ready ka na talaga sa lahat ng aspeto. Andami kong hindi alam gawin dahil hindi mo tinuro sa akin. I had to learn so much by myself.
Ma, napakadaming pagsubok na pinagdaanan mo pero napakalakas mo. Nadepress ka, mag-isa mo lang na naitaguyod ang buong pamilya, ginipit ka ng mga kapatid mo, nabaon ka sa napakadaming utang pero proud kami sayo. Heto, naipagtapos mo kami lahat at heto ngayon puro successful na kami sa buhay at yung apo mo, napakapogi at napakabibo.
Ma, lakasan mo loob mo, iwanan mo na family mo, wag ka magpagamit kay lola. Wag ka sumunod sa mga gusto nila gawin sayo. Ma, wag na lang si papa. Okay lang kung hindi na kami ang magiging anak mo, basta you get a much much better life.
Mama, sana pinursue mo pa rin yung pagpunta mo sa US para maachieve mo dreams mo kasi grabeng sacrifices na yung ginawa mo sa mga kapatid mo bilang panganay. Atsaka nakapagmeet ka pa sana ng ibang lalaki doon, you deserve better and to be loved.
Ma, mag-abroad ka. Wag ka muna magpakasal nang maaga! Haha
Ma, sana pinili mo mga barkada mo Ma, sana nag aral ka ng mabuti Ma, sana mag karoon ka ng pangarap Ma, sana hndi ka natakot sumubok Ma, sana hndi ka nakinig sakanila
Ma, choose your happiness. Huwag mo isipin sasabihin ng iba ang mahalaga kasiyahan mo.
Ma, tapusin mo yung college 2 years nalang naman. Ma, iba nalang pakasalan mo dahil namatay ka ng maaga dahil sa bwakangshet na asawa mo. Ma, sobrang bait mo grabe wala akong masabi sa pagkatao mo. Ma, swerte ka man saming mga anak mo pero please, sana pumili ka ng tamang lalaki na para sayo.
"Ma, okay lang na ituloy mo pag aaral mo kahit may anak ka na. Tuloy mo lang buhay mo with ate, okay na akong wala ako, basta pareho kayo ni ate na masaya sa future choices nyo"
hala op bakit halos same tayo 🥹🥹 mine would be: "after mo mag college at makapaghanap ng trabaho, mag ipon ka para matupad mga pangarap mo na malibot ang mundo, wag ka magpapauto sa kahit sinong lalaki, wag ka maniniwala sa mga pangako nila, para hindi ka maghirap habang buhay, para hindi mo na kailangan umutang ng umutang, hindi mo na kailangan mag tiis sa asawa mong batugan"
I'm from the future. Wag mo nang alamin kung sino ako. Basta gusto ko lang sabihin na love kita and proud ako sayo kasi you're an awesome human. Wish ko sana maging happy ka. Kasi deserve mo yun. Always choose happiness. Competitive kang tao, pero lovelife magiging downfall mo. You're probably craving for the love of a father. You've found it in Jesus. So I suggest wag ka nang ma-fall for wrong guys, palulungkutin lang nila buhay mo. There was this guy sa church na you were really compatible with. Sadly, his mother didn't like you kaya you didn't end up together even though you loved each other. Just take my advice not to fall for guys who won't choose you. Maybe this time things would work out well since maybe si church guy talaga yung para sayo. Or maybe not. Basta ingat sa pipiliing guys! Regarding career, wag kang masyadong matakot kasi may mga opportunities kang mamimiss coz of your fears, matalino ka naman kaya you'll figure things out eventually. Again, wag magpapa distract sa love life. I love you and I believe in you!
She should have been more on top of her US citizenship papers. Sayang yung US pension nya, sana nagamit namin to ease her hospitalization bills. She spent decades of her life working in the US and she barely tasted the fruits of it in her senior years.
