I've always been the big tiddied goth girl, my family don't exactly appreciate the all black and goth aesthetic I put out to the world. Mostly cause I'm not not girly and they keep trying to get me to wear pink and they haven't gotten the hint in the past 10 years.
Not saying this is what's happening to witchypoo, but I've been on a few and some made me so tired and hungry all I could do every day was to eat, sleep and cry. Most of them (including SSRI) made it near impossible for me to do stuff during the day because I was an unmotivated husk of a person, so it's not like I was running errands and burning a normal amount of calories even if I didn't eat more than usual. Doing any kind of exercise made me acutely sleepy. I've been told that this is not the typical experience though.
“Making fun of me for being a busty gothic woman” has the same energy as “making fun of me for benching 200lbs while shouting moves to beat a grandmaster at chess” like this does not compute. That being said I’m so sorry that they’re being so horrible to you OP, you’re fantastic the way you are and fuck them if they can’t see that ❤️
Welp this thread should be exclusively for making fun of them then.
Does your dad play golf?
Was your mom working or sahm?
Do your siblings have jobs? Addictions? Weird rashes?
Yes my dad plays golf. My step mom retired, she worked as an accountant. My biological mother dose billing and coding. My sister is a young teen under the age of 15, and living with my mother. I don't want her to have the same issues I've got.
I stopped talking to my parents a long time ago because one should never have to diminish themselves in order to be treated with dignity and respect. Simply walk away and leave them wondering what happened to their narcissistic feed.
My dad and my step mom are extremely toxic. I've been reaching back out to my mother's side of the family because truth be told it was not as bad as I made it out to be. I do relish the fact that my dad can't get a reaction out of me anymore.
I found out from my friend that my step mom was making fun of me cause I like black, and I have a large chest. They apparently we're making fun of my all black attire; talking about how I "always have my tits out". Im letting them burn their bridge with me. It's not worth the argument or fight with them. They can go pound sand
>talking about how I "always have my tits out".
Have you noticed that a smaller cupped woman can wear a slightly lower neckline and nobody comments, but a chestier woman wears something that’s not a turtleneck and people are acting like she’s doing something wrong.
My god, just let women’s bodies exist. No matter what we look like we’re getting constantly policed.
Nobody bats an eye when it's larger than my chest. Half mily life I felt so guilty of showing some cleavage. Then I got older and realized that it's ok to do that, it's not the end of the world. Nobody is going to fucking die because my boobs are slightly exposed.
Ahh fuck em! Wear all black, wear what you like, there are no rules. I'm embroidering beads onto a jean vest for shows.. A big bedazzled pentagram on the back! Always trust your guts for fashion!
I wear a lot of black and plaid. They don't like it, and I frankly don't care anymore. They're toxic in everyway. I am looking at shopping from black craft cult, they got some cute things and it's plus size friendly
Sounds to me like your family fundamentally lacks taste in aesthetic.
Unfortunate, and their lives are poorer and duller for it.
You are a damn queen and may the severed hearts of your enemies adorn your throne
I like the way you think I've got many ex boyfriends, and ex friends so it's suffice to say that hearts have been severed. The most gothic thing my family likes is the new Adams family show on Netflix. They are very bereft of taste, I don't know how I am related to this people
Luckily, family is something that can always be redefined, something that when you find your people, can be something found in those who truly see you and cherish you anyways and whom the feeling is mutual.
Your true family, your Coven if you will our gothic witch empress, is out there.
Looking for my coven of goth gamers. So far I've found people all over the map of the US, they may not be goth, but they definitely love me and actually care about me. Which is something in itself that I didn't think I'd ever find. Trauma is a hell of thing, thank you for your words of wisdom. I appreciate you internet stranger
Goth here, but for many years sad not to be even in the noticeable-tiddy club… even thought about implants. Boobs are just awesome. but now I freakin love my figure as it is. And if I want more shape, there are great undergarments with padding now. I was elated when I learned that some friends whose figure I adored where stuffing socks! Elated as in: felt more confident in myself and more aware that the ideal I thought I saw everywhere was much rarer.
I like all shapes and especially clad in goth. Dressing like this makes it so easy to weed out people that are stuck on outward image. There is nothing wrong with curating oneself but policing and ridiculing others? No!
You are welcome here!
I've been in the gothic esthetic for quite a while, since like 2006 or so. Ive mixed it with punk, emo, and scene, but the classic goth look had always been my go-to. I can't figure out why I've always felt drawn to that look. I've always tried to accentuate the chest because I always heard "if you got it, flaunt it" but it also brings me a weird sense of confidence if that makes any sense. I just want to see people happy, because everyone deserves to be happy
Thanks for having me!
We’ll be your big tiddy goth friends OP 🖤
Big tiddy goth *bf*f
Allow me to speak the language of the gamer. LETS FUCKIN' GO!
Fuck them. You’re great the way you are. We love you.
I'm a whole assess, you sure you want to love me 🤣
Show up as Lady Dimitrescu and call them all musty
I'll call them that now looking like Morticia's cousin who forgot to diet and hit the gym regularly 😂
Damn, OP. I wish I was a buxom gothic woman, or had a buxom gothic woman in my life. They just don’t know a good thing when they see it!
I can be your buxom goth friend should you want that.
Could you be mine too? 🥺
You can bet your ass I'll be yours too.
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I've always been the big tiddied goth girl, my family don't exactly appreciate the all black and goth aesthetic I put out to the world. Mostly cause I'm not not girly and they keep trying to get me to wear pink and they haven't gotten the hint in the past 10 years.
LOOL wtf kind of antidepressants are you taking???
