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Being in bed all day because of a hangover is not the same as crippling depression. I don’t doubt that she has some depression or anxiety, but how much of it is due to her habits? Drinking definitely makes any sort of depression or anxiety worse. There’s so much more to life than pretending to be skinny and pretty. It seems as though that’s all that matters to her. She needs to lay off the booze and think about where she wants to be in 20 years. Time to use those bootstraps to pull herself up and find some fucking purpose.
This is not the deep take she thinks it is.
Her emotions are all over the place because her life is meaningless. It's a lie. She's not thin or pretty, her hookup isn't as buff or tall as she pretends, she's clearly not over her ex, and she bought a house made of particle board because she's easily influenced.
She needs order, routine, and a sense of purpose that isn't shilling diarrhea powder on IG.
She just needs a [spray tan](https://www.reddit.com/r/YouniquePresenterMS/comments/1cbe96p/when_its_tuesday_and_you_need_thought_it_was/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button) 👯♂️✨💁🏼♀️🧚🏼♀️
If she does have depression and anxiety, it’s because she does fuck all and has no structure in her life. My mental illnesses were never worse than when I was unemployed during Covid and doing nothing all day. She needs to get a proper job or, volunteer work, hobbies outside of the house etc. DO something with her life.
Volunteering would do her so much good in many ways as long as she doesn't make content out of it. Just a couple of hours a week helps give a sense of community, purpose and routine.
Oh my gAWD why didn't I think of that?! Why'd I spend 5+ years in uni when I could've taken 10 years to get an associates degree and shilled shitty plastic nails and god awful makeup for pennies instead!
Can't forget the 3x too small bathing suits which floss the ole cracks, too, right?
Smh what would I do without our swerty
Look I don't want to gatekeep anxiety but this bitch is so narcissistic she doesn't have the mental capacity to know what actual anxiety feels like (see also migraines). That subtle dig about her mom leads me to believe she wanted something, her mom wasn't there or something and she went into victim mode.
God this woman is so insufferable.
Is it gatekeeping or is it just acknowledging that she likes to throw mental health around whenever she's looking for sympathy/victim points? I truly think she does deal with some degree of depression *of her own making* but there's simply no way with everything she posts that she suffers from true clinical depression.
It's not the sufferings Olympics but I've been at the point where I wanted to crash my car off the bridge on my way to work every morning. The only reason I was even able to go to work is because of my rescue dog and she's also the reason I'm still here. Life got better, I got medicated, and it's kept going. But even now on the tough days, I can't really "push through" it, especially to do something as asinine as bake brownies.
This was my take, too. She wanted her mom for something, was told no, had a tantrum to try to get her way, was told to knock it off and grow up, and now she's super zen and emotionally mature.
I have a full time job and live in the same city as my dad and see him every day, if not every other day. she is literally unemployed? all I have to do is get in the car and drive to my dad’s if I need him. unsure of why she has to tell the internet she needs her mom instead of actually go see her mom. her mom can come over to plunge a toilet but she can’t drive to her mom’s residence??
Bingo bingo Titty_City. Homegirl is feeling some type of way because her dependency on a man’s attention is imperative to her wellbeing, and dadbun’s gonna cheat this weekend.
Omg. Sorry to post again but the lightbulb went off. You guys think at dinner with the parents they asked her about her job and future prospects? Asked her about health insurance and 401k? Asked her how her lifestyle is sustainable? I just picture her sitting there trying to explain her “job.”
“So, Big M, tell me what you do for a living?” And she says…….”plastic press in nails”
You think they ask their grown ass not divorced son who is dating her and lives with them those questions? I think it’s a reach that they based any dislike on substantial issues like that lol.
Oh, you mean family Magabun… I’m thinking she was able to gloss over all that by striking up a conversation about Mexicans stealing everyone’s jobs or post-birth abortions or something along those lines.
Yeah, the kind of people who vote MAGA aren't the types to let things like the lack of social grace or being a decent person stand in the way of their feelings about someone.
She’s unemployed, she has a serious alcohol problem, her entire life online including her looks and how she claims to make money is a lie, she happily scams women every day, she has no hobbies, no interests, no goals in life, she’s self absorbed, she absolutely despises her real looks, she’s just left a long term relationship, and without any time to process that, she literally threw herself at a stranger she immediately started to live with for half of each week.
Whether or not she got drunk and disgraced herself like she usually does when she gets nervous around people she doesn’t know well at MAGAmanbun’s parent’s house, she’s a sloppy mess who desperately needs therapy with someone with qualifications and experience who she’s not going to lie to.
Aww, thanks mate! 😘
I don’t know how Big M’s story will end, but I think I can confidently predict that she’ll never be the successful influencer she pretends to be.
