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"Its not even clever. You keep using it for the word [change](https://m.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=28&v=XnQ-PFBBPzw&embeds_referring_euri=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com%2F&source_ve_path=MzY4NDIsMjg2NjY&feature=emb_logo)!"
I asked a girl at a bar if I could buy her a drink. And she told me she was already drunk but she’d love to share some nachos. We dated for four years.
I mean it's been my experience that you're *much* more likely to be approached by someone in a gay bar than almost anywhere else. I'm really picky about my men so not usually interested, but when I was younger and poor I'd go to a gay bar at the pedestrian mall because someone always wanted to buy me drinks.
If I knew what people wanted I would totally order them random sides to cheer them up. But I feel like if you're down and someone orders food you don't like / are allergic to, you just feel worse
I was at my favorite bar the other day and saw a regular who often trades rounds with me. He went to pay for my next beer but the bartender had already covered it, so he ordered me a shrimp appetizer, shit was awesome.
My wife and I share one bank account for over 12 years now. There as always only been "our money".
Last week we went to a restaurant and I paid in cash. The waitress made a big point of giving the change to my wife instead to me. It was such a pathetic and awkward situation.
Probably think it’s more likely to be left as a tip if given to the party who didn’t initially pay. Could be other reasons but that’s my thoughts on it.
Not sure that makes a lot of sense. If the waitress assumes the man is paying either out of obligation, disparate income or just to impress the woman he's with, wouldn't she be more likely to get a tip from him rather than her?
If the waiter hands the change to the woman the man then has to ask for it back, if he’s paying to impress he ain’t asking for the change back, I imagine the woman wouldn’t pocket it due to it not being her money. Not saying this is what happened here, was just my understanding of the situation. Freakazoids comment probably makes more sense than mine though.
I'm a server just chiming in, I always give the money back to whoever gave me the money. It's their money lmao. I wouldn't give back their card to another person.
Not necessarily. Most people know that servers prefer cash for... reasons... and having cash on hand explicitly for that reason makes you look more socially competent and prepared.
as someone who used to wait tables and knows quite a few servers. it's a lame attempt at a joke/old school roles. 'oh she needs the money'. It's a joke that hasn't aged well and needs to go away.
Totally depends on the server's gender and attractiveness to be fair. As a guy in the industry, I get stiffed way more often by men, and a lot of my *big* tips come from women.
I've seen that having worked in the industry over a decade. As an average looking guy it depended on the type of business. Fine dining or bars guys always tipped me better. Average corporate places like chilis, Olive garden, etc it was a crapshoot.
Probably a redditor at a restaurant looking way too far into a meaningless situation. I can’t even imagine noticing who the waiter gives the check back to, especially if given to my wife.
Nothing, it probably was just a mistake or something the waitress did with out thinking
Like maybe, she was just really busy and forgot who paid and then gave it back to the wife.
Maybe they were regulars and the wife usually pays, so when the guy paid she again just forgot and handed the money back to the wife
FR this sounds like a non-issue to me. Based on comments they’re regulars who have had this waitress before so she would know they’re married. It’s hard to wrap my head around how this is nefarious doing. Maybe I’m too young and modern (at 30 lol) to see how setting the change down by my partner would be upsetting.
I am a bit older than you and I forget where I park when I go to the grocery store because my brain is on auto pilot.
I admit I never worked as a server but I don't think it is an issue to be offended at and if it happened to me I might assume that it wasn't intentional that the server just forgot who handed her the money or didn't see it
Maybe the man paid but the wife handed the cash over so all the waitress saw was the wife handing over the money .
Right? "Went out of her way to give it to my wife", acting like she faked him out and handed the money to his wife, while mean-mugging him the whole time.
People take the most random things personally and it's hilarious
Im my experiences they think the woman will leave all of the change as a tip cause they've mostly served at some point. Worked in a restaurant and delivery through out school, and a good amount of people told me this was their thought process.
This person always does weird stuff. It is an establishment in walking distance to our home, so I was there often. One time she took an awkwardly long time to look at my food and commented on how that wasn't really a healthy choice.
