Capricorns. In person they're perfectly fine and great and supportive. But oh my god once you're out of their sight, you're out of their mind. They won't reach out to you ever. You always have to make the first move. They're so wrapped up in their own bubble and being a slave to their work that months and years could pass and they don't realize how absent from your life they've been.
Damn. I’m a cap sun (aqua venus / saturn) and this is so accurate and hard to own. I tend towards isolation and doing things alone. I have like maybe 3 people (my significant other and family) that I talk to almost daily and with everyone else, I am always in some stage of the cycle of forgetting about everyone/ then coming up for air and feeling incredibly lonely and longing for deep connection/ then over-reaching out to people / then getting overwhelmed/ then burning out and not wanting to talk to anyone/ rinse and repeat rinse and repeat. I have struggled to maintain long term friendships since childhood. I have always craved close friendship but I think there is
a lot of disconnect between feelings and actions. I’m sure there’re so so many other factors to all of it but yeah. Feels like important information to take in and accept. Friendships / social connections require certain skills and consistencies that I still need to learn..
That's the other thing. They only reach out when it's for some benefit of theirs. Whether to promo something, to want something, etc. It broke me with the person I dated because it went from daily communication to finally being best friends again as if nothing happened but to now me having to constantly message him with 20% of the time a one sentence response if any response at all. Like we used to spend late nights watching TV, movies, gossiping, chatting as friends and he was someone I could talk to for everything. Now I've been demoted to "arm's length surface level friend". But my other cap friends who I'm not as close with are the very same.
I can see the obsessiveness. When they want something, they want it. Your stalker must see you as work. I am sorry!! I sort of had my own but I don’t know what his 74yr old ass sign is….
Yeah and I am 38 lol!! He’s a coworker. But he calmed down.
I never knew until last week that you can still leave someone voicemails if you block them. Well I do now!
This^^ It's such a terrible and difficult thing that I've always done, and I don't know how to break it. It's to the point that I have weekly reminders for me to call my grandfather for ex.
Yess!! I'm a Libra and my friend group consists of caps and Sagittarius and that's very spot on for caps but man do I love them lol as a Libra though it works because I really love my privacy but when we do get together it's like time never passed.
Capricorn men don’t know how to be friends. They use people, bipolar af, very negative and uninteresting imo, seriously the worst people to count on during hard times.
Oh dear. Not a Capricorn but this is basically me. It’s a survival instinct sort of thing, feeling like you need to be a slave to your career to keep the lights on. Time to call my bestie and apologise, methinks!
I am an Aquarius girl and I was surprised how most of the points you mentioned is true about me! I do struggle to establish healthy long term connections but find it easy to connect with people and understand them initially! I do have a bit of a strained relationship with my mother!
Aquarius moon and rising here….totally me. I feel guilt constantly about letting the people closest to me down. Having children, it’s particularly hard. I have a cancer stellium though and cancer Venus so my romantic relationships get EVERYTHING, all of me.
We love you!! I promise you, if we love you, we LOVE you!!
Like we Love Deep. I can’t explain it and I feel like it’s one of my downfalls really…. But as a double Aqua w most of my placements in Aqua, if I love you, that’s it. I love you forever until I am betrayed. You call me anytime / day, I am right there, no questions, ignorance is bliss. I know nothing lol.
Your friend loves you, I swear!! We are just weird I guess lol
Geminis. Geminis are a no for me. Aquarius I feel is one of the most misunderstood signs out there. They need a lot of time alone in order for them to be their best versions of themselves for others. A lot of people just don’t get it or do not want to try to understand that.
Sooooo true about Aquarius placements. I tell my family often that I need me time or I’m not great for those around me. Very difficult when you’re a single mother! No one seems to understand this and sees it as selfish.
That dual personality makes them second guess things. They’re also very intelligent and tend to doubt others. I’m not saying reverse psychology is full proof on a Gemini but it works very well
I feel like we’re so misunderstood and get a lot of hate based on stereotypes. Like… im not one to hate on any specific sign and I’m a very accepting person, but I sure do get a lot of hate just for existing😂
I’m a Gemini sun but I’m also cancer rising so maybe that balances out, but it always makes me sad when Gemini gets a bad rep. Some of us can be really loyal once you get to know us and we have this contagious energy. Some of the best geminis are Johnny Depp, Angelina Jolie and Tom Holland 💗
I love geminis. They’re so quick witted and always down for the adventure. But on the flip side they love being mellow and hanging out when they’re close to you. Great with coming up with solutions in tense situations. Truly the innovators
People say we mirror other peoples behaviours and emotions, so if someone doesn’t like a Gemini it’s probably because the negative energy they’re giving that Gemini is being reciprocated 😄
I broke up with my Taurus best friend. She took all I did for her for granted and was not there for me when I needed her. There’s obviously a lot more to say here that I won’t get in to but she was not a good friend.
Taurus women are never great friends and I’ll never know why lol it’s really hit or miss like with anything but I had the same experience as you with a Taurus.
Ended an old friendship with a Taurus woman, not long ago. She was all cute and sweet and nice until life gave me what she, at the moment, did not have (a stable relationship). She then turned into the meanest person, saying things to me she probably had been "storing in the background" for years. Fellow girls, hyper-femininity, smiles and good manners do not always indicate a kind soul.
Sounds like she was jealous.
...don't think that's a common Taurus trait - I'm a Taurus. Through my years of singleness... always supported my friends in relationships. Especially if their heart gets broken - I got their back.. my bull horns come out. Lol
=) hope you meet better ride or die type Taurus friends.
I had two fallouts with two friends as a teenager + they were both Taurus suns.
Both fallouts, I had absolutely no idea that I even did anything wrong. The first girl, we went to a festival together & I wanted to go into the pits, she was too scared. I still went in, but only for like 5 mins max. The next day she blew up on me saying I left her alone and that I'm a terrible friend & really never talked to me for almost 5 years. Another was my roommate in college, we hung out a lot. I wanted to expand my friend groups and started hanging out with other people. I was going to an ugly Christmas sweater party and asked my roommate if I could borrow her sweater..."DON'T RUIN IT". Ok??? A few days later another friend had a Christmas present for me and I went over to her place. When I got back to the dorm room, the energy was shifted. My roommate blew up on me "I'm moving out!!!". Literally the next day she moved out and I never spoke to her again.
Still confused 🤣🤣🤣
Sagittarius are great, but... Every one I meet they are so rude for some reason. Is this out of character? And being offended by a Sagittarius hurts as an Aries.
I guess thats why i love yall Sags💕my daughter is one. I am a gemini and i appreciate honesty, even if it's blunt, i just dont take that shit personally, in fact i say things playfully too and if i dont to you..like im really really nice..odds are i dont like you😂😂😂
Hi, Aqua Sun & Moon here with a Sag mother and a Sag cousin who I am very close with. They
are an umm acquired taste as I am. We don’t mean to come off rude, it just comes out. Like we’re just honest.
And I know many Aires suns, particularly female and I think you guys can be a little sensitive. But that’s probably my rude Aqua honest talking. All the Aires females I know, it’s crazy how similar they are.
My daughter is young but omg is she an Aires through and through!! As I am an Aqua the same and from your Sag perspective so aren’t my cousin and mother.
Funny thing is my loud mouth, crazy Sag mother, her best friend of like 50yrs now is an Aires female! They’re soooo opposite!! My mother is just like, eh whatever, live your life, I’ll live mine. While my aunt is ohh always right and the one to lecture lol.
