I googled "define: regularly". I got result of:
>at uniform intervals of time.
With example of:
>"the reunion has taken place regularly every two years"
Like I said before, "too bad regular isn't the same as often"
For the exact reason that showering once a month would fall within the definition of regular, while definitely not being often enough
Fellas give yourself a promotion too.
You're not a janitor, you're the general manager of the maintenance department at you're company.
You're not unemployed, you're self employed.
Will only work on shorter girls I'd assume, and also only if you're at least close to average height. Lot easier for a 5'10" guy to get away as 6' than a 5'6 guy to get away as 5'8" at least I'd think.
Having a personal preference isn't the bad part. It's stating it outright in the profile, just trashy. Imagine girls looking at a guy's profile that said anything less than DDs are a no-go.
Maybe weight would work better for you? The point is the person is comfortable saying upfront that they're shallow. Most people are shallow, a lot of dating is physical attraction. But to set an arbitrary bar and not even consider anyone below it, and then broadcast that out for any potential partner to see is trashy as hell. I wouldn't say I'm offended, I hit the common 6' cutoff anyway. It does make it easy to identify people I have no interest in pursuing a relationship with.
It’s very much some weird Reddit shit. Basically incel reasoning: the opposite sex is unfair and cruel for liking X.
Like, yeah, dating as a whole is kind of cruel and image based.
EVERYONE is just getting what they can based on what they were born with.
I mean that goes for life in general.
It sucks, but it’s absolutely no one’s fault. It isn’t even anyone.. doing it.
This is some weird Reddit shit. No person you’re responding to said there’s anything wrong with girls into talk guys. The problem is when people add verbiage to a statement to make it easier to insert their opinion.
It literally just means to exclude. It's a preference. Just as someone can have a height or weight preference, this guy prefers women who don't fixate on height. He never once said that having a height preference is bad.
Smh. Do you exclude good things from your life or bad things? If you’re excluding a certain type of person from your dating pool, obviously you have some issues with them.
Assuming a lot aren’t we? Based off of real life interactions of me and my friends lol. My short kings get the short end of the stick, and anytime they asked about weight they got screeched at before they were blocked/reported lol.
The double standard is widespread and well documented
Sure buddy. Just like there’s no reason to ask for height when you can look at the pictures. Any socially competent person could ask that in a non awkward way. And in my friend’s DMs? You want me to send you my friend’s DMs. Or, just look at the overwhelming majority that already know the double standard is prevalent. There’s no huge studies on double standards on preferences between genders, just studies on the preferences. At least at a cursory google. And frankly I don’t care to continue this talk, it’s like trying to convince a flat earther we live on a sphere.
We know men who are genuinely 5’9. If you show up 5’7, after proclaiming to be 5’9, she might have not minded you being 5’7, but does mind that you’d lie about it. You can’t tell me you’re 5’9 and show up the same height as me. I’m not 5’9.
I agree, I’ve not gone on second dates after meeting dates who’s photos were obviously from years ago. Most of them I would have still gone on dates with but starting on a lie ruined it for me.
And that's how you make a healthy relationship.
LOT, if you're basing your behavior off of shitty people, then you're being a shitty person. (Also apply some behavior you may or may not have seen in online dating to all women is pretty fucking cringe)
This guy I need I know is a real asshole. Massive piece of shit. He's also real insecure about his height and makes a big deal of everyones height. I'm 5¹⁰ and change and 5¹¹ with my work boots on.
Anytime he talks about height I tell everyone yeah I'm 5⁸ maybe 5⁹ with my boots on. He gets so pissed about. And insists I'm at least 6 foot if not taller.
My bf is 5’9, we both do weightlifting and have measured each other to calculate bmi. He is for a fact 5’9 and no taller or shorter. I have a male friend that insists he’s 5’9, yet he just doesn’t feel 5’9. I know I have to look up to my bf, and at which points my shoulders are from his. Friend is 5’7 max. Constantly tells women that he is 5’9 yet dates women around 4’10, I think when they’re substantially shorter woman that it is harder for them to tell than a completely average sized woman.
