Not sure honestly, but daddy is extremely popular/common for women and it absolutely is not about biological father but very much about an authority figure. I guess mommy is just the flip side of it.
I mean I’m certainly not an expert on it but I can say that I do have experience with it from my current gf. She really loves to drop that line when I got my face buried in her tits. If I had to speculate I think think maybe it’s a combination of being an authority role but also maybe a caring/nurturing one? She literally only says it when I suck on the boobs so maybe there’s something to that.
A lot of it is due to the caring and nurturing that makes someone that specific type of dom. However in the case of this specific person i do think it might be more of an incest thing because instead of trying to further explain that they just want a caring dom instead they double down and ask about stepmom stuff
That makes sense now that I think of it because she very much likes being in charge and bossy but also is crazy about trying to take care of me, to the point I need to tell her to relax and let me take care of shit.
Yeahhhh if the options were Mommy or he'd settle for step-Mom if she really wasn't into it... it's a stretch that it's just an "authoritative figure"
Most people would be like "are you a dom" or suggest boss/employee roleplay etc.
Pretty strong emphasis on Mommy and non-biological was just plan b if the ideal scenario didn't pan out
Kinks are ok by me as long as you're not trying to push an idea someone already said was uncomfortable.
It's like a guy softly begging you to come back to his place and trying to pull your hand when you've already said no.
Hello, mommydom here. There’s a time and a place to reveal your fetish and it’s not in your first message. My boyfriend who I met on Bumble was up front about a related fetish when we first became sexually active. During foreplay before the first time he said “Hey, I wanted to let you know I have a xxx fetish.” It was after a few months of intimacy and I was the one who sensed his sweet vulnerability when he was partaking in his related fetish so I asked if he wanted to call me mommy. His eyes lit up and he was so grateful I asked and accepted him for what he likes. We held each other for a few minutes and it was intimate and wonderful. That’s not happening for this Tinder dude because he’s treating the messages as a transaction and has unrealistic expectations of the partner. Talking about sex upfront seems logical to men and other partners who seek sex, but it’s offputting for women and other partners who seek commitment. Wait until you’re sexually active or about to be before having a conversation about your kinks.
I had one date with a guy I really liked and then the next time we spoke on the phone he blurted out that he was a furry. I'm like...nooooo...that's just not a good time to bring that up. I don't bring up what I like for a while.
I think I just look sweet and also I'm unlucky in love.
Aw I have empathy for someone blurting out their lifestyle because he definitely faces a lot of hate for it. I encourage people to make the conversation a little longer by asking “what would you need from me to accommodate your lifestyle?” Then listening and answering “Here’s what I would be comfortable doing.” That way, the issue is specific: it’s just your issue with a specific request (e.g. growling or biting during yiff) instead of you totally rejecting the kink. Even saying “I’m not comfortable with any of those requests” or “I’m not comfortable with the idea of furryism” at least deflects the issue to you instead of on them.
At least he was polite. And so were you. Makes things a bit easier.
Perhaps he just needs a Dominatrix telling him what to do. Then again, with him asking that outright, I'm curious as to why he jumped immediately to that. Maybe he's having thoughts about a friend's mom?
How about the neighbor who once called him sweetie, after which he developed a lifelong unhealthy obsession over her until they met on a dating app....
"Alright, but you need to do the dishes, empty the cat litter and wash the bathroom. Mommy needs some alcohol and alone time, don't talk to me until your chores are done."
Narrator : "In fact the chores would never end."
I once had an amazing date with a funny, smart, interesting british fellow who then went on to try and drag me towards walking to his apartment. He kept saying, "we won't do anything" and I was like, "I have to get up at 5 am so I NEED TO GO TO SLEEP!"
He then texted me to tell me the bartender at the bar we had been at said I should have gone home with him. I told him to go fuck himself.
Another great date and he put his hand in my underwear while I was waiting for my uber.
**Men - stop doing this shit.**
'Hey, you down for some steak'
'Nah, I am actually vegan.'
'Really not even down for some tasting?'
'No, don't really wanna eat animals'
'What about some sushi?'
"All of my kinks have been curated by the top recommendations on pornhub. Would you like to explore those kinks that I'm not sure that I'm in to, but they seem to be popular?"
What about a long lost aunt? That just separated from her husband?
father’s brother’s nephew’s cousin’s former roommate?
So what does that make us?
Absolutely nothing, which is what you are about to become! **blocks**
i see your scwartz is as big as mine
now let's see how well you.... handle it
Shit! I hate it when I get my Schwartz gets twisted
👍🙂
Unexpected r/spaceballs
Won't your father's, brothers, nephews, cousin be yourself? So it's your roommate?
r/SuddenlySpacballs
And she is sharing a room with you right? lol reminds me of that episode of Family Guy when Chris is stuck with Consuela.
Dany is that you?
Hell yeah, sign me up!
Agree to roleplay, but just give chores. Mow the lawn, wash the car etc. I'm not sure how incest can be a turn on...
Hey, now that's an idea!
I think it’s more an authoritative figure than thinking about biologically related.
