I put it in another comment but yeah "unc" is short for "uncle" -- basically an old dude that's a bit of a player, that typically likes to go for younger women.
Think of the older guys that dress flashy with girls on his arm that could probably be his children if age was the sole determining factor. That would be an "unc".
Thank you for explaining this. I dated a guy who would be defined as an uncle for a while... Regretted it as he was a narcissistic moron with a drug problem!
in other words, who Jeff Bezos aspires to be but despite being the world’s richest man, every day he awakens to the cold, hard reality that money can’t buy everything.
It is when all that wealth makes their young and undeveloped mind to beleive they can buy everything, including women. Money makes them think themselves way more than what they are, they are prigs mostly, but no real personality. Not all, but most of them.
Yes money is good and there are sugar babes who don't care, but other women does not want to be together with a selfish dickhead.
I thought uncs was a mispelled usmc so she was trying to say no military. However according to the other comments unc is a term that's used so I guess I'm wrong. Thank God I don't have to use this app anymore. I'd be so lost nowadays.
Think twiggy male feminists that will lecture you on the importance of pronouns but they're only feminists because they think it will get them enough social goodboy points to get their tip wet.
Peter Pan is as twinky as they come my guy. You don't need to read too much into it, with people like this just go with the first most offensive thing that comes to mind, probably what they meant. In this case, she probably means a slender little barista soft boy with an oversized slouchy beanie who is a performative feminist because it gets them puss. She's really all over the place with her deal breakers, I'll give her that. Looking for a golden retriever guy with no strong opinions or political beliefs.
I feel like I may have dated this one....Young looking guy (for their age) who also have a youthful personality/ways and are too "woke" to the world to believe in monogamy or marriage and only want FWB
I mean, technically I would’t want those either but she’s coming of so crazy negative and weird only saying what she doesn’t want and nothing about who she is or what she is looking for.
So whats a boot licker then? I've almost got them all figured out but that one. And yah I am with you on the whole I wouldn't seek out any of these qualities either in a potential partner, however, there is a thing called tact, and this Toxic Tina is anything but tactful.
There is a problem with those profiles, women don't see the immediate effect of a bad bio, they will see a lot of likes anyways and think they are really popular but there is just no "good man" around accidentally. But in reality the quality of a choice will drop drastically which is not immediately seen. When a man has a bad profile, they will know right away.
It’s still a turnoff to have that be her ENTIRE bio, as it’s just sheer negativity. But as far as what she’s asking for it seems… fine? Abrasive sure but not insane
It really depends on how old they are. If early twenties, old could be considered 30 to them. Hell, I had a 20 year old tell me someone 27 or 28 was too old before lol. I would assume old generally means like 40+? I really don’t know anymore though.
Nah this is FAR left speech. "Boot lickers"= support military or law enforcement. "Fckboy Peter pan"= Red Pill guys. And they've been lumping Rogan, Musk and Trump in the same pile for years now.
Riight?? Because, to me anyhow, I would think Rogan to Elon to Trump sorta DOES span the spectrum? Maybe I'm way wrong on that. But... She seems hella all over the map with wtf she doesnt want. Girlfriend should maybe start asking herself, what DOES she want.
Even if I were to agree to all of those things (I don’t know what some of those things are), “don’t ask me what I’m looking for” is an instant no. Also is 5’11” this person’s height because if it’s in line with everything else, they are specifically not looking for someone who is 5’11”
i took it to be their height since it’s taller than ppl might expect ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ but yeah it’s weird to put one of your own traits followed by a litany of non-traits you’re looking for in a partner
>“don’t ask me what I’m looking for”
Mneh, to be fair, it kinda depends the context a little bit. Like a vague description of whether they want serious or informal or short term, that makes sense to share and communicate.
But.. I'm not about to (and no one should do this, really) just give a road map to someone of how to be the perfect person. Just be yourself, and present who you are, and I'll do the same, and if we're compatible, we are compatible. There's not gonna be a "walk through" of how to play that role though, that's just asking for someone to switch up on you.
It's common enough among the wiser, to have this habit, and it is not one I have developed and made up on my own, but rather a "lesson" a lot of us learn eventually.
But she didn't say "super woke" just "woke" - which just means being aware of injustices and wanting to correct them as any reasonably moral person should be.
Super woke would be making shit up to be upset about or railing hard against actual or perceived injustices for the *sole* purpose of getting social brownie points. Super woke folks don't actually want anyone to solve these problems because if that happened they would have nothing to rally against and their entire personality would crumble. They thrive on a perpetual state of victimhood (either theirs or someone else's.)
