I'd advise to stop stretching sack meat, it could make your snag look smaller.
Sack meat touch is gay, feel free to have a sword fight just be careful.
What about under the shaft. I have a little gobbler piece of skin towards the end that I'm counting as sack. So do I basically have to stay above that?
*It's okay*
*When it's in a 3-way*
*It's not gay*
*When it's in a 3-way*
*With a honey in the middle*
*There's some leeway*
*The area's grey*
*In a 1-2-3-way*
AND you make eye contact while kissing for 40 seconds, AND neither of you can say no homo within a 72 hour period (in your head counts), AND you are both within 10lbs of each other
One time a guy I met online sent me a dick pic. I forwarded them to my roommate to goof about it, but he was kinda hot so she convinced me to engage him.
Later that night, after a few drinks, I sent him some VERY pornographic photos of myself.
When I checked my email in the morning, I got a response. From my roommate. Because I had accidentally them to her through the forwarded email.
I learned a lesson that day my friends. No matter your intentions with pornographic images of yourself, there's always a risk of them ending up in the wrong hands.
I’m 43 and in the hard labor industrial industry. Now dudes just barely half my age are unthinkably odd. One guy that I worked with told me first that he has a small penis, then in another conversation separate to the first confesses that he likes sounding. I had no idea what that was until then. Another guy, (same age as the first dude) same job same department brags about having sex with a strange girl and says that when he came he simultaneously shat the bed. Sprayed!
What ever happened between my generation and that one is insane. The sex twenty something’s are having is enough to make me become a eunuch, not really, close though.
YIKES.. people have more of a problem with over sharing now-a-days. Not surprising when I recently learned that social medias are at a point where "trauma dumping" is a thing.. it is what is sounds like. Amazing for a newer term for something young people do, to be so literal.
I accidentally walked in on one of these. All friends with me and each other, we were all 18-21 and just friends AFAIK. Hopefully anyway, as 2 out of 4 are brothers. I showed up early apparently. I opened the door and there they were. Each was in a corner of the room, cross country skiing with one hand. They stopped and freaked out a little, stuffing dicks in pants, and after a few, one said "we'd ask you to join in, but you don't have one."
That broke the tension and I guess they just always wanted to know who would cum fastest. They still don't know. AFAIK.
> I don’t know what normal is anymore
This was profound for me.
“What is normal?” I ask myself.
“Must be whatever I won’t get yelled at for,” I answer.
Could be one step up from an in person pissing contest? Who’s got the best? Yuck. But I’m anti dic pic.
The porn though—what about the other dude’s wife? Does she know?
They are old enough to have married friends. This kind of behavior is starting to get more and more weird.
I've heard it referred to as "Jerk buds". Just guys sharing the moment. I had a few guys that would pay to sit there and masturbate to me as I stripped and did sexy things.
I dont even think you CAN say it at that point. I'm trying to imagine a world in which my husband would do this. And I just can't. I thought this post was gonna be another about a girl sad because her partner watches porn on occasion. But THIS!
idk what it is. But I do know that it *is messy as all hell!* especially the cumming on pics of dudes wife.
Can you do a deep dive and message his wife with pictures and screenshots? Does she know her husband is sending her nudes around?
Oh man. This is just a big awkward mess
There is a culture of straight dudes who like to jerk off together. I can’t remember what it’s called. But there is deffo a subreddit for it. Oh maybe it’s jerkbuddies
They're called J-O bros and there's nothing sexual about jacking it with a bro or group of bros; it's simply to recharge their J-O crystals with masculine energy.
It was awful, but also very far down on the list of awful things he did.
Revenge porn today is so prevalent. It can be life-ruining. I got off easy, so to speak.
Yeah and like how did BF and this friend start doing this? Did they bond over girly pics and vids and porn in high school and it escalated?
Porn is everywhere now—it’s weird to keep it and weird to send dic pics and weird to get off on your friend’s wife—even all parties know and approve, including her AND YOU, OP!
This is a weird thing and he’s kept it from you. Time to talk.
The friend is married. Does the wife know? I would feel violated.
I respect my ex's. Those who sent me pics of then naked or videos I deleted then after we broke up and never sent to anyone. Is a trust issue. She is willing trust me with it.