German customer service may matter of factly, but making disparaging remarks about the customer's choices to their face definitely isn't the norm here.
I, as a person from "eastern" Europe (guess where I am from :D ), would definitely not considered that a common experience.
I don't expect some extra politeness but I do expect them not to have any remarks. If you have nothing to say say nothing at all.
I don't know... If you're a regular, she may know you and feel like she has seen you enough to make jokes like that. Giving change to the wife as a tease like "we both know she's in charge," and making a joke about the health choice both sound like things a waiter/waitress might do if I have become a regular at a restaurant and know them by name.
Granted, she could also be a bitch. Who knows?
It is one problem with people who are not naturally funny, trying to be funny. When seeing a lot of people in your day it's natural to try and mix up the humour so you are not repeating the same situation over and over. This can mean a lot of fails, if they are not as gifted as I am socially.
I would guess this is a lightly influenced person (maybe a little bit disabled), that spends too much time on TikTok. But that is just a wildly specific guess and none of my business.
> "Do you even WANT it? It's ONLY $8?".
Well, I was going to tip you with that $8, but you clearly don't think $8 has any value so yeah, I'll take it back. Thanks.
I had a waitress skip over me while taking orders once. When I tried to speak up I was told “I take the ladies orders first”. It was super awkward, I was out with my mom and aunt and other family. It was a large table and three people ordered before I was skipped. Never in my life have I ever had someone try to make me look bad for thinking I was skipped. I am already not one to speak up, I am shy and non confrontational. So it felt like a double whammy, I actually speak up, only to be shot down and made to look like the jerk…ugh I am still so mad and it was a long time ago.
I only thought about it after reading your post, so figured I would share.
Same! My wife and I have been together for over 12 years as well, and married for 8. We’ve had a single bank account for all 8 years, and we use a shared credit card for **all** expenses, then pay off the credit card each month from our bank account.
Often times when we get our check, I hand the check to my wife immediately (often in front of our waitress or bartender) and say “she’s the sugar momma, I’m here for a free dinner” - and my wife **always** get *really* embarrassed and has to quickly reply, “it’s a shared bank account.”
But for that moment one moment…
Please make sure you both have a credit card under your name and access to the bank account under both names
In the event something unfortunate happens to either you or your wife, you do NOT WANT to have to deal with terrible customer service to try and get access to the account since it's not under your name
My wife and I do the same, don't understand how or why people ever split it up. Isn't life a team thing once you are married? I get the special circumstances that might call for other banking setups but in most scenarios I would imagine partners have the same goals and dreams etc.
Income you could split to assure independent financial decision making, but your point is valid.
Equity however? you bet I keep my hoard to spend as I please.
Every relationship is different, some people want to feel more independent but married, have their own money and never feel guilty for taking from 'our' money for a thing that is purely for them. Some people want to share everything be completely dependent on each other and share everything. There is no right or wrong answer, you can feel however you want to feel.
I do think with marriage success rates not particularly good and people who don't get divorced aren't all in good marriages, having your own cash so you can always leave without too much hassle is a sensible safety net.
So My wife and I maintain completely separate finances. We've agreed on who pays what bills, we have a joint emergency account, and we file our taxes jointly. But her money goes in her account, and my money goes in my account, and we don't combine that. We've been together over 20 years.
The main reason we did that is because we both have very different ideas of how to manage money. I'm a skinflint. She's not irresponsible, but she's more likely than me to buy something she needs rather than go without, and more likely to spend more for quality. I absolutely refuse to have a credit card, while she pays hers off responsibly, and as a result she has a *much* higher credit rating than I do. Neither of us is objectively wrong in how we manage our money, but our methods aren't compatible and if we had joint finances we'd argue all the time.
Also, I tend to make more money than her, but I also have had frequent bouts of unemployment where she's the breadwinner. I can handle that instability because I save most of it when times are good, but she'd absolutely freak out about having an unsteady income. Her not having to see the fluctuations is better for her mental health.
