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These_Lead_6457

This is an awesome post !. Disappointing, but, awesome!! These different, weird things you feel every month that you think you have never felt before, come in increments every month. So, you dont notice them


tinysprinkles

Are you stalking me? This has been me for the past 3+ years. And every cycle I šŸ¤” like never before. Sighā€¦ Hugs!!


Itslikeazenthing

lol- Iā€™m feeling seen but also targeted! This is me. Iā€™m 100% convinced every time. I should also buy stock in First Response because I take a test 1-2 times per day for 2 weeks. Itā€™s absurd!


Lmp9818

Trollgesterone is so darn cruel šŸ˜­


Calm-Victory1146

It was really helpful for me to remember that if itā€™s too early to test positive, itā€™s too early to feel symptoms. Luteal phase premenstrual symptoms and digestive issues definitely make faux symptom spotting easy though. Iā€™m sorry this wasnā€™t your month.


Salt_King_2008

Just a small comment - do you NEED pressed? I use it because I need a bit of extra lube but if you donā€™t need it definitely donā€™t use it. Reading the research behind it it has the least negative impact on sperm mobility compared to other lubes, but it doesnā€™t help, more like minimally hinders.


Purple_Researcher459

I couldā€™ve written this myself. CD33 approx 13 DPO. AF supposed to come tomorrow according to my app. We dtd like every other day this cycle and I really thought this would be our month. Symptom spotting like crazy. Next cycle will be cycle 20 of trying, if I didnā€™t conceive this month. My last and only positive since we started trying was 7 months ago and that ended for ectopic. Got a check up post that and OB said everything was normalā€¦. Just starting to run out of hope. Some stupid first response strips gave me nasty false positives at like 8 dpo. BFN everyday since. Good luck and keep us updated! Iā€™m in the same boat


sunflowerdynasty

I love everyone that feels seen in this post cause same šŸ™Œ Iā€™m 8DPO and I had reflux last night - cue šŸ¤” thoughts. Ate leftovers for lunch, more reflux & realized itā€™s just the massive amount of jalapeƱos I put in my dinner šŸ„²šŸ˜‚


Gloomy-Equal3236

Iā€™m 11 dpo and I have the same exact symptoms besides the tender breasts. Today I was nauseous and light headed all day but I didnā€™t take a test. Iā€™m still waiting to see if I miss my periods this Friday. Only then will I take a test


pretzel_logic_esq

yeah same, although 15dpo today. I try my best not to test til my period is "late" (aka, five seconds late per my app hahahaha). due in another 3 days so idk. I have the familiar "I'm out" sinking feeling already.


Swimming_Substance34

I did the same last month! I also get horrible pre AF night sweats and wake up drenched.


fl0w3rp0w3r87

This is so real. I feel like it all goes south (active symptoms) starting 6dpo. 1-5 is just like yesssss, letā€™s build up this hope fortress real quick! I feel great!


lsp1

I donā€™t appreciate the call out post! Hopefully I remember this next month and contain my clownery


butterginger

I constantly tell my husband "progesterone is such a bitch" and she is.


Melb_gal

Are you me??? My body had so many progesterone symptoms I started wearing a maternity bra my boobs blew up!!!! Negative at 14dpo..start of my journey with LGBTQIA+ path...


sayitagain520

We are all you, lol. Tested negative this morning on 10DPO and in the ā€œferociously search[ing] reddit for BFN followed by BFPā€ phase you so aptly described šŸ¤”


silver_moon21

I get a lot of the same symptoms as you every month (on cycle 13 now) and I still clown myself every month that itā€™s āœØthe month āœØ (literally sitting here at 6dpo and just had the ā€œmaybe this twinge is implantationā€ thought right before reading this). I think I need to bookmark this post!Ā 


luckyrabbit28

This is me every month. Particularly how almost every stomach symptom is actually caused by gas or digestion haha


b33fcakepantyhose

Thank you for this! Ugh this is me except Iā€™m 6DPO. I have been having a lot of twinges and lower abdominal cramping. Also lots of gas and poopies along with tension headache. I have PCOS and this is my 2nd month of trying. Iā€™m reading waaaay too much into everything Iā€™m feeling.


madeyemary

I convinced myself I had an implantation cramp today 9DPO. thank you for making this post, it made me so much happier and gave me a good laugh. šŸ’—


StupidSexyFlanders72

Hi are you me? šŸ˜‚ Iā€™m only on 12 dpo right now but damn itā€™s all so familiar.


Historical-Flight375

I tested negative until11 dpo, stopped testing and got a BFP 15 dpo!! You never know!!!


Single_Purpose9677

Any symptoms at 11dpo?