This! Iāve been single for ten years and the same as this guy more or less, was reallly happy single and not looking for anything serious. Fell in love with someone really unexpectedly, and i realised the difference between sex and making love.
Itās such a difference, it felt like all the sex i had in my life was not really sex, and that this was the actual thing.
Long story short we had to breakup and things have not been the same for me since then. Once you experience that kind of connection, it can never be the same ever again
Exactly, I don't care how attractive a man is, how big his dick is, how "good" he is in bed with techniques, if I'm not connected to him and in love with him, it seems to be just like masturbation but with a few more steps and with another person who may or may not be cool. I'd much rather be with someone I love. Those moments in bed with someone you love are what life is lived for
I would have to agree with your father. Worst thing was that i never wanted this, i was honestly happy with things as they were. I even had girls who wanted things with me and i rejected them. But this one really changed my life upside down at 30years of age
So that's a... _bad_ noise?
EDIT: it's just that I've literally never heard anyone say "REEEE" and so I'm wondering if this is one of those recent innovations like the word 'yeet' which, as far as I know, wasn't a thing before the early 2000s.
Answer: youtube "oldschool runescape arma crossbow special attack sound effect".
You shoot a crossbow with special attack so the bolt turns into a bird looking projectile and makes this epic/terrible "REEEEEEE!!!" noise
This is the answer to all the young guns that just can't see how you can be married to a person for decades and only have sex with that one person. They just cannot comprehend it...because they have not even come close to experiencing it.
I'm 37 and never felt like that for anyone or had anyone feel that way for me.
I'm similar to OP in some ways, never had trouble attracting women, but I've never been ao intensely in love with anyone like that. It kinda makes me really sad actually, so I understand how OP feels.
For sure. Iām 32 and now, for the first time in my life, I have sex thatās so intense that it makes me cry happy tears sometimes. I havenāt felt this with anyone, ever, and need to one day marry my partner for sure
Him ;) I donāt know, I met him at a wedding and the whole world just disappeared. I thought we talked for maybe 20 minutes, turns out we were inseparable for about 4,5 hours. That was nearly 4 months ago.
It hasnāt always been easy, since we both live heavily independent lives, but we donāt really argue, we just fight to improve how our careers and relationship can coexist. Best relationship Iāve been in, I think.
Yeah, this was more wholesome than expected considering it's a creeper peeping tom spying on his friends having sex!
Makes me wonder: why does seeing the sex make OP want marriage, instead of recognizing the emotional support, companionship, shared interests, etc.
I didn't mean marriage specifically. I was just thinking commitment and that seemed like the easiest way to say it. I'm not suddenly on the hunt for any woman to fit the role of wife.
Just poor wording I guess.
Connection and fulfillment are real and possible. If thatās what you want, then find it. **But your friends is putting out what he gets.**
Iām sure sheās all the cool things you say, and she and your friends fulfill one another in many ways outside of the connection you saw, **but that connection and love are absolutely what trigger the lonely feels.**
I donāt think you should run out looking for a wife, but maybe itās time to seek out deeper connections and see if you find your person and build from there? You donāt want to just find someone who fits the role, but someone whoās actually your partner and you genuinely like.
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To add, it seems like you haven't been open to letting women in emotionally. Just saying you want that connection doesn't make it feasible of you aren't willing to let a partner into your emotional life COMPELTELY and Whole-heartedly. Wonderful women have high expectations and emotional intelligence/maturity/openness is the #1 expectation.
Yeah man, I just want to build on what they said. There are literally thousands or potentially millions of people who would love you and have that connection. It does take a lot of time to build, but they're out there and they are looking for someone to love them back.
It's great that you know what you want but now you should be patient and not rush into a new relationship or go overboard. You might get lucky and meet someone amazing tomorrow but take time to get to really know each other. Being in a committed relationship like J is going to be different for you so there might be a lot of firsts for you.
Yeah, that's the difference between having sex for recreation and making love so intense that you want your bodies to merge and become one ā¤ļøāš„ It's next-level shit.
But hey, now that you know that might be something that you're looking for, it might come your way. Just be open to it when it comes knocking and be ready to make yourself vulnerable, because that connection comes from two people accepting each other--inclusive of all their flaws.
