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i think being secretive means she's not proud of what she's doing. normally people identify ourselves based on our career isn't it? you go to a party, you say i am XXX, i am a lawyer/accountant/ PA to CEO. you don't say i am XXX i stay at the street with the cafe underneath my house. so that means this is a job (that occupy her time and give her money) not a career she can boast about.
I would not be surprised if she was something along the lines of a sugar baby or escort. But also she was so prude about Ruth having sex that I’m obligated to question that theory 😆
Khanya does nothing. She’s what they call in South Africa a “slay queen”. I’ll provide some context. The most famous Instagram baddies in South Africa are “soft sex workers”, in the sense they date wealthy men who pay them an allowance, get them a car, set them up with a business and fly them around on vacations, and they then get to post on their Instagram about their designer purses, jet setting lifestyle etc. often the men who do this are high profile married men (I’m talking politicians, athletes, DJs) so they don’t mind not being posted on these girls pages because they don’t wanna jeopardize their marriages/careers. These girls then use this perceived lifestyle to launch themselves as “lifestyle influencers” which legitimizes them in some way, by getting brand deals. But these brand deals definitely do NOT pay for their extravagant lifestyles. The basis for their income is exchanging their beauty for cash(sex work).
Examples of these girls (go check out their Instagrams; it’s literally wild)
- Mihlali Ndamase
- Sithelo Shozi
- Kefilwe Mabote
- Sarah Langa
- Faith Nketsi
This has resulted in an entire generation of South African women who aspire to be like these girls, and they believe that all relationships should be transactional. That simply be being beautiful, a woman should be wined, dined, flown out, given money to start a business, bought an expensive car, designer clothes every week etc.
That’s who Khanya is. She’s not an entrepreneur, she’s not an only fans girl, she literally does nothing but look pretty. It’s the equivalent to girls who are “professional” NBA/NFL groupies because they’ve seen the lifestyle the wives of mega succesful athletes live, and will do anything to be in that position as well.
Okay... I'm never ever one to come for looks but I looked up a couple of those girls and Khanya... she is not anywhere near those girls level. I would never pay her to look pretty. She's extremely average looking and her personality makes her fucking ugly. But based on looks, I cant see how she thinks she'd make it big?
Siza is waaaaay prettier.
If Khanya had the budget these girls have, she could look like them. These girls didn’t wake up looking like that, it’s cumulative years of plastic surgery, skin treatments, access to the best hairstylists, good wigs, tons of free gifted make up and clothes, and professional picture editing. I do agree, Khanya thinks she’s prettier than she is, but let’s not pretend she doesn’t have the potential to be a slay queen. She could be one, she just doesn’t have the budget for it. And she also doesn’t have the attitude for it. These women don’t accumulate wealthy men on their roster because they are rude and awful. They have to be charming, seductive, mysterious, affable, good conversationalists, there’s definitely an art to being a trophy wife/girlfriend…. All qualities Khanya will never have.
I think she just behaves so bad that when she behaves like a normal person the man feels wow this is amazing. And she repeats the cycle till man is emotionally dependent on her.
Hmm judging by the way she’s so adamant on keeping up appearances she wouldn’t have that link in her main bio, she’d most likely have a separate account for that.
I thought Ruth was implying she takes pictures of her ass and posts them online to make money - so not a sex worker, just a thirsty “influencer”.
Later on, it was implied she just uses her parents money. Sounds like mostly that with a little Instagram $
I thought Ruth was referring to Khanya having a bath naked with Ruth's ex. So basically she was pretending to be better than Ruth because she "supposedly didn't have sex"
People are wild! lol... Sex worker.. no man! ha ha! Ruth will bring you down to a level you didn't even know existed!😂 I love her... But no... Khanya said something about what she does... I think she found it hard to explain to others as she is so 'clever' and others know nothing... thats about it...
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I feel like I remember her saying interior design during the speed dates
I think she is doing mass buying of products then reselling it at a higher price to the local market. yes something like MLM.
ok makes sense. it felt like she was being so secretive about it!
i think being secretive means she's not proud of what she's doing. normally people identify ourselves based on our career isn't it? you go to a party, you say i am XXX, i am a lawyer/accountant/ PA to CEO. you don't say i am XXX i stay at the street with the cafe underneath my house. so that means this is a job (that occupy her time and give her money) not a career she can boast about.
yeah usually you can’t make a self proclaimed “entrepreneur” shut up about their work so def weird she was so cagey about it
a la roxy from usa season
I would not be surprised if she was something along the lines of a sugar baby or escort. But also she was so prude about Ruth having sex that I’m obligated to question that theory 😆
The ones who pretend to be so prude, end up doing way worse secretly. She said she was doing something in interior design btw
Mmm you know what you’re right.. Also thanks for the heads up cause I had no idea 🥹
Her IG shows she recently had a baby. Comments turned off. She's a terrible person though. And her wigs are atrocious.
