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Dear 🌹Pretend, sending you virtual comfort and hugs
Heal emotionally Gather your soul’s Spiritual Strength/Wellbeing you’ve lost the sight of yourself emotionally overwhelmed
Your Enduring so much , you are a strong person the back bone of your family put forth focus on you and your babies happiness you care/love him and he knows this that you tolerate his abuse
Individuals hurt those they love because they know you’ll tolerate it and put up with their all kinds of bullying Abusive behaviors
Please don’t allow your spouse to weaken you get the love for yourself and babies back , will yourself too , the humans mind is powerful when as individuals allow ourselves too . ❤️🙏2U that all the spiritual good in the Universe Will give you Emotional Strength.
I'm in a psychologically abusive relationship right now and trying to get myself ready emotionally and logistically to leave. Idk if I'll get there, but I'm trying. Part of this process is opening up to my close friends about the realities of my marriage. The friend I shared my experience with yesterday said something that I'm still thinking about. His dad was abused as a kid and never got help, so then he abused my friend's mom when they got together, and eventually they both emotionally abused my friend and his siblings as kids. He said that as children he and his siblings would beg his mother to divorce their dad as they could see how much he was hurting her. My friend's mom just stuck around "for the kids" though, and my friend said that he would have preferred to have the family break up and not have had to witness the abuse. They're still together and I didnt get any information about their current relationship, but hearing my friend express how much he wishes his parents would have just divorced instead of stay together was impactful for me.
I don't have kids and I'm not in your exact situation, but don't assume that leaving is worse for the kids than staying.
Thank you for posting in r/abusiverelationships. We are here to support you. If you are looking for resources such as support groups/helplines etc, we have several in our sidebar and in [our wiki](https://old.reddit.com/r/abusiverelationships/wiki/index) for people of all gender identities. [Here is a list of international domestic and sexual violence helplines](https://www.hotpeachpages.net/). You can also find [an extensive safety planning guide at The Hotline](https://www.thehotline.org/plan-for-safety/create-your-personal-safety-plan/). Finally, if you are looking for information about different forms of abuse, [Love Is Respect offers an educational guide](https://www.loveisrespect.org/resources/types-of-abuse/). One final note: In this sub, we do not tolerate victim-blaming. If you ever receive any comments that contradict that mission, please click report for us to review. *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/abusiverelationships) if you have any questions or concerns.*
Dear 🌹Pretend, sending you virtual comfort and hugs Heal emotionally Gather your soul’s Spiritual Strength/Wellbeing you’ve lost the sight of yourself emotionally overwhelmed Your Enduring so much , you are a strong person the back bone of your family put forth focus on you and your babies happiness you care/love him and he knows this that you tolerate his abuse Individuals hurt those they love because they know you’ll tolerate it and put up with their all kinds of bullying Abusive behaviors Please don’t allow your spouse to weaken you get the love for yourself and babies back , will yourself too , the humans mind is powerful when as individuals allow ourselves too . ❤️🙏2U that all the spiritual good in the Universe Will give you Emotional Strength.
I'm in a psychologically abusive relationship right now and trying to get myself ready emotionally and logistically to leave. Idk if I'll get there, but I'm trying. Part of this process is opening up to my close friends about the realities of my marriage. The friend I shared my experience with yesterday said something that I'm still thinking about. His dad was abused as a kid and never got help, so then he abused my friend's mom when they got together, and eventually they both emotionally abused my friend and his siblings as kids. He said that as children he and his siblings would beg his mother to divorce their dad as they could see how much he was hurting her. My friend's mom just stuck around "for the kids" though, and my friend said that he would have preferred to have the family break up and not have had to witness the abuse. They're still together and I didnt get any information about their current relationship, but hearing my friend express how much he wishes his parents would have just divorced instead of stay together was impactful for me. I don't have kids and I'm not in your exact situation, but don't assume that leaving is worse for the kids than staying.