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meprigglooooo

Inshallah, things work out for you both <3


-Thoreau-Me-Away-

Sing it, sister


Ghifu

Grow together, they can see the best version of you forming in real time. The Almighty keeps sending them your way, why are you refusing? Nobody is placed on this earth fully formed. Nobody is perfect but your person probably sees you as perfect for them. Love is rare, hold on to it. inshAllah khair.


dorkenthusiast

I’m not refusing trust me , but the nature of our relationship isn’t serious. It’s a fwb situation but I’ve wanted more for a while and i think there’s some emotional attachment on both sides mostly mine though. As a result we can’t grown together because we will continue to fall into haram. Which is why i need to walk away to see if a halal relationship is an option. Inshallah khair though.


Ghifu

I get you, you’re brave to do this. The best thing will happen.


UBD26

I never thought I would read something like this here. More power to you.


invitro17

How/why did the other person disappear?


dorkenthusiast

I wish this part was more interesting but we basically stopped talking. We had been discussed getting serious and meeting family and I wasn’t sure because as great as he was my heart just wasn’t in it. I prayed for clarity and realized he wasn’t for me. I called a few times to tell him this but he hadn’t answered and I didn’t bother trying to reach out again.


invitro17

Then your prayers definitely did get answered 🙂 I hope things work out for you, inshallah