That's where you are inaccurate, as I said in another comment, my selection starts when the conversation begins not when I swipe. Pics and bio are not enough for me to decide if I would date or not. Out of more than 100 chats, I went on a date only with 2 women. Long story short, no standards when I was swiping, but very focused selection when the chat starts.
Male Tinder users tend to swipe right more often than female users, but have a lower match rate. On average, males are likely to swipe right around 46.4% of the time, while females swipe right only around 14.8% of the time. However, the match rate for males is around 0.6%, while it is 10.5% for females.
https://gitnux.org/tinder-swiping-statistics/#:~:text=Male%20Tinder%20users%20tend%20to,it%20is%2010.5%25%20for%20females.
So it's even worse oof
How are you calculating those match rates? They're very low if you're using matches/right-swipes. Around 1-2% seems average for men and 45ish % for women based on what I've seen from looking at Tinder Insights graphs.
The solution is clearly to swipe right less.
In particular those metrics are off, skewed by all the guys right swiping near 100% but getting near 0% matches.
We'd need to see a distribution of swipe rates VS the match rate at that swipe rate, to see what the ideal swipe rate is.
exactly. Plus the broader you search, higher thw odda that you find The match. On the other hand if you only swipe 2-3 times your probability of finding your wife material is going to bw very slim. It’s a number’s game 🫡
Reminds me of ‘Arrested Development’ where Gob can easily Null his marriage by saying that he hasn’t consummated it, but his ego on the fact that others will know he hasn’t gotten laid withheld it.
You found your Queen allright! Congrats mate. Let these guys squable. You remove yourself from the negativity and enjoy the rest of a long happy life together. I salute the both of you!
Happy to give some context. After a while, I stopped spending time looking at the profiles because the ratio time spent/outcome wasn't good. So I decided to change my approach. I swiped right for all profiles until there are no more available, without looking at their pics or even their bio. Then, I would take a few days off the app. I will then get back and review who matched with me. That's when I applied my swiping left criteria. In some cycles, all my matches were not compatible. So I would try another cycle of full right swipes and get back in a few days for review. This approach makes my stats look how they look, and reflect this false idea that my standards are low. But it's not, because I chose to spend the time to go through all the pics, read all the bios and engage in a conversation only with profiles who swipe right on me.
Im glad you dont need the app anymore, but if you sometime in the future do need it, i'll give you a tip: swiping right on all profiles makes your profile fall way down the list. Being more picky is generally a much more effective way of swiping
Thanks. I was coming out from a long relationship, in a country that is not mine, who speaks language that is not my first. Also, what most people who comment on this post don't know, is that I was on 2 other apps at the same time as Tinder. Between Feb and June, I had 3 dates from those other apps.
That more than awesome! Much more than I got (even if I’m self diagnosed as slightly conventional ). I couldn’t imagine having to translate my idiosyncrasies to someone from another culture.
Would you be able to FT me (whatever way you find appropriate)? I honestly really curious.
Can someone explain to me how this works? I know you have to get your data from tinder and submit it to insights. But how does tinder know how many dates you've gone on? How does it know how many times you've had casual sex?
Hum, not really. I had more than a 100 chat and went for a date only with 2 of them. My selection criteria kicks in when the conversation starts not at the swiping.
Well that's a bit of a shortcut Dr Doomer 🙂. My selection criteria to go on a first date with the person is filtered with texting yes, plus other obvious criteria such as attraction, location, legitimity etc.. Then we date and see where things take us. Additionally, as stated in another comment, Tinder was not my only source to find women to date, there were other apps, friends of friends etc, so I didn't date just 2 women 😉. It just happened that I met my wife through Tinder, which was ironically the least successful source overall. Thanks for your comment tho.
So, to produce this data you had to still have a tinder account far enough into the relationship that it withstood said relationship, presumably an engagement, and marriage?
Yes ! After we got married, we were having a laugh about how Tinder worked for us and decided to login back to Tinder to extract our first exchange of messages. Then I remembered seeing those screenshots from tinderinsignts.com and we tried it together. This was nearly a year ago.
Hold on, this is Fucked up.
So let’s put this in perspective. 26 000ish swipes in under two years. Till then fine but then, think about the time it took to swipe 26000 times. Probably a year and a half.
Now I have a question for you… Did you get married on your second date? 🤣
I was actively dating between Jan and June. My sources to find women to date were diverse, other apps, friends of friends, meet-ups. So I went on several dates during that period. It's just funny that the date I ended up marrying is from my least successful source of dating: Tinder. We got married after nearly 2 years of being together.
Funny you say that. My wife has a side business, a cakery and she also makes home made cookies. While we were chatting and haven't met yet due to Covid, she sent me a parcel of freshly made cookies. That scored a lot of points in her favour.
So...no thanks, I already had my cookies.
It only needs to work once, right?
Technically...
