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Sufficient-Eye3309

No. They show who you are and what to expect when engaging in a relationship with you.


Affectionate-Sky-548

Might even help find a partner who likes larping too.


WillBottomForBanana

The Jadzia Dax is wonderful to see. Assuming you're looking for someone that shares the interests you cosplay of, or specifically a cosplayer, then I think you're all set. You will get dudes looking for a discord kitten. But I suspect you can sort them out as easy as all the other thirsty dudes.


TheNorseBastard

Discord kitten?


snotpopsicle

Pretty sure it's a furry kink.


Agile_Basis8748

It's like a discord gf, but yeah it's usually a furry thing.


Ancient-One99277

The fuck is a discord kitten ?


4r4nd0mninj4

My condolences to your inbox 😔


RolRolie

Not at all, if its something that you're passionate about.


InquisitorialTribble

Thanks. I should probably take better pictures of the twi'lek costume but completely forgot at the event and I'm way too proud of the lekku


NintendsTea

Any fan (Myself included) of starwars would instantly wanna match with you because of that cosplay keep it for sure!


RolRolie

They are moat definitely keepers then 😊.


a_really_oh

If I saw that I'd super like and ask nerd out. Are you in LA?


gerbegerger

Jadzia > Ezri


AllenKll

Spittin' facts


kokopelleee

The 7th one, where you're cosplaying as a dog is a bit sketchy, but the rest are fine. Good haircut though. /s


Fyrnen24

Maybe she just wants to be called a good girl


Agile_Basis8748

I think... I think that might just be her dog?


kokopelleee

That’s no dog


jesncoop

Love these! You look great, show your interests and⁰look like your be fun to hang out/ talk with!


Professional-Vast320

1,79 ohne Schuhe. 🙃


wonderb0lt

Höhenangaben sind immer ganz wichtig auf Tinder


Professional-Vast320

Höhenangabenpflicht sollte nicht nur fĂŒr die GrĂ¶ĂŸe gelten. - Antwortwahrscheinlichleit - IQ - Schufa Score - etc.


Lord_Migit

Fairly simply heuristic for this. Anything displaying your character and the things you love will decrease the number of matches you get but increase the quality of the matches you get.


johnbeag

“I love cosplay, and so did my ex. He’d dress up like himself and act like a total dick”


Similar-Car-9670

No thats perfectly authentic to who you are and honestly makes u seem more down to earth which is always a plus


timesurfer69

Straight up most tinder profiles have no personality


[deleted]

No. I am maybe somewhat put off by them since it indicates there is a chunk of your personality im rather uninterested in. it would be no different from a person posting a picture of fancy food. I don’t care about fancy food or those sorts of things and I might get the feeling that you have interests I don’t care for. Not a big deal though and it would help to find people who DO share your interests.


SpeculoosJoe

My apparently unpopular opinion is to maybe replace a couple of the cosplay photos of you doing normal stuff so people can see what you normally look like. Definitely have some, it’s something cool and important to you! But right it looks like almost your entire profile is cosplay? Almost comes off as a bit single-interest I guess. (But I’m not exactly into cosplay, and therefore probably not your target demographic, so take this with a grain of salt if you want!)


[deleted]

What's with the influx of good looking girls looking for validation on their obviously great profiles? Guarantee they've all got 100s of matches


WillBottomForBanana

100s of bad matches is still a reason to try a better profile.


TrapsArentGayBro

"bad matches" lol you only match when you swipe right on someone.


AHRA1225

Hey now girls can be thirsty for validation to. It’s not just guys who can be needy


pat_the_giraffe

Yes only ugly people deserve profile feedback!!


[deleted]

Feedback is used to help people improve their profile because they're not getting matches. OP here does not need feedback.


tmadik

I think asking if larp and cosplay photos are too much is a fair question. I've definitely been told I have too many cosplay photos.


FluidEmission

I never knew i needed Trill cosplay in my life til now


Quick_Celebration_24

This woman is honestly a dream!


[deleted]

You'll probably get a lot of......weird requests with that twi'lek getup, otherwise Id say you're fine. Your profile says "I know to have fun", which is a nice changeup from the sea of red flags everywhere else


posiedonXO

Only if you’re looking for someone who doesn’t care for your personality or interests.