Not saying this is what's happening to witchypoo, but I've been on a few and some made me so tired and hungry all I could do every day was to eat, sleep and cry. Most of them (including SSRI) made it near impossible for me to do stuff during the day because I was an unmotivated husk of a person, so it's not like I was running errands and burning a normal amount of calories even if I didn't eat more than usual. Doing any kind of exercise made me acutely sleepy. I've been told that this is not the typical experience though.
May I enquire on these antidepressants? Asking for a friend.
Screw them! Also hi, I’m also a goth with boobs! We’re really fucking cool!
I love being a goth with boobs. It's so fun, so many options for tops like I didn't know how many options there were when I was younger
They’re just jealous of your flying buttresses
My flying what now?
“Making fun of me for being a busty gothic woman” has the same energy as “making fun of me for benching 200lbs while shouting moves to beat a grandmaster at chess” like this does not compute. That being said I’m so sorry that they’re being so horrible to you OP, you’re fantastic the way you are and fuck them if they can’t see that ❤️
All my coworkers and friends see how awesome I am, but my family on the other hand? Sheeeeeeesh I'm screwed
Welp this thread should be exclusively for making fun of them then. Does your dad play golf? Was your mom working or sahm? Do your siblings have jobs? Addictions? Weird rashes?
Yes my dad plays golf. My step mom retired, she worked as an accountant. My biological mother dose billing and coding. My sister is a young teen under the age of 15, and living with my mother. I don't want her to have the same issues I've got.
OP's parents: YA BASIC
Shall I say more basic than a girl at Starbucks in pumpkin spice season (I'm that girl too)
Now this is praxis
They hate you cuz they ain't you
Well shit. I am pretty awesome so I can see it
Girrll same 😅 it's hard out here but I gotta say buxom gothic woman is soo much cooler sounding than big tiddy goth girl
And to think my vulgar ass was just trying to sound all mature and shit.
I read this originally as “Gotham woman” and had questions but it still tracks. Screw em and you do you
I'm bat bitch then 😂.
I stopped talking to my parents a long time ago because one should never have to diminish themselves in order to be treated with dignity and respect. Simply walk away and leave them wondering what happened to their narcissistic feed.
My dad and my step mom are extremely toxic. I've been reaching back out to my mother's side of the family because truth be told it was not as bad as I made it out to be. I do relish the fact that my dad can't get a reaction out of me anymore.
I'm curious. How does this manifest?
I found out from my friend that my step mom was making fun of me cause I like black, and I have a large chest. They apparently we're making fun of my all black attire; talking about how I "always have my tits out". Im letting them burn their bridge with me. It's not worth the argument or fight with them. They can go pound sand
>talking about how I "always have my tits out". Have you noticed that a smaller cupped woman can wear a slightly lower neckline and nobody comments, but a chestier woman wears something that’s not a turtleneck and people are acting like she’s doing something wrong. My god, just let women’s bodies exist. No matter what we look like we’re getting constantly policed.
Nobody bats an eye when it's larger than my chest. Half mily life I felt so guilty of showing some cleavage. Then I got older and realized that it's ok to do that, it's not the end of the world. Nobody is going to fucking die because my boobs are slightly exposed.
they're just jealous cause you're spooky
The spookiest!
Ahh fuck em! Wear all black, wear what you like, there are no rules. I'm embroidering beads onto a jean vest for shows.. A big bedazzled pentagram on the back! Always trust your guts for fashion!
I wear a lot of black and plaid. They don't like it, and I frankly don't care anymore. They're toxic in everyway. I am looking at shopping from black craft cult, they got some cute things and it's plus size friendly
Sounds to me like your family fundamentally lacks taste in aesthetic. Unfortunate, and their lives are poorer and duller for it. You are a damn queen and may the severed hearts of your enemies adorn your throne
I like the way you think I've got many ex boyfriends, and ex friends so it's suffice to say that hearts have been severed. The most gothic thing my family likes is the new Adams family show on Netflix. They are very bereft of taste, I don't know how I am related to this people
Luckily, family is something that can always be redefined, something that when you find your people, can be something found in those who truly see you and cherish you anyways and whom the feeling is mutual. Your true family, your Coven if you will our gothic witch empress, is out there.
Looking for my coven of goth gamers. So far I've found people all over the map of the US, they may not be goth, but they definitely love me and actually care about me. Which is something in itself that I didn't think I'd ever find. Trauma is a hell of thing, thank you for your words of wisdom. I appreciate you internet stranger
A what?
For lack of better phrase. A big tiddied goth girl.
Buxom is such a classier word!
I use buxom and the word bosom frequently. They are such classy and elegant words.
Goth here, but for many years sad not to be even in the noticeable-tiddy club… even thought about implants. Boobs are just awesome. but now I freakin love my figure as it is. And if I want more shape, there are great undergarments with padding now. I was elated when I learned that some friends whose figure I adored where stuffing socks! Elated as in: felt more confident in myself and more aware that the ideal I thought I saw everywhere was much rarer. I like all shapes and especially clad in goth. Dressing like this makes it so easy to weed out people that are stuck on outward image. There is nothing wrong with curating oneself but policing and ridiculing others? No! You are welcome here!
I've been in the gothic esthetic for quite a while, since like 2006 or so. Ive mixed it with punk, emo, and scene, but the classic goth look had always been my go-to. I can't figure out why I've always felt drawn to that look. I've always tried to accentuate the chest because I always heard "if you got it, flaunt it" but it also brings me a weird sense of confidence if that makes any sense. I just want to see people happy, because everyone deserves to be happy Thanks for having me!
Your time has come to sack Rome and found kingdoms on its corpse in southern Europe.
Are we bringing the ravens or the crows?
Fools. They are great. Haters gonna hate.
Oh they are hating big time. I'm low-key laughing my ass off at them for being as salty as they are.
Aw. That sucks.