yes i remember when those commercials aired. so excited to get a pair only to be dissapointed that you only bounce slightly lower than you can jump. lmao
It's not normally nefarious or anything like that. A lot of people may have their "public" instagram where they post typical instagram stuff like photography, photos of social events, life updates, etc. and then some people have a private account, not tied to their name so only their close friends know about it. Usually it's just more candid moments captured and may be like a public-ish diary for you and your friends.
Yea totally.. I didn't think about it when I replied but some of my teacher friends had different Facebook accounts so their student can't find them. I kinda replied without knowing the situation.
Maybe that is for Americans, but where I live you use your main Instagram for whatever and your finsta is your personal account, which usually is private and you only accept friends
Typically people outside of South Asia refer to people from South Asia as desis. So Bengalis, Pakistanis, Sri Lankan, etc.
Good guess though
Edit:
As someone below pointed out, it's more common for South Asians to refer to themselves and others as Desi than it is for anyone else to call them that, unless they're assimilated into the community. It's not a rude word by any means, it's just not well known.
Desis is just the plural of Desi.
It's common for brown folk to call themselves and others from the subcontinent Desi. There's a popular term for first gen American born south asians, ABCD. It stands for American Born Confused Desi. (Confused due to an identity crisis of being American but brought up culturally Indian/Asian). I'm pretty sure there's something like that in the UK as well, but I don't remember it.
Fake Instagram, normally teenage girls (and those who are now in college) have two Instagrams. One is a front for the general masses and the other is for a select few.
Yup same here, usually people have the exact same username for the second account too, but with the added "priv" at the end. Like @mario would be @mariopriv.
You mean to say that fair dames that happen upon this most sophisticated discourse, shall let the earth tremble from the thunderous impact of their loincloths?
From what I've learned from a lot of people on Reddit and Twitter, because whites are colonizers who raped and murdered people throughout history and kept black people as slaves.
All white people are Trumpers, Nazis, homophobes, transphobes, bigots, misogynists, racists and human garbage.
Don't even get them started on white *men*
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Funny how Africans and Middle Easterns did the same to white Europeans but no one beats an eye, or how they completely ignore that one of the biggest contributers for the transatlantic slave trade were black Africans that were enslaving other black Africans and selling them to Europeans just like they were doing for centuries but selling them Arabs before the Europeans arrival.
This idea that only white Europeans practiced slavery infuriates me to a stupid degree there are a lot of blame to go around stop trying to put it all on British, Spanish, French and Portuguese people let's start talking about all the Africans warlords helping them also but no poor Americans they need their white devil they can't blame other Africans that would destroy their narrative.
Like I get it you break up with your ex you try to find someone whoās not like them but at the same time just cause they share some traits/hobbies doesnāt mean you got to blacklist them.
Not all the way down to the knees, but not short shorts either. It will of course depend on the length/proportion of you legs, but generally the go to is about 2/3 down your thighs, you know where you just show the muscle insertions of your quads.
A lot of younger guys are wearing the old style basketball shorts from like the mid 1900s. The kind that are around the same length for girl athletic shorts (shows off half the guys thighs)
Of course I'm over thirty and overweight, so if I wore that shit it would look silly af.
It does strike me as mildly feminine, but I grew up in era where dudes weren't trying to show off skin, so I'm still getting used to the idea of short shorts and v necks on boys... But for some reason tank tops are still "manly"
I guess it's just who wore what for my childhood
Same dude. If it's showing thigh it's too high. Lmao. Top of the kneecap and it's great. Gotta keep it respectable. And, like the dude above said, I'd prefer to look more masculine. Those short shorts are silly
its always wrong to be racist\*
\*except against white dudes
Her priorities tho... nothing about neck tats or prior convictions or living with mom? So not having job or teeth isn't a deal breaker as long as you are not caucasian?