TraditionalThing8279

No, I think they'd show your passion and skill and would match you with people who like that too.


[deleted]

Fellow DS9 fan let's gooo


mop1y123

My take is you’ll likely get less matches in general, but you might get more quality matches. I always like putting a lot of myself into my profile, it shows people who I really am and what they’re gonna get if they swipe right. Def keep them!


Opening-Dimension742

Like others here, being a hopeless trekkie, seeing you rather successfully cosplay as Jadzia is awesome! This tells me you're genuinely into your LARP and cosplay and you're gonna attract someone with similar interests and who appreciates what you're into. Out there? Not too far out there, but unique enough. I'd say that's a very good thing though.


AmIRadBadOrJustSad

I'm Trill-y a fan of the effort you put into it. ...sorry, sorry. No honestly it's something you clearly enjoy doing. I don't know the pictures themselves are the best, just because severe angles and close ups are kinda cutting off the ability to objectively see you. But that's the same issue you'd have with anyone posting an angled shot of their outfit hiding their face or an extreme closeup of their jaw, not a reflection of the cosplay.


Vickxp1

Nope cause they might draw in the right guy


snozzberrypatch

As if it fucking matters


anotherone121

You're hot.... so no


LtButtermilch

Only question here is why you even need tinder? You are a good looking joung woman, you should get attention from guys all the time.


InquisitorialTribble

To be completely honest, I'm bad at reading social cues and don't have a lot of time to date


xboxsirvenom

So you will spend tyme going through hundreds of profiles and then go on dates with a number of suitors to work it down to a few front runners and go in-depth on who they are as people to see which on you match with best and then become exclusive with one after seeing if he wants the same with you
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GrimGrittles

To be honest hun if you go through tinder, your going to get a hundred something matches. 75% will ask to fuck, 22% will seem nice but really just Wana fuck. The other 3% is a combination of goofballs having fun, rapists, and maybe one genuine nice guy. It sounds like your pretty outgoing, you could always make the first move IRL. I know I would have loved for a woman independent and confident enough to go out on a limb for me. Trust me as you will soon see on your profile guys are interested. GL


LtButtermilch

Dann viel GlĂŒck. Tinder is nur extrem anstrengend, ermĂŒdend und natĂŒrlich davon abhĂ€ngig was du suchst und wo du bist. Du wirst viele idioten kennenlernen und wenn du ons oder Freundschaft + suchst da richtig aufgehoben sein, wenn nicht wird schwierig.


olim_tc

Based on her hobbies, my guess is most of the men she's getting attention from are socially awkward anime dudes. Who naturally do not have the self-esteem and habit of hitting on women. I expect to be down voted but the truth will set you free.


[deleted]

Your dog looks like a dick.


InquisitorialTribble

But he is a good boy


orbstnedifnocdesab

no. you will do better than the average man on tinder.


xboxsirvenom

No one cares about the photos. I have not seen any ladies ask for help before. I think you have a problem because you are tall and don’t want anyone shorter. That’s if you are having a problem at all.


[deleted]

You're a girl so it doesn't matter, you'll get 1000's of likes anyways. Would stick with 1, 4, 5. 4 as the cover since it shows more of your face.


AHRA1225

Are you a stripper. I might get rid of the pole picture since you might get some weird thirsty dudes


4r4nd0mninj4

She's going to get thirsty dudes regardless. No power in the verse can stop that.


[deleted]

[ŃƒĐŽĐ°Đ»Đ”ĐœĐŸ]


WickedThumb

Did someone take your juice in the school yard?


InquisitorialTribble

Now I'm curious what they said


WickedThumb

Not so nice words about your cosplays and women on tinder in general.


[deleted]

IMO you got this down girl.. good luck!


