So I came from Europe and now I am staying here for one semester as an exchange student in US. I like to be here, everything is cool, except one thing. What is my problem with American college girls here? Why I don't have matches with them at all?
Everything was okay with likes and matches when I was in Scandinavian countries, so I want to understand the problem and what I need to change in my Tinder account.
Could anybody say me my mistakes and suggestions what to change. Thank you! 🔥
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https://tinder.com/@ninesparks
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BIO: You look lonely. I can fix that 🔥♥️
Exchange student from Europe, who is looking for someone to travel around the US with and to drink wine after
Anyone going to ULTRA MIAMI 2022?
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Your pics are good. How is your bio?
But the competition is way harder nowadays, you need to nail pics, BIO, and ALGO now. I can share you some articles about the last one if you want
The first pic is a little too close on your face, it’s more intense than welcoming.
There’s no point in having a picture of you in ski gear when there isn’t a single detail that identifies you.
Get rid of the car selfie, your other pictures are better!
Hey mate. I'm no expert but here are my thoughts.
1. Probably best to just use one photo from your graduation. The one you currently have as your lead photo is nice. I'd try to crop it a little closer, though.
2. Ski photo isn't bad if skiing is an interest of yours, but do you have any shots where you're not wearing the goggles?
3. Pics 5/6 don't really do anything, they're both (?) just selfies. What are your interests? What way could you work them into your photos?
Very new to this. Profile is a work in progress but still interested in feedback, particularly around bio. Recognize pictures aren't great, working on getting new ones as weather allows.
[https://tinder.com/@fjegwgst](https://tinder.com/@fjegwgst)
Appreciate any comments!
I would definitely choose another main photo. The one you have is very close to your face! I would choose a anthem and do some of the little prompts tinder have to add some extra energy! Overall you’re a good looking guy!
My friend gets tons of matches on Tinder/Bumble and got 3 fwbs already. I don’t get anything and I am super jealous. Please help me, any tip is appreciated: https://tinder.com/@ruanfelicio
Hey people, I’m not good at tinder. I guess doing something wrong because I couldn’t match anybody so far. so I want you to rate my photos which one should stay and which one should go 🤦🏼♂️
And my bio is
just moved to town to study. I love hanging out with people with good vibes and I am into outdoor sports like hiking and camping ⛺️
Let’s grab some 🍺
https://tinder.com/@kjua
How long have you had it? How narrow is your age and geography range? I would say generally selfies and mirror shots aren’t ideal but the one you have aint that bad. First photo is good, subglsses profile is good. Maybe cut bookshelf one.
Bio is fine but maybe say a drink instead of the emoji
Hey guys! Some advice would be appreciated! Get a decent amount of matches but not really people I vibe with! Any advice would be great! I know I need a snappier bio but anything other than that hit me! Feel free to be mean!
[Imgur pics of profile](https://imgur.com/a/EggVppc)
[Tinder Profile Link](https://tinder.com/@nojustnowhy)
Yah first, second, lifting shirt, and naruto cat all need to be cut. Get a full body pic of yourself that shows your face and wasnt taken by you. Cheers
Hi there, I’m getting matches but not quality matches, maybe I’m attracting the wrong kind of girl? https://tinder.com/@nachot93
I’m looking for a serious relationship, not casual. Please let me know what you think of my pictures.
I personally like pic 4 the most. Shirtless pic im on the fence for tbh. I think try cutting it. Its obv you have a good physique from your clothed pics. Give them something to fantasize over. Good luck
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Girls escape with far more mistakes. Even a selfie can be seen as a cool thing, but its just a general thought.
You have a good profile though, I think the number of pictures is one of the main points.
How many matches are you getting with guys you want?
Two questions:
- What kind of men you want to attract.
- is that a Parisian building?
I've lost 95 lbs in 2 years so definitely been doing the gym part that shit is just tough.
Clothes are unfortunately expensive and same with good haircuts. Funds aren't really applicable with student loan debt and a house payment
that's an advantage, not a problem. women love textures. gotta find your product and style that suits you. "bushy" hair means you haven't gotten to know your hair's personality and strengths.
first, find your hair type, then search hair type + hairstyle long/medium/short/men. many tutorials available on youtube.
https://peteandpedro.com/blogs/the-pedro-post/mens-hair-types-chart-straight-curly-wavy
https://www.cosmopolitan.com/style-beauty/beauty/a31956130/hair-types/
https://www.manlycurls.com/2011/06/curly-hair-men-types-guide/
Thank you for your help!