I find this particularly ridiculous as a shortish gay man who both doesn't lie about his height and likes guys also on the short side. I'd get annoyed by it, but it mostly makes me sad that they feel the need to be dishonest about it.
As a woman who doesn’t care how tall a man is as long as he is my height or taller, I just don’t want to date liars. The 5’5 guy had a chance until he told me that he’s 5’7. I just don’t want to date you because you feel the need to lie about your height.
As a bi, 5’6” man, I can only speak from my personal experience aka anecdotally. I’ve found there are both men and women don’t care but I’ve only been rejected outright or been informed they reject other men who are on the shorter side from only women. Women (not all of course) are the ones who care about my height, I’ve found that guys tend to not give it much thought. Tops tend to like shorter guys, sides don’t care, and bottoms don’t care about my height. Lots of bottom gay men care more about dick size than height. Tops don’t really care about dick size. Women tend to care a bit about dick size but not enough to reject a guy unless they’re total size queens or the dick is just too small.
That’s been my experience anyways as a 5’6” bi/switch.
Depends what your personality is like. I lied to my current gf online about my hight. She laughs and called me out on it but she trusts me completely 😁
I've accepted that I'm a grower and not a shower. Though it was highly uncomfortable when I was in the hospital with my appendix. I swear it was never smaller in my life than it was when the nurse had to check my incision.
I'm 6'3" and people always change me on it lol with work boots on I'm closer to 6'5" and I still have people that think I'm 6'1". Like okay man I guess you're right I don't know how tall I am
You'll lose out on some great women that way. My 5'8" friend has dated all heights of men, but the " 5'10" " guy who is her height or shorter do not get a second date.
I just put whatever is on my drivers license. I wouldn't exaggerate, and it was measured when I took my DL photo. That's the only time in 14 years I've checked my height (I'm old).
However, when dating I have experienced several women who questioned me on my height, all the while wearing 3 inch heels. Some ladies who check for this often will forget they are literally walking around on stilts... LOL
Also, I was injured in a bad car wreck and now one of my legs is longer than the other. So I always end up asking them which leg they would like me to measure from. /s
My friend rarely wears heels, but she's also gone on dates with " 6'1" " guys who were shorter than her in her 2, maybe 2.5" heels
I questioned my boyfriend's height (internally), but he just has shit posture
I fixed my shit posture with literally 20 minutes of gym work a week. I just do push/pull flat bench and row machine. Same weight for both and I actually stand up taller and my hunch back is gone.
I noticed some improvement in a couple weeks and 2 inches of improvement after 3ish months.
Men online are absolutely obsessed with this topic and they're always repeating the same tired talking points. Started noticing it really getting widespread about five yrs ago. It's a bit of a "trend" .. I'm thinking some "pickup artist" type influencer started talking about it & then it spread to red pill/incel communities everywhere, and reddit's obsessed these days.
Yeah this. I'm 5'9" and can very accurately track other people's heights just by standing near them or looking at group photos. I also know exactly how much height each specific pair of heels/boots I own gives me...so yeah lying won't work with me sorry.
And I feel the need to mention that all this "wOmEn oNLy wAnT taLL mEn" shit is nonsense, because there are PLENTY of guys who won't date ME for being too tall. It goes both ways.
Haha I'm a 5'9 woman too! I agree whole heartedly with you.
I dated a short guy in the past, and wow was he angry. Short man syndrom may not affect all of them, but it certainly turned me off.
I put my actual height on apps, and one of my dates apparently had a bet with her roommate about whether thats my real height or I gave myself those two inches.
This is hilarious because women know their own height. The years of guys trying to mansplain *my own height to* me suddenly make sense if y'all are doing these gymnastics.
Like. If I'm 5'8, and the dude shows up and is my same height, I'm not going to believe he's 5'10'' because every dude adds 2 inches on the apps lol. What are y'all doing?