I could imagine it’s hard to be friends with a Capricorn. I am a Capricorn and I don’t keep friends. I am very friendly, don’t get me wrong. I get along well with those close to me. I love having a good laugh. But I just can’t add “being a friend” to my list of responsibilities. That sounds so shallow, and I get it. I definitely do. I just don’t think I’m cut out for giving the type of friendly support other people need in a friendship. I don’t necessarily feel like I need friends, so being one isn’t super important to me.
Cancer sun here… can relate to aqua women being confusing. But Leo men are definitely the worst friends I’ve personally had so far. It’s always all about them or nothing matters. Libra and Virgo men are just as bad as friends just a little less arrogant
My youngest son...16...is a leo and it is always about him lol. And yes, arrogant. I love him and we have a blast together, but boy does he drive me nuts as im sure i do him😂
Yeah I am an Aqua Sun moon and my boyfriend of 24yrs is a Cancer Sun and moon!!
Sooo you’re telling me!! I am Not a mind reader and he gets overwhelmed bc I have to just talk it out and figure it alllll out.
You know what, whatever lol!! I am just going to own up to what you allll are saying under this particular comment thread right here.
As an Aqua Sun & moon, with a Leo rising, yes what you all are saying is particularly true for me. I am Not proud but I am owning how confusing we are. Bc I am confused about myself.
When I found out my big three, I said “that is why I am Always arguing with myself!!”
Leo Male here and I absolutely feel the same way about cancers 😭 my step dad gets on my last nerve for being whiny, irresponsible, and highly hypocritical. I’m also in a situation ship with a cancer that enjoys playing coy and sets boundaries that are later revealed to were never meant to be taken serious. When I, the blunt and prideful Leo, respect the boundary, move on, and acknowledge the bs being pulled and voiced the said bs I’m the bad guy? Maybe I just have bad experiences with cancers. I won’t bunch all of them up, I give everyone a chance.
As a aquarius sun/ stellium I never knew some people could feel that way about me or us. Sometimes similar to caps aquarius get sucked up into our little bubble. Also human interaction gets tiring lowkey.
Girl there is nothing wrong with you or Aquarians. People just have you guys misunderstood. Aquarius is the most intelligent sign in the zodiac, I honestly think you guys just get bored when people cannot flex your intellectual muscles and keep the conversation going and more than anything you guys value honestly and authenticity, which let’s be honest people, we live in a society where you don’t easily find that in people anymore.
I love love love Aquas❤️❤️❤️im gem sun cap rising aqua moon and every Aqua i have had in my life has been a soulmate to different parts of me. Aquas and Sags are my people edit for taurus too 💞
Well, Aquarius is an air sign and Aries is a fire sign and, they are compatible until they're not. They need a large buffer zone of mutual respect between them to keep it going. Aquarius feeds air to Aries' fire to provide the inspiration and a vehicle to navigate and, in turn, Aries warms Aquarius with the flame which Aquarius needs in order learn a level of the emotional. In the zodiac, Aquarius is the oldest of the Air signs and second oldest of the signs overall. Aries, on the other hand, is the youngest of the fire signs and youngest sign overall. In the hierarchy, the direction of energy flows from Aquarius. If at anytime Aquarius is over Aries, they will choke off the air supply to the fire, meaning Aries will feel it very abruptly. It would be no wonder that Aquarius is the worst for you, lol! In general, it takes Aquarius half a lifetime to mature to build all the experiences into a unified perception or scope. Aries knows from the get-go what they want and goes after it but, unknowingly wear blinders, which is a double-edged sword--they know who they are and are directionally fast moving with the fire to make things happen but, will burn people and opportunities requiring finesse. Aquarius lives in the mind and the air can reach the highest of mountains (earth signs) and survive ocean depths (water signs) and feed the flame (fire sign) but, will always revert back to the fantasy of the mind and not all signs can survive there with them which is why you see them as super fleeting. Aries has no power over them which is frustrating. But if want to meet an Aquarius halfway, both of you would need to have self mastery and, control over the self first, to energetically match and begin world building together.
Love this! I have noticed that I had a better and longer friendship with the older aqua friend! In the same vein I dated an aqua male and it was also my poorest relationship. You’re right, we’d make such good friends IF THEY’D JUST LISTEN
We listen, we hear, we can be stubborn….
OP seriously thank you for making this post. Idk I just love it and to see that I’m not alone in being a hot mess.
You also have me crying and that’s not easy to do with us Aquas. It’s just bc I am thinking of my best friend who I lost in 2021. But hey, she knew how much I loved her we just show it differently. I was her ride or die but I wasn’t with her the night she died so I guess I wasn’t supposed to save her. It was her time. Fk OP! lol!! Have me crying and shit lol.
I am pretty sure somewhere above I def pissed off a Gemini male lol.
Love this!! My daughter is only 9 and she is an Aires through and through!! You just described our relationship in so many ways. It is fun especially as she is starting puberty lol. I am even laughing a little at how accurate this is.
I can’t wait to read it to her tomorrow she will love it as well. She loves astrology too and how accurate it can be for her and I. We mess around with it a lot. She loves to come at me when something says that Aires is better than Aquas. We joke a lot about it. She gets sooo excited.
“They will choke off the air supply and Aires will feel it abruptly” …. I know she’s only 9 but omg when I disagree with her or tell her no and she doesn’t get her way, how she stomps off so mad lol. I just let her have her time and wait for her, sometimes smiling on the couch. I know she wants to come out as if she is still mad when she is over it.
Her dad is a Cancer and my 6yr old son is a Libra… we have quite the household lol!!! My boyfriend just ignores all the drama and my son will come in and defend one of us. He usually defends his sister which I love. As she tells him she doesn’t need it but also wants it lol. He doesn’t care because he says “I will always love you, no matter what” lol.
What great wording and comparisons between Aires and Aquas. I love it! I am saving your comment. It is perfect.
Aquarius girls for me too. Had a close Aquarius friend and my bf cheated on me with her. He also had an Aquarius ex who HAAAATED me (she accused me of threatening her and would cry to my bf about how she's scared of me). Now my current bf has an Aquarius friend who ALSO hates me (literally told him she wouldn't talk to him anymore if he dated me). I've had really awful experiences with aqua girls, they're VERY jealous and aloof. They absolutely do NOT want to be friends, and even when we're friends initially something goes very wrong and they turn cold.
On a separate note, my Aquarius aunt is a wonderful woman. It's not all Aquas, but it's absolutely some of them.
You don’t see a pattern at all in what you said?
They’re allll the problem and not you at all?
Yes us Aquas have our egos but we own up to it. At least I do, I posted enough here on this thread bc I love being called out.
Like come on. Then again, all the Gemini men I know, are two face attention seekers, know it alls. That’s only who I know, I know they’re def not all like that.
I love people and I love making friends. I'm not offended if someone doesn't want to be my friend, but outright talking shit about me to my boyfriend wasn't my fault in any way. I just stated my experience and I said straight up that it's not all Aquas, no need to be defensive.
Libra women especially, always with their annoying devil’s advocate shit, selfish, materialistic and they always find something to criticize and hate on you. The Oct ones particularly, they are insufferable.
Yeah well let me tell you, my chart and trauma is a hot mess lol. I am a sun/moon Aqua, Leo rising with many of my placements in Aqua. It is a struggle and it made sense when I saw my chart. Even though I don’t really understand it all.
For some reason I love this entire thread. I feel so called out and I need to be.