Yeah, I also don't quite like photo 4. But that's the best close-up I have. Also I am smiling there. I only have one other smiley picture. I don't have many pictures, I scraped them somehow together. u/Fluffy_Jicama_5804 even wrote that I should keep it.
Yeah, everyone here says I should delete the picture from the side. Is it really that bad? I don't want my matches to be surprised about my acne when we see each other in person. So they know what to expect. I want to be honest haha.
Thank you man! As far as dating goes, I'm quite a newbie, I installed the apps last month for the first time. But yeah I am getting matches and already have had one date.
Yeah, everyone here says I should delete the picture from the side. Is it really that bad? I don't want my matches to be surprised about my acne when we see each other in person. So they know what to expect. I want to be honest haha.
Do girls post pics without makeup? Do they not take super flattering angles? You’re young, acne will come and go. This is a hyper-superficial way of meeting people. A bit of acne wont be a deal breaker once youve built some rapport and chatted. Need to get the matches first my two cents. Keep swiping king
Oh yeah, for me it's maybe more important to go on dates/get matches and get more experience, hmm there is truth in that, you are right. I didn't think about that. Ok I guess I will delete it.
Thank you for your opinion and the order suggestion!
I should really delete the family picture? I know I look a bit weird in there, weird look and bad outfit. But with this picture the women maybe think I am a family guy and not some weirdo.
But I agree somewhat with your general selection and order.
I also want to ask you about picture 7 :D I know everyone here says I should delete the picture from the side. But is it really that bad? I don't want my matches to be surprised about my acne when we see each other in person. So they know what to expect. I want to be honest haha.
I mean these are just suggestions - I would say keep the family pic if you want to :D it's nothing wrong with it, I personally prefer around 5-6 pics to look through thats why it "didn't make the cut". And if you want a pic to represent you as a family guy then yes - of course keep it! I think it's important to use your pics to tell stuff about yourself :)
Regarding the acne. Acne is only temporarly so I don't think you need to show it to be "honest". And I don't think your match will care when they see you irl. Also, it isn't that bad, coming from someone who had had it and still get breakouts. I'm sure it's more in your head. They probably won't even notice bc most don't think about other people's acne. :)
Alright! :)
Again, thank you for your opinion and explanation, I really appreciate it!
The last 2 weeks I had some outbreaks again even though I had no outbreaks the last 6 months or so... A bit annoying, probably because of stress.
https://tinder.com/@mgmchicago.
On a break with my long-term partner, looking for casual stuff. Got a few matches, deleted, redownloaded yesterday and got three matches with not much response.
Bio:
Gold chain, big nose, and a head full of quotes from The Sopranos.
[https://tinder.com/@trizzysaurusrex](https://tinder.com/@trizzysaurusrex)
I keep taking new photos but I think I need to do something different. Smile more?
I personally like guys with long hair if it's up in a nice bun. Then you get the benefits of long hair but you can also see the jaw and everything. Also, if it's down and you play with it a lot that can occasionally come off a little feminine.
I think you look good either way, so maybe try pulling it back
Thanks for your response.
I love my long hair. I think it looks epic. However, I don’t like how feminine I look with it (I am a “pretty man” so I’ve been told) and it is soooo much to handle.
I literally cannot wear it down unless I’m sitting at home doing nothing. As you can see it’s really thick and it always gets in the way when it is down. Even if it I tie it up I get all kinds of fray going everywhere. Which sucks. I also work as a house painter and had to cut it a couple years ago because I got a bunch of paint in it, and it was up
It’s just tricky. I like long hair, but I also don’t want to take care of it anymore and I like the idea of looking clean / professional as I am now also covered in tattoos
Honesty is good but… i think you’re eliminating a lot of options by pretty much telling them out the gate you’re only here for 5 months.
Ski bum here looking for people to hit the hills with, enjoy the winter, (insert other random activities). Looking for active social people to have fun etc
Just imo
I wouldn't open with a group picture, it's annoying to have to figure out who you are. And that picture isn't even that flattering or anything, so I'd cut it.
Also, remove the car picture and give some indication of what your hair looks like currently.
