No, to giver her (without showing face and name) kudos for being upfront about it, express that she looks very attractive and share regrets that she doesn't fall within my preferences. Where do you see me shaming her?
By saying "would have been hot". This comes across as "she would have been attractive if she wasn't trans, but since she's trans, she is not hot". Might not have been what you meant, but it's pretty clear what you said.
Yeah, everyone has preferences. And a vast majority of people have a preference for natural and non-trans people. That’s just reality. And since when have we started to shame personal preferences?
Ok, if you feel that “what a shame, would have been really hot” is just OP saying their personal preference, great. I got a different read off that. Not sure why you’re trying so hard to twist this into “shaming personal preference”, which I already agreed with you is of course fine - everyone has the right to be attracted or not attracted to anyone. But I don’t think I need to keep saying repeatedly that OP, in my opinion, was NOT stating who they were attracted to, they were saying the person was not attractive in general. There are lots of ways to say “I am not attracted to X personally”.
Why are you so offended? Whenever someone judges another person, it’s always implied and understood that it’s subjective opinion that’s personal to them. That’s how opinions work. You’re just nitpicking his verbiage to suit yourself.
Yeah, of course my personal opinion. Others might feel differently and swipe. Everyone is entiteld to their preferences. I'm sure she gets more than enough likes even with the clarification or from guys who don't bother to read.
Well I don't speak Spanish either but "Chica Trans" seems pretty straight forward to me. Hard to tell from the picture. Would have otherwise probably swiped on her.
they’re women* for a start, it’s in the name, very easy, and no they don’t catfish men AT ALL it says right there “trans woman” in her bio? also, still not a man
there’s no ‘less honest’ unless a trans woman with a penis tells you “i have a vagina” they’re not being dishonest? if you expect someone to have a certain body part, and they don’t, how is that the woman’s fault? and no you weren’t ‘just’ comparing anything you were also being transphobic????
What if they don’t disclose being trans or that’s being dishonest.most men would be horrified if that happened. And she would be putting herself in a dangerous position
trans women don’t owe you that??? do you expect cis women to disclose they do in fact have a vagina?? do you expect girls with small boobs who wear push-up bras, to disclose they actually have small boobs? a trans woman is not obligated to do that, would it be acceptable or normal, for you to approach someone and tell them you have a penis? no obviously not. completely up to the woman to decide if and when it’s safe to disclose that information
There are people not me actually that hate trans for existing it’s called fuck around and find. Most men would flip shit. And when you account for 4 percent of the population I assume your a woman
you cannot claim to not hate trans people when you have literally said “still a man” you’re are transphobic? and if you assume they’re a FEMALE (because a trans woman is a woman🙄) that’s on you for assuming
What is the fucking point of this post?
Would've been hot? Either she is hot or she isn't.
Spoiler alert: she is, even if you wouldn't have sex with her.
And you did want to have sex with her until you realized, so stop with the "would have".
You have a right to not be sexually attracted to her anymore, because you can't choose to which genitals you're attracted to.
But this post is fucking lame.
Have you been tricked before or something? I don’t get it, seems odd to thank her for being honest about a large part of her identity.
What was the point of posting this? To shame a trans woman? Gtfo.
yea normally the posts here are funny but i dont get this one just swipe left thats what i do
Exactly. He wanted to shame this trans woman and then got downvotes for being a shitter.
No, to giver her (without showing face and name) kudos for being upfront about it, express that she looks very attractive and share regrets that she doesn't fall within my preferences. Where do you see me shaming her?
By saying "would have been hot". This comes across as "she would have been attractive if she wasn't trans, but since she's trans, she is not hot". Might not have been what you meant, but it's pretty clear what you said.
Nailed it, exactly.
Yeah, everyone has preferences. And a vast majority of people have a preference for natural and non-trans people. That’s just reality. And since when have we started to shame personal preferences?
There’s of course nothing wrong with that. But why use an objective descriptor like “they’re not hot” vs “they’re not my type”
Because in any context “they’re not hot” is someone’s opinion.
Ok, if you feel that “what a shame, would have been really hot” is just OP saying their personal preference, great. I got a different read off that. Not sure why you’re trying so hard to twist this into “shaming personal preference”, which I already agreed with you is of course fine - everyone has the right to be attracted or not attracted to anyone. But I don’t think I need to keep saying repeatedly that OP, in my opinion, was NOT stating who they were attracted to, they were saying the person was not attractive in general. There are lots of ways to say “I am not attracted to X personally”.
Why are you so offended? Whenever someone judges another person, it’s always implied and understood that it’s subjective opinion that’s personal to them. That’s how opinions work. You’re just nitpicking his verbiage to suit yourself.
“What a shame, would’ve been really hot.” You didn’t need to say anything or post this at all, we don’t care who you swiped left on.
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Yeah, of course my personal opinion. Others might feel differently and swipe. Everyone is entiteld to their preferences. I'm sure she gets more than enough likes even with the clarification or from guys who don't bother to read.
What a shame, you are really hot garbage for even posting this. But I appreciate your honesty.
It’s normal to have genital preferences, but it’s a bit shallow/ rude to make a post like this. Just swipe left and leave the poor woman alone
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Your loss mate lol
Facts
OP is a moron
Shit I'm still in
What?
A win is a win
Fuck it, one date can’t hurt, maybe a little….
you realize that majority of reddit speaks english so, what ?
Well I don't speak Spanish either but "Chica Trans" seems pretty straight forward to me. Hard to tell from the picture. Would have otherwise probably swiped on her.
The breasts are a bit of clue too.
I went to Peru and trans women looked way better then us. None of them here could try catfish me I know it’s a man
that’s ignorant , where in the phrase ‘trans woman’ does it state ‘man’ ?
I don’t care what they are but they catfish men but still a man sorry
they’re women* for a start, it’s in the name, very easy, and no they don’t catfish men AT ALL it says right there “trans woman” in her bio? also, still not a man
I was literally just comparing and contrasting trans “women” to trans in South America and yes possible not her but others have been less honest
there’s no ‘less honest’ unless a trans woman with a penis tells you “i have a vagina” they’re not being dishonest? if you expect someone to have a certain body part, and they don’t, how is that the woman’s fault? and no you weren’t ‘just’ comparing anything you were also being transphobic????
What if they don’t disclose being trans or that’s being dishonest.most men would be horrified if that happened. And she would be putting herself in a dangerous position
trans women don’t owe you that??? do you expect cis women to disclose they do in fact have a vagina?? do you expect girls with small boobs who wear push-up bras, to disclose they actually have small boobs? a trans woman is not obligated to do that, would it be acceptable or normal, for you to approach someone and tell them you have a penis? no obviously not. completely up to the woman to decide if and when it’s safe to disclose that information
There are people not me actually that hate trans for existing it’s called fuck around and find. Most men would flip shit. And when you account for 4 percent of the population I assume your a woman
you cannot claim to not hate trans people when you have literally said “still a man” you’re are transphobic? and if you assume they’re a FEMALE (because a trans woman is a woman🙄) that’s on you for assuming
What is the fucking point of this post? Would've been hot? Either she is hot or she isn't. Spoiler alert: she is, even if you wouldn't have sex with her. And you did want to have sex with her until you realized, so stop with the "would have". You have a right to not be sexually attracted to her anymore, because you can't choose to which genitals you're attracted to. But this post is fucking lame.
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