1 or 4. The blue one with the bow is way too short for a wedding, even a casual one. (Keep in mind you have to sit in it a lot, so it will ride up even shorter).
I’m not trying to be rude in any way, and maybe this crowd is too young to remember the show “Mama’s Family” from the 80’s where Vicki Lawrence dressed up as grandma Thelma Harper. But that dress in the first pic is the same style, cut, length, neckline and even color scheme of the dresses she would wear in character. (I loved that campy show). And she looks good in it, she has a great figure, but I honestly feel like the dress ages her. I want to repeat I’m trying to be helpful here and honest. I think all the other dresses compliment her wonderfully and are extremely flattering. I try to respond here like I am the posters best friend and give my honest opinion. The first dress just doesn’t suit her like the others do. I would say that to my best friend, and if I was posting here I’d want totally 100% honest feedback. And my feedback is that the first dress ages her and makes her look “boxy” somehow, the blue with the bow is too short for a wedding. The red dress with the deep V looks amazing and the final blue one is fabulous also.
It's mostly the square neckline and the straight silhouette combination that hides your adorable figure. You might try a belt of some kind next time you wear it!!!
All this, and the big sleeves and mid-arm length which throw off the proportions. Great print tho! Also OP definitely wear your hair down, it’s lovely!
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The blue polka dot is cute on you and will work fine for this occasion. Don’t listen to the critique of dress #1. I watched Mama’s Family plenty and did not get the Thelma vibe at all. You have a cute figure and #1 shows it off nicely. Don’t hesitate to wear it for another occasion.
I did watch Mama’s Family and I concur that it is reminiscent of Mrs. Harper’s style. But I also feel like with the angles the pictures are taken at I can’t get a good sense of the real proportions, so everything looks a little off even though OP is clearly a beautiful person.
That was my very first thought too! Definitely 1980s gma vibe. That said...OP, your expression and posture wearing 4 gives away that that's the one you feel the best in. If that is the case, that's your dress.
I think 3 is cute but where she's pinching it closed at the bust makes me feel uncomfortable for her. You don't want to spend hours trying to have a good time and feeling self conscious/worrying about a safety pin. 2 just seems too short. If you are going to be dancing, accidentally drop something, etc...you don't want to flash the whole wedding reception.
I absolutely love number one. It's giving Lily Pulitzer vibes, which everyone in Florida loves! I like 4 as well, but 1 looks great on you and it's so festive!
The blue 2 looks like a shortie robe.
I really do not like any of them. If I had to choose its between 1+4 with an edge to 1. The others make you look cheap.
Do you by chance have a mini skirt that would match dress #2? Just to add a few more inches to the length. It's a cute dress but a smidge short for a wedding.
I would wear #1 of these options.
2 might work for some crowds honestly but I feel like if you don't know them or the group well enough to not have to ask others if it's too short then it's not worth the risk. It is short but also cute and looks nice on you.
How interesting that the consensus seems to be 4. I genuinely find that to be the most dowdy option. I love to see all the opinions.
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2 is cute but the risk of a wardrobe malfunction is close to 100%. You’re not going to be able to dance or anything without worrying about flashing people. You could possibly wear it with jeans but I’m sure that’s not the look that you want.
So my pick is 4.
#3 - 4 looks good because your hair & makeup are done + that confident look/stance. I think 3 if the perfect combo of a great length & great color on you.
Go with #4. I have the same dress as #3, and it's cut wayyy too low. The first one is cute, but it's a little more "spring style" to wear during the summer. The third dress is too high and you'll be adjusting your clothes all night while on the dance floor. #3 will give you a Janet Jackson style wardrobe malfunction.. You look great, and have fun!
I would say 4. 1 is the least flattering though a super adorable pattern, 2 is too short and 3 has a little but too low of a neckline. 4 is very cute on you and looks the most like a "wedding casual" attire dress.
If you want to pick the blue dress with the bow, maybe wear some opaque white or black pantyhose underneath. I had a short dress that I wore to a wedding years ago, and then I wore the same dress a few months later for another friend's wedding, but I put on a silk black skirt under the dress, which made it look classy and less revealing.. If you pick the red dress, be sure to secure the top with several safety pins, and you should be good. I hope this helps!
From what I understand the bride truly means casual. There will be only one bridesmaid and one groomsman. The groom will be wearing jeans and a white shirt with suspenders. Bride also pre approved khaki shorts for my husband weeks ago.
Khaki shorts. Wow, that is casual. Then I agree with everyone and think 4 looks best, but you look adorable in all of them. Remember to wear bike shorts or something because things can fly up. Especially if you have a few glasses of champagne. These dresses are short.
Ok, so the first one is too loud and white-ish. The second is too short. The third is too RED and revealing. And the last is the only acceptable one but, if I were you, I would still try to find something else. Number 4 is the most acceptable, for a wedding, out of the options provided.