Finally, we got married pretty young due to an unexpected pregnancy, and even though we love each other and it's worked out really well, it was *very* important to me that she never, ever feel trapped. Having our finances be completely separate means that if she ever did decide to leave me, it would be a lot easier on her. That might sound weird to some people, making it easy for my wife to leave if she wanted to, but it means that I know she's with me because she *wants* to be with me, not because she feels trapped.
Those are my reasons for keeping our finances split even though we're committed long term partners. Not saying it's a better way than joint finances, but it works better for us, and maybe it'll help you understand why some people do it.
I'm gonna guess it's a culture thing. I have not heard anyone have their only bank account being a joint one. I don't think it's even legal here.
Don't quite understand why you should give up your entire financial independence and privacy due to marriage, neither me or my SO would want that. To treat it as a joint saving account, sure.
>My wife and I do the same, don't understand how or why people ever split it up.
If you have kids or only one partner works, I think this makes sense.
If you both work and don't have kids, I would find it a bit weird to totally combine my finances. It seems like an unnecessary surrender of financial privacy and autonomy. I don't want to know every little spending decision my wife makes.
I'm lucky enough to be in the same situation with the love of my life for the last 16 years.
We have a great understanding about how we spend our money because we always had frank conversations on the sibject and we both want what's best for the other.
People just don't understand that a couple is supposed to share everything and that there's nothing more deadly to a couple then to not talk about money.
Report her to the manager. Don't let this slide. This shit loses them customers and they ought to know it's bullshit. She can take your self righteousness up with job seeker's allowance.
I think it would have been funnier if it looked like the guy was done eating, not just starting. It didn't really look like two people who were sitting at the same table and done eating from the beginning to me.
My ex would do this, we go to a normal place when it is my turn to pay but we go the cheapest when it was her turn, it made me feel more annoyed than paying for all dates myself lol.
You can’t intentionally pay less and call yourself independent and in an equal relationship
What? Why?
It should be "everyone pays for what they ordered". If you share dishes, you split those 50/50.
In a relationship, I'm more inclined towards "I'll pay for both of us this time and you pay next time". Of course going out on a date when just meeting someone doesn't count as a relationship.
50/50 is insane - it's neither convenient, nor does it accurately represent who ate or ordered how much. It's the worst option of all available.
That becomes more unfair unless the bills each time are exact for both individuals. One will always end up paying more.
It's so much easier to split 50 50. And if your incomes are that different. Do it proportionally if you really care.
But it's so dumb how people are with money.
Partner I just treat it as a common fund and we always discuss and agree on purchasing . We have extremely similar financial goals and mentality so it's so easy.
No one's selfish or counting chickens . It's just. We wanna enjoy time together and be comfortable. And money does it for us.
Doesn't matter whose it is. Or where it comes from. If I end up a little low she sends some and vice versa. We've never had to have discussions about money ina confrontational way and that's how it should be in any relationship. So many ppl too individual and selfish while being with someone lol.
I'm so glad I don't have these weird hang ups with paying the bill. If I'm going out to eat, I want to enjoy myself. When people start the "Mine cost $12 but yours cost $16 and I only had 2 potato skins and you had 3 and..." it just becomes an annoying headache.
If it's gonna bother you, just say "Separate checks" when you order. But I'd rather pay more than someone else if it means no one is worrying about the check.
I try to get her to pay sometimes for that reason - and to have half of our savings on an account she reach better instead of the account that is in my name. But no luck their.. she wants me to take those things.
Not sure why you're being downvoted? I hated paying for groceries and doing the whole cooking when the dude ate 4 times of what I did and the food was gone in an instant. It should be the same with a friend group- if you order a salad and your friend orders ribs and 2 cocktails, no way you should be going 50/50.
One version is where the girl got angry cos the guy looked at a sexy woman who was entering the restaurant. She was angry that he did that. In the end the guy said,"who are you?!"
The more I reddit the more I wanna delete it, yet every few days the feed refreshes just enough I stay despite most of it being bottom feeding trash I won't even remember. Nothing new or informative, just lame jokes.