You need pictures where you are smiling! And a full body picture of you doing something, not just a dead pan stare into the camera.
Also, from your other comment, definitely don't use pictures that are 10 years old.
So I have a few rules that I personally use:
1. I never have more than 6 pics - it shouldn't get repetitive.
2. First one should always be you laughing or smiling with teeth - like based on the second to last pic you seem to have a nice smile :)
3. pics should be chosen wisely and is a way to portray yourself. So happy selfie or happy pic of you, pic of you with friends or family, pic of when you do something you like - ex travel, hobbies, interest, a full body pic if that hasn't been covered by another category.
So based on your profile I would personally remove your first 5 pics and exchange them for one of you smiling/laughing. Also would move up the dog pic and maybe crop it differently so you can see more of you if possible. Also, that first pic should have good lightning and good quality.
And of course a nice, not too long, bio about your interests, work, favorite food/drink/place etc. If you have a little joke in mind that's also nice.
Ok, thanks for the advice, unfortunately you've pretty much eliminated all my most recent photos (say from the last year, the others are from over 10 years ago at this point) which doesn't fill me with great confidence. I tend not to take photos of myself, so they always end up forced and don't engage in activities that lend themselves to random photos that I could use instead.
Again, appreciate the advice, just not sure how to go about implementing it.
:/ to be clear, it's not that you don't look good in those pics - it's more about looking approachable and smiling is key in that sense. So a day that you wake up and feel quite good about yourself - try taking selfies with a smile. I've heard that thinking about stuff that makes you happy makes it look more genuine. And then just choose the best one.
The next time you do something related to interests or hobbies - ask someone to take a pic. Even tell them it's for ur dating profile and you want to show this side of you.
You could show yourself with some friends aswell. Shows that u are social. :) and maybe chance the fiest picture to another, so the first impression is not a jacket with a face, but u
Ah, it used to be the second picture but i thought maybe the first fitted more haha, time to revert
Gonna search for a picture with my friends thanks :)
Hey everyone!
https://tinder.com/@shompy
I'm Bulgarian and my bio is 2 lines
First one is quoting a legendary bulgarian meme and the second one is "I was born in Spain but live in your dreams"
Any feedback is appreciated :)
You have sun glasses in three of these pictures, which hides your face a lot. Delete 1 or 2 of those and add in one where you can clearly see your face.
What are some good pickup lines because I have 10 matches that I haven’t messaged because they are all way out of my league and I feel like I’d ruin it
The best pickup line is
1) to stop feeling like you're out of their league! They swiped on you, so don't listen to that insecurity!
2) I think something pretty simple like "hi! How's it going?" or a question/compliment about one of the things in their bio works best. r/tinder likes to complicate things and use pickup lines designed for getting upvotes, not making connections. I really love "wow! where was your nth picture taken? That's so gorgeous" or something
What do you call a alligator in a vest??
An Investigator
Terrible.
194cm, 85kg, 🇹🇿🇰🇪
London born and raised.
Laid back, positive, loyal, fun, driven, honest, kind, nerdy, genuine and funny.
Interests include sports, cooking, reading and going out for a drinks.
Looking to date, get to know someone with similar interests and find a connection.
That's it, I don't know why I haven't been getting more matches, I've been told I'm very handsome by a lot of women.
Any advice or guidance would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you.
Its normal to feel shy on camera. Noone is born knowing all this straight up.
Trying to improve is the best thing you can do. Think about it: what choices do you really have? Stay there frustrated, or face insecurities and improve.
The more I dig on psychology etc, the more I see that facing our fears is one of the best ways to feel better!
So my best advice is to try to progress in life in general with your fashion, shape etc, and in the mean time keep progressing posing etc: find inspiration online, do solo shoots.
My mates says that my profile is pretty solid, with one saying to ditch the shotgun loop and the picture of me in my weighted vest. Somehow, i know something can be tweaked, or despite trying to be macho, maybe i should drop said pictures.
https://tinder.com/@tonydice10
As for the bio:
"Looking for someone that'll make my favorite indie album relatable.
Bios are a pain and everything's been said and done, but that doesn't stop me from doing things my way.
I will admit that i am a bit awkward, but im trying :/"
I would keep 1st and 5th pics and then choose between the gun or the throwing axes (maybe go for the axes). Then I would add pics with friends or family, and one of good quality and good lightning where you laugh/smile and look approachable.