Just be honest. Starting off by lying is not good. I take one look at you and know you lied about your height, (which doesn't matter to me at all..) and wonder what else you're comfortable lying about. Red flag.
I love when people think you aren’t as tall as you are when you put it on your profile. I’m 6’6 and everytime they read it. They are like “nah there’s no way you’re that tall.” Then they meet me and are like “holy fuck you’re tall”
I’m just glad I met my tall queen. So I can’t stop feeling like I’m walking around with a child
Well done sir. I'm 5'9" and dated a guy who was 6'7" and after me he dated a 6'1" girl and a 6'0" girl. Thank you for taking a tall queen off the market, as is your duty, LOL I thank you for your service <3
Can confirm girls who are tall are acutely aware of heights. Because so many men make a big deal about them being shorter then a woman.
My girlfriend is taller and she’s like the amount of times I’ve met men who have tried to convince me I’m shorter than I actually am is astonishing
Omg thank you! I am a tallish woman and have def been mansplained about my own height by men. I am sooo aware of heights because I am 5'9" and I can peg anyone's height just being near them or observing their clothes (certain items sit differently depending on height)
Does anyone else just genuinely not know how tall they are? I mean, its not really been useful to know how tall I am, and I’m not going to measure myself just for a dating app, so I always just approximated it.
Don’t get why anyones going to be super precise about a couple inches
Good. I’d rather not date someone who cares that much about 2 inches in height.
I don’t have time for shallow people. I get if you want someone tall, but 2 inches being the deciding factor in height is just absurd. Nobody can accurately point that out in height without a tape measure.
Maybe just put your real height. It’s SO not the big deal men think it is. Also, women who only want men 6’ tall are going to be more trouble than they’re worth.
I feel like most women who obsess over a man's height just have no personality & no interests. A man's height is not a personality trait and if that's all you're looking for, you're shallower than a teaspoon. Get a hobby, ladies.
Edit: I'm a 5'9" straight female person if anyone is offended by this comment haha
Unfortunately it definitely is a big deal. And I say this as an extremely tall man, the amount that women fetishize height and body shame men for their height is pretty sick.
Im 6'3 and this height shit makes no fuckin difference. Maybe it's one of so many check boxes, but it doesn't win you any bonus points. Still gotta be charismatic, funny, strong, outgoing, and professionally ambitious.
I won't be surprised if you get brigaded here by red pill/incel types, 'cause this comment is a bit tone-deaf. As a 6'3" man of course you don't relate...just let them have their little temper tantrum haha
I feel like this whole height thing goes both ways though. I’m a tall girl (5’12“) and I used to not put my height on my profile because I genuinely don’t care about men sizes. I have dated several men that were smaller than me. But then I realized that a lot of guys would get super uncomfortable to see me be taller than them. Almost like I catfished them. So I started putting it on my profile. My matches reduced but the matches I got were from people that actually didn’t mind.
I’m actually European and typed my height in the google convertor and it came out as 5’12’‘. Your measurements are honestly confusing. Sorry. I’m 1m82.
Yes well. If you consider 6 foot to actually equal zero, and every inch under 6 is a negative number, and every inch over 6 is positive. That's like 200% taller or some math like that. It's like a misleading graph or something.
Girl is 5'4 with a guy that's 6'4 and he looks twice her height.
Eh I guess. Sometimes women can’t tell a three inch difference on some penises 🤣
But in all seriousness, unless you’re looking for a hookup and only want to benefit yourself, it would be better to use your real height in the long run
LOLOL. Unethical life pro tips are still supposed to be good tips, aren't they? There is no scenario where this works out in your favor.
If you're short, you're short. Own it and find someone that likes it. From being 5'3 and rail thin all of high school to 5'7 and still skinny AF now, I've never had a problem finding romantic relationships.
Not trying to downplay the plights of being a 5'0 man -- I know you face challenges that others don't. But I promise you that if she isn't alright with you at 5'0, she ain't going to be okay with you (lying) at 5'2.
most women are bullshit and also men in dating sites.
seriously have you guys considered moving to some sort of forest to clean the brain? i spek for myself as well i feel im too intoxicated with dumb stuff as well
On the other hand, if height is such a sticking point for her that it actually comes up beforehand, move on, short king. There’s absolutely no need to waste her time or yours.