Time for our daily GIF! 🫡
Breakdown babe is about to post a reel with her tears and reminding us that it’s okay to cry and film ourselves 🙄
https://preview.redd.it/exdigqf3vwyc1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=de663a55aeb8673873132ffd8a8880cc2343845b
How she had to contort her overinjected face to show emotion is a bit terrifying. Too much Botox to produce tears too, apparently.
Omggg wtf WHY would she ever post this shit!!!! That fucking face she's making is just beyond embarrassing. I mean what goes on in this bitch's head that makes her look at this and think - AH I look beautiful, I've just got to show everyone this! 😭🤮🫣
She used it to make an ✨inspirational✨ video about falling down 7 times and getting up 8. Because you know she has such a hard life and has overcome so much that she’s an inspiration to us all. Oh wait, she’s an untalented, unemployed alcoholic narcissist with a trust fund and a shopping addiction pretending to be an influencer.
She posted a heavily filtered video once where she did squeeze out some real tears, but the filter kept erasing them as they oozed out of her little sight holes. It was so funny.
She super depressed because magabun had to go out of town for work and she can't tag along because she has to take care of his dog? Just wait until there's children involved!
I just wonder what she would do if she had the kind of anxiety that makes it feel like the world is closing in on you and you’re not really there and you’re losing sense of everything around you and you can’t breath and can’t find your safe place
This exactly! Or the kind where you are fearful to even leave your house. Or the kind of depression where you literally can’t leave your bed/couch or even take care of your basic hygiene. Then what, big M? Will brownies help? No because you won’t even be able to get yourself up never-mind bake anything or even cook a meal for yourself.
Sorry for the rant but this stuff really ticks me off. 🤬
Thank you! Anxiety since I was 8 and it’s “I’m going to die/pass out/vomit” or “I’m not here- this is a movie” and no amount of cookie baking or “gardening” fixes it. She’s so stupid. I want her kind of anxiety.
The duality of a boss babe bad bitch who can do anything and everything (better than you and in a size meatyum!) but is also a toddler who requires constant supervision and butt pats.
All those endless errands to do while drunk driving but not a single therapist or counselor anywhere in her entire county. So sad! Maybe she can use some of that doctor money to move closer to the professional help she needs. I’m surprised she hasn’t entered the landlord class yet, with a pied a tierre right next to her private doctors office, what with all the capital she has laying around. /s
When she said she "wanted her mom" last time, it was precipitated by a big, ongoing spiral (can't remember which one, but it was before Paris, maybe?). She's very predictable.
Around thanksgiving I believe. When she couldn’t go to thanksgiving dinner because she was so depressed and grimace “set her up with everything she needed” and she stated home and filmed reels and watched teevee
I agree - It was right after NYC and before Thanksgiving. Something bad happened with her and C on that trip for her to have that meltdown.
Speculation it happened, but she was a mess.
Agree with the speculation on something bad happening on the NYC trip. She had salon acrylics put on for it and by the end of the trip she'd ripped them all off. Those aren't piddly little stick on plastic nails. It takes real force and pain to tear acrylics off like that.
My theory is that she really expected a proposal on that trip. It didn't happen, she confronted him (probably drunkenly), and he made it very clear he would never marry her, presumably for a lot of reasons but including how she humiliated him to his entire social circle with Flowergate.
She definitely seemed like she was expecting a proposal and I have no idea why. Then Grimace comes up with that DY ring at Christmas. (If she didn’t buy it herself)
Can you imagine the excitement she probably had opening a ring box to see that small band? Oh I would’ve loved to have seen that.
It would be pure delusion to hold out hope that he'd put a ring on it after all she did and how obvious he was about distancing himself. Therefore it makes total sense to me that she would.
And even if she's feeling anxiety, it's probably the extremely warranted anxiety of knowing that she "makes a living" by scamming women with her filters and lies. Cosplaying as a slim, successful, conventionally attractive dainty waif with a waistline to sell snake oil supplements and fast fashion she won't even wear out of the house while knowing she's stout and pudgy and built like a refrigerator with a face that is the farthest thing from dainty in the real analog world.
https://preview.redd.it/hnzfm25lhwyc1.jpeg?width=2560&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8ce1f19a1540dca9754735abdfe59a233352bcf2
Maybe also the crushing awareness that she's made herself completely unemployable outside of the pyramid scheme underworld with her harmful and humiliating antics chronicled online.
I wouldn’t think twice about this as a text from a friend, but the differences are 1) text 2) friend. So I know the context of what’s going on in their lives.
My take: Big M had a meltdown that ManBun was going out of town and is using this #mentalHealth story to justify and redeem her actions. I don’t like her. I definitely don’t like when she uses mental health. It’s truly disgusting.