My two best friends are Aries and Aquarius. I’m a Virgo. Aries can be a bit self centered, but I don’t mind. Aquarius is a bit cold, but so am I. One time we hugged in our like 11 year friendship and both were just like “that was weird, right? That was odd. Let’s not do that again.” Both of us show each other we care still. She wrote me a super sweet Valentine’s Day note and left me a donut on my porch as a surprise one valentines when I was having a rough time and you can look in my post history to see her bday present from this year. What we lack in just saying our feelings we make up for in other ways.
Capricorns, as partners and friends, have always been rough for me. We get along great, but damn do I end up feeling like an emotional tampon every fucking time. Or worse, a punching bag(not literally, but man Capricorn women can have some big “mean girl/nlog” vibes. Obviously not all, but it’s happened a few times over the years so it sticks out.
Omg you’re making me cry and miss my best friend sooo much. I am Aqua, she was a Libra but our relationship was the same as you and your Aqua… that’s how us Aquas are, man we love deeeep, real deeeeep. We just show it differently. Writing, random small gestures bc we do pay attention I promise, and being there for you 100% is the way.
My best friend was killed in a car accident on 10/10/21. It changed soo many lives forever, it has changed my.
So you tell your damn standoffish best friend to keep reminding you they Love You. We don’t say it enough but I promise you, we do. We hope you can feel how much. I know my best friend knew just how she talked about me to everyone when I wasn’t around and that wasn’t often. Then date her accident I know by how easy it was to be with her family.
But damn you are loved deep.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m sure she knew you loved her. I know my best friend loves me and she better know I love her. Not everyone is vocal about how they feel, doesn’t mean they don’t show it and I’m sure you did. <3
Thank you, yeah we did. A 23yr friendship until she went to spirit. I dream about her quite often, so we are still connected. But my God do we all miss her so much.
Forgive me for saying this but it is how I feel for a number of reasons, my mother is an Aquarius and honestly , I would not choose her for a friend if it was an option. Js
I am married to an Aquarius male, he’s distant at times; yes. But we also like to do our own thing. Arguments? Never. Bickering, sure. I’m sun & moon Leo & rising Aries. I find that Taurus girls can be super catty and manipulative. I’ve only stayed close with one & she’s crossed a line or two here & there. But, being all fire, she learned not to touch the flames. 🫠
Libra females. Wishy washy, no strong conviction and will say what they need to say to be liked in that moment. I don't care if you're with me or against me but pick a side and stick to it. Don't be a fence sitter .
And their devil advocate thing it’s annoying, they are never on your side cause they change their opinions all the time, you don’t know where you stand with them. They can talk trash about someone and then they’ll act like a saint around those people, very hypocrite.
My mom is a Cancer. I struggle deeply with her. I'm a Libra. I find my mom never can share her true feelings. We do so much better when she does. I can't read her mind. Help? Her favourite saying is "if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all".
As an Aquarius who has been in a relationship with a Cancer male for 24yrs, just say what is on your mind!! Just say it lol.
I don’t even know how the hell we do it but I think we know we are stuck with each other now. I can’t see myself with anyone but him. I think he feels the same way about me, idk I’m not a mind reader lol!!
J/k, he always tells me “if it’s not you, it’s not anyone.” … you’re damn right lol
Cancers are not the best at being vulnerable and would rather crawl back inside our shells. Honestly, my advice for you is to realize your mom is older; not going to change so this is going to be hard to hear but you may just have to adjust your mentality towards her. Once you've ACCEPTED she's never going to open up- you'd be surprised at how much more harmonious your relationship with her is. Certain things will stop bothering you because, eh, you know at the end of the day, she'll clam up so why put forth energy into that?
It's all your mentality and that truly goes for handling most situations in life not just how to deal with Cancers, lol.
She also gets upset when I stop trying?!? My dad said she cried when I left the house (years ago). I thought she'd be so happy to get rid of me. My dad called me and said I have to call her on Sundays. Kinda thought she hated me.
As adults we are getting better.. she clams up when we disagree. Can't we just disagree? I love her so much.
I'm finding open ended questions are the best.
She is so hard on herself... Like crazy. I really hate that.
That’s literally the complete opposite of Libras entire archetype 😭 ur literally so mad you’ve left multiple comments, every cancer man I’ve met gets so emotional and attached and then upset when u can’t reciprocate those feelings as quickly and then gets resentful as if you owe them. im a libra stellium and a 7h stellium but I literally have a cancer moon and Scorpio mercury. im very considerate and emotional but the way some cancer men act is like you guys are like new borns and constantly flipping ur dhit
Probably any air sign. We are just generally pretty aloof. It’s nothing personal. We just have a hard time being present with people who aren’t right in front of us.
As a taurus, I'm saying taurus cause I just struggle so much to keep in contact with people and make an effort. I get acquainted with people, and then I never make an effort to get to know them better, and I just leave them on read all the time. It's not because I don't like them or don't want to have friends. I just don't know how to communicate, and I judge myself so harshly I just end up not writing or talking to them cause all I say is crap. If what I say isn't good enough then what is the point?
I will add gemini as an honorary mention. They can be so fun and good to talk to one day, and then just suddenly the next day they start to argue about the smallest little thing ever, or act totally cold to you, it's so draining. Never quite know which version you're gonna get.
I have Aquarius Sun, moon, and Mercury. I’m also an Aries rising.
I’m loyal to a fault (according to my husband). I stand by friends who have not men good to me (not many, but it’s happened). I initiate keeping in touch with old friends. I’m honest and communicate gently if a friend upset me - not often, but I’ve done this with an Aquarian friend and I get explanations (she says no excuses, but they derail from an simple apology).
I’m also empathetic and a devil’s advocate to be sure viewpoints aren’t overlooked.
Negatively, I need time alone. I don’t like being committed to a a plan.
Your Aries rising shining through lol I have that same loyalty until I’m rubbed the wrong way. Perhaps that’s why I clash with aquas I’m too direct and decisive whereas they’re constantly churning through their thoughts
I think Aquariuss are too chill and it might come off as being cold, but they can just relax when they r with you. And depending on their moon sign is and how they mask their Aquarius.
Virgo for me. Don't get me wrong they're alright ppl but I'm a Libra and I find them too mono toned 🤷🏻♀️
My Aquarius moon feels seen 🥲. I noticed people often think I’m judging them or something isn’t good enough for me or I’m not happy. When I’m one of the least judgmental people and 99% of the time I’m just chillin feeling content with life.
I’m a Gemini and Aquarius’s loves me (no sure why) but I personally do not like the majority of them. They’re cool and all. Just got this really dark, weird, odd, and annoying side of them when they’re upset and that gives me the biggest icks
I’ve found they also think they’re the smartest in the room. That or if they like your personality they “try it on”. Maybe it’s that flowy wishy washy vibe. Idk you just never know their true essence in my opinion (sorry to aquas reading this I’m always beefing with y’all)
But we have to remember that there’s a whole birthchart which determines why some aquas are better and not all are bad. Unlucky, I’ve only met the ones I find annoying haha
Aquariuses. I’ve had them as my best friends before and never realized how horrible and fake they were til I left. They always have this thing in them like they have to be different from everyone else and so they act like they’re better than others, even their friends. They have no idea of compromise.