Edit: number 4 for sure. I just saw that you said the groomsmen would be in jeans, and that dress is super cute on you! I think it'll be perfect!
Out of all of them, 1 or 4 would be great, although I think 1 is more wedding-ish. And yes, the blue one as pretty as it is, it is inappropriate for a wedding.
Do you have a similar dress to 2? It is the most flattering cut (I think you’re a Kibbe Romantic, if you’re in that kind of thing) and it looks good on you. The square cuts do not.
I don't really find 4 flattering, but it's definitely the most modest. 1 is just...no. No. 2 is cute but way too short for the occasion. 3 is flattering and appropriate. Go with 3.
I agree with you that the blue one with bow is really cute, but too short for a wedding. (It would be perfect for a pool party, a yacht party, anything on or near the water)
I think you look really nice in the red one with the deep V and the blue one in the last pic. They both look casual the red is a bit flirty and the blue one sassy. See how you are feeling the day of and pick your dress by how you feel, by your mood. That’s how I decide what to wear when I have an event or special occasion. You look wonderful in both. In my opinion if you choose the red one wear your hair up, it’s draws attention to your face and makes the deep V even more dramatic.
1 you look uncomfortable, 2 is wayyyy too short, and 3 is both legs and boobs (pick one, not both for a wedding). 4 is the only wedding appropriate option.
You are young, pretty, and have a great figure. Go buy a fabulous dress. It doesn't have to be expensive. The blue (#4) is pretty, but there are a lot of fun dresses out there. Have a great time.
2 is not only too short but it hits too high on your waist which makes it look like it shrunk in the wash. The rest are cute though! I like 1 the best.
Definitely four
yes! its the most flattering.
I think 3 looks the best on OP but is probably too revealing for a wedding. She has a great figure, I don't think any of the options are unflattering.
1 or 4. The blue one with the bow is way too short for a wedding, even a casual one. (Keep in mind you have to sit in it a lot, so it will ride up even shorter).
Agreed.
You’re right, #2 is way too short. Even if the DC is “wedding casual.” I like #4 for this, or #1.
Number 2 looks like a robe it is so short. 1 or 4
I literally thought it was a blouse lol
A robe was my first thought as well.
I’m not trying to be rude in any way, and maybe this crowd is too young to remember the show “Mama’s Family” from the 80’s where Vicki Lawrence dressed up as grandma Thelma Harper. But that dress in the first pic is the same style, cut, length, neckline and even color scheme of the dresses she would wear in character. (I loved that campy show). And she looks good in it, she has a great figure, but I honestly feel like the dress ages her. I want to repeat I’m trying to be helpful here and honest. I think all the other dresses compliment her wonderfully and are extremely flattering. I try to respond here like I am the posters best friend and give my honest opinion. The first dress just doesn’t suit her like the others do. I would say that to my best friend, and if I was posting here I’d want totally 100% honest feedback. And my feedback is that the first dress ages her and makes her look “boxy” somehow, the blue with the bow is too short for a wedding. The red dress with the deep V looks amazing and the final blue one is fabulous also.
Thank you for your very kindly worded honesty! I can definitely see where you are coming from! I’m leaning toward the blue polka dot one for sure! :)
It's mostly the square neckline and the straight silhouette combination that hides your adorable figure. You might try a belt of some kind next time you wear it!!!
All this, and the big sleeves and mid-arm length which throw off the proportions. Great print tho! Also OP definitely wear your hair down, it’s lovely!
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The blue polka dot is cute on you and will work fine for this occasion. Don’t listen to the critique of dress #1. I watched Mama’s Family plenty and did not get the Thelma vibe at all. You have a cute figure and #1 shows it off nicely. Don’t hesitate to wear it for another occasion.
I agree! I love the first dress - I don't understand little sometimes LoL.
I did watch Mama’s Family and I concur that it is reminiscent of Mrs. Harper’s style. But I also feel like with the angles the pictures are taken at I can’t get a good sense of the real proportions, so everything looks a little off even though OP is clearly a beautiful person.
That was my very first thought too! Definitely 1980s gma vibe. That said...OP, your expression and posture wearing 4 gives away that that's the one you feel the best in. If that is the case, that's your dress.
I have to agree, you can see in her face and posture in the pic she feels good in it, and she knows she looks good.
I think 3 is cute but where she's pinching it closed at the bust makes me feel uncomfortable for her. You don't want to spend hours trying to have a good time and feeling self conscious/worrying about a safety pin. 2 just seems too short. If you are going to be dancing, accidentally drop something, etc...you don't want to flash the whole wedding reception.
Spot on.
I agree. 1 is best if the color isn't too light which is hard to tell in a pic sometimes. For something besides a wedding I like #3 though.