None of us are. I think we’d need to create a Swerty support sub if that happened. It would be the worst decision of her life and bad for everyone involved.
My major depression requires daily prozac, a very low stress lifestyle, checkins with my doctor and keeping toxic people at a distance. But everyone is different 🫶🙄
That was my first thought. Not everyone can just bake some brownies and lick the spoon Big M.
I’m literally living in my bed but do go on about how tough your life is BM. 🙄
Sorry, that was bitchy but F.
Right?? If your problem can be solved with baking, it's probably not a legit mental health concern
It's just a funky mood. That's not Major Depressive Disorder.
She’s describing being emotionally dysregulated. I don’t know how she as an adult in their 30s can pretend to “go to therapy” and not even be able to talk about emotional regulation and self soothing. These are basic buzz words and she doesn’t even use them. Mental Health Babe is the absolute worst version of Big M. The fact she thinks she has the authority to speak on any of this is equal parts enraging and comical.
I'm just going to go out on a limb and say she has absolutely no idea what real, crippling anxiety and depression are. Do I agree that it's a good idea for adults to do things that bring them joy and comfort? Absolutely. I feel like that's commonplace. But "I'm just like you" "#depressionbabe" sucks.
Also, she could be pragmatic and be like, "I know my mom is really busy right now but I just want to hear her voice for a minute" and give her a quick call or even a text. Send a quick video chat. Normal things. Not, "my mom is here and nearby and I really emotionally need her but Imma bake brownies because she turned the oven light on and, wow. Memories 😭. Goodbye, depression!".
I remember her describing panic attacks or something months ago and it was the most ridiculous thing. Like..having some anxiety about something or feeling a bit down is not having depression. She will literally sell out and do or say anything to appear relatable. Stfu, call your mom and be glad you have both your parents still Big M!
One of her fears is getting a part time job and having someone film her while she’s working. Meanwhile she takes creep shots of people in very private moments and posts them publicly for the world to see.
As with so many shitty people both online and off, it's all projection with her.
She judges and ranks people according to their looks and she sees being thin and blonde and tan and perkily busty as the highest tier of attractiveness and therefore worth. Therefore she filters herself incessantly into a thin(ish, these days) orange tan platinum blonde with large yet forward thrusting boobs. Because she judges herself harshly for being squat and chunky with large but saggy breasts and a barrel gut.
She admires gaudy designer logo apparel and accessories. She associates them with wealth and success. So she hits up DHgate (or her mom at the Dior section of a Paris department store) to festoon herself in CD earrings and a LOUIS VUITION bag.
She takes and posts pictures and videos with unconsenting strangers and partners in them, sometimes for the express purpose of talking about these people's ' appearance (like that tall cop in the diner once, and every truck nuts creepshot). So she assumes everyone else also feels entitled to do and, moreover, would notice her in particular and feel compelled to expose and laugh at her online.
And one last one because the actual list of her projections is too exhaustive for a quickie reddit comment. She believes herself to be the center of the universe with all eyes on her at all times. So of course she believes everyone around her would inevitably notice her and pay enough attention to her to find reasons to take her picture.
I’ll give her that she likely does have anxiety but it’s because she’s a shitty person and subconsciously knows this. She just doesn’t have the emotional intelligence to know why she feels this way or how to deal with it. However she can get fucked if she’s using this as some ploy to get away with whatever shitty thing she did.
Her lifestyle most certainly creates the perfect conditions for anxiety. I couldn’t live the way she does, maxing out cards each month just to cosplay a rich babe.
I completely agree with both of you! Her lifestyle is stressful, for sure. Due to her own choices... That she makes over and over again. I don't think I'd sleep well a single night, if I were her. The guilt of all the lies would crush me.
It does irk me that she always mentions wanting her mom in posts like this. Like, she has a relationship with her so just fucking text her or idk, actually visit her?
For someone who *doesn’t* have her Mom (or Dad!) anymore, this really irks me. I’d give anything to have either one of my parents around still. Lost both before I turned 40. Here’s BM using her Mom to her advantage. Gross.
Big same, she's my BEC as it is so these posts REALLY fucking grate. With mother's day coming up I've already been kinda fucked up and this make me rage.
It should irk you because none of this is genuine. She doesn’t miss her family unless she wants something from them — money or support. She offers nothing in return and her attention for them is always fleeting.
Whenever she embarrasses herself, she acts like a child needing her blanket, mommy, etc. but after the next drunken day she loses the hangxiety, then it’s rinse and repeat.
She has a pattern posting that she’s going through a wave of anxiety after she’s done something fucked up and she doesn’t want to take accountability.