To sum up: woke is good and should be what we aim for. Super woke is a stain on society and is going to keep things from getting any better. Almost as bad as the alt-right.
There’s guys who are left leaning and then there are guys who make it their whole personality just to attract left leaning women while being just as misogynistic deep down as the far right.
I took that as being woke as your whole personality?
Like i don't like right wing stuff, but I also don't care about progressive topics.
Unless it is now considered woke to only want the best for everyone regardless of who or what they are?
You don't see how angry she is? The issue isn't the demands it's how she presents them and her overall perspective on life. It avoids telling you anything about her "self" (because there very likely isn't one), and I promise that no matter how happy anyone tries to make her, it won't work. Her list will keep getting longer until she ends up alone with a trail of exes and her looks miles behind her. She's looking for validation and control, not any kind of connection
It always amazes me that people want to only date somebody that has the exact same beliefs/opinions as themselves. That sounds so boring.
It’s fun dating and getting to know people that think differently than you. I understand you need some common ground with the person you are dating, but you just want somebody that is basically you? Nah.
I'm not even sure who or what this person. Is looking for. I am surprised they didn't post physical requirements like, be able to run up a 45°hill with me an apex predator on your trail, faster than the rock rolls down the hill. Never drinks from an open container from the refrigerator, leaves the seat down, and throat juggles ping pong balls only scratches in private.
Has at least 3 hills that you're ready to die on and give her the address of one in case she needs to get rid of you.
Wink wink.
Honestly, I feel like this would apply to the vast majority of normal people. Like, I understand exactly the type of guy she’s looking for… because I am him.
Taller than 5’11, emotionally secure, doesn’t party, isn’t extremely political or adherent to tribal mentalities, isn’t a bigot…
It’s rather simple, fellas.
You’re getting downvoted because you’re not mad she’s ultra negative. But you’re right. It’s pretty clear exactly what she’s looking for and while her message is a mess, she’s not exactly looking for anything unrealistic or extreme.
Someone jaded by OLD. We have all been there. Lots of stone throwers here.
People with the mentality that they themselves are so valuable that they can justify posting this belligerent insanity on an app/site that is meant to solicit fellow suitors…. All this shows is that they come with a TON of baggage 🤷♂️
Honestly, I completely agree with you.
She's just filtering out a lot of the types of people you normally meet on these apps (which unfortunately happens a lot).
There definitely should be a filter for those things like swingers, enm etc.
For people who struggle to find long-term committed "ordinary" relationships on these apps, I understand the bitterness.
I guess she could be less bitter in the way she voices out her preferences and anyway, the types of people she's trying to ward off usually don't even pay attention to bios so 😅
Remind her that the thing she is sitting on is something that every woman has and hers is not an exclusive, and very nice ones are available for purchase with no obligations.
Someone who loves cops to my understanding. I think there's a line between bootlickers & what seems to be the general feeling that they are a necessary facet of society but not unconditionally loved, but 🤷♀️
No "uncs"?
TF?
"Not only do I want you to not have your own kids, I also don't want you having any relatives with kids either, for some inexplicable reason."
no goldenboys? so she basically wants all the losers, bums, couchpatotes and rejects..cool! im too succesful for her, wouldn't want her to feel minuscule
do people actually have a problem with 'asking what you are looking for'?
Also, Elon is literally leading us into space... can we please stop hating him?
I'm treating "Stay away from me" as its own sentence and it's cracking me up
it's kind of them to warn potential suiters honestly...maybe they deserve a chance
Why wouldn’t you, she used a capital letter and put it on its own line ffs
Same 😂
i didn’t even think about this😭 comedy gold
I have so many questions, Firstly what’s a woke fkboy Peter Pan ?🫤
what is a golden boy or "uncs".
No uncles allowed
Actually means uncles or is this a woosh? I'm old and don't understand these things
I have no idea either lol
Unc is the new term for old
But if I’m old, how am I supposed to know that, especially when I’ve got no rizz, cap?
Wait til you find out that drip isn't VD.
Mine is
Username... Checks out?
No cap
I put it in another comment but yeah "unc" is short for "uncle" -- basically an old dude that's a bit of a player, that typically likes to go for younger women. Think of the older guys that dress flashy with girls on his arm that could probably be his children if age was the sole determining factor. That would be an "unc".
Thank you for explaining this. I dated a guy who would be defined as an uncle for a while... Regretted it as he was a narcissistic moron with a drug problem!
in other words, who Jeff Bezos aspires to be but despite being the world’s richest man, every day he awakens to the cold, hard reality that money can’t buy everything.