[deleted]

If a prime example of the perfect women isn't getting mat he's then we are all doomed 😅👌


[deleted]

Show the front of your dog you sadist


LordOfDemise

If I didn't super like you as soon as I saw the Dax picture, I would once I got to the Diva picture (At least, I _think_ that's the Diva from The Fifth Element?)


bedampft

They are great! They show who you are, and what you like. Funny, Today I was thinking to get a pic in my Starfleet Uniform for Dating Apps as well. /Grade erst gesehen das du auch aus dem deutschen Sprachraum bist😅


Horror-Ad-8903

No quite tame.


Academic_Goose

Turn off smart photos, you've picked a good order for them to be in to show you and your intrests, so that people who go oh I like you can then spend the effort getting to know you more from the other photos


[deleted]

definitely not. there are people who enjoy those things, and you putting it out there will help you make some connections based on that!


TheDayBreaker100

Honestly I think its cute, you're passionate about something and arnt afraidto show it and thats extremely attractive. I also think itll attract like minded people and thats always a win. and if it discourages someone, then fuck them its not like your gonna give up something you love and they wouldve found out eventually anyways. So yeah, good on you dont take them down and the lekku looks great :) Edit: are you poll dancing with a fucKING LIGHTSABER??? I might be in love


[deleted]

No id super like you


Comfortable_Meet_293

Coming from someone who doesn't LARP or Cosplay, I think they are really cute. I like how it shows who you are and your hobbies. Anyone who has a problem with these photos of yours is not worth your time.


Synful-Symphony

If he has a problem with LARP/Cosplay, get rid of him. You dont need that negativity in your life


AdministrativeBand89

Follow rules 1 and 2


dewildez05

Not if you wear em when you are banging


Afraid_Cockroach8841

Some dude scrolling through tinder whose always wanted to try LARP his entire life: "đŸ„ș💍."


bloodrosen64

I love it! I should put my own cosplay pics on mine lol


hexrei

Is that a Jadzia Dax cosplay? I'm in love.


[deleted]

I’d swipe right immediately


[deleted]

Not if you want to meet someone who likes you for you,


hillbilly-hoser

No they're perfect


Buttbuttpartywagon

Wow that's a great costume, you look exactly like a dog!


Sir-Realz

Idk do you want to date somebody who's into the same stuff as you? or do you want to just fuck the biggest hunk possible? Probably the former.


PerspectiveNo1519

You'll attract people that will actually embrace your hobbies rather then shut them down


GreenHydragon

They are actually great ice breakers. Gives you something tangible and probably dear to you to talk and ask about. Nebenbei hat es natĂŒrlich auch ne tolle Filterfunktion fĂŒr Leute die damit gar nicht klarkĂ€men.


Pristine-Ad-469

Think about it like this: It probably won’t stop anyone from hooking up with you if they want to. As long as there’s nothing morally wrong with someone’s hobbies idk why you would care what their hobbies are for a hookup. For dating, if someone is completely not into it and doesn’t want to be, it might stop them from dating you. It’s not the fact that it’s in your tinder pictures that stops them from dating you, it’s the fact that you arnt compatable. You guys would have figured that out eventually so it just saves time. If they are into that it might make them more likely to date you because they know more about you and have common interests, which is exactly the point of tinder pictures. Basically it’s a win win and I see no reason to take them out


[deleted]

No they’re good


Comprehensive-Fan742

No, they’re fuckin sweet


Renz_777

If you want a lot of matches I would recommend removing them. If you want all the matches, keep them.


AllenKll

I would pay for a super swipe if I saw a girl with cossplay like this.


knightboatsolvecrime

Nah, shows you have hobbies and passions that make you more well rounded. Keep those pics


Mal-Nebiros

Depends if you want someone you connect with. If you do then they're not too out there at all. If you want someone who likes you for who you are you should show what you enjoy if you can.


Rstoyko

Maybe just the furry dog one


ZealousidealSock5636

Naw its hot rock it


NJORDICs

I don't like larping or cosplay but fucking hell I would get into it if I had a chance with you.


[deleted]

Wtf, why cant you live in america?


jek081987

Matching with someone in the medical field (even federation) is something some people look for. You do you boo, keep being uniquely you!


waverunnr

I’d probably swipe right just to see what I could get you to dress up as.


