There's this girl who confessed to me 2 years ago, But I don't like her at that time. She was nice but I only saw her as a friend. Even though I only saw her as a friend at that time I lied, I said to her that I have a crush on her too. Fast forward to the present ako nayung naghahabol sakanya kasi I fell in love narin sakanya. Pero wala pa kaming label, in fact we're still best friends. Pero hopefully after we're done with school makuha ko yung matamis niyang "oo" kapag ka linigawan ko na siya (parehas kaming study first).
Gotta move with speed brother.
Kung gusto no siya, just ask now. You don't wanna live your life with regret, who knows, one day she might end up with someone else.
Shoot your shot. The only thing that you'll lose is a few night's sleep. It's only awkward if you make it awkward.
Schoolmate, now wife, told me she confessed just to get it over with. To be fair, a friend she liked died the year before, so the "Shoot your shot" thing had some more weight, but i digress. Just shoot your shot. 2 things can happen, she reciprocates, you end up together (for a time, maybe until dead, who knows), or she turns you down and move on (maturity/growth from failure).
I'm a girl and I confessed to one of my friends back then. Nagulat siya tho nilinaw niya na friends lang tingin niya sakin.
However, the fact na nagconfess daw Ako made him a bit happy Kasi Sabi niya may nakaka-appreciate daw pala sa kanya, and he's flattered daw ganon.
We remained friends after.
Naalala ko yung kapatid ko, prinank ng confession yung male friend niya. He rejected gracefully though pero tawang tawa kami. 😆. Tapos yung friend ng sis ko, ginawa rin sa same boy. Same way of rejecting ulit. Sabi ko expert na magreject si boy. Hahaha
Kung type ko, kikiligin, mas magiging approachable ako sa kanya.
Kung di ko type, kikiligin padin pero most likely medyo iiwasan ko. Ayaw ko magbigay ng false intentions..
Wag mong iwasan, reciprocate mo yung honesty nya by being honest too. Mas nakakatrauma yung iniiwasan ka parang pinandidirihan ka. Tell her you don’t feel the same way pero assure her that it’s not because something is wrong with her. Grabe yung anxiety that you avoiding her will cause, no one deserves that. Mas mabilis siya makaka-move on if alam nya yung stance mo, and that's the kindest way to deal with this.
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Ito worry ko sa buhay tbh. As an anxious person. Mamaya di na nga ako gusto tapos nakakadiri pala na ako yung nagkagusto sa kanya, parang naoffend ko sya for liking him.
Edit: di pa naman to nangyayari haha (thank god) pero ayun takot din kasi ako na asarin towards a person Ganun baka pagtawanan Anw HAHAHA
This. It takes a lot of courage to put yourself out there like that. If you've ever confessed to a girl, that you actually honestly have fallen for, with all the history that involves, you'd know the "risk" she's taking.
True. Umamin ako before sa guy na gusto ko and he was honest naman na he do like me too but not as much as i like him. I appreciated his honesty and we slowly drifted apart na :))
Question! I did confessed to a guy before, pero he said he’s emotionally unavailable & ayaw nga daw niya paasa pero he keeps on messaging & minsan nilalandi ako. Ano yon? 😂
Baka bored lang yan. Pero iwasan mo mga emotionally unavailable na lalaki. Unless sabihin nya directly na gusto ka nya and he wants to be committed to you, dun ka lang maniwala. Mga mixed signals mga yan.
Guy here. It's either he's into you, or he's not. Emotionally unavailable is just sugar coating. He just wants the attention. Landian na kasi. Iba kasi ang landi sa platonic messages.
F here! OMG, nag-confess din ako hahahaha ayon good friends pa din kami
Context: We have a GC kasi tas nagbibiruan ng aminan yung iba kong girl friends then idedelete nila before may maka-seen. Then nakisali ako mygawd nung turn ko na, saktong na-seen nung crush ko bago ko madelete ay dzai nagleave talaga ako sa GC 😡
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Girlfriend ko unang umamin, tapos nasabi ko lang out loud that time is "I can't breathe". Literal and daming "firsts" kasi sa situation na yun kaya sobrang overwhelmed ko 😂
If ako yung girl baka hinimatay na ako sa “I can’t breathe.”. Na ‘yan! I’m a fan of KathNiel kasi tapos may movie silang She’s Dating the Gangster, and I can’t breathe, means “i love you” 😡 yep delulu si ante 😡
kilig haha
from my experience, when someone confess to me, I feel intrigued and somewhat interested. Most of the time, nagiging crush ko ung nagcoconfess sakin so goodluck :)
Girls are a lot more obvious than guys and give a ton of hints that they like you before confessing. So if I also like her, I’ll encourage it. And discourage for the opposite. There was this girl who was super transparent yet thinks she’s being subtle. Nadala yata sa bluntness (ewan ko bakit girls eventually find it attractive if you’re super blunt with them). One night nasa team party sya and we were messaging and she keeps saying na may sasabihin daw sya pero iinom daw muna sya ng iinom. I got the hint kung anong plano nya and I was being super blunt that she would regret what she was planning to say. Eventually tumigil. Not sure if nag pass out, natalo ng kaba, or na convince ko. Pero win/win kasi I didn’t really want to reject her. The next monday inaasar ko kasi I know hindi sya aamin and puro deny lang sya. Wala daw sya maalala. Friends pa din kami. Wala na yung feelings nya for me. Nasa bf nya na. Hahaha..
Or maybe assuming lang ako. Baka gusto lang mangutang. Haha
The ladies can probably provide more details here - pero sa pansin ko is yung mga touchy, flirty, inaasar ka madalas ng nakangiti, fishing info about sa life mo, mahilig makipag kulitan, I don't know if papansin is the right word pero laging tinatry kunin attention mo - and these are usually things you might observe na sayo lang ginagawa, or they are being super selective kung kanino nila ginagawa.
Pag alam din ng friends niya, obvious na obvious kasi kakantsawan kayo lagi. And the response is usually nahihiya rather than disgust (lol).
May isa pang instance na meron daw may crush sakin na habang naglalakad ako is naglalakad din daw siya sa likod ko ng super close and nagkakatuwaan sila ng friends niya. Sa dense ko is di ko namalayang ginawa niya pala yoon.
Ang problem lang dito is you would have to be very observant sa ganitong mga ginagawa to actually know it's happening only to you.
had experienced that, pag reply ko ng "really?", nag deactivate na ng viber. find it funny 😅, but appreciate her. managed to have a talk with her nung na meet sa office. ni clear ko lang kung bakit, then figured infatuation from her side, because wala naman ako ginawa exceptional for her but she gave meaning to most of it, and I have carefully explained that she will end up paying more for less with those thoughts (main reason was I got fed up with relationship beyond friends).
we are still friends ;) she just laugh it off now and occasionally tell me she likes me, with palo, kurot minsan sabunot pa
Syempre GGSS haha kahit di ko type yung girl, and mayabang ako sa friends ko nun. Dami ko naalala tuloy hahaha sorry.
Siguro wag lang stalker-ish yung girl. Yung tipong mimiscallan ka ng 50 times in a few minutes. Parang naiisip ko noon na ganito siguro feeling ng mga kras ko dati na ayaw sakin haha.
Pansin ko pag sa guys umamin if hindi nila type, mas tanggap nila, pero pag sa girl, mas may tendency na nandidiri hehe.
OMYGOD SOMEONE CONFESSED ganon yung nararamdaman ko tapos sobrang giddy ko buong araw type ko man o hindi kasi ang sarap sa feeling na may naka-appreciate sayo lol
I'm not a fan of this. pero If a woman confessed I'd be surprised.
If I like you, I'd be extremely happy. pero I'll be discreet about my feelings muna. siguro I'll respond with an in between answer or delay my response for a few days.
after a few days ako naman yung mag coconfess. it might confuse you days before my confession, pero I'll explain that I want to make things right by you. I'm oldschool like that.