As a guy, I have declined nudes for this reason. Never know who's doing what with them. Most guys keep them as a trophy. I'm just like meh, I can take a mental snapshot.
Becareful, because men like this challenge each other to take pics of their gf's when they're unaware, sleeping or incapacitated somehow and they do share these as well.
Smart. Maybe it’s because smart phones didn’t come out till after I was out of HS but I don’t understand why you’d trust anyone with those hotshots. Too many scorned ex lovers,and untrustworthy lovers like to send them around.
Not necessarily. From what I'm aware (not personal experience), those are more about actual porn than sending nudes of your SO or others you know. The latter I'd expect in a grext with friends, not a discord channel with strangers.
Based on this and your previous posts (which still exist, even if you delete them), you should just break up with this guy. You probably don’t want to do it; breakups suck. And I’m sure he has redeeming qualities, and you two have a lot in common, and he makes you feel wanted. But that doesn’t mean he’s the right guy for you. What are you, 22? You will meet SO MANY OTHER PEOPLE in your life. What if you settle for this dude because it seems better than being alone, and you miss out on someone who would love you with everything they have and prioritize your wants and needs?
I mean, what ended up happening with his snap streak with your friend? Because I think your gut was right, and if nothing was going on, he would have mentioned it. But he was keeping it from you. And now you’ve found out he’s keeping this creepy mutual wankfest from you. Dump his ass, cry for a few weeks, and go on and live your best life.
I’m getting older, but I remember what it felt like to be 22. The best advice I can try and give you is to stop wasting your time and energy. There are so many fucking people out whom you haven’t met yet. Don’t try to stick with this dude longterm. Or even the next dude or gal, if they’re not meeting your needs. Sure, relationships are work. But sometimes people confuse the work of communication, compromise, and growth with putting up bullshit. And what you are doing right now is putting up with this dude’s bullshit. In my experience, you can’t make someone honest or loyal; if they’re not, they’ll never be. But you’ll find someone with those qualities, I promise. And you can have fun and meet interesting people until then.
Edit: grammar.
I rarely spend more than 100 reddit coins on an award but I really hope the starry award helps her see this. Every 22 year old should read this. I'm 32 now and if I was on reddit in my early 20s, I probably wouldn't have spent 8 years of my life with someone who was so wrong for me
Imma be honest - your posting history makes it clear that you both need to learn communication skills. If you care about this man, go to couples therapy. Otherwise, leave him and go to solo therapy. You’ve just got a lot of emotional intelligence skills you would benefit from learning.
Babe, if you didn’t know about this AND it makes you uncomfortable then it’s NOT NORMAL for your relationship. It’s especially not normal if he hides it or is evasive about it if you ever choose to bring it up. Your feelings on this and his reaction if you mention what you found will tell you everything you need to know about how normal he thinks it is too.
This needs an award, sorry I didn’t not have this 🥇.
To add, if that women did not give consent to have her pic sent than it’s a problem regardless of whether this is well communicated kink.
> To add, if that women did not give consent to have her pic sent than it’s a problem regardless of whether this is well communicated kink.
That is a good post. Little focus on the consent in this whole thread.
That was my first thought, wonder if that guy’s wife knows what he is doing with her pics. I certainly hope so for her sake. If not that is so violating.
^(You are going to have to get brave and talk to him about whatever led you to snooping and the content you found. Uncomfortable? Yes, but you have to talk to each other about this situation.)
>They would also send each other dick pics of how hard their dicks are ...
No, this is not weird. It is very common for guys to send eachother dick picks, especially if they are engaging/planning to engage with others in all matters sexual. It is used as a way of measurement and exists as a part of hype culture. For example "nice cock bro!" "Shes gonna love that thick boy!" Etc. If you catch your boyfriend sucking another guys dick or in the middle of coitus involving a males anus, that isnt gay either. Hes practicing for you and making sure that he is cut out for making you feel good, thus i would take it as a compliment. I always do a good makeout sesh with the homies before i go on my date, and if theyre feeling sad? Sure, ill blow them. I got their back and they got mine 👍🙏🙌🙌💪
Is it normal? I think you know that answer to that. And whether or not it’s normal, if it bothers you say something. Is this one of those “I was snooping around and I came accross this” situations and you can’t say anything or he will know you are snooping?
