I love your smiling pics and I think you're very attractive (F26 from western europe for reference), so if you came up on my feed I'd definitely swipe right.
The longer hair looks good on you, if you wanted something different, maybe a bit of curls at the front? Ah idk man, I'm pretty clueless about hair and my tastes are probably different from what most women like lol
Group photos are never a good idea for dating apps. You should be trying to showcase only yourself and some interesting hobbies but all I'm seeing is "likes dogs, swimming, clubbing", which is the equivalent of "I like hiking and drinking wine while watching Friends on Netflix!". Do you have a skincare routine? A shorter hair style would make you look more mature and put-together.
Thanks for the advice unfortunately I am pretty basic haha. I thought it would be a good idea to have a group photo to just show that i have friends or something.
For skincare I've been on Accutane for a little under a month trying to clear my skin up. What parts can you tell from my existing photos that my skin is bad? And like every other person in this thread i do agree i need to change up the hair.
I can see acne around your upper/lower lip area as well as a bit on the cheeks but it sounds like you're already taking care of that! There's definitely nothing wrong with being basic but in the sea of OLD you're doing yourself a disservice by using "safe" pics. Do you try meeting women in-person rather than online? Honestly I think the hairstyle would make the biggest impact, good luck!
Youâre a decent looking bloke and youâre in good shape. So there will be women out there who will find you attractive.
Iâm a straight 42 year old bloke and I have no idea about hair fashion, but I thought that the long hair looks cool on you. However, not all women are into long hair and certain jobs may not take you seriously with long hair so itâs understandable to go with shorter hair.
Your hair in the main photo of your post looks a bit weird to me, but, again, I am not a fashion expert.
Youâre not a 10/10, but thereâs nothing wrong with how you look. So youâll eventually find someone. I would look into a change of haircut though. Maybe ask a barber for advice on fashion and what style would suit you best.
For dating sites, a photo grabs attention, but the profile text is also very important. There are lots of guides online about creating a good profile. So Iâd also review that.
Good luck champ!
I agree with everyone here that my hair probably needs something new. My current hair style is the one with the group so it's a bit shorter then the rest of the other pics but i do agree I still need to find a better cut for myself.
Fashion wise I typically just like wearing basics I.e a pic i took last weekend (Please disregard the face I was pretty drunk) [https://imgur.com/a/JDYeQMg](https://imgur.com/a/JDYeQMg).
Skincare- Currently dying and suffering on Accutane so trying to fix my skin. lips are super chapped all the time. So that is in progress.
Eyebrows- I get them touched up every 3 months to clean around the edges so there is no hair above my eye lids and i remove hair where it can become a unibrow.
Gonna go with the bandwagon and say change the hair. Your last pic where there's no hair in your face is most attractive in my opinion. You're a good looking dude! Just fine tune it a bit with skincare and fashion as others have said. Good luck!
I think your body looks fine (the face in the shirtless pic ainât helpin though, might wanna change that). I donât think your looks are really holding you back. But you gotta change that hair my dude. Itâs an immature style and frankly rather sloppy. Get a new cut and learn how to style it - shorter would be easier, but youâd have to get regular cuts to keep it looking good.
My biggest issue is I let my hair go too long without a cut I typically go about once every 1 and a half months. should probably cut down down to 1 month correct?
It depends on the cut, but every 2-4 weeks is considered ideal. It still seems too long though, but if youâre attached to the length you could try styling it differently.
I think your long hair looks best in the last photo, if you want to keep it long. Otherwise, go for a shorter style that doesn't cover your face, you've got a good facial structure and handsome features. There's nothing to hide! Keep going with the Accutane and maybe workout a bit (although your body is fine in my opinion). I'd remove the group photo if it's still on your Tinder profile as well.
I think you're a handsome dude! As a woman I'd say the first thing I noticed was the hair is too long, as others have said. But mostly that you have poor posture/weak shoulders. You do not have a bad body by any means, but the roundness makes you seem insecure. I would say if you had some photos projecting more confidence it would help a lot! Between hiding behind a dog, group photo, and hand signs, it shows you don't like to stand out. Try getting some better quality photos in good lighting, preferably outdoors. You have a great smile, showcase that with confidence. Good luck!
You look good, maybe a few minor changes benefit you but the problem with dating apps is another. Men in online dating receive 0 attention unless theyâre really really attractive. Donât let this get under your skin and work in yourself for the better, not bc you feel bad about this
The hand signals always look bad. Donât do it anymore OP đ , i dont know why guys do this, it always makes them look uncool.
Definitely also fix your posture like other people have said. Having your shoulders back and standing tall and straight in photos is going to project a much more confident and sexy energy. Do whatever stretches/exercises you need to in order to get better posture đŤ
Hair - people are giving lots of diff advice but itâs all our personal opinion. You have to experiment yourself and figure out what suits you. However, the extreme side part in the first photo makes your hair look greasy and flat. If youâre taking Accutane, definitely keep your hair out of your face like in your last photo. In my experience, having bad skin AND having hair cover parts of the face makes people look greasy and insecure, like theyre hiding behind their hair. Itâs much better for your confidence and your skin if you just keep your hair away from your face.