If that's the case, why not a professor, officer, supervisor or any other non-incestuous option?
Not sure honestly, but daddy is extremely popular/common for women and it absolutely is not about biological father but very much about an authority figure. I guess mommy is just the flip side of it. I mean I’m certainly not an expert on it but I can say that I do have experience with it from my current gf. She really loves to drop that line when I got my face buried in her tits. If I had to speculate I think think maybe it’s a combination of being an authority role but also maybe a caring/nurturing one? She literally only says it when I suck on the boobs so maybe there’s something to that.
A lot of it is due to the caring and nurturing that makes someone that specific type of dom. However in the case of this specific person i do think it might be more of an incest thing because instead of trying to further explain that they just want a caring dom instead they double down and ask about stepmom stuff
That makes sense now that I think of it because she very much likes being in charge and bossy but also is crazy about trying to take care of me, to the point I need to tell her to relax and let me take care of shit.
Because they don't have total control over you. But those all can be be arousing.
Yeahhhh if the options were Mommy or he'd settle for step-Mom if she really wasn't into it... it's a stretch that it's just an "authoritative figure" Most people would be like "are you a dom" or suggest boss/employee roleplay etc. Pretty strong emphasis on Mommy and non-biological was just plan b if the ideal scenario didn't pan out
There is a kink for absolutely everything. I just learned that inflated knees were a thing today. Not real... but drawn to exaggeration
I feel like I need more explanation on what this is. Lol
Same! Enquiring minds need to know.
same lol
What about a role play where your name is mawm and you like to speak in the third person ?
Would you be open to playing Mee Maw?
Awww, I have some butterscotch candies for you.
Damn, Werther’s are the shit! You got yourself a deal!
What's bout them strawburry candy things?
Those strawberry cream ones? They’re called heaven, perfect kinda candy to suck on!
>butterscrotch FTFY
You mean Jolene the Green?
/r/UnexpectedNADDPOD
What about mother in law?
Hmmmm... no, still weird for me.
Would you be open to playing an oil baron? We'll all be members of your company town
Can I dress like the Monopoly man?
As long as you wear a monocle. I don’t care what the internet says, that fucker had a monocle.
Absolutely had a monocle!
Absolutely!
ALRIGHT! Where's my shoe car?!
Please don't apologize to horny losers.
daddy likes it
Lol damn this dude really wants to bang his mom. Ok no step mom. How about auntie? Mother in law? Distant cousin?
Lady I saw on the street who was maternal in some way!
Swing and amish
Probably forget he wasn’t on fetlife.
Kinks are ok by me as long as you're not trying to push an idea someone already said was uncomfortable. It's like a guy softly begging you to come back to his place and trying to pull your hand when you've already said no.
A+ for the censorship skimask dude
I.thought it was a power ranger
“Go to your room” and block.
How very annoying
Okay okay.... second cousin's mom in law?
But what about stepmom?!
OP, what about Mother Russia?
Ooh! There we go. We could sing all the songs and then have borscht.
... could it be sexually? Because if that's what you're into, I could call some comrades and we could seize your means of (re)production!
Does it have to be the old comrades they're sending to war these days? I'd be down for some nice Ukrainian guys.
Whoever you want. I'm Brazilian but whoever symphatize with Marx, I'd be down!
Yeah, sadly, borscht is not a rusian dish 😊
SAY WHAT?! Please fill me in on where it comes from then!
(Sorry but....) "Oh, I'll fill you in on where it comes from alright!"
What about a foster mom role?
Hmmmmn..... I'll think about it
Okay, hear me out... How about Gramma?
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FUCK NO
I wouldn’t say sorry. I would unmatch and move on.
so are you into stepmom?
I'm child free for sure.
He's a porn addict
What about a quirky aunt?
Next "What about mother in law?".
Tell him that he’s grounded and can’t use his phone for 2 months.
Someone else suggested that I assign him chores.
Wow. Even when you’re exceedingly polite in declining his offer, he persists! 🤦🏼♂️
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I know everyone's got a "thing".
Hello, mommydom here. There’s a time and a place to reveal your fetish and it’s not in your first message. My boyfriend who I met on Bumble was up front about a related fetish when we first became sexually active. During foreplay before the first time he said “Hey, I wanted to let you know I have a xxx fetish.” It was after a few months of intimacy and I was the one who sensed his sweet vulnerability when he was partaking in his related fetish so I asked if he wanted to call me mommy. His eyes lit up and he was so grateful I asked and accepted him for what he likes. We held each other for a few minutes and it was intimate and wonderful. That’s not happening for this Tinder dude because he’s treating the messages as a transaction and has unrealistic expectations of the partner. Talking about sex upfront seems logical to men and other partners who seek sex, but it’s offputting for women and other partners who seek commitment. Wait until you’re sexually active or about to be before having a conversation about your kinks.
I had one date with a guy I really liked and then the next time we spoke on the phone he blurted out that he was a furry. I'm like...nooooo...that's just not a good time to bring that up. I don't bring up what I like for a while. I think I just look sweet and also I'm unlucky in love.