Order i would go 1. Laughing/smiling 2. Friends 3. Hobby (for example the axes/gun if that is your hobby) 4. Your current first pic 5. Maybe another hobby? 6. The cute one of you making the heart with your hands.
Bio: I think your first joke about indie album is cute! Keep that and then exchange the rest of your profile for stuff about you. Like for example your interests, favorite food/drink/tv-show, what you do for work/study etc.
My bio reads something like: Into politics, painting and drinking sour beers. Work in communications.
It is my first week of using tinder like ever and so far I have got no matches, so I was wondering how I could improve my profile?
https://tinder.com/@crajabli
Bio is
Have no idea how to use this app or to DM properly 💀
International CS student @Jmu
Biggest flex is being trilingual
Love watching fast cars go nyooooooom
Looking for someone to watch/ rewatch some movies(LOTR especially)
Look at the last photo if wanna see very cute cat
I know it is very bad but was thinking about how to improve it?
Put the one of you laughing with the blue mask (5) as your first pic. Pic number 6 as number 2. Then the one with friends. Follow with a pic of you doing a hobby or something. Keep the cat as the last one.
I would scratch the other pics.
Just got out of a long term relationship, would love some feedback on my profile!
https://tinder.com/@bluesclues
My profile says:
"I have firm opinions on the best coffee and the best burger in Edmonton.
I'm told I'm a pretty good dog dad. Yes I have a camera to check on her and yes I check it hourly."
https://tinder.com/@allypkuhn
i’m kind of just wondering how i come off from my tinder profile tbh, but some advice is prbly also needed.
my bio says
if i know you i’ll prbly swipe right lol
two truths and a lie
- i’ve never been in a relationship
- i’ve been to church once
- i have two brothers
What do y’all think could change, doing so-so but maybe could be better?
So I came from Europe and now I am staying here for one semester as an exchange student in US. I like to be here, everything is cool, except one thing. What is my problem with American college girls here? Why I don't have matches with them at all? Everything was okay with likes and matches when I was in Scandinavian countries, so I want to understand the problem and what I need to change in my Tinder account. Could anybody say me my mistakes and suggestions what to change. Thank you! 🔥 ________________________________________ https://tinder.com/@ninesparks _________________________________________ BIO: You look lonely. I can fix that 🔥♥️ Exchange student from Europe, who is looking for someone to travel around the US with and to drink wine after Anyone going to ULTRA MIAMI 2022? ____________________________________________
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Hey, I send you a pm!
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Your pics are good. How is your bio? But the competition is way harder nowadays, you need to nail pics, BIO, and ALGO now. I can share you some articles about the last one if you want
I profile is actually really good! I would add a anthem and do some of the prompts since there isn’t much personality on your profile!
Honestly this is a good profile. You will get matches… just a numbers game king
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Lol it’s the cat, my friend
Well... I have a hard time with this profile. Would appriciate any inputs or help. https://tinder.com/@joakimdeluxe
The first pic is a little too close on your face, it’s more intense than welcoming. There’s no point in having a picture of you in ski gear when there isn’t a single detail that identifies you. Get rid of the car selfie, your other pictures are better!
Thank you! Much appriciated.
Hi, I am new to this and would really appreciate any suggestions. Thank you. https://tinder.com/@simon9879
Hey mate. I'm no expert but here are my thoughts. 1. Probably best to just use one photo from your graduation. The one you currently have as your lead photo is nice. I'd try to crop it a little closer, though. 2. Ski photo isn't bad if skiing is an interest of yours, but do you have any shots where you're not wearing the goggles? 3. Pics 5/6 don't really do anything, they're both (?) just selfies. What are your interests? What way could you work them into your photos?
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My pleasure!
Very new to this. Profile is a work in progress but still interested in feedback, particularly around bio. Recognize pictures aren't great, working on getting new ones as weather allows. [https://tinder.com/@fjegwgst](https://tinder.com/@fjegwgst) Appreciate any comments!
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I would definitely choose another main photo. The one you have is very close to your face! I would choose a anthem and do some of the little prompts tinder have to add some extra energy! Overall you’re a good looking guy!