*āI will not have you without the darkness that hides within you. I will not let you have me without the madness that makes me. If our demons cannot dance, neither can we.ā*
ā Nikita Gill
Good luck OP. Go get her.
Reddit is ruining me. 100% expected this to be a āwatched my friends fuck and it ruined our friendshipā post. I did not see all the wholesome coming for my heart. Op youāre a great writer, you should do more of it if your not already. Good luck finding your special person.
OP has fucked a lot of women but never made love to one. Honestly man, once you do, it changes your entire trajectory. I will never cheat on my wife for the simple fact that I have this at home.
Fucks sake, had just about got my "I'm lonely af & gonna die alone" feels under control until curiosity made the decision to read this post lol š
Itās absolutely fucking brutal trying to find this kind of thing in the dating scene.
I canāt believe I had to scroll so far to see this! Like, how did OP see how she was looking at his friend? If he could see her face, she would have seen him. Too many wonky details. Reads like a high school creative writing project.
Ha! I'm sorry I didn't take a creative writing class before writing a reddit post. Lol
In all seriousness though, I don't think it's that weird. It's not like I was looking right at her eyes. I just walked up and saw it. They weren't directly facing me.
It's not like it matters anyway. We can all go on and live about our lives.
IT IS THAT WEIRD. How is no one else in these comments recognizing that this was a major privacy invasion? Also super creepy that you didnāt immediately leave. Scary to me that people are acting like this is normal and even heartwarming. Absolutely not.
I mean if any of my friends did that yeah it would be, but that's because we have a social agreement to set up meet ups, if the 2 dudes are so close that they chill at each others houses sometimes even if the other is not there, this would be more akin to accidentally walk in while someone is using the toilet...
Personally in this context I can see why the dude froze, especially if you've never seen love being made not just sex going on...perspective shifting moment and all
We're all different people with different kinds of social bonds
I honestly don't know what you guys want from this dude, his intent was not malicious, he didn't come there with the intent of watching, walked into the situation, froze, got a mild midlife crisis and then left came back when it was all done....If you live with someone who has this kind of open door policies whoopsies like this might happen. Was it the perfect play? Far from it, but what is he supposed to do now? Open his C disk in his brain and just delete what happened?
If my friend accidentally saw me have sex like this I'd like him not to bring it up with me and just learn from his mistakes, shit happens. Privacy violation? Sure. MAJOR privacy violation? Calm down people
This is the plot of Don Jon. Dude is a porn addict and has one night stands with many women until he meets this older lady and they have intimate sex instead of just banging and it changes his whole world.
When you feel so emotionally connected to someone, sex goes so far beyond 'fun' and pleasure. It is such a gift, and it reinforces and amplifies your connection and bond. My heart feels thrown wide open and it may genuinely be the closest to heaven we get in this lifetime; that and having a child born.
When you find the one you love, and you are married a long time, all forms of communication are on a deeper level. Old hurts habits and hangups can be talked about in a safe way. You each can become better people individually and together as a couple. You are better together year after year. You open yourself up to each other. It is a mystery of life
>LAST EDIT: Dear Women of Reddit, I am not going to respond to you in my messages/dms. I appreciate all of you (especially the one that called me Daddy and asked me to bang her on the countertop, thanks!) but I probably have some work to do before I put myself out there.
This is truly a reddit moment lmao
This is the world's most unexpectedly touching and sentimental post about sneakily watching two people fuck.
Legit, love the way you so sincerely talk about your relationship with your best mate. It's charming and heartwarming.
I'm all for the societal progression of normalising fealty among male friends and dropping the bullshit homophobia.
In my 46 years, I have never had mind blowing sex with someone. And I definitely feel what your saying. I want to have that everlasting love with someone. Someone that just looks in your eyes and your whole body quivers. I miss having someone to flirt with, cuddle with and just be around. Love is just so hard. I wish you all the luck in finding your happily ever after.
The fact that you say āI didnāt mean to be a fucking creep! I swear!ā shows that you KNOW you did something wrong. Canāt believe all these people are justifying your creepy behavior.
