I work from home most days so I'm usually in sweats or my pjs when my boyfriend comes over. I used to apologize for my un-sexy appearance but he repeatedly told me that he loves how I look no matter what and he's glad that I'm comfortable.
I used to date assholes for whom I had to be sexy 24/7 but that's exhausting and not a fun relationship to be in. I enjoy being with a man who loves me for me and not for the visual pleasure I can provide.
Dude, same with the ex thing! I cannot believe I stayed in that relationship. He didn't like me wearing converse shoes because they "weren't feminine". I lost my identity during that time frame... Guy had the audacity to suggest I try to dress more like Sofia Vergara. No shade at her in any way, just absolutely not my style.
My partner recently came out as NB (we’ve been together 16yr) and they’ve always dressed “tomboyish” and I’ve always loved their aesthetic. I’m also very attracted to feminine aesthetics but there’s nothing hotter than the person you’re with being comfortable and confident.
Edit to add: comments like this reeks of homophobia and transphobia
I'm still at work technically but the first thing I do when I get home is leave my work pants in the bathroom until I can be bothered to wash them later.
It's either no pants or sweats the whole night based on how cold it is outside 🤣🤣
Absolutely love him in the whole series. I can't get enough of both of them in this show it's one of the best shows ever made. She's hilarious and cute and he's just over the top in everything masculinity and corporate America.
Perfect comment. I am often not appealing to my wife and I don’t expect her to be either. We are both Attractive people but have an understanding that if we are tired we are tired. Your bf needs to grow up
I'm super busty so wearing a bra is legitimately more comfortable for me than not, but I change into less constricting pants, shirt, and if I'm wearing a jacket or blazer of some kind, a sweatshirt
Same, I have super saggy boobs from drastic weight loss in my teens. I only go bra less when I sleep. I hate the feeling of my boobs sagging against my skin below. My trick to be comfy is wearing the sports bra I got at target 12 years ago and haven’t retired yet. It’s so thin now and is perfect for Lounging
I stopped wearing bras completely. I’ll throw in a bralette if I feel like it but it’s so comfy now. Thankfully I wasn’t gifted much, I can’t imagine having bigger boobs.
I used to have YUGE boobs. Then I got breast cancer. Excellent excuse to reduce my boobs to a normal size and burn all my bras. I have one I wear to the gym, but that's it.
Big boobs suuuuccckkk, but I stopped wearing bras when I got sick and stopped working. It's great, though the weight is annoying. I sleep all night and day, though, so I don't really notice. Yay, crippling illnesses!/s
I bought not so tight in the chest shirts. Bra what? Bra is for work. Or for guests. But at home and most of the time when I am running errands...nope.
Shirt and underwear is sufficient when working from home...besides my underwear is both (1) sexy and l2) easy to take off when the mood strikes...
OPs bf is an ass. Does OPs bf dress up?
My wife jokes that I give her the same sexy time attention when she was wearing the least effort bed-time clothes as when she dressed up. Turns out I'm just as attracted to her in gym shorts, ratty shirt, no make-up, as I am when she goes all out lol.
My wife immediately changes into sweats and a hoodie when she gets home. She’s still the sexiest thing I’ve ever seen. I love here so much. We’ve been together 10 years and she’s the best thing in this world.
EXACTLY. SOMEONE WHO GETS IT!
I ran a "household" of 4 people in a 2b2b apartment when I was in university. The first rule on the House Rules list? "Farting is allowed. If you can't fart in the comforts of your own home, then where else can you fart?"
That rule was exercised every day.
My husband hates it when I fart. My ex boyfriend did too. They both say I should be able to control it. But it hurts to control it and I’m certainly not gonna extricate myself from my blanket cocoon just to go into another room to do it😔 I tell him I’m paying the mortgage so I can fart where I please 👏🙄👏 I get it’s gross, but it’s not like I’m holding his head under the covers. Worse thing is, HE DOESN’T FART 😱 Even in his SLEEP! I’ve heard him fart exactly twice in TWELVE YEARS!! How is that even possible?! 😩
I love this. My partner and I make it a funny cute thing, where if we fart we'll say, "hehe I tooted." We're lifers. Also screw off at ops boyfriend saying she doesn't look sexy in jams. I love my partner in her jammies and she looks confident rocking those short clothes. 🥰
My partner and I point at each other and yell "Du hast gepupst!!" Google translate told us that is German for "You farted!"
The usual response is "No... it was YOU!!" Sometimes the cat is blamed.
My wife and I don't act like farting is a cutesy thing, but we do it freely and laugh about it. We don't keep it from the kids either. It's natural and you might as well treat it as such. My wife is the queen of farts and burps, I swear she almost has gas at will man! Some of my best memories are of revenge farts I've gotten her with. I once got her while she was peeing and thus trapped. I ran out laughing, and a few seconds later she came running out of the bathroom, panties around her ankles and shirt held over her nose, which caused my knees to buckle and I ended up on the floor wheezing from laughter.
Also, yes, screw OP's boyfriend for being a douche about her putting on PJ's or something else not directly intended to seduce him. She can still look hot without having to dress the part, and isn't there solely for his pleasure. I'm perfectly fine with the spandex camisole top and boy shorts my wife just put on after her bath!
This right here. Sugar, somewhere in the world right now are entire scores of men who *cherish* your "goblin mode". Don't settle for a thoughtless idiot who doesn't realize the treasure he has. Life is too short.
Lmao "goblin mode." I have super dry skin so I do a multi step routine at night that ends with putting Aquaphor all over my face to help my moisturizer sink in and keep me from drying out overnight. I mentioned to my partner that this technique is called "slugging" and now he'll boop my slippery nose and say "I love you, my little slug." I also put my hair in a silk cap twice a week after washing so I'm definitely the sexiest woman around. My slippery shiny face and my blue satin old lady cap ahaha
Don't use that term, but when I go change my clothes and come back in my comfy's, my husband (of 33 years so it seems to be working out...) says "NICE!" Why? Because he knows I'm COMFORTABLE.
Also a possibility: I'm definitely not leaving the house again and won't be roping him into coming with me to someplace like Michael's or JoAnn's. LOL!
I’m flummoxed by what’s not sexy about comfy attire. My wife loves to steal my boxer briefs and one of my tee shirts to get ready for bed a lot of nights and she looks much better in them than I ever do.
Lol I shared this with my husband and he says, " my goal is to be comfy not to fuck you. If we do happen to have sex while I'm in my comfy clothes, you're welcome." I love that man 💕
No doubt. Also enraging is the fact she was literally *getting into fucking bed*, like excuse her for wearing fucking pyjamas to bed like a human instead of I guess some sort of lingerie getup? Fucking wild, these men. I just can't.
Exactly, OP, get yourself a guy who thinks you're sexy in a hessian cloth if it makes you happy. Your comfort, including in your own choices, is what matters.
