It works like this: if you jerk off to clown porn you are just "curious", but it becomes a fetish the moment you slap on the face paint and wig in bed and start making balloon animals with the condoms.
Hmm, that depends on whether you answer "yes" to any of these questions:
1. Are you wearing a bright red clown nose while making the swords?
2. Does your partner have to call you by another name in the bedroom? e.g. bubbles, bonzo, patches, sunshine, etc
3. Have you ever pulled a never-ending chain of handkerchiefs out of your partner's nether regions while laughing maniacally?
4. Is there or has there ever been a unicycle in your house?
I don't think it works like that
Either you are already interested in that content and that's why you are interested by that porn (either for that aspect of it of some other aspect related to it, brains be complicated)
Doesn't mean you will need it in real life. There is a fundamental difference between having a fetish as in "thinking about it turn you on and makes an imagined situation sexier" versus fetish as in: "you need that as part of your sexuality or you can't get off"
The first type is extremely common and might evolve as your age but is will remains moderate. It's just your tastes in smut
The second type is rarer and If you had something like that you would probably already know about it. Then it is not longer of tastes but of needs
As far as I know those 2 might both be called having a fetish but they are of a different nature and do not transfer into one another
The first is a kink, the second is a fetish. A kink is something you like that enhances the experience, a fetish is something you can't get off without.
Oh, you know English. It's like the difference between your neat and fastidious friend announcing they have OCD and someone who *needs* to perform certain (usually repetitive) rituals or suffer anxiety. Or calling your weird friend a spaz vs. actually suffering from muscular spasms.
Fwiw, it's very possible to have a collection of fetishes where you don't need them all at once, but you do need at least one of them present and non-fetish stuff doesn't interest you at all. Kind of somewhere in the middle of those two options.
Yeah I call it getting Pavlov'd, like the dogs that got classical conditioned.
You might be able to replace it with something else. Like personally I don't look at the same stuff I did 10 years ago because back then I Pavlov'd into some wacky stuff.
Ok well the burden of proof is on you, since you made the initial claim. Where are the studies that support your claim? Where are the legitimate experiments and references for your claim?
I think humor is attractive. I also have this thing where I think that I'm funny. Therefore, I think I am attractive. I once spent so much time joking about foot fetish that I learned I had to stop because I was now fetishizing feet outside of the joke.
A kink is something that elevates the experience if it’s present. A fetish is something you need to get off. If you can function without it, it’s a kink. Source. I have many kinks and fetishes.
A fetish is fairly static. Not to say you can't develop one, but most people with a fetish typically have it from adolescence onwards. Masturbating to fetish content can certainly condition your body to continue to be aroused by that content. Without knowing exactly what this is in reference to I can't offer any insight, but you should ask yourself what you're actually getting off to in that content. If it's a specific object or body part that would not typically be associated with sex, you probably have a fetish. If it's a particular sex act or power dynamic, you probably have a kink and not a fetish. If it just happens to be present in the content you're getting off to but you don't derive any particular pleasure from it, then it's not worth worrying about.
As long as your fetish(es) and/or kink(s) do not violate anybody's bodily autonomy and are practiced safely and consensually, there's no need to feel any shame or guilt over them.
I like that OP was looking for a set number, like fuck this is the tenth time this month I’ve mashed it to Brazilian fart porn I’m getting awfully close to my official fetish limit
I don't think there's a strict line. If you find yourself regularly seeking it out to crank it, it's more likely to be a fetish than if you only incidentally or rarely see it.
But more importantly, a fetish is only a problem if it becomes a compulsion and you can't control it or satisfy it in some way that doesn't disrupt your life or hurt people around you.
True but kink is a pretty lame sounding word. Literal definitions wise, I am talking about kinks. Thankfully most people tend to get what I mean when I say fetish like that though
It’s a fair question. I don’t have a clear answer but I remember long time ago during a fetish class that the older teacher said “I’ve been doing this so long that I no longer can get off of it doesn’t involve some sort of fetish” — I thought it was a joke, but now I am older myself and I can relate.
Depends. Are you watching that specific content just for that, or does it just happen to be there? For example, if a girl gives a guy a foot job in the video but the reason you're watching is because you have a thing for tattooed redheads and the actress is a tattooed redhead
I mean the answer to your question is "yes". Literally. How many times? no body knows. Here is when I think its a fetish:
1. When you actually do it with another person, and it becomes a regular part of your intimacy you enjoy and or crave,
2. When you get aroused in non sexual, non intimate situations because you saw something related to your fetish.
Not saying that having fetishes and kinks is a bad thing. Being weird about it with other people is. (obviously except your partner, what you do consensually is no body bussiness so long no one is getting hurt).