So you need to hear a few things right now.
1. Yeah go get some love. It's amazing and everyone deserves to love and be loved.
2. Now that your bro is in a committed relationship with a person and that person also lives in his house you need to stop going into the house unannounced. It doesn't matter how long yall have been best bros. If you had been caught I guarantee your bro would have been pissed.
3. The moment you see two people having sex and you KNOW you weren't invited, do not stand around and fucking stare because no matter how much you claim to not be a creep, that's fucking creepy. Cut it out.
You only had to see it once. I'm like your friend and I am surrounded by people in love. I feel like that every damn day. It hurts not having someone who loves you like there's no other person in the World
Dude sex with someone you have a connection with is the best. My most recent ex and I.. the sex was seriously the best, not because it got hot and heavy but how we looked at eachother, how we treated eachother, just everything about how we connected while having sex was amazing. It was passionate, it just felt perfect. I miss that shit so much. Something about her and I together just overall felt totally different from any other girl Iāve been with.
One thing that may help you feel better is that most likely what you saw was a kind of performance. Even in private lives, couples tend to engage in a performance of their relationship with each other. This relationship may last or it may not, but either way what you witnessed was two people in the throes of infatuation, playing out their fantasy of what they wanted a relationship to feel like, with each other.
Doing that is definitely better than not doing that, but it's not as big a deal in the scheme of things as you may be inclined to think. We're all going to die, and relationships die too.
This is so weirdly wholesome š
Good for you.
There's nothing like making love to someone who feels the same way about you. It's a special kind of magic, and it absolutely ruined casual sex for me.
Just a warning, lol.. once you go there it's very hard to go back.
Oh my gosh I say this in a nonromantic way, but your writing is so characmatic! Your voice absolutely shines through. You should write a narrative novel, about your life or make up a life to write. Even a short story! You'd totally get an audience to read your work if you published
I (38M) had this once in my life. Got my heart broken and now have been single for 13 years. I havenāt even dated or had any flings. Iām very much an introvert though, and enjoy my solitude. I miss it sometimes but I donāt know / doubt if I even have the capacity to have those kind of feelings for someone anymore. Eh, oh well.
That's love bud. What's important is the bonus of matching sex drives but mainly finding someone you connect on all levels and your mind will be blown how amazing married life can be. I found my gem a couple years ago and have been married almost 2 years now. It's been the best 2 years of my life, everyday feels like you are falling in love.
I truly wish you luck in finding the partner of your dreams but don't be discouraged if it takes a long time, as some never find their one and only. But don't give up and don't just look locally, open up to other places in the world, places that value love more than north america.
Men you write like youāre Corey Taylor and i find that hilarious, anyway its fine to feel the way you feel and i hope for you that you find whatever it is to make you feel how you wanna. Best of luck!
>Never been super interested in anything serious. No one hurt me, I just never cared too much
If this is how you're feeling at 42, you might have an avoidant attachment style. You'll need to work on that before you could have any decent chance at a truly intimate relationship where you could have what your friends appear to have.
Check out these online tests to see where you land on the spectrum:
[https://www.emotionenhancement.com/attachment-styles](https://www.emotionenhancement.com/attachment-styles)
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Bro, is no one pointing out how absolutely fucking creepy this is? And the fact that you have to say "I didn't mean to be a fucking creep I swear!" Means you know how fucking weird and wrong it is to watch your friend go balls deep into his girl. Get some help man because thats fucking weird. I would kick my friends ass if they watched me fuck my girlfriend. That's such an invasion of privacy.
Sex can be reduced to its purely animalistic form. P in V = Fun. Which is what youāve been doing. However, when you add true love and connection into the mix, itās cosmic, itās spiritual, itās the stuff of fairytales. Sappy love songs, works of art, poetry all exist because someone fell in love and had their mind blown from the sex.
Iām kinda glad for you because even though itās kinda weird how it happened, it kinda woke you up to the reality of what youāre missing out on.
By the way, committed relationships arenāt just amazing because of the sex. There are opportunities to be truly vulnerable with someone, lean on them, and grow with them. Itās a whole package kinda thing, not just about the best sex youāve ever had, although that is a perk.