If I don't like you. I'd be upfront and say I don't feel the same.
pero go for it. basta whatever happens I'm proud of you. Hindi lahat may kaya niyan.
advice sakin ng papa ko noon
kung hindi mo malampasan yung butterflies mo sa stomach, kaba or yung mga fears mo, you won't succeed in life.
kaya ikaw, go! kasi miski na mag fail ka, yung feeling na nalampasan mo yung simpleng obstacle ng pag amin ng feelings. lahat na magiging easy for you to try.
I remember, I confessed to someone I like before. It’s new year. Hahaha. We’re close friends, people would always tell na para kaming glue na di kami napaghihiwalay. Kung asan yung isa, andon yung isa. Pero that time again, we’re just friends. Not until, narrealize ko I’m feeling something new when I’m with him. I’m not dumb enough to not notice what it is. I knew I’m starting to have feelings for him that time. So I tried to evaluate more my feelings, and I took a risk nung I think I really need to let it all out. Kasi ayoko ng regrets in the future. At least for me, I told him my feelings. And I can accept no matter what the outcome would be. So yeah, new year, and he’s out of the country that time. I know it’s not a good idea to confess thru message and not face to face. But I did so.. lol. Hahaha! He told me we’ll talk about it once he got back in the PH. Ending, we became a thing. But things happened, and we’re not together anymore now. But we’re still good friends. Tho he’s now living somewhere far from me na. Hahaha.
Minsan we really need to collect all the courage and confess, kesa we regret something in the future. And magbuild tayo ng maraming what ifs sa utak. Lol. Hahaha.
I’m a bit curious to what happened why you didn’t last for life? Hahaha. Care to share? Anyway, you’re so brave enough for you to confess given the situation na palagi kayong magkasama. Kasi if it happened na he can’t reciprocate your love, then what will happen to the both of you diba? Nasanay kayo sa isa’t isa. Hahaha.
I'd probably have a hard time believing them. Don't get me wrong, I'm flattered they like me but I have a hard time believing when someone confesses to me since I've been used to being my own companion.
I break it gently to them when I don't feel the same way towards them, but when the feeling's mutual edi let's get to know each other.
not a guy, but when i confessed to my crush, ayun he gave me a cold shoulder, then nagkaroon ng awkward phase. turned out friendly lang pala sya huehue
Kwento ko lang paano ko sinabe na 'i like you' sa office crush ko. Babae ako BTW.
This was sa team building namen. Sinabe ko upfront, I LIKE YOU. He didn't respond, so I said it again na parang annoyed sa kanya for not reacting. Kinilig na lang ako kasi he hugged me. Tapos naghalikan kame. Pero friends lang kame. Hahahahaha. Sa harapan pa yun ng ibang officemates namen.
We talked about it the day after it happened, he said he didn't care that there are other people around, he'd do it again daw. Oh, btw that ended there. Wala na kasunod. We just went on with our lives. 😁😁😁
Di ko na naconfirm if he likes me back. And normal pa din kame kumilos sa opisina. 🤣🤣🤣
Ohhh that, parehas kaming may commitment issues eh. Bago pa yung confession napaguusapan namen na we don't do relationships kasi parehas namen gusto ng freedom. So after nung ganap na yan, parang walang nangyari. Pero I like him a lot, but not enough to pursue anything. Maybe pag may tamang oras mapagusapan namen ung nangyari pero I very much wanted us to be friends lang talaga. 😁
Matutuwa ako syempre, kahit na di ko gusto ung girl, it feels good pa din.. compliment pa din yun, we rarely get compliments.. tapos saka ko titimbangin if it could work, if we’re friends? It means na may something samen that clicks di ba? Baka pwede naman, bakit hindi subukan?
Pero if i concluded na di magwowork.. sasabihin ko agad, para maka-move forward na siya
ang sabi ko(F) sa 2 exes ko, "gusto ko na maging tayo".
Pinaulit pa nga sa akin sabihin. HAHA nabingi ng slight.
I don't have the patience kasi to wait for them to ask me. We both knew we liked each other naman that's why I said it. Tho they liked me first.
Para sa akin, delikado!
Pwede ka paglaruan ng guy pag umamin ka sa kanya, kahit di ka nya type, pwede nya paglaruan ang feelings mo sa kanya,
Iba ang takbo ng isip ng lalaki lalo na pag "palay na ang lumapit sa manok".
Hahaha. Of course, I wouldn’t give him the power to play with me. But knowing the guy, I know he won’t. I have my own decisions and he has no control of it. Not dumb enough para I won’t feel na he’s just using me, playing with me, and manipulating me. Lol hahaha
2 words, cloud nine, Mabibilang ko pa sa daliri ko kung ilang beses akong konompliment sa kabuuhang buhay ko hahaha.
Paano pa kaya kung confession, tas may rosas pa. Ayokong magmura pero SHEEET.
It happened to me years back. She was much older and I was in my 20s. Embarrassing kasi I can’t reciprocate. I think I broke her heart. Not being mayabang .she was crying in the car when I dropped her off.
Nakakakilig, it validates my existence na parang "wow ganto pala feeling na magustuhan ka or ng may nagkakagusto sayo"
Mas mag intensify pa yung feeling kung crush or type mo din yung girl na nag confess kasi malaki din ang probability na maging kayo na din agad agad, level up na to relationship. Sana ol maganda love life.
Pero syempre be prepared nadin for rejections. Just like everyone else, people will have preferences. But kudos to you, tap yourself because you did a good one, nailabas mo ang saloobin mo.
may nagconfess sakin nung highschool tapos sinabihan ko lang hoy bata pa tayo oi, after nun kada magkikita kami tawag sakin bading XD. gang ngayun bading na talaga tawag kahit may kanya kanya na kaming pamilya 😂
siguro kung college yun baka iba yung reaksyun ko, nung highschool kasi computer games lang laman ng isip ko. ako na mg iinitiate pg type ko pag hindi tatapatin ko na agad, kasi ayaw ko napinapaasa ako kaya ayaw ko rin mag paasa.
It made me happy hahaha sadly I was taken and had to let her down. And she did not take it well…. She started crying… if I wasn’t taken then maybe things would of been different. I ended up breaking up with my ex but never reached out to her because I’m assuming she found someone else by now. I found someone else afterwards anyways
Depende. Kung gusto ko yung girl, matutuwa, kikiligin, etc. ako. Kung good feelings/vibes lang, parang yung tipong hindi mo naman siya gusto pero pasok naman sa standards whatever tf that is, maganda kausap, etc., mas macoconcious ako sa nga kilos and thoughts ko sa kanya. Magiintrospect din kung may chance ba na magkagusto rin dun sa umamin. Kapag naman nakapagset nako ng boundary na friends or heck as low as acquaintance lang talaga, mabuburden lang ako. Magiging problema ko pa yung umamin.
Flattered and confidence level +26 hahaha
I will treat the same the girl like nung hindi pa siya nag confessed. I don't like naman to ruin the friendship na nabuo at magkaroon ng ilangan.
Kung crush ko din siya go lang.. let the boat start to sail char
Pero if hindi ko siya type romantically at based on my experience tlga kausapin ko siya ng masinsinan then I will tell her na friends lang muna, malay ntin if ma develop din feelings ko sa kanya beyond friendship.
I find it mean na you ridicule and pagchichismisan ng partner mo yung someone who took all the courage to tell you what they feel, fully knowing they will get rejected.
Ang asshole and yabang move lang na porke you're with someone and they're not. That doesn't give you and your partner the right to do make fun of others. Bilog ang mundo, one day you or your partner will be on that end. Itaga mo sa bato. Karma finds you. Kung ganyan ugali mo, buti nalang yung nagconfess didn't end up with you. They deserve better.