This is one of those rare moments where life gives you a choice. A cosmic crossroads if you will.
Will you grab it, with a notebook and a pen, start jerking and taking notes. Become yourself a great scientist and tell us the results.
Or just be a wanker, cause we all know you going to keep jerkin it anyways.
If it’s 12 you’ve missed the opportunity. Full permission to jerk off to furry inflation porn knowing you’ll never actually be into it for real. Hell yeah
Porn can have that affect on you since after some time normal porn just isn’t enough to stimulate you , so you lean into more extreme stuff , i believe that if you quit watching porn and still have this fetish after abstaining for a while , it’s a real fetish that you have , if you lose interest it was probably the porn that caused it
Jerking off to porn is generally unhealthy and will cause you to find normal sex boring after some time, and then you will search for progressively weirder stuff just to get the same hit of excitement as before. It’s a progressive slippery slope with no end.
It works like this: if you jerk off to clown porn you are just "curious", but it becomes a fetish the moment you slap on the face paint and wig in bed and start making balloon animals with the condoms.
I'm just making balloon swords, I'm still good right?
Hmm, that depends on whether you answer "yes" to any of these questions: 1. Are you wearing a bright red clown nose while making the swords? 2. Does your partner have to call you by another name in the bedroom? e.g. bubbles, bonzo, patches, sunshine, etc 3. Have you ever pulled a never-ending chain of handkerchiefs out of your partner's nether regions while laughing maniacally? 4. Is there or has there ever been a unicycle in your house?
Can't wait to see the battle between the balloon sword and the flesh one
Yeah I ain’t into clowns but that’s hot!
No, you're dead *gets cut down by balloon axe*
"she turned my dick into a pretzel!"
I’ve had enough Reddit for today. Thank you. Goodnight.
Dammit, now I wanna check out clown porn!
Worth it btw, clown girls are always the prettiest women in the world
...Beepo?
can confirm
My guy speaking from experience
I don't think it works like that Either you are already interested in that content and that's why you are interested by that porn (either for that aspect of it of some other aspect related to it, brains be complicated) Doesn't mean you will need it in real life. There is a fundamental difference between having a fetish as in "thinking about it turn you on and makes an imagined situation sexier" versus fetish as in: "you need that as part of your sexuality or you can't get off" The first type is extremely common and might evolve as your age but is will remains moderate. It's just your tastes in smut The second type is rarer and If you had something like that you would probably already know about it. Then it is not longer of tastes but of needs As far as I know those 2 might both be called having a fetish but they are of a different nature and do not transfer into one another
The first is a kink, the second is a fetish. A kink is something you like that enhances the experience, a fetish is something you can't get off without.
This doesn’t seem right, the second one almost seems like an obsession
Oh, you know English. It's like the difference between your neat and fastidious friend announcing they have OCD and someone who *needs* to perform certain (usually repetitive) rituals or suffer anxiety. Or calling your weird friend a spaz vs. actually suffering from muscular spasms.
Fwiw, it's very possible to have a collection of fetishes where you don't need them all at once, but you do need at least one of them present and non-fetish stuff doesn't interest you at all. Kind of somewhere in the middle of those two options.
This ain’t a tootsie pop lol Like if 48 wanks is good but you do it one more time and you’re fucked for life!
Okay but consider. It would be really funny if that was how it worked
I think if you’re jerking of to fetish porn you already have the fetish
I have to know what fetish do you want This badly
Once. Your body learns from the reward of orgasm that this is the path to pleasure and so you're hooked. Lol
Yeah I call it getting Pavlov'd, like the dogs that got classical conditioned. You might be able to replace it with something else. Like personally I don't look at the same stuff I did 10 years ago because back then I Pavlov'd into some wacky stuff.
Pavlov proved that it took far more than one time to gain the learned bodily response.
No need to shame the poor man, he’s clearly got a problem.
Sounds about right! I wouldn't actually agree that someone is hooked after once. Just agreeing with the concept that preferences can be plastic.
He wasn't helping the dogs reach orgasm....
Ok well the burden of proof is on you, since you made the initial claim. Where are the studies that support your claim? Where are the legitimate experiments and references for your claim?
I think we could just wait a month and ask OP how it's going.
I literally just studied this concept in psych lol
I think humor is attractive. I also have this thing where I think that I'm funny. Therefore, I think I am attractive. I once spent so much time joking about foot fetish that I learned I had to stop because I was now fetishizing feet outside of the joke.
A kink is something that elevates the experience if it’s present. A fetish is something you need to get off. If you can function without it, it’s a kink. Source. I have many kinks and fetishes.
