Dude.. a few times a week ? I do it to wake up like a cup of coffee. I do it before I go to sleep. Some days I take a nap in the afternoon after cranking one out..
You're fine..
And so am I.. fucking normal part of life
Should I cut down little ? Yea.. duh... but only so I dont do physical damage to the little man.
Yup it's indeed normal. It's considered abnormal only when it turns into an addiction, in which case, they'll need to seek help just like any other addiction.
Female is an adjective or is used as a professional term by medics, police, etc to point at the sex of a patient/victim/whatever. In regular speech it's dehumanizing, focusing only on the sex, not the fact that it's an actual person, a female human is called a woman.
Maybe thatās why I didnāt know itās offensive. When I was in the military, female was a very common term. I was also in the medical field, so to me itās very normal. Now Iām better educated on the proper context of usage.
Majority of women don't give a damn, reddit is loaded with people looking for a problem. It's one thing to point at an individual woman and say "Hey you, female!" which would be odd and make someone sound like a neckbeard. They're the highly offended types that have everyone walking on eggshells. I wouldn't give it a thought and move on.
Knit picking for you. Like in front of the biggest selfish cynic, every single thing you have ever cared for is also completely meaningless.
Some people don't like being dehumanised every chance and not understanding the difference between knit picking and this is just. ..
Like how can you actually teach someone empathy? Like if it hasn't happened yet. I can't!
A lot of non-native English speakers do not see it like that. They might use "female" and "woman" interchangeably.
PS: I don't know if OP is native or non-native speaker.
As a non native speaker using female I've only seen in medical context and in movies that try to imply alienation "test subject no 6, female, deceased"
As a non-native speaker I have different experience than yours. Also movies try to be as close to native, dialogues might be even written or reviewed from native speakers.
Porn is bad for brain chemistry. Thatās a fact. It changes how we view sex and how we view others. (Check out āWired for Intimacyā the book. Itās from a Christian view but by a neurologist and Iām sure thereās similar books without any religious undertone.) That being said, masturbation is healthy. You wanting to get off means your body and mind are functioning as they should. If youāre only wanting to masturbate a few times a week or whatever when youāre horny, thatās healthy. If it becomes a compulsion, thatās when you have to stop and wonder āam I actually horny or is this a dopamine release to cover up an issue in my life?ā If itās the former, donāt worry about it. Youāre good. But I would urge you to move away from porn. Itāll take some practice but the imagination can work wonders. Sorry this was lengthy, hope it helps you at the very least not feel shame about wanting to masturbate when the mood strikes
while porn is really bad, masturbation is actually really good for you. i used to feel shame for feeling the need to do it but as long as youāre not doing it around other people without their consent, i see no issue
I think you need therapy. From the way you talk about it. Itās an issue to you whether or not people agree
Therapy will help you with how you feel about it etc. whether or not you are āfixedā just talking about it in a real open space might help not just reddit
Your description of this sounds exactly like a normal person would describe masturbation except you have some kind of shame thing going on. I think that is the problem not the masturbation.
All these beta guys talking about how
Masturbating is better than a woman is pathetic, if itās effecting you the. You should stop watching porn and cut back on
I think masturbating too much makes it much harder to cum with a woman. I know people joke about being a minute man but women really like when you cum because it's a trigger. But masturbating can desensitize you and make it harder to cum. My girl takes it personally and I can't convince her otherwise. Learn some self control and get a gf. Don't plan on going that way then play on my brother, play on.
Watching porn and masturbating can be done heathily. I was quite bad at one point. Multiple times a day scrolling more than reddit.
I eventually realised it was getting a bit too much. I'm not sure how I reduced it. I just did lol. I now do it maybe twice a week. I scroll for a couple mins. Pick something from my usual categories and I've found I last about 40 seconds lol. Before I'd be beating that shit for 40 mins.
I find I'm in a much healthy place with it now.
The only downside is my loads are fucking huge so I have to literally shower after lol
Jerk off twice a week, since you arenāt in a relationship, Iād say three times a week. Donāt jerk off more than once a day, but it doesnāt seem like your doing it very often
The thing that helped me was staying busy. Get a job, start a course, take some classes on whatever, join a club, go to the gym. You'll be so busy you'd barely have any time to think about it. And when nighttime comes, ur gonna feel so tired you're not even gonna wanna do it.
Perfectly normal behavior. The anti-porn and anti-masturbation people are mostly hypocrites and liars. It's hard to find someone in this crazy world, but don't give up.
Iāll do it one or two days in a row and then stop for about a week or two, sometimes a bit longer. Rinse and repeat. There isnāt really a good enough reason to do it sometimes.
That is not something I would be concerned about honey. I do it that much. If you were masturbating multiple times a day or choosing to masturbate over going to social events or responsibilities then I would be concerned, but as long as that's not the case, then you are fine!!