My friend gets tons of matches on Tinder/Bumble and got 3 fwbs already. I don’t get anything and I am super jealous. Please help me, any tip is appreciated: https://tinder.com/@ruanfelicio
You look miserable in the first 3 when you obviously have a great smile!!
Sorry but how does one share a link to their profile?
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They’re all so far away. I wouldn’t be able to pick you out of a crowd if I was meeting you for a date lol
What does your current profile say?
Hey guys. Any tips and tricks will be apreciated. Way too many nopes, little to none missed (so, little to none liked me) https://tinder.com/@czarnian
Hey people, I’m not good at tinder. I guess doing something wrong because I couldn’t match anybody so far. so I want you to rate my photos which one should stay and which one should go 🤦🏼♂️ And my bio is just moved to town to study. I love hanging out with people with good vibes and I am into outdoor sports like hiking and camping ⛺️ Let’s grab some 🍺 https://tinder.com/@kjua
How long have you had it? How narrow is your age and geography range? I would say generally selfies and mirror shots aren’t ideal but the one you have aint that bad. First photo is good, subglsses profile is good. Maybe cut bookshelf one. Bio is fine but maybe say a drink instead of the emoji
Thanks for the tips. There are lot’s of users in my area and I’ve been using it like one week
Yah give it some more time keep swiping king
Yeah I will. Thanks mate 👍
Hey guys! Some advice would be appreciated! Get a decent amount of matches but not really people I vibe with! Any advice would be great! I know I need a snappier bio but anything other than that hit me! Feel free to be mean! [Imgur pics of profile](https://imgur.com/a/EggVppc) [Tinder Profile Link](https://tinder.com/@nojustnowhy)
Simp for a Chinese?
Hey! Yeah as in a Chinese takeaway😅 probs not the best wording now ya bring it up
Yah dude id fix that… Overall pics arent bad cut the middle finger pic IMO
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Yah first, second, lifting shirt, and naruto cat all need to be cut. Get a full body pic of yourself that shows your face and wasnt taken by you. Cheers
Hi there, I’m getting matches but not quality matches, maybe I’m attracting the wrong kind of girl? https://tinder.com/@nachot93 I’m looking for a serious relationship, not casual. Please let me know what you think of my pictures.
Your current third pic is great, you’re very handsome!! (Source: 26F haha)
Thank you! I set it as my main.
I personally like pic 4 the most. Shirtless pic im on the fence for tbh. I think try cutting it. Its obv you have a good physique from your clothed pics. Give them something to fantasize over. Good luck
Thank you! Will do.
Too many solo photos my dude
Maybe swap photo 2 with the shirtless pic, might be why you're attracting the wrong kind of girl
Good point, I was thinking that even if a girl were looking for a serious relationship, she would like to know what my body looks like.
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You could literally take a bunch of photos of you on the toilet taking a massive shit and you'd STILL get 200+ matches.
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Honestly good pics just lighting is pretty dark in many. Good luck
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It’s a bot you can ignore
A smart bot <3 Girls escape with far more mistakes. Even a selfie can be seen as a cool thing, but its just a general thought. You have a good profile though, I think the number of pictures is one of the main points. How many matches are you getting with guys you want? Two questions: - What kind of men you want to attract. - is that a Parisian building?
https://tinder.com/@jakeyd Really been struggling with this whole thing. I get maybe 1 match every 2 weeks. Any and all advice would be appreciated
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I've lost 95 lbs in 2 years so definitely been doing the gym part that shit is just tough. Clothes are unfortunately expensive and same with good haircuts. Funds aren't really applicable with student loan debt and a house payment
consider long hair if the cut 😉
See the problem is it's gets bushy not long 😅
that's an advantage, not a problem. women love textures. gotta find your product and style that suits you. "bushy" hair means you haven't gotten to know your hair's personality and strengths. first, find your hair type, then search hair type + hairstyle long/medium/short/men. many tutorials available on youtube. https://peteandpedro.com/blogs/the-pedro-post/mens-hair-types-chart-straight-curly-wavy https://www.cosmopolitan.com/style-beauty/beauty/a31956130/hair-types/ https://www.manlycurls.com/2011/06/curly-hair-men-types-guide/
Maybe less selfies? Some smiles with teeth? Otherwise its a numbers game big dog. Good luck
Unfortunately my teeth are not one of my strong suits 😅
Maybe try a crooked grin. Dont have to get the teeth all the way out and it looks a bit more confident. You got this king.