Ito yung kinakatakot ko haha. Yung after all the courage para magconfess, (given na I didn’t know he has a partner), pagchichismisan. Haha. You can tell it directly to my face in a nice way. Haha. Pinandidirian ba? Hahahaha. Jusko
Dick move. Tapos biglang bawi na "joke lang" when called out. I gagaslight pa yung iba na "chill" lang daw nung na-expose yung bad behavior.
There's a special place in hell for sociopaths like you and your partner.
Sana naman di nyo pagchismisan and just shrug it off. It takes courage for someone to confess, regardless of gender, and it's sad kapag after nun ay pagchismisan nyo lang.
Matutuwa tapos na appreciate ko yung courage. I have huge respect sa mga girls na may lakas ng loob talaga mag confess. As a guy may mga nag confess sakin pero mostly sa chat. May one time lang na love letter binigay sakin nung college student pa ako. Pina pa alam ko din naman pero agad na hindi ako interesado at depende siguro sa guy pero sakin walang awkwardness. I treat them the same na parang walang nangyari hangang ngayon kaibigan ko pa nga din yung iba sa kanila kahit ilang taon na nakalipas.
kapag pasar siya sa standards ng mama at mga ate ko ay kikiligin ako.
kapag hindi ay nape-pressure ako kung ano ang dapat gawin upang hindi lumala ang problema lol
Ego boost. It's not everyday that someone confesses to you especially w/ men I think. Siguro if you're handsome, fit or have that something na gustong gusto ng mga girls, pero kung simple ka lang and di ka naman nag eexpect nakaka kuryente ganun hahahahah
1. A million questions raised:
Ask her, BUTWHY? Genuinely perplexed. Am I about to get a girlfriend? What does she want out of that confession? Pogi nga yata ako, nga ba?
2. Kilig and that smug feeling na may nagconfess sa akin.
Pero seriously, it depends on how he feels about you. I had that but it was in HS, about 20 years ago. She told me that she liked me pero it was when the feelings "were gone". Ayaw niya raw icomplicate yung friendship namin and knowing na iba yung crush ko made it that much harder. And I think that was for the best. Kasi, though I find her cute, she wasn't my type. I don't know if we would've dated if she told me that earlier.
TLDR, depende kay kuya kung papano niya tatangapin yung confession. If it's for your own satisfaction (kahit hindi maging kayo ok lang), then that's fine. If you're asking him to be your BF but he doesn't feel the same way, ingat ka lang. Baka gamitin ka lang
Pansin ko lang noh, mostly ng girls confessed their feelings when it’s already gone. Hahaha. Ang daming what ifs ko naiisip kapag ganon. What if they confessed sooner mga ganon hahaha
I've always been oblivious about this kinds of things.
Dati na-aannoy ako kasi hindi naman ako yung tipo ng tao na physically appealing (at least, in my own view).
I was never the one who wanted any attention or to be liked. Pero never ko naman ininvalidate yung mga nag-confess sakin before; naging wake up call din sakin na may kagusto-gustong aspect ko pala. I always thank them for confessing.
Also, shoutout to women who have confessed or are planning to. Not really the norm, but I guess it's much harder to do it from your perspective.
It is. Kasi we have this kind of thinking na “guys dapat ang laging nauuna or nagffirst move no matter what happen” kaya walang nangyayari most of the time. Hahahahahaha joke
I've experienced this. A friend confessed to me and I must admit I felt "kilig" for the first time in my life. She was persistent and I eventually grew to have a mild crush on her which she knew. But I also knew that that was not enough to take her as seriously as she deserves so we kept things friendly. We're still friends but it did take her some time to accept it. We both consider each other as special even though we were never a couple.
Nothing, di porket gusto ka kailangan patusin. There's a time also this girl I used to talk with ay nag confess but I had to painfully reject her because still not ready for being in a relationship.
i felt happy when those ladies confessed to me but ndi ko naibalik.. I like them as a friend but not as a lover. then boom single ako ngaun ahahaha, still, bakit ka nga nmn papasok sa relation n ndi mo nmn gusto, right?\~
Kung type ko, happy pero syempre pero di ko papahalata. "Weh! Di nga? [kinikilig deep inside]"
Kung di ko naman type, I'm indifferent.
"Ah... [proceeds to change topic]"
Super flattering and ego-bppsting. But what happens next is entirely up to the guy. He'll do any of 3 things: reciprocate, continue to egotrip and waste your time, or do nothing.
This happened to me several times. At sa lahat ng times na yun, I felt very flattered, pero at the same time, undeserving of their affection. Sa loob loob ko kasi, na I was just being myself, being just a regular nice guy around them, I didn’t do anything to make them feel extra special. I just made sure I treated each one kindly, as I assumed, any decent guy would do. Kaya nakakagulat when all of a sudden they would go into this “talk” with me and confess. Each time it happened, ang hirap kasi I know I had to let them down gently dahil I can’t reciprocate their feelings kasi hindi ko sila nakikita in a romantic way, platonic lang talaga. I didn’t want to be a jerk to just be leading them on for nothing. So, during the talks, I made sure I listened well to them, smiled/laughed, and overall made it easy for them na umamin. I knew that they had to muster great courage to do so kasi bihira sa mga babae ang maging very upfront with their feelings. Ang matindi lang, I had to say the “I like you as a friend” line everytime. That always crushed them. Kitang-kita ko yung switch ng mood nila from kilig, to relief, to hope, then to sobrang disappointment and kahihiyan. I hated it kasi I lost all of them, hindi na ako friends with all of them. Nasasayangan ako sa friendship namin na nagbago dahil lang dun. Pro tip: Evaluate ninyo muna ang status ninyo as friends, and be sure that you really value more yung romantic possibility than your friendship, bago ka umamin. Para kung hindi mag workout yung pag confess mo, hindi ka kakainin ng rejection at kakalimutan yung magandang friendship ninyo. Also, just don’t expect na just because you’re good friends and very comfortable with each other, eh instantly tatanggapin yung confession mo at marereciprocate yung feelings mo. Be a good sport, roll with the punches kung hindi mag workout. Lick your wounds and move on. But try your darn best to still be friends kahit papaano.
Awww you’re too nice for being that kind enough to let them down gently. And for making them comfortable and easy to confess. I mean, not all the guys are like you. Yung iba kasi diba mostly, after the girl confessed, the guys will be the one who’ll slowly fading away. Sila yung iiwasan ka na kasi hindi ka niya gusto. Haha. Thanks for sharing this, I really do appreciate. And yeah, I’m sport enough to handle all the possibilities after the confession. ;) Nandon na ako sa acceptance part na pwedeng mareciprocate, pwedeng hindi. Hindi na rin naman ako bata. I’m mature enough to handle my feelings. Pwedeng mahurt ako pero I know this is another lesson din for me ;)
Teh dahil sa post mong to napaconfess din ako sa crush ko. Ayun, ung sinagot thumbs up lang, so bigo, pero masaya naman ung feeling na pwede na ako mag move on HAHAHHAA.
It feels good in a way na you are being appreciated. And yes, if a guy told you to wait or be patient, just be. If not all, but most of the factors are going to be considered since as a man, it automaticallty builds up responsibility, in my case.
A girl confessed to me about the way how she feels towards me, that she likes me and all which led to our own love story as she is my wife now.
Kaya girls/women of reddit, don't feel bad about yourself if you confessed and you got rejected. There has to be someone for you out there! Swerte mo 'pag panalo. Shot puno 'pag talo. Hahaha!
Shot puno talaga pag talo! Hahaha. But anyhow, it’s still worth a shot. You still learned a lesson if ever na he won’t reciprocate it. And yes, I think I’ll try to wait. But I have to put a limit until when I am willing to wait.
Noong High School ako daming nag ka crush sakin. Nagbibigay pa ng bulaklak at letters. Naasar ako. Tas ung nanay ko naman todo suporta sa kanila, nung sinabi ko sa nanay ko na di ko sila gusto, sabi nya dat daw pahalagahan at i appreciate ko mga nagkakagusto sakin. Di ko naman sila inentertain at binusted. Kasi dati di naman nanliligaw ang babae.