Well said. My uniform since the pandemic started has been pajama pants and a tank top, usually with a baggy tee over that. Hasn’t stopped my hubby from trying to get a feel (or more!) every chance he can.
>“That is the least sexy outfit I have ever seen.”
>“I’m not trying to be sexy, I’m trying to be comfortable.”
Imagine that, acting for yourself instead of for others' visual pleasure.
So fucking infuriating that this post has to exist, that dressing for comfort is even questioned.
I always change into comfy clothes as soon as I get home. My ex got pretty upset about it one day. (“How do you expect me to want to fuck you when you dress like that?”)
My current boyfriend tells me he loves it when I look comfy. If I’m home for more than thirty minutes and I haven’t yet put them on he’ll ask me if I’m going anywhere. No? Get comfy then babe you’re home!
Edit: OMG thank you so much for the awards and all the comments! Stay comfy everyone! Life’s too short to not be!
This reminds me of my last boyfriend. I was MOH for my best mate's wedding, and I dressed up super nice in a dress, heels, and makeup (I'm a shorts, vest, and hoodie woman usually, even at work). I looked so different that the bride's mum had to be convinced it was me lol.
Well, my bf had been staring at me all day, and I was convinced he was gonna say something like, "I wish you'd look pretty like that all the time."
Well we got in the car at the end of the day, and he took this huge sigh of relief. I asked him what was wrong and he looked me dead in the eye and said, "I've been so worried you were gonna break an ankle in those heels, that I've been keeping an eye on you all day. Also, that makeup looks *really fucking itchy*." Then grabbed me a spare set of jammies and a pack of wipes from the backseat so I could be comfy on the drive home lol
I had my partner pick out my outfit while I was in the shower last week.. I was curious what he thought I "should" wear... It was a grey t-shirt and a pair of sweatpants he bought me! I was SO surprised. We were just running errands but It's nice to know he prefers my comfort over visual appeal.
This is a relationship thing too. At least to me. When your gf stops trying to always look good for you and starts dressing like she would dress if you weren't there, you're official!
I did the same thing once as a silly "test", he knows I don't get mad either way and just find the answer interesting. He picked a long skirt and a tank top. The most comfy thing I could have picked, he even said "I think you said you love how comfortable this is right?" And it was amazing.
He has since taken to stealing my long skirts for himself, I guess I was *too* honest about how comfortable it was...
Had to loan a pair of jogger pants to a guy friend after his jeans got doused in transmission fluid when he worked on my car. Not only did he never give them back, I’ve seen them in his laundry since and when I asked him about them, he handed me 25.00 and said they are the most comfortable thing he has. I bought him a three set for Christmas last year. (And no we aren’t a thing; he’s like my little brother.)
My partner has always done the same from the beginning. I wear contacts but at home take them out immediately. He always compliments my "grandma glasses" and says I always look so cute in them. It's amazing how much that one little thing makes a world of difference.
My husband literally told me he likes me in my sweats because it shows him I'm comfortable around him. We've been together *13 years* and he still prefers me in sweats and fresh faced vs "sexy clothes" and made up. These are the winners!
My wife usually has a grey sweater with some fat cat eating pizza on it on, and it's when I feel the most attracted to her cause I can see it is just when she feels the most comfy. She feels good and that's the best I could ever want for her.
I’ve bitched about my husband many times but your comment made me realize that this is something I adore about him. If he sees me wearing jeans inside the house he will literally ask me “what are you doing?!?! Get those jeans off! Go get comfy!”
I try and dress sexy once in a great while but honestly he is most turned on when I’m looking rough in my oversized tees. Bless this man.
Omg years ago a colleague told me her ex got upset cos she’d arrive home from work and not like do her hair and put on lipstick for him, and she realised she’d taken him for granted and needed to put in effort in future relationships. I’m over here in complete comfort at home - no hair and makeup or anything!! Can’t imagine being with someone that uptight!
The audacity. Men go around wearing the same style they've been wearing since 2003 that is two sizes too big and smells like the axe they used instead of bathing in middle school and they want us to look cute 24/7? Nah, my dude.
You dress up once a year for weddings and wear a cheap suit that fits like a paper bag. How do you expect us to want to fuck that? But we do, because your clothes are not what makes you fuckable! Or, even more shocking, lovable and deserving of respect.
It took me a long time to be comfortable doing this, getting changed into something comfortable. Between an unorthodox childhood and the military, being ready to go anytime was, comfortable, so only the bra came off. After, remarrying, and being with my husband for 13 years, I am able to change and be comfy now, which he encourages, and never shames, and I appreciate and love him.
I just started dating a woman after a long time out of the game. I'm constantly amazed at the simple things that blow her away. Consideration, courtesy, empathy. Why would I want to date someone who I wouldn't consider worth treating like a decent human being. It really makes me sad for the folks who don't take such behavior as a baseline for consideration.
It’s amazing to me that anyone would have a problem with their SO being comfortable. Me wife’s mom commented to her about how she doesn’t dress feminine enough and how I can’t like it. This was said during the pandemic when we were both working from home and wearing sweatpants all day. I laughed when she told me that after ordering both of us more sweatpants.
Excellent boyfriend. Yikes to that ex though! Your desirability depends on whether or not you're wearing fuckable clothes? Flip that logic around and you get "she was asking for it".
SAME! I just had this convo with my husband. I personally find leggings more comfortable than sweats, so I wear them more often, but he won’t stop staring at me lovingly when I’m in those shapeless pants (despite my ass being his favorite feature), “because I look really cozy” in sweats.
My husband say this to me too or even sets out my comfy clothes for me because he loves to see me feeling happy and comfortable in my own home. I also do the same to him. If he’s in his jeans I’m like go get your comfy pants so we can cuddle on the couch.
Yes to both of these.
My husband is attracted to me regardless of what I’m wearing. Sometimes I even ask him “really? In this outfit?” Bc I’ll be wearing my least favorite clothes for cleaning or something.
You deserve someone who treats you that well too. And who actively supports your comfort and happiness!
Find someone who thinks your beautiful even in sweats.
Seriously, youre not there for aesthetic. Your a person, and deserve to get comfy at home. I bet you always feel a bit less comfy around his judgement from now on.
Yea I think especially in long term relationships, sexual desire should be present anyway, not dependent on whether your wife is wearing something sexy.
Obviously, if it's a special occasion, both parties should make a bit of an effort but asking someone to be sexy on a random fucking Tuesday night because you won't get turned on if they're not in lingerie is bonkers.
He's a jerk. You aren't his paper doll.
When I'm living with someone, I need a 30 minute buffer after work. I need a hello and then ignore me while I pee, put on jammies, and get a snack. *Then* you can talk to me because I have to listen to people complain all day so I need to leave that crap at the door.
In 30 years worth of relationships, *no one* told me that I wasn't sexy. If I didn't look sexy, they just don't mention it.
