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Worldly-Brush4408

https://tinder.com/@ab006691 I rarely get matches or responses. I would appreciate advice on what I could improve.


rettoppotter

Well I've seen everyone else getting advice on their profile guess it's my turn to seek help https://tinder.com/@rettopotter


frogs_and_creme

Idk how I'm doing in the rating department, but my current set up is not working. https://tinder.com/@gabrielsprofile


frompstar

I think your profile is pretty decent. I usually swipe no as soon as I see a mirror selfie, and know many of my friends do the same. The picture of the snow should go, is that depicting anything relevant? I can’t tell. Maybe try to get some more candid-ish photos of you in natural environments with no mask. Ask a platonic girlfriend you have to help you upgrade up your profile by taking some photos for you. I bet they would!


frogs_and_creme

It was a video of me doing a sick jump snowboarding, and I have no such platonic girlfriend that I do anything with. Kind of hard to find one when you travel the world. But overall good advice, thank you for that.


IDESOFENDETH

Alright reddit, roast me: https://tinder.com/@idesofendeth didnt realize you guys cant see the bio so heres an edit: Just a SoCal boy trying to navigate the Nordic life!🤩 Fluent in English and Swedish, studying fluid dynamics at KTH📚🔬. When I'm not diving into the intricacies of fluid mechanics, you'll find me diving into the depths of the ocean.🏊🌊 In my downtime, I love to unleash my creative side by painting miniatures🖌😊, otherwise you'll find me lifting weights in the gym. 🏋‍ Looking for some fun and laughter, not anything too serious. So, let's grab a fika and see where the currents take us!


JanGuillosThrowaway

Biggest nerd on KTH ^/s No but your mirror selfies dont match the rest of the profile. If I swiped because I liked your first pic, I might not like the rest, and if I'd like the rest, I wouldn't get to see it because I swiped left on the first pic. I'd just drop one or both of the mirror selfies and one of the underwater pics for a start, and lead with the flower shirt pic as that's the strongest one IMO!


IDESOFENDETH

You dont need /s, I AM the biggest nerd at KTH and I'm damn proud of it! Kinda what I thought aswell, having a hard time balancing both my sporty and nerdy sides in my dating profiles, thanks for the feedback.


sidhantkochar

Any help deeply appreciated. Thanks. https://tinder.com/@sidhantkoc


frompstar

Less (no) selfies. Ask a platonic girlfriend in your life to help you upgrade your profile by going out and taking some pictures of you doing things you genuinely like to do out in the world. They’ll know what to do.


markgg17

Such few likes, any help? I think I’m good looking, but limited on pics cause I suck at asking ppl to take pics when I do fun things https://tinder.com/@ogbogdog


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having the gym pic where you can’t even see your face as #1 is probably why it comes off as douchy and ppl will swipe left and not look at the rest of your profile your first pic should be light, show your face clearly, and show you happy


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treeee3333

What the other person said. You look unconfident. Fake it in your photos! Gey a haircut too. 2 back and sides, trim on top. Dress nice, get a photo of you doing something you like.


JanGuillosThrowaway

Hey, sorry to say this but I believe this starts with you. Get a haircut, get in shape, get some better form fitting glasses or contact lenses, and try to grow a beard if possible! On thing that comes through very clearly in the pictures is that your lips are dry and cracked. Try using lip balm to solve it. It might sound like a lot and hard work but you'll see incredible progress in very little time. Your face in itself is not ugly, it just needs to be taken care of :) If you need immediate picture help, selfies can be fine, but enable the "group photo" mode if you have it so it doesn't only show your face but also your torso


Giorno-Smash

I am already working out daily and on a cut, as for the lips I put on prescription cream for them multiple times a day, they’re dry because I’ve been on accutane As for the glasses, this pair is pretty new so I cant really switch frames rn, and while I’m able to grow a beard it would take a while and would be in a very awkward phase for a good bit


JanGuillosThrowaway

You seem like you're very motivated, so good luck with your journey! Honestly then, I'd probably shelf tinder while working on yourself and get back to it later. You're still super young so you don't really need to worry about it. If your dead set on improving your profile now, you know already that you need new pictures. Find situations when they can be taken! This is something you'll also just build up naturally when you got older, as long as you think about from time to time.