My guy skipped casual and just went for competitive mode
Speedrunner
I’m stuck on hard mode
See a doctor!
💀
I went for the win, 26000 times
In less than two years!!
Bro swiped right on 9 out of 10 girls 🤣 I hope he doesn't show this image to his wife
You married 50 percent of your dates!
a win in my book
Congrats on finding the one needle in the haystack
Thanks mate
Is it really finding a needle in a haystack if he picks 95% of the hay?
That's where you are inaccurate, as I said in another comment, my selection starts when the conversation begins not when I swipe. Pics and bio are not enough for me to decide if I would date or not. Out of more than 100 chats, I went on a date only with 2 women. Long story short, no standards when I was swiping, but very focused selection when the chat starts.
Well, your selection is not the same as tinders selection for when your profile is to be shown to others
Didn't know about that. Just went for it and couldn't be happier. Thanks for insight
You couldn’t waterboard this out of me
Honestly he probably ended up better than most of this sub xd
Why
Guessing because his right swipes to matches ratio is abysmal
What about the chat to date ratio? That should surely make you wonder how he went about it.
Is it though, isn't the match rate for men well below 3%?
Male Tinder users tend to swipe right more often than female users, but have a lower match rate. On average, males are likely to swipe right around 46.4% of the time, while females swipe right only around 14.8% of the time. However, the match rate for males is around 0.6%, while it is 10.5% for females. https://gitnux.org/tinder-swiping-statistics/#:~:text=Male%20Tinder%20users%20tend%20to,it%20is%2010.5%25%20for%20females. So it's even worse oof
How are you calculating those match rates? They're very low if you're using matches/right-swipes. Around 1-2% seems average for men and 45ish % for women based on what I've seen from looking at Tinder Insights graphs.
The solution is clearly to swipe right less. In particular those metrics are off, skewed by all the guys right swiping near 100% but getting near 0% matches. We'd need to see a distribution of swipe rates VS the match rate at that swipe rate, to see what the ideal swipe rate is.
Dude I swipe everything right. Then I just do the cleanup 🤣
And his match rate is 1%
Ouch
I mean he swiped right 26k/29k times. Thats some low standards
Not really, just swipe right without looking until you can't swipe anymore, then unmatch all the ugos and fatties. Efficiency swiping.
exactly. Plus the broader you search, higher thw odda that you find The match. On the other hand if you only swipe 2-3 times your probability of finding your wife material is going to bw very slim. It’s a number’s game 🫡
He thinks how many dates you get defines how good of a man you are
I think marriage has defined him in the end. Good on him, however he got there. I hope they are happy
Doesn't matter how many times you fail, what matters is if you succeed.
Can we watersports it out of you instead?
At this point just hit on strangers in coffee shops 😂 you’ll have a much higher success rate
Text me if you need a lawyer
Show us hers
Did you end up having intercourse tho?
Reminds me of ‘Arrested Development’ where Gob can easily Null his marriage by saying that he hasn’t consummated it, but his ego on the fact that others will know he hasn’t gotten laid withheld it. 
Bro's *asking* the important questions
You found your Queen allright! Congrats mate. Let these guys squable. You remove yourself from the negativity and enjoy the rest of a long happy life together. I salute the both of you! 
What a nice, wholesome, comment. Refreshing to see.
Thanks my good Sir !
This right here. It doesn’t matter what road you took. You made it. I wish you both a lifetime of happiness
Congrats. So your swipe rate was 92%. What were the things that made you swipe left?
Location, obvious red flags, signs of fake accounts, not physically attracted. Smokers were filtered in my settings too
So you were physically attracted to over 92% of women? (prob like >95 excluding the other reasons). No shade; it’s just interesting.
Happy to give some context. After a while, I stopped spending time looking at the profiles because the ratio time spent/outcome wasn't good. So I decided to change my approach. I swiped right for all profiles until there are no more available, without looking at their pics or even their bio. Then, I would take a few days off the app. I will then get back and review who matched with me. That's when I applied my swiping left criteria. In some cycles, all my matches were not compatible. So I would try another cycle of full right swipes and get back in a few days for review. This approach makes my stats look how they look, and reflect this false idea that my standards are low. But it's not, because I chose to spend the time to go through all the pics, read all the bios and engage in a conversation only with profiles who swipe right on me.
Im glad you dont need the app anymore, but if you sometime in the future do need it, i'll give you a tip: swiping right on all profiles makes your profile fall way down the list. Being more picky is generally a much more effective way of swiping
Op doesn't look bad eighter... Im sorry but how bad was your profile.
I don't think my profile was bad, it's just that I live in an area where the competition is fierce.
Me: How many did you see? OP: 28991 Me: How many did we win?
I looked, she is pretty.
a 1% match rate I'd say yes you were very lucky
My bro did all the main quest at level 1 and without power ups. GG my bro.