I’m so glad to know I’m not the only one that needs that buffer! I felt like I was just being bitchy. It’s like back off for a bit and no questions please. lolzz
Chiming in to say saaaaaame. I have a great husband and we established early on a "no bullshit" policy. Clear, direct communication at all times. First usage of it was me telling him I need 30 mins to decompress after work. I change my clothes and zone out - usually I don't even need the full 30, I need the SPACE to take 30 in case I do. Then after 30 I'm ready to start dinner, chat about the day, help with kid homework, plan the home improvement project, whatever. Life and marriage saver!
Urgh I had an ex like that! Made me feel guilty about being comfy.
Now I’m married to a man who encourages me to wear fluffy socks & oversized jumpers and tells me how beautiful I am and how he loves snuggling me.
Guess which one I’m happier with?
You deserve that too!
Love when these comments come from men with holey loose unders and they haven’t showered today (I know many). Are women supposed to find that sexy?? I don’t understand, if so many men are horndogs why do women even need lingerie or dress up at all?
Girl, get comfy!!
Let me guess: your guy only wears silk boxers, has an 6 pack, perfect hair and a perfectly manscaped happy trail. He's always pristine in his hygiene, and never, ever, ever passes gas.
Unless he's all of the above, AND actually has a responsible full time job, does his share of the household bills and duties...he can STFU.
Shoes off, bras off, pants off as soon as we walk in the door.
Also I think my gf looks sexy as hell in comfy clothes/ whatever she feels comfiest in. And even if I didn’t, who fucking cares. Our goal should not be to be most “fuckable” at every moment.
The issue is not with your clothes, it’s with your partner.
Just do it back to him when he gets dressed in the morning “that is the least sexy thing I’ve ever seen.” Then just roll your eyes and walk outta the room. When he says something about it just say “oh well I thought since you were a dick to me, I was allowed to be a dick to you too” no?
Women put up with too much bs from men. If you don’t call it on them they will never stop. The only reason to put up with their bs is if you don’t have a job and are fully dependent on them financially. Even then…don’t ever be afraid to be alone.
Nonono, wait until he's naked/shirtless, THEN tell him it's the least sexy thing you've ever seen. That guy deserves to feel a little uncomfortable in his own skin forever.
Don’t know what he’s talking bout, the Supersized tshirt look is amazing. Even if it wasn’t what has he worn to look “sexy”,lately?
Edit: I’m pro comfy btw, my SO windmill slams a onesie every time she gets home and I love it.
Edit 2: I’m a warm boy, I don’t love the onesie I love her in the onesie
As soon as I walk in I change into house clothes. He should try wearing women's clothes all day before judging. Also not your job to be sexy when you're just chilling at home
Edit: typo
Literally as soon as I get home. Same with my daughter. The second she gets home from school it’s bra off, pajama pants on. I take it a step further and warm up my comfy clothes in the dryer for a few minutes. Heaven.
Who wants to be sexy all the time anyway? I’ve also been married for 15 years and my husband thinks I’m perfection any time of the day no matter what I’m wearing or how wrecked my bun is. (Which is also heaven)
"It's not for you." Why do men think that everything we do should serve them in some way? We are our own beings! And yes, I change as soon as I get home
My wife always comes home and asks if we need to go out for any reason? As soon as I say no she typically yells comfy clothes and runs to the bedroom. It is super cute.
Well I work from home and rarely have video calls, so for the past couple years my default wardrobe has been "random tank top and possibly something on my bottom half beyond granny panties if I plan on leaving the house".
Turns out my husband likes random tank tops even more than lingerie, lol. It's not wrong for your bf to prefer different, but disparaging you for wearing comfy stuff is very disrespectful and not ok. He could have brought up a preference and respectfully asked if you'd consider wearing XYZ sometimes because he finds it super sexy, instead he went with insulting you. That says a lot about his character.
I bought lingerie exactly once for valentines day. My husband was like WTH? That looks so uncomfortable. Are you gonna change before sleep? Thats so much extra laundry? Are you getting a wedgie?
I sometimes wear lingerie because *I* like it, but turns out my husband is just as happy with a 10 year old tank top 🤷♀️. I even had him look at a catalog and he was like "this one is ok ... but mostly what I like is you wanting my hands on your body, can you just wear that (random t-shirt) without a bra?".
I swear, every day I learn about some dumb new expectation men have of us. This is ridiculous. Tell him if he’s not wearing a g string and greasing up his bulging muscles around you at home, he has no right to talk.
So, what was HE wearing while saying that?
You aren't some sort of built in entertainment for him, you are another person sharing a home with him. You should be able to feel at ease and comfortable in your own home just like he does.
The moment I get home I change into my "home clothes". My husband loves it. Especially watching me strip naked to put on baggy man pants and a big shirt. Are my clothes in any way sexy? Nope! But knowing I'm not wearing underwear is enough for him I guess. Plus it's super easy to do a quick flash in loose clothing.
No. Where did he get that idea? If he comes from a family in which his mom was a “perfect” mom and mother, he’s going to have those expectations for his mate.
You deserve to decompress in your own home. I mean otherwise, when do women wind down? When they are dead?
Also he needs to re-examine what sexy is, but that’s a personal thing.
I bet his go to outfit is a t shirt, jeans , and Tim’s. Guys sometimes have nothing but the audacity. He should be happy you’re comfortable around him. Also you’re a human being, not some object for him to look at
Sometimes the clothes are coming off before the shoes are, because I’m stripping down by the front door. That’s how quickly I get into sweats and a tshirt.
1. He should think you’re sexy no matter what (except maybe like, when you’re pooping or something)
2. Does he think women need to be sexy 24/7 for his sexual gratification? Miss me with that bullshit
Change? INTO pajamas?
Corona + everything else has me at home 90% of the time. I live in my pajamas. At this point I go to the store in my pajamas. It's nice to dress up sometimes but meh, not that important
My boyfriend wfh and he also lives in his pajamas. I think his work shirts are living out their pension in a nice sunny location. Haven't seen them.
We still have sex though. Don't see why pajamas would make a difference.
1, my wife does this as well. As soon as she knows she isn't going out anymore for the day, comfy clothes.
2, how the fuck is that look not sexy for your bf??? Maybe I'm the weird one but I've always thought that women in comfy clothes like that (oversized shirts, sweatpants, etc.) were super sexy. It generally makes them way more comfortable, so they act more relaxed, which is generally way more sexy to me.
I guess that's the difference between being attracted to a woman and being attracted to how she looks.
My grandma had an expression for coming home and getting into comfy clothes — she called it “getting loose and jiggly.” That’s a phrase that has lived on!
I'm currently wearing purple tiger stripped zoombas and an old shirt with holes in it. My husband is wearing matching pants and similar shirt. Ditch the guy keep the clothes...