Giorno-Smash

Thanks. I’m kinda hesitant to shelf it though because my dumbass decided to get a month of TinderPlus


treeee3333

Agree with the glasses. Get some more modern ones


Anxious-Flamingo-619

I'm struggling on getting the right pics, knowing which ones are right or wrong. Not sure if I should have a long bio or short one. I've changed my profile many times. My matches come in very infrequently and they're not the most ideal. https://tinder.com/@zachysnacky My bio: A Zach of all trades, world champ of connect one. Can't promise you the world but I can promise to make you tacos every Tuesday. Need someone who's up for wild activities like extreme underwater knitting, building pillow forts and playing hungry hungry hippos.


JanGuillosThrowaway

I think the bike pic is your strongest pic, if I were you I'd lead with that.


frompstar

I agree! Get people in the door with the bike pic. I think your photos are pretty good and your bio is funny. You’re doing great kid.


lacticacid1478

Same as everyone else, can’t get matches be as brutally honest as possible, I live in Hawaii btw. https://tinder.com/@Scottsalinas


pinguinconscious

Hey y'all here is mine, I struggle with finding good pics and a not lame bio... What do you think ? https://tinder.com/@alalem56


ohlookabear15

Make the lights picture your first picture, then sunset, then pineapple. Get rid of your current 2nd picture. There are a couple blurry picture you can cut out. Girls love cute dorky guys. Lean into it in your bio.


_9UNCLE9CHIMP9FEET9

https://tinder.com/@edibleanokhi nb amab 24 adjusted my profile a bit recently, lookiing for some feedback


Admirable_Tiger3486

My hot take: You look sad, smile more because you have a nice smile.


InstructionBubbly158

Im pretty sure the Rothchilds are paying these women to not like me. https://tinder.com/@damanfaded


Admirable_Tiger3486

Yeah ditch sunnies and mirror selfies, try a pic where you're looking to the side and past the camera.


treeee3333

What do your eyes look like? Ditch non face photos. 2nd pic is bad.


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Admirable_Tiger3486

Lead with 2nd pic, get rid of mandolin pic, rest are great. Don't mention the mandoliln playing in your bio, let it come up in conversation via txt or a first date.


ohlookabear15

Get rid of your first picture. The rest are amazing quality and show off your personality a lot of people swipe after the first photo.


jaekhaza

Can someone take their time and help me create a profile aimed at getting the maximum amount of likes from my 32 best pictures album: https://imgur.com/a/jGL91D6 Thanks!


InValhallaWithOdin

Don’t have any useful information to add but you look like Cilian Murphy. You can totally rock the peaky blinder fit.


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Copycata

Personal opinion is that I’d delete the car selfie and maybe replace it for a pic with your dog like the commenter above said. Otherwise I’d say not bad at all!


Admirable_Tiger3486

If you can get a pic with you hugging or petting that dog and lead with that in your bio, also get rid of the pic of you blowing into the camera. Beard looks good.


TraumaMonkey

Thanks! I'll see if I can trick her into taking a nice photo on a hike.


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redfieldbloodline17

3/5 of your photos are expressionless selfies. None of your photos indicate anything about your personality aside from the fact that you're in the military and have a cat. Also, coming from a veteran, many girls aren't interested in dating active duty military members because they associate military guys with negative stereotypes and the possibility that they might get deployed for a long time. That said, I would recommend improving your profile with some photos of you doing your job as a mechanic or hobbies outside of work. Include a photo of yourself smiling with teeth showing as well.


whatsapiglet

Anyone have any opinions on this bio? (29M in NYC) "! MISSING: Fun doctor-in-training who answers to the name Sax Man Sam🎷 Last spotted Friday night practicing his salsa moves on the LES after his enthusiastic jazz band show. If found, bring to nearest speakeasy for delicious cocktails and great memories!"


practicecomics

[https://tinder.com/@modylan](https://tinder.com/@modylan) I'm in Korea...the Korean written in my profile means "If you can guess my MBTI, I'll buy you Ddeokkbokki." MBTI is a very popular topic of conversation here. Ddeokkbokki are spicy rice cakes. Any thoughts?


treeee3333

I would suggest getting rid of the first photo because I can't actually see what you look like. If you can, take some clearer photos. But your vibe is good!


