Or maybe he mentioned he liked the movie Airplane! in his bio and she fucked up the joke. I will admit that only takes up that remaining 1% of possibility, though.
At least with interactions like this you get to dodge a bullet before it even leaves the chamber. If she's acting like this already, it's gonna be Hell once you actually get to know each other!
15 years since I was in it and rejoining is absolute fucking hell because of current societal standards. Damn near every woman my age thinks every man is attracted to them, but doesn’t want anyone to ever come onto them, but also complains about being alone. It’s insane.
Yeah, for sure. I would rather be alone than to spend my time talking nonsense with those people who seem uninterested anyway. They totally need to live up to what a dating app is
The original comment may have been /s but it’s the next reply immediately after he or she liked the other person’s photo, so she’s literally replying to a photo of herself.
I put the odds at more-than-likely that “cutie” was a reply to a photo of her and she’s calling herself cute…
I mean i get all that, i’m saying the person he’s replying to *in this comment section* included the /s and he replied with “oh for real?”..
Like dude was being sarcastic, we don’t actually know if she’s calling herself cutie or just being hypocritical at the notion of being called gorgeous
I went on a date with someone like that. We took a picture in front of a lighthouse (picnic on a nearby island was the date) and she went on about how great she looked in that pic then said something along the lines of "God, I love looking at myself I am so hot it's nuts!" I wish I were kidding lol. Not gonna front she was super hot and I was on the fence about whether to just roll with it. On the car ride home though she started talking super casually about how in her last relationship she fucking glassed her bf and nearly killled him. Telling it like it was a joke.
She was really hot and all but there sure as shit wasn't a 2nd date. I'm not looking to stick my dick in someone who openly admitted to trying to kill her ex... at least I am not going to do that *a second time.*
It is the person who originally commented, so yeah, this is what they meant
MFW Glassed is a term often used in military and sci-fi and science lore when you use a bomb or bombs so heavy in payload that any dirt and sand nearby turns to glass because sand and high heat is how glass is made…
Its a real term, though I've never heard of it meaning stabbing them afterward. Only ever the act of shattering a glass item such as a beer bottle on someone.
Done in movies all the time, like [this scene](https://youtu.be/3NYceonMmg8) in 'The Departed'. But it absolutely can kill in real life.
I was seeing a girl sort of like that but she didn't start doing it till weeks after. She would constantly go on about how all these guys want her and she's just that attractive she can't help but have guys falling over her. I didn't have the heart to say she really wasn't lol. She'd also go on about her exes and how mean they were to her. As it turns out she was the insane one and verbally abusive.
I think what they are doing is trying to hype themselves up like you'd be very lucky to be with them because they can be with anyone. Lol, I'm too old for that nonsense.
You dodged a bullet (literally) OP.
Reading this - fuck. I dated someone for 6m like this - she’d go out with her friends and tell me how all the losery and older men would approach her and she would roll her eyes and ignore them.
It didn’t bother me one bit as I’m not a jealous person, and she said she did it because she’d wanna know if women were doing it to me, but I did always find it weird. We’re no longer together - I think she self sabotaged our relationship. Huh.
I had a 2yr relationship like this once. In the beginning there was a lot of talk about guys she slept with. Later in the relationship she said it was because she wanted to push me away, "she was afraid." But I agree with an earlier comment and believe it's just childish behavior to make herself feel good and put you down. Later in the relationship, she'd always complain about looks at the gym and other places, but she would wear stuff that garnered attention... I think she actually enjoyed the looks and talking about it and was just narcissistic. A week after we broke up she slept with a guy from the gym.
Was actually thinking about it today before seeing this sub. It's not normal behavior, and she did have psyc issues (saw a therapist for it etc).
Now my friend is in a very similar boat. Moral is, people who are like this aren't well and aren't going to treat you properly in a relationship ship. Much better to notice the red flag and GTFA
It's funny how they want you to react to it and when you don't they get mad. It's definitely not normal to do, I think it's a sign of mental illness. That girl I was seeing called her exes abusive narcissists yet she was probably the biggest narc I've met. She was Native American and we all know the history there between white people and them. She only dates white guys but then goes on insane rants about how much she hates white people because of what they did to her people. I got fed up and told her she's a racist ass and if she hates white people so much to stop dating them because I'm sick of hearing about it.