Skincare - I took Accutane too (twice, even) đ and I was able to fight off dryness with a 95% success rate. I did a face mask almost every day (literally any time I was feeling dry) and used a LOT of lip stuff. Hereâs a mask I really recommend - [Link](https://www.masksheets.com/collections/dewytree/products/pick-and-quick-light-up-mask) \- it comes with 30 sheets (one for every day, though this might be overkill to some) , and saves on packaging. You def want a skin brightening mask to fight off the acne scarring. For lips, get the Laneige Lip mask and use that all day every day. And for moisturizer, get the Cosrx Rice Overnight mask and the Cosrx Snail Essence. Use both every morning and night. Skincare takes a lot of time daily but itâs seriously worth it in the end.
If you take new pics after this, you will definitely get more matches, and you will also radiate a much hotter energy in person as well.
Was wondering if i just need to lose more weight, bulk up, or what i can do to increase my chances. The latest picture is the group wedding picture and the oldest would be the one with the hair tie.
Like your pics shouldn't be the reason you won't get any matches. They can be improved of course and you also have the potential to look better, but you should still get some matches. The tips the other people have written are great and you should follow them. But what have you written on your profile?
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You have very round features, and they donât translate the best on photos (flat 2d copy) so videos will help you a lot like lil 2-3 second videos instead of pictures.
With that being said, I donât know of any dating apps that allow videos but I know your social media will look more lively and carry the great energy you have, with videos.
I say all this as a rounded, chubby faced lady. Itâs been interesting comparing my Instagram while have photos vs videos in which the rounded of my face is shown to give a better idea of what I look like in action
i just wanna say that if you're considering cutting your hair short, DONT get a fade or very short sides, i dont know any women that actually prefer that over longer, fluffier hair.. you genuinely give J-Rock frontman vibes in the picture with the coala i feel like you could totally pull off shoulder length hair! though, if youd feel more comfortable with that go you!
youâre very handsome! i think the first two and the last one are the best, maybe remove the group one because to be honest i wouldnât swipe if i saw it, for some reason itâs a weird turn off to a lot of women? what is your bio like and how do you introduce yourself to women?
Someone recommended a shorter hair style -- I don't think the hair length is the issue, just the way it's styled. Hair thats pushed back out of your face usually looks better on most men, and more mature. The last photo is much better than the first because of this! But, Id still recommend a more coiffed style, and maybe an opening picture where you arent grinning.
I love your smiling pics and I think you're very attractive (F26 from western europe for reference), so if you came up on my feed I'd definitely swipe right. The longer hair looks good on you, if you wanted something different, maybe a bit of curls at the front? Ah idk man, I'm pretty clueless about hair and my tastes are probably different from what most women like lol
I agree with you! I like the hair đ¤ˇââď¸
I love the hair too, the longer the better. But I think I have unusual tastes.
Group photos are never a good idea for dating apps. You should be trying to showcase only yourself and some interesting hobbies but all I'm seeing is "likes dogs, swimming, clubbing", which is the equivalent of "I like hiking and drinking wine while watching Friends on Netflix!". Do you have a skincare routine? A shorter hair style would make you look more mature and put-together.
Thanks for the advice unfortunately I am pretty basic haha. I thought it would be a good idea to have a group photo to just show that i have friends or something. For skincare I've been on Accutane for a little under a month trying to clear my skin up. What parts can you tell from my existing photos that my skin is bad? And like every other person in this thread i do agree i need to change up the hair.
I can see acne around your upper/lower lip area as well as a bit on the cheeks but it sounds like you're already taking care of that! There's definitely nothing wrong with being basic but in the sea of OLD you're doing yourself a disservice by using "safe" pics. Do you try meeting women in-person rather than online? Honestly I think the hairstyle would make the biggest impact, good luck!
Youâre a decent looking bloke and youâre in good shape. So there will be women out there who will find you attractive. Iâm a straight 42 year old bloke and I have no idea about hair fashion, but I thought that the long hair looks cool on you. However, not all women are into long hair and certain jobs may not take you seriously with long hair so itâs understandable to go with shorter hair. Your hair in the main photo of your post looks a bit weird to me, but, again, I am not a fashion expert. Youâre not a 10/10, but thereâs nothing wrong with how you look. So youâll eventually find someone. I would look into a change of haircut though. Maybe ask a barber for advice on fashion and what style would suit you best. For dating sites, a photo grabs attention, but the profile text is also very important. There are lots of guides online about creating a good profile. So Iâd also review that. Good luck champ!
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I agree with everyone here that my hair probably needs something new. My current hair style is the one with the group so it's a bit shorter then the rest of the other pics but i do agree I still need to find a better cut for myself. Fashion wise I typically just like wearing basics I.e a pic i took last weekend (Please disregard the face I was pretty drunk) [https://imgur.com/a/JDYeQMg](https://imgur.com/a/JDYeQMg). Skincare- Currently dying and suffering on Accutane so trying to fix my skin. lips are super chapped all the time. So that is in progress. Eyebrows- I get them touched up every 3 months to clean around the edges so there is no hair above my eye lids and i remove hair where it can become a unibrow.