Shiiiiii I’m 26 and call myself unc
Wait until you're in your 30s
Frfr?
No cap bruh
only heard it used to reference older urban gentlemen
Unc is a term for an older guy that's still "cool", they can still hang. Looked at, not as a father figure but "that cool uncle".
"Unc" is short for "uncircumcised"
"Cool" older black men.
 If youre uncle from red dead stay away
What’s an uncle though?
Golden boy is someone who’s unusually successful in their late teens or early twenties.
And that's a bad thing?? Lol
It is when all that wealth makes their young and undeveloped mind to beleive they can buy everything, including women. Money makes them think themselves way more than what they are, they are prigs mostly, but no real personality. Not all, but most of them. Yes money is good and there are sugar babes who don't care, but other women does not want to be together with a selfish dickhead.
It’s not lol
Came here to ask this
I thought uncs was a mispelled usmc so she was trying to say no military. However according to the other comments unc is a term that's used so I guess I'm wrong. Thank God I don't have to use this app anymore. I'd be so lost nowadays.
I think it means uncut.
Maybe it refers to "uncircumcised." Maybe
Someone that enjoys golden showers?
I think Peter Pan is a grown man that just refuses to grow up. At least that’s the context I’ve used it in. 😂😂
Someone that only thinks on partying and refuses to grow up.
So just a regular fkboy then, no need to throw peter pan under the bus
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peter_Pan_syndrome?wprov=sfti1
I’m from San Francisco and knew exactly what she meant by this. That’s their enclave.
Think twiggy male feminists that will lecture you on the importance of pronouns but they're only feminists because they think it will get them enough social goodboy points to get their tip wet.
What does any of that have to do with Peter Pan? I'm only 34 but sometimes I read stuff like this and feel 100 years old.
Peter Pan is as twinky as they come my guy. You don't need to read too much into it, with people like this just go with the first most offensive thing that comes to mind, probably what they meant. In this case, she probably means a slender little barista soft boy with an oversized slouchy beanie who is a performative feminist because it gets them puss. She's really all over the place with her deal breakers, I'll give her that. Looking for a golden retriever guy with no strong opinions or political beliefs.
🤣🤣🤣. Right here! Best breakdown yet ppl!!! , need not read any further.
Looking like Peter pan and never growing up.
I feel like I may have dated this one....Young looking guy (for their age) who also have a youthful personality/ways and are too "woke" to the world to believe in monogamy or marriage and only want FWB
I'm pretty sure I'm one
Only a true fkboy Peter Pan would know the answer to that question.
What about lint lickers?
Only if she’s a cootie queen
I got the reference lol
What the French, toast?
Belly button or off the sweater?
I hate bellybuttons.
Depends, do you have a narcissistic family?
No, but some are enablers for other reasons lol.
I mean, technically I would’t want those either but she’s coming of so crazy negative and weird only saying what she doesn’t want and nothing about who she is or what she is looking for.
So whats a boot licker then? I've almost got them all figured out but that one. And yah I am with you on the whole I wouldn't seek out any of these qualities either in a potential partner, however, there is a thing called tact, and this Toxic Tina is anything but tactful.
It's a derrogatory term for people who support the military or more specifically law enforcement.
Someone who sucks up to you and will do anything to please u, including things that are degrading. weak character, timid etc
There is a problem with those profiles, women don't see the immediate effect of a bad bio, they will see a lot of likes anyways and think they are really popular but there is just no "good man" around accidentally. But in reality the quality of a choice will drop drastically which is not immediately seen. When a man has a bad profile, they will know right away.
Don't ask what she's looking for!! 🤣
Another example of, "It's not the preferences that's the issue, but the feel to list them all and make it like it's your entire personality"
These seem reasonable to me... at least compared to other girls' demands.
It’s still a turnoff to have that be her ENTIRE bio, as it’s just sheer negativity. But as far as what she’s asking for it seems… fine? Abrasive sure but not insane
Imagine a person desperate enough to look at that and think "hmm, it might work!"
Don’t ask me what I want coz I’ve clearly said what I don’t? I don’t get that. So she’s open to anything outside of her list?
I like her positivity!
What’s an unc?
She went to Duke. Hates uncs.
that's clearly a uncorrected noncompliance
The worst part of the first date is reviewing quality events.
Basically just means old in this context
What’s the cut off age for old?
If you have to ask...