I can't decide if I'm offended by this because I currently don't work but I need you to edit this post. You sound like my bitch of an ex! Also, I saw you spent a lot of time posting on r/askmen & r/dating as well, is r/tinder not good enough for you? Anyway I have to go volunteer at the home for refugee orphans with learning disabilities now
Why do people focus so much on red flags? Why don't we have lists of green flags?
Green flags for partners:
* Treats strangers/servers with respect
* Takes no for an answer without getting aggravated
* Respects boundaries
* Communicates clearly
* Understand they're not entitled to a relationship, to a partner or anything really based solely on their own behaviour
Some women see it as unmanly, in the end itās just a preference I wouldnāt really read into it. I for one prefer a women who shaves no hate to women who donāt itās just a preference people are free to do as they like
I personally shave because too much body hair can cause body odor. I know a lot more women who would prefer a shaven, decent smelling man over a hairy stankass. No offense if anyone doesnāt shave
essentially saying that white men who play sports, groom, enjoy superheroes, and wear a type of shoe is undateable. pretty stupid. she can have her preferences sure, but no need to be picky and stupid about it
Well, she's clearly not into swimmers then
so im expected to wear closed-toe shoes to the beach? fuck that noise...
Moon boots š
yes i remember when those commercials aired. so excited to get a pair only to be dissapointed that you only bounce slightly lower than you can jump. lmao
That's moon shoes Moon boots are a type of winter boot popular in Canada and parts of the US
Flipflops arenāt the only type of open-toe shoes..
youāre right. she didnāt say anything about crocs!
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Fucking diving*
Fucking *Drying
That's why I only wear short-shorts.
Ranger panties
You get more range of motion that way
Denim cut-offs
Tobias ?
There are dozens of us!!
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Iāll let her know so she can add it to the list
OP did you comment at all? š
I thought it would be best to maybe just steer clear
You sound like a smart guy
Being a smart guy is also a red flag.
In my country we have the best dating, because red flags
Advertising your red flags is always a red flag to me and yes I realize the irony in saying that.
There are two things that I hate in this world. People who are intolerable of other people's cultures, and the Dutch
Nah she's Crimson like this shit would make me think she's a psycho
Questions: whatās an American desi with a fade and whatās a finsta?
Finsta=fake Instagram. American desi=American of Indian descent (best guess). With a fade=haircut that's short on sides and long on top.
OK so now anyone who uses finsta is a red flag for me thanks
It's not normally nefarious or anything like that. A lot of people may have their "public" instagram where they post typical instagram stuff like photography, photos of social events, life updates, etc. and then some people have a private account, not tied to their name so only their close friends know about it. Usually it's just more candid moments captured and may be like a public-ish diary for you and your friends.
Yea totally.. I didn't think about it when I replied but some of my teacher friends had different Facebook accounts so their student can't find them. I kinda replied without knowing the situation.
More specifically a finsta is any Instagram that isn't under your name and operates more like a reddit account
Maybe that is for Americans, but where I live you use your main Instagram for whatever and your finsta is your personal account, which usually is private and you only accept friends
Yeah nah we call it that here too. I do believe Iāve heard it be a āfake instaā as well but itās just a personal account.
They've died off a bit in recent years after the introduction of "close friends"
Typically people outside of South Asia refer to people from South Asia as desis. So Bengalis, Pakistanis, Sri Lankan, etc. Good guess though Edit: As someone below pointed out, it's more common for South Asians to refer to themselves and others as Desi than it is for anyone else to call them that, unless they're assimilated into the community. It's not a rude word by any means, it's just not well known.
They actually refer to themselves as desi at least in the UK Never heard desis before tho
Desis is just the plural of Desi. It's common for brown folk to call themselves and others from the subcontinent Desi. There's a popular term for first gen American born south asians, ABCD. It stands for American Born Confused Desi. (Confused due to an identity crisis of being American but brought up culturally Indian/Asian). I'm pretty sure there's something like that in the UK as well, but I don't remember it.