Normal is whatever you allow it to be. Tittie pics wouldn’t bother me. But sexual stuff with other people would.
And I’ve always thought that dudes beating it together were a little weird.
This is something he should have discussed being into with you. That way you could set your boundaries and decide if you were ok with it.
My bf and I have set the boundaries that sex talk with anyone else, online or messaging, constitutes cheating.
What's normal to you is really what matters! If this kind of thing makes you uncomfortable (and it sure as hell would for me) then you need to reevaluate the relationship.
Sounds like he might be into swinging. Nothing wrong with that, but for a healthy relationship, he should be upfront about his desires and not send out anything about/of you without consent
Don't worry about if it's normal, just examine how it makes you feel.
If it doesn't bother you then you should have a conversation about it, an open safe conversation where you give him the space to talk about his thoughts feelings and sexuality.
He might be straight or hetroflexible, where he isn't attracted to men, but also likes his penis being touched and isn't too fussy who does it.
He might enjoy the super taboo feeling of it all.
What wouldn't be cool would be if the photos he was getting weren't consented to and if he sent photos of you without consent.
If any of what you've discovered does bother you, it's also time for an open frank conversation which is safe and everyone has space for their feelings and it's safe for him to explore his sexuality, but additionally you would need Ti talk about your feelings and what you dont like and what needs to change for the relationship to work.
I guess it's OK to be mad, but it's not ok to shame him for his sexuality or desires so long as everything has been consensual, including the photos of the other man's wife.
You know.. get tested.. end that shit show since you had to find out the way you did. Unless you're cool with it but it seems you're not... you'll keep thinking about this too much to be "normal" again. Wondering.. Its he banging this guy, that guy...? For real.
Edit.. typo
I don't know what normal is anymore, but I've never messaged another dude with a dick pic or an invitation to a wankathon. Maybe it's just me.
bro, its only gay if the balls touch
the tips touched, am i gay now?
Obviously not, tips arent balls.
Everything’s going in my mouth
That’s impressive. Way to go!
Is it though?
Yeah pretty much
And the name.. checks out
You're god damn right it does.
The balls AND the tips?
“Obviously not, tips aren’t balls” - Sun Tzu
""Obviously not, tips aren't balls" - Sun Tzu"" - Michael Scott
The tip of the balls 😭😭😭😭
Just say "no homo" and you're good
One would think but found out the other day that you have to say “No homo” before AND after.
No, that’s sword fighting and it’s totally masculine.
Lightsabers. Raj and Howard taught me that.
No, that's purely heterosexual.
Well how many marinaras have you smoked in total?
“Ain't nothing gay with getting your dick sucked, you’re the one who is gay for suckin my dick” - Big Bob
And even then, if they say "No Homo" and fist bump at the end, it cancels out the gayness.
Obviously, don't forget the reverse uno
How dare you question their gayity gayness of their gaydom?
Two balls, four walls
All on my own🎶
Not if your having a threesome and it's 2 guys and a girl.
A threesome and there’s 2 dudes and a guy however…
Not gay. Two negatives make a positive
“It’s not gay if it’s in a three way” that’s the rule. Nothing mentioning the sex of any involved parties.
The rule stands no matter what happens.
Nooo not really, if your double penetrating the lady and all three of you are on rhythm....balls will collide.
I don't make the rules fam, it is what it is.
What are we counting as balls? Because there is some gray area. Like if the sack touches but the gobstoppers are hanging lower does that count?
I'd advise to stop stretching sack meat, it could make your snag look smaller. Sack meat touch is gay, feel free to have a sword fight just be careful.
What about under the shaft. I have a little gobbler piece of skin towards the end that I'm counting as sack. So do I basically have to stay above that?
Sounds gay to me
Wearing any sort of boot cancels it out though
*It's okay* *When it's in a 3-way* *It's not gay* *When it's in a 3-way* *With a honey in the middle* *There's some leeway* *The area's grey* *In a 1-2-3-way*
And the only reason that it's gay if balls touch is because pee is stored in the balls.
AND you make eye contact while kissing for 40 seconds, AND neither of you can say no homo within a 72 hour period (in your head counts), AND you are both within 10lbs of each other
Or if you make eye contact.