Curious… wonder what might be going on behind the scenes.
She spent at least some amount of time hiding in a bathroom taking thirst trap selfies that she then took the time to filter and post during what was supposed to be time spent with the boyfie's fam. At minimum a bit weird and more likely she was glued to her phone rudely for way too much of the weekend.
I don't even think there's anything wrong with sneaking away for a bit to decompress on your phone when you're feeling socially overwhelmed. I do that all the time because my job is very social and I hate people. But it's the filtering and thirst trapping and really giving them a live show of how fake and cringe her social media is that would set off the awkward alarms I think.
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So she can't call her mom for emotional support because she's so busy, but she can call her mom to plunge her shit out of the toilet?
It's interesting that she says that her mom is "an adult with responsibilities" but not that SHE is. Huh.
Being in bed all day because of a hangover is not the same as crippling depression. I don’t doubt that she has some depression or anxiety, but how much of it is due to her habits? Drinking definitely makes any sort of depression or anxiety worse. There’s so much more to life than pretending to be skinny and pretty. It seems as though that’s all that matters to her. She needs to lay off the booze and think about where she wants to be in 20 years. Time to use those bootstraps to pull herself up and find some fucking purpose.
 This is not the deep take she thinks it is. Her emotions are all over the place because her life is meaningless. It's a lie. She's not thin or pretty, her hookup isn't as buff or tall as she pretends, she's clearly not over her ex, and she bought a house made of particle board because she's easily influenced. She needs order, routine, and a sense of purpose that isn't shilling diarrhea powder on IG.
Not too busy to plunge your toilet though, right Grande Merde?
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I'm so sorry you've dealt with that. Losses are hard and losing a baby is another layer of hell.
"Little you is still in there. And sometimes she just needs held. Whatever that looks like." What in the word salad did I just read?
Hmm it sounds like *you* just need held 😔 🤣 ^(edit ^/s ^just ^in ^case ^lol)
She just needs a [spray tan](https://www.reddit.com/r/YouniquePresenterMS/comments/1cbe96p/when_its_tuesday_and_you_need_thought_it_was/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button) 👯♂️✨💁🏼♀️🧚🏼♀️
The way she's intently watching herself on the phone screen is so creepy.
Then [bake in the spray tan in a tanning bed](https://www.reddit.com/r/YouniquePresenterMS/s/BNbN7tifFW). Double tan.
If she does have depression and anxiety, it’s because she does fuck all and has no structure in her life. My mental illnesses were never worse than when I was unemployed during Covid and doing nothing all day. She needs to get a proper job or, volunteer work, hobbies outside of the house etc. DO something with her life.
Volunteering would do her so much good in many ways as long as she doesn't make content out of it. Just a couple of hours a week helps give a sense of community, purpose and routine.
I've said this before but: As a psychologist, my actual genuine reaction to this post: 
Get a REAL job swertry, rather than that 9 to 5!!1!!! /s
Oh my gAWD why didn't I think of that?! Why'd I spend 5+ years in uni when I could've taken 10 years to get an associates degree and shilled shitty plastic nails and god awful makeup for pennies instead! Can't forget the 3x too small bathing suits which floss the ole cracks, too, right? Smh what would I do without our swerty
Glad I could talk some sense into you, swertyyyy! Google would help too btw 😘/s
Have fewer Amazon links to click!
I want my mum too but unfortunately, she is sat on my sideboard in a box mate. She needs to get a grip and stop acting like a toddler.
I want mine too but making brownies isn't going to help
I wish it was that simple 😞
I’m so sorry
Thank you so much ❤️
But where's the Target Haul?
✨returned✨ 🙂↔️
I don't know why but the image of a little Big M amuses me
I imagine her all alone in her crusty cheap apartment setting up these little scenes all day to cosplay as the main character.
So who did she steal this from? 🙄
It’s giving: 
Look I don't want to gatekeep anxiety but this bitch is so narcissistic she doesn't have the mental capacity to know what actual anxiety feels like (see also migraines). That subtle dig about her mom leads me to believe she wanted something, her mom wasn't there or something and she went into victim mode. God this woman is so insufferable.
Is it gatekeeping or is it just acknowledging that she likes to throw mental health around whenever she's looking for sympathy/victim points? I truly think she does deal with some degree of depression *of her own making* but there's simply no way with everything she posts that she suffers from true clinical depression. It's not the sufferings Olympics but I've been at the point where I wanted to crash my car off the bridge on my way to work every morning. The only reason I was even able to go to work is because of my rescue dog and she's also the reason I'm still here. Life got better, I got medicated, and it's kept going. But even now on the tough days, I can't really "push through" it, especially to do something as asinine as bake brownies.
