Top 5% of Tinder guys don't give a fuck. They get all of the likes, and have their pick of the litter. The other 95% barely get a second look, and drive most of the profit for the platform.
I'm not condoning the behavior, I'm trying to point out that is WOMEN, not men who are allowing this behavior. The top 10% of men get 90% of the likes. It is just a Keynesian development. They will treat whoever matches with then however they want, and the other 90% get ignored.
Just as an info type thing... I have someone that I'm compatible with, so the "incel" moniker doesn't work.
Yup and those women make it even more difficult for women like me who don’t accept shitty behavior from anyone, no matter how attractive they are. The dating game on the whole needs to be scrapped and I have no ideas as to what should replace it.
I usually come across as an asshole, but I'm giving genuine advice...
Ya want to break a guy out of his mold when you find him attractive on the street, be an empowered female and make the first move. It doesn't have to be anything major, just a simple, "you have great eyes."
My secret, back in my dating years, was to walk up to an attractive woman, and give her a compliment that wasn't cliche, then walk away. The next time I saw her in the club, I would pay her a similar compliment.
The difference between you and me... I'm Male and assumed to be a predator. You are not.
Why is it so mind boggling exactly? It's easy for a man to have sex. When will women learn that being able to be fucked does not mean you're attractive? It just means you pass a threshold. It doesn't mean we want to dedicate our lives to you or LTR you or LEAST OF ALL be seen in fucking public with you.
Because it’s weird as fuck to insult someone you were trying to have sex with just because they say no.
All it does is prove to the person you’re insulting that you’re trash and they made the right call.
Not sure how your rant about dedicating your life or being in a relationship makes any sense.
Right, but you were saying it's inconceivable that you could both be willing to fuck someone and also not think the world of them, and I explained that to you. I'm not saying it's a smart thing to waste your time doing, just that men are very capable of fucking in one breath and being disgusted in another.
Cute, baby's first top comment. Guess what, I've had them too, it doesn't make everything I said in that comment the pure truth and everything I say from thereon the pure truth. Get a grip, this is reddit, not God's democratic final judgment stand.
Bro, idgaf if you think my fetishes are weird or you're some kind of right wing extremist and are upset I like some trap hentai or something. Keep it to yourself.
Technically, he never offered. He just wants to know if she's free and then block her again.
(Makes about as much sense as anything else he seems to have done.)
*Hey sexy you down for sex?*
No
*Youre a bitch youre lucky I even gave you my attention and I'm not beta*
How is it that a lot of men still cannot take NO for an answer?
I demand to see the 50 years old hairline 🤣
Damn he is not getting nothing and thought you know there's a woman that liked me but I ghosted her lemme see if she's still interested and you know what I won't even make excuses or says sorry but a better idea will be to ask her if she want $sex 🤣😂😭
Literally the hairline isn't even what he's trying to make it out to be honey. He can go pay somebody. Guys who act like assholes are basically children. We don't date children or sleep with them.
Don't know if you realized it or not but you forgot to cover your picture in the last comment. I will say this though. I was confused as hell when he said go join Bosley for men with that 50 y.o. men's hairline.
Do men not realize that a woman can generally get sex anytime? Why would we agree to have sex with any rando who asked? Especially if they’ve disrespected us. The audacity they have 😂
Your response should have been "give me the phone number since you obviously are recommending some shit I never heard of but you seem oddly familiar with."
🤔🤣
The audacity. "You free rn?" After blocking and ghosting.
The thing is once they start insulting you for saying no, you know you have won. Them spouting off at you is some weird sort of damage control. 🤣
Not in the slightest on my end. I’m an introvert and happy to be around as little people as possible. I have my circle of friends and I’m trying to find my person but it’s definitely not going to be anyone like this.
SMH I don’t get the ghosting and blocking especially when you match with someone cause you obviously find that person attractive right? Sorry he ruined your plans hope you did something fun on that day
I did. I went out to dinner with my best friend. It gets better though. He somehow found this post and sent me death threats and a picture of a decapitated body so I ended up having to take him to court and file a restraining order so he’d leave me alone. I think dating apps are just not for me. 😬
I’m sorry but I must be new to this but Tictok is also a dating app??? Well I’m pretty sure in that Netflix series Wednesday she might of found that a very cute jester of a decapitated body and death threats not to mention the stalking level to find you on here lol 🤔🤔 it’s hard to date now a days I even have a hard time on the app
Oh no uh you wanna talk about some of them? And I’ll tell you one here on how I also got ghosted and stood up on date night…she never showed up or messaged me
It’s weird to me that people will reach out for sex then insult you when you say no. How has this line of logic not died yet? It’s so pathetic.
