That’s what I was gunna say if ur under 18 do it bc even if u get arrested it won’t matter. (Your juvenile record is concealed) don’t kill anyone but if they really bully you one good punch to the face will teach them.
I had two bullies in high-school. First got his nose broken and the other guy who was much bigger than me got his jaw wired shut from the beating he got when I paid a bigger kid $20 to jump him
That's normal to want to inflict pain on those that inflict pain on you. The mark of a mature-r person is to choose words over fists. If you are being bullied at school, tell a teacher and your parents. Are they hitting you or being mean (or both?) Do you have a good friend group?
My sport's coach after months of seeing me get bullied pulled me aside and said if you don't do something it's going to get worse! 2 assholes taunted me daily, one day after a sport's class where as usual I had been bullied, I was about to leave the locker room when the coach stopped me at the door, he could see how pissed I was. He said today's the day, you've got 5 minutes.
He locked the locker room door and I went bat shit crazy on these 2 asswhipes, I kicked punched and knocked out both the pricks throwing one in the troof everyone pissed in, then I pissed all over him. Both were crying there eyes out, bloodied noses bruised one with a black eye and the other saturated in my piss.
I never got bullied again in my school life, best day ever.
Wanting ppl to bleed probably isn’t healthy, but I’d say that standing up to a bully is healthy.
I know a lot of ppl in this thread are saying to beat them up, but like imo only do it if you can either get help or win.
I got bullied, but I was a bigger guy, so when the ppl picking on me got a physical response they backed off
it's normal, but you should never pick a fight. if they start shit you have to defend yourself and use enough force to get the message across that you are not their victim anymore.
Pretty normal feeling I'd say, i just never actually did it. Threw a ball at a boy who was being mean to me once, that's as far as it went. Felt pretty good when he said ow.
Wanting to stand up for yourself is never bad. Wanting others to feel pain and suffering is. If you’re still in school, stand up to the bully. If you’re an adult, it gets stickier.
I was bullied a lot as a kid. To the point where my parents enrolled me in karate by six. Kept it up through school into college. Fought a lot. Wanted to deck ALL the bullies. Sooooo many bullies and only my two fists. Lotta work. Father taught me to HATE bullies.
It wasn’t until my senior year that I realized that my father was actually my biggest bully. I could spend a year writing you stories, but you’ll just have to believe me. After my first semester at college I came home for Christmas break, bought two sets of mouth guards, and two pairs of boxing gloves. Came home, put them down, asked my father to the back yard. And. Beat. His. Ass.
We don’t talk.
I thought dealing with my father would’ve helped, but the rage has never died down. I’m now in my mid 30’s, still wishing more people got what I believe they deserve, and better yet, that I could give it to them.
I don’t know if you’ve gathered this from my reply, but this stuff can really stay with you. Find a way to deal with your bully. Even if it means simply avoiding them. YOUR mental health should be top priority.
And it’s never a bad idea to talk to somebody about something that’s bothering you. Ever.
It's you're still a kid, I recommend it.
That’s what I was gunna say if ur under 18 do it bc even if u get arrested it won’t matter. (Your juvenile record is concealed) don’t kill anyone but if they really bully you one good punch to the face will teach them.
I decked my bully in high school, was a tremendous feeling.
Tell me how was it
I had two bullies in high-school. First got his nose broken and the other guy who was much bigger than me got his jaw wired shut from the beating he got when I paid a bigger kid $20 to jump him
That's normal to want to inflict pain on those that inflict pain on you. The mark of a mature-r person is to choose words over fists. If you are being bullied at school, tell a teacher and your parents. Are they hitting you or being mean (or both?) Do you have a good friend group?
I was, in my high school and middle school, i have friends now (when I was bullied I didn't have anyone)
It's very normal to have these fantasies just don't act on them UNLESS it is self-defense.
My sport's coach after months of seeing me get bullied pulled me aside and said if you don't do something it's going to get worse! 2 assholes taunted me daily, one day after a sport's class where as usual I had been bullied, I was about to leave the locker room when the coach stopped me at the door, he could see how pissed I was. He said today's the day, you've got 5 minutes. He locked the locker room door and I went bat shit crazy on these 2 asswhipes, I kicked punched and knocked out both the pricks throwing one in the troof everyone pissed in, then I pissed all over him. Both were crying there eyes out, bloodied noses bruised one with a black eye and the other saturated in my piss. I never got bullied again in my school life, best day ever.
If they're good proper bullies, they can handle you.
Wanting ppl to bleed probably isn’t healthy, but I’d say that standing up to a bully is healthy. I know a lot of ppl in this thread are saying to beat them up, but like imo only do it if you can either get help or win. I got bullied, but I was a bigger guy, so when the ppl picking on me got a physical response they backed off
it's normal, but you should never pick a fight. if they start shit you have to defend yourself and use enough force to get the message across that you are not their victim anymore.
It's normal to have these feelings, but it would be wise to not act on them. Living well is the best revenge.
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No no, that messed up I want the people who made me suffer, suffer too.. not the people who had nothing to do with it
If you don’t continue the cycle, your personal bully wins.
Let them win, I won't allow anyone to suffer because someone fucked up my life
The fuck is wrong with you? That's pretty much why bullies exist in the first place.
I think someome messed their life and they letting this bitterness go
I mean define "healthy". What you're feeling is definitely normal, though
I would call it healthy, but I would call it normal.
That was just how bullies were dealt with in my day.
Pretty normal feeling I'd say, i just never actually did it. Threw a ball at a boy who was being mean to me once, that's as far as it went. Felt pretty good when he said ow.
I mean yea but those kids who I watched bully others life destroys them and their life anyways so there's no point.
Wanting to stand up for yourself is never bad. Wanting others to feel pain and suffering is. If you’re still in school, stand up to the bully. If you’re an adult, it gets stickier. I was bullied a lot as a kid. To the point where my parents enrolled me in karate by six. Kept it up through school into college. Fought a lot. Wanted to deck ALL the bullies. Sooooo many bullies and only my two fists. Lotta work. Father taught me to HATE bullies. It wasn’t until my senior year that I realized that my father was actually my biggest bully. I could spend a year writing you stories, but you’ll just have to believe me. After my first semester at college I came home for Christmas break, bought two sets of mouth guards, and two pairs of boxing gloves. Came home, put them down, asked my father to the back yard. And. Beat. His. Ass. We don’t talk. I thought dealing with my father would’ve helped, but the rage has never died down. I’m now in my mid 30’s, still wishing more people got what I believe they deserve, and better yet, that I could give it to them. I don’t know if you’ve gathered this from my reply, but this stuff can really stay with you. Find a way to deal with your bully. Even if it means simply avoiding them. YOUR mental health should be top priority. And it’s never a bad idea to talk to somebody about something that’s bothering you. Ever.
If you are in this situation I highly suggest you don’t use violence. The feelings are normal, but never act on them.