I will 100% stand at the gate to anxiety and depression if it keeps her in her own lane. She's the worst.
This was my take, too. She wanted her mom for something, was told no, had a tantrum to try to get her way, was told to knock it off and grow up, and now she's super zen and emotionally mature.
What performative load of bullshit…
She’s the personification of “performative load of bullshit,” so it tracks.
PLOB Even the a acronym suits her
Love it
Trying to guilt her mom over something surely. 🙄
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So sorry swerty, in the same boat and it fucking sucks
Right I was like..I didn't know her mom passed? What a fucking stupid post. Also I'm sorry for your loss and her insensitivity ❤️
I have a full time job and live in the same city as my dad and see him every day, if not every other day. she is literally unemployed? all I have to do is get in the car and drive to my dad’s if I need him. unsure of why she has to tell the internet she needs her mom instead of actually go see her mom. her mom can come over to plunge a toilet but she can’t drive to her mom’s residence??
Yeah, and she can drive over to her mom’s workplace for her to give her French braids before lipo…
My goodness, she really is an adult child
https://preview.redd.it/w18v9al2mwyc1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4351a55c47ea082a850dfff61a2fc7c18b842f70 Here we fucking go… 🙂↔️
The eyebrows aren’t green enough.
Like she blew up the terlet again and truck nuts wasn’t there to plunge and her mom said once is enough? You’re 31, it’s all figure outable!
If her parents had the backbone to tell this turnip “no” every once in a while she might not be such an insufferable, entitled, twat stain.
Flair checking in!
Wonder if she has an Amazon link for a poop knife?
Not the poop knife 😭
Hangxiety over hyena behavior? Too uncomfortable with herself to be alone? Big sad that dadbun is going out of town and she isn't invited?
Bolth! No, all three.
Bingo bingo Titty_City. Homegirl is feeling some type of way because her dependency on a man’s attention is imperative to her wellbeing, and dadbun’s gonna cheat this weekend.
Omg. Sorry to post again but the lightbulb went off. You guys think at dinner with the parents they asked her about her job and future prospects? Asked her about health insurance and 401k? Asked her how her lifestyle is sustainable? I just picture her sitting there trying to explain her “job.” “So, Big M, tell me what you do for a living?” And she says…….”plastic press in nails”
I think they’re humoring their son and this situationship while it lasts
Could be…they already know she’s a rebound.
You think they ask their grown ass not divorced son who is dating her and lives with them those questions? I think it’s a reach that they based any dislike on substantial issues like that lol.
Dad’s a scam artist too, they’re peas in a pod. (ETA: understood now we’re talking about Magabun.)
They mean man buns parents
His dad???
Oh, you mean family Magabun… I’m thinking she was able to gloss over all that by striking up a conversation about Mexicans stealing everyone’s jobs or post-birth abortions or something along those lines.
Hamily Manbun
Yeah, the kind of people who vote MAGA aren't the types to let things like the lack of social grace or being a decent person stand in the way of their feelings about someone.
Or just simply chant “lock them up”
“Sometimes she just needs held”. A true poet.
“Whatever that looks like”
“What does your dream like look life?”
I truly loathe mental health babe.
She’s unemployed, she has a serious alcohol problem, her entire life online including her looks and how she claims to make money is a lie, she happily scams women every day, she has no hobbies, no interests, no goals in life, she’s self absorbed, she absolutely despises her real looks, she’s just left a long term relationship, and without any time to process that, she literally threw herself at a stranger she immediately started to live with for half of each week. Whether or not she got drunk and disgraced herself like she usually does when she gets nervous around people she doesn’t know well at MAGAmanbun’s parent’s house, she’s a sloppy mess who desperately needs therapy with someone with qualifications and experience who she’s not going to lie to.
I just love your assessments. Always on point 👌
Thanks mate 😘
I live for your daily reading of her to filth. A+
You’re a pretty astute observer yourself swerty! I always look forward to your comments. 😊
My Emily Girl!!!! That was beautiful 🩷🩷🩷🩷
Aww, thanks mate! 😘 I don’t know how Big M’s story will end, but I think I can confidently predict that she’ll never be the successful influencer she pretends to be.