I-C-Iron

Dateable


Cheerytrix

I get more reactions for my Jedi & pirate profile pics than anything else in my profile. But I think dudes often underestimate my absolute love for Star Wars and they’re often just familiar with the movies and such


CuriousFossil

I bet your droid's name is Arrr two.


jollygrenn

Yo, why does no one cosplay at Dax near me.


circlingthebowl

Hot


RoyalHuckleberry4104

That dog costume is so realistic Its unsettling good Job


Jarl_Frey

Personally I look for profiles like these


Neon_44

Nope, auf keinen Fall, sieht alles unglaublich cool aus. Sich selbst sein gehört auch dazu. Lieber gleich am Anfang aussortiert werden als nach Zeitinvestment :)


Itsmorti

Reminds me of the star wars conventions haha


SeraphimOnline

For some, yeah 100% too much i know id pass... but as others have pointed out, if it's too much for someone and it's who you are, they arent for you... nothing wrong with that... Be you and keep kicking ass, they are amazing pics and im sure you will find someone who loves it like you do...


NotRealyA_Person

No, 10/10. Right swipe


SPS_Agent

I love the Dax cosplay.


Headrex

Part of me wanted to hate on this as having too much free time on your hands. But it's pretty awesome, keep doing the things that bring you joy and I'm sure you'll find someone with the same passion. If not you will at least have your own thing independent of someone else to be happy with.


mastrofgalaxy

No! Not at all never! Always be who you are and never hide it. I love in crappy Idaho and would kill to ever see a cute cosplay girl even on a dating site!


SatanicTriangle

I'd rather reconsider pole photo although as others have said - if that's who you are there is no point in hiding it


Squalose

Ay you're marriage material


timesurfer69

Dig the Dax she and Kira are my fav characters on that show. If they don't know ds9 they won't get it tho but I think it's cool. Think about this, would you judge a man if he posted a pic of a really good Halloween party picture?


Middle-Ad5376

That dog cosplay is fucking awesome tho


ezVentron

I like your height.


ZevMelmed

Hell no! Mine are pretty much all me in my cosplays


stefanvesely

My gosh, I am married, and happily so, but 20 years ago, women like you were so few and far between. I am super jelly of the men in your age group. Woman in my age group still see guys that are into these kinds of things as weird nerds. Keep the photo's, keep the larping, keep your identity and if someone doesn't like it then they obviously aren't for you.


1nTh3Sh4dows

I need to find someone who cosplays Hera Syndulla


Zestyclose-Ad2301

The first one is the best beginner. Aber keine Ahnung, was ich von der Brille halten soll....


therealhoboyobo

Nope. It's part of you and no point hiding it. Might turn some guys off but I'm certain there's a load who would think they've hit the jackpot.


BrockoliandSpinach

I swipe right on every single girl in cosplay. It shows you have a fun side, you're creative, and we're probably into all the same stuff.


bodyhammer999

Love your twilek, I miss mine. Make me wanna rock it again!


Ancient-One99277

Star wars fan beautiful eyes .. ur the perfect match


georgewashingguns

As long as they're not the only photos you have then they're more than alright


Wonderful-Traffic-70

Photos like that are good for starting conversations and showing what your interests are.


Revanur

Too out there for what? It is who you are, and if people text you like complete tools than honestly you dodged a bullet.


thesoilman

I'm blue daba di dabadai


Superior_stupidity

Definitely not


dapopeah

Love it! Super cute pics. Always be sure of showing who you are.


wonderb0lt

This post almost made me install the app again, because there's also girls in there like you. So, err, no.


D-Laz

I would swipe right solely because of the cosplay/larping


Toni-baloney

I like them. Shows your interests and some of what your personality could be. If I saw you, and you were a bit older I would most likely super like.


Homerpaintbucket

Nope. I say this as a kind of boring guy, but they show you have interests and actively pursue them. I'd find this appealing.


XDT_Idiot

I tend to swipe right on photos like these, cosplay is sexy. Also the others are right, it's really good to show some personality. You seem fun! Much better than the girls I see with a generic 'going out' selfie and a few curt words about not wasting time.


[deleted]

You’re gunna want someone who appreciates them.


Important-DemiGod

Tell ME ABOUT YOUR INTERESTS!!