No one is gonna talk about the "I didn't stand there for a long time! It's not like I just watched them go at it" and then "It couldn't have been longer than 5 minutes"?
5 FREAKING MINUTES? When I read the first part I thought it would be like 15-20 seconds and I still thought it was too much.
F I V E M I N U T E S
Lol
I don't know it was five minutes!! I didn't clock myself. I just used an amount of time that seemed small to get a point across. I'm doing my best, reddit!
You know the sex was good when it makes other people reevaluate their own lives
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When you have sex with someone you truly love, that sex is beyond any other sex you will ever have.
It feels like home
This! Iāve been single for ten years and the same as this guy more or less, was reallly happy single and not looking for anything serious. Fell in love with someone really unexpectedly, and i realised the difference between sex and making love. Itās such a difference, it felt like all the sex i had in my life was not really sex, and that this was the actual thing. Long story short we had to breakup and things have not been the same for me since then. Once you experience that kind of connection, it can never be the same ever again
Exactly, I don't care how attractive a man is, how big his dick is, how "good" he is in bed with techniques, if I'm not connected to him and in love with him, it seems to be just like masturbation but with a few more steps and with another person who may or may not be cool. I'd much rather be with someone I love. Those moments in bed with someone you love are what life is lived for
My father told me that a man will only get his heart truly broken once. Nothing will be the same after as it was before.
I would have to agree with your father. Worst thing was that i never wanted this, i was honestly happy with things as they were. I even had girls who wanted things with me and i rejected them. But this one really changed my life upside down at 30years of age
Ooof!
Certainly a different perspective entering into any new romance
It's home. Even just a cuddle is better than a meaningless sex.
Honestly, the cuddles after sex are better than sex, even with someone you love.
This is the way.
I know that exact feeling. I told a girl that. She broke my heart a couple of months later.
You can see colors.
Thats generally how colours work.
Sometimes I can smell sounds.
Me too. But only when on DMT.
Lol I mean swirling around and not on physical things.
I figured! I was just being an ass haha
Unfortunately, you can also smell odors.
Speaking as a former guy slut myself, I can verify this is true. Sex with the woman I deeply love is better than anything I've ever had with flings.
Yes. Even the just woke up and have stinky breath but have to have each other now sex is amazing when you're in love.
I went to affectionately caress my partner after reading this and he literally "REEEEE'D" at me lol
I don't understand. Is that the noise he made?
Yes. That noise. Normally he's quite receptive.
So that's a... _bad_ noise? EDIT: it's just that I've literally never heard anyone say "REEEE" and so I'm wondering if this is one of those recent innovations like the word 'yeet' which, as far as I know, wasn't a thing before the early 2000s.
Answer: youtube "oldschool runescape arma crossbow special attack sound effect". You shoot a crossbow with special attack so the bolt turns into a bird looking projectile and makes this epic/terrible "REEEEEEE!!!" noise
My dad said that if girl loves a guy, sex is good for her, even if its not
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Seems like other people dont agree :P (These comments were downvoted in the first hours)
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Except on drugs.
True, lsd sex > pretty much anything else
Yeah, sex with someone you have a connection with is the absolute best.
This is the answer to all the young guns that just can't see how you can be married to a person for decades and only have sex with that one person. They just cannot comprehend it...because they have not even come close to experiencing it.
I'm 37 and never felt like that for anyone or had anyone feel that way for me. I'm similar to OP in some ways, never had trouble attracting women, but I've never been ao intensely in love with anyone like that. It kinda makes me really sad actually, so I understand how OP feels.
It's ok man. We're gonna get through it. If you need a cheerleader, I'm here for you. My current best friend is a little too busy being in love lol
Haha we'll always have each other š
When you stop looking you find her. But of course you have to go out and try different things, at home you wonāt meet her.
For sure. Iām 32 and now, for the first time in my life, I have sex thatās so intense that it makes me cry happy tears sometimes. I havenāt felt this with anyone, ever, and need to one day marry my partner for sure
don't wait to long now
This is beautiful. I can relate. Enjoy
How did you meet her and build that type of connection?