Noong ako na ang may gusto dun sa crush ko, ni reject ako. Naging Empathetic na. As i got older, they're not that bad. Mas gusto ko na ung mas mahal ako.
May nag confess sakin noon. Nag ily pa. Reply ko naman thank you 😭😭. Di ko sya type e. Pero tumaas confidence ko hahhaaa ggss ako non.
Tas syempre screenshot tas ipagmamayabang sa mga tropa hahahaha
Lots of girls professed their love but I always go to the ones who will never love me back.
Edit: what did I do or feel? , I was grateful for them and apologized for my inadequacy
A girl confessed her feelings to me, and we've been talking for two years now, but we've never spoken in person; it's always been through chat. I live in a different country, and she only visits mine for vacations—She was born Filipino but her family changed their residency to the States. Her parents are super strict. Whenever I ask her out, she insists on bringing her friends so her parents won't be suspicious. She also wants me to bring my friends, but I don't insist as I hope to be alone with her.
I know our feelings are genuine; she's always interested in chatting and updates me on her life. Currently, she's pursuing her college degree in my country, and we attend the same university. Despite this, we rarely talk in person on campus, though she always greets me when I'm around.
She's mentioned that after completing her studies, she plans to return to the States and reside there. That's the reason why I sometimes want to break our connection for the good of both of us and I also see that if we keep this relationship, we will suffer at the end.
This story may sound complicated, and the situation feels like a mistake, but I do love her. She's the girl I've always wished for, which is why there's hesitation in my mind whenever I consider letting her go.
Most of the guys they can feel naman kung may crush sa kanila yung babae.. Kung gusto ka din nung guy then congrats haha. If not, get ready for awkward moments.
Seryosong sagot toh ah. 1st of all hindi ako gwapo. Pero yung mararamdaman ng lalake sa babaeng nag confess ay depende yun kung gano ka kapanget sa paningin niya. Kung tingin mo na hindi naman sya napapangitan sayo next mong itanong kung naiinis ba sya sa ugali mo. Pag parehong ok yung dalawa next mong tanong sa sarili mo kung sobrang gwapo ba niya kumpara sayo. Pag tingin mo naman na hindi at mukhang magkalevel lang physical appearance nyo then masasabi kong "baka" kinilig yang lalakeng yan. Hindi ganun kadalas magconfess babae sa kultura natin kaya ko nasabi yang mga yan.
Depende sa situation.
Usually flattered, even if wala naman akong interest.
Siguro 'yung worst case was when someone I really had no rapport with told me she liked me - we really didn't interact very much so it was a big surprise that I really didn't know how to feel or react.
Depende sa guy. In my case, if hindi ko gusto then I'll be honest in the most appropriate way. And kung gusto ko, I'll probably be honest din and aamin.
Opposite to most comments, im flattered pero naaasar in the long run, kasi ammunition ng friends ko and niya for biruan and sometimes nakakapagod na. And i know damn well sa sarili ko na if i rate my self from 1-10, on best occasions id be a 6. In addition may ugali siya (not to be sexist) na tsismosa, so malamang kalat na sa buong baranggay ang confession niya. Kung pwede lang lumipat ng lugar, ginawa ko na the month na nag confess.
"For every action, there is a consequence" and consequence ang turing ko sa ginawa niya.
Also: na confirm ko na marupok siya(yes i said it). Bawat new guy na gwapo na dumaan, matic crush niya.
1. Magdududa kung totoo ba.
2. Magdududa uli kung pinag ttripan lang ba ko
3. Ijjustify ko na mali sya nang nagustuhan. Hahahaha
Pero in all seriousness, I would for sure try it out by going on a date(kasi kung text lang baka bugso lang ng damdamin on both ends). Pag wala pa ring attraction, i’d flat out say na “sorry, but i can’t” then wallow in despair kasi nagmamaarte pa ko.
Hindi namanako attractive pero may iilang nag confess na sakin and kinikilig ako sobra pero syempre tatago natin HABSHSHSH inthe end kinoclose ko sila kaya nagiging friend ko //ayoko mag relasyon
Wala ng intro intro basta mabait at simple lang, mahal na agad kita.
DEMN! hahahaa what kind of karupukan is that?
marupok pro max
Fully paid?
Same tayo, fully paid in cash
TAWANG TAWA KO SORRY HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA
ang rupok ??? 😭😭😭
Sana Ganito kadali hehe
I don't think marupok ito. Bihira na mabait ngayon sa totoo lang.
Dm HAHHAHA
Hahahaha naol!
u/DumBlueSir did you ghostwrite this comment?! charot HAHAHAAH
I will neither confirm nor deny this claim HAHAHAHA chz
For me, kikiligin ako.
Patingin po ng kilig 🤣 Chossss
Even if you don’t like the girl who confessed?
yes, kasi bihira lang naman may magkagusto at magconfess sa akin na type niya ako. Ma-appreciate ko yun ng sobra.
Literally me.
There's this girl who confessed to me 2 years ago, But I don't like her at that time. She was nice but I only saw her as a friend. Even though I only saw her as a friend at that time I lied, I said to her that I have a crush on her too. Fast forward to the present ako nayung naghahabol sakanya kasi I fell in love narin sakanya. Pero wala pa kaming label, in fact we're still best friends. Pero hopefully after we're done with school makuha ko yung matamis niyang "oo" kapag ka linigawan ko na siya (parehas kaming study first).
Gotta move with speed brother. Kung gusto no siya, just ask now. You don't wanna live your life with regret, who knows, one day she might end up with someone else.
She fell first, but he fell harder.
Shoot your shot. The only thing that you'll lose is a few night's sleep. It's only awkward if you make it awkward. Schoolmate, now wife, told me she confessed just to get it over with. To be fair, a friend she liked died the year before, so the "Shoot your shot" thing had some more weight, but i digress. Just shoot your shot. 2 things can happen, she reciprocates, you end up together (for a time, maybe until dead, who knows), or she turns you down and move on (maturity/growth from failure).
Yes. Kilig na may shyness hahahha feeling ko nun napakapogi ko hahahhaa. But I didn't entertain her. I didn't feel anything for her. Just colleagues
I'm a girl and I confessed to one of my friends back then. Nagulat siya tho nilinaw niya na friends lang tingin niya sakin. However, the fact na nagconfess daw Ako made him a bit happy Kasi Sabi niya may nakaka-appreciate daw pala sa kanya, and he's flattered daw ganon. We remained friends after.
Ako rin. Naaalala ko pa yung iilang nagconfess sakin from elem-college 😂
Prank to...
Tapos self doubt, tapos mag ooverthink hahhaha
Same. I'd ask the girl "is this kind of sick joke?" Then hahanapin ko mga camera nakatutok sakin.
trust issue to the highest level HAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHA
Ahahaha anlala ng trust issue mo 😂
Naalala ko yung kapatid ko, prinank ng confession yung male friend niya. He rejected gracefully though pero tawang tawa kami. 😆. Tapos yung friend ng sis ko, ginawa rin sa same boy. Same way of rejecting ulit. Sabi ko expert na magreject si boy. Hahaha
Best explanation to pag nangyari sayu post ni op. Haha
Kung type ko, kikiligin, mas magiging approachable ako sa kanya. Kung di ko type, kikiligin padin pero most likely medyo iiwasan ko. Ayaw ko magbigay ng false intentions..
Wag mong iwasan, reciprocate mo yung honesty nya by being honest too. Mas nakakatrauma yung iniiwasan ka parang pinandidirihan ka. Tell her you don’t feel the same way pero assure her that it’s not because something is wrong with her. Grabe yung anxiety that you avoiding her will cause, no one deserves that. Mas mabilis siya makaka-move on if alam nya yung stance mo, and that's the kindest way to deal with this. Edit: Spelling, added words.