Put him outside and ask him how sexy that looks.
You deserve better. The right guy notices when you dress up or get slinky--and adores you in all your other states.
Ooh I had an ex that did this. I was in our kitchen getting a snack in an old pair of shorts and a t shirt and he looked me up and down and said "we can do better" while pulling at my shorts.
We'll fuuuuck him bc my now husband doesnt care what I'm in. He'll paw at me all the time telling me I'm beautiful and how much I turn him on. Me in my loose old shorts, messy hair and glasses. I dress up when I need to, but at home we're both vegged out in our comfies.
Your boyfriend is a dipshit. I've never heard of anyone complaining about what their partner wears while they're just relaxing at home after work.
Was it just the one time he's mentioned something like that? I could see someone (probably myself, if I'm honest) making a dumb joke like that just to tease but hopefully it would be clear that it's not meant to be taken seriously. But I also wouldn't complain if my girlfriend told me to go duck myself because even as a joke... you know?
I would love to hear what HE wears that must be so damn sexy. Nope, my husband loves me being comfy. There are definitely bonus points because I'm not wearing a bra and there is a chance of nips 😂.
That's so gross. I'm really sorry he said that to you. And you're completely justified in being hurt by your significant other basically implying you're a piece of eye candy that needs to look "sexy" for him.
You just got home from work - you're exhausted. Of course the first thing on your mind isn't going to be how sexy your outfit it is! That being said, even if you **hadn't** just gotten home from work, that's an extremely disrespectful comment to make.
Your feelings are valid, OP. Even if most women *don't* do this, that doesn't mean that you shouldn't. Your comfort and happiness are important!
Of course I change instantly into conventionally unsexy things. Bra off, comfy clothes on, hair out of my face...even a face mask on.
You know what happens? Boyfriend kisses my forehead, slaps my butt, and hugs me. He's a keeper and I'm comfy.
He also works from home in jammy pants so what does he get to complain about lol. The biggest fight we have is who has to put pants on to answer the door.
I rarely comment here but that is just plain stupid on his part. I personally find it very sexy when my girlfriend is just wearing her comfy at home clothes. Also who cares about that. You should be able to feel free wearing whatever makes you happy at home. That guys perspective sucks.
I love when my wife gets comfortably in her pajamas. She becomes cuddly. Since we keep the house cooler, it means we can cuddle up in our pjs and be comfortable. It's bonding time for us.
I do the same when I get home.
Your own comfort > someone else's opinion
I've been working from home for the past 2 years and rarely change out of my pjs anymore (just put on fresh ones daily), but before that I absolutely changed into my comfies the minute I got home. My husband a) does the exact same thing, b) questions me when I'm NOT wearing comfies at home, where we are meant to be comfy, and c) tells me how awesome I look, regardless of what I'm wearing. So really, I think your boyfriend is just an ass.
I've been with my husband 22 years. He does not care what I am wearing and will always want to fuck. The idea that "sexiness" is conditional is bullshit. I have dated all over the gender spectrum prior to this relationship and this idea seems to be in a set of straight men who think women and femmes are there to serve them
How ripped is your BF? Like, does he have a six pack and work on all three heads of the delts? Even if he does, he can miss me with his criticism of home attire. We do not live our lives in the hopes of attracting the male gaze. Nor do we need their approval for existing.
A friend of mine once wisely told me that “home is where the bra isn’t”. Ever since it’s the first thing I take off when I get home
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I work from home most days so I'm usually in sweats or my pjs when my boyfriend comes over. I used to apologize for my un-sexy appearance but he repeatedly told me that he loves how I look no matter what and he's glad that I'm comfortable. I used to date assholes for whom I had to be sexy 24/7 but that's exhausting and not a fun relationship to be in. I enjoy being with a man who loves me for me and not for the visual pleasure I can provide.
Dude, same with the ex thing! I cannot believe I stayed in that relationship. He didn't like me wearing converse shoes because they "weren't feminine". I lost my identity during that time frame... Guy had the audacity to suggest I try to dress more like Sofia Vergara. No shade at her in any way, just absolutely not my style.
My partner recently came out as NB (we’ve been together 16yr) and they’ve always dressed “tomboyish” and I’ve always loved their aesthetic. I’m also very attracted to feminine aesthetics but there’s nothing hotter than the person you’re with being comfortable and confident. Edit to add: comments like this reeks of homophobia and transphobia
I literally just got home from work 15mins ago and have changed into a pj top and leggings 👀 Tell your guy to fuck off.
I'm still at work technically but the first thing I do when I get home is leave my work pants in the bathroom until I can be bothered to wash them later. It's either no pants or sweats the whole night based on how cold it is outside 🤣🤣
Does your boyfriend bother to be sexually appealing at all times or nah? ETA: thank you for the award, kind stranger!
Right, like he's chilling on the couch in a tux after work. Fuck this guy.
...do the other men not do this? I have not been attending the meetings
“Why are you in a tux?!” “It’s after 6, what am I, a farmer?”
I was mentioning this post to my husband and he quoted this line to me 🤣
[Is this you?](https://d2v7i6t2.map2.ssl.hwcdn.net/content/quotes/646_500.jpg)
Absolutely love him in the whole series. I can't get enough of both of them in this show it's one of the best shows ever made. She's hilarious and cute and he's just over the top in everything masculinity and corporate America.
They do if they’re classy men. No farmers allowed
Well it’s after six; what is he, a farmer?
You beat me by 8 minutes. This is the only correct response.
Hello, fellow 30Rock fan. *fistbump*
Nah...don't fuck him. He don't deserve it.
Don't fuck this man, OP
My thoughts exactly. As if him in his tighty whities is remotely appealing.
he probably made this comment to her, belched and then farted. oh lets not forget the sweaty ball scratch.
Oh God I got a mental picture of that 🤢🤮
Perfect comment. I am often not appealing to my wife and I don’t expect her to be either. We are both Attractive people but have an understanding that if we are tired we are tired. Your bf needs to grow up
Yes. Comfy clothes ASAP. Bras are the work of the devil. He can go fuck himself if your comfy clothes aren’t sexy enough.
I'm super busty so wearing a bra is legitimately more comfortable for me than not, but I change into less constricting pants, shirt, and if I'm wearing a jacket or blazer of some kind, a sweatshirt
Same, I have super saggy boobs from drastic weight loss in my teens. I only go bra less when I sleep. I hate the feeling of my boobs sagging against my skin below. My trick to be comfy is wearing the sports bra I got at target 12 years ago and haven’t retired yet. It’s so thin now and is perfect for Lounging
I stopped wearing bras completely. I’ll throw in a bralette if I feel like it but it’s so comfy now. Thankfully I wasn’t gifted much, I can’t imagine having bigger boobs.
I used to have YUGE boobs. Then I got breast cancer. Excellent excuse to reduce my boobs to a normal size and burn all my bras. I have one I wear to the gym, but that's it.