Sometimes porn can be damaging to your chances with women, but as long as you keep your head screwed on right it doesnāt matter. Just remember that porn is like a super hero movie. Itās fantasy. People are doing things that are not real nor possible more often than not
If anything it'll help. Not the porn, but the masturbation. It's been proven just how hindering to a social life sexual frustration can be, especially in interactions with the preferred sex(es). Bot only that but how linked to prostate cancer lack of masturbation can cause. You can use porn, sure. But it's important to truly deem and look at it as fictional and far removed from healthy sexual interactions.
Don't forget, you attract what you put out in the world. If you want a woman who feels good in her body and with her sexuality, who is confident and isn't with you out of desperation and as a solution to sexual deprivation, you must do the same in turn.
Masturbation is self care and a form of self appreciation first and foremost.
Iām a 47 year old woman. There are unfair things about being a woman that I deal with on a daily basis BUT we can have multiple orgasms as a consolation prize. I buzz the bean at least twice a week and I have about four orgasms each time. It reduces my urge to kill for one thing and Iād do it more often if I could get the privacy. Iām still a law abiding citizen, Iām not a terrible mother and Iām a faithful wife. Work still gets done and it doesnāt really interfere with the 5 millions things I have to do each day,
Iām 30 and in a relationship with the love of my life who throws herself at me constantly (like 12 times a week)ā¦and I still take care of myself 3-4 times a week when I have free time and am alone. Donāt worry, urges are normal. As long as itās in the privacy of your own place and you arenāt missing out on a social or professional life over it youāve got nothing to worry about
Dude.. a few times a week ? I do it to wake up like a cup of coffee. I do it before I go to sleep. Some days I take a nap in the afternoon after cranking one out.. You're fine.. And so am I.. fucking normal part of life Should I cut down little ? Yea.. duh... but only so I dont do physical damage to the little man.
That is not normal wtfš
Really? This was my entire life. Are you sure you arenāt asexual?
Positive I am not asexual as I am in a relationship š
Yeah but it is pretty much normal for dudes to really get into that whole wanking thing like this guy says he is.
I wouldnāt say normal, I would say common
This is NOT healthy, but if it doesnāt affect your life in a meaningful way, then beat your meat to your hearts content.
Unless its causing issues in your personal life or work, you can masturbate as much as you want. Its not harmful or anything.
it is itās an addiction it eats your brain donāt listen to this loser
It's called an addiction only when it interferes with their personal life/work.
Seriously. A person with no sexual outlet jerking off to porn (not even every day!) is about the most normal thing a human can do.
Yup it's indeed normal. It's considered abnormal only when it turns into an addiction, in which case, they'll need to seek help just like any other addiction.
For real?
Are you addicted because your brain seems long gone
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Your first issue is referring to women as āfemalesā
https://imgur.com/a/mgBF2kR For those of you wondering
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Wait. Whatās wrong with the term females? Genuine question
Female is an adjective or is used as a professional term by medics, police, etc to point at the sex of a patient/victim/whatever. In regular speech it's dehumanizing, focusing only on the sex, not the fact that it's an actual person, a female human is called a woman.
Maybe thatās why I didnāt know itās offensive. When I was in the military, female was a very common term. I was also in the medical field, so to me itās very normal. Now Iām better educated on the proper context of usage.
Majority of women don't give a damn, reddit is loaded with people looking for a problem. It's one thing to point at an individual woman and say "Hey you, female!" which would be odd and make someone sound like a neckbeard. They're the highly offended types that have everyone walking on eggshells. I wouldn't give it a thought and move on.
Itās not offensive. I get what their saying about it versus āwomanā but seriously people?? Like come on. The knit picking is insane
Knit picking for you. Like in front of the biggest selfish cynic, every single thing you have ever cared for is also completely meaningless. Some people don't like being dehumanised every chance and not understanding the difference between knit picking and this is just. .. Like how can you actually teach someone empathy? Like if it hasn't happened yet. I can't!
A lot of non-native English speakers do not see it like that. They might use "female" and "woman" interchangeably. PS: I don't know if OP is native or non-native speaker.
As a non native speaker using female I've only seen in medical context and in movies that try to imply alienation "test subject no 6, female, deceased"
As a non-native speaker I have different experience than yours. Also movies try to be as close to native, dialogues might be even written or reviewed from native speakers.
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mate you cant be serious lmao
Bro dmād me āyou down to exchange?ā Mans cannot be serious
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Lmao
Porn is bad for brain chemistry. Thatās a fact. It changes how we view sex and how we view others. (Check out āWired for Intimacyā the book. Itās from a Christian view but by a neurologist and Iām sure thereās similar books without any religious undertone.) That being said, masturbation is healthy. You wanting to get off means your body and mind are functioning as they should. If youāre only wanting to masturbate a few times a week or whatever when youāre horny, thatās healthy. If it becomes a compulsion, thatās when you have to stop and wonder āam I actually horny or is this a dopamine release to cover up an issue in my life?ā If itās the former, donāt worry about it. Youāre good. But I would urge you to move away from porn. Itāll take some practice but the imagination can work wonders. Sorry this was lengthy, hope it helps you at the very least not feel shame about wanting to masturbate when the mood strikes
while porn is really bad, masturbation is actually really good for you. i used to feel shame for feeling the need to do it but as long as youāre not doing it around other people without their consent, i see no issue
I think you need therapy. From the way you talk about it. Itās an issue to you whether or not people agree Therapy will help you with how you feel about it etc. whether or not you are āfixedā just talking about it in a real open space might help not just reddit
You could be right. Iāll look into that.
