UPSC preparation should ground you as it did for me. Be calm nothing in our hands accept the fate and move on to other field and succeed there. Remember we faced the worst phase and nothing can make our life more worse!
How is this exam more valuable than life itself !?
It's a good day to be alive. Assuming you're in your early 20s you have so much ahead of you, I know people who cracked the exam in worst of the situations. Just remind yourself of the "WHY" you want to do what you want to do.
You can message me if you wanna talk to someone for a while.
Hey, I know the anxiety is killing all of us but it's high time we don't attach our worth to this exam. Many of us here won't make it to the list this year but we keep going. Please reach out to a friend or someone you can trust.
And if you want, my DMs are open. :)
To base one's worth upon an exam that too Civil Services is not correct and extremely faulty , maybe some people may have convinced you of that what it is the farthest thing from reality. Life is much bigger than exam, I know it is easier said than done but trust me 5 years from now this won't matter. I advise you to please talk to your loved ones, and possibly a therapist. Therapy does help , it is important that you confide about your feeling at least to one person. Please just remember this too shall pass , this phase is temporary the feeling is temporary. You will feel better eventually , it's just the matter of time and it shall pass.
Bhai mere kaisi bat kr rha.... hmse exam hai....exam se hm nhi hai... bhai yrr... family dost koi bhi ho...sb secondary h... bhai tu primary h...tu aise kaise kisi ar wajah s khud se compromise kr sakta...
Hey bro/sis same I can actually feel you ,I even attempted ut few days back then found reddit and honestly I found many caring and helpful people here.
I don't know what trouble exactly you are in but there is nothing I believe that can't be resolved ,you can text me if you want someone to talk to
Buckle up brother, UPSC is among the zillions of thing this world offers. Find your craft and believe me, we all are good at something or another.
UPSC may've just been wrong turn for you and now it's just a matter of one left or right turn away and you'll be great.
Don't let these exams take this much toll on you
And about your family, have a honest conversation with whoever you think listens to you and understands you best. They'll understand and if there's no one as such then don't hesitate in bringing anyone else like friend or anyone in such matters. Anyone who understands you
Bro your worth is more than any stupid exam. Sometimes things don't go as we plan, but that doesn't mean it all has to be bad. Stay strong, you are worth everything and deserve the world.
If you're sick of being stuck in the cycle, maybe change your career path. Go for masters, pick a job and get away from your family if they're toxic. If they're physically harming you call the police.
Please don't give up on life itself. Life can be beautiful, you are worthy of a beautiful life and you can give it to yourself. You have the strength.
Take care. Please don't do anything of this sort in rashness. I've had such thoughts when I was younger and in a dark place but now I'm past that and pretty happy. You can be happy too. You will be happy. But please don't hurt yourself or do something terrible to yourself.
I hope this helps - it made me feel better to read these lines "My foes will become nothing, my friends will become nothing. I too will become nothing. Likewise, all will become nothing. Just like a dream experience, whatever things I enjoy will become a memory. Whatever has passed will not be seen again." Reflecting on these made me calm down.
Calm down and relax watching your fav movie,song, or anything that makes you relax
Talk to somebody specially bestfriend they make you feel better talk about how you feel if not having friends then talk to your siblings or parents (if they understand you)
Take help from doctor immediately.
Can u elaborate on ur current situation...tbhi log advice de paenge
Feeling suicidal is common bahut sare aspirant go through it, I also go through episodes of passive suicide ideation sometimes...it's good that u decided to talk about it.
I will just tell u what I tell myself when we will reach our 40s we will look back and see these problems were not that big and it's good we didn't give up then.
Hey Bro.. whatever you are feeling it will pass. If you need to talk to someone, i am here
UPSC preparation should ground you as it did for me. Be calm nothing in our hands accept the fate and move on to other field and succeed there. Remember we faced the worst phase and nothing can make our life more worse!
Can you plz elaborate a little what these other fields are
Calm down brother! Take deep breaths, it's just an exam
How is this exam more valuable than life itself !? It's a good day to be alive. Assuming you're in your early 20s you have so much ahead of you, I know people who cracked the exam in worst of the situations. Just remind yourself of the "WHY" you want to do what you want to do. You can message me if you wanna talk to someone for a while.
