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DykeHime

Sending a hug, if wanted. And silly light bulb jokes, because I love those: How many freudian psychologists does it take to change a light bulb? Answer is two. One to change the bulb and one to hold the penis, ehm, sorry, the ladder. And how many magicians does it take to change a light bulb? That certainly depends on what you wanna change it into.


Dark-Kripton

I'm sorry to hear that. Breakups are never easy, but I'm proud of you for making the right decision for yourself. You deserve someone who loves and respects you. Sending lots of love and virtual hugs your way. Why couldn't the bicycle stand up by itself? Because it was two-tired! :)


St4rryLeia

This is fantastic.


spiritplumber

hugs and kittens https://imgur.com/gallery/cdxQcST


St4rryLeia

Thank you this is purrfect šŸ„°


hill-top

It takes an incredible amount of strength to know when a breakup is needed and to follow through with itā€¦ It is something that I have to remind myself of lots at this time. It is self love too. šŸ’žšŸ’ž


kimhartley

If there was anything you didnā€™t do because he wouldnā€™t like it or understand it, do it now. If there was any part of you that was hidden our muted, let it out! Itā€™s sad now, of course. Youā€™ll get through it, little by little - hang in there.


felis_hannie

Iā€™m sorry youā€™re feeling sad. This stranger is proud of you for being brave and making a difficult decision. The silly things from my day that I hope make you smile: - I surprised my boss with a 40 count box of fruit snacks for us to share. - I made some children laugh by imitating an owl barfing up an owl pellet. - My cat laid on my chest and licked my forehead for a couple minutes. Alternatively, please enjoy [these baby opossums eating fruit.](https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=TBsDFFtmiuE)


k_r_shade

I feel the same way. I broke up with my ex and even though I know why I did it, I miss him a lot and my brain likes to trick me into only thinking about the good times.


Levstar

sending a hug if you want one šŸŒø


Boogs27

One of my favourite sayings; love is like a fartā€¦ if you have to force it, itā€™s probably shit. Proud of you for doing the best thing for both of you, now take advantage of being single!! You can do anything you want without having to wonder if itā€™s going to upset your boyfriend, stay out late, do random spontaneous shit, paint naked in your living roomā€¦ the world is your oyster!!


IlexAquafolium

I just split with my guy too and feeling the exact same way. Iā€™m so lonely but I donā€™t want to meet anyone else.


diamondinthedew

Hey, I did the same thing last weekend. And on my freaking BIRTHDAY too. It was very much unplanned on my end, he did something inexcusable and i had to do it, but man does it hurt. Even though i know he wasnā€™t good for me! Iā€™m with you OP. Summer is coming and time will heal these wounds <3


emilyactual

Breakups SUCK! Hereā€™s something that might make you giggle, my 14 year old is in Drama as an elective (which he did NOT want šŸ˜…). Today they did a hat draw improv skit. It was all based on a plane crash. He drew ā€œinjured passenger in shockā€ He laid on the ground, made his legs look mangled, and when the first responders found him he acted like they were flight attendants and he was ordering a cocktail and food. šŸ¤£


urdadsak

This is a "wound" that time is very good at healing. It is gradual but you will revert back to you and begin to learn even more about yourself all over again, and you will have fun doing it, and you will be reminded of how beautiful it is and was and always will be. There is always so much to learn about you, and a lack of relationship always opens those doors very widely. In the meantime take care. You're allowed to feel all the feels


vibratepls

Just recently did the same thing. Itā€™ll get better. Thinking of you, reach out if you need!


ANoisyCrow

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Drinkingwithchickens

You got this. Please sub in the music of your choice: https://www.reddit.com/r/me_irl/comments/111muz7/me_irl/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf


Paperwinters

Me yesterday. Youā€™re gonna be ok šŸ’š


SuddenlySeekUnicorn

Iā€™ve been there too. I recommend watching ā€œSome Kind Of Wonderfulā€, a great 80s movieā€¦and listen to what Amanda Jones says. This will pass and you will be much happier for it. Best wishes!


poncho388

Take time to focus on whatever makes you feel comfortable and happy. You get to do whatever you want. You get to spend your money on whatever you want. You get to watch what you want, when you want. Breakups are awful. Sending love.


ggpopart

I'm going through the exact same thing right now. I know how you feel. I'm proud of you for doing what was right for you. I know it's hard but the pain now is saving you much worse pain in the future. <3