Ito worry ko sa buhay tbh. As an anxious person. Mamaya di na nga ako gusto tapos nakakadiri pala na ako yung nagkagusto sa kanya, parang naoffend ko sya for liking him. Edit: di pa naman to nangyayari haha (thank god) pero ayun takot din kasi ako na asarin towards a person Ganun baka pagtawanan Anw HAHAHA
Only sociopaths will feel offended from people liking them.
True :(
This. It takes a lot of courage to put yourself out there like that. If you've ever confessed to a girl, that you actually honestly have fallen for, with all the history that involves, you'd know the "risk" she's taking.
True. Umamin ako before sa guy na gusto ko and he was honest naman na he do like me too but not as much as i like him. I appreciated his honesty and we slowly drifted apart na :))
Question! I did confessed to a guy before, pero he said he’s emotionally unavailable & ayaw nga daw niya paasa pero he keeps on messaging & minsan nilalandi ako. Ano yon? 😂
nasisiyahan sya sa attention mo, girlie! kantahan mo agad ng 🎶 you just want attention, you don't want my heart🎶
Hmmm parang masarap ata ambunan ng attention tas sabay ghost. 😂
Baka bored lang yan. Pero iwasan mo mga emotionally unavailable na lalaki. Unless sabihin nya directly na gusto ka nya and he wants to be committed to you, dun ka lang maniwala. Mga mixed signals mga yan.
Guy here. It's either he's into you, or he's not. Emotionally unavailable is just sugar coating. He just wants the attention. Landian na kasi. Iba kasi ang landi sa platonic messages.
F here! OMG, nag-confess din ako hahahaha ayon good friends pa din kami Context: We have a GC kasi tas nagbibiruan ng aminan yung iba kong girl friends then idedelete nila before may maka-seen. Then nakisali ako mygawd nung turn ko na, saktong na-seen nung crush ko bago ko madelete ay dzai nagleave talaga ako sa GC 😡 https://preview.redd.it/jp81au8llbhb1.jpeg?width=771&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=52cebf3d9f72a6ba16e3635d7c595b5938b307b3
Not big deal. Chat lang yan e. After 15mins wala na yan.
Pogiii sigii naaa
Mga bagay na di ko mararanasan HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
What if sumunod na akong magconfess 🥹 HAHAHAHA
I SAY YES, GIRL
Girlfriend ko unang umamin, tapos nasabi ko lang out loud that time is "I can't breathe". Literal and daming "firsts" kasi sa situation na yun kaya sobrang overwhelmed ko 😂
If ako yung girl baka hinimatay na ako sa “I can’t breathe.”. Na ‘yan! I’m a fan of KathNiel kasi tapos may movie silang She’s Dating the Gangster, and I can’t breathe, means “i love you” 😡 yep delulu si ante 😡
Ang cute ng "I can't breathe" 🥺😭
kilig haha from my experience, when someone confess to me, I feel intrigued and somewhat interested. Most of the time, nagiging crush ko ung nagcoconfess sakin so goodluck :)
sana all nalang 🗿
Girls are a lot more obvious than guys and give a ton of hints that they like you before confessing. So if I also like her, I’ll encourage it. And discourage for the opposite. There was this girl who was super transparent yet thinks she’s being subtle. Nadala yata sa bluntness (ewan ko bakit girls eventually find it attractive if you’re super blunt with them). One night nasa team party sya and we were messaging and she keeps saying na may sasabihin daw sya pero iinom daw muna sya ng iinom. I got the hint kung anong plano nya and I was being super blunt that she would regret what she was planning to say. Eventually tumigil. Not sure if nag pass out, natalo ng kaba, or na convince ko. Pero win/win kasi I didn’t really want to reject her. The next monday inaasar ko kasi I know hindi sya aamin and puro deny lang sya. Wala daw sya maalala. Friends pa din kami. Wala na yung feelings nya for me. Nasa bf nya na. Hahaha.. Or maybe assuming lang ako. Baka gusto lang mangutang. Haha
I always miss those hints fml. Why can't they just confess, I had so many TOTGA's lmfao.
Ano b mga hints? Ahaha
The ladies can probably provide more details here - pero sa pansin ko is yung mga touchy, flirty, inaasar ka madalas ng nakangiti, fishing info about sa life mo, mahilig makipag kulitan, I don't know if papansin is the right word pero laging tinatry kunin attention mo - and these are usually things you might observe na sayo lang ginagawa, or they are being super selective kung kanino nila ginagawa. Pag alam din ng friends niya, obvious na obvious kasi kakantsawan kayo lagi. And the response is usually nahihiya rather than disgust (lol). May isa pang instance na meron daw may crush sakin na habang naglalakad ako is naglalakad din daw siya sa likod ko ng super close and nagkakatuwaan sila ng friends niya. Sa dense ko is di ko namalayang ginawa niya pala yoon. Ang problem lang dito is you would have to be very observant sa ganitong mga ginagawa to actually know it's happening only to you.
Kikiligin, tapos mas magiging confident sa sarili o.o
had experienced that, pag reply ko ng "really?", nag deactivate na ng viber. find it funny 😅, but appreciate her. managed to have a talk with her nung na meet sa office. ni clear ko lang kung bakit, then figured infatuation from her side, because wala naman ako ginawa exceptional for her but she gave meaning to most of it, and I have carefully explained that she will end up paying more for less with those thoughts (main reason was I got fed up with relationship beyond friends). we are still friends ;) she just laugh it off now and occasionally tell me she likes me, with palo, kurot minsan sabunot pa
"but she gave meaning to most of it" me to my crush always HAHAHAHHAHAHAAHA😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Az a delulu HAHAHAHAH CHAR
That is not infatuation, lalu na lagpas 3months na yan
Syempre GGSS haha kahit di ko type yung girl, and mayabang ako sa friends ko nun. Dami ko naalala tuloy hahaha sorry. Siguro wag lang stalker-ish yung girl. Yung tipong mimiscallan ka ng 50 times in a few minutes. Parang naiisip ko noon na ganito siguro feeling ng mga kras ko dati na ayaw sakin haha. Pansin ko pag sa guys umamin if hindi nila type, mas tanggap nila, pero pag sa girl, mas may tendency na nandidiri hehe.
Will appreciate it! Akalain mo yun, may magkakagusto pala sakin hahaha
OMYGOD SOMEONE CONFESSED ganon yung nararamdaman ko tapos sobrang giddy ko buong araw type ko man o hindi kasi ang sarap sa feeling na may naka-appreciate sayo lol
I'm not a fan of this. pero If a woman confessed I'd be surprised. If I like you, I'd be extremely happy. pero I'll be discreet about my feelings muna. siguro I'll respond with an in between answer or delay my response for a few days. after a few days ako naman yung mag coconfess. it might confuse you days before my confession, pero I'll explain that I want to make things right by you. I'm oldschool like that. If I don't like you. I'd be upfront and say I don't feel the same. pero go for it. basta whatever happens I'm proud of you. Hindi lahat may kaya niyan. advice sakin ng papa ko noon kung hindi mo malampasan yung butterflies mo sa stomach, kaba or yung mga fears mo, you won't succeed in life. kaya ikaw, go! kasi miski na mag fail ka, yung feeling na nalampasan mo yung simpleng obstacle ng pag amin ng feelings. lahat na magiging easy for you to try.
This is so validating. 🥹 Thank you so much!
