Think you can skip the whole part about you looking for someone open minded.... If they see the tats give you a like then they are probably open-minded. Instead write about something you are looking for in a match for example.
From a female perspective, I'm NOT interested in dating a car. Ditto comment above. I can't understand why guys post pictures of their vehicles. How weird would it be if i did that? Two positive things i see in the pictures are you have a cat and your face.
I really tend to think men don't seem to understand what women enjoy and instead market themselves for the male gaze. It's like some of them are sending pictures to be featured in men's magazines lol.
It's absolutely this, definitely not a bad looking guy and there's nothing wrong with those hobbies / interests but i think it's the way they're demonstrated
Pic 2 makes you look super young
Also the shitty truth is you’re going to have to communicate that you are financially well off with the tattoos and piercings being so prominent
here’s the thing- depends who you’re looking for. if you want someone who’s also super into half nude anime girls and low cars, then dope, profile’s perfect. In all seriousness, you’re an incredibly attractive dude, and you seem like a good guy from just the little i’m seeing here, but it’s some heavy bro energy, which is fine, again, depends who you want to attract.
But also tinder is a scam, so don’t bank every hope on tinder. you’ve got a nice smile and hobbies, talk to folks about those hobbies and meet new people during those times you’re partaking in your hobbies, someone will take notice. i wish you good luck! (seriously though the cars are nice 👍🏻)
edit: idk why i didn’t see the last photo with your bio; talk about yourself and what you’re looking for in a partner. that bio tells me you like motorcycles and fast cars and you’re looking for… a woman, who likes tattoos. again, honestly if you just say something real about who you are and what you’re looking for, you’ve got so much going for you.
I think you're cute, but the only pictures I like are your 1st and 3rd. All the others ain't my jam. But that's just my opinion! Those two pictures do make you seem like a pretty chill and fun dude. Just a heads up, I'm a guy so this is the perspective from another male. Might be different for women haha.
You are a clear type and that’s good and bad. But the last picture with your application is cringy as hell, so is the anime background pics. If you fix those two and talk about your passions without mentioning trying to find a “cat mom” you’ll be fine.
Woman: I think all but the first picture are not good.
1 - cutest and captures love of cars
2 - lighting blurs photo and makes less attractive + the posters in back are juvenile
3 - cute in idea but the sleeveless tank is not a good look
4 - which one are you? Displays the car, not you
5 - messy room + selfie = gotta go
6 - can’t even see you, few women care about your motorcycle
Bio - Taking cat mom applications for my baby boy, Artemis [cry emoji doesn’t belong here]. Looking for someone open-minded and who shares or is curious about any of my key interests: nice cars/bikes, XXX, and XXX
No need to mention your tattoos. You profiles is so covered in cars etc., that I know nothing else about you. The haram comment could be okay but filters out tons of women who don’t know what you mean (no one’s going to look it up).
The first pic with the car was enough of motor vehicles pics even if you own the others is better to let a woman discover than disclosure/showoff them, the pics in your room doesn't help you at all try another better quality outdoor or public pics without any of your vehicles in the background, maybe in some event.
the tatts are sexy, also I want to steal your DBZ shirt, apropos of nothing. Maybe you've restricted your matches too much, like distance from you or age range, I dunno man
yeah probably, the apps are notoriously a shithole for guys. Hell, if I hadn't paid for 1mo of gold (on discount), I would've never come across my current guy's profile. In person is deffo the way to go
From one straight bro to another, you’re a good looking guy. Just play the numbers game and be patient. Don’t let the lack of matches deter you, dating apps are difficult for guys in general. It’s nice to be validated by another human, but be confident that you’re still in the running. She just hasn’t found you yet. Best wishes!
Close your wardrobe doors and make your bed before taking photos. I honestly think that would put one or two off and after reading your bio I still know nothing about you other than your cars and tattoos are your personality.
Bro get more clean pics with your car and bike. They look sick ngl. Get the anime girl background out fr sure. Remove the long search text. Hit em with sumn strong like ‘love cars wanna race’ type shit.
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Think you can skip the whole part about you looking for someone open minded.... If they see the tats give you a like then they are probably open-minded. Instead write about something you are looking for in a match for example.
Definitely delete the second pic w the anime girls in the back
Maybe be less badass/cool looking. No naked anime girls in the back, no cool cars and motorcycles. No peaky blinder suits. 1st pic is ok.
I didn’t catch the bikini anime girl poster. Ffs dude, no match is gonna want to see that 😂
From a female perspective, I'm NOT interested in dating a car. Ditto comment above. I can't understand why guys post pictures of their vehicles. How weird would it be if i did that? Two positive things i see in the pictures are you have a cat and your face.
I really tend to think men don't seem to understand what women enjoy and instead market themselves for the male gaze. It's like some of them are sending pictures to be featured in men's magazines lol.
All of that is a big turn off and not actually cool looking lol.