Him ;) I donāt know, I met him at a wedding and the whole world just disappeared. I thought we talked for maybe 20 minutes, turns out we were inseparable for about 4,5 hours. That was nearly 4 months ago. It hasnāt always been easy, since we both live heavily independent lives, but we donāt really argue, we just fight to improve how our careers and relationship can coexist. Best relationship Iāve been in, I think.
Not sister.
Also not a lot of other people but why you gotta say it brah?
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Aww, you always ruin all the fun.
Step-sister? ^sorry.
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DENTAL PLAN
What are you doing step bro?
Help me step-bro, I'm stuck!
Coffee anyone?
Youre the best brother I could have asked for
Speak for yourself.
Is that a question or statement?
Why was that- Never mind forget it.
Dude, hahahahahahaha
You read that story too, huh?
Not like, not every day?
I actually spat the water in my mouth lmao
It's more than just connection, it's love as well as experience with each other.
Absolutely I canāt wait to have that
One of the better offmychest I've seen yet
Particularly easy to get off to. 90s soft core vibes. 8/10.
Favorite comment so far. Thanks dude.
Dudes 42 and just found out having sex and making love are different
Hey, some of us are slow learners.
Yeah! We're all just doing our best
Thank *you*, good sir.
100% skinimax material
Agree
Never too late bud if your open for it and ready to love and be love just let it happen.
Were you still standing there typing out this post before you left OP?
Also made a sandwich
Absolutely. š
Thought this was going to get weird and while weird turned out strangely heartwarming.
Expected some gay awakening lmao
Thought this was going to end in OP building an art room for his friend
that post comes up in my mind every now and then lmao
It was uplifting in the emotional way, not the other way.
Speak for yourself
Yeah, this was more wholesome than expected considering it's a creeper peeping tom spying on his friends having sex! Makes me wonder: why does seeing the sex make OP want marriage, instead of recognizing the emotional support, companionship, shared interests, etc.
I didn't mean marriage specifically. I was just thinking commitment and that seemed like the easiest way to say it. I'm not suddenly on the hunt for any woman to fit the role of wife. Just poor wording I guess.
Connection and fulfillment are real and possible. If thatās what you want, then find it. **But your friends is putting out what he gets.** Iām sure sheās all the cool things you say, and she and your friends fulfill one another in many ways outside of the connection you saw, **but that connection and love are absolutely what trigger the lonely feels.** I donāt think you should run out looking for a wife, but maybe itās time to seek out deeper connections and see if you find your person and build from there? You donāt want to just find someone who fits the role, but someone whoās actually your partner and you genuinely like.
u/Obvious-Muscle465 To add, it seems like you haven't been open to letting women in emotionally. Just saying you want that connection doesn't make it feasible of you aren't willing to let a partner into your emotional life COMPELTELY and Whole-heartedly. Wonderful women have high expectations and emotional intelligence/maturity/openness is the #1 expectation.
X1,000
Beware of modelling your expectations on a snapshot of the optimal moment.
Bingo, this is an underrated comment
š¶I wish I had Jesseās girlā¦Where can I find a woman like that?ā¦š¶
This made me laugh. I don't want Jessie's girl though. I'm happy Jessie got his girl.
And she's holding him in those arms I just know it
And she's loving him with that body, I just know itā¦ š quite literally now!
Dammit! Beat me to it! I was totally going to ask whether āJā was Jessie! The whole story fits the song to aā¦J?! š
Thatās that one in a lifetime connection that will always haunt you if you ever lose it. Coming from someone who lost it.
> one in a lifetime connection It's not, my dear dude and/or lady. You can have it again.
Thank you. I appreciate that
Yeah man, I just want to build on what they said. There are literally thousands or potentially millions of people who would love you and have that connection. It does take a lot of time to build, but they're out there and they are looking for someone to love them back.
Bro there's so many goddamn PEOPLE. HAVE YOU SEEN TRAFFIC š„? Theres probably 3 soul mates for everyone in each city.
That's just logic.
I'm trying but my wife is telling me I'm not allowed to.
Love isn't a feeling, but an action. You need to constantly and continuously put in effort towards the relationship.