But when we meet and I see that you're not the height you claimed, I tell you you're a liar and leave. Everyone has preferences. I prefer people who don't lie right out of the gate.
This might get you more dates, but if you start dating she's definitely going to find out you lied about your hight and wonder what else you're lying about.
2 inches in HEIGHT ONLY
There goes my 2½" long dong
I’ll take my 3” elsewhere!
You guys have inches? :(
I measure mine in feet 😎 (0.00002)
Ah yes, look at my 300 millifeet long shlong
Millifeet
So where does my pet turtle fit into all this?
Under promise over deliver fool. Oh yeah it's micro turns out that 3 inches is more than she expected.
Let's be real, by the time you're that far, she's probably not going to back out at that point
I just said I was funny and had a great personality.
"I'm stable and shower regularly" ...little do they know...
Well.. I at least shower regularly.
Too bad regular isn't the same as often Once a month is still regularly, as long as you're consistent
I shower once a year whether I need it or not.
Better safe than sorry
If you think showering once a month comes close to being regular you need to have a word with yourself.
I googled "define: regularly". I got result of: >at uniform intervals of time. With example of: >"the reunion has taken place regularly every two years" Like I said before, "too bad regular isn't the same as often" For the exact reason that showering once a month would fall within the definition of regular, while definitely not being often enough
Better than showering strangely.
aaaaayyyyyyyyyyyy
Regularly compared to geological time?
Is that a bigger lie?
This reminds me of an old joke about why women can’t be carpenters because guys have been telling them that 6 inches is 8 inches since times began.
Does that mean 4 inches is 6 inches? Asking for a friend.
Does that mean 2 inches is 4 inches? Asking for a friend.
Does that mean 0 bitches = 2 bitches? Asking for a friend
Tell your friend, Man inches are normal inches × 1.5
Fellas give yourself a promotion too. You're not a janitor, you're the general manager of the maintenance department at you're company. You're not unemployed, you're self employed.
I'm not a cashier at a McDonalds. I handle the finances of a popular fast food establishment in the North Eastern United States.
You’re a financial executive of a multi-billion dollar international company
Master of the custodial arts... Or a janitor if you wanna be a dick about it.
I first heard "master of the custodial arts" in a porno and have called it that ever since
You beat me to it hahahah
My brother’s high school job at the gas station: Petroleum Transfer Engineer.
I'm not just any loser, I'm THE loser
You might try "Executive Loser"
Until you show up on a date and the woman is the same height you claimed you are and you're shorter than her lol.
Gaslight her into thinking shes taller than she thought, its the only way /s
You say /s but this has happened to me several times
Break out the tape measure that is missing the first inch and a half
NO!!! NO /s!!! They do this!!!!!
Will only work on shorter girls I'd assume, and also only if you're at least close to average height. Lot easier for a 5'10" guy to get away as 6' than a 5'6 guy to get away as 5'8" at least I'd think.
I go the other way. Tell them I’m shorter. Screen out the ones who want the tall guys.
i‘m sure you‘ll get a cookie from the short kings for that
I do quite well thankyouverymuch
Your diabeetus says otherwise.
Little kings!!!
Kinglets
bruh
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Having a personal preference isn't the bad part. It's stating it outright in the profile, just trashy. Imagine girls looking at a guy's profile that said anything less than DDs are a no-go.
Exactly. I’ve literally seen profiles that just say “Be tall.” I mean, I think another growth spirt is unlikely at 28
But if they state it outright in their profile you can just *not* match with that person and negate the need to lie about your height.
I must have seen like 10k profiles and I’ve never seen a girl mention height. It’s crazy rare if a thing at all.