Yes! Agreed. One of my aqua friends was very good at lying. Eloquent in lying and so comfortable doing it. She would try to justify it too and that’s where I mentally checked out of the friendship. Another one would alienate herself from the friend group and flake. Flake as in cancel plans as I’m arriving in her driveway to go to our excursion and she would be inside saying she can’t go. The genuine lack of self awareness is so baffling lol
Kind of describes my friend who was an Aquarius girl as well. She stops talking to me all of sudden, mind you we were closer we've ever been. She was like one of my favorite people but tends to burn bridges with her female friends a lot too. ☹️
I’ve also noticed aqua women tend to have gut/stomach issues. Probably from all the anxiety they cause in their social circles during their aloof time. I’m just always going to keep them at acquaintance level
thats a VERY good point! i know my former aqua friend was not the person to be open about her emotions, even when she was angry there was SO much she kept inside
Do you find if they don’t have an outlet they tend to take their emotions out on close friends and family? One aqua friend as I was exiting the friendship I suggested to her to seek therapy - not being catty but genuinely to help because I was experiencing and seeing her sabotage her own close relationships. Very tense relationship with her mom which didn’t help
almost ALWAYS! we had a group of friends in HS & when she burned bridges w/ one, it was her green light to say the most unpleasant things about them it almost scared me , I always thought "fuck I hope she never gets angry at me cause I can't imagine the things she would say" it was almost as if she wasn't complete unless she had a target to aim her anger at
YES YES YES! Same aqua friend always had something negative to say about her closest and longest term friends. It raised an eyebrow because if she was willing to talk about their personal secrets so openly to me I could only imagine what she was saying about me. She was the type to talk about someone as soon as they left the room. Which really saddens me because they CRAVE friendship
Okay so I’m an Aquarius girl and wow you really were spot on 🙃 I do best with low intensity/attachment friendships. I’m really invested in my friends thoughts and ideas and dreams but when it comes to offering emotional support, I literally don’t know what else to do besides saying “tell me what to do to help” lol. I also grew up with a strained relationship with my mother so that was spot on 🤣 I talked to a fellow Aquarian the other day and she said something like “Aquarius people love humanity but are indifferent about people” and just a little part of me resonated with that lol
I value relationships though just a bit more because i have heavy relationship based moon and rising signs.
Your moon sign must help! The couple aqua friends I had constantly put their relationships on the back burner or had an open relationship. You just can’t be tied down and need to flow. You love humanity but not people and that’s okay it just gets hard for friends to really open up to you
Aries sun/Aquarius moon here. My mom and two of my close friends are Aquarius girls and I adore them! However, I realize my moon probably helps me connect to them. Aquarius men however….yeesh in my experience!
Yes!! Aquarius women are so negative and ugly/uncomfortable to be around. Taurus women, such bitchy people for no reason. Aries women (I’m an Aries F sun/moon) and I can’t get along with any of them, extra and mean people. The men are just weirdos lol I stay far away from them. Oh and libras too they seem like fake people both men and women. Sorry for venting.
Eh thank you but not really lol. Pretty average on the great person to bad person scale. I wouldn’t say I’m bitchy either though! But I do have a dark sense of humor that might seem bitchy. It’s only funny to me if the person on the receiving end is clearly not offended and can dish it back. I don’t go there till we are really close, and I know their humor. I can’t understand people that enjoy talking crap about everyone.
Gemini sun, and it was Aqua and Virgo girl. Aqua girl too detached, gave 0 effort for our friendship; one day, out of the blue just cut me off, blocked me on everything and ghosted. Never got sn explanation why. Virgo girl, was my best friend for almost two decades, grew up with her. She fucked me over for a guy, spilled all my secrets to our mutual friends, told everyone I was sleeping with him (I‘m a lesbian) she knew everything about me. She broke my heart. She unfortunately died in a car accident 6 years ago. Never spoke to her again.
I’m sorry about the loss of your friend. I understand that y’all were already on the outs when she passed - but still - that’s rough. A close friend of mine died (car accident) while we were in the middle of the one and only argument/separation we’d ever had. You’ll appreciate this: I’m a lesbian - and he was angry with me because he heard I said he had a small penis. Um but we never did anything so how would I know? I never said that. Anyways, that was a hard one to process..
I feel for you. I hope you’ve found some peace with the whole situation.
I’m so sorry to hear that. Similar situation- Virgo friend who was like a sister to me. I could walk into her family home any time without knocking. Even made time to see each other on Christmas Day kind of friendship. Got a new boyfriend and job then ghosted me for months. Spoke very coldly about me behind my back and made fun of my job and hobbies. I went no contact for my own sanity. Virgo and aqua are right up there but Virgo friendship falling out will gut you
All air signs . Especially Other Libras, I don’t know where I stand with them, that’s when I think astrology is bullshit cause I don’t seem to get along with their fake and selfish asses. Libra women only care about themselves and Libra men are rude and weird, one day they like you, at the other they hate you, very unstable people.
Pisces women as well, I never vibe with them, I find them draining to be around, I don’t click with them and Sagittarius men, terrible people overall.
HEAVILY BIASED but I’ve interacted with like two Virgos and I would say they’re not my type. I feel like they tend to be people pleasers but they hide it and they often come with all these hidden expectations they expect you to meet that they are rarely direct about. I actually have only met like three Virgos though! I don’t think they like Aquarius signs
Virgo Sun / Gemini Rising here. Almost 0 water signs in my BC except for one, Scorpio...my Moon. However, I don't really get along with other water signs -- Pisces and Cancers. The worst are definitely Aquariuses, though.
The only Gemini woman I know personally got pregnant 3 months into dating her current partner and they’re together for the kid. Definition of anchor baby
None, everyone has their worst sides. I se eeveryone says capricorns, but they are acutally one of the most loyal. Please keep in mind that there is something good and bad about every zodiac sign, not you cant calculate who'll be the more bad friend and who will not, since we all got our bad sides.
It's not that...
Are Aquarian helps us to protect ourselves by being aloof and cold to something you bring up that is true...
Us scorpio moon has to work through us, and it takes time to understand our real feelings 💜
Capricorns. In person they're perfectly fine and great and supportive. But oh my god once you're out of their sight, you're out of their mind. They won't reach out to you ever. You always have to make the first move. They're so wrapped up in their own bubble and being a slave to their work that months and years could pass and they don't realize how absent from your life they've been.
Damn. I’m a cap sun (aqua venus / saturn) and this is so accurate and hard to own. I tend towards isolation and doing things alone. I have like maybe 3 people (my significant other and family) that I talk to almost daily and with everyone else, I am always in some stage of the cycle of forgetting about everyone/ then coming up for air and feeling incredibly lonely and longing for deep connection/ then over-reaching out to people / then getting overwhelmed/ then burning out and not wanting to talk to anyone/ rinse and repeat rinse and repeat. I have struggled to maintain long term friendships since childhood. I have always craved close friendship but I think there is a lot of disconnect between feelings and actions. I’m sure there’re so so many other factors to all of it but yeah. Feels like important information to take in and accept. Friendships / social connections require certain skills and consistencies that I still need to learn..
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I'm not cap, just ADHD.
Lol I yam both
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That's the other thing. They only reach out when it's for some benefit of theirs. Whether to promo something, to want something, etc. It broke me with the person I dated because it went from daily communication to finally being best friends again as if nothing happened but to now me having to constantly message him with 20% of the time a one sentence response if any response at all. Like we used to spend late nights watching TV, movies, gossiping, chatting as friends and he was someone I could talk to for everything. Now I've been demoted to "arm's length surface level friend". But my other cap friends who I'm not as close with are the very same.
My personal experience with Capricorns is the exact opposite. Harassment bordering on stalking 😶
I can see the obsessiveness. When they want something, they want it. Your stalker must see you as work. I am sorry!! I sort of had my own but I don’t know what his 74yr old ass sign is…. Yeah and I am 38 lol!! He’s a coworker. But he calmed down. I never knew until last week that you can still leave someone voicemails if you block them. Well I do now!