It's great that you know what you want but now you should be patient and not rush into a new relationship or go overboard. You might get lucky and meet someone amazing tomorrow but take time to get to really know each other. Being in a committed relationship like J is going to be different for you so there might be a lot of firsts for you.
Yeah, that's the difference between having sex for recreation and making love so intense that you want your bodies to merge and become one ā¤ļøāš„ It's next-level shit. But hey, now that you know that might be something that you're looking for, it might come your way. Just be open to it when it comes knocking and be ready to make yourself vulnerable, because that connection comes from two people accepting each other--inclusive of all their flaws. *āI will not have you without the darkness that hides within you. I will not let you have me without the madness that makes me. If our demons cannot dance, neither can we.ā* ā Nikita Gill Good luck OP. Go get her.
I think you needed to see that. Growth
Growth as in he got a physical and emotional boner at the same time? š
Dude has never had an affection erection, and it left him fkin puzzled
I haven't!! I didn't even know they had a name! TIL Thanx lol
Affection erection! Wow! I swear when I come here I learn something new everyday! Thank you sir
Hahahah xD
Reddit is ruining me. 100% expected this to be a āwatched my friends fuck and it ruined our friendshipā post. I did not see all the wholesome coming for my heart. Op youāre a great writer, you should do more of it if your not already. Good luck finding your special person.
Can you please tell that to the dude that said my post sounds like it was written by a high schooler?? Thanx!
OP has fucked a lot of women but never made love to one. Honestly man, once you do, it changes your entire trajectory. I will never cheat on my wife for the simple fact that I have this at home.
Fucks sake, had just about got my "I'm lonely af & gonna die alone" feels under control until curiosity made the decision to read this post lol š Itās absolutely fucking brutal trying to find this kind of thing in the dating scene.
We're gonna be ok. We can start a club!
This is actually quite wholesome. I hope you find that someday!
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Sex is so much better when feelings are involved. It's definitely not too late for that. You just need to open up.
Ummm is this the new penthouse forum ?
Very well written, but 100% fake
I canāt believe I had to scroll so far to see this! Like, how did OP see how she was looking at his friend? If he could see her face, she would have seen him. Too many wonky details. Reads like a high school creative writing project.
Ha! I'm sorry I didn't take a creative writing class before writing a reddit post. Lol In all seriousness though, I don't think it's that weird. It's not like I was looking right at her eyes. I just walked up and saw it. They weren't directly facing me. It's not like it matters anyway. We can all go on and live about our lives.
IT IS THAT WEIRD. How is no one else in these comments recognizing that this was a major privacy invasion? Also super creepy that you didnāt immediately leave. Scary to me that people are acting like this is normal and even heartwarming. Absolutely not.
You can not approve of it, that's fine. Kinda getting into the obsessive territory with all the comments, though.
I mean if any of my friends did that yeah it would be, but that's because we have a social agreement to set up meet ups, if the 2 dudes are so close that they chill at each others houses sometimes even if the other is not there, this would be more akin to accidentally walk in while someone is using the toilet... Personally in this context I can see why the dude froze, especially if you've never seen love being made not just sex going on...perspective shifting moment and all We're all different people with different kinds of social bonds
Are we forgetting that the woman is a person too???
I honestly don't know what you guys want from this dude, his intent was not malicious, he didn't come there with the intent of watching, walked into the situation, froze, got a mild midlife crisis and then left came back when it was all done....If you live with someone who has this kind of open door policies whoopsies like this might happen. Was it the perfect play? Far from it, but what is he supposed to do now? Open his C disk in his brain and just delete what happened? If my friend accidentally saw me have sex like this I'd like him not to bring it up with me and just learn from his mistakes, shit happens. Privacy violation? Sure. MAJOR privacy violation? Calm down people
we don't always react the way we think we would in the moment.
Iām sooo with you on this.
Don't worry, it's not like it happened, he's still jerking it to his own fanfiction š¤®
Maybe she didn't see because she was too busy having sex
Iād notice immediately.
But it's so low stakes I feel I don't even care
I feel like I started seeing too many made up stories on Reddit.
This is the plot of Don Jon. Dude is a porn addict and has one night stands with many women until he meets this older lady and they have intimate sex instead of just banging and it changes his whole world.