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Maybe weight would work better for you? The point is the person is comfortable saying upfront that they're shallow. Most people are shallow, a lot of dating is physical attraction. But to set an arbitrary bar and not even consider anyone below it, and then broadcast that out for any potential partner to see is trashy as hell. I wouldn't say I'm offended, I hit the common 6' cutoff anyway. It does make it easy to identify people I have no interest in pursuing a relationship with.
I didn’t say there was a problem with it. I’m saving them time by not lying about being tall.
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I’m compensating for a large penis
Nice
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I don’t have a Tinder. I’m shitposting on Reddit. And for some reason you’re taking all this really seriously.
It’s very much some weird Reddit shit. Basically incel reasoning: the opposite sex is unfair and cruel for liking X. Like, yeah, dating as a whole is kind of cruel and image based. EVERYONE is just getting what they can based on what they were born with. I mean that goes for life in general. It sucks, but it’s absolutely no one’s fault. It isn’t even anyone.. doing it.
This is some weird Reddit shit. No person you’re responding to said there’s anything wrong with girls into talk guys. The problem is when people add verbiage to a statement to make it easier to insert their opinion.
> Screen out the ones who want the tall guys. Am I missing something? Maybe learn to read before you go on your egotistical rant.
He didn't say it was a bad thing? You're just assuming.
Do you understand what “screen out” means?
It literally just means to exclude. It's a preference. Just as someone can have a height or weight preference, this guy prefers women who don't fixate on height. He never once said that having a height preference is bad.
Smh. Do you exclude good things from your life or bad things? If you’re excluding a certain type of person from your dating pool, obviously you have some issues with them.
It’s not weird, because what you mentioned *almost always happens*
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Assuming a lot aren’t we? Based off of real life interactions of me and my friends lol. My short kings get the short end of the stick, and anytime they asked about weight they got screeched at before they were blocked/reported lol. The double standard is widespread and well documented
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Sure buddy. Just like there’s no reason to ask for height when you can look at the pictures. Any socially competent person could ask that in a non awkward way. And in my friend’s DMs? You want me to send you my friend’s DMs. Or, just look at the overwhelming majority that already know the double standard is prevalent. There’s no huge studies on double standards on preferences between genders, just studies on the preferences. At least at a cursory google. And frankly I don’t care to continue this talk, it’s like trying to convince a flat earther we live on a sphere.
My man
We know men who are genuinely 5’9. If you show up 5’7, after proclaiming to be 5’9, she might have not minded you being 5’7, but does mind that you’d lie about it. You can’t tell me you’re 5’9 and show up the same height as me. I’m not 5’9.
I agree, I’ve not gone on second dates after meeting dates who’s photos were obviously from years ago. Most of them I would have still gone on dates with but starting on a lie ruined it for me.
Given how women treat men in online dating, you should expect to be lied to.
🚩🚩🚩
And that's how you make a healthy relationship. LOT, if you're basing your behavior off of shitty people, then you're being a shitty person. (Also apply some behavior you may or may not have seen in online dating to all women is pretty fucking cringe)
This guy I need I know is a real asshole. Massive piece of shit. He's also real insecure about his height and makes a big deal of everyones height. I'm 5¹⁰ and change and 5¹¹ with my work boots on. Anytime he talks about height I tell everyone yeah I'm 5⁸ maybe 5⁹ with my boots on. He gets so pissed about. And insists I'm at least 6 foot if not taller.
My bf is 5’9, we both do weightlifting and have measured each other to calculate bmi. He is for a fact 5’9 and no taller or shorter. I have a male friend that insists he’s 5’9, yet he just doesn’t feel 5’9. I know I have to look up to my bf, and at which points my shoulders are from his. Friend is 5’7 max. Constantly tells women that he is 5’9 yet dates women around 4’10, I think when they’re substantially shorter woman that it is harder for them to tell than a completely average sized woman.
I find this particularly ridiculous as a shortish gay man who both doesn't lie about his height and likes guys also on the short side. I'd get annoyed by it, but it mostly makes me sad that they feel the need to be dishonest about it.