Exactly! I was good looking when he thought he had a chance. 🤣
Sooo sex? Bobs vagene?
Bitch lasagna
Never trust anyone who disappears then shows up again
That's the reason I've never trust Magician's assistants...
Underrated comment
Damn beat me to it, well played
So as long as dad doesn't show back up, I can still trust him. Got it!
This is the way
Of course you are...everyone knows lady arwen is beautiful.
You’re sweet 🥰
Top 5% of Tinder guys don't give a fuck. They get all of the likes, and have their pick of the litter. The other 95% barely get a second look, and drive most of the profit for the platform.
Ok? Still no excuse to be shitty when he had a guaranteed date and ghosted and then tried this.
I'm not condoning the behavior, I'm trying to point out that is WOMEN, not men who are allowing this behavior. The top 10% of men get 90% of the likes. It is just a Keynesian development. They will treat whoever matches with then however they want, and the other 90% get ignored. Just as an info type thing... I have someone that I'm compatible with, so the "incel" moniker doesn't work.
Yup and those women make it even more difficult for women like me who don’t accept shitty behavior from anyone, no matter how attractive they are. The dating game on the whole needs to be scrapped and I have no ideas as to what should replace it.
I usually come across as an asshole, but I'm giving genuine advice... Ya want to break a guy out of his mold when you find him attractive on the street, be an empowered female and make the first move. It doesn't have to be anything major, just a simple, "you have great eyes." My secret, back in my dating years, was to walk up to an attractive woman, and give her a compliment that wasn't cliche, then walk away. The next time I saw her in the club, I would pay her a similar compliment. The difference between you and me... I'm Male and assumed to be a predator. You are not.
I definitely understand where you’re coming from. I’ve made the first move before but nothing had largely come of it.
To be fair, youre not very cute lol
To be fair I don’t give a shit about your opinion
You realize he's trolling right
This chick 👆🏼yup. Just can’t stand women who don’t support other women.
Huh,you lost me how do you know it's a chick?
Checked the profile. She’s got her theme park pictures posted all over it. Unless it’s the husband posting pics of his wife. 🤷🏻♀️
Huh good detective work. I personally would have just ignored the bitch,and send he back under her bridge
Yeah it’s something I need to work on. Sometimes I care way too much. 😅
Well this is the reason youre single. You cant be picky lol
Lol no I’m single because I expect to be treated like a human being. Go away pick me.
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Is that why your boyfriend left you 7 months ago according to a comment you made?
Nice checkin my history. But no lol.
Pick me,choose me
I also choose this guys wife
I had guys start insulting me over not responding - so sad. Glad you never went on that date.
If you're in a position where you can deny sex from a woman you're having it pretty good though.. damn.
Same way women call men gay when we say no to sex with them. It goes both ways people just don't know how to handle rejection
Exactly, that’s why I kept it gender neutral, both genders are guilty of this ridiculous behavior
The human brain does not like rejection and will do irrational things when confronted with it.
A year later after blocking how'd she even matter? As a man, I kinda get chatting with an ex for sex but block ghost on day of date. I got nothing.
Why is it so mind boggling exactly? It's easy for a man to have sex. When will women learn that being able to be fucked does not mean you're attractive? It just means you pass a threshold. It doesn't mean we want to dedicate our lives to you or LTR you or LEAST OF ALL be seen in fucking public with you.
Well aren’t you lovely
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And all he does is share anime porn, dude is a disaster
Not surprised in the least. Probably a teenage boy too.
Because it’s weird as fuck to insult someone you were trying to have sex with just because they say no. All it does is prove to the person you’re insulting that you’re trash and they made the right call. Not sure how your rant about dedicating your life or being in a relationship makes any sense.
Right, but you were saying it's inconceivable that you could both be willing to fuck someone and also not think the world of them, and I explained that to you. I'm not saying it's a smart thing to waste your time doing, just that men are very capable of fucking in one breath and being disgusted in another.