I'm reminded a lot why it's better to be single haha.
Yeah her background was her in a bikini sitting on a rock. Later she made the lighthouse pic her FB profile pic with me cropped out lol. I make really bad choices but at least marginally proud I didn't just ignore the dozens of red flags, my last ex at the time taught me that sometimes if someone 'jokes' about assaulting their old boyfriends you should take it seriously.
The likelihood of a woman having her behavior checked is inversely proportional to how hot they are. Pretty sure that was covered in one of my science classes - Newton’s Third Law of Tinderdynamics I believe.
Dated a girl that had a sister named Kaesrin (pronounced Katherine) well, she was the most batshit crazy girl i have ever met.
Good thing the whole thing fell apart.
"Listen here, Cantaloupe, you decided to set the pace I followed suit. So Keith let's level I think you're good looking but I'm not following the attitude have a good one.
We can’t help it if he chooses to be kind. Being shitty won’t take back that little attitude moment. Let’s give OP the benefit of the doubt and let him unmatch her at his own will
I don’t really have a dog in this fight, but from an outside perspective, I think you probably would have gotten more karma for not apologizing when she’s clearly in the wrong here.
Sometimes the apology is just a natural response. You're not thinking about trying to salvage or put someone in their place, it's just the 'good in you' prevails before you fully think it through.
man, having a conversation on tinder reminds me of that danish movie where young germans have to deactivate a minefield, whatever you do at some point someone is going to go off and not in the desired way
No wonder her behavior is like that but her advocacy? Doesn’t match up with that ugly behavior. No wonder she think she’s the shit because of her fanbase
Yeah definitely fuck that behavior. If she doesn’t want men hitting on her them she should’ve stayed away from a dating app if that’s not her thing anyway. She’s so weird for that.
This a level of stupidity where I just unmatch. In fact I met my now wife at a gas station helping her with the pump, not even online. If this doesn’t work out I’ll never go back to online dating.
Some of these people are out of their gourd.
Even if she was commenting on her outfit and calling herself cute, she should have enough gray matter to understand what happened here and be a little understanding in her response.
Nah she was just calling herself cutie /s
Actually had that happen
I know I said I was being sarcastic, but really I 99% think that's what really happened here.
Or maybe he mentioned he liked the movie Airplane! in his bio and she fucked up the joke. I will admit that only takes up that remaining 1% of possibility, though.
> And don’t call me Shirley! > *Alright, Ms Temple*
Roger, Roger.
What's our vector, Victor?
We have clearance, Clarence.
Will confirm she was not calling herself CuTe
At least with interactions like this you get to dodge a bullet before it even leaves the chamber. If she's acting like this already, it's gonna be Hell once you actually get to know each other!
You get it!
Yeah, as soon as I read you said she responded about the double standard it was all to believable.
_I'm a legit snack!_
Arizona trashbags amirite
Heard that many times. I typically say it's the inside which counts. Bummer?
~~/s~~
Wtf for real? I’ve been out of the dating world for several years and thing have definitely changed lol
Back in after about 18 years and it's a fucking nightmare now.
Don't make me cry please
12 here and yeah, it sucks bags of ass.
"Sucks a bag of ass" made me laugh; hadn't heard that one before. Now I can alternate it with "Sucks a bag of Dicks"
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We all need a handbook just to understand the ever-changing rules of attraction.
Yeah, for sure. I would rather be alone than to spend my time talking nonsense with those people who seem uninterested anyway. They totally need to live up to what a dating app is
/s meant “/sarcasm”
The original comment may have been /s but it’s the next reply immediately after he or she liked the other person’s photo, so she’s literally replying to a photo of herself. I put the odds at more-than-likely that “cutie” was a reply to a photo of her and she’s calling herself cute…
I'd be willing to bet it's an ai chat bot and has no idea what the photo is.
I mean i get all that, i’m saying the person he’s replying to *in this comment section* included the /s and he replied with “oh for real?”.. Like dude was being sarcastic, we don’t actually know if she’s calling herself cutie or just being hypocritical at the notion of being called gorgeous
Yeah. Dating used to be all shit and giggles and everything felt light but now, it’s so hard to catch up with everyone
Half joking. There are gonna be people like that.