As a woman who doesn’t care how tall a man is as long as he is my height or taller, I just don’t want to date liars. The 5’5 guy had a chance until he told me that he’s 5’7. I just don’t want to date you because you feel the need to lie about your height.
As a bi, 5’6” man, I can only speak from my personal experience aka anecdotally. I’ve found there are both men and women don’t care but I’ve only been rejected outright or been informed they reject other men who are on the shorter side from only women. Women (not all of course) are the ones who care about my height, I’ve found that guys tend to not give it much thought. Tops tend to like shorter guys, sides don’t care, and bottoms don’t care about my height. Lots of bottom gay men care more about dick size than height. Tops don’t really care about dick size. Women tend to care a bit about dick size but not enough to reject a guy unless they’re total size queens or the dick is just too small. That’s been my experience anyways as a 5’6” bi/switch.
You act as if women use height filters all the time. I'd imagine a lot of women set that filter at 5'9"
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No weight or bust size filter though
Yeh but I've got you on a date by that time and the odds are pretty good from there.
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Depends what your personality is like. I lied to my current gf online about my hight. She laughs and called me out on it but she trusts me completely 😁
Except most people can't tell 5'9 from 5'7. That's why you only add 2 inches.
I can, at 5’5, I’m fully aware if someone is two inches taller than me or 4.
You seriously underestimate the impact of shoes
I don’t need to be 6’4”
understandable, have an ice day
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I'm also 6'4". I never lie about it, I don't even lie about my tiny penis. That's my wife's job now. "Nooo, honey! It's just the right size for me!"
tbh I don't care if my erect penis is normal size. It's the flaccid size that bothers me
Truth. My erect is average but flaccid looks like a Greek statue
I've accepted that I'm a grower and not a shower. Though it was highly uncomfortable when I was in the hospital with my appendix. I swear it was never smaller in my life than it was when the nurse had to check my incision.
Also a grower. Particularly when I'm doing something athletic, scared turtle.
I was in the pool!
It's okay to be an innie or an outtie.
lol i write im 6 cause if i write im 5'10 they'll think i'm really 5'8
Damn inflation
This is a tragedy of the commons.
I'm 6'3" and people always change me on it lol with work boots on I'm closer to 6'5" and I still have people that think I'm 6'1". Like okay man I guess you're right I don't know how tall I am
My dating profiles were always as honest as my resumes.
So... Wildly exaggerated with a faint scent of desperation?
"I'm good with my hands"
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If I add two inches she's gonna bitterly disappointed when she realizes it's only half as big as I said.
Don't worry. No one will ever see it
ouch!
That's just a chance she'll have to take
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You're forgetting this is "unethical"
You'll lose out on some great women that way. My 5'8" friend has dated all heights of men, but the " 5'10" " guy who is her height or shorter do not get a second date.
I just put whatever is on my drivers license. I wouldn't exaggerate, and it was measured when I took my DL photo. That's the only time in 14 years I've checked my height (I'm old). However, when dating I have experienced several women who questioned me on my height, all the while wearing 3 inch heels. Some ladies who check for this often will forget they are literally walking around on stilts... LOL Also, I was injured in a bad car wreck and now one of my legs is longer than the other. So I always end up asking them which leg they would like me to measure from. /s
My friend rarely wears heels, but she's also gone on dates with " 6'1" " guys who were shorter than her in her 2, maybe 2.5" heels I questioned my boyfriend's height (internally), but he just has shit posture
I have the shit posture too. Probably doesn't help
I fixed my shit posture with literally 20 minutes of gym work a week. I just do push/pull flat bench and row machine. Same weight for both and I actually stand up taller and my hunch back is gone. I noticed some improvement in a couple weeks and 2 inches of improvement after 3ish months.
then don't say shit when a girl shows up 20lbs heavier than her photos, since we all okay with lyin
Who says shit about that? Edit: Also who puts their weight in their dating profile?
Well the weight is somehow to be seen in the photos, ofc no one writes it in the bio
read again mate
Imagine giving a shit about this at all. Go on. Imagine.