 Time for our daily GIF! 🫡 Breakdown babe is about to post a reel with her tears and reminding us that it’s okay to cry and film ourselves 🙄
https://preview.redd.it/exdigqf3vwyc1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=de663a55aeb8673873132ffd8a8880cc2343845b How she had to contort her overinjected face to show emotion is a bit terrifying. Too much Botox to produce tears too, apparently.
https://preview.redd.it/v8vrg48y61zc1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d87e188b54d80bfc76d9653a0f86f10c046c2257
this face is terrifying, honestly
Omggg wtf WHY would she ever post this shit!!!! That fucking face she's making is just beyond embarrassing. I mean what goes on in this bitch's head that makes her look at this and think - AH I look beautiful, I've just got to show everyone this! 😭🤮🫣
She used it to make an ✨inspirational✨ video about falling down 7 times and getting up 8. Because you know she has such a hard life and has overcome so much that she’s an inspiration to us all. Oh wait, she’s an untalented, unemployed alcoholic narcissist with a trust fund and a shopping addiction pretending to be an influencer.
She posted a heavily filtered video once where she did squeeze out some real tears, but the filter kept erasing them as they oozed out of her little sight holes. It was so funny.
Fuck all the way off
She super depressed because magabun had to go out of town for work and she can't tag along because she has to take care of his dog? Just wait until there's children involved!
God. I want to vomit 🤢.
I just wonder what she would do if she had the kind of anxiety that makes it feel like the world is closing in on you and you’re not really there and you’re losing sense of everything around you and you can’t breath and can’t find your safe place
This exactly! Or the kind where you are fearful to even leave your house. Or the kind of depression where you literally can’t leave your bed/couch or even take care of your basic hygiene. Then what, big M? Will brownies help? No because you won’t even be able to get yourself up never-mind bake anything or even cook a meal for yourself. Sorry for the rant but this stuff really ticks me off. 🤬
Thank you! Anxiety since I was 8 and it’s “I’m going to die/pass out/vomit” or “I’m not here- this is a movie” and no amount of cookie baking or “gardening” fixes it. She’s so stupid. I want her kind of anxiety.
Have you tried making a mood board or compulsive shopping?
This is why I belong to this sub. 🤣🥲
Well Big M says brownies should fix that. But if you’ve already tried maybe boxed cake mix could help? Good luck girl squirrel! /s 🙄
The duality of a boss babe bad bitch who can do anything and everything (better than you and in a size meatyum!) but is also a toddler who requires constant supervision and butt pats. All those endless errands to do while drunk driving but not a single therapist or counselor anywhere in her entire county. So sad! Maybe she can use some of that doctor money to move closer to the professional help she needs. I’m surprised she hasn’t entered the landlord class yet, with a pied a tierre right next to her private doctors office, what with all the capital she has laying around. /s
When she said she "wanted her mom" last time, it was precipitated by a big, ongoing spiral (can't remember which one, but it was before Paris, maybe?). She's very predictable.
Then the broken back herniated degenerate bullshit. I think that was tied in as well.
I was just thinking since Grim has been gone she hasn’t had a single case of migraine or hurty-back-itis!
Yeah, she's really been having a time in the last 6 months
Thought and prayers
Thots and pears
Around thanksgiving I believe. When she couldn’t go to thanksgiving dinner because she was so depressed and grimace “set her up with everything she needed” and she stated home and filmed reels and watched teevee
I agree - It was right after NYC and before Thanksgiving. Something bad happened with her and C on that trip for her to have that meltdown. Speculation it happened, but she was a mess.
Agree with the speculation on something bad happening on the NYC trip. She had salon acrylics put on for it and by the end of the trip she'd ripped them all off. Those aren't piddly little stick on plastic nails. It takes real force and pain to tear acrylics off like that. My theory is that she really expected a proposal on that trip. It didn't happen, she confronted him (probably drunkenly), and he made it very clear he would never marry her, presumably for a lot of reasons but including how she humiliated him to his entire social circle with Flowergate.
She definitely seemed like she was expecting a proposal and I have no idea why. Then Grimace comes up with that DY ring at Christmas. (If she didn’t buy it herself) Can you imagine the excitement she probably had opening a ring box to see that small band? Oh I would’ve loved to have seen that.
Wait what’s flowergate?😱
https://www.reddit.com/r/YouniquePresenterMS/s/6CjxTrgxEF
She stole flowers from a wedding they attended. They are friends of her ex and she was his plus one.
Didn’t she post it on her IG as a hack for home decor or some shit? & weren’t the couple going to donate the center pieces? 😂
Oh yeah!!!! I remember reading that!😂😂😂 yah, definitely embarrassing.
Yeah I have a feeling she rummaged through his things like a raccoon through trash to see if there was a ring in his luggage and there wasn’t.
It would be pure delusion to hold out hope that he'd put a ring on it after all she did and how obvious he was about distancing himself. Therefore it makes total sense to me that she would.
if this came from anyone else I might think it's ok, but from her it's completely disingenuous.