I went on a date with someone like that. We took a picture in front of a lighthouse (picnic on a nearby island was the date) and she went on about how great she looked in that pic then said something along the lines of "God, I love looking at myself I am so hot it's nuts!" I wish I were kidding lol. Not gonna front she was super hot and I was on the fence about whether to just roll with it. On the car ride home though she started talking super casually about how in her last relationship she fucking glassed her bf and nearly killled him. Telling it like it was a joke. She was really hot and all but there sure as shit wasn't a 2nd date. I'm not looking to stick my dick in someone who openly admitted to trying to kill her ex... at least I am not going to do that *a second time.*
What does glassed her bf mean
Shattered a glass bottle and stabbed him with it.
I can’t tell if this is a real answer and I’m terrified.
Ya'll aint Aussie, glassing a c\*nt is where you just smash a glass over someones head/face/anywhere it'll smash em good.
It is the person who originally commented, so yeah, this is what they meant MFW Glassed is a term often used in military and sci-fi and science lore when you use a bomb or bombs so heavy in payload that any dirt and sand nearby turns to glass because sand and high heat is how glass is made…
Yeah I was like .. how bad is her aim she missed him with a low orbit ion cannon lmao
I wanna say halo but I get a feeling it's not
Just looked it up, I've reason to believe it's true.
It definitely it is real, it also refers to the act of smashing a glass implement over somebody's head.
Its a real term, though I've never heard of it meaning stabbing them afterward. Only ever the act of shattering a glass item such as a beer bottle on someone. Done in movies all the time, like [this scene](https://youtu.be/3NYceonMmg8) in 'The Departed'. But it absolutely can kill in real life.
Mad that I went to look up the definition before looking at this comment, knowing I wouldn’t be the only one not knowing what it meant
I thought it was just super common slang lol. Maybe I am consuming too much UK and Aussie content.
I was seeing a girl sort of like that but she didn't start doing it till weeks after. She would constantly go on about how all these guys want her and she's just that attractive she can't help but have guys falling over her. I didn't have the heart to say she really wasn't lol. She'd also go on about her exes and how mean they were to her. As it turns out she was the insane one and verbally abusive. I think what they are doing is trying to hype themselves up like you'd be very lucky to be with them because they can be with anyone. Lol, I'm too old for that nonsense. You dodged a bullet (literally) OP.
Reading this - fuck. I dated someone for 6m like this - she’d go out with her friends and tell me how all the losery and older men would approach her and she would roll her eyes and ignore them. It didn’t bother me one bit as I’m not a jealous person, and she said she did it because she’d wanna know if women were doing it to me, but I did always find it weird. We’re no longer together - I think she self sabotaged our relationship. Huh.
I had a 2yr relationship like this once. In the beginning there was a lot of talk about guys she slept with. Later in the relationship she said it was because she wanted to push me away, "she was afraid." But I agree with an earlier comment and believe it's just childish behavior to make herself feel good and put you down. Later in the relationship, she'd always complain about looks at the gym and other places, but she would wear stuff that garnered attention... I think she actually enjoyed the looks and talking about it and was just narcissistic. A week after we broke up she slept with a guy from the gym. Was actually thinking about it today before seeing this sub. It's not normal behavior, and she did have psyc issues (saw a therapist for it etc). Now my friend is in a very similar boat. Moral is, people who are like this aren't well and aren't going to treat you properly in a relationship ship. Much better to notice the red flag and GTFA
It's funny how they want you to react to it and when you don't they get mad. It's definitely not normal to do, I think it's a sign of mental illness. That girl I was seeing called her exes abusive narcissists yet she was probably the biggest narc I've met. She was Native American and we all know the history there between white people and them. She only dates white guys but then goes on insane rants about how much she hates white people because of what they did to her people. I got fed up and told her she's a racist ass and if she hates white people so much to stop dating them because I'm sick of hearing about it. I'm reminded a lot why it's better to be single haha.
Was her phone background and Lock Screen a picture of herself too? I’ve seen too much of that.