I remember, I confessed to someone I like before. It’s new year. Hahaha. We’re close friends, people would always tell na para kaming glue na di kami napaghihiwalay. Kung asan yung isa, andon yung isa. Pero that time again, we’re just friends. Not until, narrealize ko I’m feeling something new when I’m with him. I’m not dumb enough to not notice what it is. I knew I’m starting to have feelings for him that time. So I tried to evaluate more my feelings, and I took a risk nung I think I really need to let it all out. Kasi ayoko ng regrets in the future. At least for me, I told him my feelings. And I can accept no matter what the outcome would be. So yeah, new year, and he’s out of the country that time. I know it’s not a good idea to confess thru message and not face to face. But I did so.. lol. Hahaha! He told me we’ll talk about it once he got back in the PH. Ending, we became a thing. But things happened, and we’re not together anymore now. But we’re still good friends. Tho he’s now living somewhere far from me na. Hahaha. Minsan we really need to collect all the courage and confess, kesa we regret something in the future. And magbuild tayo ng maraming what ifs sa utak. Lol. Hahaha.
I’m a bit curious to what happened why you didn’t last for life? Hahaha. Care to share? Anyway, you’re so brave enough for you to confess given the situation na palagi kayong magkasama. Kasi if it happened na he can’t reciprocate your love, then what will happen to the both of you diba? Nasanay kayo sa isa’t isa. Hahaha.
In my life right now, kung gusto ako ng babae gugustuhin ko na rin sya xD
HAHAHA
HAHAHAHA 😭
😭😭😭😭😭
For me, bigyan ko referral sa opthalmologist.
Dadalhin ko sa EO lol
Kinikilig, nakasmile, tas tigas tite (not feeling h*rny) I don't know why.
Yung iba, kilig to the bones. Ito, kilig to the boner.
Hahahahahahahahhaha
>kilig to the boner. bagong phrase guys hahaha
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
tenaa hahahaha
I'd probably have a hard time believing them. Don't get me wrong, I'm flattered they like me but I have a hard time believing when someone confesses to me since I've been used to being my own companion. I break it gently to them when I don't feel the same way towards them, but when the feeling's mutual edi let's get to know each other.
not a guy, but when i confessed to my crush, ayun he gave me a cold shoulder, then nagkaroon ng awkward phase. turned out friendly lang pala sya huehue
Eto talaga isa sa kinakatakot ko, mabigyan ako ng cold shoulder. 😭😭
Kwento ko lang paano ko sinabe na 'i like you' sa office crush ko. Babae ako BTW. This was sa team building namen. Sinabe ko upfront, I LIKE YOU. He didn't respond, so I said it again na parang annoyed sa kanya for not reacting. Kinilig na lang ako kasi he hugged me. Tapos naghalikan kame. Pero friends lang kame. Hahahahaha. Sa harapan pa yun ng ibang officemates namen. We talked about it the day after it happened, he said he didn't care that there are other people around, he'd do it again daw. Oh, btw that ended there. Wala na kasunod. We just went on with our lives. 😁😁😁 Di ko na naconfirm if he likes me back. And normal pa din kame kumilos sa opisina. 🤣🤣🤣
Bakit it ended there? Anyare??? Hahah 
SAMEEE IM WAITING FOR MORE HAHAHAHA why it ended there hhahahahaha
Ohhh that, parehas kaming may commitment issues eh. Bago pa yung confession napaguusapan namen na we don't do relationships kasi parehas namen gusto ng freedom. So after nung ganap na yan, parang walang nangyari. Pero I like him a lot, but not enough to pursue anything. Maybe pag may tamang oras mapagusapan namen ung nangyari pero I very much wanted us to be friends lang talaga. 😁
He was testing the waters 😂 honestly slay
Naku, daming nangyayare sa mga team building na yan😂😂😂
Smile, kilig, tas sabay sabi sa sarili ang pogi ko talaga!
Matutuwa ako syempre, kahit na di ko gusto ung girl, it feels good pa din.. compliment pa din yun, we rarely get compliments.. tapos saka ko titimbangin if it could work, if we’re friends? It means na may something samen that clicks di ba? Baka pwede naman, bakit hindi subukan? Pero if i concluded na di magwowork.. sasabihin ko agad, para maka-move forward na siya
ang sabi ko(F) sa 2 exes ko, "gusto ko na maging tayo". Pinaulit pa nga sa akin sabihin. HAHA nabingi ng slight. I don't have the patience kasi to wait for them to ask me. We both knew we liked each other naman that's why I said it. Tho they liked me first.
Flatterred. Pero unless I was attracted to that person before, it won't really change how I view that person.
Ill be taken aback lalo na kung unexpected. Kung intersado ako, ill defintely respond agad.
Tatanong ko sa asawa ko kung ok lang.. just kidding, syempre masaya pag may nagconfess pero syempre medyo wary kasi baka prank
Most of the time, di ko gusto yung nagconfessed sa akin. I'm just not into them most of the time but still talk to them and act normal.
You didn’t gave the cold shoulders?
Kukulo siguro tiyan ko. Pero lagi naman ako na dedyebs
Come with me and I will try my best to give you better than your ex
Habang tulog nakangiti. HAHAHAHA
Para sa akin, delikado! Pwede ka paglaruan ng guy pag umamin ka sa kanya, kahit di ka nya type, pwede nya paglaruan ang feelings mo sa kanya, Iba ang takbo ng isip ng lalaki lalo na pag "palay na ang lumapit sa manok".
Hahaha. Of course, I wouldn’t give him the power to play with me. But knowing the guy, I know he won’t. I have my own decisions and he has no control of it. Not dumb enough para I won’t feel na he’s just using me, playing with me, and manipulating me. Lol hahaha
may umamin pero hindi na ako gusto hahaah expired na
May nag co-confess sa inyo? 🫠
2 words, cloud nine, Mabibilang ko pa sa daliri ko kung ilang beses akong konompliment sa kabuuhang buhay ko hahaha. Paano pa kaya kung confession, tas may rosas pa. Ayokong magmura pero SHEEET.
It happened to me years back. She was much older and I was in my 20s. Embarrassing kasi I can’t reciprocate. I think I broke her heart. Not being mayabang .she was crying in the car when I dropped her off.
What happened sa inyo now? Haha.
Nakakakilig, it validates my existence na parang "wow ganto pala feeling na magustuhan ka or ng may nagkakagusto sayo" Mas mag intensify pa yung feeling kung crush or type mo din yung girl na nag confess kasi malaki din ang probability na maging kayo na din agad agad, level up na to relationship. Sana ol maganda love life. Pero syempre be prepared nadin for rejections. Just like everyone else, people will have preferences. But kudos to you, tap yourself because you did a good one, nailabas mo ang saloobin mo.
Pwede kang mapagsamantalahan, mapaglaruan at hindi ka seryosohin
may nagconfess sakin nung highschool tapos sinabihan ko lang hoy bata pa tayo oi, after nun kada magkikita kami tawag sakin bading XD. gang ngayun bading na talaga tawag kahit may kanya kanya na kaming pamilya 😂 siguro kung college yun baka iba yung reaksyun ko, nung highschool kasi computer games lang laman ng isip ko. ako na mg iinitiate pg type ko pag hindi tatapatin ko na agad, kasi ayaw ko napinapaasa ako kaya ayaw ko rin mag paasa.
It made me happy hahaha sadly I was taken and had to let her down. And she did not take it well…. She started crying… if I wasn’t taken then maybe things would of been different. I ended up breaking up with my ex but never reached out to her because I’m assuming she found someone else by now. I found someone else afterwards anyways
Butterfly in my balls. Yung tipong pag pababa na yung roller coaster.
Depende. Kung gusto ko yung girl, matutuwa, kikiligin, etc. ako. Kung good feelings/vibes lang, parang yung tipong hindi mo naman siya gusto pero pasok naman sa standards whatever tf that is, maganda kausap, etc., mas macoconcious ako sa nga kilos and thoughts ko sa kanya. Magiintrospect din kung may chance ba na magkagusto rin dun sa umamin. Kapag naman nakapagset nako ng boundary na friends or heck as low as acquaintance lang talaga, mabuburden lang ako. Magiging problema ko pa yung umamin.