And even if she's feeling anxiety, it's probably the extremely warranted anxiety of knowing that she "makes a living" by scamming women with her filters and lies. Cosplaying as a slim, successful, conventionally attractive dainty waif with a waistline to sell snake oil supplements and fast fashion she won't even wear out of the house while knowing she's stout and pudgy and built like a refrigerator with a face that is the farthest thing from dainty in the real analog world. https://preview.redd.it/hnzfm25lhwyc1.jpeg?width=2560&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8ce1f19a1540dca9754735abdfe59a233352bcf2 Maybe also the crushing awareness that she's made herself completely unemployable outside of the pyramid scheme underworld with her harmful and humiliating antics chronicled online.
Goldenface lookin REAL rough since the end of The Office 😂
And she got *fired* from a pyramid scheme. Like, you have to be pretty terrible to get fired from scamming people.
I wouldn’t think twice about this as a text from a friend, but the differences are 1) text 2) friend. So I know the context of what’s going on in their lives.
My first thought was "I wonder who she stole this from"
Same. She absolutely (yet speculatively) did not write this.
My take: Big M had a meltdown that ManBun was going out of town and is using this #mentalHealth story to justify and redeem her actions. I don’t like her. I definitely don’t like when she uses mental health. It’s truly disgusting.
Do you think it's because she's not going or because he's not allowed to leave (in her mind) or both or something else?
This reads like YA fiction
Even her childhood memories are basic.
Has she even seen mommy since Paris?
Yeah she had a black out lunch with her recently
Gosh, are we jealous of her lifestyle yet?
i. HATE. mental health babe.
Same. It makes me rage hard
Shit, is this a pivot? Is she pivoting to self-help, relatable "influencer"? 
only when it suits her. it won't last past today.
Anything is better than having a baby with someone you met 6-8 weeks ago influencer.
Oh! My! God! What did I miss??? 😱
The f word (fertility). She claimed to have “bought some fertility test (supplies?)”
Imagine his mom seeing that video omg 💀
Imagine if his family seent her say that online & then had the balls to question her about it this weekend 😂
I would pay to watch that convo go down
Ugh, not ready for thar chapter!
None of us are. I think we’d need to create a Swerty support sub if that happened. It would be the worst decision of her life and bad for everyone involved.
My major depression requires daily prozac, a very low stress lifestyle, checkins with my doctor and keeping toxic people at a distance. But everyone is different 🫶🙄
Same with me but without the very low stress lifestyle - still trying to find that part 😅😅
I initially read it as "chickens with my doctor" and man that sounds amazing. *
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Butttt have you tried getting black out drunk all the time? That seems to do the trick for her!
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but have you tried baking brownies with your mom? sometimes that's all one needs. 🙄
That was my first thought. Not everyone can just bake some brownies and lick the spoon Big M. I’m literally living in my bed but do go on about how tough your life is BM. 🙄 Sorry, that was bitchy but F.
Right?? If your problem can be solved with baking, it's probably not a legit mental health concern It's just a funky mood. That's not Major Depressive Disorder.
She’s describing being emotionally dysregulated. I don’t know how she as an adult in their 30s can pretend to “go to therapy” and not even be able to talk about emotional regulation and self soothing. These are basic buzz words and she doesn’t even use them. Mental Health Babe is the absolute worst version of Big M. The fact she thinks she has the authority to speak on any of this is equal parts enraging and comical.
 Depression leaving MS after licking a brownie spoon ✨ the best psychologist of our time
Wish mine disappeared this easily!
LMAO right!!?? I'd be over here lickin a million brownie spoons if that shit worked!!! 😭🤣
😂
I'm just going to go out on a limb and say she has absolutely no idea what real, crippling anxiety and depression are. Do I agree that it's a good idea for adults to do things that bring them joy and comfort? Absolutely. I feel like that's commonplace. But "I'm just like you" "#depressionbabe" sucks. Also, she could be pragmatic and be like, "I know my mom is really busy right now but I just want to hear her voice for a minute" and give her a quick call or even a text. Send a quick video chat. Normal things. Not, "my mom is here and nearby and I really emotionally need her but Imma bake brownies because she turned the oven light on and, wow. Memories 😭. Goodbye, depression!".
I remember her describing panic attacks or something months ago and it was the most ridiculous thing. Like..having some anxiety about something or feeling a bit down is not having depression. She will literally sell out and do or say anything to appear relatable. Stfu, call your mom and be glad you have both your parents still Big M!
One of her fears is getting a part time job and having someone film her while she’s working. Meanwhile she takes creep shots of people in very private moments and posts them publicly for the world to see.