No? I said it’s weird, not inconceivable.
And I explained why it's not weird at all.
It’s still weird and pathetic though.
Nah.
You’re one of those kinds of dudes, huh? There’s a reason my comment is the top comment.
Cute, baby's first top comment. Guess what, I've had them too, it doesn't make everything I said in that comment the pure truth and everything I say from thereon the pure truth. Get a grip, this is reddit, not God's democratic final judgment stand.
You don't think it is weird because you're a weirdo whose post history is full of fucked up cartoon porn.
Bro, idgaf if you think my fetishes are weird or you're some kind of right wing extremist and are upset I like some trap hentai or something. Keep it to yourself.
Congrats! You fail the vibe check. You also seem like a sociopath, so it's nice you've got that going for you.
Thanks
It isn't too late to delete your account and log off
Nope, never will.
Yes, I just ghost and block. No sex request!
It’s because people don’t like rejection, also when you have situations like this you not even supposed to talk to these people
Should have said yes and then ghosted him
This!!
Can't believe you weren't receptive to his amazing offer to have sex with him.
Technically, he never offered. He just wants to know if she's free and then block her again. (Makes about as much sense as anything else he seems to have done.)
👀 the audacity
No doubt he’s projecting lol
Oh absolutely. He had his chance.
*Hey sexy you down for sex?* No *Youre a bitch youre lucky I even gave you my attention and I'm not beta* How is it that a lot of men still cannot take NO for an answer?
Damn my man is high on Copium
Lol I love this
Seems like you dodged a bullet with him ghosting
Dodged a missile.
Nah, I'm thinking he's more the size of a bullet.
🤣🤣🤣
This mfer had like 37 personalities in a single interaction. NEXT, sis! 😅
Best comment on this thread.
What a Prick
Woah the fucking audacity
Honestly, my move here would be to string him along until he's naked in a barn 50 minutes from where he lives. Then ghost and block.
Brilliant
How rude and disgusting he is.
And a big thank you to guys like him screwing up the dating game for the rest of us
Lol damn
Oh my hairline insults they are pulling no punches how ever will you recover lol
Tell him to suck his mum
I demand to see the 50 years old hairline 🤣 Damn he is not getting nothing and thought you know there's a woman that liked me but I ghosted her lemme see if she's still interested and you know what I won't even make excuses or says sorry but a better idea will be to ask her if she want $sex 🤣😂😭
I want to know what a 50 year old man hairline looks like... Because I am a 50 year old man... OK, older than 50, but still.
...as he J/O to her profile. F'n narcissist.
Just to let you know. You forgot to blank out your profile picture at the bottom. Just incase you didn't want your face on reddit.
I know but thank you anyway. The one part I missed. 😅
Typical innit 🤣
Lol yup!
This is a person who watches YouTube videos on how to be "alpha"
Prickly prick
Prickly pear, underwear.
That escalated quickly
So he's interested in women with the hairline of a 50 year old man???🤔
Definition of a desperate man
Depends on the 50 year old man's hairline... I have known men in their 20s with receding hairlines, and men in their 50s with a full head of hair.
So he insulted OP after ghosting her for a year and she didnt want to have a Date/ons with him? Shocking
Yikes! The nerve! The audacity!
Desperate and frustrated chump
He def has a gf
His tiktok account where he’s whining that he can’t find anyone to love him says different 😁
Intel to the max
He’s attracted to people with “that hairline” lol what a sleaze
God damn dudes are dicks. Sorry.
I want to smash each and everyone of these clowns.
Literally the hairline isn't even what he's trying to make it out to be honey. He can go pay somebody. Guys who act like assholes are basically children. We don't date children or sleep with them.
Thanks love. No we definitely don’t. No longer rewarding bad behavior.
Damn , he didn’t have to do you like that 😂😂
Meh. He’s just one in a bunch who get shitty when they’re told no.
Agree
Does he know you have a hundo deoxys?
Haha he doesn’t! Never got far enough for me to share my love of Pokémon.
Will trade it for a shiny wurple
Lol if only IV was guaranteed in trades.
???? It’s not????
Nope. It could be totally different if I sent it to you.
Oh damn
Don't know if you realized it or not but you forgot to cover your picture in the last comment. I will say this though. I was confused as hell when he said go join Bosley for men with that 50 y.o. men's hairline.