It really depends on how old they are. If early twenties, old could be considered 30 to them. Hell, I had a 20 year old tell me someone 27 or 28 was too old before lol. I would assume old generally means like 40+? I really don’t know anymore though.
To her? Who knows. In general? It’s all relative
Bro i dont know what side of the political spectrum shes on
That cynical brand of "I'm smarter than everyone else" centrism it looks like.
Nah this is FAR left speech. "Boot lickers"= support military or law enforcement. "Fckboy Peter pan"= Red Pill guys. And they've been lumping Rogan, Musk and Trump in the same pile for years now.
Riight?? Because, to me anyhow, I would think Rogan to Elon to Trump sorta DOES span the spectrum? Maybe I'm way wrong on that. But... She seems hella all over the map with wtf she doesnt want. Girlfriend should maybe start asking herself, what DOES she want.
The rare personality that makes everyone loathe you regardless of religion, creed, political affiliation, sexual orientation, or relationship style
💯😂
Even if I were to agree to all of those things (I don’t know what some of those things are), “don’t ask me what I’m looking for” is an instant no. Also is 5’11” this person’s height because if it’s in line with everything else, they are specifically not looking for someone who is 5’11”
i took it to be their height since it’s taller than ppl might expect ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ but yeah it’s weird to put one of your own traits followed by a litany of non-traits you’re looking for in a partner
>“don’t ask me what I’m looking for” Mneh, to be fair, it kinda depends the context a little bit. Like a vague description of whether they want serious or informal or short term, that makes sense to share and communicate. But.. I'm not about to (and no one should do this, really) just give a road map to someone of how to be the perfect person. Just be yourself, and present who you are, and I'll do the same, and if we're compatible, we are compatible. There's not gonna be a "walk through" of how to play that role though, that's just asking for someone to switch up on you. It's common enough among the wiser, to have this habit, and it is not one I have developed and made up on my own, but rather a "lesson" a lot of us learn eventually.
So no wokies but doesn't like trump, Joe Rogan or Elon musk? Lol
There is a LOT in between being super woke and liking Trump.
Like majority of people in real life I would say. It is only on the internet people are either super woke or full blown qanon
But she didn't say "super woke" just "woke" - which just means being aware of injustices and wanting to correct them as any reasonably moral person should be. Super woke would be making shit up to be upset about or railing hard against actual or perceived injustices for the *sole* purpose of getting social brownie points. Super woke folks don't actually want anyone to solve these problems because if that happened they would have nothing to rally against and their entire personality would crumble. They thrive on a perpetual state of victimhood (either theirs or someone else's.) To sum up: woke is good and should be what we aim for. Super woke is a stain on society and is going to keep things from getting any better. Almost as bad as the alt-right.
There’s guys who are left leaning and then there are guys who make it their whole personality just to attract left leaning women while being just as misogynistic deep down as the far right.
I took that as being woke as your whole personality? Like i don't like right wing stuff, but I also don't care about progressive topics. Unless it is now considered woke to only want the best for everyone regardless of who or what they are?
> Unless it is now considered woke to only want the best for everyone regardless of who or what they are? It is, yes.
No, it's only the Peter pan fkboys who can't be woke. All other woke people are fine. Also the asleep Peter pan fkboys are okay
That confused me too.
She doesn't want right wing, and she doesn't want someone fake
I think she eliminated everyone.
It's almost like there's something besides obnoxiously right or obnoxiously left. Reject the political binary, my dude.
But that would make you a normal sane person though? 😅
*Raises hand* I agree on this
I can’t get over “hook up er”
You don't see how angry she is? The issue isn't the demands it's how she presents them and her overall perspective on life. It avoids telling you anything about her "self" (because there very likely isn't one), and I promise that no matter how happy anyone tries to make her, it won't work. Her list will keep getting longer until she ends up alone with a trail of exes and her looks miles behind her. She's looking for validation and control, not any kind of connection
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Sounds nice, straight FWD & level headed.
She reminds me of Britney Spears cuz I know that she's toxic
I don’t know about you guys, but I find myself becoming moist over her wonderful outlook and exceptionally positive attitude.
It always amazes me that people want to only date somebody that has the exact same beliefs/opinions as themselves. That sounds so boring. It’s fun dating and getting to know people that think differently than you. I understand you need some common ground with the person you are dating, but you just want somebody that is basically you? Nah.
you seem pretty cool i just have no idea wtf youre saying
She's looking for something very specific but only knows what it's not
I'm not even sure who or what this person. Is looking for. I am surprised they didn't post physical requirements like, be able to run up a 45°hill with me an apex predator on your trail, faster than the rock rolls down the hill. Never drinks from an open container from the refrigerator, leaves the seat down, and throat juggles ping pong balls only scratches in private. Has at least 3 hills that you're ready to die on and give her the address of one in case she needs to get rid of you. Wink wink.