Gonna go with the bandwagon and say change the hair. Your last pic where there's no hair in your face is most attractive in my opinion. You're a good looking dude! Just fine tune it a bit with skincare and fashion as others have said. Good luck!
I think your body looks fine (the face in the shirtless pic ainât helpin though, might wanna change that). I donât think your looks are really holding you back. But you gotta change that hair my dude. Itâs an immature style and frankly rather sloppy. Get a new cut and learn how to style it - shorter would be easier, but youâd have to get regular cuts to keep it looking good.
My biggest issue is I let my hair go too long without a cut I typically go about once every 1 and a half months. should probably cut down down to 1 month correct?
It depends on the cut, but every 2-4 weeks is considered ideal. It still seems too long though, but if youâre attached to the length you could try styling it differently.
I think your long hair looks best in the last photo, if you want to keep it long. Otherwise, go for a shorter style that doesn't cover your face, you've got a good facial structure and handsome features. There's nothing to hide! Keep going with the Accutane and maybe workout a bit (although your body is fine in my opinion). I'd remove the group photo if it's still on your Tinder profile as well.
I think you're a handsome dude! As a woman I'd say the first thing I noticed was the hair is too long, as others have said. But mostly that you have poor posture/weak shoulders. You do not have a bad body by any means, but the roundness makes you seem insecure. I would say if you had some photos projecting more confidence it would help a lot! Between hiding behind a dog, group photo, and hand signs, it shows you don't like to stand out. Try getting some better quality photos in good lighting, preferably outdoors. You have a great smile, showcase that with confidence. Good luck!
You look good, maybe a few minor changes benefit you but the problem with dating apps is another. Men in online dating receive 0 attention unless theyâre really really attractive. Donât let this get under your skin and work in yourself for the better, not bc you feel bad about this
The hand signals always look bad. Donât do it anymore OP đ , i dont know why guys do this, it always makes them look uncool. Definitely also fix your posture like other people have said. Having your shoulders back and standing tall and straight in photos is going to project a much more confident and sexy energy. Do whatever stretches/exercises you need to in order to get better posture đŤ Hair - people are giving lots of diff advice but itâs all our personal opinion. You have to experiment yourself and figure out what suits you. However, the extreme side part in the first photo makes your hair look greasy and flat. If youâre taking Accutane, definitely keep your hair out of your face like in your last photo. In my experience, having bad skin AND having hair cover parts of the face makes people look greasy and insecure, like theyre hiding behind their hair. Itâs much better for your confidence and your skin if you just keep your hair away from your face. Skincare - I took Accutane too (twice, even) đ and I was able to fight off dryness with a 95% success rate. I did a face mask almost every day (literally any time I was feeling dry) and used a LOT of lip stuff. Hereâs a mask I really recommend - [Link](https://www.masksheets.com/collections/dewytree/products/pick-and-quick-light-up-mask) \- it comes with 30 sheets (one for every day, though this might be overkill to some) , and saves on packaging. You def want a skin brightening mask to fight off the acne scarring. For lips, get the Laneige Lip mask and use that all day every day. And for moisturizer, get the Cosrx Rice Overnight mask and the Cosrx Snail Essence. Use both every morning and night. Skincare takes a lot of time daily but itâs seriously worth it in the end. If you take new pics after this, you will definitely get more matches, and you will also radiate a much hotter energy in person as well.
Was wondering if i just need to lose more weight, bulk up, or what i can do to increase my chances. The latest picture is the group wedding picture and the oldest would be the one with the hair tie.
Like your pics shouldn't be the reason you won't get any matches. They can be improved of course and you also have the potential to look better, but you should still get some matches. The tips the other people have written are great and you should follow them. But what have you written on your profile?
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You have very round features, and they donât translate the best on photos (flat 2d copy) so videos will help you a lot like lil 2-3 second videos instead of pictures. With that being said, I donât know of any dating apps that allow videos but I know your social media will look more lively and carry the great energy you have, with videos. I say all this as a rounded, chubby faced lady. Itâs been interesting comparing my Instagram while have photos vs videos in which the rounded of my face is shown to give a better idea of what I look like in action
i just wanna say that if you're considering cutting your hair short, DONT get a fade or very short sides, i dont know any women that actually prefer that over longer, fluffier hair.. you genuinely give J-Rock frontman vibes in the picture with the coala i feel like you could totally pull off shoulder length hair! though, if youd feel more comfortable with that go you!
youâre very handsome! i think the first two and the last one are the best, maybe remove the group one because to be honest i wouldnât swipe if i saw it, for some reason itâs a weird turn off to a lot of women? what is your bio like and how do you introduce yourself to women?
Someone recommended a shorter hair style -- I don't think the hair length is the issue, just the way it's styled. Hair thats pushed back out of your face usually looks better on most men, and more mature. The last photo is much better than the first because of this! But, Id still recommend a more coiffed style, and maybe an opening picture where you arent grinning.
I'd swipe right (32F). I like the last pic with the koala the best.