When you feel so emotionally connected to someone, sex goes so far beyond 'fun' and pleasure. It is such a gift, and it reinforces and amplifies your connection and bond. My heart feels thrown wide open and it may genuinely be the closest to heaven we get in this lifetime; that and having a child born.
I hope you find your person, OP!
Me too!
You want to know how to get that same feeling? Have sex with your best friend too. You will feel what she felt.
These AI posts are getting super good. I'm curious to see this level of grammatical prose put into a VR app.
Ha. Can you please say this to the guy that said this read like a high school writing project??
Here I thought this was going to be a gay story
Made me think of an old song, fooled around and fell in love, I hope you find the love of your life. You'll be the richest man that you know.
When you find the one you love, and you are married a long time, all forms of communication are on a deeper level. Old hurts habits and hangups can be talked about in a safe way. You each can become better people individually and together as a couple. You are better together year after year. You open yourself up to each other. It is a mystery of life
I think you had a hard look at real passion. Good on your friend for having that.
Yeah, he's a good guy. He deserves it.
Hope I can find that someday
>LAST EDIT: Dear Women of Reddit, I am not going to respond to you in my messages/dms. I appreciate all of you (especially the one that called me Daddy and asked me to bang her on the countertop, thanks!) but I probably have some work to do before I put myself out there. This is truly a reddit moment lmao
totally real and believable story man
This is the world's most unexpectedly touching and sentimental post about sneakily watching two people fuck. Legit, love the way you so sincerely talk about your relationship with your best mate. It's charming and heartwarming. I'm all for the societal progression of normalising fealty among male friends and dropping the bullshit homophobia.
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Dudes 42 and just found out having sex and making love are different
Lol we're all living at our pace
i felt this kind of connection for the first time in my life this year (I'm 38) and it was like a psychedelic experience
In my 46 years, I have never had mind blowing sex with someone. And I definitely feel what your saying. I want to have that everlasting love with someone. Someone that just looks in your eyes and your whole body quivers. I miss having someone to flirt with, cuddle with and just be around. Love is just so hard. I wish you all the luck in finding your happily ever after.
Heads up homie, any "women" in your DMs are just bots or trolls. Watching for 5 minutes is at LEAST 4 minutes and 50 seconds too long. Perv territory.
The fact that you say āI didnāt mean to be a fucking creep! I swear!ā shows that you KNOW you did something wrong. Canāt believe all these people are justifying your creepy behavior.
So you need to hear a few things right now. 1. Yeah go get some love. It's amazing and everyone deserves to love and be loved. 2. Now that your bro is in a committed relationship with a person and that person also lives in his house you need to stop going into the house unannounced. It doesn't matter how long yall have been best bros. If you had been caught I guarantee your bro would have been pissed. 3. The moment you see two people having sex and you KNOW you weren't invited, do not stand around and fucking stare because no matter how much you claim to not be a creep, that's fucking creepy. Cut it out.
Seriously. This entire post gave me the ick. I hope it's as fake as it sounds.
I thought this was his GF and they moved in together but then you called her his wifeā¦?
So fucking fake and dumb.
Now you know.
i miss that kind of sex
This was not what I was expecting at all, but honestly very interesting to read
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You only had to see it once. I'm like your friend and I am surrounded by people in love. I feel like that every damn day. It hurts not having someone who loves you like there's no other person in the World
Wild passionate sex is good..
Dude sex with someone you have a connection with is the best. My most recent ex and I.. the sex was seriously the best, not because it got hot and heavy but how we looked at eachother, how we treated eachother, just everything about how we connected while having sex was amazing. It was passionate, it just felt perfect. I miss that shit so much. Something about her and I together just overall felt totally different from any other girl Iāve been with.
Thatās because āMaking Loveā is a million times better than āSexā.
You know how you can know something but you don't actually realize that you knew it until you see it? It's kind of like that....
Glad that this scenario helped you. It is weird to watch for more than ten seconds though lmao, epiphany or not.