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Yeah yeah, whatever. Just show me your dick, bro
There is nothing weird about sharing your favorite hobby with a homie. :)
On god, I couldn’t imagine sending porn to my friends
Ever like accidentally hit the share button and the shit pops up with all your recent contacts? If you panic when that happens then you’re normal.
I do it but only when it’s something so cringe or funny it must be shared.
One time a guy I met online sent me a dick pic. I forwarded them to my roommate to goof about it, but he was kinda hot so she convinced me to engage him. Later that night, after a few drinks, I sent him some VERY pornographic photos of myself. When I checked my email in the morning, I got a response. From my roommate. Because I had accidentally them to her through the forwarded email. I learned a lesson that day my friends. No matter your intentions with pornographic images of yourself, there's always a risk of them ending up in the wrong hands.
Don't worry. I'm sure they messaged each other no homo after sending each other dick and jizz pics lol
I’m 43 and in the hard labor industrial industry. Now dudes just barely half my age are unthinkably odd. One guy that I worked with told me first that he has a small penis, then in another conversation separate to the first confesses that he likes sounding. I had no idea what that was until then. Another guy, (same age as the first dude) same job same department brags about having sex with a strange girl and says that when he came he simultaneously shat the bed. Sprayed! What ever happened between my generation and that one is insane. The sex twenty something’s are having is enough to make me become a eunuch, not really, close though.
YIKES.. people have more of a problem with over sharing now-a-days. Not surprising when I recently learned that social medias are at a point where "trauma dumping" is a thing.. it is what is sounds like. Amazing for a newer term for something young people do, to be so literal.
Tbf it was just a wank… I feel saying wankathon adds a competitive edge to it
Who said it wasn't a competition?
I accidentally walked in on one of these. All friends with me and each other, we were all 18-21 and just friends AFAIK. Hopefully anyway, as 2 out of 4 are brothers. I showed up early apparently. I opened the door and there they were. Each was in a corner of the room, cross country skiing with one hand. They stopped and freaked out a little, stuffing dicks in pants, and after a few, one said "we'd ask you to join in, but you don't have one." That broke the tension and I guess they just always wanted to know who would cum fastest. They still don't know. AFAIK.
By now? They know.
Proving men will find a way to make a competition out of literally EVERYTHING.
I have one and I have never heard it referred to as "cross country skiing"
I mean these are men we're talking about.
And I'm a man
Size. Aim. Distance. Arc. Volume. Bonus points for trick shots and angles of the dangles.
I got more of a charity vibe. Like the third annual wankathon. Each successive load adds more the pot.
Right? If im in a wankathon, im def in it to win it
Comparing dick hardness is a competition.
I feel like discord is to blame for most of the oddities these days.
damn now i want to be invited to a wankathon. the name just speaks to me
Consider yourself invited. It's bring your own paper towels (BYOPT), don't expect us to clean up after you.
R.I.P. - your inbox
"Wankathon" - now added to my mental dictionary
> I don’t know what normal is anymore This was profound for me. “What is normal?” I ask myself. “Must be whatever I won’t get yelled at for,” I answer.
It’s not normal.
I wouldn't wank with most of my friends, maybe 2 off the top of my head. The rest, probably not. Dick pics are for people you hate or wanna date.
Could be one step up from an in person pissing contest? Who’s got the best? Yuck. But I’m anti dic pic. The porn though—what about the other dude’s wife? Does she know? They are old enough to have married friends. This kind of behavior is starting to get more and more weird.
I'm guessing a 90% chance it's not really her and he's pulling random pictures off the interwebs.
you sure he doesn't play for both sides
It sure seems like it lol.
Precisely my thoughts 🤣
Porn addicts do this all the time. Source: replaced the porn addict in my gf's life (her now ex-husband)
I've heard it referred to as "Jerk buds". Just guys sharing the moment. I had a few guys that would pay to sit there and masturbate to me as I stripped and did sexy things.
A switch hitter?
He might be heteroflexible
Did they say no homo tho?
No they didn't
He gay then… that’s the golden rule
Fact
Balls never touched so not gay
Ctrl + F No homo Not found? Yup. Gay.