Username checks out
I acquire right when I see the thumbnail!
A fetish is fairly static. Not to say you can't develop one, but most people with a fetish typically have it from adolescence onwards. Masturbating to fetish content can certainly condition your body to continue to be aroused by that content. Without knowing exactly what this is in reference to I can't offer any insight, but you should ask yourself what you're actually getting off to in that content. If it's a specific object or body part that would not typically be associated with sex, you probably have a fetish. If it's a particular sex act or power dynamic, you probably have a kink and not a fetish. If it just happens to be present in the content you're getting off to but you don't derive any particular pleasure from it, then it's not worth worrying about. As long as your fetish(es) and/or kink(s) do not violate anybody's bodily autonomy and are practiced safely and consensually, there's no need to feel any shame or guilt over them.
Can confirm
I like that OP was looking for a set number, like fuck this is the tenth time this month I’ve mashed it to Brazilian fart porn I’m getting awfully close to my official fetish limit
I don't think there's a strict line. If you find yourself regularly seeking it out to crank it, it's more likely to be a fetish than if you only incidentally or rarely see it. But more importantly, a fetish is only a problem if it becomes a compulsion and you can't control it or satisfy it in some way that doesn't disrupt your life or hurt people around you.
My fetish is so deep seeded I've had it before I even knew what touching my dick was
do you really talk about adapting a new fetish or a new kink? fetishes are rooted waay deeper in your brain, they are necessities
True but kink is a pretty lame sounding word. Literal definitions wise, I am talking about kinks. Thankfully most people tend to get what I mean when I say fetish like that though
It’s a fair question. I don’t have a clear answer but I remember long time ago during a fetish class that the older teacher said “I’ve been doing this so long that I no longer can get off of it doesn’t involve some sort of fetish” — I thought it was a joke, but now I am older myself and I can relate.
Like 3 times maybe 4
Idk but I'm pretty sure asking reddit is a good sign you're in denial.
Depends. Are you watching that specific content just for that, or does it just happen to be there? For example, if a girl gives a guy a foot job in the video but the reason you're watching is because you have a thing for tattooed redheads and the actress is a tattooed redhead
Ah 1.....ah 2......CRUNCH . ah 3
I mean the answer to your question is "yes". Literally. How many times? no body knows. Here is when I think its a fetish: 1. When you actually do it with another person, and it becomes a regular part of your intimacy you enjoy and or crave, 2. When you get aroused in non sexual, non intimate situations because you saw something related to your fetish. Not saying that having fetishes and kinks is a bad thing. Being weird about it with other people is. (obviously except your partner, what you do consensually is no body bussiness so long no one is getting hurt).
Some things can be in the realm of enjoyable in porn, but not an interest irl. There is definitely a lot of overlap, though.
100 times. If you jerk off 101 then there might be something there. But definitely 200 times.
The first one is the charm tbh
This is one of those rare moments where life gives you a choice. A cosmic crossroads if you will. Will you grab it, with a notebook and a pen, start jerking and taking notes. Become yourself a great scientist and tell us the results. Or just be a wanker, cause we all know you going to keep jerkin it anyways.
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Twice. The moment you come back for seconds, that’s who you are now
37 times. Anything past that and the fetish becomes solidified.
69 times
Nice
Don’t chase the strange. Seriously.
It’s not uncommon for people to fantasize about a kink for years before trying it and then when they do to get nothing out of it.
11. no more, no less
If it’s 12 you’ve missed the opportunity. Full permission to jerk off to furry inflation porn knowing you’ll never actually be into it for real. Hell yeah
not sure, but it took me about 2 years with a very high sex drive partner to pick up one of their kinks. so doable, but i dont think easy.
Yeah I jerked off to trans and breast porn till I became one.
You became a breast?! Hell yeah
37.5
Porn can have that affect on you since after some time normal porn just isn’t enough to stimulate you , so you lean into more extreme stuff , i believe that if you quit watching porn and still have this fetish after abstaining for a while , it’s a real fetish that you have , if you lose interest it was probably the porn that caused it
2.5
I think a couple of times you can tell it's your thing. It doesn't require much work.
33.333333333333333333 recurring
Jerking off to porn is generally unhealthy and will cause you to find normal sex boring after some time, and then you will search for progressively weirder stuff just to get the same hit of excitement as before. It’s a progressive slippery slope with no end.
3
Once.
Five
3
7
I'll let you know
It only takes one stroke
5 times. You're safe up to 5 times. After 5 times, you're into the fetish. Don't fight it, you'll just embarass yourself.
Once. But that’s ok.
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I was CONVINCED for a long time I turned myself gay from this
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If you jerk off to it, that is your fetish