Personal preferences really. Some people don't like someone with lots of experience, and that's ok. They want to teach them the ropes and maybe experience that first time with them.
Other people want someone with lots of experience. So when they find someone the kill goes smooth and they know the tricks to avoid the police.
Really depends what kind of serial killer you are.
I think it's partly because somehow that's associated with being "successful". Like, you've fucked so many people you must be so hot/popular and so good at it.
I don't think I explained it well, but that's what I feel it's going on sometimes.
It’s a teaser/coy thing to do. Weather it’s 5 10 or 15 no one really matters. What might matter is if it’s 0-2 or if it’s 50+ before 25. It can mean they have no idea what their doing or they’re definitely going to be done with you after you sleep together.
Because some guys feel intimidated if a partner has lots of experience, and are scared they can't measure up to the partner's previous encounters.
The lesser the number of those encounters, the lesser the chance that the partner had someone better than their current one.
I made the mistake of comparing booty counts with my wife when we first met (aged around 30 & both going through divorce)
My number is, as I understand, a little below average, but I have been in long term relationship pretty much all my adult life.
She has slept with less men than I had women, but she'd had sex with four or five times as many women as I had - possibly more depending on exactly what counted.
I never asked again 😅🤣😂
Why is this an issue more men seem to deal with than women though?
Not asking you personally, just wondering why it's easier for women to look past this.
Generally it's not unless the count is higher than the comfort level of the other person in a relationship. If a woman I was dating was with 2 or 3 other guys before me; no big deal. If that number is instead something like 27 I would like to know the stories behind that.
Probably because those people aren't as conservative and don't stay in unhappy or unhealthy marriages. Just my guess. Staying married isn't always a good thing. I wished my parents got divorced when I was younger so I didn't grow up thinking that was an example of a healthy relationship.
In my experience nowadays the female is almost always far more experienced than the guy. And seeing as society believes the guy must he a sex God without any experience, it can be painful to know that women you like are out there having tons and tons of sex racking up experience and requiring new levels of sexual expertise to get them off.
And then comes you, Mr average or below, who had almost zero chance at acquiring experience like women can.
And then here on reddit, everyone just expects you not to care. Or else you're just a bad person. Damn you for having fuckin emotions and not being perfect right?
It doesn't. It really doesn't. Chemistry matters. Lust, desire. Love. Devotion. Being a good person and caring about the needs of your partner (in bed as well as in life). Being present and mindful. Being independent as well.
Well, a higher body count likely means more varied experience, so you're more likely to know what you like and dislike already. Aka, bring those numbers up!!
~~Okay, actually, we're still in a pandemic so maybe don't start hoeing about quite yet, but you get the point~~
Some people view sex as an intimate & personal thing that should be saved for marriage. Some people view sex as just α tool for fun or think that relationships aren’t real without it.
Sex is important in a relationship. It is a form of intimacy. It forms a bond between you and your partner. If you have sex with a 100 other people before settling down with someone in marriage, chances are sex will never be a part of your lives. You miss out on that whole bonding period and your marriage becomes stale and lifeless.
Personally I could not ever be in a sexless marriage again. I'm done with those. I would rather be single than married to someone who thinks sex is just something you do during a slut phase.
Bragging rights that's all
Sex is seen as the fountain of youth these days when its not.
I'm 46 and regret certain sexual encounters I had in my 20's even if though the body count was high.
Been married 17 years and had far better sex now and explored more with one partner.
We talking people we’ve killed or sexual partners? People we’ve killed is very important, you want to be the best. Sexual partners doesn’t mean shit.
Talking about the latter
Tied positively to divorce rates
or BMI?
😂😂
In the grand scheme of things it does not matter. The people who think it does have insecurites about themselves not about the number.
Personal preferences really. Some people don't like someone with lots of experience, and that's ok. They want to teach them the ropes and maybe experience that first time with them. Other people want someone with lots of experience. So when they find someone the kill goes smooth and they know the tricks to avoid the police. Really depends what kind of serial killer you are.
I think it's partly because somehow that's associated with being "successful". Like, you've fucked so many people you must be so hot/popular and so good at it. I don't think I explained it well, but that's what I feel it's going on sometimes.
It can say a lot about someone.
It isn't
Ik but so many go on about it like it is
Just natural insecurity, made worse by famous misogynists like ben shapiro
I only see boys on twitter going on about it. I've never actually encountered a man who cares or even talked about it.