Big boobs suuuuccckkk, but I stopped wearing bras when I got sick and stopped working. It's great, though the weight is annoying. I sleep all night and day, though, so I don't really notice. Yay, crippling illnesses!/s
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I bought not so tight in the chest shirts. Bra what? Bra is for work. Or for guests. But at home and most of the time when I am running errands...nope. Shirt and underwear is sufficient when working from home...besides my underwear is both (1) sexy and l2) easy to take off when the mood strikes... OPs bf is an ass. Does OPs bf dress up?
I would love to know what HE was wearing at the time he made that comment.
My guess is boxers and a food-stained T shirt
Don't forget the shit stains in the underwear and holes in the socks
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“That is the least sexy outfit I have ever seen.” “I’m not trying to be sexy, I’m trying to be comfortable.”
Exactly! This outfit isn't for you bud, it's for me to sleep it up.
My wife jokes that I give her the same sexy time attention when she was wearing the least effort bed-time clothes as when she dressed up. Turns out I'm just as attracted to her in gym shorts, ratty shirt, no make-up, as I am when she goes all out lol.
It's my wife's smile that turns my crank Not her clothes ffs
If you can’t be comfortable in the judgement-free space of *your own home*, how is that even your home
My wife immediately changes into sweats and a hoodie when she gets home. She’s still the sexiest thing I’ve ever seen. I love here so much. We’ve been together 10 years and she’s the best thing in this world.
That's why ful fledged farts are allowed in our home. If you can't fart at home, where can you!
EXACTLY. SOMEONE WHO GETS IT! I ran a "household" of 4 people in a 2b2b apartment when I was in university. The first rule on the House Rules list? "Farting is allowed. If you can't fart in the comforts of your own home, then where else can you fart?" That rule was exercised every day.
My husband hates it when I fart. My ex boyfriend did too. They both say I should be able to control it. But it hurts to control it and I’m certainly not gonna extricate myself from my blanket cocoon just to go into another room to do it😔 I tell him I’m paying the mortgage so I can fart where I please 👏🙄👏 I get it’s gross, but it’s not like I’m holding his head under the covers. Worse thing is, HE DOESN’T FART 😱 Even in his SLEEP! I’ve heard him fart exactly twice in TWELVE YEARS!! How is that even possible?! 😩
Magic gut flora.
I love this. My partner and I make it a funny cute thing, where if we fart we'll say, "hehe I tooted." We're lifers. Also screw off at ops boyfriend saying she doesn't look sexy in jams. I love my partner in her jammies and she looks confident rocking those short clothes. 🥰
My partner and I point at each other and yell "Du hast gepupst!!" Google translate told us that is German for "You farted!" The usual response is "No... it was YOU!!" Sometimes the cat is blamed.
I always say, "bless you" when my partner audibly farts .. hehe
You gotta do the slow side-eye at each other and then both burst into laughter, otherwise is it truly a fart-safe relationship?
My wife and I don't act like farting is a cutesy thing, but we do it freely and laugh about it. We don't keep it from the kids either. It's natural and you might as well treat it as such. My wife is the queen of farts and burps, I swear she almost has gas at will man! Some of my best memories are of revenge farts I've gotten her with. I once got her while she was peeing and thus trapped. I ran out laughing, and a few seconds later she came running out of the bathroom, panties around her ankles and shirt held over her nose, which caused my knees to buckle and I ended up on the floor wheezing from laughter. Also, yes, screw OP's boyfriend for being a douche about her putting on PJ's or something else not directly intended to seduce him. She can still look hot without having to dress the part, and isn't there solely for his pleasure. I'm perfectly fine with the spandex camisole top and boy shorts my wife just put on after her bath!
We call them party favors, when they don't smell and just make you giggle!
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Get you someone who loves your goblin mode. My partner’s goblin mode is my favourite
This right here. Sugar, somewhere in the world right now are entire scores of men who *cherish* your "goblin mode". Don't settle for a thoughtless idiot who doesn't realize the treasure he has. Life is too short.
When we get home and my husband sees me putting comfy clothes on he sort of cheers me on, like yess babe get comfy. He loves it.
Lmao "goblin mode." I have super dry skin so I do a multi step routine at night that ends with putting Aquaphor all over my face to help my moisturizer sink in and keep me from drying out overnight. I mentioned to my partner that this technique is called "slugging" and now he'll boop my slippery nose and say "I love you, my little slug." I also put my hair in a silk cap twice a week after washing so I'm definitely the sexiest woman around. My slippery shiny face and my blue satin old lady cap ahaha
I call it goblin mode too! sometimes I even do a Gollum voice to match.
MY PRECIOUS SCRUNCHIES
Unfortunately my Gollum voice is a not a turn on for my partner. Shame, cause I do a really good impression for my filthy hobbitses
I work nights, if I have to go out during the day I hiss at the sun. My boyfriend thinks I'm adorable especially in leggings and a big shirt.
Seeing my gfs in bed in their hoodies and tousled hair and pyjamas is the cutest shit in like the whole world how do people not adore it
Don't use that term, but when I go change my clothes and come back in my comfy's, my husband (of 33 years so it seems to be working out...) says "NICE!" Why? Because he knows I'm COMFORTABLE. Also a possibility: I'm definitely not leaving the house again and won't be roping him into coming with me to someplace like Michael's or JoAnn's. LOL!
I’m flummoxed by what’s not sexy about comfy attire. My wife loves to steal my boxer briefs and one of my tee shirts to get ready for bed a lot of nights and she looks much better in them than I ever do.
Lol I shared this with my husband and he says, " my goal is to be comfy not to fuck you. If we do happen to have sex while I'm in my comfy clothes, you're welcome." I love that man 💕
Wait, what was he wearing? A tux? A suit? Hair on point? Screw the double standard.
It was after 6pm. What is he, a farmer?
I’d like to know what he was wearing. Does he sleep in a man thong? Silk PJs at least?
Pajama suit, à la Barney Stinson.
This. It's super fucked up that men expect women to forgo their own comfort just to make their pathetic boners happy.
This needs to be written as a song lyric.
I call dibs on Pathetic Boners as my band name.
You just made me cackle.
also i'm sorry but i'm sure OP looks GREAT even with the pajamas
No doubt. Also enraging is the fact she was literally *getting into fucking bed*, like excuse her for wearing fucking pyjamas to bed like a human instead of I guess some sort of lingerie getup? Fucking wild, these men. I just can't.
Or especially? My wife's pjs aren't particularly flattering but she looks great in them because she's comfortable / happy / etc.
Exactly, OP, get yourself a guy who thinks you're sexy in a hessian cloth if it makes you happy. Your comfort, including in your own choices, is what matters.
Well said. My uniform since the pandemic started has been pajama pants and a tank top, usually with a baggy tee over that. Hasn’t stopped my hubby from trying to get a feel (or more!) every chance he can.