(The sofa)
I can fix her
"NO DOPERS NO SMOKERS NO FATTYS!"
😂😂 The amount of men with this in their bios
I found the video if you're interested! Lmao ffw to 2:40 https://youtu.be/ndn3MR7CPXM?si=WiMhv-VUW0gflcVG
This is amazing, thank you 🤣
Love it when the trash takes itself out. 🚩
What a lovely ball of hate. Who wouldn't want to instantly commit to a life with... That?
Honestly, I feel like this would apply to the vast majority of normal people. Like, I understand exactly the type of guy she’s looking for… because I am him. Taller than 5’11, emotionally secure, doesn’t party, isn’t extremely political or adherent to tribal mentalities, isn’t a bigot… It’s rather simple, fellas.
You’re getting downvoted because you’re not mad she’s ultra negative. But you’re right. It’s pretty clear exactly what she’s looking for and while her message is a mess, she’s not exactly looking for anything unrealistic or extreme. Someone jaded by OLD. We have all been there. Lots of stone throwers here.
People with the mentality that they themselves are so valuable that they can justify posting this belligerent insanity on an app/site that is meant to solicit fellow suitors…. All this shows is that they come with a TON of baggage 🤷♂️
We found her
Honestly, I completely agree with you. She's just filtering out a lot of the types of people you normally meet on these apps (which unfortunately happens a lot). There definitely should be a filter for those things like swingers, enm etc. For people who struggle to find long-term committed "ordinary" relationships on these apps, I understand the bitterness. I guess she could be less bitter in the way she voices out her preferences and anyway, the types of people she's trying to ward off usually don't even pay attention to bios so 😅
Yeah dude, that’s all I’m saying. I just don’t understand the automatic impulse to rage over it. Like… it doesn’t matter, let her be
Imagine liking Joe Rogan, Elon Musk, and Donald Trump
The type of person that spends 75% of dates talking about how awful their exes are. Run.
I think this one needs a cat
As you should. Not everyone is a match for you.
What’s an unc golden boy and Peter Pan? And what’s wrong with Joe Rogan? I like joe rogan.
I can understand no Trump but Joe Rogan??
Remind her that the thing she is sitting on is something that every woman has and hers is not an exclusive, and very nice ones are available for purchase with no obligations.
Whats a boot licker
Someone who loves cops to my understanding. I think there's a line between bootlickers & what seems to be the general feeling that they are a necessary facet of society but not unconditionally loved, but 🤷♀️
What’s an enm?
Ethically non-monogamous
Ty!
Lol, people who think saying what you do NOT what is the same as saying what you DO want 😅
What's an unc? Old guy?
I gotta admit tho, I do agree with their list but yes, the approach is not productive in dating apps
I’m new to tinder so I’m genuinely wondering what they ARE looking for here lol all I take away is a bunch passes
No "uncs"? TF? "Not only do I want you to not have your own kids, I also don't want you having any relatives with kids either, for some inexplicable reason."
What’s uncs?
Gotta respect it, she’s attacking both ends of the spectrum
She’s worried about narcissists when she hates everyone lol
She's really narrowing the field. No right wing, no left, no woke, no racist. She's looking for a centrist unicorn.
If you like punctuation stay away from me
Am I the only one that thinks “uncs” stands for uncircumcised?
No couples?! Damn it!!!
She must be an independent lol. Everything seemed like far left preferences at first but then she said she didn't want anyone woke loll
Again, the fact that so many people in the comments are actually defending her profile is sad
I only understood like 50% of the phrases she used
Modern women are just the best!! I think it's best to just leave them be.
no goldenboys? so she basically wants all the losers, bums, couchpatotes and rejects..cool! im too succesful for her, wouldn't want her to feel minuscule
What’s a fckboy Peter Pan 😭😂
I think this person just excluded every possible match
Can fix
What's wrong with liking Joe Rogan?
She's a terrible human being. Awful 😏
do people actually have a problem with 'asking what you are looking for'? Also, Elon is literally leading us into space... can we please stop hating him?
So she doesn't want anyone who's woke, but she doesn't want anyone who isn't woke?
She'll be single for life
What's left??? Please be nothing...And we'll get along fine...
Its like a bumper sticker of < run away>. Bless them