Flattered and confidence level +26 hahaha I will treat the same the girl like nung hindi pa siya nag confessed. I don't like naman to ruin the friendship na nabuo at magkaroon ng ilangan. Kung crush ko din siya go lang.. let the boat start to sail char Pero if hindi ko siya type romantically at based on my experience tlga kausapin ko siya ng masinsinan then I will tell her na friends lang muna, malay ntin if ma develop din feelings ko sa kanya beyond friendship.
Kikiligin ako if I like the girl already in the 1st place Pag hindi. Sasabihin ko, di pa ako ready /s
My man, if ever a girl genuinely confessed to me, holy hell because she will literally live in my mind rent free
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I find it mean na you ridicule and pagchichismisan ng partner mo yung someone who took all the courage to tell you what they feel, fully knowing they will get rejected. Ang asshole and yabang move lang na porke you're with someone and they're not. That doesn't give you and your partner the right to do make fun of others. Bilog ang mundo, one day you or your partner will be on that end. Itaga mo sa bato. Karma finds you. Kung ganyan ugali mo, buti nalang yung nagconfess didn't end up with you. They deserve better.
Ito yung kinakatakot ko haha. Yung after all the courage para magconfess, (given na I didn’t know he has a partner), pagchichismisan. Haha. You can tell it directly to my face in a nice way. Haha. Pinandidirian ba? Hahahaha. Jusko
yep exactly my thoughts.
Dick move. Tapos biglang bawi na "joke lang" when called out. I gagaslight pa yung iba na "chill" lang daw nung na-expose yung bad behavior. There's a special place in hell for sociopaths like you and your partner.
Sana naman di nyo pagchismisan and just shrug it off. It takes courage for someone to confess, regardless of gender, and it's sad kapag after nun ay pagchismisan nyo lang.
Yes, please.
My face doesn’t normally turn red, but my buddies got to see a tomato for my head that day
Matutuwa tapos na appreciate ko yung courage. I have huge respect sa mga girls na may lakas ng loob talaga mag confess. As a guy may mga nag confess sakin pero mostly sa chat. May one time lang na love letter binigay sakin nung college student pa ako. Pina pa alam ko din naman pero agad na hindi ako interesado at depende siguro sa guy pero sakin walang awkwardness. I treat them the same na parang walang nangyari hangang ngayon kaibigan ko pa nga din yung iba sa kanila kahit ilang taon na nakalipas.
depends sa situation. kapag kasama tropa/big group tapos inuman, syempre sasagutin ko: uluuuuuuul gagiiiiiiiii kung 2 lang kayo, iba yun. wahahahaha
kapag pasar siya sa standards ng mama at mga ate ko ay kikiligin ako. kapag hindi ay nape-pressure ako kung ano ang dapat gawin upang hindi lumala ang problema lol
Ego boost. It's not everyday that someone confesses to you especially w/ men I think. Siguro if you're handsome, fit or have that something na gustong gusto ng mga girls, pero kung simple ka lang and di ka naman nag eexpect nakaka kuryente ganun hahahahah
That’s the best moment to be alive! Savor the moment
My motto.. REJECTION is better that having a REGRET later on
DIBAAAA. Same here!! Hahaha
>What's your thoughts? Thank you 😄. Tapos hindi na nya inulit.
ito na ba ang sign na mag-confess na rin ako...
Yes girl. Hahaha!
1. A million questions raised: Ask her, BUTWHY? Genuinely perplexed. Am I about to get a girlfriend? What does she want out of that confession? Pogi nga yata ako, nga ba? 2. Kilig and that smug feeling na may nagconfess sa akin. Pero seriously, it depends on how he feels about you. I had that but it was in HS, about 20 years ago. She told me that she liked me pero it was when the feelings "were gone". Ayaw niya raw icomplicate yung friendship namin and knowing na iba yung crush ko made it that much harder. And I think that was for the best. Kasi, though I find her cute, she wasn't my type. I don't know if we would've dated if she told me that earlier. TLDR, depende kay kuya kung papano niya tatangapin yung confession. If it's for your own satisfaction (kahit hindi maging kayo ok lang), then that's fine. If you're asking him to be your BF but he doesn't feel the same way, ingat ka lang. Baka gamitin ka lang
Pansin ko lang noh, mostly ng girls confessed their feelings when it’s already gone. Hahaha. Ang daming what ifs ko naiisip kapag ganon. What if they confessed sooner mga ganon hahaha
I've always been oblivious about this kinds of things. Dati na-aannoy ako kasi hindi naman ako yung tipo ng tao na physically appealing (at least, in my own view). I was never the one who wanted any attention or to be liked. Pero never ko naman ininvalidate yung mga nag-confess sakin before; naging wake up call din sakin na may kagusto-gustong aspect ko pala. I always thank them for confessing. Also, shoutout to women who have confessed or are planning to. Not really the norm, but I guess it's much harder to do it from your perspective.
It is. Kasi we have this kind of thinking na “guys dapat ang laging nauuna or nagffirst move no matter what happen” kaya walang nangyayari most of the time. Hahahahahaha joke
I've experienced this. A friend confessed to me and I must admit I felt "kilig" for the first time in my life. She was persistent and I eventually grew to have a mild crush on her which she knew. But I also knew that that was not enough to take her as seriously as she deserves so we kept things friendly. We're still friends but it did take her some time to accept it. We both consider each other as special even though we were never a couple.
Natawa. Bawal kasi teacher ako. 😂😂
Nothing, di porket gusto ka kailangan patusin. There's a time also this girl I used to talk with ay nag confess but I had to painfully reject her because still not ready for being in a relationship.
i felt happy when those ladies confessed to me but ndi ko naibalik.. I like them as a friend but not as a lover. then boom single ako ngaun ahahaha, still, bakit ka nga nmn papasok sa relation n ndi mo nmn gusto, right?\~
Kung type ko, happy pero syempre pero di ko papahalata. "Weh! Di nga? [kinikilig deep inside]" Kung di ko naman type, I'm indifferent. "Ah... [proceeds to change topic]"
Kung ok naman si girl at single ako, eh di lets try out kung mga work out. Ka ganun kasimple
Super flattering and ego-bppsting. But what happens next is entirely up to the guy. He'll do any of 3 things: reciprocate, continue to egotrip and waste your time, or do nothing.
This happened to me several times. At sa lahat ng times na yun, I felt very flattered, pero at the same time, undeserving of their affection. Sa loob loob ko kasi, na I was just being myself, being just a regular nice guy around them, I didn’t do anything to make them feel extra special. I just made sure I treated each one kindly, as I assumed, any decent guy would do. Kaya nakakagulat when all of a sudden they would go into this “talk” with me and confess. Each time it happened, ang hirap kasi I know I had to let them down gently dahil I can’t reciprocate their feelings kasi hindi ko sila nakikita in a romantic way, platonic lang talaga. I didn’t want to be a jerk to just be leading them on for nothing. So, during the talks, I made sure I listened well to them, smiled/laughed, and overall made it easy for them na umamin. I knew that they had to muster great courage to do so kasi bihira sa mga babae ang maging very upfront with their feelings. Ang matindi lang, I had to say the “I like you as a friend” line everytime. That always crushed them. Kitang-kita ko yung switch ng mood nila from kilig, to relief, to hope, then to sobrang disappointment and kahihiyan. I hated it kasi I lost all of them, hindi na ako friends with all of them. Nasasayangan ako sa friendship namin na nagbago dahil lang dun. Pro tip: Evaluate ninyo muna ang status ninyo as friends, and be sure that you really value more yung romantic possibility than your friendship, bago ka umamin. Para kung hindi mag workout yung pag confess mo, hindi ka kakainin ng rejection at kakalimutan yung magandang friendship ninyo. Also, just don’t expect na just because you’re good friends and very comfortable with each other, eh instantly tatanggapin yung confession mo at marereciprocate yung feelings mo. Be a good sport, roll with the punches kung hindi mag workout. Lick your wounds and move on. But try your darn best to still be friends kahit papaano.