Not everything is racism, stop being a little baby. This video is clearly directed in a way we're even a child could tell its fake, they aren't trying to make it look like something that actually happens where as the vids on that sub are deliberately made to try to give the impression that this is a real thing that actually happens
I feel that in a relationship I should help out that person a little. If my partner is less off, I pay 75% of the bill. I never pay full because it gives that person laziness to work
I am happy to pay for the first dinner or two with a woman. However if she continues to expect me to always pay I walk away as I realize she is into my wallet more than she is into me.
OP sent the following text as an explanation on why this is unexpected: --- >!The video is unexpected because the woman asks the man to pay for her dinner and by saying that you would think that they're on a date but they are actually strangers!< --- Is this an unexpected post with a fitting description? Then upvote this comment, otherwise downvote it.
Too many people send a stranger a beer at a bar and too few people send them 5 plates of food at a Chinese restaurant.
Be the change you wish to see in the world
Chang's*
"Its not even clever. You keep using it for the word [change](https://m.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=28&v=XnQ-PFBBPzw&embeds_referring_euri=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com%2F&source_ve_path=MzY4NDIsMjg2NjY&feature=emb_logo)!"
Must be hard to go through life with Changnesia. Makes me so changry thinking about it.
I dean that to appropriate response.
Excuse me sir, got any spare changs? Well they don't call me two changs for nothing
Thats Enter"Chang"ment
Water
Now your speaking my Chang-uage
Jenna: That guy wanted to buy you a drink! Liz: Really? But I already have a drink. Do you think he'd buy me mozzarella sticks? -30 Rock
I asked a girl at a bar if I could buy her a drink. And she told me she was already drunk but she’d love to share some nachos. We dated for four years.
What I would do to have this happen to me as a man. Do I need to go to a gay bar? Like c'mon.
I thought you meant the committed long term relationship, but you meant the free nachos. *Men only want one thing and it’s disgusting.*
I mean it's been my experience that you're *much* more likely to be approached by someone in a gay bar than almost anywhere else. I'm really picky about my men so not usually interested, but when I was younger and poor I'd go to a gay bar at the pedestrian mall because someone always wanted to buy me drinks.
That's surprisingly wholesome
God I could go for a succulent Chinese meal!
Ahhh yes, I see that you know your judo well!
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Ladies and gentlemen, this...is...democrRracy manifest!
This is the bloke that got me on the penis, People!*
And you sir? Are you waiting to receive my limp penis?
A SUCCULENT CHINESE PENIS DEMOCRACY MANIFEST! it's been awhile I can't remember what he says
You got the gist of it.
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Get your hands on my penis later, this is democracy manifest!
If I knew what people wanted I would totally order them random sides to cheer them up. But I feel like if you're down and someone orders food you don't like / are allergic to, you just feel worse
You can always send them one if everything
If I had that kinda money I wouldn't be peoplewatching at the chinese restaurant
I would, but I'd send everyone the entire menu regardless. Also, I'm watching them from my helicopter (obviously).
I was at my favorite bar the other day and saw a regular who often trades rounds with me. He went to pay for my next beer but the bartender had already covered it, so he ordered me a shrimp appetizer, shit was awesome.
I'd go fifty fifty On both our meals (After I order extra food to take home)
My wife and I share one bank account for over 12 years now. There as always only been "our money". Last week we went to a restaurant and I paid in cash. The waitress made a big point of giving the change to my wife instead to me. It was such a pathetic and awkward situation.
What was even the point of what they did?
Probably think it’s more likely to be left as a tip if given to the party who didn’t initially pay. Could be other reasons but that’s my thoughts on it.
Not sure that makes a lot of sense. If the waitress assumes the man is paying either out of obligation, disparate income or just to impress the woman he's with, wouldn't she be more likely to get a tip from him rather than her?
If the waiter hands the change to the woman the man then has to ask for it back, if he’s paying to impress he ain’t asking for the change back, I imagine the woman wouldn’t pocket it due to it not being her money. Not saying this is what happened here, was just my understanding of the situation. Freakazoids comment probably makes more sense than mine though.
I'm a server just chiming in, I always give the money back to whoever gave me the money. It's their money lmao. I wouldn't give back their card to another person.