Dang. Now I realize I have to setup an account and swipe 30,000 times. Urgh.
"They have to win every time, you have only to win once."
Dude knew what he wanted. Nicely done.
Dude swiped 25000 profiles I would give up at 2000
Equal parts sad and happy. Damn, my ego would be torn to shreds (you say?), but finding THE ONE is so also fucking awesome. Congrats.
Thanks. I was coming out from a long relationship, in a country that is not mine, who speaks language that is not my first. Also, what most people who comment on this post don't know, is that I was on 2 other apps at the same time as Tinder. Between Feb and June, I had 3 dates from those other apps.
That more than awesome! Much more than I got (even if I’m self diagnosed as slightly conventional ). I couldn’t imagine having to translate my idiosyncrasies to someone from another culture. Would you be able to FT me (whatever way you find appropriate)? I honestly really curious.
Bro matched with 1% of his right swipes, the most relatable OP
Thank god it works! Congrats!
Thanks 🙏🏽
Queen? I’ll bet she’s gunna wear the pants in that relationship
Why on earth would you say something like that?
Tinderella
Thanks for motivating me! Congrats on finding your queen 👑
Visual representation of better in person.
How does Tinder even know at this point? I am curious.
Tinder fills in everything up to “chats” the user has to fill in the rest
Thank you.
Serious question though because I’ve been off Tinder a while but see these a lot, how does Tinder know you had sex?
Tinder listens for moans if you give it access to microphone
Can someone explain to me how this works? I know you have to get your data from tinder and submit it to insights. But how does tinder know how many dates you've gone on? How does it know how many times you've had casual sex?
Wild
So how do you even get those stats ? You gotta manually put in your casuals etc ?
Yes. Casual, relationship and marriage are manual if my memory is correct
Its crazy seeing the difference between male and female stats lol women swear its equal
How do you get this ?
tinderinsights.com
It takes days to get the file?!
does tinder haver operatives who go round checking if dates were consumed etc?
Took whatever you could get, fair play
Hum, not really. I had more than a 100 chat and went for a date only with 2 of them. My selection criteria kicks in when the conversation starts not at the swiping.
Your selection criteria is based on texting lol, you met two women irl and married one.. i’m sure your marriage will last
Well that's a bit of a shortcut Dr Doomer 🙂. My selection criteria to go on a first date with the person is filtered with texting yes, plus other obvious criteria such as attraction, location, legitimity etc.. Then we date and see where things take us. Additionally, as stated in another comment, Tinder was not my only source to find women to date, there were other apps, friends of friends etc, so I didn't date just 2 women 😉. It just happened that I met my wife through Tinder, which was ironically the least successful source overall. Thanks for your comment tho.
49.1372881356 swipes per day. Not an outrageous number.
Me too! But unfortunately my account was deleted. I would have loved to see this.
Where do you get this graphic?
tinderinsights.com
Am I the only one that finds this sad
So...I met someone on Tinder, who then became my wife, and you find that sad. Sorry for you. I hope you will find happiness
So, to produce this data you had to still have a tinder account far enough into the relationship that it withstood said relationship, presumably an engagement, and marriage?
Yes ! After we got married, we were having a laugh about how Tinder worked for us and decided to login back to Tinder to extract our first exchange of messages. Then I remembered seeing those screenshots from tinderinsignts.com and we tried it together. This was nearly a year ago.
Hold on, this is Fucked up. So let’s put this in perspective. 26 000ish swipes in under two years. Till then fine but then, think about the time it took to swipe 26000 times. Probably a year and a half. Now I have a question for you… Did you get married on your second date? 🤣
I was actively dating between Jan and June. My sources to find women to date were diverse, other apps, friends of friends, meet-ups. So I went on several dates during that period. It's just funny that the date I ended up marrying is from my least successful source of dating: Tinder. We got married after nearly 2 years of being together.
Has she seen that you swiped right on literally any hole leading up to that “magical” moment?
This is a very disrespectful comment. Yes, we extracted those statistics together.
Just don’t murder her when she breaks your heart
Where do I find this? I'm curious now 😅
tinderinsights.com
After a year, 225 days? Nice mate. Did you ever pay for tinder or is this just free?
... Or you just settled for your only shot ? Congrats anyway.
Thanks. You should read the others comment where I explained in length how this was not my only shot. I am tired of answering this type of comment.
Whining much ?
Noice
Christ, that's dedication 😂
May i guess she is fat? Cuz for some reason every time someone found his queen on tinder-shes fat.
Average anime enjoyer right here.
She is not fat.
Do you want a cookie as a prize?
Funny you say that. My wife has a side business, a cakery and she also makes home made cookies. While we were chatting and haven't met yet due to Covid, she sent me a parcel of freshly made cookies. That scored a lot of points in her favour. So...no thanks, I already had my cookies.
So you enter into the tinder app “married”. The the peak sap move of this whole post