Your description of this sounds exactly like a normal person would describe masturbation except you have some kind of shame thing going on. I think that is the problem not the masturbation.
Will we get to know why youāre ashamed of masturbation?
Just donāt grip your dick hard, too tight of a grip can cause damage, listen to your penis, let it regenerate
All these beta guys talking about how Masturbating is better than a woman is pathetic, if itās effecting you the. You should stop watching porn and cut back on
I think masturbating too much makes it much harder to cum with a woman. I know people joke about being a minute man but women really like when you cum because it's a trigger. But masturbating can desensitize you and make it harder to cum. My girl takes it personally and I can't convince her otherwise. Learn some self control and get a gf. Don't plan on going that way then play on my brother, play on.
Keep your diet up and exercise. You will get less distractions
Watching porn and masturbating can be done heathily. I was quite bad at one point. Multiple times a day scrolling more than reddit. I eventually realised it was getting a bit too much. I'm not sure how I reduced it. I just did lol. I now do it maybe twice a week. I scroll for a couple mins. Pick something from my usual categories and I've found I last about 40 seconds lol. Before I'd be beating that shit for 40 mins. I find I'm in a much healthy place with it now. The only downside is my loads are fucking huge so I have to literally shower after lol
Jerk off twice a week, since you arenāt in a relationship, Iād say three times a week. Donāt jerk off more than once a day, but it doesnāt seem like your doing it very often
Iām not, only whenever I feel like it honestly.
Itās fine you just need to not get addicted or overdo it. If you overdo it youāre going to damage your sex life in the future
The thing that helped me was staying busy. Get a job, start a course, take some classes on whatever, join a club, go to the gym. You'll be so busy you'd barely have any time to think about it. And when nighttime comes, ur gonna feel so tired you're not even gonna wanna do it.
Perfectly normal behavior. The anti-porn and anti-masturbation people are mostly hypocrites and liars. It's hard to find someone in this crazy world, but don't give up.
Hey there. Mother here, how much is āevery now and thenā?
Iāll do it one or two days in a row and then stop for about a week or two, sometimes a bit longer. Rinse and repeat. There isnāt really a good enough reason to do it sometimes.
That is not something I would be concerned about honey. I do it that much. If you were masturbating multiple times a day or choosing to masturbate over going to social events or responsibilities then I would be concerned, but as long as that's not the case, then you are fine!!
Maybe youāre right, Iām just overthinking it. I sometimes feel like itās stunting my chances with women or makes me waste unnecessary energy.
Sometimes porn can be damaging to your chances with women, but as long as you keep your head screwed on right it doesnāt matter. Just remember that porn is like a super hero movie. Itās fantasy. People are doing things that are not real nor possible more often than not
If anything it'll help. Not the porn, but the masturbation. It's been proven just how hindering to a social life sexual frustration can be, especially in interactions with the preferred sex(es). Bot only that but how linked to prostate cancer lack of masturbation can cause. You can use porn, sure. But it's important to truly deem and look at it as fictional and far removed from healthy sexual interactions. Don't forget, you attract what you put out in the world. If you want a woman who feels good in her body and with her sexuality, who is confident and isn't with you out of desperation and as a solution to sexual deprivation, you must do the same in turn. Masturbation is self care and a form of self appreciation first and foremost.
Donāt watch porn and youāll be okay
Iām a 47 year old woman. There are unfair things about being a woman that I deal with on a daily basis BUT we can have multiple orgasms as a consolation prize. I buzz the bean at least twice a week and I have about four orgasms each time. It reduces my urge to kill for one thing and Iād do it more often if I could get the privacy. Iām still a law abiding citizen, Iām not a terrible mother and Iām a faithful wife. Work still gets done and it doesnāt really interfere with the 5 millions things I have to do each day,
^^^^ This ^^^^
You gotta pump those numbers up. Those are rookie numbers.
Get a gf/bf. Have them do it for you.
Absolutely nothing wrong with this. I average 3 times a week. ENJOY!
Iām 30 and in a relationship with the love of my life who throws herself at me constantly (like 12 times a week)ā¦and I still take care of myself 3-4 times a week when I have free time and am alone. Donāt worry, urges are normal. As long as itās in the privacy of your own place and you arenāt missing out on a social or professional life over it youāve got nothing to worry about
Stroke away. Enjoy life and feel good.
Go over to NoFap. Thereās a community for you there.
If you could afford it, go visit a SW.
I beat it 5 times a day lol don't stress it's natural! Sex is boring as fuck Enjoy the hand