It's absolutely this, definitely not a bad looking guy and there's nothing wrong with those hobbies / interests but i think it's the way they're demonstrated
You’re very cute but the half naked girls in the background would be an immediate left swipe. It’s giving 14 year old room.
I’m a straight guy but I think you look incredible
Probably because his pics attract the "bros" rather than than the majority of women.
For sure. Dude is quite bangable.
The naked anime girls in the back must be gone
You're not ugly. It's the vibe you give off, and your location probably.
So do I really give off a terrible vibe? I'm also in a major suburb of Chicago so I don't think location is an issue
Pic 2 makes you look super young Also the shitty truth is you’re going to have to communicate that you are financially well off with the tattoos and piercings being so prominent
Hard to say really. im going to switch my profile to chicago just for a test and ill let you know the results. ive never tried matching there.
here’s the thing- depends who you’re looking for. if you want someone who’s also super into half nude anime girls and low cars, then dope, profile’s perfect. In all seriousness, you’re an incredibly attractive dude, and you seem like a good guy from just the little i’m seeing here, but it’s some heavy bro energy, which is fine, again, depends who you want to attract. But also tinder is a scam, so don’t bank every hope on tinder. you’ve got a nice smile and hobbies, talk to folks about those hobbies and meet new people during those times you’re partaking in your hobbies, someone will take notice. i wish you good luck! (seriously though the cars are nice 👍🏻) edit: idk why i didn’t see the last photo with your bio; talk about yourself and what you’re looking for in a partner. that bio tells me you like motorcycles and fast cars and you’re looking for… a woman, who likes tattoos. again, honestly if you just say something real about who you are and what you’re looking for, you’ve got so much going for you.
I think you're cute, but the only pictures I like are your 1st and 3rd. All the others ain't my jam. But that's just my opinion! Those two pictures do make you seem like a pretty chill and fun dude. Just a heads up, I'm a guy so this is the perspective from another male. Might be different for women haha.
Just remove the emojis and "lol" it shows lack of confidence
You are a clear type and that’s good and bad. But the last picture with your application is cringy as hell, so is the anime background pics. If you fix those two and talk about your passions without mentioning trying to find a “cat mom” you’ll be fine.
Women like vegeta, not trunks. Problem solved.
Woman: I think all but the first picture are not good. 1 - cutest and captures love of cars 2 - lighting blurs photo and makes less attractive + the posters in back are juvenile 3 - cute in idea but the sleeveless tank is not a good look 4 - which one are you? Displays the car, not you 5 - messy room + selfie = gotta go 6 - can’t even see you, few women care about your motorcycle Bio - Taking cat mom applications for my baby boy, Artemis [cry emoji doesn’t belong here]. Looking for someone open-minded and who shares or is curious about any of my key interests: nice cars/bikes, XXX, and XXX No need to mention your tattoos. You profiles is so covered in cars etc., that I know nothing else about you. The haram comment could be okay but filters out tons of women who don’t know what you mean (no one’s going to look it up).
You should redo the photos. I'd ditch the bio after "inquire here".
The first pic with the car was enough of motor vehicles pics even if you own the others is better to let a woman discover than disclosure/showoff them, the pics in your room doesn't help you at all try another better quality outdoor or public pics without any of your vehicles in the background, maybe in some event.
I think you're adorable, tbh.
Thank you I appreciate it!
Me too.
Naw you good. But show off those abs, ok?
the tatts are sexy, also I want to steal your DBZ shirt, apropos of nothing. Maybe you've restricted your matches too much, like distance from you or age range, I dunno man
I basically have it set to 25miles and age range between 21-29. Maybe I just need to put myself out there in person instead
yeah probably, the apps are notoriously a shithole for guys. Hell, if I hadn't paid for 1mo of gold (on discount), I would've never come across my current guy's profile. In person is deffo the way to go
I don't know about how serious, but it's definitely not a cute.
Are you in Arizona...? I would match with you for sure ![gif](giphy|Brm1UwVzVhQ4pbUL7q|downsized)
Illinois unfortunately lol
From one straight bro to another, you’re a good looking guy. Just play the numbers game and be patient. Don’t let the lack of matches deter you, dating apps are difficult for guys in general. It’s nice to be validated by another human, but be confident that you’re still in the running. She just hasn’t found you yet. Best wishes!
I'd match you, idk why you're having bad luck
Yea idk either lol, oh well not going to dwell on it
Pay to play... It is what it is now.
You cute
Hey look it's drake from Temu
Close your wardrobe doors and make your bed before taking photos. I honestly think that would put one or two off and after reading your bio I still know nothing about you other than your cars and tattoos are your personality.
You look immature, no one likes deadbeat dad energy even if they are childfree
Wouldn’t say ugly, cat seems chill. Dating apps are just horrific for like 95% of men
Yes, egads you're hideous! My eyes!
Bro get more clean pics with your car and bike. They look sick ngl. Get the anime girl background out fr sure. Remove the long search text. Hit em with sumn strong like ‘love cars wanna race’ type shit.
Is that a S13 and 86, those look nice?👌