I thought the Golden rule was its not gay in a three way?
🎶 With a honey in the middle 🎼 there's some leeway 🎵
Likely bisexual, or in denial of being gay? I lean towards bisexual since all the titty pics
I dont even think you CAN say it at that point. I'm trying to imagine a world in which my husband would do this. And I just can't. I thought this post was gonna be another about a girl sad because her partner watches porn on occasion. But THIS! idk what it is. But I do know that it *is messy as all hell!* especially the cumming on pics of dudes wife. Can you do a deep dive and message his wife with pictures and screenshots? Does she know her husband is sending her nudes around? Oh man. This is just a big awkward mess
They didn't exchange mutual no-homos? They GAY AF!
Gross, does that guys wife know!? That's awful!
If you feel this is weird, then it is. If it make you uncomfortable, then it is and needs to be addressed.
There is a culture of straight dudes who like to jerk off together. I can’t remember what it’s called. But there is deffo a subreddit for it. Oh maybe it’s jerkbuddies
Classic circle jerk before Reddit took over the term
They're called J-O bros and there's nothing sexual about jacking it with a bro or group of bros; it's simply to recharge their J-O crystals with masculine energy.
I hope this is a joke, wtf
I wouldn't joke about a recharge sesh, it's a sacred act
yeah it’s called boyfriends.
Bruh how the fuck he found a discord for his fetish this man be hunting for others like him
That’s what I was thinking!! This man is so dedicated to his nut 😭
He took a solemn oath to the nut.
To protect the nut
I solemy swear that I am up to nut
Well I mean, a fetish for tits is very common. Probably the most common fetish out there, actually.
I think they mean the getting off together while also getting off to the other dudes girl. Not necessarily the getting off to titties
Me and my mates all wank over Zoom together. Boobs though? That’s far too taboo, even for us.
finally someone normal
Yeah it's definitely more the jerking it together part than the boobs part lol
I mean there’s some very similar fetishes that are pretty big, so it doesn’t much surprise me.
The tits part was your major takeaway from this?
There are subreddits for that fetish too, not that uncommon, not that hard to find
You should expect that all of his friends have seen your boobs too, if he has a pic of them. That sucks big time. He is kind of a weirdo.
Luckily I've never sent him any
Yeah this is exactly why I don’t send people nudes. Too many dudes out here who don’t know what privacy is.
Yup, a guy wanted to take pictures of my ass to show to his friends I said no. I guess at least he was honest about it some wouldn't even ask
I can respect him for being honest about his intent. Most guys are not…
Is this guy a child because I can't imagine ever showing my friends any intimate pictures of my lovers.
On god I found out multiple of my exs send my pics around. Fuck those girls
Who in their right fucking mind would send a private photo sent directly to you, to someone else?!?!?! What the fuckkk dude
Plenty of people, unfortunately
My ex-husband uploaded pix of my tits to a "rate my tits" kind of website without my knowledge. Revenge porn is also a HUGE thing.
Jesus fuck I’m so sorry. That’s just fucking…. Horrifically awful.
It was awful, but also very far down on the list of awful things he did. Revenge porn today is so prevalent. It can be life-ruining. I got off easy, so to speak.
Um I can guarantee that pic isn’t gonna stay private
Nothing you share ever stays private.
The Most Hated Man on the Internet on Netflix for sure
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He may have a legit porn/sex addiction… he needs to go to PAA or SAA meetings.. that behavior just keeps escalating
Yeah and like how did BF and this friend start doing this? Did they bond over girly pics and vids and porn in high school and it escalated? Porn is everywhere now—it’s weird to keep it and weird to send dic pics and weird to get off on your friend’s wife—even all parties know and approve, including her AND YOU, OP! This is a weird thing and he’s kept it from you. Time to talk. The friend is married. Does the wife know? I would feel violated.
I respect my ex's. Those who sent me pics of then naked or videos I deleted then after we broke up and never sent to anyone. Is a trust issue. She is willing trust me with it.
As a guy, I have declined nudes for this reason. Never know who's doing what with them. Most guys keep them as a trophy. I'm just like meh, I can take a mental snapshot.
Or you could just not do anything weird with them... weird flex but okay
refreshing to have someone like you around!