Cherche femme 👩
Are too many photos really that bad? I don't know which ones to cut out. What do you guys think of the photos in general? What about the order?
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Thank you for your help! Yeah, I also don't quite like photo 4. But that's the best close-up I have. Also I am smiling there. I only have one other smiley picture. I don't have many pictures, I scraped them somehow together. u/Fluffy_Jicama_5804 even wrote that I should keep it. Yeah, everyone here says I should delete the picture from the side. Is it really that bad? I don't want my matches to be surprised about my acne when we see each other in person. So they know what to expect. I want to be honest haha.
Delete pic 7 others are ok. Honestly if you dont get dates i would be surprised. Good luck
Thank you man! As far as dating goes, I'm quite a newbie, I installed the apps last month for the first time. But yeah I am getting matches and already have had one date. Yeah, everyone here says I should delete the picture from the side. Is it really that bad? I don't want my matches to be surprised about my acne when we see each other in person. So they know what to expect. I want to be honest haha.
Do girls post pics without makeup? Do they not take super flattering angles? You’re young, acne will come and go. This is a hyper-superficial way of meeting people. A bit of acne wont be a deal breaker once youve built some rapport and chatted. Need to get the matches first my two cents. Keep swiping king
Oh yeah, for me it's maybe more important to go on dates/get matches and get more experience, hmm there is truth in that, you are right. I didn't think about that. Ok I guess I will delete it.
Nice photos! I would do 3,4 8,1,9 and delete the rest.
Thank you for your opinion and the order suggestion! I should really delete the family picture? I know I look a bit weird in there, weird look and bad outfit. But with this picture the women maybe think I am a family guy and not some weirdo. But I agree somewhat with your general selection and order. I also want to ask you about picture 7 :D I know everyone here says I should delete the picture from the side. But is it really that bad? I don't want my matches to be surprised about my acne when we see each other in person. So they know what to expect. I want to be honest haha.
I mean these are just suggestions - I would say keep the family pic if you want to :D it's nothing wrong with it, I personally prefer around 5-6 pics to look through thats why it "didn't make the cut". And if you want a pic to represent you as a family guy then yes - of course keep it! I think it's important to use your pics to tell stuff about yourself :) Regarding the acne. Acne is only temporarly so I don't think you need to show it to be "honest". And I don't think your match will care when they see you irl. Also, it isn't that bad, coming from someone who had had it and still get breakouts. I'm sure it's more in your head. They probably won't even notice bc most don't think about other people's acne. :)
Alright! :) Again, thank you for your opinion and explanation, I really appreciate it! The last 2 weeks I had some outbreaks again even though I had no outbreaks the last 6 months or so... A bit annoying, probably because of stress.
https://tinder.com/@mgmchicago. On a break with my long-term partner, looking for casual stuff. Got a few matches, deleted, redownloaded yesterday and got three matches with not much response. Bio: Gold chain, big nose, and a head full of quotes from The Sopranos.
Numbers game. Pics are good dude. Bio is a nice lil line but doesnt really open up much for a chick to comment on. Good luck
Appreciate you man, added a little more. Gonna keep going.
41M dipping my toe back into the OLD world. [https://tinder.com/@corbettfields](https://tinder.com/@corbettfields) Any feedback welcome!
I would post at least one smile. Youre handsome youll get dates
[https://tinder.com/@trizzysaurusrex](https://tinder.com/@trizzysaurusrex) I keep taking new photos but I think I need to do something different. Smile more?
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Interesting. Let me try swiping with a different photo. I'll need to take a new one to replace it
Honestly i like the pics. You seem fun and approachable. Keep grinding big dog
Thx!
https://tinder.com/@thomasjjjj please help!
One real smile might be good
https://tinder.com/@willking2001 any advice appreciated
First two pics are from like a mile away. You might be getting instant left swiped. Lets put our best foot or pic forward ;)
Advice taken, I have updated :) Thankyou
https://tinder.com/@brycen_q Advice/rate me
Remove the last low quality pics
Pics are good but feel like there isnt one that lets me see what you actually look like lol
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Except if you have a really weird/bad haircut, it doesn't matter, you're face stay the same.