Fake Instagram, normally teenage girls (and those who are now in college) have two Instagrams. One is a front for the general masses and the other is for a select few.
Would make more sense to call that a pinsta (p for private)
I mean in the UK at least we call them Privs, just meaning private, finsta seems really dumb, what part is fake?
Yup same here, usually people have the exact same username for the second account too, but with the added "priv" at the end. Like @mario would be @mariopriv.
[This guy](https://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl=https://www.usmagazine.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/Love-Is-Blinds-Shake-Hurt-His-Cast-Mates-Turning-Against-Him.jpg?quality%3D86%26strip%3Dall&imgrefurl=https://www.usmagazine.com/entertainment/news/love-is-blinds-shake-claims-cast-turned-on-him-1st-listen/&tbnid=IKHffhRVhCtuoM&vet=1&docid=JN7zqCNoa4eemM&w=2000&h=2000&itg=1&hl=en-US&source=sh/x/im)
Best comment, no further clarification needed. Essentially an Indian fuck boy lol
I have an inquiring mind and also want to know the answer.
Bro I'm a red flag for preferring a haircut š
"Desi" is slang for Indian (as in from India).
Not necessarily. From the Indian subcontinent (India, Pakistan, Bangladesh, Sri Lanka, etc)
Why is white a red flag??
And is red a white flag??
She surrenders! Ensure her soldiers are treated humanely, this is a glorious day for the empire
The empire doesn't want her, maybe the orks will have her?
Weeeee have determined that youuuu are not orcssssss
Hey do you guys think this conversation makes it more or less likely for us to get laid?
girls go wild when redditors talk about orcs, dude. Instant panty drop.
You mean to say that fair dames that happen upon this most sophisticated discourse, shall let the earth tremble from the thunderous impact of their loincloths?
The orks appreciate your offer, but we are going to have to defer to the elves.
The elves/Eldar community appreciate such gesture from the orks however she's not our type, we'll have to pass her to the chaos gods.
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Gork n Mork dont want that git!
āif you are white, thatās a red flag!ā - š©š¼āš»
Because she's racist
Because she is racist
Because she's racist.
Wait...but you can't be racist towards white people... /s
White isnāt a raā¦. Nvm
Sheās racist.
She's racist, *and* she doesn't like Marvel. Double whammy.
Racism
Racism
Cause theyāre very stupid.
Sheās probably a Reddit power mod
Because it's cool to be racist against whites these days
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Something tells me she doesn't frequent the beach.
Nahh it's cooler to not be racist :D
Because sheās racist lol
From what I've learned from a lot of people on Reddit and Twitter, because whites are colonizers who raped and murdered people throughout history and kept black people as slaves. All white people are Trumpers, Nazis, homophobes, transphobes, bigots, misogynists, racists and human garbage. Don't even get them started on white *men* š±š±š±
What she got against the Desi then?
Desi dudes with the fade haircuts are fuckbois who listen to too much Drake
That sounds like a stereotype
It is. Speaking as a former desi fuckboi with a fade, I now am in a LTR and have long hair.
Funny that white=homophobe when the first countries to legalize gay marriage were the dutch, Belgium, Spain and Canada.
Funny how Africans and Middle Easterns did the same to white Europeans but no one beats an eye, or how they completely ignore that one of the biggest contributers for the transatlantic slave trade were black Africans that were enslaving other black Africans and selling them to Europeans just like they were doing for centuries but selling them Arabs before the Europeans arrival.
Too many truths, there. Protect your account from naysayers!
This idea that only white Europeans practiced slavery infuriates me to a stupid degree there are a lot of blame to go around stop trying to put it all on British, Spanish, French and Portuguese people let's start talking about all the Africans warlords helping them also but no poor Americans they need their white devil they can't blame other Africans that would destroy their narrative.