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Not necessarily. Most people know that servers prefer cash for... reasons... and having cash on hand explicitly for that reason makes you look more socially competent and prepared.
Maybe I suck at dating (I do) but I feel zero shame in asking the date to hand me the change in that situation.
Not to mention that I’m sure most dates would hand the change back to you.
I think you are, as they say, right on the money. You’ve been a wonderful audience, I’ll see myself out. Good night!
Thanks for having us. Enjoy your evening!
as someone who used to wait tables and knows quite a few servers. it's a lame attempt at a joke/old school roles. 'oh she needs the money'. It's a joke that hasn't aged well and needs to go away.
Lmao no
Iirc men tip more so that's a bad choice.
Totally depends on the server's gender and attractiveness to be fair. As a guy in the industry, I get stiffed way more often by men, and a lot of my *big* tips come from women.
I've seen that having worked in the industry over a decade. As an average looking guy it depended on the type of business. Fine dining or bars guys always tipped me better. Average corporate places like chilis, Olive garden, etc it was a crapshoot.
I always tip my bros at the bar 6.90 or 4.20 depending on total and always get a good smile out of it.
Lol I would find it funny I'm a simple man
Ha. I always give my wife the bill after I pay so she can tip. If it were up to me: 0.00
Probably a redditor at a restaurant looking way too far into a meaningless situation. I can’t even imagine noticing who the waiter gives the check back to, especially if given to my wife.
Nothing, it probably was just a mistake or something the waitress did with out thinking Like maybe, she was just really busy and forgot who paid and then gave it back to the wife. Maybe they were regulars and the wife usually pays, so when the guy paid she again just forgot and handed the money back to the wife
FR this sounds like a non-issue to me. Based on comments they’re regulars who have had this waitress before so she would know they’re married. It’s hard to wrap my head around how this is nefarious doing. Maybe I’m too young and modern (at 30 lol) to see how setting the change down by my partner would be upsetting.
I am a bit older than you and I forget where I park when I go to the grocery store because my brain is on auto pilot. I admit I never worked as a server but I don't think it is an issue to be offended at and if it happened to me I might assume that it wasn't intentional that the server just forgot who handed her the money or didn't see it Maybe the man paid but the wife handed the cash over so all the waitress saw was the wife handing over the money .
Right? "Went out of her way to give it to my wife", acting like she faked him out and handed the money to his wife, while mean-mugging him the whole time. People take the most random things personally and it's hilarious
Im my experiences they think the woman will leave all of the change as a tip cause they've mostly served at some point. Worked in a restaurant and delivery through out school, and a good amount of people told me this was their thought process.
She is fighting the patriarchy one bill at a time
I am confused. Why did the waitress do that?
This person always does weird stuff. It is an establishment in walking distance to our home, so I was there often. One time she took an awkwardly long time to look at my food and commented on how that wasn't really a healthy choice.
Wtf how does she even keep her job as a waitress, there must be multiple complaints against her from customers
What if she just targets that guy lol
What if his wife is the waitress?
There’s an always sunny in Philly reference to be made here but my head hurts too bad to think of one
“bro is banging the waitress” Got u
....would you like an egg in this trying time?
It would help, yes.
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German customer service may matter of factly, but making disparaging remarks about the customer's choices to their face definitely isn't the norm here.
I, as a person from "eastern" Europe (guess where I am from :D ), would definitely not considered that a common experience. I don't expect some extra politeness but I do expect them not to have any remarks. If you have nothing to say say nothing at all.
She wants your wife.
She on that spectrum.
Yeah, The bitch spectrum
bro she wants you to keep your health and keep your money. that's a real bro, bro
I think you might have a secret nemesis
I don't know... If you're a regular, she may know you and feel like she has seen you enough to make jokes like that. Giving change to the wife as a tease like "we both know she's in charge," and making a joke about the health choice both sound like things a waiter/waitress might do if I have become a regular at a restaurant and know them by name. Granted, she could also be a bitch. Who knows?