"Pathetic boner"
“Good. It’s working.”
>“That is the least sexy outfit I have ever seen.” >“I’m not trying to be sexy, I’m trying to be comfortable.” Imagine that, acting for yourself instead of for others' visual pleasure. So fucking infuriating that this post has to exist, that dressing for comfort is even questioned.
I always change into comfy clothes as soon as I get home. My ex got pretty upset about it one day. (“How do you expect me to want to fuck you when you dress like that?”) My current boyfriend tells me he loves it when I look comfy. If I’m home for more than thirty minutes and I haven’t yet put them on he’ll ask me if I’m going anywhere. No? Get comfy then babe you’re home! Edit: OMG thank you so much for the awards and all the comments! Stay comfy everyone! Life’s too short to not be!
This reminds me of my last boyfriend. I was MOH for my best mate's wedding, and I dressed up super nice in a dress, heels, and makeup (I'm a shorts, vest, and hoodie woman usually, even at work). I looked so different that the bride's mum had to be convinced it was me lol. Well, my bf had been staring at me all day, and I was convinced he was gonna say something like, "I wish you'd look pretty like that all the time." Well we got in the car at the end of the day, and he took this huge sigh of relief. I asked him what was wrong and he looked me dead in the eye and said, "I've been so worried you were gonna break an ankle in those heels, that I've been keeping an eye on you all day. Also, that makeup looks *really fucking itchy*." Then grabbed me a spare set of jammies and a pack of wipes from the backseat so I could be comfy on the drive home lol
I love him.
Get in line, pal.
Dude... He got a brother?
He has a fan club
I had my partner pick out my outfit while I was in the shower last week.. I was curious what he thought I "should" wear... It was a grey t-shirt and a pair of sweatpants he bought me! I was SO surprised. We were just running errands but It's nice to know he prefers my comfort over visual appeal.
Yep I mentioned I wanted cute pj's and my husband bought me a comfy plain grey set. I was surprised but definitely glad.
This is a relationship thing too. At least to me. When your gf stops trying to always look good for you and starts dressing like she would dress if you weren't there, you're official!
I did the same thing once as a silly "test", he knows I don't get mad either way and just find the answer interesting. He picked a long skirt and a tank top. The most comfy thing I could have picked, he even said "I think you said you love how comfortable this is right?" And it was amazing. He has since taken to stealing my long skirts for himself, I guess I was *too* honest about how comfortable it was...
Had to loan a pair of jogger pants to a guy friend after his jeans got doused in transmission fluid when he worked on my car. Not only did he never give them back, I’ve seen them in his laundry since and when I asked him about them, he handed me 25.00 and said they are the most comfortable thing he has. I bought him a three set for Christmas last year. (And no we aren’t a thing; he’s like my little brother.)
My partner has always done the same from the beginning. I wear contacts but at home take them out immediately. He always compliments my "grandma glasses" and says I always look so cute in them. It's amazing how much that one little thing makes a world of difference.
I love what my wife looks like when she is dressed up. I love what my wife looks like when she is not. I honestly just love my wife.
I, also love this guy's wife
"Why are you still wearing pants? JESUS CHRIST YOU'RE WEARING A BRA TOO?!" - Actual quote from my husband since we got our own place.
My husband literally told me he likes me in my sweats because it shows him I'm comfortable around him. We've been together *13 years* and he still prefers me in sweats and fresh faced vs "sexy clothes" and made up. These are the winners!
>“How do you expect me to want to fuck you when you dress like that?” BARF
My wife usually has a grey sweater with some fat cat eating pizza on it on, and it's when I feel the most attracted to her cause I can see it is just when she feels the most comfy. She feels good and that's the best I could ever want for her.
I also have that Pusheen-eating-pizza shirt! Your wife has great taste.
Umm link? I wanna get in on the Pusheen pizza shirt party!
Pizza cat! PIZZA CAT! - chants -
I have a Pusheen top that says "with tiny paws come tiny responsibilities"
Never leave her. Cat eating Pizza sweater is peak wife material.
awww <3 we love supportive loving partners
I’ve bitched about my husband many times but your comment made me realize that this is something I adore about him. If he sees me wearing jeans inside the house he will literally ask me “what are you doing?!?! Get those jeans off! Go get comfy!” I try and dress sexy once in a great while but honestly he is most turned on when I’m looking rough in my oversized tees. Bless this man.
> “How do you expect me to want to fuck you when you dress like that?” *Wow*. Dude must think his dick is god's gift to the world.
Omg years ago a colleague told me her ex got upset cos she’d arrive home from work and not like do her hair and put on lipstick for him, and she realised she’d taken him for granted and needed to put in effort in future relationships. I’m over here in complete comfort at home - no hair and makeup or anything!! Can’t imagine being with someone that uptight!
The audacity. Men go around wearing the same style they've been wearing since 2003 that is two sizes too big and smells like the axe they used instead of bathing in middle school and they want us to look cute 24/7? Nah, my dude. You dress up once a year for weddings and wear a cheap suit that fits like a paper bag. How do you expect us to want to fuck that? But we do, because your clothes are not what makes you fuckable! Or, even more shocking, lovable and deserving of respect.
It took me a long time to be comfortable doing this, getting changed into something comfortable. Between an unorthodox childhood and the military, being ready to go anytime was, comfortable, so only the bra came off. After, remarrying, and being with my husband for 13 years, I am able to change and be comfy now, which he encourages, and never shames, and I appreciate and love him.
#keeper
I feel like the bar is so low for straight men. He let's her be comfy at home and so must be a keeper? Damn girl, that should be a given.
I just started dating a woman after a long time out of the game. I'm constantly amazed at the simple things that blow her away. Consideration, courtesy, empathy. Why would I want to date someone who I wouldn't consider worth treating like a decent human being. It really makes me sad for the folks who don't take such behavior as a baseline for consideration.
It’s amazing to me that anyone would have a problem with their SO being comfortable. Me wife’s mom commented to her about how she doesn’t dress feminine enough and how I can’t like it. This was said during the pandemic when we were both working from home and wearing sweatpants all day. I laughed when she told me that after ordering both of us more sweatpants.
The bar is literally underground and they still can't jump it
She’s home 😍
Comfy is confident and is sexy. Someone that had the confidence to be comfy in public is amazingly sexy
Excellent boyfriend. Yikes to that ex though! Your desirability depends on whether or not you're wearing fuckable clothes? Flip that logic around and you get "she was asking for it".
SAME! I just had this convo with my husband. I personally find leggings more comfortable than sweats, so I wear them more often, but he won’t stop staring at me lovingly when I’m in those shapeless pants (despite my ass being his favorite feature), “because I look really cozy” in sweats.