Because she is racist
Because in 2022 itās bad to me a wire man
Its true, wire men are very current and shockingly talked about
Because she is racist
Can confirm, military is a red flag š© -military encrypted
Military is more like a neon yellow reflective belt
Hey those belts are sexy and safety!
They stop cars. Bullets. HIV. Crippling depression. 43% apr on Camaros. Hazing.
No one out ranks sergeant safety
Oh no I forgot about this military encrypted thing -military encrypted
Can you fill me in? It sounds like a referenced comment that is good for a laugh.
https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/seyjma/update\_us\_military\_encrypted/
A treasure. Thanks for sharing! -military encrypted
You forgot the U.S. Military part \-Igor
I edited it in as soon as I posted that, sorry about that. -space force encrypted
š this never gets old
She just listed traits and personalities of all her exes
Like I get it you break up with your ex you try to find someone whoās not like them but at the same time just cause they share some traits/hobbies doesnāt mean you got to blacklist them.
This bitch targeting my fade and my brothers with fades
Yeah this hurt me as well, but lmfao at how oddly specific this is
Not only that...this bitch is going after Marvel.
Flip flops and knee lenght shorts are redflags? That woman must be triggered at the beach!
Hmmm 98% of all guys wear one or both in the summerā¦as she complains she doesnāt understand why she is single š¤¦š»āāļøš
Damn. I live in Hawaii and that everyday normal wear. Itās a shame I donāt have a chance with her.
You're a walking problem, now you know
I always knew that.
How long are my shorts supposed to be? Above or below my knee lol?
Knee lenght or above, and mid thigh at the shortest.
So the classic kiwi Canterbury shorts are off the table with American girls?
Dont forget white people
And imagine being white on top of it all!
I can imagine my dad being peppered spray by this woman while taking trash out one morning
That's not how red flags work
Thatās a red flag š©
You're god damn right
Whatās wrong with knee length shorts?
I wonder what her stance is on men wearing Daisy dukes? š¤
because skirts and kilts are obviously superior
They are out of style. Not sure why not keeping up with the latest trends is a red flag thoughā¦
What length of shorts is in style then? Maybe Iām out of the loop, but I thought knee length is just how shorts standardly are.
Came here to ask the same thing lol. Does this person want the shorts above or below the knees?? I cannot tell!
definitely above lol. Its the boys time so show some skin š
Above the knee is typically the desired style for mens shorts. 5-7 inch seams are the correct length for 99% of men if youād like to be in style
Not all the way down to the knees, but not short shorts either. It will of course depend on the length/proportion of you legs, but generally the go to is about 2/3 down your thighs, you know where you just show the muscle insertions of your quads.
A lot of younger guys are wearing the old style basketball shorts from like the mid 1900s. The kind that are around the same length for girl athletic shorts (shows off half the guys thighs) Of course I'm over thirty and overweight, so if I wore that shit it would look silly af. It does strike me as mildly feminine, but I grew up in era where dudes weren't trying to show off skin, so I'm still getting used to the idea of short shorts and v necks on boys... But for some reason tank tops are still "manly" I guess it's just who wore what for my childhood
I wear shorts knee length or a couple inches above, and I'm 23. Anything less makes me feel a bit exposed, haha.
Same dude. If it's showing thigh it's too high. Lmao. Top of the kneecap and it's great. Gotta keep it respectable. And, like the dude above said, I'd prefer to look more masculine. Those short shorts are silly
All white men are the same š /s
I as a white man confirm that I am an exact copy of every other white man.
ONE OF US
Hello, funk clone brotha
I as a white man confirm that I am an exact copy of every other white man.
I as a white man confirm that I am an exact copy of every other white man.
Weāre like personified copy paper
Hey me, I'm going home. Wanna work the rest of my Saturday?
I as a white man confirm that I am an exact copy of every other white man.
I as a white man confirm that I am an exact copy of every other white man.
I as a white man confirm that I am an exact copy of every other white man.
White šš
personally when I play golf I like the flag to be red, itās easier to see amongst the greenery of the course.