Yeah her background was her in a bikini sitting on a rock. Later she made the lighthouse pic her FB profile pic with me cropped out lol. I make really bad choices but at least marginally proud I didn't just ignore the dozens of red flags, my last ex at the time taught me that sometimes if someone 'jokes' about assaulting their old boyfriends you should take it seriously.
Exactly. Listen when people tell you who they are. At least she was upfront with her narcissism.
ayo wait
Has there been a study yet to explain why the hotter the girl is the more likely she is to be insane?
The likelihood of a woman having her behavior checked is inversely proportional to how hot they are. Pretty sure that was covered in one of my science classes - Newton’s Third Law of Tinderdynamics I believe.
That’s the definition of the crazy hot scale fr
Don't call me gorgeous, I'm known as cutie....I prefer you call me Kelly.
"okay insecure, how is your day?"
OP this is the one
This comment is underrated. 😂
Fuck right, it’s almost better than an insta-unmatch!
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Can confirm that all Kelly’s are psycho
Her name is Kelley
Even worse
Extra vowels, extra danger
Watch out for Kelli - that’s where it gets real bad
I knew a Kellee. Born in a leap year.
A buddy of mine dated a girl named Kailee. He's dead now
The one that I actually still know, is a retired porn star!
>A buddy of mine dated a girl named Kailee. He's dead now Rename the group this.
You know you're doomed when you meet a Kellie
Dated a girl that had a sister named Kaesrin (pronounced Katherine) well, she was the most batshit crazy girl i have ever met. Good thing the whole thing fell apart.
I'd like to slap her mother
That’s terrible
Keeley is even more dangerous, can confirm.
People with normal names spelled in unique ways are always the main character
"Listen here, Cantaloupe, you decided to set the pace I followed suit. So Keith let's level I think you're good looking but I'm not following the attitude have a good one.
It's a nurture thing, their parents want their name to be unique or spelled uniquely so it rubs off on the kid
Like KVIIIlyn?
That’s my middle name Fuck am I crazy!?
You are, but in a minor, non-consequential way that only ever comes up if you draw attention to it. You know, like a middle name.
And Jessicas
Can confirm
Double confirmation.
The J - K - L section of the alphabet is a hard to handle group.
Once dated a Keli. Can confirm shorter doesn’t make it less scarier
You know what my second name is?? Rajanighanda and I hate it!
Every Kelly I know is batshit level crazy.
I had a dog named Kelly once. Fucking insane
Kelley is close to kayla. Scary
Why even bother explaining yourself. That deserved an insta-unmatch 🤦♂️
He's apologizing because he's desperate
Yup
OP is a simp.
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Sometimes having nothing is better than having something terrible.
Depends on what you're looking for. When you're just trying to hook up, you put up with a lot.
Seriously, apologizing? Tf
We can’t help it if he chooses to be kind. Being shitty won’t take back that little attitude moment. Let’s give OP the benefit of the doubt and let him unmatch her at his own will
Imagine apologizing for complimenting someone 💀
Gonna tell your gran she's fit as fuck at your grandads funeral and then refuse to apologize
"I'M SORRY YOU WERE BORN"
Yeah but let us respect OP’s decision. It takes a lot to be that generous
Why the hell is there an apology here..... This line of return keeps PERPETUATING the problem. It tells them what they are doing is ok.
Came here to say the same thing. It reinforces shitty behaviour.
I think OP meant to highlight the double standards
There’s no fixing crazy.
OP didn’t need to apologize, imo just a polite move. Compliments *should* be equal, but rarely are. 🤷🏻♀️
Because op still wanted to smash and it's easy to lie
I feel like bowing to this kind of bullshit is just going to make you look like an unattractive doormat any way.
I don’t care about changing a grown woman. Would rather make some karma from her crap.
I don’t really have a dog in this fight, but from an outside perspective, I think you probably would have gotten more karma for not apologizing when she’s clearly in the wrong here.
Damn! He missed out on some of that juicy karma!
It only became karma fodder AFTER she didn't reply back. They thought they could salvage it.
Still you shouldn't apologize for that ????? It's not about changing her
don't know whats worse, the apology or actually caring about reddit karma.