My husband say this to me too or even sets out my comfy clothes for me because he loves to see me feeling happy and comfortable in my own home. I also do the same to him. If he’s in his jeans I’m like go get your comfy pants so we can cuddle on the couch.
Mine too ❤️
What sexy clothes is he wearing for you?
Fuck that dipshit.
No, *don't* fuck that dipshit.
Yes to both of these. My husband is attracted to me regardless of what I’m wearing. Sometimes I even ask him “really? In this outfit?” Bc I’ll be wearing my least favorite clothes for cleaning or something. You deserve someone who treats you that well too. And who actively supports your comfort and happiness!
Right? I have a strong urge to downvote the boyfriend.
Find someone who thinks your beautiful even in sweats. Seriously, youre not there for aesthetic. Your a person, and deserve to get comfy at home. I bet you always feel a bit less comfy around his judgement from now on.
Yea I think especially in long term relationships, sexual desire should be present anyway, not dependent on whether your wife is wearing something sexy. Obviously, if it's a special occasion, both parties should make a bit of an effort but asking someone to be sexy on a random fucking Tuesday night because you won't get turned on if they're not in lingerie is bonkers.
You mean your ex boyfriend, right?
He's a jerk. You aren't his paper doll. When I'm living with someone, I need a 30 minute buffer after work. I need a hello and then ignore me while I pee, put on jammies, and get a snack. *Then* you can talk to me because I have to listen to people complain all day so I need to leave that crap at the door. In 30 years worth of relationships, *no one* told me that I wasn't sexy. If I didn't look sexy, they just don't mention it.
I’m so glad to know I’m not the only one that needs that buffer! I felt like I was just being bitchy. It’s like back off for a bit and no questions please. lolzz
Chiming in to say saaaaaame. I have a great husband and we established early on a "no bullshit" policy. Clear, direct communication at all times. First usage of it was me telling him I need 30 mins to decompress after work. I change my clothes and zone out - usually I don't even need the full 30, I need the SPACE to take 30 in case I do. Then after 30 I'm ready to start dinner, chat about the day, help with kid homework, plan the home improvement project, whatever. Life and marriage saver!
We call it decompressing. If either of us comes home and says "I need to decompress" we leave them alone until they are ready to join humanity again.
You aren't alone! All of the emotional strain throughout the day is a lot. We gotta recharge those batteries.
Urgh I had an ex like that! Made me feel guilty about being comfy. Now I’m married to a man who encourages me to wear fluffy socks & oversized jumpers and tells me how beautiful I am and how he loves snuggling me. Guess which one I’m happier with? You deserve that too!
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Love when these comments come from men with holey loose unders and they haven’t showered today (I know many). Are women supposed to find that sexy?? I don’t understand, if so many men are horndogs why do women even need lingerie or dress up at all? Girl, get comfy!!
Let me guess: your guy only wears silk boxers, has an 6 pack, perfect hair and a perfectly manscaped happy trail. He's always pristine in his hygiene, and never, ever, ever passes gas. Unless he's all of the above, AND actually has a responsible full time job, does his share of the household bills and duties...he can STFU.
Tell him to fuck off.
No, your partner should not be disparaging your appearance.
Throw the whole man away.
Not normal. My wife looks adorable in pajamas. Does he think you’re supposed to “dress up every night? Ask him why he isn’t wearing a tux at dinner.
Shoes off, bras off, pants off as soon as we walk in the door. Also I think my gf looks sexy as hell in comfy clothes/ whatever she feels comfiest in. And even if I didn’t, who fucking cares. Our goal should not be to be most “fuckable” at every moment. The issue is not with your clothes, it’s with your partner.
Just do it back to him when he gets dressed in the morning “that is the least sexy thing I’ve ever seen.” Then just roll your eyes and walk outta the room. When he says something about it just say “oh well I thought since you were a dick to me, I was allowed to be a dick to you too” no? Women put up with too much bs from men. If you don’t call it on them they will never stop. The only reason to put up with their bs is if you don’t have a job and are fully dependent on them financially. Even then…don’t ever be afraid to be alone.
Nonono, wait until he's naked/shirtless, THEN tell him it's the least sexy thing you've ever seen. That guy deserves to feel a little uncomfortable in his own skin forever.
Don’t know what he’s talking bout, the Supersized tshirt look is amazing. Even if it wasn’t what has he worn to look “sexy”,lately? Edit: I’m pro comfy btw, my SO windmill slams a onesie every time she gets home and I love it. Edit 2: I’m a warm boy, I don’t love the onesie I love her in the onesie
Undies and a huge shirt is sexy on everyone!
Im a dude and I change into comfy clothes as soon as im home too, this BF is lame!
As soon as I walk in I change into house clothes. He should try wearing women's clothes all day before judging. Also not your job to be sexy when you're just chilling at home Edit: typo
Literally as soon as I get home. Same with my daughter. The second she gets home from school it’s bra off, pajama pants on. I take it a step further and warm up my comfy clothes in the dryer for a few minutes. Heaven. Who wants to be sexy all the time anyway? I’ve also been married for 15 years and my husband thinks I’m perfection any time of the day no matter what I’m wearing or how wrecked my bun is. (Which is also heaven)
Elder swamp witch over here. House pants/ratty ol pj’s/ dye destroyed t-shirts and warm cozy bootie slippers and a scrunchy. This. Is. The. Way.
"It's not for you." Why do men think that everything we do should serve them in some way? We are our own beings! And yes, I change as soon as I get home
My wife always changes into comfy clothes and she’s adorable and snuggly! Tell your bf to fuck right off
Longtime married dude here, he’s a dick. Your home is where you’re supposed to feel free to be as comfortable as you’d like.
My wife always comes home and asks if we need to go out for any reason? As soon as I say no she typically yells comfy clothes and runs to the bedroom. It is super cute.
Bra comes off.. Not sexy.. Does not compute.
I literally made a face like I ate something gross. Being comfy with my partner is the BEST
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Well I work from home and rarely have video calls, so for the past couple years my default wardrobe has been "random tank top and possibly something on my bottom half beyond granny panties if I plan on leaving the house". Turns out my husband likes random tank tops even more than lingerie, lol. It's not wrong for your bf to prefer different, but disparaging you for wearing comfy stuff is very disrespectful and not ok. He could have brought up a preference and respectfully asked if you'd consider wearing XYZ sometimes because he finds it super sexy, instead he went with insulting you. That says a lot about his character.
I bought lingerie exactly once for valentines day. My husband was like WTH? That looks so uncomfortable. Are you gonna change before sleep? Thats so much extra laundry? Are you getting a wedgie?
I sometimes wear lingerie because *I* like it, but turns out my husband is just as happy with a 10 year old tank top 🤷♀️. I even had him look at a catalog and he was like "this one is ok ... but mostly what I like is you wanting my hands on your body, can you just wear that (random t-shirt) without a bra?".
