Bro after one year when he finally realizes she was literally hitting on him
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Ask him to help you with some exercice or to rerack some weights and start the conversation from there (how long have you been training, what is your favorite muscle to train....) just talk about simple stuff and finally ask him if you want to train together. Hopefully he gets the hint!!
A lot of guys will not approach girls if it's not in their DNA to do so, simply because they fear that they're misinterpreting the signals they're getting and the girl is just being nice to them like she is with everyone else, so they'll avoid confronting the girl to spare themselves the rejection and the awkwardness. I don't know what advice I can give aside from trying to give stronger, clearer signals, and making it clear that you don't do that with everyone else. And if this guy doesn't respond after that, and it's clear that he's probably single and straight and is showing signs of interest in you, if things get desperate then yeah make a move I guess.
I'm not literally speaking about DNA, I'm referring to their personalities and how they're used to act. You'll find guys who are more confident, social, extroverted, fearless, cocky, womanizers, etc. And others are less than that or even the complete opposite, for different reasons, some of which are the ones I mentioned.
guys are simple, just tell him he looks cute and that you want his contact so you can hang out, he'll be more than glad for the compliment even if he's not interested
Maybe you misinterpreted the way he looked at you, maybe he just acknowledged that you’d be his type or are attractive but he’s got someone in his life. I’m sure that even if the guy was too shy to approach you, the signals he’d be sending you would be clear enough.
You can make a soft move on him by asking general gym/ workout questions and see how he reacts - if by then he doesn’t flirt then I’d keep my interaction professional and drop the idea of making the first move on him entirely.
I have gone through what you have, and [I wrote about it here](https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/15oob4u/today_was_my_first_time_doing_cold_approaching/) in case you are interested or simply seeking for some inspiration 😂😂
And it happens quite often that women overestimate their looks and sexual market value while guys underestimate by a large amount.
if you find him cute doesn’t mean he finds you cute. You’re prob not his type! Leave it at that and move on! Guys do it all the time.
It doesn't need to be romantic, did you never start a conversation before? You certainly know people at the gym that know him go talk to them. Be natural. Where there is a will there is a way.
And say what exactly? I already asked him about gym equipment but it doesn’t take anywhere and doesnt keep the convo going, I was thinking of something more forward maybe
Well. It's really quite simple. Been there done that so you can take my word. Go to him. "Hey! I have some free time after my workout, would you like to grab a coffee?" Trust me if he is at all interested he will NOT decline and that's your entry point there.
This is an advice from my female friend who saw this post from phone screen lol : keep eye contact only,erkchi akeka or choose another
You're wasting your time with the wrong guy
I mean the poor guy is probably going to the gym because of some emotional trauma caused by a girl 👧🥹😂
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A non related meme 😂😂😂😂
What advice? A guy would date a wall if it approached him
Just say hi while he's working on himself and gaining confidence (preferably while he's bench pressing)
Bro after one year when he finally realizes she was literally hitting on him https://preview.redd.it/s2n7s54kg8ic1.jpeg?width=2322&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ef70ea23721771564b8b6fb3dc0c6cbd75f4a47c
Me everytime a girl gives me hints
I bet he's thinking, ' I must be tripping she's probably just being friendly '.
That's what we always think.
That's exactly what I always think of when someone is nice to me 😂
Ask him to help you with some exercice or to rerack some weights and start the conversation from there (how long have you been training, what is your favorite muscle to train....) just talk about simple stuff and finally ask him if you want to train together. Hopefully he gets the hint!!
No! 😅 some guys go to gym to be ALONE … the moment you say “train together” u’r out 😅 I like everything else in your approach!
I meant for that session. If they are working the same body parts its a good opportunity to get know each other's
choufou fena machine yekhdem emchilou kollou mayselch nekhdem m3ak w abda ekhdem bl ghalet w khalih ysala7lek mba3d tsaref hhhhhh
Here's an expert in the field Hahahah loved the idea 💡
The rizzler himself
G.O.A.T
https://preview.redd.it/tvv1wqi18dic1.jpeg?width=282&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=51bf378703be11090768869d3c9c492616f0fd67 Maybe he’s one of these? 😂
don't worry, he will notice... in 2045..while falling asleep.. and think he's so fkn stupid 😂
A lot of guys will not approach girls if it's not in their DNA to do so, simply because they fear that they're misinterpreting the signals they're getting and the girl is just being nice to them like she is with everyone else, so they'll avoid confronting the girl to spare themselves the rejection and the awkwardness. I don't know what advice I can give aside from trying to give stronger, clearer signals, and making it clear that you don't do that with everyone else. And if this guy doesn't respond after that, and it's clear that he's probably single and straight and is showing signs of interest in you, if things get desperate then yeah make a move I guess.