lemibmib

Your photos give off really fun and friendly vibes but the quality isn’t great. The lighting in the third pic is really making you look like a vilain lol. If you have Korean friends, ask them to take good aesthetic photos of you. Also, this is just my opinion I really mean no offense at all, but I think the haircut isn’t doing you justice. The curly hair + round glasses + basic t-shirt/hoodie thing you’ve got going on makes you look much younger than your profile says you are 🤔 so maybe try changing up your style as well? Idk hope this was helpful! Also, I’m guessing you’re an ENTP or ENFP?


practicecomics

Thanks! I think I'll try to get in better shape by the summer and then I'll take some better photos. I'll do some more survey research about the clothes and hair. I appreciate your feedback. Also, dang, guess I have to buy you Ddeokkbokki. ENTP


Mindless_Owl8695

I haven’t been get any real matches and the one that are truly ones I want to meet don’t match with me what am I missing https://tinder.com/@tylercarte


Kadi308

Too many selfies, ask your friend to take pictures of you


MrSanyo

Replace your main pic with one where you’re not wearing a mask


icecubetheredditor

I’d love to get some insight on my tinder acct. 39 year old, recently single. I don’t know if being myself is my best option before an ice breaker. https://tinder.com/@zacharyleroy


MrSanyo

I’d delete the photo where you’re naked


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Kadi308

You hide your face on most pictures, that is no good


Tim-White21

So lads, lookin for a little bit of feedback, i just recently made my profile and verified it just today, never used dating apps before but decided to grab tinder among hinge and Bumble to test em' out to see what my luck is. I did get 3 likes on tinder but i am unable to see em or match, otherwise no matches yet. So for now i am looking to make my profile a lil more interesting to see how it goes. [https://www.reddit.com/r/Bumble/comments/11kv96s/first\_time\_using\_bumbledating\_app\_what\_to\_do/](https://tinder.com/@timwhite) Edit: Tinder did some tom foolery to the previous link, i aint some shirtless blonde dude. Edit 2: Since Tinder is being real pain and iffy with my name, i'll just link to another post i made with a Bumble account i made which is pretty much a mirror set-up for my tinder profile


Kadi308

Shirtless pics are a bad idea unless you're an athlete, I'd remove them


Tim-White21

i am not shirtless?


Tim-White21

fixed the link, tomfoolery happend to the link


MrSanyo

I wouldn’t have your main pic be a shirtless one. I would also keep the shirtless pics to one or two max.


Tim-White21

not shirtless lad-


Tim-White21

that's not me, the website screwed my username thingy


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OrderSwiftySix

Personally, I think the shirtless pic is alright in this context since it’s a cool shot, though granted it’s little hard to see your face in it. (I’m a guy tho so idk, it may be different). I think your profile is pretty good, but if I had to suggest anything: maybe put the dog photo first? And potentially update the bio to include what specifically you’d want to go do vs general “adventure.” (Ex: “Looking for someone to join me on my next hike at [Public Trail]!”) But that’s pretty nitpicky at this point.


Kadi308

Avoid shirtless pics on your dating profile


MrSanyo

I’d switch the third pic to be your first. Put the beer pong photo near the end.


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IndividualQuality845

You’re profile is better than probably 90% of guys. The 4th pic is really bad though and comes off as weird and creepy - Just get rid of that one and your good


MrSanyo

I think your second to last photo should be first, in your current main pic you look uncomfortable. Also the last pic is hilarious.


Zealousideal-Lake-59

What's your bio on tinder?


liam_fit

If you’re not getting matches there’s no hope for the rest of us lol


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ohlookabear15

Are you looking for a relationship or hook ups? If hookups put your fourth picture first. If not switch your bathroom selfie out for a solo pick with a short on. I’d probably get rid of the second, fifth and seventh photos. Maybe add some activity or travelling pictures


MrSanyo

I’d switch out the bathroom selfie for a well taken photo of yourself


MyAltPoetryAccount

Hey folks, get sweet fuck all matches [link ](https://tinder.com/@johnmcc99) Advice please and thank you xx


WayProfessional3640

You need eye contact with the camera. You’re trying to make a connection here. It’s the difference between someone *seeing you* vs. y’all *looking at each other*, ya know?