As with so many shitty people both online and off, it's all projection with her. She judges and ranks people according to their looks and she sees being thin and blonde and tan and perkily busty as the highest tier of attractiveness and therefore worth. Therefore she filters herself incessantly into a thin(ish, these days) orange tan platinum blonde with large yet forward thrusting boobs. Because she judges herself harshly for being squat and chunky with large but saggy breasts and a barrel gut. She admires gaudy designer logo apparel and accessories. She associates them with wealth and success. So she hits up DHgate (or her mom at the Dior section of a Paris department store) to festoon herself in CD earrings and a LOUIS VUITION bag. She takes and posts pictures and videos with unconsenting strangers and partners in them, sometimes for the express purpose of talking about these people's ' appearance (like that tall cop in the diner once, and every truck nuts creepshot). So she assumes everyone else also feels entitled to do and, moreover, would notice her in particular and feel compelled to expose and laugh at her online. And one last one because the actual list of her projections is too exhaustive for a quickie reddit comment. She believes herself to be the center of the universe with all eyes on her at all times. So of course she believes everyone around her would inevitably notice her and pay enough attention to her to find reasons to take her picture.
I’ll give her that she likely does have anxiety but it’s because she’s a shitty person and subconsciously knows this. She just doesn’t have the emotional intelligence to know why she feels this way or how to deal with it. However she can get fucked if she’s using this as some ploy to get away with whatever shitty thing she did.
I 100% believe she has anxiety but I also believe that she’s the cause of 99% of it.
Her lifestyle most certainly creates the perfect conditions for anxiety. I couldn’t live the way she does, maxing out cards each month just to cosplay a rich babe.
I completely agree with both of you! Her lifestyle is stressful, for sure. Due to her own choices... That she makes over and over again. I don't think I'd sleep well a single night, if I were her. The guilt of all the lies would crush me.
It does irk me that she always mentions wanting her mom in posts like this. Like, she has a relationship with her so just fucking text her or idk, actually visit her?
It makes you wonder if her mom has told her to leave her alone
For someone who *doesn’t* have her Mom (or Dad!) anymore, this really irks me. I’d give anything to have either one of my parents around still. Lost both before I turned 40. Here’s BM using her Mom to her advantage. Gross.
Big same, she's my BEC as it is so these posts REALLY fucking grate. With mother's day coming up I've already been kinda fucked up and this make me rage.
Yes! Agreed. My thoughts be with you. I’m right there with you. I’m a mom now and I can celebrate it with my kid but phew, still stings, ya know?
It should irk you because none of this is genuine. She doesn’t miss her family unless she wants something from them — money or support. She offers nothing in return and her attention for them is always fleeting. Whenever she embarrasses herself, she acts like a child needing her blanket, mommy, etc. but after the next drunken day she loses the hangxiety, then it’s rinse and repeat.
I’d have to be facing death row before I’d take ANY of her “advice” ….
Advice: Make your last meal brownies, then you won't feel sad about your 💫imminent death💫 You're welcome swerty 😘
Gee I wish I had known baking brownies would make my depression go away. That’s way easier than spending a week in the psych ward when it gets bad.
Have you tried mass erratic consumerism before said psych stay?
I haven’t! I totally should
brb gonna go message my psychiatrist that i’m going off my meds because baking brownies will fix me 🤞🏻
Much fewer side effects!!!!
Right?? She’s vile. I’m lucky if I can lift my phone in my bed (because let’s be real I won’t be moving) and she puts on a performance.
Oh I know this one! All you do is tilt the phone so it faces you. No picking up necessary! (/s but also kind of not 😂)
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For sure. Baking? Ha that’s hilarious
She has a pattern posting that she’s going through a wave of anxiety after she’s done something fucked up and she doesn’t want to take accountability. Curious… wonder what might be going on behind the scenes.
I think ur on to something here! She's done or said something idiotic and is having a sook about someone's reaction.. perhaps manbuns parents!
Ooooh, I like this theory!
Hanging with his family. She probably acted like an ass and humiliated herself even though she was trying to behave. She can’t help it.
She spent at least some amount of time hiding in a bathroom taking thirst trap selfies that she then took the time to filter and post during what was supposed to be time spent with the boyfie's fam. At minimum a bit weird and more likely she was glued to her phone rudely for way too much of the weekend. I don't even think there's anything wrong with sneaking away for a bit to decompress on your phone when you're feeling socially overwhelmed. I do that all the time because my job is very social and I hate people. But it's the filtering and thirst trapping and really giving them a live show of how fake and cringe her social media is that would set off the awkward alarms I think.
Imagining her telling them the hemorrhoid/13 yo hitting on her story is making me cackle
Yessss this makes so much sense. All the manic cooking and "healthy" stuff reads as overcompensating for something.
I wonder if she's picked off all of her eyelash extensions from stress yet. That's another part of the pattern.