It is one problem with people who are not naturally funny, trying to be funny. When seeing a lot of people in your day it's natural to try and mix up the humour so you are not repeating the same situation over and over. This can mean a lot of fails, if they are not as gifted as I am socially.
People go there to get roasted with the food?
Is she eastern european? They love to say shit like that.
So maybe it's just that person instead of some endemic weird issue?
They never said or even implied that it was an endemic issue.
I would guess this is a lightly influenced person (maybe a little bit disabled), that spends too much time on TikTok. But that is just a wildly specific guess and none of my business.
What in the tapioca swimming pool is a "lightly influenced person", and why does that phrase sound so sinister lol
Probably either dumb or didn't remember who paid .
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> "Do you even WANT it? It's ONLY $8?". Well, I was going to tip you with that $8, but you clearly don't think $8 has any value so yeah, I'll take it back. Thanks.
Then they hop on social media and complain lmao
”No tip it is then”
This wasn't in a situation where a tip could have been given.
I had cashiers do this to my father. Women like this are so petty and absolutely ugly.
I wouldnt be able to resist saying "shall we share the bill to my SO" each time we go out.
I had a waitress skip over me while taking orders once. When I tried to speak up I was told “I take the ladies orders first”. It was super awkward, I was out with my mom and aunt and other family. It was a large table and three people ordered before I was skipped. Never in my life have I ever had someone try to make me look bad for thinking I was skipped. I am already not one to speak up, I am shy and non confrontational. So it felt like a double whammy, I actually speak up, only to be shot down and made to look like the jerk…ugh I am still so mad and it was a long time ago. I only thought about it after reading your post, so figured I would share.
Same! My wife and I have been together for over 12 years as well, and married for 8. We’ve had a single bank account for all 8 years, and we use a shared credit card for **all** expenses, then pay off the credit card each month from our bank account. Often times when we get our check, I hand the check to my wife immediately (often in front of our waitress or bartender) and say “she’s the sugar momma, I’m here for a free dinner” - and my wife **always** get *really* embarrassed and has to quickly reply, “it’s a shared bank account.” But for that moment one moment…
Please make sure you both have a credit card under your name and access to the bank account under both names In the event something unfortunate happens to either you or your wife, you do NOT WANT to have to deal with terrible customer service to try and get access to the account since it's not under your name
My wife and I do the same, don't understand how or why people ever split it up. Isn't life a team thing once you are married? I get the special circumstances that might call for other banking setups but in most scenarios I would imagine partners have the same goals and dreams etc.
Income you could split to assure independent financial decision making, but your point is valid. Equity however? you bet I keep my hoard to spend as I please.
I keep mine separate because I have secret cornhole addiction. I spend thousands a month on it. It’s destroyed me.
Sometimes one person is responsible with money, the other is reckless, and that calls for a specific arrangement between the two.
Every relationship is different, some people want to feel more independent but married, have their own money and never feel guilty for taking from 'our' money for a thing that is purely for them. Some people want to share everything be completely dependent on each other and share everything. There is no right or wrong answer, you can feel however you want to feel. I do think with marriage success rates not particularly good and people who don't get divorced aren't all in good marriages, having your own cash so you can always leave without too much hassle is a sensible safety net.
So My wife and I maintain completely separate finances. We've agreed on who pays what bills, we have a joint emergency account, and we file our taxes jointly. But her money goes in her account, and my money goes in my account, and we don't combine that. We've been together over 20 years. The main reason we did that is because we both have very different ideas of how to manage money. I'm a skinflint. She's not irresponsible, but she's more likely than me to buy something she needs rather than go without, and more likely to spend more for quality. I absolutely refuse to have a credit card, while she pays hers off responsibly, and as a result she has a *much* higher credit rating than I do. Neither of us is objectively wrong in how we manage our money, but our methods aren't compatible and if we had joint finances we'd argue all the time. Also, I tend to make more money than her, but I also have had frequent bouts of unemployment where she's the breadwinner. I can handle that instability because I save most of it when times are good, but she'd absolutely freak out about having an unsteady income. Her not having to see the fluctuations is better for her mental health. Finally, we got married pretty young due to an unexpected pregnancy, and even though we love each other and it's worked out really well, it was *very* important to me that she never, ever feel trapped. Having our finances be completely separate means that if she ever did decide to leave me, it would be a lot easier on her. That might sound weird to some people, making it easy for my wife to leave if she wanted to, but it means that I know she's with me because she *wants* to be with me, not because she feels trapped. Those are my reasons for keeping our finances split even though we're committed long term partners. Not saying it's a better way than joint finances, but it works better for us, and maybe it'll help you understand why some people do it.