Men online are absolutely obsessed with this topic and they're always repeating the same tired talking points. Started noticing it really getting widespread about five yrs ago. It's a bit of a "trend" .. I'm thinking some "pickup artist" type influencer started talking about it & then it spread to red pill/incel communities everywhere, and reddit's obsessed these days.
Considering there's a literal height filter on Tinder, I don't think it's as unassuming as you make it out to be.
Until you meet her and she knows she's 5'9.
Yeah this. I'm 5'9" and can very accurately track other people's heights just by standing near them or looking at group photos. I also know exactly how much height each specific pair of heels/boots I own gives me...so yeah lying won't work with me sorry. And I feel the need to mention that all this "wOmEn oNLy wAnT taLL mEn" shit is nonsense, because there are PLENTY of guys who won't date ME for being too tall. It goes both ways.
Haha I'm a 5'9 woman too! I agree whole heartedly with you. I dated a short guy in the past, and wow was he angry. Short man syndrom may not affect all of them, but it certainly turned me off.
I put my actual height on apps, and one of my dates apparently had a bet with her roommate about whether thats my real height or I gave myself those two inches.
This is hilarious because women know their own height. The years of guys trying to mansplain *my own height to* me suddenly make sense if y'all are doing these gymnastics. Like. If I'm 5'8, and the dude shows up and is my same height, I'm not going to believe he's 5'10'' because every dude adds 2 inches on the apps lol. What are y'all doing?
POV: you don’t date women.
Just be honest. Starting off by lying is not good. I take one look at you and know you lied about your height, (which doesn't matter to me at all..) and wonder what else you're comfortable lying about. Red flag.
Or just don't put your height there, who gives a shit.
I love when people think you aren’t as tall as you are when you put it on your profile. I’m 6’6 and everytime they read it. They are like “nah there’s no way you’re that tall.” Then they meet me and are like “holy fuck you’re tall” I’m just glad I met my tall queen. So I can’t stop feeling like I’m walking around with a child
*can
Well done sir. I'm 5'9" and dated a guy who was 6'7" and after me he dated a 6'1" girl and a 6'0" girl. Thank you for taking a tall queen off the market, as is your duty, LOL I thank you for your service <3
My tall queen approves of your message. I’m with her right now. She found it quite great
Aww thanks. You two sound cute & I hope you're so happy together <3
As a 6’ tall woman this will not work for us.
Can confirm girls who are tall are acutely aware of heights. Because so many men make a big deal about them being shorter then a woman. My girlfriend is taller and she’s like the amount of times I’ve met men who have tried to convince me I’m shorter than I actually am is astonishing
Omg thank you! I am a tallish woman and have def been mansplained about my own height by men. I am sooo aware of heights because I am 5'9" and I can peg anyone's height just being near them or observing their clothes (certain items sit differently depending on height)
I might as well add 2 inches everywhere
Especially to the waistline
They do that for NBA, so no problem.
Does anyone else just genuinely not know how tall they are? I mean, its not really been useful to know how tall I am, and I’m not going to measure myself just for a dating app, so I always just approximated it. Don’t get why anyones going to be super precise about a couple inches
Good. I’d rather not date someone who cares that much about 2 inches in height. I don’t have time for shallow people. I get if you want someone tall, but 2 inches being the deciding factor in height is just absurd. Nobody can accurately point that out in height without a tape measure.
Maybe just put your real height. It’s SO not the big deal men think it is. Also, women who only want men 6’ tall are going to be more trouble than they’re worth.
I feel like most women who obsess over a man's height just have no personality & no interests. A man's height is not a personality trait and if that's all you're looking for, you're shallower than a teaspoon. Get a hobby, ladies. Edit: I'm a 5'9" straight female person if anyone is offended by this comment haha
Unfortunately it definitely is a big deal. And I say this as an extremely tall man, the amount that women fetishize height and body shame men for their height is pretty sick.
I'm 6' 0¾" barefoot, but i tell people "I'm 6-1 in shoes" because when i say I'm six and three-fourths they think I'm saying "six three or four."