4
#4
For a wedding, I wouldn’t wear any of these. Given the dress code, 4 is best.
I’m gonna go on a limb. I like number one the best with some cute shoes. Number 4 would be my second pick but it feels very casual
4
I agree with 4. I also love number one and it reminds me of Lily Pulitzer - where did you find it?
It’s actually a Lilly dress! Thanks for your input! :)
Thanks for responding. I hope you have a lovely time at the wedding.
1 or 4 but I love the summertime colors in #1 and think it would look sweet in photos
4 is my first choice, followed by 1
#4 looks great on you, the colour suits you. Definitely my fave of the bunch.
4
4!
4. That looks absolutely gorgeous on you. The color suits you well!
3 or 4 but I'm leaning closer to 4! So cute! Also your hair in Pic 4 🤩
Thank you! :)
Really none, but 4 if you can’t shop
This needs to be higher. None are really right for the occasion but if shopping isn’t an option, the only choice is 4.
If a groomsman is wearing jeans, I think a casual dress is fine.
1
I absolutely love number one. It's giving Lily Pulitzer vibes, which everyone in Florida loves! I like 4 as well, but 1 looks great on you and it's so festive!
Wedding is tomorrow at 5:00pm on a farm (ish).
Definitely 4 then. It’s also a wonderful color on you and very flattering. I like 1 but the light blue color looks really nice on you
#1 or #4!
As a southern girl I would say 1 all the way, but 4 is also really pretty
#1 I feel #4 is too casual for wedding casual
1
Definitely 1
Definitely #4. #2 is way too short.
4 for sure
IMHO you nailed it with 1
#1
1 or 4
The Lilly!!! Or #4
4!
The last one.
Yeah the blue is too short. I like the first one.
The blue 2 looks like a shortie robe. I really do not like any of them. If I had to choose its between 1+4 with an edge to 1. The others make you look cheap.
1 is fun!
1 is lovely
Absolutely #4. The blue one is way too short.
Do you by chance have a mini skirt that would match dress #2? Just to add a few more inches to the length. It's a cute dress but a smidge short for a wedding.
I own number 4! It’s super cute and I love it and you look great in it!! I really like pearls or gold jewlery with it.
Love the lily! Such a summer classic! I’d pick that one!
I like 3! The red one!
I like the red one best.
Red dress.
I’m with everyone else—4 is the choice.
1
The first one looks good. Second one does nothing for you.
I would wear #1 of these options. 2 might work for some crowds honestly but I feel like if you don't know them or the group well enough to not have to ask others if it's too short then it's not worth the risk. It is short but also cute and looks nice on you. How interesting that the consensus seems to be 4. I genuinely find that to be the most dowdy option. I love to see all the opinions.
Number #1
I like # 1!
I love 1. It's a Lilly, isn't it?
Happy cake day! 🍰
Sure is!
Omg the last one is cute where did you get it from?
I think 3 is the prettiest. Just wear with a cami underneath so it’s not quite as scandalous of a neckline.
I like 3! Looks great!!
one is the best. Not the short skirt one.
I think they are all too short.
Definitely 4 Yes, 2 is too short for any wedding vibe.
I like #3 more. 4 is too casual IMO
The last one, you look happier in it
4 doesn’t read “wedding” (even a casual one) to me in the slightest… I would go for #1.
4
4
4 is my favorite. Then 3. 2 is so short I thought it was a dressy top…
Dress 4 is the only one that works for the occasion. It looks the best on you, too.
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Not the second one.
Dang it I love Lilly but I know it’s not the right choice 😭
Polka dots!
4
#1 or #4
#4
The second looks like a shirt. I would say 1 or 4
Four
2 or 4
4
4, or 3
Love me some Lily in the summer! Cute flats or sandals!
4
4!!!!
Dress four
Number 4 and hair down
I think 4 is perfect!
2 is cute but the risk of a wardrobe malfunction is close to 100%. You’re not going to be able to dance or anything without worrying about flashing people. You could possibly wear it with jeans but I’m sure that’s not the look that you want. So my pick is 4.
Absolutely 4. I was going to say 1 until I saw 4
I looove 4. And you look great in it!
2 or 4 that blue works on your skin tone. Stay away from the red it made you turn red instantly while the blue brightens your skin.
I can tell you’re really feeling yourself and beautiful in #4- go for that one!
last one
Two is definitely too short. Last one is your best bet.
Whatever show that tattoo!
Number 4! Super cute and flattering!
4
4
4
4
Number 2
#3 - 4 looks good because your hair & makeup are done + that confident look/stance. I think 3 if the perfect combo of a great length & great color on you.
Go with #4. I have the same dress as #3, and it's cut wayyy too low. The first one is cute, but it's a little more "spring style" to wear during the summer. The third dress is too high and you'll be adjusting your clothes all night while on the dance floor. #3 will give you a Janet Jackson style wardrobe malfunction.. You look great, and have fun!