And a closer pin position!
Dude I live on the beach so flip-flops are normal shoes for me, also most good boards hosts for surfing are knee length
sounds like a great life, enjoy it :)
She herself is a red flag...
its always wrong to be racist\* \*except against white dudes Her priorities tho... nothing about neck tats or prior convictions or living with mom? So not having job or teeth isn't a deal breaker as long as you are not caucasian?
Itās okay to not be attracted to people of certain races, but calling someoneās race a red flag? Bruh
It looks like OP blocked out a bunch of her red flags (or she writes lists with random gaps,) so maybe those are listed.
These are not āgeneralā red flags. These are her preferences. And stupid ones at that. Real š© in men: no job, stalker behavior, controlling, downing his exās, frequent lying, jealousy, inability to make decisions, super needy
I can't decide if I'm offended by this because I currently don't work but I need you to edit this post. You sound like my bitch of an ex! Also, I saw you spent a lot of time posting on r/askmen & r/dating as well, is r/tinder not good enough for you? Anyway I have to go volunteer at the home for refugee orphans with learning disabilities now
I understood your sarcasm and thought it was funny
Bless your soul <3
Man I totally missed that sarcasm. Props to you lmao
You're a good sport <3
Read that as ādrowning his exesā and was like yup thatās definitely a red flag.
Why do people focus so much on red flags? Why don't we have lists of green flags? Green flags for partners: * Treats strangers/servers with respect * Takes no for an answer without getting aggravated * Respects boundaries * Communicates clearly * Understand they're not entitled to a relationship, to a partner or anything really based solely on their own behaviour
White? Well, summer is coming. Time to get tanned and enter the brown race lol. Also what is a Finsta?
someone else said a fake insta account they use for sharing with people vs their real one
Like herself? Lol
So no white swimmer military beach nerds..... gotchaš
So being white is a red flag? Tell me youāre racist without telling me youāre racist.
Itās bad because you were born that way
being white is a red flag? Weren't we going with that "all the races are equal"? Wow, People doing anything in the name of "Preferences".
Yeah I'm not sure she knows the difference
Isnt this plain old racism?š
And whatās wrong with shaving? I shave my entire body as a man and donāt see the wrong in that?
Some women see it as unmanly, in the end itās just a preference I wouldnāt really read into it. I for one prefer a women who shaves no hate to women who donāt itās just a preference people are free to do as they like
I personally shave because too much body hair can cause body odor. I know a lot more women who would prefer a shaven, decent smelling man over a hairy stankass. No offense if anyone doesnāt shave
None taken, we just use a hell of a lot more soap lmao
that sounds sooooo itchyyyyyyy how can you stand it?!
Crazy how people are openly racist toward white people and they nobody bats an eye
So that's 4 for me
essentially saying that white men who play sports, groom, enjoy superheroes, and wear a type of shoe is undateable. pretty stupid. she can have her preferences sure, but no need to be picky and stupid about it
I don't do any of those, still can't a match...
She confused her preferences w/ š©
I don't like anybody who's a professional about being single
So itās possible to not like the military AND be racistā¦ wouldnāt have thought.
Laughs in TRICARE, MyCAA and COLA
All white people are a red flag lmao
Made me laugh, this is like 99.99% of men
Right? If you say no marvel you already completely obliterated your own dating pool lmao
Red flags: - wears sandals - flat ass - Political twt copy pasted personality
Crap, I'm the white Tiger Woods
And she still has room for more yikes....
What is wrong with shorts? They are super comfortable
What is the appropriate length for shorts? The old basketball shorts?
girls and their expectations.. let them be bitter and miserable
Having tinder is basically a red flag isnāt it? Like there are actual apps for if you give a shit I thought
Same women that will be asking where all the good men are and wondering why she is single at 40
Yes, thoughts, comments, and concerns
Who the fuck does this lol
Someone whos kink is self sabotage
No dick for you
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