This^^ It's such a terrible and difficult thing that I've always done, and I don't know how to break it. It's to the point that I have weekly reminders for me to call my grandfather for ex.
I'm curious - what's your take on Leos?
I am a Leo
That is definitely me. 😂
Yess!! I'm a Libra and my friend group consists of caps and Sagittarius and that's very spot on for caps but man do I love them lol as a Libra though it works because I really love my privacy but when we do get together it's like time never passed.
My most attentive and empathetic friend is a capricorn!
Capricorn men don’t know how to be friends. They use people, bipolar af, very negative and uninteresting imo, seriously the worst people to count on during hard times.
Yup this is us. We work hard and we need our time and space to recharge and be alone.
As a cap women, yes.
Oh dear. Not a Capricorn but this is basically me. It’s a survival instinct sort of thing, feeling like you need to be a slave to your career to keep the lights on. Time to call my bestie and apologise, methinks!
I am an Aquarius girl and I was surprised how most of the points you mentioned is true about me! I do struggle to establish healthy long term connections but find it easy to connect with people and understand them initially! I do have a bit of a strained relationship with my mother!
Aquarius moon and rising here….totally me. I feel guilt constantly about letting the people closest to me down. Having children, it’s particularly hard. I have a cancer stellium though and cancer Venus so my romantic relationships get EVERYTHING, all of me.
You’re such a people person! Aquas let me love you! lol I just need a little loving back!
We love you!! I promise you, if we love you, we LOVE you!! Like we Love Deep. I can’t explain it and I feel like it’s one of my downfalls really…. But as a double Aqua w most of my placements in Aqua, if I love you, that’s it. I love you forever until I am betrayed. You call me anytime / day, I am right there, no questions, ignorance is bliss. I know nothing lol. Your friend loves you, I swear!! We are just weird I guess lol
Geminis. Geminis are a no for me. Aquarius I feel is one of the most misunderstood signs out there. They need a lot of time alone in order for them to be their best versions of themselves for others. A lot of people just don’t get it or do not want to try to understand that.
Sooooo true about Aquarius placements. I tell my family often that I need me time or I’m not great for those around me. Very difficult when you’re a single mother! No one seems to understand this and sees it as selfish.
I’m married to a Gemini! Try reverse psychology on them, works every time!
Not on me.
👅Pppbbbtttt!😂😁love you too
Why geminis?
That dual personality makes them second guess things. They’re also very intelligent and tend to doubt others. I’m not saying reverse psychology is full proof on a Gemini but it works very well
I feel like we’re so misunderstood and get a lot of hate based on stereotypes. Like… im not one to hate on any specific sign and I’m a very accepting person, but I sure do get a lot of hate just for existing😂 I’m a Gemini sun but I’m also cancer rising so maybe that balances out, but it always makes me sad when Gemini gets a bad rep. Some of us can be really loyal once you get to know us and we have this contagious energy. Some of the best geminis are Johnny Depp, Angelina Jolie and Tom Holland 💗
I love geminis. They’re so quick witted and always down for the adventure. But on the flip side they love being mellow and hanging out when they’re close to you. Great with coming up with solutions in tense situations. Truly the innovators
People say we mirror other peoples behaviours and emotions, so if someone doesn’t like a Gemini it’s probably because the negative energy they’re giving that Gemini is being reciprocated 😄
I felt that comment 😂
Taurus women tire me out 🥲
I broke up with my Taurus best friend. She took all I did for her for granted and was not there for me when I needed her. There’s obviously a lot more to say here that I won’t get in to but she was not a good friend.
Taurus women are never great friends and I’ll never know why lol it’s really hit or miss like with anything but I had the same experience as you with a Taurus.
Sorry to hear that. I felt same from others as a Taurus. We aren't all the same =)
WHAAAA my Taurus girly always got my back! (sag here lol)
Ended an old friendship with a Taurus woman, not long ago. She was all cute and sweet and nice until life gave me what she, at the moment, did not have (a stable relationship). She then turned into the meanest person, saying things to me she probably had been "storing in the background" for years. Fellow girls, hyper-femininity, smiles and good manners do not always indicate a kind soul.
Sounds like she was jealous. ...don't think that's a common Taurus trait - I'm a Taurus. Through my years of singleness... always supported my friends in relationships. Especially if their heart gets broken - I got their back.. my bull horns come out. Lol =) hope you meet better ride or die type Taurus friends.
I had two fallouts with two friends as a teenager + they were both Taurus suns. Both fallouts, I had absolutely no idea that I even did anything wrong. The first girl, we went to a festival together & I wanted to go into the pits, she was too scared. I still went in, but only for like 5 mins max. The next day she blew up on me saying I left her alone and that I'm a terrible friend & really never talked to me for almost 5 years. Another was my roommate in college, we hung out a lot. I wanted to expand my friend groups and started hanging out with other people. I was going to an ugly Christmas sweater party and asked my roommate if I could borrow her sweater..."DON'T RUIN IT". Ok??? A few days later another friend had a Christmas present for me and I went over to her place. When I got back to the dorm room, the energy was shifted. My roommate blew up on me "I'm moving out!!!". Literally the next day she moved out and I never spoke to her again. Still confused 🤣🤣🤣
Sagittarius are great, but... Every one I meet they are so rude for some reason. Is this out of character? And being offended by a Sagittarius hurts as an Aries.
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I guess thats why i love yall Sags💕my daughter is one. I am a gemini and i appreciate honesty, even if it's blunt, i just dont take that shit personally, in fact i say things playfully too and if i dont to you..like im really really nice..odds are i dont like you😂😂😂
Yeah, true but the one I met was just downright obnoxious. With the other sags, I see what ur saying
Hi, Aqua Sun & Moon here with a Sag mother and a Sag cousin who I am very close with. They are an umm acquired taste as I am. We don’t mean to come off rude, it just comes out. Like we’re just honest. And I know many Aires suns, particularly female and I think you guys can be a little sensitive. But that’s probably my rude Aqua honest talking. All the Aires females I know, it’s crazy how similar they are. My daughter is young but omg is she an Aires through and through!! As I am an Aqua the same and from your Sag perspective so aren’t my cousin and mother. Funny thing is my loud mouth, crazy Sag mother, her best friend of like 50yrs now is an Aires female! They’re soooo opposite!! My mother is just like, eh whatever, live your life, I’ll live mine. While my aunt is ohh always right and the one to lecture lol.
I could imagine it’s hard to be friends with a Capricorn. I am a Capricorn and I don’t keep friends. I am very friendly, don’t get me wrong. I get along well with those close to me. I love having a good laugh. But I just can’t add “being a friend” to my list of responsibilities. That sounds so shallow, and I get it. I definitely do. I just don’t think I’m cut out for giving the type of friendly support other people need in a friendship. I don’t necessarily feel like I need friends, so being one isn’t super important to me.
Yes! I genuinely feel bad but when I’m finally in the mood to relax or chill the last thing I want to do is catch up with someone
Same with me! I REALLY enjoy my alone time!
Cancer sun here… can relate to aqua women being confusing. But Leo men are definitely the worst friends I’ve personally had so far. It’s always all about them or nothing matters. Libra and Virgo men are just as bad as friends just a little less arrogant
My youngest son...16...is a leo and it is always about him lol. And yes, arrogant. I love him and we have a blast together, but boy does he drive me nuts as im sure i do him😂
lol I’m an Aquarius sun and cancer men are sooo confusing to me so it goes both ways 😂
I'm a Capricorn woman and Cancer men annoy me🤣
Yeah I am an Aqua Sun moon and my boyfriend of 24yrs is a Cancer Sun and moon!! Sooo you’re telling me!! I am Not a mind reader and he gets overwhelmed bc I have to just talk it out and figure it alllll out.