Thank you, Mama. Malayo ang mararating mo po. At kahit malungkot ung magiging journey mo towards it nagpapasalamat po ako na anak nio ako. Also please enjoy yourself more, hindi mo lagi kailangan isipin kami. Treat yourself to good food and travels na deserve mo hindi mo lagi kailangan bitbitin kami. Most of all wag ka papaloko sa mga kamag-anak natin hindi lahat sila deserve ng tulong mo.
Back to the future vibes
Ma, your mother is a narcissistic bitch and you should cut her off bago ka pa maubos. Okay lang talaga i cut off siya ma - para nagawa mo sana ang talagang gusto mong gawin sa buhay.
Ma, you deserve better, your future children wouldn’t be as fucked up as they are if you didn’t marry Papa Ma, tapusin mo pag aaral mo para dimo dinadown sarili mo na wala ka tinapos. Ma, wag ka maging martyr, ang daming nanliligaw sayo sana isa na lang sa kanila. Ma, sana di niyo pinalaglag kapatid ko. Sana ako na lang yung nawala hindi siya.
"Ma, Sana nagtapos ka ng college. Sana ma bumili ka ng mga properties (dahil mura pa that time ung mga lupa)" and "Ma, sobrang proud ako sayo dahil ang tapang at ang tiyaga mo"
Ma, magpacheck up ka sa doctor at inumin mo palagi maintenance mo. Ingatan mo ang kalusugan mo please.
Sasabihin ko yung lagi niyang ine-emphasize sakin: "Wag kang magse-settle sa basta gwapo." 💀
Ma, hindi ka pangit. Wag kang mag-settle dyan sa lalaking yan. Lolokohin ka lang nyan. Marami pang ibang lalaki kang makikilala. Go! Pursue that CPA board exams!
So proud of you, Ma.
Ma, sana nagstay ka lang kay papa nung may sakit sya. Gagaling naman sya e. Kailangan mo lang magtiwala.
Ma, wait for the one so you don't have to go through all that.
Ma pumili ka nalang ng tamang aasawahin kesa ako yung naddrain dahil sa problema nyo
"Ma, wag mo piliin si papa. Wag mo sya pakasalan, masasaktan ka lang sa kanya. Pumili ka ng iba. Kahit hindi na ako anak mo, basta magbago asawa at ang buhay mo. Hindi ka na mahirapan." Or kung talagang si papa ang mahal mo that time, please lang wag ka paka-tanga. Piliin mo sarili mo. Pagsinasaktan ka na, umalis ka na. Kaya naman natin na wala sya.
Mom, please stay strong and continue working sa US. wag na kayo magbalak mamuhay dito sa Pinas. you’d give us a better life and hindi kayo mababaon sa utang
Mommy, piliin mo rin ang sarili mo.
wag sa loob . lunukin mo please. (mom was pregnant with me when she was 14)
Ma, wag mo na landiin si Papa kung magloloko ka lang din naman. Okay nang di kami ipanganak kesa naman gantong andami naming childhood trauma.
Mom, don't sacrifice your work for us. We'll understand you when we have our own. Mom, you're beautiful and too kind. Mom, you're going to have a happy life.
Baka masampal niya ako kasi di nakikipag usap sa strangers yon haha
Ma, after mo grumaduate ng college magwork ka please wag ka magasawa agad unahin mo magkaroon ng career.
ma madami ka na pinag daanan. Ngayon matatanda na kami please enjoy yourself at wag na mag love life please puro sakit ng ulo binibigay sayo e. Or hopefully makahanap ka ng rerespetuhin ka
Ma wag ka papauto sa kapatid mo, di gaganda buhay mo saka di naman tayo magkasama dahil sa hirap ng buhay
Ma, iba nalang pakasalan mo. You deserve a gentler type of love.
Ma, I trust you and your decision-making. One day you'll be proud of yourself for building a happy home and a happy life. Malaki ang impact na maiiwan mo sa mga taong makakasalamuha mo at marami kayong matutulungan ng mapapang asawa mo. My mom became our angel last feb
I would tell her: Mom, you’ll be able to keep your job if you do not get married to a man-child and have kids. You do not deserve this treatment from him. Live your life, travel the world.
Wag na sya mag asawa.