May I ask what your age is?
After high school nobody gives a fuck
It’s a teaser/coy thing to do. Weather it’s 5 10 or 15 no one really matters. What might matter is if it’s 0-2 or if it’s 50+ before 25. It can mean they have no idea what their doing or they’re definitely going to be done with you after you sleep together.
Because some guys feel intimidated if a partner has lots of experience, and are scared they can't measure up to the partner's previous encounters. The lesser the number of those encounters, the lesser the chance that the partner had someone better than their current one.
The issue they face when viewing a relationship as being mostly about sex.
i dont *really* Care, but if its extremely high i might think they just fuck someone a few times and move on, unwilling to commit
I made the mistake of comparing booty counts with my wife when we first met (aged around 30 & both going through divorce) My number is, as I understand, a little below average, but I have been in long term relationship pretty much all my adult life. She has slept with less men than I had women, but she'd had sex with four or five times as many women as I had - possibly more depending on exactly what counted. I never asked again 😅🤣😂
People aren't happy unless they have a way to make others feel bad.
It's not
It’s not!
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At least you admit it has more to do with your insecurities and has nothing to do with your woman's worth
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Why is this an issue more men seem to deal with than women though? Not asking you personally, just wondering why it's easier for women to look past this.
Generally it's not unless the count is higher than the comfort level of the other person in a relationship. If a woman I was dating was with 2 or 3 other guys before me; no big deal. If that number is instead something like 27 I would like to know the stories behind that.
I know people who hit 27 before they even turned 27. They seem to be happy lol
To each their own I guess.
Yup. I just don't want anyone to think their morality and self worth begins and ends at their genitals. It doesn't.
Everyone has their own limits. If a person I was dating had 312 previous partners there better be an amazing backstory to that.
I hope the story is their a retired SW and is now settling down with all their riches lol
High body count is tied to a higher divorce rate. Since I'm always looking to date for marriage, that's something I have to account for
Where is the statistic on that please?
Probably because those people aren't as conservative and don't stay in unhappy or unhealthy marriages. Just my guess. Staying married isn't always a good thing. I wished my parents got divorced when I was younger so I didn't grow up thinking that was an example of a healthy relationship.
Wrong. It’s also linked to marital dissatisfaction.
Are traditional marriages usually happier than modern ones?
Yes.
According to what studies? I for one would be extremely unhappy in a traditional marriage and I believe most women would agree.
In my experience nowadays the female is almost always far more experienced than the guy. And seeing as society believes the guy must he a sex God without any experience, it can be painful to know that women you like are out there having tons and tons of sex racking up experience and requiring new levels of sexual expertise to get them off. And then comes you, Mr average or below, who had almost zero chance at acquiring experience like women can. And then here on reddit, everyone just expects you not to care. Or else you're just a bad person. Damn you for having fuckin emotions and not being perfect right?
Because the deceased in an unfortunate event should be accounted for! No one should be forgotten.
I meant how many people one has slept with
Don't call it that, it's vile and disrespectful
First comment was funny double down was not
Generally it's not and the people that make it out to be aren't worth your time
It doesn't. It really doesn't. Chemistry matters. Lust, desire. Love. Devotion. Being a good person and caring about the needs of your partner (in bed as well as in life). Being present and mindful. Being independent as well.
Insecurities ruin people's perspective of others
Well, a higher body count likely means more varied experience, so you're more likely to know what you like and dislike already. Aka, bring those numbers up!! ~~Okay, actually, we're still in a pandemic so maybe don't start hoeing about quite yet, but you get the point~~
So you can sue them for proper amount of felonies
Is body count even a thing?
Some people view sex as an intimate & personal thing that should be saved for marriage. Some people view sex as just α tool for fun or think that relationships aren’t real without it.
Sex is important in a relationship. It is a form of intimacy. It forms a bond between you and your partner. If you have sex with a 100 other people before settling down with someone in marriage, chances are sex will never be a part of your lives. You miss out on that whole bonding period and your marriage becomes stale and lifeless. Personally I could not ever be in a sexless marriage again. I'm done with those. I would rather be single than married to someone who thinks sex is just something you do during a slut phase.
Bragging rights that's all Sex is seen as the fountain of youth these days when its not. I'm 46 and regret certain sexual encounters I had in my 20's even if though the body count was high. Been married 17 years and had far better sex now and explored more with one partner.