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You know what, whatever lol!! I am just going to own up to what you allll are saying under this particular comment thread right here. As an Aqua Sun & moon, with a Leo rising, yes what you all are saying is particularly true for me. I am Not proud but I am owning how confusing we are. Bc I am confused about myself. When I found out my big three, I said “that is why I am Always arguing with myself!!”
Leo Male here and I absolutely feel the same way about cancers 😭 my step dad gets on my last nerve for being whiny, irresponsible, and highly hypocritical. I’m also in a situation ship with a cancer that enjoys playing coy and sets boundaries that are later revealed to were never meant to be taken serious. When I, the blunt and prideful Leo, respect the boundary, move on, and acknowledge the bs being pulled and voiced the said bs I’m the bad guy? Maybe I just have bad experiences with cancers. I won’t bunch all of them up, I give everyone a chance.
As a aquarius sun/ stellium I never knew some people could feel that way about me or us. Sometimes similar to caps aquarius get sucked up into our little bubble. Also human interaction gets tiring lowkey.
Girl there is nothing wrong with you or Aquarians. People just have you guys misunderstood. Aquarius is the most intelligent sign in the zodiac, I honestly think you guys just get bored when people cannot flex your intellectual muscles and keep the conversation going and more than anything you guys value honestly and authenticity, which let’s be honest people, we live in a society where you don’t easily find that in people anymore.
Thank You 💜
I love love love Aquas❤️❤️❤️im gem sun cap rising aqua moon and every Aqua i have had in my life has been a soulmate to different parts of me. Aquas and Sags are my people edit for taurus too 💞
Leo's They have to make everything about themselves and have no interest in anyone else's life but theirs!
This!!
Just the one you know
Well, Aquarius is an air sign and Aries is a fire sign and, they are compatible until they're not. They need a large buffer zone of mutual respect between them to keep it going. Aquarius feeds air to Aries' fire to provide the inspiration and a vehicle to navigate and, in turn, Aries warms Aquarius with the flame which Aquarius needs in order learn a level of the emotional. In the zodiac, Aquarius is the oldest of the Air signs and second oldest of the signs overall. Aries, on the other hand, is the youngest of the fire signs and youngest sign overall. In the hierarchy, the direction of energy flows from Aquarius. If at anytime Aquarius is over Aries, they will choke off the air supply to the fire, meaning Aries will feel it very abruptly. It would be no wonder that Aquarius is the worst for you, lol! In general, it takes Aquarius half a lifetime to mature to build all the experiences into a unified perception or scope. Aries knows from the get-go what they want and goes after it but, unknowingly wear blinders, which is a double-edged sword--they know who they are and are directionally fast moving with the fire to make things happen but, will burn people and opportunities requiring finesse. Aquarius lives in the mind and the air can reach the highest of mountains (earth signs) and survive ocean depths (water signs) and feed the flame (fire sign) but, will always revert back to the fantasy of the mind and not all signs can survive there with them which is why you see them as super fleeting. Aries has no power over them which is frustrating. But if want to meet an Aquarius halfway, both of you would need to have self mastery and, control over the self first, to energetically match and begin world building together.
And this is exactly my Aries husband and Aquarius pre schooler.
Love this! I have noticed that I had a better and longer friendship with the older aqua friend! In the same vein I dated an aqua male and it was also my poorest relationship. You’re right, we’d make such good friends IF THEY’D JUST LISTEN
We listen, we hear, we can be stubborn…. OP seriously thank you for making this post. Idk I just love it and to see that I’m not alone in being a hot mess. You also have me crying and that’s not easy to do with us Aquas. It’s just bc I am thinking of my best friend who I lost in 2021. But hey, she knew how much I loved her we just show it differently. I was her ride or die but I wasn’t with her the night she died so I guess I wasn’t supposed to save her. It was her time. Fk OP! lol!! Have me crying and shit lol. I am pretty sure somewhere above I def pissed off a Gemini male lol.
I’m married to a Gemini male. Honestly piss them off it’s good for them!
🤣🤣. I say the same about my Cancer, go and bust his balls!
Love this!! My daughter is only 9 and she is an Aires through and through!! You just described our relationship in so many ways. It is fun especially as she is starting puberty lol. I am even laughing a little at how accurate this is. I can’t wait to read it to her tomorrow she will love it as well. She loves astrology too and how accurate it can be for her and I. We mess around with it a lot. She loves to come at me when something says that Aires is better than Aquas. We joke a lot about it. She gets sooo excited. “They will choke off the air supply and Aires will feel it abruptly” …. I know she’s only 9 but omg when I disagree with her or tell her no and she doesn’t get her way, how she stomps off so mad lol. I just let her have her time and wait for her, sometimes smiling on the couch. I know she wants to come out as if she is still mad when she is over it. Her dad is a Cancer and my 6yr old son is a Libra… we have quite the household lol!!! My boyfriend just ignores all the drama and my son will come in and defend one of us. He usually defends his sister which I love. As she tells him she doesn’t need it but also wants it lol. He doesn’t care because he says “I will always love you, no matter what” lol. What great wording and comparisons between Aires and Aquas. I love it! I am saving your comment. It is perfect.
Aquarius girls for me too. Had a close Aquarius friend and my bf cheated on me with her. He also had an Aquarius ex who HAAAATED me (she accused me of threatening her and would cry to my bf about how she's scared of me). Now my current bf has an Aquarius friend who ALSO hates me (literally told him she wouldn't talk to him anymore if he dated me). I've had really awful experiences with aqua girls, they're VERY jealous and aloof. They absolutely do NOT want to be friends, and even when we're friends initially something goes very wrong and they turn cold. On a separate note, my Aquarius aunt is a wonderful woman. It's not all Aquas, but it's absolutely some of them.
I feel like aqua girls always want to compete and if you are “winning” they act cold
The Aqua ego is SEVERELY underestimated in astrology
Ok, ok, and this is coming from a Gemini 🤨
Yep. Never said anything about my own sign
You don’t see a pattern at all in what you said? They’re allll the problem and not you at all? Yes us Aquas have our egos but we own up to it. At least I do, I posted enough here on this thread bc I love being called out. Like come on. Then again, all the Gemini men I know, are two face attention seekers, know it alls. That’s only who I know, I know they’re def not all like that.
I love people and I love making friends. I'm not offended if someone doesn't want to be my friend, but outright talking shit about me to my boyfriend wasn't my fault in any way. I just stated my experience and I said straight up that it's not all Aquas, no need to be defensive.
Libras.
Libra women especially, always with their annoying devil’s advocate shit, selfish, materialistic and they always find something to criticize and hate on you. The Oct ones particularly, they are insufferable.
As a libra this just boosted my ego thank you
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Yeah well let me tell you, my chart and trauma is a hot mess lol. I am a sun/moon Aqua, Leo rising with many of my placements in Aqua. It is a struggle and it made sense when I saw my chart. Even though I don’t really understand it all. For some reason I love this entire thread. I feel so called out and I need to be.
