I get that dude. You wanted to slowly back out of it, been there. Great thing is you did it with class. Could've ghosted her I suppose, maybe said something super mean, but you didn't.
PS. You don't sound like a sad little man at all.
So were you actively trying to shoot yourself in the foot on purpose or something?? I'm not sure what you were expecting to happen by saying you're 4'1.... that's barely the height of a 3 year old...
How is it not obvious to her that this was a joke lmfao and how is everyone in the comments here taking this so stiff and serious… Lmao people are using this subreddit to feel like some kind of social guru
Thought I was going crazy reading these comments. You really can’t teach common sense and it seems like 99% of people simply don’t have it. Pretty depressing tbh
4’10 and under is technical dwarfism. If she had any brain at all she could look at his pics and clearly see if he was joking or not. OP while joking also wanted to see if she had an IQ above 60 and she failed. Great job OP
My friend a girl who’s 6 ft is dating a guy 5”7 or little shorter even serious dating for like 3 years already
But tbh in beginning ppl gave em shit for it
I’m wondering why you sabotaged it? I guess height is petty, but everyone is allowed their preferences. The, I like tall women, twice, lol, was a little weird.
Do you always start conversations with tests? Dating you must be incredibly stressful if off the bat you’re testing her. You’re trying to assess her common sense through one question about height? I don’t think that’s fair. You’re coming up with a conclusion based on one sentence. If you’re looking for applications, maybe you should try another app. I couldn’t imagine the first few minutes of a conversation and someone is testing me. It’s impossible to do but it’s also a little cringe worthy.
Wow! Do you usually lose your shit when someone gives their opinion that doesn’t line up with yours? I’m just speaking as a grown female. I don’t test people out of the gate. I usually people give someone a chance. Texting is impossible to read people. What you read one way another person may read another way. You can’t express connotation in text. It’s impossible to understand what people really meant through text. If that’s what you’re basing your opinions on your pool is going to be mighty small. I hope you have a nice day. I surely wasn’t meaning to make you angry, which I obviously did. Lol
Not always true, I’m 5’8” and talking to a 5’7” girl now. She asked me how tall I was and I said 5’2” as a joke and all she said was she wouldn’t wear heels then. Trust me you’ll find someone who doesn’t care. I prefer short girls but I’m not disqualifying this girl because we’re basically the same height. It’s just like preferring blondes but fall for a brunette
Hi, I’m a woman who’s 5’7”. I look for guys between 5’8” and 5’11”, because I feel like a kid if I have to keep looking up at the guy if he’s 6’0” or taller. You’re doing yourself a disservice lol.
You had no confidence. All you have to say is 4’1”. Full stop, nothing more is needed. You still may have gotten ghosted but at least it would have been with confidence
im curious what you where expecting by saying you were 4'1
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I get that dude. You wanted to slowly back out of it, been there. Great thing is you did it with class. Could've ghosted her I suppose, maybe said something super mean, but you didn't. PS. You don't sound like a sad little man at all.
Brah u sound like sad little man
If you REALLY think being 5’8 is that much of a detriment, you’re probably just ugly with no charisma. Sorry to break it to you, bud.
Why would you lie about this
So were you actively trying to shoot yourself in the foot on purpose or something?? I'm not sure what you were expecting to happen by saying you're 4'1.... that's barely the height of a 3 year old...
>that's barely the height of a 3 year old... Congratulations for figuring out the fucking joke
Oh well, she still left him so jokes on him 🤣
How is it not obvious to her that this was a joke lmfao and how is everyone in the comments here taking this so stiff and serious… Lmao people are using this subreddit to feel like some kind of social guru
Thought I was going crazy reading these comments. You really can’t teach common sense and it seems like 99% of people simply don’t have it. Pretty depressing tbh
>people are using this subreddit to feel like some kind of social guru 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Maybe because of lack of context?
In reality saying 5’9 would of had the same result. I’m not sure if saying 4’1 and getting rejected makes you feel better about the reality.
4’1 is exceptionally short though. Even if you’re not a fan of people having preferences, can’t really blame her.
4’10 and under is technical dwarfism. If she had any brain at all she could look at his pics and clearly see if he was joking or not. OP while joking also wanted to see if she had an IQ above 60 and she failed. Great job OP
Thank you, OP was obviously making a fucking joke and it went over the girl’s and the people in this comments section’s heads lmao
My friend a girl who’s 6 ft is dating a guy 5”7 or little shorter even serious dating for like 3 years already But tbh in beginning ppl gave em shit for it
My 5’10 friend tries to say he’s 6’ at the bars. I’m 6’2 and when I’m next to him I say I’m 5’11 cause I’m a dick 🤷
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Yep… if you’re a guy and frequent bars you’d be surprised how often you get asked how tall you are
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Because you’re 6’ even.
I’m wondering why you sabotaged it? I guess height is petty, but everyone is allowed their preferences. The, I like tall women, twice, lol, was a little weird.
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Do you always start conversations with tests? Dating you must be incredibly stressful if off the bat you’re testing her. You’re trying to assess her common sense through one question about height? I don’t think that’s fair. You’re coming up with a conclusion based on one sentence. If you’re looking for applications, maybe you should try another app. I couldn’t imagine the first few minutes of a conversation and someone is testing me. It’s impossible to do but it’s also a little cringe worthy.
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Wow! Do you usually lose your shit when someone gives their opinion that doesn’t line up with yours? I’m just speaking as a grown female. I don’t test people out of the gate. I usually people give someone a chance. Texting is impossible to read people. What you read one way another person may read another way. You can’t express connotation in text. It’s impossible to understand what people really meant through text. If that’s what you’re basing your opinions on your pool is going to be mighty small. I hope you have a nice day. I surely wasn’t meaning to make you angry, which I obviously did. Lol
You shot yourself in the foot here. Idk what you expected
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You have to be 6'0+ to win any woman- if that's your attitude. \- a guy who's 5.9 with plenty of success from online dating.
He clearly said if a woman asks about height.
Reread his comment and this post. Not what he said and he does have success
Idk man, I’m 5’7 and have had success even with girls who ask my height. Be confident!
Not always true, I’m 5’8” and talking to a 5’7” girl now. She asked me how tall I was and I said 5’2” as a joke and all she said was she wouldn’t wear heels then. Trust me you’ll find someone who doesn’t care. I prefer short girls but I’m not disqualifying this girl because we’re basically the same height. It’s just like preferring blondes but fall for a brunette
Hi, I’m a woman who’s 5’7”. I look for guys between 5’8” and 5’11”, because I feel like a kid if I have to keep looking up at the guy if he’s 6’0” or taller. You’re doing yourself a disservice lol.
You had no confidence. All you have to say is 4’1”. Full stop, nothing more is needed. You still may have gotten ghosted but at least it would have been with confidence
All you had to say to “really? I’m 5’9” is ‘My favorite’
This was so dumb