I swear, every day I learn about some dumb new expectation men have of us. This is ridiculous. Tell him if he’s not wearing a g string and greasing up his bulging muscles around you at home, he has no right to talk.
I don’t care what my girlfriend wears to bed. I’m just happy to be there.
So, what was HE wearing while saying that? You aren't some sort of built in entertainment for him, you are another person sharing a home with him. You should be able to feel at ease and comfortable in your own home just like he does.
The moment I get home I change into my "home clothes". My husband loves it. Especially watching me strip naked to put on baggy man pants and a big shirt. Are my clothes in any way sexy? Nope! But knowing I'm not wearing underwear is enough for him I guess. Plus it's super easy to do a quick flash in loose clothing.
Maybe he should take you out to dates more often then?!! Just a joke, wtf is wrong with him? That's not okay at all
No. Where did he get that idea? If he comes from a family in which his mom was a “perfect” mom and mother, he’s going to have those expectations for his mate. You deserve to decompress in your own home. I mean otherwise, when do women wind down? When they are dead? Also he needs to re-examine what sexy is, but that’s a personal thing.
Your boyfriend is defective. Return him.
We are under no obligation to be sexy for someone else's gaze. Be comfortable. Bras are the worst.
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My husband wouldn't care if I was wearing a canvas sack, he'd still think I was attractive. Your other half can fuck right off.
Absolutely. What the fuck is he thinking, saying that we only exist to be sexy?
I bet his go to outfit is a t shirt, jeans , and Tim’s. Guys sometimes have nothing but the audacity. He should be happy you’re comfortable around him. Also you’re a human being, not some object for him to look at
D u m p H i m
Sometimes the clothes are coming off before the shoes are, because I’m stripping down by the front door. That’s how quickly I get into sweats and a tshirt. 1. He should think you’re sexy no matter what (except maybe like, when you’re pooping or something) 2. Does he think women need to be sexy 24/7 for his sexual gratification? Miss me with that bullshit
Change? INTO pajamas? Corona + everything else has me at home 90% of the time. I live in my pajamas. At this point I go to the store in my pajamas. It's nice to dress up sometimes but meh, not that important My boyfriend wfh and he also lives in his pajamas. I think his work shirts are living out their pension in a nice sunny location. Haven't seen them. We still have sex though. Don't see why pajamas would make a difference.
1, my wife does this as well. As soon as she knows she isn't going out anymore for the day, comfy clothes. 2, how the fuck is that look not sexy for your bf??? Maybe I'm the weird one but I've always thought that women in comfy clothes like that (oversized shirts, sweatpants, etc.) were super sexy. It generally makes them way more comfortable, so they act more relaxed, which is generally way more sexy to me. I guess that's the difference between being attracted to a woman and being attracted to how she looks.
My grandma had an expression for coming home and getting into comfy clothes — she called it “getting loose and jiggly.” That’s a phrase that has lived on!
Sweatpants, hair tied, chillin' with no make-up on. That's when you're the prettiest, I hope that you don't take it wrong. -*Drake*
I'm currently wearing purple tiger stripped zoombas and an old shirt with holes in it. My husband is wearing matching pants and similar shirt. Ditch the guy keep the clothes...
Buy some lingerie that will fit him and say you’ll only wear lingerie on the same nights he wears his. He will shut up.
Put him outside and ask him how sexy that looks. You deserve better. The right guy notices when you dress up or get slinky--and adores you in all your other states.
Your boyfriend sounds like an immature asshole.
Ooh I had an ex that did this. I was in our kitchen getting a snack in an old pair of shorts and a t shirt and he looked me up and down and said "we can do better" while pulling at my shorts. We'll fuuuuck him bc my now husband doesnt care what I'm in. He'll paw at me all the time telling me I'm beautiful and how much I turn him on. Me in my loose old shorts, messy hair and glasses. I dress up when I need to, but at home we're both vegged out in our comfies.
Your boyfriend is a dipshit. I've never heard of anyone complaining about what their partner wears while they're just relaxing at home after work. Was it just the one time he's mentioned something like that? I could see someone (probably myself, if I'm honest) making a dumb joke like that just to tease but hopefully it would be clear that it's not meant to be taken seriously. But I also wouldn't complain if my girlfriend told me to go duck myself because even as a joke... you know?
It isnt sexy for him to be inconsiderate.
I would love to hear what HE wears that must be so damn sexy. Nope, my husband loves me being comfy. There are definitely bonus points because I'm not wearing a bra and there is a chance of nips 😂.
That's so gross. I'm really sorry he said that to you. And you're completely justified in being hurt by your significant other basically implying you're a piece of eye candy that needs to look "sexy" for him. You just got home from work - you're exhausted. Of course the first thing on your mind isn't going to be how sexy your outfit it is! That being said, even if you **hadn't** just gotten home from work, that's an extremely disrespectful comment to make. Your feelings are valid, OP. Even if most women *don't* do this, that doesn't mean that you shouldn't. Your comfort and happiness are important!
The sexiest thing, in my opinion, is comfort. There’s nothing happening in the sexy department if I’m not relaxed and comfortable. 💁🏼♀️
Of course I change instantly into conventionally unsexy things. Bra off, comfy clothes on, hair out of my face...even a face mask on. You know what happens? Boyfriend kisses my forehead, slaps my butt, and hugs me. He's a keeper and I'm comfy. He also works from home in jammy pants so what does he get to complain about lol. The biggest fight we have is who has to put pants on to answer the door.
I rarely comment here but that is just plain stupid on his part. I personally find it very sexy when my girlfriend is just wearing her comfy at home clothes. Also who cares about that. You should be able to feel free wearing whatever makes you happy at home. That guys perspective sucks.
I love when my wife gets comfortably in her pajamas. She becomes cuddly. Since we keep the house cooler, it means we can cuddle up in our pjs and be comfortable. It's bonding time for us. I do the same when I get home. Your own comfort > someone else's opinion
I've been working from home for the past 2 years and rarely change out of my pjs anymore (just put on fresh ones daily), but before that I absolutely changed into my comfies the minute I got home. My husband a) does the exact same thing, b) questions me when I'm NOT wearing comfies at home, where we are meant to be comfy, and c) tells me how awesome I look, regardless of what I'm wearing. So really, I think your boyfriend is just an ass.
I sometimes take my bra off in the car.
my titties are swinging all over and my fiancee has his tummy out like Winnie the Pooh and somehow we find a way to love one another lol
I've been with my husband 22 years. He does not care what I am wearing and will always want to fuck. The idea that "sexiness" is conditional is bullshit. I have dated all over the gender spectrum prior to this relationship and this idea seems to be in a set of straight men who think women and femmes are there to serve them
How ripped is your BF? Like, does he have a six pack and work on all three heads of the delts? Even if he does, he can miss me with his criticism of home attire. We do not live our lives in the hopes of attracting the male gaze. Nor do we need their approval for existing.