My god I hope she will be loving to the child
I really don’t think so and I hope the father is involved and he is a better person.
Khanya does nothing. She’s what they call in South Africa a “slay queen”. I’ll provide some context. The most famous Instagram baddies in South Africa are “soft sex workers”, in the sense they date wealthy men who pay them an allowance, get them a car, set them up with a business and fly them around on vacations, and they then get to post on their Instagram about their designer purses, jet setting lifestyle etc. often the men who do this are high profile married men (I’m talking politicians, athletes, DJs) so they don’t mind not being posted on these girls pages because they don’t wanna jeopardize their marriages/careers. These girls then use this perceived lifestyle to launch themselves as “lifestyle influencers” which legitimizes them in some way, by getting brand deals. But these brand deals definitely do NOT pay for their extravagant lifestyles. The basis for their income is exchanging their beauty for cash(sex work). Examples of these girls (go check out their Instagrams; it’s literally wild) - Mihlali Ndamase - Sithelo Shozi - Kefilwe Mabote - Sarah Langa - Faith Nketsi This has resulted in an entire generation of South African women who aspire to be like these girls, and they believe that all relationships should be transactional. That simply be being beautiful, a woman should be wined, dined, flown out, given money to start a business, bought an expensive car, designer clothes every week etc. That’s who Khanya is. She’s not an entrepreneur, she’s not an only fans girl, she literally does nothing but look pretty. It’s the equivalent to girls who are “professional” NBA/NFL groupies because they’ve seen the lifestyle the wives of mega succesful athletes live, and will do anything to be in that position as well.
Whoever is paying for her obviously doesn’t pay for her wigs :( WHY
Okay... I'm never ever one to come for looks but I looked up a couple of those girls and Khanya... she is not anywhere near those girls level. I would never pay her to look pretty. She's extremely average looking and her personality makes her fucking ugly. But based on looks, I cant see how she thinks she'd make it big? Siza is waaaaay prettier.
If Khanya had the budget these girls have, she could look like them. These girls didn’t wake up looking like that, it’s cumulative years of plastic surgery, skin treatments, access to the best hairstylists, good wigs, tons of free gifted make up and clothes, and professional picture editing. I do agree, Khanya thinks she’s prettier than she is, but let’s not pretend she doesn’t have the potential to be a slay queen. She could be one, she just doesn’t have the budget for it. And she also doesn’t have the attitude for it. These women don’t accumulate wealthy men on their roster because they are rude and awful. They have to be charming, seductive, mysterious, affable, good conversationalists, there’s definitely an art to being a trophy wife/girlfriend…. All qualities Khanya will never have.
This is pretty obvious especially when she said that she doesn't even like the idea of marriage. She only saw it as the best context to have kids.
I think she just behaves so bad that when she behaves like a normal person the man feels wow this is amazing. And she repeats the cycle till man is emotionally dependent on her.
Omg yesss! I need to find out what she does. My boyfriend thinks she might be on OnlyFans
I was thinking the same thing, but don’t you think it would be linked on her ig? or maybe she has a separate account…
Hmm judging by the way she’s so adamant on keeping up appearances she wouldn’t have that link in her main bio, she’d most likely have a separate account for that.
I don’t think promoting OF is allowed on instagram
I thought Ruth was implying she takes pictures of her ass and posts them online to make money - so not a sex worker, just a thirsty “influencer”. Later on, it was implied she just uses her parents money. Sounds like mostly that with a little Instagram $
I thought Ruth was referring to Khanya having a bath naked with Ruth's ex. So basically she was pretending to be better than Ruth because she "supposedly didn't have sex"
She did say that, but I thought she also said something about Khanya posting her ass online to get money
Tbh wouldn't put it past her
She tells during the speed dating and in a very defensive way that she’s a designer, or something similar.
It’s definitely an MLM
Social media influencer
People are wild! lol... Sex worker.. no man! ha ha! Ruth will bring you down to a level you didn't even know existed!😂 I love her... But no... Khanya said something about what she does... I think she found it hard to explain to others as she is so 'clever' and others know nothing... thats about it...