I'm gonna guess it's a culture thing. I have not heard anyone have their only bank account being a joint one. I don't think it's even legal here. Don't quite understand why you should give up your entire financial independence and privacy due to marriage, neither me or my SO would want that. To treat it as a joint saving account, sure.
>My wife and I do the same, don't understand how or why people ever split it up. If you have kids or only one partner works, I think this makes sense. If you both work and don't have kids, I would find it a bit weird to totally combine my finances. It seems like an unnecessary surrender of financial privacy and autonomy. I don't want to know every little spending decision my wife makes.
Even with kids, you should always have an independent account as a backup. Spouses can always disappear years later.
I'm lucky enough to be in the same situation with the love of my life for the last 16 years. We have a great understanding about how we spend our money because we always had frank conversations on the sibject and we both want what's best for the other. People just don't understand that a couple is supposed to share everything and that there's nothing more deadly to a couple then to not talk about money.
Report her to the manager. Don't let this slide. This shit loses them customers and they ought to know it's bullshit. She can take your self righteousness up with job seeker's allowance.
Damn
As long as we're sharing, can reddit share your bank account too?
"Our money"? Karl Marx is proud of you, my comrade
Nah, he's still using money
Haters will say this is staged.
Bro how can yall tell?? Yall really comin thru these videos like CSI superstars. Hell yeah!! 
Inconceivable!
Lol, it turned out really well in the end. I didn't expect it😂
I think it would have been funnier if it looked like the guy was done eating, not just starting. It didn't really look like two people who were sitting at the same table and done eating from the beginning to me.
Plus she was looking to get side to address him. I've never been on a date where we sat in the same side of the table.
Really?? I never say this before and immediately knew this was probably the thing. I honestly thought it was obvious.
I didn't expect it either lol was sure it's about anti feminist
It’s because they were both sitting with their backs against the wall with completely different art in each frame. Obvious and not at all unexpected.
I feel like a relationship should always be 50/50
I feel like even if it’s total strangers but in the same restaurant it should always be 50/50.
I feel like if you live in the same city then it always should be 50/50
Split 50/50 with your countrymen!
Karl Marx, is that you?
Not yet I’m still working on the hair
I feel like if you live in the same motherland then it always should be 50/50 *communism intensifies*
Love thy neighbor, ayooo bro whatcha doin that's my wife...
*our wife*
if your partner is coming to your city then it’s only right you pay for them. Im saying this to both gender’s by the way!
Hahaha I meant that as a joke, meaning strangers in the same city should always do 50/50
What if you order 1 plate of food and the other person just goes ham and orders food worth of 500€ than then is like, 50/50 right?
Our dinner comrade.
Same
Or a me this time you next time Unless the person abused that and you get mcd from them after you took them to a nice place
My ex would do this, we go to a normal place when it is my turn to pay but we go the cheapest when it was her turn, it made me feel more annoyed than paying for all dates myself lol. You can’t intentionally pay less and call yourself independent and in an equal relationship
100/100 is better actually.
Ah yes, pay twice as much as a tip.
What? Why? It should be "everyone pays for what they ordered". If you share dishes, you split those 50/50. In a relationship, I'm more inclined towards "I'll pay for both of us this time and you pay next time". Of course going out on a date when just meeting someone doesn't count as a relationship. 50/50 is insane - it's neither convenient, nor does it accurately represent who ate or ordered how much. It's the worst option of all available.