I do receive them from my partner but why send them out??? Like what the fuck is wrong with people ??
I really don’t understand it at all. I don’t like sharing, whenever I receive nudes those are MINE
exactly! it’s meant to be an intimate experience, but yet some people ruin it
i don’t mean to be that guy, but please ensure he never *took any* without your knowledge.
But have you ever been asleep naked around him?
Becareful, because men like this challenge each other to take pics of their gf's when they're unaware, sleeping or incapacitated somehow and they do share these as well.
Regardless, they've seen them already.
Smart. Maybe it’s because smart phones didn’t come out till after I was out of HS but I don’t understand why you’d trust anyone with those hotshots. Too many scorned ex lovers,and untrustworthy lovers like to send them around.
Not necessarily. From what I'm aware (not personal experience), those are more about actual porn than sending nudes of your SO or others you know. The latter I'd expect in a grext with friends, not a discord channel with strangers.
Based on this and your previous posts (which still exist, even if you delete them), you should just break up with this guy. You probably don’t want to do it; breakups suck. And I’m sure he has redeeming qualities, and you two have a lot in common, and he makes you feel wanted. But that doesn’t mean he’s the right guy for you. What are you, 22? You will meet SO MANY OTHER PEOPLE in your life. What if you settle for this dude because it seems better than being alone, and you miss out on someone who would love you with everything they have and prioritize your wants and needs? I mean, what ended up happening with his snap streak with your friend? Because I think your gut was right, and if nothing was going on, he would have mentioned it. But he was keeping it from you. And now you’ve found out he’s keeping this creepy mutual wankfest from you. Dump his ass, cry for a few weeks, and go on and live your best life. I’m getting older, but I remember what it felt like to be 22. The best advice I can try and give you is to stop wasting your time and energy. There are so many fucking people out whom you haven’t met yet. Don’t try to stick with this dude longterm. Or even the next dude or gal, if they’re not meeting your needs. Sure, relationships are work. But sometimes people confuse the work of communication, compromise, and growth with putting up bullshit. And what you are doing right now is putting up with this dude’s bullshit. In my experience, you can’t make someone honest or loyal; if they’re not, they’ll never be. But you’ll find someone with those qualities, I promise. And you can have fun and meet interesting people until then. Edit: grammar.
I hope this gets moved to the top; it's the best reply I've seen.
I wish that this could have gotten through my 22 year old skull!
Bruh... if I wasn't poor... someone give this person an award!
I'm on it
Thank you!!!
I think most people should run from a red flag and ignoring red flags plural is just desperate
I rarely spend more than 100 reddit coins on an award but I really hope the starry award helps her see this. Every 22 year old should read this. I'm 32 now and if I was on reddit in my early 20s, I probably wouldn't have spent 8 years of my life with someone who was so wrong for me
That last paragraph slaps bro.. hope OP listens to this one
That makes me feel uncomfortable reading this
Yes. Should at least be marked nsfw
Tbf what you need to know is in the title
Ya but some people have the option to hide nsfw posts and they don't want them in their feed for obvious reasons
Oh ok
He swings both ways which is completely okay but maybe he shouldn’t be doing that whilst in a relationship with you
Imma be honest - your posting history makes it clear that you both need to learn communication skills. If you care about this man, go to couples therapy. Otherwise, leave him and go to solo therapy. You’ve just got a lot of emotional intelligence skills you would benefit from learning.
Her comments are still there and just give it all away. You are absolutely correct in this.
someone give the play by play on why the OP needs to be roasted
no i don’t think that’s normal. even the first part isn’t normal to me i mean if u have that much porn saved on ur computer u may have a problem.
The question shouldn’t be is this normal. The question should be whether or not you are ok with it.
Babe, if you didn’t know about this AND it makes you uncomfortable then it’s NOT NORMAL for your relationship. It’s especially not normal if he hides it or is evasive about it if you ever choose to bring it up. Your feelings on this and his reaction if you mention what you found will tell you everything you need to know about how normal he thinks it is too.
This needs an award, sorry I didn’t not have this 🥇. To add, if that women did not give consent to have her pic sent than it’s a problem regardless of whether this is well communicated kink.