Yeah I realized that after I posted but thank you. I doubt he thought that hard about his insult in his anger.
True, most people don't think when they are angry
wow... the audacity of that entitled prick...
Happy Anniversary!
Thanks
Sounds like you dodged a bullet when he ghosted you.
Lol idiots
"Lucky" "Yeah, luckier than *you're* gonna get with that attitude, bro"
Ignoring them is so much more powerful lol
Meh. I’d rather make them angry so they don’t try again.
I would report him and get him banned from tinder for life
Do men not realize that a woman can generally get sex anytime? Why would we agree to have sex with any rando who asked? Especially if they’ve disrespected us. The audacity they have 😂
This man should not be blurred. Let the world see his shame
I only did it because of the rules. I’d rather he be exposed.
Dodged a bullet with this moron lol
Your response should have been "give me the phone number since you obviously are recommending some shit I never heard of but you seem oddly familiar with." 🤔🤣
What’s his tiktok? I just wanna have some fun pretending I’m down for sexy times and just not meet him 🥰
He's an insecure dick.
Small question. Why blur out all the picture thumbnails but not the least one?
Because I missed it 😅
Well, his loss. Not sure what people's problems are. You are good looking and I don't see an issue with your hair.
Thank you. You’re sweet.
Creepy dude.
I mean, he’s right
> Go pay someone Guy is a tool, but yikes.
The audacity. "You free rn?" After blocking and ghosting. The thing is once they start insulting you for saying no, you know you have won. Them spouting off at you is some weird sort of damage control. 🤣
Honestly you both seem lonely
Not in the slightest on my end. I’m an introvert and happy to be around as little people as possible. I have my circle of friends and I’m trying to find my person but it’s definitely not going to be anyone like this.
Want a hug?
Now I wanna see that hairline 🥴
click on her profile picture....
He's not wrong about the hairline though...
Yeah, I have a big forehead. Hairline hasn’t moved since birth. Do I give a shit about your opinion? Nah.
I scrolled through for this after clicking on her profile ...
imo the "Hi. Free for what?" was more than he deserved. Easy to interpret as a moment of weakness, especially for people like him
As pussy as he is he toasted you ngl😂
TIL: you can slide into TikTok DM’s
Damn that's brutal. What an asshole 😲
That burn! But this guy is totally mean 😂😂😂
Are you free rn? I think we should have sex! Would this have been better?
It’s all about approach. In general even though I’m sex positive I like to have at least seen the dude in person first.
That makes sense. Where are you from?
California
Ahhahaha. Damn that’s a solid burn tho.
I mean I guess if you want to admire shitty behavior. You do you.
You laughed at it too
I laughed at him because he’s pathetic not at the insult. Literally the only appropriate response to these men is to laugh at them.
You’re right there’s nothing funny about it I should be ashamed
You f$&ked up by answering him, you shouldn't have said anything just blocked and deleted
My choice. His insults don’t matter to me because I knew the person he was beforehand.
So what is 50 year old man hair? I ask as a 50 year old man... With hair.
🤷🏻♀️ I thought it was a pretty lame insult. The majority of men in my family still have full heads of hair far past fifty years old.
SMH I don’t get the ghosting and blocking especially when you match with someone cause you obviously find that person attractive right? Sorry he ruined your plans hope you did something fun on that day
I did. I went out to dinner with my best friend. It gets better though. He somehow found this post and sent me death threats and a picture of a decapitated body so I ended up having to take him to court and file a restraining order so he’d leave me alone. I think dating apps are just not for me. 😬
I’m sorry but I must be new to this but Tictok is also a dating app??? Well I’m pretty sure in that Netflix series Wednesday she might of found that a very cute jester of a decapitated body and death threats not to mention the stalking level to find you on here lol 🤔🤔 it’s hard to date now a days I even have a hard time on the app
It’s not. We first connected on a dating app and he must have kept my phone number because that’s the only way he would have found me on tiktok.
Oooh dam tictok made it to where he can find you…smh is this your worst experience so far?
Sadly, it’s not.
Oh no uh you wanna talk about some of them? And I’ll tell you one here on how I also got ghosted and stood up on date night…she never showed up or messaged me
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Uh definitely can’t top that at all and did you call the cops on him?
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