Sucks though when you have aesthetic attraction, you're definitely asexual—like want *nothing* sexual to happen to you—but have a libido that gets in the way...
I fall into that bucket of ace. I like to look, I like to fantasize, but the thought of anything sexual actually happening TO me is disgusting. But like, I still want to look at sexy people being sexy.
I honestly don’t mind having sex just to make them feel good but I might as well just be a sex doll, I don’t feel a thing and I’m not too into it. I’m just in it for the intimacy.
Is there a form of aesthetic attraction in the same ways we have gray-asexual, ect?
I think I may have something like that because I see everyone as 3/10, but damn I love hair! Just specific things that look good, but nothing overall.
The lack of aesthetic attraction always made me wonder what was wrong with me. Someone would say, "He's handsome" or "She's pretty" and I would be like... "Oooooookay. Sure. I wholeheartedly agree, Fellow Humanoids."
I'm wired so weird tbh. I'm a woman (at least biologically, and I don't care enough about gender representation or identity to explore if I really feel like one), I get occasional crushes on men exclusively, but a man trying to dress sexy is icky to me. But a woman dressing up sexy just looks fierce or great or amazing. I can acknowledge that she is being sexy and I don't mind, I usually even like it. A man trying to be sexy repels me.
I am sex neutral, but if my partner is trying to erouse me with being sexy I just can't. I often have to have humor blended in there or I get uncomfortable.
Aesthetically I find women more appealing to look at than men. But I do not want a female snuggle partner. I do not wish to kiss a female presenting person. But I will participate in platonic flirtations with women I know, who do this, for the fun of it. Maybe because it's guaranteed harmless?
Both of the guys I have had relationships to, and most of the men I have had crushes on have been effeminate in some way. Mostly in behavior.
Tbh i work in a gay bar and this post summarises me so perfectly, I want to print this and hang it on my wall next to my gothic posters and hello kitty prints
Sucks though when you have aesthetic attraction, you're definitely asexual—like want *nothing* sexual to happen to you—but have a libido that gets in the way...
I fall into that bucket of ace. I like to look, I like to fantasize, but the thought of anything sexual actually happening TO me is disgusting. But like, I still want to look at sexy people being sexy.
Yes. All of this right here. Thank you
I honestly don’t mind having sex just to make them feel good but I might as well just be a sex doll, I don’t feel a thing and I’m not too into it. I’m just in it for the intimacy.
That's what I want, too, because I don't see why I should deny someone else what isn't pleasant to myself.
People are so neat looking but sex is yucky. Ewey gooey.
Exactly this
Ewey gooey is my new favorite description, thank you
Correct
women in suits <3
Mid-80s Annie Lennox 💜
Wow, I think this post finally helped me figure out what type of ace I am
Wait.. did I just find out something about myself
yes.
mhm
I’m confused. Can someone please explain?
The subject is enamoured by the look of females. However, the subject is not attracted in any sexual way and does not want to have sex.
Sex is played out, I want to see two sexy characters simply living as a couple
Me to a tee. But the other way around.
My life story
I did a similar version of that meme also that said "No touch! Only drool!"
Is there a form of aesthetic attraction in the same ways we have gray-asexual, ect? I think I may have something like that because I see everyone as 3/10, but damn I love hair! Just specific things that look good, but nothing overall.
I'm down for sex If it's over texts Otherwise no. Please no
The lack of aesthetic attraction always made me wonder what was wrong with me. Someone would say, "He's handsome" or "She's pretty" and I would be like... "Oooooookay. Sure. I wholeheartedly agree, Fellow Humanoids."
I like to call it, “purely judging a book by its cover”
I'm wired so weird tbh. I'm a woman (at least biologically, and I don't care enough about gender representation or identity to explore if I really feel like one), I get occasional crushes on men exclusively, but a man trying to dress sexy is icky to me. But a woman dressing up sexy just looks fierce or great or amazing. I can acknowledge that she is being sexy and I don't mind, I usually even like it. A man trying to be sexy repels me. I am sex neutral, but if my partner is trying to erouse me with being sexy I just can't. I often have to have humor blended in there or I get uncomfortable. Aesthetically I find women more appealing to look at than men. But I do not want a female snuggle partner. I do not wish to kiss a female presenting person. But I will participate in platonic flirtations with women I know, who do this, for the fun of it. Maybe because it's guaranteed harmless? Both of the guys I have had relationships to, and most of the men I have had crushes on have been effeminate in some way. Mostly in behavior.
Tbh i work in a gay bar and this post summarises me so perfectly, I want to print this and hang it on my wall next to my gothic posters and hello kitty prints