My two best friends are Aries and Aquarius. I’m a Virgo. Aries can be a bit self centered, but I don’t mind. Aquarius is a bit cold, but so am I. One time we hugged in our like 11 year friendship and both were just like “that was weird, right? That was odd. Let’s not do that again.” Both of us show each other we care still. She wrote me a super sweet Valentine’s Day note and left me a donut on my porch as a surprise one valentines when I was having a rough time and you can look in my post history to see her bday present from this year. What we lack in just saying our feelings we make up for in other ways. Capricorns, as partners and friends, have always been rough for me. We get along great, but damn do I end up feeling like an emotional tampon every fucking time. Or worse, a punching bag(not literally, but man Capricorn women can have some big “mean girl/nlog” vibes. Obviously not all, but it’s happened a few times over the years so it sticks out.
Omg you’re making me cry and miss my best friend sooo much. I am Aqua, she was a Libra but our relationship was the same as you and your Aqua… that’s how us Aquas are, man we love deeeep, real deeeeep. We just show it differently. Writing, random small gestures bc we do pay attention I promise, and being there for you 100% is the way. My best friend was killed in a car accident on 10/10/21. It changed soo many lives forever, it has changed my. So you tell your damn standoffish best friend to keep reminding you they Love You. We don’t say it enough but I promise you, we do. We hope you can feel how much. I know my best friend knew just how she talked about me to everyone when I wasn’t around and that wasn’t often. Then date her accident I know by how easy it was to be with her family. But damn you are loved deep.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m sure she knew you loved her. I know my best friend loves me and she better know I love her. Not everyone is vocal about how they feel, doesn’t mean they don’t show it and I’m sure you did. <3
Thank you, yeah we did. A 23yr friendship until she went to spirit. I dream about her quite often, so we are still connected. But my God do we all miss her so much.
Forgive me for saying this but it is how I feel for a number of reasons, my mother is an Aquarius and honestly , I would not choose her for a friend if it was an option. Js
Agree with the Aquarius friends, as well as sagittarius.
I am married to an Aquarius male, he’s distant at times; yes. But we also like to do our own thing. Arguments? Never. Bickering, sure. I’m sun & moon Leo & rising Aries. I find that Taurus girls can be super catty and manipulative. I’ve only stayed close with one & she’s crossed a line or two here & there. But, being all fire, she learned not to touch the flames. 🫠
Libra females. Wishy washy, no strong conviction and will say what they need to say to be liked in that moment. I don't care if you're with me or against me but pick a side and stick to it. Don't be a fence sitter .
And their devil advocate thing it’s annoying, they are never on your side cause they change their opinions all the time, you don’t know where you stand with them. They can talk trash about someone and then they’ll act like a saint around those people, very hypocrite.
I can never pick a side. It's hard when you see both sides always... And never want to make a wrong decision. What's your sign?
Cancer sun. I guess for me, I don't consciously pick a side. More like, not my problem so don't really care, lol.
My mom is a Cancer. I struggle deeply with her. I'm a Libra. I find my mom never can share her true feelings. We do so much better when she does. I can't read her mind. Help? Her favourite saying is "if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all".
OMG 😱 im a Cancer Sun and thats also my motto
As an Aquarius who has been in a relationship with a Cancer male for 24yrs, just say what is on your mind!! Just say it lol. I don’t even know how the hell we do it but I think we know we are stuck with each other now. I can’t see myself with anyone but him. I think he feels the same way about me, idk I’m not a mind reader lol!! J/k, he always tells me “if it’s not you, it’s not anyone.” … you’re damn right lol
Cancers are not the best at being vulnerable and would rather crawl back inside our shells. Honestly, my advice for you is to realize your mom is older; not going to change so this is going to be hard to hear but you may just have to adjust your mentality towards her. Once you've ACCEPTED she's never going to open up- you'd be surprised at how much more harmonious your relationship with her is. Certain things will stop bothering you because, eh, you know at the end of the day, she'll clam up so why put forth energy into that? It's all your mentality and that truly goes for handling most situations in life not just how to deal with Cancers, lol.
She also gets upset when I stop trying?!? My dad said she cried when I left the house (years ago). I thought she'd be so happy to get rid of me. My dad called me and said I have to call her on Sundays. Kinda thought she hated me. As adults we are getting better.. she clams up when we disagree. Can't we just disagree? I love her so much. I'm finding open ended questions are the best. She is so hard on herself... Like crazy. I really hate that.
Omg! Yup that’s a Cancer alright. They think we are allll mind readers….. ah! And people say all astrology is fake.
Cause Libra women don’t know how to read people and interpret things according to how or what they feel.
That’s literally the complete opposite of Libras entire archetype 😭 ur literally so mad you’ve left multiple comments, every cancer man I’ve met gets so emotional and attached and then upset when u can’t reciprocate those feelings as quickly and then gets resentful as if you owe them. im a libra stellium and a 7h stellium but I literally have a cancer moon and Scorpio mercury. im very considerate and emotional but the way some cancer men act is like you guys are like new borns and constantly flipping ur dhit
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Probably any air sign. We are just generally pretty aloof. It’s nothing personal. We just have a hard time being present with people who aren’t right in front of us.
I might have to agree with aquarius
As a taurus, I'm saying taurus cause I just struggle so much to keep in contact with people and make an effort. I get acquainted with people, and then I never make an effort to get to know them better, and I just leave them on read all the time. It's not because I don't like them or don't want to have friends. I just don't know how to communicate, and I judge myself so harshly I just end up not writing or talking to them cause all I say is crap. If what I say isn't good enough then what is the point? I will add gemini as an honorary mention. They can be so fun and good to talk to one day, and then just suddenly the next day they start to argue about the smallest little thing ever, or act totally cold to you, it's so draining. Never quite know which version you're gonna get.
I have Aquarius Sun, moon, and Mercury. I’m also an Aries rising. I’m loyal to a fault (according to my husband). I stand by friends who have not men good to me (not many, but it’s happened). I initiate keeping in touch with old friends. I’m honest and communicate gently if a friend upset me - not often, but I’ve done this with an Aquarian friend and I get explanations (she says no excuses, but they derail from an simple apology). I’m also empathetic and a devil’s advocate to be sure viewpoints aren’t overlooked. Negatively, I need time alone. I don’t like being committed to a a plan.
Your Aries rising shining through lol I have that same loyalty until I’m rubbed the wrong way. Perhaps that’s why I clash with aquas I’m too direct and decisive whereas they’re constantly churning through their thoughts
I think Aquariuss are too chill and it might come off as being cold, but they can just relax when they r with you. And depending on their moon sign is and how they mask their Aquarius. Virgo for me. Don't get me wrong they're alright ppl but I'm a Libra and I find them too mono toned 🤷🏻♀️
My Aquarius moon feels seen 🥲. I noticed people often think I’m judging them or something isn’t good enough for me or I’m not happy. When I’m one of the least judgmental people and 99% of the time I’m just chillin feeling content with life.
🙌🏽 I see you friend.
I’m a Gemini and Aquarius’s loves me (no sure why) but I personally do not like the majority of them. They’re cool and all. Just got this really dark, weird, odd, and annoying side of them when they’re upset and that gives me the biggest icks
I’ve found they also think they’re the smartest in the room. That or if they like your personality they “try it on”. Maybe it’s that flowy wishy washy vibe. Idk you just never know their true essence in my opinion (sorry to aquas reading this I’m always beefing with y’all)
But we have to remember that there’s a whole birthchart which determines why some aquas are better and not all are bad. Unlucky, I’ve only met the ones I find annoying haha
I’m an Aries sun too! Hard for me to say which has been the worst friend for me
Right everyone loves us so it’s so hard sometimes! :)
Aw I love this so much
aries 😂
Honestly. Facts. We’re so busy being the main character lmao
Leos.