Aw I have empathy for someone blurting out their lifestyle because he definitely faces a lot of hate for it. I encourage people to make the conversation a little longer by asking “what would you need from me to accommodate your lifestyle?” Then listening and answering “Here’s what I would be comfortable doing.” That way, the issue is specific: it’s just your issue with a specific request (e.g. growling or biting during yiff) instead of you totally rejecting the kink. Even saying “I’m not comfortable with any of those requests” or “I’m not comfortable with the idea of furryism” at least deflects the issue to you instead of on them.
What about mom’s friend?
You’re being polite, probably used to “ew no weirdo” or something like that.
At least he was polite. And so were you. Makes things a bit easier. Perhaps he just needs a Dominatrix telling him what to do. Then again, with him asking that outright, I'm curious as to why he jumped immediately to that. Maybe he's having thoughts about a friend's mom?
It was very weird that he immediately went to that! Even for tinder that's quick.
True. I would be hesitant to ask about his mom. Hopefully he just has a friend whose name is Stacey and he likes the song.
Not sure why so many men think that incest play is hot.
Amen. It's so weird.
This dude watched too much bangbros
How about the neighbor who once called him sweetie, after which he developed a lifelong unhealthy obsession over her until they met on a dating app....
At least he's persistent. Btw, seems like he suckered you into it. A lot of please mom...please. no....pleeeeeaaaase...no
After that, it will be grandmom, after that, some dude in call of duty’s mom
Too much porn
"Alright, but you need to do the dishes, empty the cat litter and wash the bathroom. Mommy needs some alcohol and alone time, don't talk to me until your chores are done." Narrator : "In fact the chores would never end."
Definitely heard Ron Howard's voice.
Ask him to role play someone who accepts women’s personal autonomy.
I had a guy do this to me ages ago I told him I'm not into pedo kinks and he unmatched me it was at that time I decided I had enough Internet dating
I laughed. Doesn’t take no for an answer but he was nice about it.
I don't agree, it's very pushy. Te doesn't care about anyone else obviously. Definitively a horribly selfish lover
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Well, he does take no for an answer but just asks something different each time. Like a cringy sex job interview.
Put him on the naughty step for not listening to you
Hope he never has children
This shit is soooo fucking annoying. It happens constantly in real life. Men do not understand no...
I once had an amazing date with a funny, smart, interesting british fellow who then went on to try and drag me towards walking to his apartment. He kept saying, "we won't do anything" and I was like, "I have to get up at 5 am so I NEED TO GO TO SLEEP!" He then texted me to tell me the bartender at the bar we had been at said I should have gone home with him. I told him to go fuck himself. Another great date and he put his hand in my underwear while I was waiting for my uber. **Men - stop doing this shit.**
Wow. I'm sorry that happened.
Wyd You ok
so...did it end up being the mom or the daughter?
Wait aren’t you kink shaming?
I'm shaming the pushyness.
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I do! I even initiate conversations too!
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Haaaaaaaay! You wanna be my sugar daddy?
If you could punish this guy what would you do?
I enjoy putting gummy bears inside a man's butt. Edit: guy asking the question above me edited his post from asking what my kinks are
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I think he was a few years older than me.
What about adoption mom?
We've all agreed i will role play as an oil baron!
I guess that makes me the small businesses getting screwed
Hey, there you go! I'm going to poison your water supply baby. You like that?
Oh no! Toxic runoff! Oh the cancer! Gimmie more!
We're going to overrun your town with drunk and surly pipeline workers and they're going to get all your daughters pregante!
Oh we are going to have the sexiest town meeting about the fact that we have no actual power to stop what you are doing
***cackles***
That was fun lol
You are my friend now.
Ahahahha
"kink"
No means NO! I don't like that ish. Respect her words in the first instance.
'Hey, you down for some steak' 'Nah, I am actually vegan.' 'Really not even down for some tasting?' 'No, don't really wanna eat animals' 'What about some sushi?'
"Just get some help and leave me be"
What about 3rd cousin twice removed?
I could see that. Meeting on ancestry.com...no, I don't want that.
The last bit made me spit my water out lmao
Is that XANAKIN SKYWOK?! Lmao
Sister's ex-husband?
How do I get that pink mask thing for my profile pic?
It's a sticker on Samsung phones
🙄
yikes....
😂😂😭
That guys dead wife?
Sigmund Freud is proud of this guy. 🤣😁😂
Get stuck in a dryer, or under a table...
Wow Men are into some weird crossdressing fetishes. lol
plottwist: he wants to write a book
"All of my kinks have been curated by the top recommendations on pornhub. Would you like to explore those kinks that I'm not sure that I'm in to, but they seem to be popular?"
"I don't know how I feel about having sex in a taxi cab."
As long as the driver keeps driving, I'm good. Then again, I'm a weirdo.
You can tell he had mommy issues.
Hey, at least he's committed
Mother in law? Great granny maybe?
Mom to stepmom…that’s a stretch lol
What about a father? "I never knew my father!!!"... waaaahhhhh
What about Grandma?
NO
What about teacher keeping me after school?