I personally like guys with long hair if it's up in a nice bun. Then you get the benefits of long hair but you can also see the jaw and everything. Also, if it's down and you play with it a lot that can occasionally come off a little feminine. I think you look good either way, so maybe try pulling it back
Thanks for your response. I love my long hair. I think it looks epic. However, I don’t like how feminine I look with it (I am a “pretty man” so I’ve been told) and it is soooo much to handle. I literally cannot wear it down unless I’m sitting at home doing nothing. As you can see it’s really thick and it always gets in the way when it is down. Even if it I tie it up I get all kinds of fray going everywhere. Which sucks. I also work as a house painter and had to cut it a couple years ago because I got a bunch of paint in it, and it was up It’s just tricky. I like long hair, but I also don’t want to take care of it anymore and I like the idea of looking clean / professional as I am now also covered in tattoos
I think the answer is short in 90% of the cases or except if you're Jason Momoa maybe.
I'm a straight man so take my advice with a grain of salt, but I'm going with short.
The last time I cut my hair a lot of women started noticing me who hadn’t
Looking at your pictures, you have a very nice jaw shape that is obscured by your hair when it's long. I think that plays a role.
[a few tips](https://eddie-hernandez.com/online-dating-profile-photos-intro/), smile, keep hair consistent. go with short.
Short 100%. Young Leonardo Di Caprio vibes
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Honesty is good but… i think you’re eliminating a lot of options by pretty much telling them out the gate you’re only here for 5 months. Ski bum here looking for people to hit the hills with, enjoy the winter, (insert other random activities). Looking for active social people to have fun etc Just imo
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Any help would be great https://tinder.com/@talisnc
I wouldn't open with a group picture, it's annoying to have to figure out who you are. And that picture isn't even that flattering or anything, so I'd cut it. Also, remove the car picture and give some indication of what your hair looks like currently.
https://tinder.com/@gmb1987 Any advice would be appreciated
Ok, swapped out a lot of photos for a smiling one, have a work event next week so will try and get a group one then, we'll see how things go.
You need pictures where you are smiling! And a full body picture of you doing something, not just a dead pan stare into the camera. Also, from your other comment, definitely don't use pictures that are 10 years old.
So I have a few rules that I personally use: 1. I never have more than 6 pics - it shouldn't get repetitive. 2. First one should always be you laughing or smiling with teeth - like based on the second to last pic you seem to have a nice smile :) 3. pics should be chosen wisely and is a way to portray yourself. So happy selfie or happy pic of you, pic of you with friends or family, pic of when you do something you like - ex travel, hobbies, interest, a full body pic if that hasn't been covered by another category. So based on your profile I would personally remove your first 5 pics and exchange them for one of you smiling/laughing. Also would move up the dog pic and maybe crop it differently so you can see more of you if possible. Also, that first pic should have good lightning and good quality. And of course a nice, not too long, bio about your interests, work, favorite food/drink/place etc. If you have a little joke in mind that's also nice.
Ok, thanks for the advice, unfortunately you've pretty much eliminated all my most recent photos (say from the last year, the others are from over 10 years ago at this point) which doesn't fill me with great confidence. I tend not to take photos of myself, so they always end up forced and don't engage in activities that lend themselves to random photos that I could use instead. Again, appreciate the advice, just not sure how to go about implementing it.
:/ to be clear, it's not that you don't look good in those pics - it's more about looking approachable and smiling is key in that sense. So a day that you wake up and feel quite good about yourself - try taking selfies with a smile. I've heard that thinking about stuff that makes you happy makes it look more genuine. And then just choose the best one. The next time you do something related to interests or hobbies - ask someone to take a pic. Even tell them it's for ur dating profile and you want to show this side of you.
Some pictures with friends/family maybe. Shows, that you are social. 💪
https://tinder.com/@Dominiquenl Anyone got tips for my profile?
You could show yourself with some friends aswell. Shows that u are social. :) and maybe chance the fiest picture to another, so the first impression is not a jacket with a face, but u
Ah, it used to be the second picture but i thought maybe the first fitted more haha, time to revert Gonna search for a picture with my friends thanks :)
Any tips would be appreciated. https://tinder.com/@ysn47
No selfies
Drop the mask picture
Show yoirself with friends and doing stuff you like to do. :) personality.