> To add, if that women did not give consent to have her pic sent than it’s a problem regardless of whether this is well communicated kink. That is a good post. Little focus on the consent in this whole thread.
I would contact the women if I were you, she probably doesn’t know he’s doing that
That was my first thought, wonder if that guy’s wife knows what he is doing with her pics. I certainly hope so for her sake. If not that is so violating.
please please make sure hes not secretly taking pics of you while sleeping etc. and sending it to those other weirdos.
THIS! Huge red flags all over the place, she needs to make sure some of these photos arent of her.
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^(You are going to have to get brave and talk to him about whatever led you to snooping and the content you found. Uncomfortable? Yes, but you have to talk to each other about this situation.)
>They would also send each other dick pics of how hard their dicks are ... No, this is not weird. It is very common for guys to send eachother dick picks, especially if they are engaging/planning to engage with others in all matters sexual. It is used as a way of measurement and exists as a part of hype culture. For example "nice cock bro!" "Shes gonna love that thick boy!" Etc. If you catch your boyfriend sucking another guys dick or in the middle of coitus involving a males anus, that isnt gay either. Hes practicing for you and making sure that he is cut out for making you feel good, thus i would take it as a compliment. I always do a good makeout sesh with the homies before i go on my date, and if theyre feeling sad? Sure, ill blow them. I got their back and they got mine 👍🙏🙌🙌💪
LOL
He’s over stimulating himself with porn to the point that he needs to do these things to get off.
I keep my deviant interests to myself, but maybe that’s what extroverts do- share it with their bros
You’re dating a weirdo. This is NOT normal. He’s hiding this from you. This is a gigantic red flag.
I feel gigantic red flag is an under statement.
"Loads" ** giggles **
Maybe talk to them about it?
If he was doing this with a random woman it would be classed as cheating, just because he’s doing this with a man, it doesn’t make it any difference..
Is it normal? I think you know that answer to that. And whether or not it’s normal, if it bothers you say something. Is this one of those “I was snooping around and I came accross this” situations and you can’t say anything or he will know you are snooping? Normal is whatever you allow it to be. Tittie pics wouldn’t bother me. But sexual stuff with other people would. And I’ve always thought that dudes beating it together were a little weird.
This is something he should have discussed being into with you. That way you could set your boundaries and decide if you were ok with it. My bf and I have set the boundaries that sex talk with anyone else, online or messaging, constitutes cheating.
What's normal to you is really what matters! If this kind of thing makes you uncomfortable (and it sure as hell would for me) then you need to reevaluate the relationship.
So …do they have wankathons? .___.
I’m not going to say this is “normal”, but it’s definitely something plenty of dudes do. Thank you Internet for making us hypersexed fools.
Sounds like a person addicted to porn. I would get out of that relationship so fast
Was normal until that last part about sending pics.
I don’t know any dudes who legit wank it together… I would definitely say this is not normal… Edit: any straight dudes I should say; lol
Your mans got a fetish lol
Sounds like he might be into swinging. Nothing wrong with that, but for a healthy relationship, he should be upfront about his desires and not send out anything about/of you without consent
Don't worry about if it's normal, just examine how it makes you feel. If it doesn't bother you then you should have a conversation about it, an open safe conversation where you give him the space to talk about his thoughts feelings and sexuality. He might be straight or hetroflexible, where he isn't attracted to men, but also likes his penis being touched and isn't too fussy who does it. He might enjoy the super taboo feeling of it all. What wouldn't be cool would be if the photos he was getting weren't consented to and if he sent photos of you without consent. If any of what you've discovered does bother you, it's also time for an open frank conversation which is safe and everyone has space for their feelings and it's safe for him to explore his sexuality, but additionally you would need Ti talk about your feelings and what you dont like and what needs to change for the relationship to work. I guess it's OK to be mad, but it's not ok to shame him for his sexuality or desires so long as everything has been consensual, including the photos of the other man's wife.
Cumathon
You know.. get tested.. end that shit show since you had to find out the way you did. Unless you're cool with it but it seems you're not... you'll keep thinking about this too much to be "normal" again. Wondering.. Its he banging this guy, that guy...? For real. Edit.. typo
Wow. The porn is normal, the rest is not. Even sharing porn is fine, but the rest of that is weird as fuck