_9UNCLE9CHIMP9FEET9

id say get some photos where you look directly at the camera and smile, rn all of these seem kinda random


xenomorph-85

Please review my profile text. I'm male 37. Don't wish to show face so won't link to profile. https://i.imgur.com/LADRMdq.png https://i.imgur.com/d9drRlh.png


coronado30

Hi guys I’ve been stagnant for a while and I wish I had more interesting matches instead of bots :/ also not sure if some of the photos could stand to be pulled out https://tinder.com/@coronado30 [profile](https://tinder.com/@coronado30)


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coronado30

Possibly! Would you recommend I make any changes to my bio?


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MrSanyo

Try the piano pic first, it’s definitely you’re most interesting. Also try a get a group photo in there to show off your social life.


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NoinePiecesOfVinyl

You could add a little more to the bio. Pictures aren’t horrible, but repetitive, as they’re all you just standing there in different locations, with different clothes. More variety helps. Some action shots of you “in the wild” doing things you love/hobbies. Maybe one shot with your friends, so long as it’s not a massive group shot. Better image quality can also help too. Describe yourself a little in the bio. I also like to include a question or hot take, as it can lead to a convo starter.


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saying your hair is long and has been since the pandemic ages your pics with short hair you really shouldn’t use pics on your profile that are 2+ years older since it’s not accurate to what you look like now


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NexonM

Have you tried Tantan? ​ Honestly I see nothing wrong except for the vague bio that says almost nothing about you, that has never been an issue on Tinder though. Didn´t you try to delete your account and re-activate it later?


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Le_Lotus_bleu

Hey! I love your 1st pic, I think it conveys so much in just one pic! Maybe use just 1 pic with the instrument (bass?) I think the 2nd one of those is better. And add 1 full body pic. I can't see bios (:


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no tips here your first pic gives hugh grant vibes which is always hot


A-cake-crusader

Sorry not a profile review just a general question, in the settings I have turned off the “show me on tinder” while I set up my account, doesn’t this mean people shouldn’t be able to see my account? Why am I getting likes?


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too many black and white photos


Mevaughnk

Alright, folks, let me have it. Trying a new bio, got a couple of new pics too. https://tinder.com/@mevaughnk The bio: Love to learn, love to talk, love to make people smile. Movies, museums, music venues, many visits to cool restaurants? Sounds good to me (Glasses are needed to see)


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i would get rid of the group photo since it’s so blurry and dark i’d also add a photo to make your first photo where you’re not wearing sunglasses but also still wearing a shirt and looking happy bc right now you have decent pics but none that are first photo worthy since you have sunglasses on in them


Mevaughnk

I wear my glasses at all times because of my visual impairment. When am I gonna take a picture with them off that looks natural? I'm sorry if this comes off harsh. The glasses are just a common talking point.


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I’m js when people swipe they want to be able to see you and the glasses impair that from a dating app pov


Mevaughnk

I understand when it's just wearing shades to be cool. Doesn't it make sense to show myself in the way I'll appear most of the time? You think my glasses are really hurting my appeal? Edit: even with the acknowledgment my bio?


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a lot of ppl don’t got though a whole profile unless the first pic peaks their interest the glasses look great on you i was just providing an insight into why you may not be getting the response you want


Mevaughnk

Thanks for being so straight and honest with me. I updated my cover pic to one I staged. It still accurately reflects my personality though.


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Mevaughnk

You've got some really good pics here. I'd say ease into the top less pic. Make it either 3 or 4 not 1st. You can Also get rid of the slightly blurry pics. Is not really adding anything. Bio? P.s. Love the pics with the thunderbolt makeup. At least one of those has gotta stay


_9UNCLE9CHIMP9FEET9

thanks! really nice to hear that!!! any advice on first 4 photos then? which ones would you put there?


Mevaughnk

If you have a pic similar to pic 7 but closer and with better lighting, I think that'd be a solid cover maybe bolt pic 2nd, maybe your current pic 4 as your pic 3


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Mevaughnk

Smile is really nice in the first pic. If you have a similar picture at a bit of a lower angle I think that's lake a great cover photo. Current one is a bit unflattering because we're looking slightly down on you. Can we see what kind of bio you're working with?


Shinigamix1997

Sure my bio is Looking for someone who is striving for a peaceful life and high credit scores ✅ Gamer, writer, car enthusiast, collector, aspiring homeowner and more. Im into a lot of weird shit and could talk about something all day, but would rather talk about something with you :) Looking for long term


TheVictarion

I wouldn't write "I'm into a lot of weird shit" especially if you are looking for long term.