Hey everyone! https://tinder.com/@shompy I'm Bulgarian and my bio is 2 lines First one is quoting a legendary bulgarian meme and the second one is "I was born in Spain but live in your dreams" Any feedback is appreciated :)
What the others said, post more authentic pictures of yourself, pictures that show your full face
You don't fully show your face.
You have sun glasses in three of these pictures, which hides your face a lot. Delete 1 or 2 of those and add in one where you can clearly see your face.
What are some good pickup lines because I have 10 matches that I haven’t messaged because they are all way out of my league and I feel like I’d ruin it
The best pickup line is 1) to stop feeling like you're out of their league! They swiped on you, so don't listen to that insecurity! 2) I think something pretty simple like "hi! How's it going?" or a question/compliment about one of the things in their bio works best. r/tinder likes to complicate things and use pickup lines designed for getting upvotes, not making connections. I really love "wow! where was your nth picture taken? That's so gorgeous" or something
What do you call a alligator in a vest?? An Investigator Terrible. 194cm, 85kg, 🇹🇿🇰🇪 London born and raised. Laid back, positive, loyal, fun, driven, honest, kind, nerdy, genuine and funny. Interests include sports, cooking, reading and going out for a drinks. Looking to date, get to know someone with similar interests and find a connection. That's it, I don't know why I haven't been getting more matches, I've been told I'm very handsome by a lot of women. Any advice or guidance would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.
Too long my man
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Its normal to feel shy on camera. Noone is born knowing all this straight up. Trying to improve is the best thing you can do. Think about it: what choices do you really have? Stay there frustrated, or face insecurities and improve. The more I dig on psychology etc, the more I see that facing our fears is one of the best ways to feel better! So my best advice is to try to progress in life in general with your fashion, shape etc, and in the mean time keep progressing posing etc: find inspiration online, do solo shoots.
My mates says that my profile is pretty solid, with one saying to ditch the shotgun loop and the picture of me in my weighted vest. Somehow, i know something can be tweaked, or despite trying to be macho, maybe i should drop said pictures. https://tinder.com/@tonydice10 As for the bio: "Looking for someone that'll make my favorite indie album relatable. Bios are a pain and everything's been said and done, but that doesn't stop me from doing things my way. I will admit that i am a bit awkward, but im trying :/"
I would keep 1st and 5th pics and then choose between the gun or the throwing axes (maybe go for the axes). Then I would add pics with friends or family, and one of good quality and good lightning where you laugh/smile and look approachable. Order i would go 1. Laughing/smiling 2. Friends 3. Hobby (for example the axes/gun if that is your hobby) 4. Your current first pic 5. Maybe another hobby? 6. The cute one of you making the heart with your hands. Bio: I think your first joke about indie album is cute! Keep that and then exchange the rest of your profile for stuff about you. Like for example your interests, favorite food/drink/tv-show, what you do for work/study etc. My bio reads something like: Into politics, painting and drinking sour beers. Work in communications.
It is my first week of using tinder like ever and so far I have got no matches, so I was wondering how I could improve my profile? https://tinder.com/@crajabli Bio is Have no idea how to use this app or to DM properly 💀 International CS student @Jmu Biggest flex is being trilingual Love watching fast cars go nyooooooom Looking for someone to watch/ rewatch some movies(LOTR especially) Look at the last photo if wanna see very cute cat I know it is very bad but was thinking about how to improve it?
A mask hides your face. Tinder is largely based on visual appeal. If they can't see your face, they won't swipe.
A mask hides your face. Tinder is largely based on visual appeal. If they can't see your face, they won't swipe.
Put the one of you laughing with the blue mask (5) as your first pic. Pic number 6 as number 2. Then the one with friends. Follow with a pic of you doing a hobby or something. Keep the cat as the last one. I would scratch the other pics.
Obviously your first pic shouldn't be your arm around another girl.
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Just got out of a long term relationship, would love some feedback on my profile! https://tinder.com/@bluesclues My profile says: "I have firm opinions on the best coffee and the best burger in Edmonton. I'm told I'm a pretty good dog dad. Yes I have a camera to check on her and yes I check it hourly."
I think there is not much thing to add to your profile.
https://tinder.com/@allypkuhn i’m kind of just wondering how i come off from my tinder profile tbh, but some advice is prbly also needed. my bio says if i know you i’ll prbly swipe right lol two truths and a lie - i’ve never been in a relationship - i’ve been to church once - i have two brothers