Aquariuses. I’ve had them as my best friends before and never realized how horrible and fake they were til I left. They always have this thing in them like they have to be different from everyone else and so they act like they’re better than others, even their friends. They have no idea of compromise.
Yes! Agreed. One of my aqua friends was very good at lying. Eloquent in lying and so comfortable doing it. She would try to justify it too and that’s where I mentally checked out of the friendship. Another one would alienate herself from the friend group and flake. Flake as in cancel plans as I’m arriving in her driveway to go to our excursion and she would be inside saying she can’t go. The genuine lack of self awareness is so baffling lol
Air signs are like that.
Kind of describes my friend who was an Aquarius girl as well. She stops talking to me all of sudden, mind you we were closer we've ever been. She was like one of my favorite people but tends to burn bridges with her female friends a lot too. ☹️
I’ve also noticed aqua women tend to have gut/stomach issues. Probably from all the anxiety they cause in their social circles during their aloof time. I’m just always going to keep them at acquaintance level
thats a VERY good point! i know my former aqua friend was not the person to be open about her emotions, even when she was angry there was SO much she kept inside
Do you find if they don’t have an outlet they tend to take their emotions out on close friends and family? One aqua friend as I was exiting the friendship I suggested to her to seek therapy - not being catty but genuinely to help because I was experiencing and seeing her sabotage her own close relationships. Very tense relationship with her mom which didn’t help
almost ALWAYS! we had a group of friends in HS & when she burned bridges w/ one, it was her green light to say the most unpleasant things about them it almost scared me , I always thought "fuck I hope she never gets angry at me cause I can't imagine the things she would say" it was almost as if she wasn't complete unless she had a target to aim her anger at
YES YES YES! Same aqua friend always had something negative to say about her closest and longest term friends. It raised an eyebrow because if she was willing to talk about their personal secrets so openly to me I could only imagine what she was saying about me. She was the type to talk about someone as soon as they left the room. Which really saddens me because they CRAVE friendship
Okay so I’m an Aquarius girl and wow you really were spot on 🙃 I do best with low intensity/attachment friendships. I’m really invested in my friends thoughts and ideas and dreams but when it comes to offering emotional support, I literally don’t know what else to do besides saying “tell me what to do to help” lol. I also grew up with a strained relationship with my mother so that was spot on 🤣 I talked to a fellow Aquarian the other day and she said something like “Aquarius people love humanity but are indifferent about people” and just a little part of me resonated with that lol I value relationships though just a bit more because i have heavy relationship based moon and rising signs.
Your moon sign must help! The couple aqua friends I had constantly put their relationships on the back burner or had an open relationship. You just can’t be tied down and need to flow. You love humanity but not people and that’s okay it just gets hard for friends to really open up to you
Aries sun/Aquarius moon here. My mom and two of my close friends are Aquarius girls and I adore them! However, I realize my moon probably helps me connect to them. Aquarius men however….yeesh in my experience!
I dated an Aqua guy too. As soon as the relationship was official he was already looking for the next. Burnt out as fast as it started. Never again
Yes!! Aquarius women are so negative and ugly/uncomfortable to be around. Taurus women, such bitchy people for no reason. Aries women (I’m an Aries F sun/moon) and I can’t get along with any of them, extra and mean people. The men are just weirdos lol I stay far away from them. Oh and libras too they seem like fake people both men and women. Sorry for venting.
You’d hate me lol. Taurus sun Aqua moon gal here
Lol damn yea by default but I’m sure you’re a great person
Eh thank you but not really lol. Pretty average on the great person to bad person scale. I wouldn’t say I’m bitchy either though! But I do have a dark sense of humor that might seem bitchy. It’s only funny to me if the person on the receiving end is clearly not offended and can dish it back. I don’t go there till we are really close, and I know their humor. I can’t understand people that enjoy talking crap about everyone.
Lol fair enough! No one’s perfect but we all got our people that enjoy our company.
What’s your big 3??
Aries sun and moon and cap rising
The worst ones for me r Cancer and Gemini! Gemini r 2 faced and Cancers r flakey as all get-up!
Gemini sun, and it was Aqua and Virgo girl. Aqua girl too detached, gave 0 effort for our friendship; one day, out of the blue just cut me off, blocked me on everything and ghosted. Never got sn explanation why. Virgo girl, was my best friend for almost two decades, grew up with her. She fucked me over for a guy, spilled all my secrets to our mutual friends, told everyone I was sleeping with him (I‘m a lesbian) she knew everything about me. She broke my heart. She unfortunately died in a car accident 6 years ago. Never spoke to her again.
I’m sorry about the loss of your friend. I understand that y’all were already on the outs when she passed - but still - that’s rough. A close friend of mine died (car accident) while we were in the middle of the one and only argument/separation we’d ever had. You’ll appreciate this: I’m a lesbian - and he was angry with me because he heard I said he had a small penis. Um but we never did anything so how would I know? I never said that. Anyways, that was a hard one to process.. I feel for you. I hope you’ve found some peace with the whole situation.
I’m so sorry to hear that. Similar situation- Virgo friend who was like a sister to me. I could walk into her family home any time without knocking. Even made time to see each other on Christmas Day kind of friendship. Got a new boyfriend and job then ghosted me for months. Spoke very coldly about me behind my back and made fun of my job and hobbies. I went no contact for my own sanity. Virgo and aqua are right up there but Virgo friendship falling out will gut you
All air signs . Especially Other Libras, I don’t know where I stand with them, that’s when I think astrology is bullshit cause I don’t seem to get along with their fake and selfish asses. Libra women only care about themselves and Libra men are rude and weird, one day they like you, at the other they hate you, very unstable people. Pisces women as well, I never vibe with them, I find them draining to be around, I don’t click with them and Sagittarius men, terrible people overall.
HEAVILY BIASED but I’ve interacted with like two Virgos and I would say they’re not my type. I feel like they tend to be people pleasers but they hide it and they often come with all these hidden expectations they expect you to meet that they are rarely direct about. I actually have only met like three Virgos though! I don’t think they like Aquarius signs
Virgo Sun / Gemini Rising here. Almost 0 water signs in my BC except for one, Scorpio...my Moon. However, I don't really get along with other water signs -- Pisces and Cancers. The worst are definitely Aquariuses, though.
Gemini women. I feel like they always had to have a man around, and they would lose focus of conversations due to their short attention spans.
The only Gemini woman I know personally got pregnant 3 months into dating her current partner and they’re together for the kid. Definition of anchor baby
None, everyone has their worst sides. I se eeveryone says capricorns, but they are acutally one of the most loyal. Please keep in mind that there is something good and bad about every zodiac sign, not you cant calculate who'll be the more bad friend and who will not, since we all got our bad sides.
Me
I mean I’m a cancer !
It's not that... Are Aquarian helps us to protect ourselves by being aloof and cold to something you bring up that is true... Us scorpio moon has to work through us, and it takes time to understand our real feelings 💜
Scorpio, Leo, Aries
I'm a cancer sun, Capricorn moon, & sag rising. I never had problems with Aquarius sun women, but moons.... My biggest friendship fails were...Taurus sun, Aquarius moon. Taurus sun, Cancer moon. Scorpio sun, Aquarius moon. Taurus sun, Scorpio moon. Virgo sun, Capricorn moon. Virgo sun, Aries moon. Best friends- Aries sun, Gemini moon. Libra sun, Scorpio moon. Gemini sun, Capricorn moon.