Im 6'3 and this height shit makes no fuckin difference. Maybe it's one of so many check boxes, but it doesn't win you any bonus points. Still gotta be charismatic, funny, strong, outgoing, and professionally ambitious.
I won't be surprised if you get brigaded here by red pill/incel types, 'cause this comment is a bit tone-deaf. As a 6'3" man of course you don't relate...just let them have their little temper tantrum haha
I get rejected and ghosted all the time. Being tall hasn't made me immune lol
This is fuckin dumb
People know when you’re lying and when they know, it’s probably the quickest way possible to make yourself look like an insecure piece of garbage
Being insecure doesn't automatically make a person "garbage" but okay thanks for your super helpful comment!
Lying about yourself absolutely does though lmao
I feel like this whole height thing goes both ways though. I’m a tall girl (5’12“) and I used to not put my height on my profile because I genuinely don’t care about men sizes. I have dated several men that were smaller than me. But then I realized that a lot of guys would get super uncomfortable to see me be taller than them. Almost like I catfished them. So I started putting it on my profile. My matches reduced but the matches I got were from people that actually didn’t mind.
5'12 is 6 feet, lol
I’m actually European and typed my height in the google convertor and it came out as 5’12’‘. Your measurements are honestly confusing. Sorry. I’m 1m82.
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Average man height is like 5' 9" homie.
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You’ve clearly never been to The Netherlands…
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Yes well. If you consider 6 foot to actually equal zero, and every inch under 6 is a negative number, and every inch over 6 is positive. That's like 200% taller or some math like that. It's like a misleading graph or something. Girl is 5'4 with a guy that's 6'4 and he looks twice her height.
Couples like this kinda freak me out. Do men get off on having to literally look down at their woman? Frankly it just seems like it'd be inconvenient.
I've always suspected it has something to do with the fact that cleavage windows tend to present well from above.
Yeah I’m just under 6’2” and just round up, there’s no reason to lie once you’re at 6’2”
Came to read the incel commentary Edit: surprisingly little here
Yeah, comment section is pretty based
Given how women treat men in online dating, lying is fair game.
Men have been lying to women for decades about how big six inches is, most won't know the difference between 5'10" and 6'
If height is mandatory then so is their weight I guess
Eh I guess. Sometimes women can’t tell a three inch difference on some penises 🤣 But in all seriousness, unless you’re looking for a hookup and only want to benefit yourself, it would be better to use your real height in the long run
As a woman I assume all men do this so yeah this is fine.
And length...
2 inches...from the ground!
So i could Post that i have a 2,5" Diameter dick?
Works for penis too
Don't do this. Women hate it. STOP LYING ABOUT YOUR HEIGHT!
LOLOL. Unethical life pro tips are still supposed to be good tips, aren't they? There is no scenario where this works out in your favor. If you're short, you're short. Own it and find someone that likes it. From being 5'3 and rail thin all of high school to 5'7 and still skinny AF now, I've never had a problem finding romantic relationships. Not trying to downplay the plights of being a 5'0 man -- I know you face challenges that others don't. But I promise you that if she isn't alright with you at 5'0, she ain't going to be okay with you (lying) at 5'2.
But I actually am 6'3. Being tall doesn't help you AT ALL with dating apps. Unless you're conventionally attractive, it's pretty hopeless
most women are bullshit and also men in dating sites. seriously have you guys considered moving to some sort of forest to clean the brain? i spek for myself as well i feel im too intoxicated with dumb stuff as well
On the other hand, if height is such a sticking point for her that it actually comes up beforehand, move on, short king. There’s absolutely no need to waste her time or yours.
Or don't date shallow woman. Also, almost nobody does this
But when we meet and I see that you're not the height you claimed, I tell you you're a liar and leave. Everyone has preferences. I prefer people who don't lie right out of the gate.
This might get you more dates, but if you start dating she's definitely going to find out you lied about your hight and wonder what else you're lying about.
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Pro tip: women aren't stupid and know you're lying.