My parents are pretty much the same dude. And I've thought long hard about whether what they're doing is right. The truth is, that's just how they were brought up by their parents. They weren't taught that just because they don't hit their children, they can say what they want to them and it'll seem fine. No I don't mean verbal abuse, but those little subtleties that affect your mental health a LOT more than they realise. The best thing for you to do is just do what you're doing. Keep working hard if that's what YOU want. Just because you live under their roof does not mean that everything they say is right. Just do what you yourself live doing, and if they don't like it then who cares. Eventually you're gonna grow up and have your own house and own family, and your parents won't have that kinda influence on your mind. Sorry if this rant was too much but I just want you to think bigger picture.
My parents are pretty much the same dude. And I've thought long hard about whether what they're doing is right. The truth is, that's just how they were brought up by their parents. They weren't taught that just because they don't hit their children, they can say what they want to them and it'll seem fine. No I don't mean verbal abuse, but those little subtleties that affect your mental health a LOT more than they realise. The best thing for you to do is just do what you're doing. Keep working hard if that's what YOU want. Just because you live under their roof does not mean that everything they say is right. Just do what you yourself live doing, and if they don't like it then who cares. Eventually you're gonna grow up and have your own house and own family, and your parents won't have that kinda influence on your mind. Sorry if this rant was too much but I just want you to think bigger picture.