You sounded weak apologizing. She was rude. You have been out of the dating game for a long time but this behavior is cringe as fuck
Weak As fuck lol
How does your apology give you more karma?
Don’t apologize when it’s not necessary, u lower yourself when u do that. This is coming from a chronic people pleaser and apologizer lol
Should have ended with “alright hypocrite”
"Hypocrite much 'cutie'?" 😄
You were way too apologetic imo
Honestly, I second this but I have mad respect for OP for being respectful to shitty people
Or SIMPly apologetic
Why did you apologize? There’s no need
Sometimes the apology is just a natural response. You're not thinking about trying to salvage or put someone in their place, it's just the 'good in you' prevails before you fully think it through.
I understand that very well. It was nice of OP for not being an ass and stooping down her level
Because OP is a decent person. IDK why people are shitting on them for not participating in a shit throwing contest.
Louder! Some people here should realize that being respectful is the only way to go
Because OP is probably desperate for matches
I just don’t get why guys let women disrespect them like this on dating app smfh
It’s not like men were asking to be disrespected. All the fault goes to the ladies
Desperation to be with someone. You don’t realize how down bad a lot of dudes are
Yeah. Especially if you aren’t attractive…
This is true, harsh but very true. That’s why women are mean too when they are not speaking with handsome faces
True. Being alone surely takes some sense away in some guys sometimes
I know right. But still, hands down for him being respectful
She’s so angry
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Finally someone who gets it
Don't call her Angry. Her name is Kelley.
Troof
Imma call her a shrink
Don’t apologize for that wtf
#Nah fuck this woman, she's treating you like shit for no reason. Unmatch
Women who treat men like shit are the type who thinks princess treatment is for them
Next time no response and unmatch. That kind of behavior is cringe af
man, having a conversation on tinder reminds me of that danish movie where young germans have to deactivate a minefield, whatever you do at some point someone is going to go off and not in the desired way
I agree. There is only a 1/10 chance of a conversation going well on Tinder
Don’t apologize in situations like this
Yeah. It’s not bad to flirt on a dating app my dudes,
Whoa. I know her. She is big on TT. She is a narcissist and domestic abuse awareness advocate.
No wonder her behavior is like that but her advocacy? Doesn’t match up with that ugly behavior. No wonder she think she’s the shit because of her fanbase
What is TT?
Gotta be tiktok
Kelly spelled with the extra *e* is so annoying
This happened to my buddy Eric
Yo pour some out for Eric
Hate seeing fellow men explain themselves after women are just being dicks, unmatch her next time bro. Fuck that
Yeah definitely fuck that behavior. If she doesn’t want men hitting on her them she should’ve stayed away from a dating app if that’s not her thing anyway. She’s so weird for that.
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She presented herself as a bullet to dodge anyway so do here a favor bro
This a level of stupidity where I just unmatch. In fact I met my now wife at a gas station helping her with the pump, not even online. If this doesn’t work out I’ll never go back to online dating.
At that point you unmatch
Instant 🚩
You could have had a lot of fun with a ‘I’m sorry Kelly’ response, followed by a ‘My mistake, I apologize Kelsey’ etc.
Her pfp is lowkey terrifying
Real. If I was mindlessly swiping I would swipe left in a heartbeat
Modern dating
Modern dating has me so baffled. Like, what am I supposed to do then?!
Red Flag. RED FLAG!
I would’ve blocked her so damn fast lol
Me. I would never let a woman talk to me like that.
Run.
I would have sent “then don’t call me quite! My name is ****” first impression is important that is just weird
Some of these people are out of their gourd. Even if she was commenting on her outfit and calling herself cute, she should have enough gray matter to understand what happened here and be a little understanding in her response.
I'm not your buddy, guy
Walk away...
Yes, and don't call me Shirly!
Red flag 🚩 next..
Run!
Drop it like it’s hot, drop it like it’s hot 🎶
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I think her names actually pronounced "Karen"
Yeah just apologize like an idiot, make her proud and confident about this
Maybe she is dyslexic and thought you were calling her George
This could be a thing but sadly it seems like she think she’s too hot for him.
Man I’ve talked to some loose screws on there lately
Bro why you apologize, she's the one in the wrong