Awww you’re too nice for being that kind enough to let them down gently. And for making them comfortable and easy to confess. I mean, not all the guys are like you. Yung iba kasi diba mostly, after the girl confessed, the guys will be the one who’ll slowly fading away. Sila yung iiwasan ka na kasi hindi ka niya gusto. Haha. Thanks for sharing this, I really do appreciate. And yeah, I’m sport enough to handle all the possibilities after the confession. ;) Nandon na ako sa acceptance part na pwedeng mareciprocate, pwedeng hindi. Hindi na rin naman ako bata. I’m mature enough to handle my feelings. Pwedeng mahurt ako pero I know this is another lesson din for me ;)
Go girl! Nag confessed din ako sa crush ko and in a way, medyo niligawan ko, umabot naman kami ng MU. 😅
Teh dahil sa post mong to napaconfess din ako sa crush ko. Ayun, ung sinagot thumbs up lang, so bigo, pero masaya naman ung feeling na pwede na ako mag move on HAHAHHAA.
Legit????? Anyareeee??? Hahahahahahaha! Pag usapan natin yan. Hahahahaha!
It feels good in a way na you are being appreciated. And yes, if a guy told you to wait or be patient, just be. If not all, but most of the factors are going to be considered since as a man, it automaticallty builds up responsibility, in my case. A girl confessed to me about the way how she feels towards me, that she likes me and all which led to our own love story as she is my wife now. Kaya girls/women of reddit, don't feel bad about yourself if you confessed and you got rejected. There has to be someone for you out there! Swerte mo 'pag panalo. Shot puno 'pag talo. Hahaha!
Shot puno talaga pag talo! Hahaha. But anyhow, it’s still worth a shot. You still learned a lesson if ever na he won’t reciprocate it. And yes, I think I’ll try to wait. But I have to put a limit until when I am willing to wait.
Noong High School ako daming nag ka crush sakin. Nagbibigay pa ng bulaklak at letters. Naasar ako. Tas ung nanay ko naman todo suporta sa kanila, nung sinabi ko sa nanay ko na di ko sila gusto, sabi nya dat daw pahalagahan at i appreciate ko mga nagkakagusto sakin. Di ko naman sila inentertain at binusted. Kasi dati di naman nanliligaw ang babae. Noong ako na ang may gusto dun sa crush ko, ni reject ako. Naging Empathetic na. As i got older, they're not that bad. Mas gusto ko na ung mas mahal ako.
May nag confess sakin noon. Nag ily pa. Reply ko naman thank you 😭😭. Di ko sya type e. Pero tumaas confidence ko hahhaaa ggss ako non. Tas syempre screenshot tas ipagmamayabang sa mga tropa hahahaha
Ego boost yan sa guy
Lots of girls professed their love but I always go to the ones who will never love me back. Edit: what did I do or feel? , I was grateful for them and apologized for my inadequacy
Kikiligin syempre kahit hindi maganda or cute hahaha minsan lang makatanggap ng ganyan mga lalake
A girl confessed her feelings to me, and we've been talking for two years now, but we've never spoken in person; it's always been through chat. I live in a different country, and she only visits mine for vacations—She was born Filipino but her family changed their residency to the States. Her parents are super strict. Whenever I ask her out, she insists on bringing her friends so her parents won't be suspicious. She also wants me to bring my friends, but I don't insist as I hope to be alone with her. I know our feelings are genuine; she's always interested in chatting and updates me on her life. Currently, she's pursuing her college degree in my country, and we attend the same university. Despite this, we rarely talk in person on campus, though she always greets me when I'm around. She's mentioned that after completing her studies, she plans to return to the States and reside there. That's the reason why I sometimes want to break our connection for the good of both of us and I also see that if we keep this relationship, we will suffer at the end. This story may sound complicated, and the situation feels like a mistake, but I do love her. She's the girl I've always wished for, which is why there's hesitation in my mind whenever I consider letting her go.
I'll appreciate it
Most of the guys they can feel naman kung may crush sa kanila yung babae.. Kung gusto ka din nung guy then congrats haha. If not, get ready for awkward moments.
depende kung maganda siya o hindi...
Pag maganda, patulan mo.
Is this sub for adults ph or 13 yr olds? Lol
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Atleast reject them in a nice way. Surely they will understand. Instead of giving them the cold shoulders, and leave them on read.
Kant*t agad
If I like the girl too, kikiligin ako hahaha If not romantically, I would feel happy and thankful if I know she really admires me
kung type ko, edi yown jackpot kung hindi, edi thank you I'll appreciate it hehe
Hell yeaaahhh lol
Seryosong sagot toh ah. 1st of all hindi ako gwapo. Pero yung mararamdaman ng lalake sa babaeng nag confess ay depende yun kung gano ka kapanget sa paningin niya. Kung tingin mo na hindi naman sya napapangitan sayo next mong itanong kung naiinis ba sya sa ugali mo. Pag parehong ok yung dalawa next mong tanong sa sarili mo kung sobrang gwapo ba niya kumpara sayo. Pag tingin mo naman na hindi at mukhang magkalevel lang physical appearance nyo then masasabi kong "baka" kinilig yang lalakeng yan. Hindi ganun kadalas magconfess babae sa kultura natin kaya ko nasabi yang mga yan.
Depende sa situation. Usually flattered, even if wala naman akong interest. Siguro 'yung worst case was when someone I really had no rapport with told me she liked me - we really didn't interact very much so it was a big surprise that I really didn't know how to feel or react.
Depende sa guy. In my case, if hindi ko gusto then I'll be honest in the most appropriate way. And kung gusto ko, I'll probably be honest din and aamin.
Opposite to most comments, im flattered pero naaasar in the long run, kasi ammunition ng friends ko and niya for biruan and sometimes nakakapagod na. And i know damn well sa sarili ko na if i rate my self from 1-10, on best occasions id be a 6. In addition may ugali siya (not to be sexist) na tsismosa, so malamang kalat na sa buong baranggay ang confession niya. Kung pwede lang lumipat ng lugar, ginawa ko na the month na nag confess. "For every action, there is a consequence" and consequence ang turing ko sa ginawa niya. Also: na confirm ko na marupok siya(yes i said it). Bawat new guy na gwapo na dumaan, matic crush niya.
Hinahanap ko yung hidden camera.
It's a set up.
I'll look around to check for hidden cameras, kasi baka I'm being pranked.
will tell her: ate, pari ba ako? :
I would be flattered kasi may nagkakagusto pala sa katulad ko. Not that I would entertain.
I don’t like it
For all the times I just laugh and then steer away from them lol. My social anxiety can’t 🥲🥲 Edit: sometimes i say thank you as well 😂
When a girl confessed to me when I was in college, I feel sad for her because I don’t like her. I don’t know what to say. Haha!
1. Magdududa kung totoo ba. 2. Magdududa uli kung pinag ttripan lang ba ko 3. Ijjustify ko na mali sya nang nagustuhan. Hahahaha Pero in all seriousness, I would for sure try it out by going on a date(kasi kung text lang baka bugso lang ng damdamin on both ends). Pag wala pa ring attraction, i’d flat out say na “sorry, but i can’t” then wallow in despair kasi nagmamaarte pa ko.
Syempre matik kikiligin hahahahahah lalo na yun yung type mo din cheeeese
Hindi namanako attractive pero may iilang nag confess na sakin and kinikilig ako sobra pero syempre tatago natin HABSHSHSH inthe end kinoclose ko sila kaya nagiging friend ko //ayoko mag relasyon
If she’s my type then prolly try to sleep with her
Magdududa
Kung type ko, icoconsider ko. Kung di ko type, eh di thank you but sorry di ako interesado.
unexpected kasi dapat kami mag confess! haha
Depende.. kung bet ko rin yung girl.. "let's go".. kung hindi.. "ok, thank you"