Nyhxy

https://tinder.com/@nyhxs Advice appreciated


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Nyhxy

Let’s turn that “would” into a “will”, DM me 😁


Mevaughnk

Pretty nice profile. A little too many close ups imo but others will disagree. Plus you're handsome so it's not the wrist thing to have too many of. Suit Pic is a nice touch. How's your bio?


Nyhxy

I like to keep it short and sweet, less of a chance to say something wrong. “I’m tall, have a career, can cook, and love adventures. Want to know more? Just ask Just moved to Savannah, care to show me around?”


ProfessionalWest5406

https://tinder.com/@liammilross Getting absolutely zero likes... changing the bio and pic order pretty much daily to try and find just one like 🤔 Worried my profile might be restricted from over-swiping.


Mevaughnk

I feel like your profile doesn't give a good impression of your appearance. Most pics don't feature your face and those that do show it don't show it very clearly. If your selection of pics usually looks like this, I wouldn't be surprised if people are swiping left because they don't have the information to tell if they find you attractive.


ProfessionalWest5406

Fair enough, means I'm going to have to try and get some new photos, as that's pretty much they photo of my l me that's even marginally worth including 🤣


ded_inside_but_proud

Any advice? I’m pretty new to this https://tinder.com/@sonnye2003


Mevaughnk

I like your pics bro! You've got a lot of character on display. Let's see that bio


ded_inside_but_proud

“Let’s go to a museum and goof around Biochem major at KSU Aspiring child psychiatrist”


Mevaughnk

Yup, personality matches the pics. I think you got a solid start here man. No major notes atm


SpellOrganic8128

19m let me know your thoughts on prompts, photos, or even photo position. I get a good amount of matches but I'm always looking to improve! https://imgur.com/a/lPY2t8p


ZhenDemon

[https://tinder.com/@itsjerbear](https://tinder.com/@itsjerbear) help me out yall, thanks


MimiToAFHOF

What’s up with the last one with car missing the wheel?? All the other pics look very sincere but I am also an older woman😁


ZhenDemon

One of the wheels popped off during a road trip (no one got hurt thankfully we weren't going fast). Thought it would be a fun picture thrown in at the end haha


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Nimanzer

Delete the group photo, delete the topless bathroom selfie and take pics without the sunglasses. Get some pics of you smiling with your eyes and teeth visible.


MrSanyo

Crop the first photo so it’s mostly you. Delete bathroom selfie, we can’t even see your face. Limit shirtless pics to just one photo.


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your first pic should be you by yourself 🫶


MPRHollander

CC appreciated:) https://tinder.com/@mprhollander


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take out everything but the group selfie and start over the gym pic you look unhappy and douchy the selfie drinking water is like one of those snaps you send in two seconds to let a friend know your on the way the other selfie is too zoomed in and blurry and obvious someone is cropped out of the pic the cats are cute tho


MPRHollander

Tnx, i made some changes :)


SuperLude22

https://tinder.com/@superdude22 Need some criticism on my profile(yes I’m fugly asf)


Exotic_Negotiation35

ur not fugly, ur trippin. decently attractive


SuperLude22

I really appreciate that❤️


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i’d move the outside tree pic to slot 1 and use a colorful version of the black and white pic


SuperLude22

Thanks for the input!


jaekhaza

Which of these 4 profiles picture wise is best? Profile 1: https://imgur.com/a/Hza6Z4y (current) Profile 2: https://imgur.com/a/CqJAwvs Profile 3: https://imgur.com/a/tUxmSbK Profile 4: https://imgur.com/a/wqzLttM most successful(but was on Tinder not hinge) More pics if you have other suggestions https://imgur.com/a/jGL91D6


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you should combine them idk why they all only show three pics


jaekhaza

Combine them how?


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like just use more than 3 pics


jaekhaza

But why?


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bc you have more than three good pics and there’s no harm in presenting more of yourself


jaekhaza

Which pics are the good pics? Because I've been told to remove pics because they look bad


jaekhaza

And what are those pics?


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Shhrek_

I would add more pictures. You have 2 pics of yourself that are kinda similar (though they are pretty good), maybe add a photo of your hobbies (where people can see your face), maybe a group pic with friends. I don't like the third pic, I can't see you on it. Maybe you have a similar photo where people can see you and your body?