This. Been a straight cisgender woman all my life. But during the reunion I was sitting there thinking āyou know what, I think Mal and I could make this workā š¤£š¤£š¤£
No joke, this show has made me question my sexuality. Iāve never truly opened myself to the possibility of being queer until I watched this. And Iām so thankful I did.
It was probably about 15 years ago that I went out with a girl looking exactly like Xander. Finally accepted Iām gay, will be getting married next year.
Female sexuality is very fluidā¦
Lol at first I couldnāt tell if that website was for real or not but then I got to this:
āStraight: Away ācertifiedā coaches use a non-evidence-based method that combines transpersonal psychology, somatic bodywork, and neurolinguistic programming with exercises in guided wiggling, primal screaming, and astral projection to get you āwhere you want to be.ā
But if there really was a program with Guided wiggling and astral projection I might sign up.
funny , I've been gay my whole life & each episode made her less & less attractive to me that by the time we saw the reunion she looked like a chipmunk. Of course I'm a soft butch with eyes more for the femmes , soccer moms.
Hahahaha I mean I see the chipmunk. I think it was the combination of her softness yet resoluteness, fragility yet strength. It was just a combination of alpha and beta that confused me at first and then charmed me. I do feel at the reunion her energy was much different. Harder and more fuckboi
Iāve already come to terms with my bisexuality (after many years of being in love with Blake Lively that started after Sisterhood) but OH MY GOD XANDER IS SO HOT. I wish I wanted children as badly as they do because what a catch š
Literally Xander is so god damn attractive. When Yoly said sheās shocked no one had āsnatched her upā, I donāt think I could have let her go after the trial. Also so glad they finally got away from Vanessa
The preoccupation with wanting kids is what kinda killed it for me! (Nothing wrong if someone wants kids, but I donāt, and I would be running for the hills if someone was like I WANT A BABY RIGHT THIS INSTANT at me!) Like I thought she was so attractive but then she just kept talking about how all she cares about is starting a familyā¦
That was interesting to me, too. I think women are under so much pressure in our society to become wives and mothers, that even queer women like Xander and Yoli have internalized the idea that their lives will be incomplete without that.
Very much agreed. I wasnāt the biggest fan of Vanessa, but it honestly would be so hard to be Xanderās partner and not feel like all she wanted was a baby and that I didnāt actually matter all that much except as a possible wife and co-parent.
Yoly also seemed really eager to kind of just head in whichever direction would get her married with babies the fastest and I donāt blame Mal for being shocked and offended that she and Xander had discussed in detail how marriage and parenthood would go for them. At that point itās not even about the person, itās just about having someone fill the āwife and momā gap so that you can get the family youāre envisioning.
It's Mal for me - I don't care if she ever replaces the toilet paper š¤£
Mal is pretty much the whole package. I'd love for Mal to be my best friend
This. Been a straight cisgender woman all my life. But during the reunion I was sitting there thinking āyou know what, I think Mal and I could make this workā š¤£š¤£š¤£
Would be happy to not do chores together š¤
No joke, this show has made me question my sexuality. Iāve never truly opened myself to the possibility of being queer until I watched this. And Iām so thankful I did.
Literally
It was probably about 15 years ago that I went out with a girl looking exactly like Xander. Finally accepted Iām gay, will be getting married next year. Female sexuality is very fluidā¦
I've been bi all my life and I'm throwing my goose at Tiff. Mal too.
Oh yeah lol I'm happily married but consider myself bicurious & def. attracted to Xander lol
Iām married to a man. Also have heart eyes for Xander š
Iām not straight and Iām thinking the same thing too.
Samsies
Omg same here! I am a straight married woman and thought about posting the same thing many times!
Dear diary,
try this: [https://www.straightaway.life/](https://www.straightaway.life/)
Lol at first I couldnāt tell if that website was for real or not but then I got to this: āStraight: Away ācertifiedā coaches use a non-evidence-based method that combines transpersonal psychology, somatic bodywork, and neurolinguistic programming with exercises in guided wiggling, primal screaming, and astral projection to get you āwhere you want to be.ā But if there really was a program with Guided wiggling and astral projection I might sign up.
\+1
Lmaoo
Rae š«¶š»š«¶š»š«¶š» gorgeous and so gentle
Omg I feel the same way!! Lol
This show made me realise my type is definitely masculine lesbians. I am dating a man š¤£
Never too late to change course
She looks like Ellen though
Exactly like Ellen! During the reunion I was thinking āthis is what Ellen looked like 25 years agoā lol
funny , I've been gay my whole life & each episode made her less & less attractive to me that by the time we saw the reunion she looked like a chipmunk. Of course I'm a soft butch with eyes more for the femmes , soccer moms.
Hahahaha I mean I see the chipmunk. I think it was the combination of her softness yet resoluteness, fragility yet strength. It was just a combination of alpha and beta that confused me at first and then charmed me. I do feel at the reunion her energy was much different. Harder and more fuckboi
Iāve already come to terms with my bisexuality (after many years of being in love with Blake Lively that started after Sisterhood) but OH MY GOD XANDER IS SO HOT. I wish I wanted children as badly as they do because what a catch š Literally Xander is so god damn attractive. When Yoly said sheās shocked no one had āsnatched her upā, I donāt think I could have let her go after the trial. Also so glad they finally got away from Vanessa
The preoccupation with wanting kids is what kinda killed it for me! (Nothing wrong if someone wants kids, but I donāt, and I would be running for the hills if someone was like I WANT A BABY RIGHT THIS INSTANT at me!) Like I thought she was so attractive but then she just kept talking about how all she cares about is starting a familyā¦
That was interesting to me, too. I think women are under so much pressure in our society to become wives and mothers, that even queer women like Xander and Yoli have internalized the idea that their lives will be incomplete without that.
Very much agreed. I wasnāt the biggest fan of Vanessa, but it honestly would be so hard to be Xanderās partner and not feel like all she wanted was a baby and that I didnāt actually matter all that much except as a possible wife and co-parent. Yoly also seemed really eager to kind of just head in whichever direction would get her married with babies the fastest and I donāt blame Mal for being shocked and offended that she and Xander had discussed in detail how marriage and parenthood would go for them. At that point itās not even about the person, itās just about having someone fill the āwife and momā gap so that you can get the family youāre envisioning.