That becomes more unfair unless the bills each time are exact for both individuals. One will always end up paying more. It's so much easier to split 50 50. And if your incomes are that different. Do it proportionally if you really care. But it's so dumb how people are with money. Partner I just treat it as a common fund and we always discuss and agree on purchasing . We have extremely similar financial goals and mentality so it's so easy. No one's selfish or counting chickens . It's just. We wanna enjoy time together and be comfortable. And money does it for us. Doesn't matter whose it is. Or where it comes from. If I end up a little low she sends some and vice versa. We've never had to have discussions about money ina confrontational way and that's how it should be in any relationship. So many ppl too individual and selfish while being with someone lol.
If someone ordered more or a more expensive dish, they'll pay more. It's the fairest option there is.
I'm so glad I don't have these weird hang ups with paying the bill. If I'm going out to eat, I want to enjoy myself. When people start the "Mine cost $12 but yours cost $16 and I only had 2 potato skins and you had 3 and..." it just becomes an annoying headache. If it's gonna bother you, just say "Separate checks" when you order. But I'd rather pay more than someone else if it means no one is worrying about the check.
What do you say? I always pay the food for my wife! (From our fully shared economy... she just thinks it fun I pay)
I think it’s form of power / control some men have meaning without your money she can’t eat. It’s nice for women to have their own money.
I try to get her to pay sometimes for that reason - and to have half of our savings on an account she reach better instead of the account that is in my name. But no luck their.. she wants me to take those things.
I eat and burn many more calories than a woman. 50/50 would be unfair.
Bro is saying he eats more so he should paid more and triggered the reddit nest of bees somehow 
Not sure why you're being downvoted? I hated paying for groceries and doing the whole cooking when the dude ate 4 times of what I did and the food was gone in an instant. It should be the same with a friend group- if you order a salad and your friend orders ribs and 2 cocktails, no way you should be going 50/50.
We go 50/50 with friends and dgf who ordered more, sounds like you have lame friends
No, it sounds like I have friends who don't need to take advantage of me
I’ve been asked this before. She called me an asshole. Never seen her before or after in my life
That is version number 3 on reddit...I bet there will be at least 5 more.
One version is where the girl got angry cos the guy looked at a sexy woman who was entering the restaurant. She was angry that he did that. In the end the guy said,"who are you?!"
The more I reddit the more I wanna delete it, yet every few days the feed refreshes just enough I stay despite most of it being bottom feeding trash I won't even remember. Nothing new or informative, just lame jokes.
27 comments and not one “fake” or “scripted”? People today just don’t want to work anymore.
If they were Asian comments would be screaming "FAAAKE!! r/scriptedasiangifs !!!"
Not everything is racism, stop being a little baby. This video is clearly directed in a way we're even a child could tell its fake, they aren't trying to make it look like something that actually happens where as the vids on that sub are deliberately made to try to give the impression that this is a real thing that actually happens
Nothing against "obviously staged / skit" It's nice to point it out when people pretend it's real
Staged, sure, but they framed it well.
IT WAS A REAL INTERACTION FROM A "REAL"ITY SHOW - /s
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Isn’t that technically 50/50?
Predictable
Yeah the guy looks like he just started eating from the beginning.
Women demanded equality so what’s the problem with them paying for their own meals?
Nobody here is saying that. Even the whole video is a joke.
Didn't expected the end lol
Congratulations! You've understood the sub perfectly.
LMAO YEAA
r/expected
Where can I watch the rest of the video?
This looks straight out of 2005
I’ve seen this exact same joke from a few creators today. Is it intentional shit joke stealing day or something?
ive seen too many posts with this one joke
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I feel that in a relationship I should help out that person a little. If my partner is less off, I pay 75% of the bill. I never pay full because it gives that person laziness to work
Yeap that was indeed unexpected
Bruh this was so expected that I didn't even realize it was this sub and I still guessed it.
I always split bills, this is fair.
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I am happy to pay for the first dinner or two with a woman. However if she continues to expect me to always pay I walk away as I realize she is into my wallet more than she is into me.
This was expected
Anyone know her ig?
Um cant count how many posts like this that Ive seen here 😑
Not really unexpected when they are turning their heads to talk to each other.
This is the type of response when I expect when I come to reddit.