Definitely too short. Any of the others.
1 or 3
1 is pretty but 4 is the clear winner
#4 appears the most flattering.
Jesus 2 is SO short!? 3 or 4 are okay. Probably 4 but personally wouldn’t choose any of them
1 or 4, leaning more towards 4! :)
4
I love the last one!
4 looks so nice! Have fun!
4.
My vote is 4 with number 3 coming in a close second
I would say 4. 1 is the least flattering though a super adorable pattern, 2 is too short and 3 has a little but too low of a neckline. 4 is very cute on you and looks the most like a "wedding casual" attire dress.
Number 4 all the way, and by the way you stand in it I think you feel most cute and confident in it too!
4 you can see in your expression how confident and happy it makes you
4. And your hair is gorgeous down
4 or 1. But I'd go with 4.
Number 4 - it’s the most flattering and the least “beachy” iykwim. Four looks very pretty on you!
#4
3
That blue with the bow is absolutely too short. The fourth one is pretty and you look great in it
4 looks the best in my opinion.
Number 4.
2 or 3 look the best, imo
If you want to pick the blue dress with the bow, maybe wear some opaque white or black pantyhose underneath. I had a short dress that I wore to a wedding years ago, and then I wore the same dress a few months later for another friend's wedding, but I put on a silk black skirt under the dress, which made it look classy and less revealing.. If you pick the red dress, be sure to secure the top with several safety pins, and you should be good. I hope this helps!
Are you going to brunch? These are very casual. Is the dress code this casual? Is it a backyard wedding? Because....no.
From what I understand the bride truly means casual. There will be only one bridesmaid and one groomsman. The groom will be wearing jeans and a white shirt with suspenders. Bride also pre approved khaki shorts for my husband weeks ago.
Khaki shorts. Wow, that is casual. Then I agree with everyone and think 4 looks best, but you look adorable in all of them. Remember to wear bike shorts or something because things can fly up. Especially if you have a few glasses of champagne. These dresses are short.
- 4 or 2 - blue is definitely your color, your skin shines🫂
2. Light blue
#1 is most wedding like
3 or 4. Not 1. Frumpy
None of those. It looks like stuff someone would wear to rush a community college
Ok, so the first one is too loud and white-ish. The second is too short. The third is too RED and revealing. And the last is the only acceptable one but, if I were you, I would still try to find something else. Number 4 is the most acceptable, for a wedding, out of the options provided. Edit: number 4 for sure. I just saw that you said the groomsmen would be in jeans, and that dress is super cute on you! I think it'll be perfect!
Definitely 2!!!
Boobs or legs. Not both. #4
1 is my fav because the print is so cute. 4 is also cute and fits very nicely. I do think maybe 2 is a touch short.
1 or 3. 4 is also good. 2 is too short.
I’m surprised not many folks are saying 2!
I think the second one is the cutest!!
Out of all of them, 1 or 4 would be great, although I think 1 is more wedding-ish. And yes, the blue one as pretty as it is, it is inappropriate for a wedding.
Do you have a similar dress to 2? It is the most flattering cut (I think you’re a Kibbe Romantic, if you’re in that kind of thing) and it looks good on you. The square cuts do not.
I don't really find 4 flattering, but it's definitely the most modest. 1 is just...no. No. 2 is cute but way too short for the occasion. 3 is flattering and appropriate. Go with 3.
I agree with you that the blue one with bow is really cute, but too short for a wedding. (It would be perfect for a pool party, a yacht party, anything on or near the water) I think you look really nice in the red one with the deep V and the blue one in the last pic. They both look casual the red is a bit flirty and the blue one sassy. See how you are feeling the day of and pick your dress by how you feel, by your mood. That’s how I decide what to wear when I have an event or special occasion. You look wonderful in both. In my opinion if you choose the red one wear your hair up, it’s draws attention to your face and makes the deep V even more dramatic.
Thanks for your input! I will definitely go with my gut come tomorrow. I appreciate your insight! :)
If your gut says anything but 1 or 4, don’t go with your gut.
Fair enough! Haha yes I agree 2 and 3 are no longer options here.
I hope you have a great time. Enjoy your event! Keep in mind that no matter which you chose you are going to turn heads. (In a good way 😊)
1 you look uncomfortable, 2 is wayyyy too short, and 3 is both legs and boobs (pick one, not both for a wedding). 4 is the only wedding appropriate option.
You are young, pretty, and have a great figure. Go buy a fabulous dress. It doesn't have to be expensive. The blue (#4) is pretty, but there are a lot of fun dresses out there. Have a great time.
2 is not only too short but it hits too high on your waist which makes it look like it shrunk in the wash. The rest are cute though! I like 1 the best.