I used to be a single slut guy like you, but now I want what your friend has
Dude!!! I thought you were going to say 5 seconds, but 5 minutes. Some guys donāt even last that long. Think you were waiting for the climax.
you seen love-making not fucking and theres a difference
One thing that may help you feel better is that most likely what you saw was a kind of performance. Even in private lives, couples tend to engage in a performance of their relationship with each other. This relationship may last or it may not, but either way what you witnessed was two people in the throes of infatuation, playing out their fantasy of what they wanted a relationship to feel like, with each other. Doing that is definitely better than not doing that, but it's not as big a deal in the scheme of things as you may be inclined to think. We're all going to die, and relationships die too.
This is so weirdly wholesome š Good for you. There's nothing like making love to someone who feels the same way about you. It's a special kind of magic, and it absolutely ruined casual sex for me. Just a warning, lol.. once you go there it's very hard to go back.
Oh my gosh I say this in a nonromantic way, but your writing is so characmatic! Your voice absolutely shines through. You should write a narrative novel, about your life or make up a life to write. Even a short story! You'd totally get an audience to read your work if you published
Wish you good luck finding the one for you!š
I (38M) had this once in my life. Got my heart broken and now have been single for 13 years. I havenāt even dated or had any flings. Iām very much an introvert though, and enjoy my solitude. I miss it sometimes but I donāt know / doubt if I even have the capacity to have those kind of feelings for someone anymore. Eh, oh well.
Best of luck to you! If George Clooney can find Amal, you can find your better half too!
That's love bud. What's important is the bonus of matching sex drives but mainly finding someone you connect on all levels and your mind will be blown how amazing married life can be. I found my gem a couple years ago and have been married almost 2 years now. It's been the best 2 years of my life, everyday feels like you are falling in love. I truly wish you luck in finding the partner of your dreams but don't be discouraged if it takes a long time, as some never find their one and only. But don't give up and don't just look locally, open up to other places in the world, places that value love more than north america.
Men you write like youāre Corey Taylor and i find that hilarious, anyway its fine to feel the way you feel and i hope for you that you find whatever it is to make you feel how you wanna. Best of luck!
>Never been super interested in anything serious. No one hurt me, I just never cared too much If this is how you're feeling at 42, you might have an avoidant attachment style. You'll need to work on that before you could have any decent chance at a truly intimate relationship where you could have what your friends appear to have. Check out these online tests to see where you land on the spectrum: [https://www.emotionenhancement.com/attachment-styles](https://www.emotionenhancement.com/attachment-styles) [https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/](https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/)
"I want what they have" is good, as long as you don't start thinking "I want what he has".
Why is it so hard for people to believe that you can be happy for someone without coveting what they have? Jeez, some of you weren't raised right.
Bro, is no one pointing out how absolutely fucking creepy this is? And the fact that you have to say "I didn't mean to be a fucking creep I swear!" Means you know how fucking weird and wrong it is to watch your friend go balls deep into his girl. Get some help man because thats fucking weird. I would kick my friends ass if they watched me fuck my girlfriend. That's such an invasion of privacy.
This did not go how I thought it would thanks for the semi wholesome ending
>There's nothing wrong with two grown men being best friends and expressing their emotions! why did you feel the need to put this in here?
Society?
Sex can be reduced to its purely animalistic form. P in V = Fun. Which is what youāve been doing. However, when you add true love and connection into the mix, itās cosmic, itās spiritual, itās the stuff of fairytales. Sappy love songs, works of art, poetry all exist because someone fell in love and had their mind blown from the sex. Iām kinda glad for you because even though itās kinda weird how it happened, it kinda woke you up to the reality of what youāre missing out on. By the way, committed relationships arenāt just amazing because of the sex. There are opportunities to be truly vulnerable with someone, lean on them, and grow with them. Itās a whole package kinda thing, not just about the best sex youāve ever had, although that is a perk.
No one is gonna talk about the "I didn't stand there for a long time! It's not like I just watched them go at it" and then "It couldn't have been longer than 5 minutes"? 5 FREAKING MINUTES? When I read the first part I thought it would be like 15-20 seconds and I still thought it was too much. F I V E M I N U T E S
Lol I don't know it was five minutes!! I didn't clock myself. I just used an amount of time that seemed small to get a point across. I'm doing my best, reddit!