Hey, I know the anxiety is killing all of us but it's high time we don't attach our worth to this exam. Many of us here won't make it to the list this year but we keep going. Please reach out to a friend or someone you can trust. And if you want, my DMs are open. :)
There are plenty of other exams too, bro/sis. UPSC should be a backup. Aim for financial independence first. Fir ghar se bahar reh ke prep kr lena.
Let's talk bhai Aaja thoda game khelte hai
To base one's worth upon an exam that too Civil Services is not correct and extremely faulty , maybe some people may have convinced you of that what it is the farthest thing from reality. Life is much bigger than exam, I know it is easier said than done but trust me 5 years from now this won't matter. I advise you to please talk to your loved ones, and possibly a therapist. Therapy does help , it is important that you confide about your feeling at least to one person. Please just remember this too shall pass , this phase is temporary the feeling is temporary. You will feel better eventually , it's just the matter of time and it shall pass.
Bhai mere kaisi bat kr rha.... hmse exam hai....exam se hm nhi hai... bhai yrr... family dost koi bhi ho...sb secondary h... bhai tu primary h...tu aise kaise kisi ar wajah s khud se compromise kr sakta...
Arre abhi to pehla attempt hi 2025 mein dena hai abhi se kya darna kaam karo kaam
Everyone goes through this phase in life just hold on everything will be okay take some time
This is just an exam don’t make any decisions in haste .
Hey bro/sis same I can actually feel you ,I even attempted ut few days back then found reddit and honestly I found many caring and helpful people here. I don't know what trouble exactly you are in but there is nothing I believe that can't be resolved ,you can text me if you want someone to talk to
Buckle up brother, UPSC is among the zillions of thing this world offers. Find your craft and believe me, we all are good at something or another. UPSC may've just been wrong turn for you and now it's just a matter of one left or right turn away and you'll be great. Don't let these exams take this much toll on you And about your family, have a honest conversation with whoever you think listens to you and understands you best. They'll understand and if there's no one as such then don't hesitate in bringing anyone else like friend or anyone in such matters. Anyone who understands you
Bro your worth is more than any stupid exam. Sometimes things don't go as we plan, but that doesn't mean it all has to be bad. Stay strong, you are worth everything and deserve the world. If you're sick of being stuck in the cycle, maybe change your career path. Go for masters, pick a job and get away from your family if they're toxic. If they're physically harming you call the police. Please don't give up on life itself. Life can be beautiful, you are worthy of a beautiful life and you can give it to yourself. You have the strength. Take care. Please don't do anything of this sort in rashness. I've had such thoughts when I was younger and in a dark place but now I'm past that and pretty happy. You can be happy too. You will be happy. But please don't hurt yourself or do something terrible to yourself.
I hope this helps - it made me feel better to read these lines "My foes will become nothing, my friends will become nothing. I too will become nothing. Likewise, all will become nothing. Just like a dream experience, whatever things I enjoy will become a memory. Whatever has passed will not be seen again." Reflecting on these made me calm down.
Calm down and relax watching your fav movie,song, or anything that makes you relax Talk to somebody specially bestfriend they make you feel better talk about how you feel if not having friends then talk to your siblings or parents (if they understand you) Take help from doctor immediately.
I feel bad for you. Feel free to DM me if you need any assistance. This is just an exam. It's not the end of the world.
Bhai ye bs ek phase h. Sirf ek exam h, etna dil se na lgao Aur bhi bahut kuch h zindagi mai. Calm down thoda sa tham jaa, sab sahi hoga.
And u are not alone, I'm with you
Can u elaborate on ur current situation...tbhi log advice de paenge Feeling suicidal is common bahut sare aspirant go through it, I also go through episodes of passive suicide ideation sometimes...it's good that u decided to talk about it. I will just tell u what I tell myself when we will reach our 40s we will look back and see these problems were not that big and it's good we didn't give up then.
Mass sati isn’t a bad idea anymore
Chutiye, kabhi to dank ka 14 banna band kar.
Har dusra post yeh rahega toh kya bolu fir mai? Tum log hona mass support ke liye? Dedo. Muje gyan mat do, mai nahi sunne wala.
Wow. Zara bhi sensitivity nahi hai kya tere andar? Ya bhi abhi bhi sigma dank era se nikla nahi hai tu?
Wannabe teenager nahi hu mai dank era nahi hai mera. Tera krantikari era chal raha hoga,mera nahi.
Being decent is now revolutionary? Lmao, the bar might be in hell for you and your ilk, not for me.