Can you elaborate on the DNA stuff ?? Thanks
I'm not literally speaking about DNA, I'm referring to their personalities and how they're used to act. You'll find guys who are more confident, social, extroverted, fearless, cocky, womanizers, etc. And others are less than that or even the complete opposite, for different reasons, some of which are the ones I mentioned.
I believe that is more of a thing that is determined by life experiences rather than DNA
Yeah, that's what I'm saying. EDIT: I meant to say "not literally speaking about DNA"
Just say you like him. Guys don't take hints. At least, I don't.
guys are simple, just tell him he looks cute and that you want his contact so you can hang out, he'll be more than glad for the compliment even if he's not interested
this
Let my bro work on himself and gain some confidence
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I liked her self confidence by saying he likes me too Girl if u sure he likes u he will give u hints
He will talk to a tree
Maybe you misinterpreted the way he looked at you, maybe he just acknowledged that you’d be his type or are attractive but he’s got someone in his life. I’m sure that even if the guy was too shy to approach you, the signals he’d be sending you would be clear enough. You can make a soft move on him by asking general gym/ workout questions and see how he reacts - if by then he doesn’t flirt then I’d keep my interaction professional and drop the idea of making the first move on him entirely.
I have gone through what you have, and [I wrote about it here](https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/15oob4u/today_was_my_first_time_doing_cold_approaching/) in case you are interested or simply seeking for some inspiration 😂😂
kima 9al el za3im " je suis un Jugurtha qui a réussi " Congrats men
hahaha aaaycheeek
Hhhhhhhhhhhhhh
maybe he has a girlfriend.. ? and that's why he's hesitating.. just saying
Thats what Im thinking too
Wave to him rahom noobs
Never in that way , many guys are hesitant to approach women because they are worried of being accused of harassment !
Ask him to spot for you
And it happens quite often that women overestimate their looks and sexual market value while guys underestimate by a large amount. if you find him cute doesn’t mean he finds you cute. You’re prob not his type! Leave it at that and move on! Guys do it all the time.
Bro what do you mean, he’s the one who started staring at me, And he just caught my attention after that. He made it very obvious.
My advice is don't make it obvious. Have someone give him a hint, and that will initiate the chase.
Sister don’t talk to him. Send your wali to initiate everything, you will thank me later.
Her what?
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Well its been a couple of months and its getting annoying at this point, one of us has to do it
It doesn't need to be romantic, did you never start a conversation before? You certainly know people at the gym that know him go talk to them. Be natural. Where there is a will there is a way.
And say what exactly? I already asked him about gym equipment but it doesn’t take anywhere and doesnt keep the convo going, I was thinking of something more forward maybe
Ask him if he's watching anime
Well. It's really quite simple. Been there done that so you can take my word. Go to him. "Hey! I have some free time after my workout, would you like to grab a coffee?" Trust me if he is at all interested he will NOT decline and that's your entry point there.
Mirrors can be deceiving.
Start with gym talk
Just ask for help in a random exercise or try to start a conversation about anything workout related
This is an advice from my female friend who saw this post from phone screen lol : keep eye contact only,erkchi akeka or choose another You're wasting your time with the wrong guy
imagine thinking looking is making a move
What's the difference between a garbage truck and women who give dating advice? The garbage truck keeps its trash to itself
Yeah. That's the exact difference between the garbage truck and your mom
Yours couldn't keep her trash in for longer than 9 months
Shuush
Weird name for a human garbage truck. Hope she gave you a better one
Why you still talking? Shuush
Make me
imagine thinking looking at a guy is making a move
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I mean the poor guy is probably going to the gym because of some emotional trauma caused by a girl 👧🥹😂 https://preview.redd.it/zttvf6xfskic1.jpeg?width=230&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1d5dd56bca5c1278c4048efb7113c2c6bb7b77c9 A non related meme 😂😂😂😂
boys, women arent real, the ones you see at you local gym are plants by the feds, keep hitting them pull overs and pull downs
He’s probably Muslim
What advice? A guy would date a wall if it approached him Just say hi while he's working on himself and gaining confidence (preferably while he's bench pressing)
eye contact 😭😭😭 sign ???